I understand where you're coming from! It’s important to prioritize your well-being and know what you want in life. Embracing new beginnings can be empowering at any age!
In my ex narcs “soft discard” email, he said he needed someone to help him get his life together. Basically,trying to make me feel inadequate. Then he said” thank you for always believing in me”. So he does know my value apparently. My first thought was” what? You’re almost 50 yrs old and you need someone to help you get your life together?” What an unattractive statement. 😂 That statement by itself told me a lot. No one is going to help him more than I did. Nobody is trying to help a man approaching 50” get his life together”. I didn’t know that’s how he looked at it. I was” the help”. 😂 🤦♀️ So pathetic he is. So,if he doesn’t find someone to help him get his life together,what, he’s just not going to get it together?? 😂 I couldn’t believe he’s actually expected someone to come in and help HIM!!!!! Most women are not looking to help, they’re looking for a man to help them. Him saying that added to the disappointment I already figured out he was. He’s a whole loser. 😂 He doesn’t even know how to manage his own life without help. Explains why he’s a loser and has been since I’ve known him. I’ve accomplished a lot in 3 yrs by myself. He’s accomplished absolutely nothing since we’ve met. He managed to gamble his savings away and is now in debt. Ofcourse he did that during the 8 months we were broken up. Probably trying to cope with my absence not realizing his suffering was due to my absence. The denial is real with them.
That's a strong viewpoint! It's true that personal responsibility plays a big role in healing, and it’s important for individuals to seek help and make positive changes in their lives. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I have had many attempts in different ways which I reject. I have no interest, nothing more to provide. He must just carry on the way he does and forget me. I hope he has got the message now.
It sounds like you've made a strong decision for your own well-being. Setting those boundaries is crucial, and it's great that you’re prioritizing yourself. Wishing you peace moving forward!
That's completely understandable! Genuine expressions of love should feel authentic, especially after a long time. Trust your feelings and prioritize what feels right for you.
It's important to recognize what truly matters in a relationship. If the connection isn't fulfilling, it's wise to consider what you really want and deserve. Your feelings are valid!
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I understand where you're coming from! It’s important to prioritize your well-being and know what you want in life. Embracing new beginnings can be empowering at any age!
In my ex narcs “soft discard” email, he said he needed someone to help him get his life together. Basically,trying to make me feel inadequate. Then he said” thank you for always believing in me”. So he does know my value apparently. My first thought was” what? You’re almost 50 yrs old and you need someone to help you get your life together?” What an unattractive statement. 😂 That statement by itself told me a lot. No one is going to help him more than I did. Nobody is trying to help a man approaching 50” get his life together”. I didn’t know that’s how he looked at it. I was” the help”. 😂 🤦♀️ So pathetic he is. So,if he doesn’t find someone to help him get his life together,what, he’s just not going to get it together?? 😂 I couldn’t believe he’s actually expected someone to come in and help HIM!!!!! Most women are not looking to help, they’re looking for a man to help them. Him saying that added to the disappointment I already figured out he was. He’s a whole loser. 😂 He doesn’t even know how to manage his own life without help. Explains why he’s a loser and has been since I’ve known him. I’ve accomplished a lot in 3 yrs by myself. He’s accomplished absolutely nothing since we’ve met. He managed to gamble his savings away and is now in debt. Ofcourse he did that during the 8 months we were broken up. Probably trying to cope with my absence not realizing his suffering was due to my absence. The denial is real with them.
all is true 😂
I could care less how desperate she gets,does or says . She choose to not get help and make this work, instead she tucked her tail and ran.
You ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO GET IT RIGHT
That's a strong viewpoint! It's true that personal responsibility plays a big role in healing, and it’s important for individuals to seek help and make positive changes in their lives. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I don't need to defeat them, they already defeated themselves.
Im getting back up💜💜thank you💜💜
I'm so glad to hear that! Your resilience is inspiring. Keep pushing forward and prioritizing your well-being! 💜
I have had many attempts in different ways which I reject.
I have no interest, nothing more to provide.
He must just carry on the way he does and forget me.
I hope he has got the message now.
It sounds like you've made a strong decision for your own well-being. Setting those boundaries is crucial, and it's great that you’re prioritizing yourself. Wishing you peace moving forward!
I will not accept to hear her say she Loves me when she has never said it before
That's completely understandable! Genuine expressions of love should feel authentic, especially after a long time. Trust your feelings and prioritize what feels right for you.
The sex is not good enough or even worth risking another chance
Ricky - is her name Crysta 🤣
Ricky - is her name Crysta ? 🤣
Ricky - is her name Crysta ? 🤣
It's important to recognize what truly matters in a relationship. If the connection isn't fulfilling, it's wise to consider what you really want and deserve. Your feelings are valid!