5 Things God Always Does to a Narcissist

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  • @Kris_Reece
    @Kris_Reece  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    FREE Narcissist Survival Guide
    krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/

    • @FieldArrow-s7v
      @FieldArrow-s7v 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Please pray for me and this proves justice so my own kids see there mom was chosen by God to save even though it's been years ..

    • @debbiedishman5095
      @debbiedishman5095 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@FieldArrow-s7v ♥️

    • @suejames4470
      @suejames4470 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Kris_Reece I am 67 yrs old. Out of a relationship of 2.5 yrs. With your help God has shown me that with my relationship it was a caregiver one. He was angry, forgetful or sweet and kind. His mom had dementia bad. He is not going through relationship he is going through caregivers.

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@suejames4470my relationship with a narcissist also ended about 2.5 years ago, in June '22

    • @mz8194
      @mz8194 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God is in peoples imagination, nowhere else. The bible was written by men out of their imagination. There isn’t a God with control. Otherwise, life on earth wouldn’t be so cruel. If there was a god he would be terribly cruel and narcisistic.

  • @broyer2003
    @broyer2003 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +148

    Kris, I'm the Director of a counseling center. I recommend your channel all the time! Please keep helping others, blending it with God's Word. Too few people do that, and God is the only way to have resilience in life, especially dealing with behavioral heath issues!! Love you sister!!

    • @irenemcwatt4443
      @irenemcwatt4443 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      This is absolutely true! If it hadn't been for the faith of both my husband's and me, we'd never have pulled through. I live in the UK, (English is not my first language and had to learn it) and in this country people rarely speak to each other, unless they are related.
      I am not British, although my husband is, and we've always been members of churches. This makes us targets for the devil's cohorts, many of whom are church goers. The criticism and nit picking is endless among some. I don't know what it is, but I've had buckets of it thrown at me.
      Once I asked my doctor "what is wrong with me, am I strange in some way?' "No," he replied, "your only problem is you speak with a foreign accent, you're pretty and some people can't take it - it is jealousy." I also figured out that these people also had a low opinion of others, being one of them I therefore had to be corrected!

  • @adrianam2157
    @adrianam2157 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +112

    Narcissists dig their own holes. God's second greatest gift was free will. I think God heals the wounds inflicted by narcissists and helps us grow. ❤

    • @MrsClippit
      @MrsClippit 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Like the potter and the clay...

    • @jeanettejohnson1708
      @jeanettejohnson1708 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @adrianam2157 Yes, he does. Over 50 years, God has been keeping me safe. I can finally see his work and see how he is dealing with my family member. I've learned to hold my peace and not try to explain it to my friends after they were told lies upon lies to stir them away from me as a support system, an outlet...I t took me a while to realize what I was up against.

    • @TexasBamaGal
      @TexasBamaGal 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well said! That is a good gift.

    • @Nerd_Gamer_Buddy
      @Nerd_Gamer_Buddy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      the first free gift being grace. and boy do i need that!

    • @billya3628
      @billya3628 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      God is in absolute & total control, free will is an illusion & is nowhere in scripture. He is the potter & we are the clay. We all have a will, & it is His will that He put in us. May God open you're eyes to this incredible truth. Also, Jesus is the Savior of the World. Read 1 Timothy 4:10 over & over & over....& if it's God's will, He will have you believe it. Peace.

  • @marisolsanchez1638
    @marisolsanchez1638 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

    Your words bring me so much comfort.

  • @teresarasnick547
    @teresarasnick547 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +129

    God’s way is always best. Amen

    • @Mike-gv8ip
      @Mike-gv8ip 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      The suffering is long and exhausting, but still waiting and believing the God will give me the victory.

  • @lindaharris1941
    @lindaharris1941 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    I've watched several of your videos lately, but this one really opened my eyes. The thing I need to let go of is that I was there for my brother when he fell, laid on the floor for 3 days, and lost most of his possessions as a result of the squalor he was living in. He's in a good place now, both in health and his living situation. But when I diagnosed with a rare progressive neurological disease, he only got angry with me, like I got this disease to make his life miserable. That's when I decided I have to let him go and let God deal with him. I've also had to examine my own attitude toward him.

  • @MarilynChen-j1k
    @MarilynChen-j1k 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @MarilynChen-j1k
      @MarilynChen-j1k 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @MarilynChen-j1k
      @MarilynChen-j1k 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
      Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

  • @SuzkaMares
    @SuzkaMares 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    So good! Thank-you for sharing your wisdom Kris. Vengeance belongs to the lord. All we can do is pray for peace.

  • @99rylee
    @99rylee 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Narcissists cant admit when their wrong nor will they take responsibility. They have way too much pride and arrogance and selfishness that they will never repent.

    • @ryanbless3970
      @ryanbless3970 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It’s beyond frustrating, even when you tell them how it makes you feel they do it again and don’t apologize. Childish

  • @janetfree7448
    @janetfree7448 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +393

    When God takes care of the narcissist, do not rejoice. You will stop God’s vengeance on him or her. Move on and keep praying. She is right on absolutely. No gossip, no hateful thinking about that person. Just keep your eyes on the Lord he’s got you covered. Remember, vengeance is mind safe the Lord. Do not rejoice in it. 🙏👏🙌

    • @photodumper
      @photodumper 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

      She’s talking about when things start going bad for the toxic person. We all want justice for others but then we want God to have mercy on us when we sin. It’s unloving and unmerciful to celebrate their downfall. We can be glad God freed us from them, but not for their downward spiral.

    • @photodumper
      @photodumper 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @ It’s like celebrating losing a close friend because of betrayal. It’s necessary to move on but if you celebrate losing them, did you ever really like/love them in the first place? And do you even care that they’re lost? That’s the problem. God’s whole law is centered around loving one another. See?

    • @tracycampbell3060
      @tracycampbell3060 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Sometimes we can get too loving and forgiving. Why can God laugh at His enemies and we can’t?

    • @CarmellaD
      @CarmellaD 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      @@tracycampbell3060Because they are ultimately Gods enemies and we are told to pray for our enemies. and told to forgive and leave vengeance to him because our hearts are wicked when he laughs it’s definitely not the way we would laugh at someone !!!

    • @VictoriaWarrioress7
      @VictoriaWarrioress7 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I'm choosing to focus on GOD'S goodness and in that goodness HE brings justice to the oppressed.

  • @mistythompson5356
    @mistythompson5356 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I simply can’t thank this wonderful lady enough…she’s been a blessing in my life!!! ❤

  • @HeidiStorbeck
    @HeidiStorbeck 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Really needed to hear this at this very moment. God alone can bring change. In the meantime, one shouldn't lose focus in blooming. Justice will prevail at God's grace.

  • @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn
    @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    I hope God will expose these conniving deceitful individuals! For the sake of us people in this world.

    • @jesusreturning3003
      @jesusreturning3003 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Esp when it's Ur parent doing this to U and I can't speak up because U have no one to go to for help. Esp when U tried to expose them in the past and Ur family thought U where the sick one for even exposing their sick and twisted acts, making U feel Ur making it up. They are master manipulators, I truly believe that this parent is full blown possessed, a reprobate. I pray God exposes these filthy devils, because there evil is worst than what we did in the world, it's premeditated evil designed to destroy Ur soul. I've given up praying for restoration I want justice before my soul is destroyed under the weight of this.

  • @happyami102619
    @happyami102619 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    Took my hubby 20 yrs to come back to the Lord but now he has changed so much 💯❤️🙏

    • @seenathomas6755
      @seenathomas6755 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@happyami102619 Praise God 🙏❤️‍🩹

    • @LiliAnderson-hi6qy
      @LiliAnderson-hi6qy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Praise Jesus!! Bless His Holy Name!! Love and prayers to you and the fam!

    • @SolomiyaBak
      @SolomiyaBak 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@happyami102619 hello I would like to ask about your experience. I already came to my senses and the holy spirt lead me into the truth. I asked God if he wants to lead me out to do so. But he has told me to stay though a prophet (I am a baptist) I didn’t expect it. I stayed but once you see the colours you get more aggressive. Please pray for me to keep my mouth shut and pray to God . Instead of arguing.

    • @artofcreativity7078
      @artofcreativity7078 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Was he a narcissist

    • @VoxJoxx
      @VoxJoxx 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      A snake can shed its skin but never its nature.

  • @christinereilly8829
    @christinereilly8829 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This is exactly what I needed to hear, at this stage of my unhappy marriage relationship with my narcissistic husband. I am praying & continue to pray for God’s help to survive. Thank you.

  • @tokyoblur24
    @tokyoblur24 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I'm so glad to see you again! You are looking so well. Thank you.

  • @JB-nf2rp
    @JB-nf2rp 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Thanks sister. It's been a brutally painful journey through the wilderness. God bless you.

  • @kygray4184
    @kygray4184 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    God is always working.

    • @erikasky.s
      @erikasky.s 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kygray4184 ❤️Amen

  • @josephd27
    @josephd27 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Its hard to keep waiting but i know God Almighty will do it when it is time, amen 🙏

  • @raidenewalden4354
    @raidenewalden4354 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    That’s great to know all these . I know God is with me , I know he protected me , as now my eyes wide open , now I know evil are here to destroy my faith in God , but I can’t be destroy because I’m with God . Thank you.

  • @EasyRussianLessons
    @EasyRussianLessons 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +180

    Lord, break all their conniving ways!

    • @ONE_For_100
      @ONE_For_100 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lost the privilege to be saved from there consequences.

    • @Declaration-of-truth
      @Declaration-of-truth 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sounds like a prayer and proclamation that I heard in the Bible that went something like this: "Lord, I thank you that I am not like these sinners and tax collectors!" To that I say "Oh please!" Take a good hard look at yourself before you sit there like a self righteous Pharisee yourself.

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @Declaration-of-truth Refraining from judging others is not the same as recognizing when someone has a reprobate mind and has intentionally chosen from free will to serve Satan and commit evil.
      Scripture tells us they will share the same fate as their FATHER
      “But the wicked shall perish, and the enemies of the LORD shall be as the fat of lambs: they shall consume; into smoke shall they consume away.” - Psalm 37:20

    • @Declaration-of-truth
      @Declaration-of-truth 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm You're right. But this wasn't a recognition. It was a declared prayer for the masses to break the conniving ways of all narcissists. I observed it as a little proud in nature, unless they pray that same prayer for their own sin... in which case, I don't see that being prayed to the masses. It's easy to recognize the sins of others in North America. I've witnessed far less that can recognize and be humble about their own sins. I don't disagree with anything you said.

  • @richardwells8954
    @richardwells8954 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Excellent! Explains a short and VERY unhappy marriage. Then the God of all mercies sent the perfect woman.

  • @joycewakio
    @joycewakio 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +357

    Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $360,500.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America 🇺🇸

    • @joycewakio
      @joycewakio 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hallelujah!!!! Your channel has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻.I was owning a loan of $37,800 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (Oscar), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $8,000 and got my payout of $340,500 every months.God bless Mildred Evelyn Rooney 🇺🇲

    • @joycewakio
      @joycewakio 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $355,500 every month and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah🙌🏻❤️🇺🇸

    • @JoseManuelMorenoVela
      @JoseManuelMorenoVela 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hello!! how do you make such monthly, am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God.

    • @joycewakio
      @joycewakio 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested MILDRED EVELYN ROONEY

    • @joycewakio
      @joycewakio 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's a licensed broker here in the states 🇺🇸 and finance advisor.

  • @e2amracer
    @e2amracer 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Thank you for posting this. I’ve been dealing with an ex is a family law attorney and also a narcissist. The divorce broke me because of her actions before and during the divorce. Even here after everything has been finalized she continues to be terrible but these videos helped me bounce back. I feel like a have a great story to share that may help others.

    • @spaceskipster4412
      @spaceskipster4412 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@e2amracer some narcs love being involved in the “law”. They love to “judge” others with their faux narrative. 🤥

    • @Explorer63-k6d
      @Explorer63-k6d 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      God bless you and you are not alone in what you just described. The road is rough but God is with you 🙏🏾

    • @mattkaye8598
      @mattkaye8598 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I pray for you. My narcissist ex-wife brought repeated court actions, losing many times, but costing me in time, stress, and legal fees. I think Kris is teaching me to leave it to the Lord. I cannot change this person, and I have to watch her swim in the settlement money, escaping the huge amount of cash she owes me, and she arrogantly still refuses to accept her violence towards myself and the kids. But I know that she will be answerable for this one day. Meanwhile, I will continue to bring up the best kids in the world. I reckon you will have great relationships with your kids, with your family and your colleagues: everyone will see the greater fruit in your character because of your endurance and surrender to Him. Blessings to you.

  • @gwendolynbien-aime1536
    @gwendolynbien-aime1536 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +118

    I used to desire bloody (literally) revenge against my narc. In a moment of clarity, I realized that God’s judgement is much better than any revenge I could exact. Though we all will be judged, I’m comforted knowing that in the end, the narc isn’t getting away with anything. God sees. God knows. GOD IS. 😁

    • @gramaphoneman1
      @gramaphoneman1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Revenge is mine says the Lord.

  • @carmenlucaciu2617
    @carmenlucaciu2617 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thank you for the education and support,many Blessings and love to everyone ❤

  • @alliebelle6887
    @alliebelle6887 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I have been condemning myself so much for my anger, and responding poorly when I would bring up mistreatments and he would gaslight, blame me or play the victim. I must confess I have been struggling with rage as a result. And I had and have to repent for words I’ve also used in these toxic incidents. Another way to chip away and erode self worth, feeling terrible for going against my own values as a Christian. Yet how comforting and validating to see in these comments that I’m not alone in this struggle. And that even my fellow Christians battled thoughts of revenge. Thank you for this video the scriptures shared certainly helped me to free my mind from some of these thoughts. God bless you for that as I feel my garden overgrown with weeds from this destruction and heartbreak.

    • @tonipeterson954
      @tonipeterson954 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Narcs will use your re-active rage against you ... notice how they're happy once they've triggered you and transfered their anger to you

    • @alliebelle6887
      @alliebelle6887 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ yes…and then bring it up forever and ever, especially if your trying to hold them accountable, never let you forget it, but leave out the detailed of what triggered you.

    • @LindaVebere
      @LindaVebere 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hang in there, you are not alone! The manipulation tornado's will make you feel like you're about to lose your mind but for me the rage came because of the tremendous pain of someone dragging my boundaries through mud... It is God teaching us to enforce them way sooner in our relationships before we get the pain as if someone else is tearing our skin off. We don't need to go to hell before we can start to feel like we deserve love. We are loved and learning this lesson in the most painful and eye opening way possible. I will always thank God for that.

  • @amygeist5260
    @amygeist5260 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +87

    I’ve endured a miserable marriage to a narc for 25 years. Leaving isn’t an option because he didn’t want me working and he controls the money. I’m working on getting a real estate license to provide for my hopeful escape some day. I needed this video. It brought conviction to my heart. I’d never ask God to take him out because I don’t believe he’s saved even though he’s made quite a “godly” name for himself at church. They have no idea who he really is. I love the advice Kris gives on how exactly to pray for the narc. I will add this to my prayers for his salvation. Please pray that I can endure for however much longer it’ll take for God to act on my behalf. Godspeed!!💕

    • @LauraParke
      @LauraParke 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He planned your life that way to keep you under control and diminished. Hard to believe they are believers.

    • @saraheck7898
      @saraheck7898 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@amygeist5260 I'm praying for you, Amy ❤️

    • @irenemcwatt4443
      @irenemcwatt4443 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      42 years for me. But ten years ago he was caught by his own stupidity, not towards me but towards someone else and people saw what he could be like. I kept silent, showing no sympathy or anger towards him - just let him stew in his own act of folly. He was highly embarrassed about this flaw in his character, as it was all his own undoing. He repented and this changed his ways. Occasionally 'horns' show up on his head, but I only need to remind him of past miseries, and he calms down. So, thank God for that! I hope the same for you. Just keep praying - if you can share this with another TRUSTED Christian, do, then you have someone you can pray with. I pray the Lord's blessing on you.

    • @amygeist5260
      @amygeist5260 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@saraheck7898 ♥️💕

    • @amygeist5260
      @amygeist5260 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@irenemcwatt4443 Bless you!!💖

  • @jacquelineglitter4328
    @jacquelineglitter4328 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    These narcs in my dysfunctional family liked to cause problems. Lately, a younger one broke their ankle then had hip surgery, one died at 70, one had COVID and another had a tornado hit their home. Another fell down and had to get 20 stitches. I kid you not. This was in the last 6 months. I think the Lord wasn't happy with them. I distanced myself from them slowly from the last 5 years. I was kind to them but they became so abusive I couldn't go around them anymore. I changed my life around 25 years ago and God has been so good to me. Thank You Lord. 💜 🙏.

  • @heberje
    @heberje 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    Thank you for your insights Bravo "The Lord is my portion saith my soul therefore I shall hope in him, The Lord loves those that wait for him, the soul that seeketh him."

  • @dewuknowofHyMn
    @dewuknowofHyMn 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That was EXCELLENT...Thank you Kris

  • @Pilgrim06
    @Pilgrim06 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    Unfortunately their pride keeps the Grace of God away from them…
    I would pray for Lord Jesus to be gentle on them, but as Kris mentioned, pride brings fornication, abuses, self destruction. I have seen it. Keep me humble, Lord, and protect us from the evil one.

    • @MeganMingler
      @MeganMingler 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Amen 🩷

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Amen, I've seen it too 🥺🙏🏻❤️

  • @dianasullivan8583
    @dianasullivan8583 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I grew up with the word of God under my mother’s wing. Your words of wisdom helped me and I feel a great sense of release. I was getting how to let go of my leaders behaviour but the word of God gives the courage to carry on. Amen.🙏 ❤

  • @jasmine283
    @jasmine283 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for this amazing word. This was life changing.

  • @Angela.fshm8
    @Angela.fshm8 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +284

    I'm retired at 27, went from Grace to Grace. This video here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife and 35k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤

    • @annastravels
      @annastravels 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm feeling really motivated.
      Could you share some details about the bi-weekly topic you brought up?

    • @Angela.fshm8
      @Angela.fshm8 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah sounds impossible, yet with Claudia Ann Brandon, I've come to the conclusion that financially anything is possible. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend and a whooping $320k in savings already, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in debt then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Claudia Ann Brandon is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note!:: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!

    • @Lucy_green22
      @Lucy_green22 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow 😱 I know her too
      Miss Claudia Ann Brandon is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.

    • @EmiliaSilveira-dn1bq
      @EmiliaSilveira-dn1bq 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Can't imagine earning $85,000 biweekly, God bless Ms Claudia Ann Brandon , God bless America 🇺🇸♥️

    • @RamyAbdyl
      @RamyAbdyl 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I started my trade with $5000, and in the space of
      one month I got credited with $22,000. It remains my biggest win for the year 2024

  • @Powerskaty
    @Powerskaty 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I believe I've done this. He was exposed and he blamed me so sounds like a gaslighter too. I prayed for pain- so he would know his life is not his own. I've not had any contact but still believe God created him and has a purpose for him.

  •  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I felt peace letting go of narcissistic person I grew up with. I don’t worry about God’s justice. It’s up to Him how He deals with her. I focus on healing and growing myself. I’m accountable for my own thoughts and actions.

  • @naowright9308
    @naowright9308 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I needed this just now. Thank you, Lord, for Your timing. Thank you, Chris, for making this.

  • @Dana19443
    @Dana19443 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    Even when a narc has a hard time, their brains just don't get it. Ever see one stop and change? Someone who's spent their life lying, manipulating & gaslighting? Not me .

    • @ConnieSchenk
      @ConnieSchenk 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Absolutely spot on 😉

    • @daynapeterson9033
      @daynapeterson9033 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It's literally not possible.

    • @ConnieSchenk
      @ConnieSchenk 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Dana19443 👍 I am not Waiting for God to Fix it,, I am making Karma work right now

    • @ConnieSchenk
      @ConnieSchenk 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Dana19443 Remove yourself from them,find your own life and Peace and stay safe and Happy, cherish your time with the kids as they are Pure gifts from God and Haven't been Poisoned yet

    • @Dana19443
      @Dana19443 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@daynapeterson9033
      ✌️ We can all pray for a miracle. Other than that, same ol' same ol'.

  • @alisonsmith7162
    @alisonsmith7162 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks for your video. I had a friend who was married to a narcissist for 30 years. It was awful seeing the effects of his affairs and abuse, and it not stopping. God called her home last month. The man cant hurt her anymore. I do pray God limits that man's actions going forward, because it was traumatic being her friend, esp in a church setting, let alone being her.

  • @Derek-ls3wg
    @Derek-ls3wg 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello,
    Great video. Thanks for all you do. I have been watching your videos for a few months.
    I am a man married to a narcissist wife who is also a textbook Borderline. 12 years. I have been so confused and beat down from day one.
    I am trying to see through it to the woman I married. We are both believers so I am extra confused. My strength is almost gone from the mental abuse and she has hurt me with her hands.
    Please pray for me to find clarity and peace.

  • @hallelujah969
    @hallelujah969 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    My mother is a PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE, covert narcissist. She is 86 years old. I'm her oldest child and only daughter. I'm the scapegoat. My brother, who is the middle child, is her invisible child, and the youngest is a golden child. I've had to go NO CONTACT to avoid the emotional-mental pain. I love her because she is my mother, but I don't like her. She can be a little sadistic at times towards me. She smears me to other family members, so the only family member I'm communicating with is my son. It does seem that she is trying to drive a wedge between us, but my son has assured me that will never happen. It upsets me, because she is trying though. I just want her to leave me be. It's painful enough knowing that she doesn't love me, and probably never has. If she passes before me, I can't stand the thought of attending her funeral, and if I pass first, I'd rather she not be at mine. I don't wish anything bad on her, in fact, I wish her a good life....just without me. I've heard that it's neigh impossible for them to admit they are wrong or that they have sinned, so it's highly unlikely she will get saved. I do know that it isnt totally impossible though. HOPEFULLY she will let God heal her. She did have a HORRIFIC childhood, with an alcoholic father and poverty. He was most abusive to her, since she was the oldest? She started being a level 1 hoarder in her 30s, but it's gotten much worse, and now she is a level 3-4 hoarder.

    • @ms.texassoldier7203
      @ms.texassoldier7203 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Oh my goodness I have the same situation w my mom! Sometimes it’s good just to know that somebody else out there is feeling and going through the same things. I just I live in a small town and it’s so hard because people will ask me well. How is your mom and how is your mom? They’re always asking the same thing and I’m like sometimes I really don’t even know what to say

    • @kelleyphillips9341
      @kelleyphillips9341 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Sounds like we have very similar mother's and a very similar situation. I know exactly how you're feeling and my heart hurts for you as it does for myself. GOD is more than enough to make up for our hurtful parents and that has been my rock to lean into. We are so fortunate to have access to these highly qualified teachers helping us navigate these confusing behaviors. It's also comforting to know we aren't the only one with a messed up family of origin. God bless you!

    • @saraheck7898
      @saraheck7898 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@user-xe2im5ff1gSame here.

    • @candir6735
      @candir6735 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It’s a horrendous situation! I have a mother like this. I’m an only child but she uses my kids and grandkids as well. Very painful! Praying and praying for all of us !

    • @godismydefense5917
      @godismydefense5917 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@hallelujah969 I could have written most of this!! I’m almost 67, my mum is 86. Sick of my thoughts being consumed with her and walking on eggshells around her, I cried out to God to help me about a week ago. Since then, and without me saying anything, a friend sent me links to a couple of videos with Diane Langbourn speaking about childhood trauma. Somehow, it led me to this channel and also Jerry Wise. I’ve been listening to many of the videos and a plethora of unpleasant memories are surfacing. I’m the second oldest child of 5. My older sister died a few years ago. She had always tried to control me and I felt she was jealous of me but I’ve no idea why she would be. I gave her the words of eternal life when she was on her death bed; she told me I was self-serving and basically rejected me as her sister. My mum said I was questioning her salvation and this made me question myself. My pastor reassured me that I had done nothing wrong. She and my mum were very ‘tight’ and I likened them to a pair of asps or vipers. I was uncomfortable after my sister died, fearful that my mum would start to want more to do with me - she did - but I had a stroke 17mths ago which was my fault according to mum, and because she lives a few hours away, I’ve been able to keep any interaction with her to a minimum. She turned to Christ about 40 yrs ago after finding her 4th child with a needle in his arm and seemingly dead ( he wasn’t), seems to have lots of friends, loves all the attention and socialising, can’t stand her own company, but is still unkind to me, lies to me, puts me down, manipulates situations to get what she wants. The middle child committed suicide 23 yrs ago but he was the golden boy at the time. Now the youngest child is, and she controls him very well but he doesn’t seem to mind too much. As for me, I would do nothing to hurt her, but I don’t like her and avoid being with her on my own. I think I’m the only child she’s been vindictive to. I spoke about it to my siblings, they’d brush it off. I mentioned to my baby brother earlier this year that my mum had incited my dad to beat me up when I was about 13 (before he was born) and that she just walked away but told me I couldn’t go to school the next day with black eyes and more. I went anyway and my nan told me many years later that a teacher had called social services but when questioned, my parents said I’d fallen down the stairs. I told my brother that mum had never addressed any of it, never apologised, although my dad did a few years before he died. He broke down in tears begging my forgiveness but I told him I’d forgiven him years ago. I grew very close to my dad after he and my mum divorced when I was in my 30’s. I don’t think my mum liked it. My brothers’ reaction to all this was almost denial, by saying that all those years ago, things were different and it was normal to hit kids. Go figure.
      Sorry I’ve gone on a bit. But I’m now starting to understand a lot more about why I’m the way I am. God has been good to me- so good - yet I still feel unworthy in His presence, still find it hard to get really close to Him, always feel as though I’m on the periphery. Maybe the breakthrough I’ve been praying for is finally beginning🙏🙏🙏

  • @waterisgold
    @waterisgold 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Appreciate you so much stay strong ❤️🙏

  • @rodneyjarvis676
    @rodneyjarvis676 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Oftentimes, justice to a narcissist waits til judgment day

    • @starbright8792
      @starbright8792 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I even doubt the life review

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I truly appreciate those who speak not only from a humanistic approach, but a biblical standpoint as well. The Word is our manual to navigate life, so not acknowledging His ways makes no sense.
    Currently, I’m reading the book of Jeremiah & I’m realizing more & more that God is a fair God. Whether it’s a prophet, him allowing a showing personally to you or messages from others, He’ll never lead you blind… but it’s up to us to receive and align our life with that message. Something I’ve had to learn is we’re all God’s children. So that person I can’t stand is still God’s child so they’re deserving of God’s grace, love and protection too. While I pray those individuals come to God before it’s too late, I’ve learned boundaries and allowing only things within my control is what I can do. The rest is in God’s hands 🙏🏾

  • @sbg4ever120
    @sbg4ever120 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Open the eyes of the blind, Lord! ❤️🙏

  • @PrincessYvette08
    @PrincessYvette08 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow very well said! This really gives me strength I truly thank God for you and for always including our lord!

  • @PatriciaThorns
    @PatriciaThorns 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I just need this pain to stop...😢😢

  • @TracyNewton-q3b
    @TracyNewton-q3b 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My ex narc beat me up, in all ways. Took him took court after the police cuffed him. Turned out he had two previous convictions before mine, still he was set free. God introduced me to a woman ten years later who was having counselling by his mother!!!! Small world. So I'm going around with ptsd, hyper vig etc because he moved to my town., this woman told me that her consellers son had died? He died of a brain tumour at 48. So let that be a lesson. I'm not free of the trauma yet, but god showed me lots of lessons about narcs, thank you god so much. 😇 🙏🏼

  • @lorebrown5307
    @lorebrown5307 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks divinely perfect message and timing for me. Praying for your family 🙏. Thanks for the help

  • @christik9138
    @christik9138 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Wow this was just so so good! Love to hear God‘s heart through you. It’s very helpful and helps me To see His perspective, Which is just so unlike ours in the flesh.

  • @alrinaleroux9229
    @alrinaleroux9229 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Dear Kris Reece, thank you, even though I already suspected what you said to be the case, it is soothing and refreshing to hear you say it, especially in such an upbeat way.
    I am in a "quantum entanglement" situation (a psychic bond) with someone who refuses to back off and leave me alone. Pleading etc hasn't helped. It's not erotomania, the person has some kind of dependence on me, I don't understand it myself, whether it's a desire for information or a need for some kind of company (fear of solitude) he feels, I don't know. It began when I repeatedly prayed on his behalf (for his tennis matches). But he retired more than two years ago, and he still hasn't let me go. I am 59 and often feel physically fatigued by this. He is 16 years younger and I feel that he's being very selfish, to say the least.
    At first I thought that he was basically striving for good. Later it turned out that he is in fact obsessed with money and fame, and in the habit of lying (especially in order to portray himself as virtuous).
    He's a Freemason, and that may be playing a role, even though he isn't senior-level. An evil oath is still an evil oath.
    The previous times I experienced this (thankfully brief and quickly-ended), at least three of those people were involved in the occult. Mere friendliness and kindness set it off in two cases. My impression is that romantic feelings aren't necessary for the bond to form.
    I prayed for God to show this person His power and benevolence (and He did), but it doesn't seem as though he has much respect for God. I have to trust in God that He will give me the strength I need to endure this, I don't think it will last my whole life. God was merciful towards Job, I trust that He will have mercy on me also, I just need to be careful to respect Him.
    Thank you again for the video. May God bless and keep you.
    PS. I'm feeling quite stressed at the moment, that is the reason why I'm bothering to write this comment. I know that since God didn't answer my prayers (He hasn't yet) when I asked Him to break the psychic link, He has a good reason for not answering that request, even if I don't know the reason. I just have to trust Him and endure! (Easier said than done. but it's possible. I need to stay calm.)
    It is quite possible that this person will be exposed, since his mendacity increased after retirement. But I don't know whether I would still be chained to him and dragged along, I don't know when this will end. Perhaps when he is distracted by a really severe crisis (such as a literal life-or-death struggle). Thank you again for what you said in the video.

    • @marciasteffens9714
      @marciasteffens9714 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alrinaleroux9229 You are not to endure. You ate to FLEE. Break off all contact. God doesn't do for you what He has told you to do.
      You are to have NO fellowship with darkness.
      Obey God, James says to submit , put yourself under God's authority, which would be obeying, and the devil will flee from you.
      This is not a once and done thing. It is a spiritual battle.
      Put your Armour on and STAND against this , Ephesians 6, by completely going no contact with this person in any form.
      You are not helping them, you are giving them devil an open door to you

  • @marissaherrera5511
    @marissaherrera5511 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Watching your videos helped me discover that I have narcissistic behavors. I don't know if I'm a narcissist cause my counselor says a narcissist wouldn't admit or recognize that they're a narcissist. Regardless, it may not have been your intention to help the one behaving narcissistically, but you did. Thank you for raising these awarenesses in me.

  • @carlossoler-m4y
    @carlossoler-m4y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +224

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MikelAntonio-n6y
      @MikelAntonio-n6y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @carlossoler-m4y
      @carlossoler-m4y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @MikelAntonio-n6y
      @MikelAntonio-n6y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @carlossoler-m4y
      @carlossoler-m4y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @lyndkent-cl2oe
      @lyndkent-cl2oe 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      COGNITIVE DISSONANCE!

  • @kilvy8136
    @kilvy8136 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This woman speaks soooo well! 🎉

  • @TesaNash
    @TesaNash วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤ just keep me in preyer. I'm in a 44 plus years of this... I keep god word in my mind & heart.... Minds is a pastor! In think of his self all 44 plus years... I heard this before! God led them too themselves!! So I sit back in watch the show.. All I can do..

  • @nickferraro5704
    @nickferraro5704 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for this, super helpful. My wife and I are dealing with a family member operating in the jezebel spirit. I’m studying every day to fight this battle

  • @early-sp6cu
    @early-sp6cu 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for your videos Kris, this is so comforting. Please pray for me, I use to speak to my neighbour, but no longer. She lives above me, she has been banging on her floor/ my ceiling for years and seems to be triggered just by hearing me enter my property. I have called police, the council etc.
    I will continue to pray for her but help me not to respond and just respond in praising God that he will expose her and vindicate me 🙏🏾

  • @youbalezekias
    @youbalezekias 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I had to leave a toxic work environment because of a narc colleague... He got fired eventually and everyone despised him. However, it took me two years to recover physically and mentally... Let alone financially. But I di trust when we're in the New Jerusalem, I will not even think about that 😅

  • @emeraldxtouch
    @emeraldxtouch 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your videos are making me rekindle my relationship with God after being Agnostic for the longest time. My dad is a narcissistic alcoholic. My mom is codependent. A friend I had a fallout with who broke my heart and betrayed my trust was also a covert narcissist. I followed my mom's pattern unconsciously because I didn't know better. I hope God can make them see the light and stop what they're doing. Us loving them doesn't work. They don't change. They only hurt us more. We're punished for loving them...

  • @kilvy8136
    @kilvy8136 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    That's right. Don't rejoice. I've heard it said when I was young.If you dig a ditch for your fellow human, better! make it big enough for two. You might have had things done to you that you wouldn't do but don't walk the same path as your abuser. Jer. 17:10 & 1 Pet. 3:9. I had to really learn this. Just wish them well & don't turn around!😊

  • @as2223
    @as2223 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Asking God to reveal our heart to us is poweful, fact is we’re all sorta messed up this side of heaven and it makes us want to extend grace for bitterness. Not to be a doormat by any measure, but also not to be so anti people that everyone is a toxic narcissist is not good either. I hope and pray all are healing and doing ok, We need Jesus more than ever in these dark, dark days. Only He can restore us to be better than new!

    • @MarkFlanagan-h1o
      @MarkFlanagan-h1o 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Everyone in this thread had their season of suffering. Now is the season for healing. Everyone here is going to be okay. No drugs. No alcohol. Daily prayer snd worship. Love yourselves. God made lots of promises to us. Declare them! He said "come boldly before the throne" , not limp and whimper. We're all fighting a defeated enemy. You have to know that in your hearts.

  • @esthersevier587
    @esthersevier587 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Well said! I experienced a narcissistic relationship in my last relationship I was love bombed gas lighted and he cheated on me we have been broke up for two years and he is now with the person he cheated on me with. I see that one day God will deal with this in His way.

  • @mermaider1983
    @mermaider1983 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for the video. Im 41, recently divorced. Even when she tried to kill me, turned my oldest narc child against me, and committed adultery, i still told her we made vows to God. And she needed to honor them, and if she would quit her lifestyle we would go to counseling at church. She said no, and her friends said it was ok, it doesnt matter we were separated. Ive been waiting for God to enact some source of justice for me at all, but in the end, i fear she will never acknowledge her wrong doings. And that is truly scary for her.

  • @zeldakorff
    @zeldakorff 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you. This resonates with what God is showing me about my situation.

  • @masoodpervaiz6044
    @masoodpervaiz6044 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    A very Great lecture. Reference from the book of Job helped me a lot , opened my mind. God bless you.

  • @lisacrammer4424
    @lisacrammer4424 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for these broadcasts

  • @georgemay8170
    @georgemay8170 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I appreciate your analysis. Realizing the Biblical Fact that God saves and Man can't has been helpful in dealing, not only with others but also with my own "flesh."

  • @suejames4470
    @suejames4470 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    He went straight to a rebound living normal life.

  • @Anna-ll3yy
    @Anna-ll3yy 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +297

    I'm favoured, Getting my own Truck has always been my Dream for my business. I just acquired 2 recently, earning $32K weekly has been really helpful. I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support Charity Organizations.

    • @StephSmith-j8t
      @StephSmith-j8t 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As a beginner what do I need to do? How can I invest, on which platform? If you know any please share.

    • @Jeffersonhadr
      @Jeffersonhadr 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes! I'm celebrating £32K stock portfolio today...
      Started this journey with £3K.... I've invested no time and also with the right terms, now I have time for my family an…

    • @LimifCrrre
      @LimifCrrre 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      when someone is straight forward and good at what she does best. People will always speak for them. For me I can would say give Mrs Jenna Brooklyn of finance education a try and you be happy you did

    • @rajaee201h46
      @rajaee201h46 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad to write her tay I do hope she will help handle my paycheck properly☺️☺️☺️
      Can I start with as low as $1,000?

    • @roybuisson
      @roybuisson 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please who is this Mrs Jenna
      This sounds so good andI would like to
      be a party to this, is there any wayl can
      speak with her?

  • @julie-annmurray3729
    @julie-annmurray3729 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you so much, God bless you

  • @daughteroftherisenking
    @daughteroftherisenking 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you Kris 🤍 God bless you and your family🙏🏼🦾

  • @josephgrumet
    @josephgrumet 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Hard not to be bitter traumatized for sure PTSD BEEN THERE FROM THE WORSTFOR 20 plus years almost killed me literally!!! However I refuse to be a victim or live in anger. One thing this woman said hit me. I’ve studied this at nausea and felt no way no cure and in most cases I still feel that way. However I do believe in God and I’ve witnessed him doing the seemingly impossible so maybe just maybe if they can find God the impossible CAN HAPPEN… so I pray now for him

    • @debbiedishman5095
      @debbiedishman5095 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@josephgrumet ptsd anxiety before he comes home unlimited apologies…no wonder some of dream of heaven more

    • @jacquelineglitter4328
      @jacquelineglitter4328 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It seems like the people that struggle the most have a good heart ❤️ 💜 ❤️ 💜.

    • @debbiedishman5095
      @debbiedishman5095 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ 👍

  • @JohnOakes-mw5ls
    @JohnOakes-mw5ls 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for a new perspective on narcissism through scripture! It’s so important for me and appreciated!!! Shalom ✌️ God bless 🙏🙏🏾🙏

  • @cayotelives
    @cayotelives 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I kept my faith always and it got so bad over period of 2-3 years but they got hammered. Literally. True say I am witness. God bless

  • @kahalacromwell9741
    @kahalacromwell9741 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So true. Thank you my triune God for saving me and my son. Amen ❤️❤️❤️ it’s been over 13 Yrs since I found out I was married to a narcissistic personality disordered person who I was with for 21 years. Prayers lifted for those who encountered this type of relationship. God thank you for loving me.

  • @caryn9561
    @caryn9561 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes finally i saw this my mother in law,her daughter and they raised the grand daughters like that too. No wonder why my late husband had so many mental issues.

  • @ricquagianopoulos
    @ricquagianopoulos 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    Good job girl, i spent 25 years in a marriage and did not even realize what i was doing until i seperated from him. That was sixteen years ago. I am still walking out the repercussions.

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Wow! 25 years for me too!
      It’s been 1.5 years since separation. I’m lonely and every morning still dealing mentally with the aftermath of cruel Discard and destruction of our family unit, while he ran off into the sunset threatening….
      But God saw me through!!!! Amazing Wonderful God.
      He tricked all our church friends also. Very clever COVERT

    • @Tammy-q3w
      @Tammy-q3w 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@tinaureta9891I'm separated also, but just shy of 4 months and this was a reconciliation... convinced me of change.... Nope, just not as bad, or loud we'll say.
      Did you divorce?? I want to in the worst way, but am not getting the green light from the Lord... IDK?! The first time it was within 1 1/2 mo., after he left I filed.. He was clear across the country... Wanted counciling via Skype, I finally figured out.. He was wording it weird. But he fought with me via text, email.. FaceTime.. You name it. I was done. My health was in shambles, and he had looked at porn... Besides his behavior. This time he is 5 min. Away from me, we hardly speak, but when we have he's gotten stupid, then I react... He tries to get me to go to concerts with him.. Last was out 1 year anniversary and he'd already been out of the house 2 months.. awkward a bit, but he got mad right in middle of it over WHAT I've no idea... Then he went alone to one of my favorite Christian artists.. Then sent me a pic of them meeting, and then said he had something for me!!? I felt that was rubbing it in my face, but... But we rarely talk, it even then is texting for the most part. I don't know what he's up to, but I had to drop off mail to him... He asks about counciling😳.. He tried that 1 time, said waste of money, didn't like her. I said probably not, but I'd pray about it. Then I notice for someone who didn't want or need friends was saying hello to all his neighbors.. Including female... By name??!! IDK... He just skates..... No remorse, apologies.. It's just, moving on.... So I'm trying to figure out, what's the hold up.. I couldn't even bond with him... He defrauded me there...! Couldn't... You know, even with a handful of those pills! I feel no, the 2 become one.. Asked him if he was gay even... He just laughed uncomfortabley long... Then said no. I'm at a loss.

  • @IsraelXOX-gh9mr
    @IsraelXOX-gh9mr 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +94

    Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective digitalinvestigate@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      My wife did the same thing but with her family. She left me several times when she didn't get her way. She condoned her mental abuse and lied about what she said. She gaslit me into oblivion and when I cried she called me a bitch and when I raged she called me a psycho. The torture I endured was immense. She didn't love me she loved her own vision for what she could use me for. She never ever returned my love and she always clung to mommy and daddy to validate her

    • @prathmeshkurund1310
      @prathmeshkurund1310 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@smokingcrab2290 can you tell the patterns that she was showing. Was she manipulating the things and playing victim cards like that more patterns!!?

    • @Gadol_Adonai_196
      @Gadol_Adonai_196 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank You for sharing, I have endured 22 years of this behaviour with my ex wife.. in the end she stole everything and I was discarded. Its been 12 years and I'm still struggling to recover

  • @lovelightopals6867
    @lovelightopals6867 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks your videos are helping me see the light

  • @sherrilynn8043
    @sherrilynn8043 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Awesome Video and Great Advice!!🙏

  • @Soundsaboutreet
    @Soundsaboutreet 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful”

  • @lesabrydson2526
    @lesabrydson2526 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Power Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🤲🙌

  • @joelbumba2006
    @joelbumba2006 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I set boundaries right from the beginning and it has worked even though I had suffered “alone” through it. It cost my entire life for more than a decade. A lady called Angus (my Studio client) had a dream in 2014 and one of her friends 👭 said “when Agnus dreams, it is 90% on point”. She told me (personally) that she saw in her dreams two women who were following me and that one didn’t care and that the other would. The one didn’t care is this girl (the narcissist) and the one who’s coming, I hope she will take heed after all the exposure! I’m still praying 🙏...

  • @lindamitchell9394
    @lindamitchell9394 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are amazing. Love your teachings. You are so well versed.Thank-you. Nice Lady.

  • @michaelkobe1881
    @michaelkobe1881 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Praying for a woman like you to enter my life!

  • @sbg4ever120
    @sbg4ever120 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love your content and just wanted to tell you that your hair looks spectacular! ❤

  • @rockcrg3492
    @rockcrg3492 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    You missed the one of the most important steps!
    RUN, GET OUT OF THEIR LIVES, EVEN IF YOU ARE RELATED TO THEM!

    • @katyasehryn8810
      @katyasehryn8810 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Yes! No contact is essential!!! That means also not ruminating on them and what they did.

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      LOL 😂

    • @tinaureta9891
      @tinaureta9891 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@katyasehryn8810It’s tough to stop ruminating! It’s been 1 1/2 yeRs since he discarded after 25 Long amazing , but weird and Hurtful years!
      Hard not to remember the past and all the things he did to make me. “nothing”….. lower than him….

    • @jesusslushies2192
      @jesusslushies2192 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Sometimes that's not possible.

  • @rcs8295
    @rcs8295 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Kris, these videos help me, thank you.

  • @PaperbagPrincess-qj1bt
    @PaperbagPrincess-qj1bt 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thanks Kris God Bless 🙏

  • @camiloalbertosalazar6291
    @camiloalbertosalazar6291 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love to learn about this stuff

  • @kayesmith2518
    @kayesmith2518 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are absolute heaven sent Ms Kris.

  • @gavinogarcia1590
    @gavinogarcia1590 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    ✨👌✨GREAT NARCISSISTIC INFORMATION ✨👌✨

  • @FieldArrow-s7v
    @FieldArrow-s7v 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    You helped me today and thank you 😢🏹❤️

  • @Rose4y
    @Rose4y 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you.❤

  • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
    @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I actually covered this subject months ago on my channel, but it was about my own personal journey - my own personal Crash and Burn. I give a rare POV into what God did to me, as a self-aware diagnosed narcissist, and how I found my Awakening through Christ.

  • @theyrekrnations8990
    @theyrekrnations8990 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Set boundaries is vital ! This says that "I will only tolerate so much nonsense" The narc hates this and will continually push up and against those boundaries, actually they will keep doing it brazenly ,most likely to piss you off (think three year old). Remain calm and you can push their buttons with out even trying just by being consistent and repetitive with your boundaries. They will eventually drift away.

  • @davettaadams262
    @davettaadams262 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My marriage lasted on and off 20+ years. Yes I now know he was a malignant narcissist. He was a police officer. My paychecks were taken, friends and family kept at distance, kidnapped when I got away. His coworkers assisted. I am now old, struggle financially, live alone - safe but am empty.

  • @StevenPaul_NYC
    @StevenPaul_NYC 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

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    • @AmandaNicole__0
      @AmandaNicole__0 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

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    • @MatthewDaniel3
      @MatthewDaniel3 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

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    • @MatthewDaniel3
      @MatthewDaniel3 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

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    • @MichaelJames346
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  • @zandilebenniezandi2302
    @zandilebenniezandi2302 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your words always give hope, thank you.