I heard somewhere they aren’t really too nice to the new supply long. Especially if you don’t chase them after they discard you because they secretly want you to and expect you to. Apparently part of the fun for them is knowing you want them back and knowing you’re suffering. They get a rush out of being chased and they’ll use the energy you give them from chasing them into treating the new supply better. It’s a confidence boost to them to be able to triangulate you and the new supply. However, if you don’t chase them, they don’t enjoy the new supply as much as they did at first because they’re wondering why you aren’t chasing them like they expected. The new supply gets the brunt of their frustration. Especially if the narc knows you’re doing well without them or you seem indifferent to them discarding you. Or worse,you’re happy without them. It’s not as much fun when they think you don’t want them,need them and are happy without them. That’s the power of going completely dark and no contact. These people are so messed up. They discard you,expecting you to chase them only so they can triangulate(deceive) you so they can get an ego boost. They get upset with you for not playing their game. Smh They don’t realize the more time you spend not communicating with them, time heals all wounds. If you are a chosen one,they’ll miss you for sure. Even if they never hoover you. Sometimes they often don’t want to give you the satisfaction of them chasing you. They know how empowering that feeling is to know you’re wanted. Even better feeling being able to reject the one chasing you. A lot of narcs wouldn’t dare give over that power to someone they discarded. They will go to their grave before they let you know they “ need” you. To them,that means you win. Especially if they’re a seasoned narc. Meaning they know all about the no contact etc…. thing. They watch these videos too. They’ll never hoover you because they may know you expect it eventually,if you’re not chasing them. Reverse psychology. Either way, it’s all games to them so it’s best to just move on all together. Leave them blindfolded running on the hamster wheel. They’ll have no clue you’ve shut off the lights and have gone home. 😂
This is sooo true. I was in a relationship with a woman I believe is BPD. What a rollercoaster ride that was. We had broke up last November but she kinda weaseled her way into staying in my life while she found her new supply. I felt bad for her and she seamed so pathetic. Last time I saw her in mid May she said to me " You are going to be mad soon" . She walked out the door and I never reached out to her ever again. Turns out in July she moved in with this new guy right down the street from me. That's what she was talking about, who woulda guessed LOL. I seen her drive by frequently and she thought she had the upper hand but her demeanor. As time goes on and I have blocked her on social media and still have not reached out. I can see the shift in her when I do see her drive by from time to time. Just looks so empty and on auto pilot. I am sure she was expecting me to chase or at least get mad and say something but, it never came. I am sure she knows she is blocked it's been 3 months and that was around the time the shift in her body language when she sees me changed. I tell you these cluster B personality types absolutely wreak havoc and bring so much drama and chaos into normal persons life. I remember thinking at the start, something is off about this woman and boy was I right. I luckily am at the point where I don't care and am ready to move forward with a better life and it only tool a few months to get there I suppose I am one of the lucky ones. I hear of these people taking years to get over these types of person.
@ I’m happy to know you’re thriving. Yes, we are blessed to first be set free and second,to be resilient. I come across people as well that have had a really difficult time recovering. Makes me angry at all narcs actually. To yield the ability to damage so many people in a lot of cases for a life time. Again,I’m glad to know you’re ok. 😊
You’ve captured the dynamics perfectly! Narcissists thrive on the chase and the drama, and when you don’t play their game, it really disrupts their sense of control. It’s true that their need for validation can lead them to treat new supplies poorly if they’re not getting the attention they crave from you. Going no contact is such a powerful way to reclaim your energy and well-being-it's amazing how much they rely on our reactions. Your insight into their mindset really highlights how important it is to prioritize our own happiness and move forward!
It can be tough to see that, especially after what you've been through. Remember, appearances can be deceiving, and their happiness may not reflect the reality of the situation. Focus on your own healing and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
When they hoover know that the narc is getting bored with the N.S ! If anyone of exes do not respond back then the narc will search for a "new" new supply ! 😂 This must be exhausting for the narc ! Repeat repeat and repeat 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly! It’s like a never-ending cycle for them, always seeking validation. It’s wild to think how exhausting that must be for them while we focus on our own growth and happiness. Thanks for sharing your insight!
When i was with ths narc at the beginning he was criticising his ex wife a lot playing the poor victim..i was very uncomfortable with that. Then during the devaluation phase he would in conversations with me praise her a lot and from time to time devalue her also ! It was as if she was present in the relationship. Am 100% sure that he is doing the same thing with the new supply , taking my name to devalue her. I ve heard that she has lost weight. The NS knew that the narc was with me and helped him to kick me out ! He used her a lot ! Am not sad for the NS because she was aware of my presence, she thought that she snatched a big prize from me ! 😂😂😂...Its been one year now that they are together...and for sure he is triangulating behind her back ! Hoovered me four times, each 3 months he tries to contact me. Same cycle : wash rinse and repeat. No contact till death ! Grey rock and blocked all mutuals friends ! Blocked the one who shared news about the NS' weight too ! Zero contact with the flying monkeys too. Peace !
It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's great to hear that you've taken such strong steps to protect yourself! Narcissists often play those mind games and use triangulation to manipulate their partners. Staying no contact is a powerful way to maintain your peace and break free from their cycle. Wishing you continued strength and healing! Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia i went through a lot of horrible things in this relationship. I nearly died ! God saved me. Narcs are possessed. I will one day share my horrible story on this channel. My discard phase started when i announced to him that i needed to undergo surgery. He on that day sent me a picture of a woman sitting on his lap, he blurred her face so that i do not know who that person was. I thought i was going to die. After 5 hours he called me and he was laughing like a demon ! When i got that pic i got the feeling that i was dealing with a sadistic person, nothing with the one that i thought i knew. This was "only the beginning" of the reverse discard phase. What came after was much more Horrible, three months of psychological torture ! Today i am free, its been 1 year of NC. I admit that sometimes I feel a heavy heart, i am 90% healed and happy compared to what i went through after the discard like in a desert but Jesus God is with me.
That's a powerful way to put it! It’s true that some dynamics can feel incredibly toxic. Recognizing that can help us understand why it’s best to stay away from such relationships!
Oooooo. "No, I don't agree with that". I know when I first spoke up like that. It had to do with her dad. She absolutely adored him as she hated her mother. He did something that put them all in danger and even had his own life on the line. She defended him heart and soul to her Aunt who didn't like what he did. My narc ex expected me to agree with her. I remember speaking up, anxious af, telling her that I don't agree with her and believe her dad was in the wrong. I mean it was already downhill, but I know that was such a blow to her ego.
It sounds like a really tough situation! Standing up for what you believe in, especially when it challenges someone else's view, can be incredibly daunting. It’s important to stay true to yourself, even if it causes conflict. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Saboteurs-goal post movers-and “Big Mad” spoiled children! Every single word of this video resonates with me…after 7 years of marriage to her New Supply-I think he’s ready for a demonic enema…she is only becoming more energetically constipated 😂 I’m free! Laughing! Loving life!
I love your sense of humor! It sounds like you've found a way to embrace your freedom and joy, which is amazing. It's great to hear you're laughing and loving life after such a challenging experience. Keep shining!
It sounds like you’re in a complex situation. Love bombing can be confusing, especially after so many years together. It’s important to trust your instincts and consider what feels right for you moving forward.
The former supply must always be in no contact so no need to post anything on social media so i don't support this argument about what you are doing you should be in no contact.
I appreciate your perspective! No contact can be a crucial step in healing and moving on. Everyone’s journey is different, and finding what works best for you is what truly matters. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
🔴The Narcissist Knows They Destroyed The Best Relationship They Ever Had With You!👇🏼
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I heard somewhere they aren’t really too nice to the new supply long. Especially if you don’t chase them after they discard you because they secretly want you to and expect you to. Apparently part of the fun for them is knowing you want them back and knowing you’re suffering. They get a rush out of being chased and they’ll use the energy you give them from chasing them into treating the new supply better. It’s a confidence boost to them to be able to triangulate you and the new supply. However, if you don’t chase them, they don’t enjoy the new supply as much as they did at first because they’re wondering why you aren’t chasing them like they expected. The new supply gets the brunt of their frustration. Especially if the narc knows you’re doing well without them or you seem indifferent to them discarding you. Or worse,you’re happy without them. It’s not as much fun when they think you don’t want them,need them and are happy without them. That’s the power of going completely dark and no contact. These people are so messed up. They discard you,expecting you to chase them only so they can triangulate(deceive) you so they can get an ego boost. They get upset with you for not playing their game. Smh They don’t realize the more time you spend not communicating with them, time heals all wounds. If you are a chosen one,they’ll miss you for sure. Even if they never hoover you. Sometimes they often don’t want to give you the satisfaction of them chasing you. They know how empowering that feeling is to know you’re wanted. Even better feeling being able to reject the one chasing you. A lot of narcs wouldn’t dare give over that power to someone they discarded. They will go to their grave before they let you know they “ need” you. To them,that means you win. Especially if they’re a seasoned narc. Meaning they know all about the no contact etc…. thing. They watch these videos too. They’ll never hoover you because they may know you expect it eventually,if you’re not chasing them. Reverse psychology. Either way, it’s all games to them so it’s best to just move on all together. Leave them blindfolded running on the hamster wheel. They’ll have no clue you’ve shut off the lights and have gone home. 😂
This is sooo true. I was in a relationship with a woman I believe is BPD. What a rollercoaster ride that was. We had broke up last November but she kinda weaseled her way into staying in my life while she found her new supply. I felt bad for her and she seamed so pathetic. Last time I saw her in mid May she said to me " You are going to be mad soon" . She walked out the door and I never reached out to her ever again. Turns out in July she moved in with this new guy right down the street from me. That's what she was talking about, who woulda guessed LOL. I seen her drive by frequently and she thought she had the upper hand but her demeanor. As time goes on and I have blocked her on social media and still have not reached out. I can see the shift in her when I do see her drive by from time to time. Just looks so empty and on auto pilot. I am sure she was expecting me to chase or at least get mad and say something but, it never came. I am sure she knows she is blocked it's been 3 months and that was around the time the shift in her body language when she sees me changed. I tell you these cluster B personality types absolutely wreak havoc and bring so much drama and chaos into normal persons life. I remember thinking at the start, something is off about this woman and boy was I right. I luckily am at the point where I don't care and am ready to move forward with a better life and it only tool a few months to get there I suppose I am one of the lucky ones. I hear of these people taking years to get over these types of person.
@ I’m happy to know you’re thriving. Yes, we are blessed to first be set free and second,to be resilient. I come across people as well that have had a really difficult time recovering. Makes me angry at all narcs actually. To yield the ability to damage so many people in a lot of cases for a life time. Again,I’m glad to know you’re ok. 😊
Spot on 🎉
You’ve captured the dynamics perfectly! Narcissists thrive on the chase and the drama, and when you don’t play their game, it really disrupts their sense of control. It’s true that their need for validation can lead them to treat new supplies poorly if they’re not getting the attention they crave from you. Going no contact is such a powerful way to reclaim your energy and well-being-it's amazing how much they rely on our reactions. Your insight into their mindset really highlights how important it is to prioritize our own happiness and move forward!
This is gold and absolutely correct👌🏾
This is beyond 💯 % ON 🎯..SPOT ON
Thank you so much! I'm glad the message resonated with you. It's important to shed light on these dynamics, and your support means a lot!
The narcissist and the new supplie ‘S’ are having a great time together!!!!
For now. They have many supplies in fuel matrix.
It can be tough to see that, especially after what you've been through. Remember, appearances can be deceiving, and their happiness may not reflect the reality of the situation. Focus on your own healing and moving forward. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
When they hoover know that the narc is getting bored with the N.S ! If anyone of exes do not respond back then the narc will search for a "new" new supply ! 😂 This must be exhausting for the narc ! Repeat repeat and repeat 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly! It’s like a never-ending cycle for them, always seeking validation. It’s wild to think how exhausting that must be for them while we focus on our own growth and happiness. Thanks for sharing your insight!
@@NarcPedia 💛💛💛
BIngo..I can't even FATHOM the nightmare that goes in their sick..twisted brains 😂
When i was with ths narc at the beginning he was criticising his ex wife a lot playing the poor victim..i was very uncomfortable with that. Then during the devaluation phase he would in conversations with me praise her a lot and from time to time devalue her also ! It was as if she was present in the relationship. Am 100% sure that he is doing the same thing with the new supply , taking my name to devalue her. I ve heard that she has lost weight. The NS knew that the narc was with me and helped him to kick me out ! He used her a lot ! Am not sad for the NS because she was aware of my presence, she thought that she snatched a big prize from me ! 😂😂😂...Its been one year now that they are together...and for sure he is triangulating behind her back ! Hoovered me four times, each 3 months he tries to contact me. Same cycle : wash rinse and repeat. No contact till death ! Grey rock and blocked all mutuals friends ! Blocked the one who shared news about the NS' weight too ! Zero contact with the flying monkeys too. Peace !
It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's great to hear that you've taken such strong steps to protect yourself! Narcissists often play those mind games and use triangulation to manipulate their partners. Staying no contact is a powerful way to maintain your peace and break free from their cycle. Wishing you continued strength and healing! Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia i went through a lot of horrible things in this relationship. I nearly died ! God saved me. Narcs are possessed. I will one day share my horrible story on this channel. My discard phase started when i announced to him that i needed to undergo surgery. He on that day sent me a picture of a woman sitting on his lap, he blurred her face so that i do not know who that person was. I thought i was going to die. After 5 hours he called me and he was laughing like a demon ! When i got that pic i got the feeling that i was dealing with a sadistic person, nothing with the one that i thought i knew. This was "only the beginning" of the reverse discard phase. What came after was much more Horrible, three months of psychological torture ! Today i am free, its been 1 year of NC. I admit that
sometimes I feel a heavy heart, i am 90% healed and happy compared to what i went through after the discard like in a desert but Jesus God is with me.
"Big Mad!" LoL!
Haha, right? It's wild how their reactions can be so dramatic! Thanks for the laugh!
They belong together because they are a match made in hell!
That's a powerful way to put it! It’s true that some dynamics can feel incredibly toxic. Recognizing that can help us understand why it’s best to stay away from such relationships!
Oooooo. "No, I don't agree with that". I know when I first spoke up like that. It had to do with her dad. She absolutely adored him as she hated her mother. He did something that put them all in danger and even had his own life on the line. She defended him heart and soul to her Aunt who didn't like what he did. My narc ex expected me to agree with her. I remember speaking up, anxious af, telling her that I don't agree with her and believe her dad was in the wrong. I mean it was already downhill, but I know that was such a blow to her ego.
It sounds like a really tough situation! Standing up for what you believe in, especially when it challenges someone else's view, can be incredibly daunting. It’s important to stay true to yourself, even if it causes conflict. Thanks for sharing your experience!
A "demonic enama" is insane!🤯
It definitely caught my attention too! Glad you found it interesting!
Saboteurs-goal post movers-and “Big Mad” spoiled children!
Every single word of this video resonates with me…after 7 years of marriage to her New Supply-I think he’s ready for a demonic enema…she is only becoming more energetically constipated 😂
I’m free! Laughing! Loving life!
I love your sense of humor! It sounds like you've found a way to embrace your freedom and joy, which is amazing. It's great to hear you're laughing and loving life after such a challenging experience. Keep shining!
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Thank you so much for the love! I really appreciate your support! ❤️
I have been love bombed for 9 weeks and I have been with him for 34 yrs what is with that..
It sounds like you’re in a complex situation. Love bombing can be confusing, especially after so many years together. It’s important to trust your instincts and consider what feels right for you moving forward.
The former supply must always be in no contact so no need to post anything on social media so i don't support this argument about what you are doing you should be in no contact.
I appreciate your perspective! No contact can be a crucial step in healing and moving on. Everyone’s journey is different, and finding what works best for you is what truly matters. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!