ladies also dont be with a guy that make you so mad. Being mad all the time is going to age you and kill your happiness and inner glow. Pick a good man but make sure you're good woman.
Yes, i agree. I've been with this man who gets mad over many little things and it's incredibly unhappy in the house and I regret moving him into the house and living with me and my kids
I married a man that terrorizes.my life daily...he is constantly accusing me of cheating...he's horrible. I regret marrying him hoping he would change...but no...men will never change so don't waste your time thinking they will. If your man shows he is incapable of loving you with respect....believe him!!!
A lot of negativity here… attractive masculine men will make women angry… feminine men don’t… you don’t need to run away from a masculine man to become feminine… over time you will resent him too for being the nice guy… you want a man, not a mouse in your hand
When youa actually date a men that truly cares for you, you enter on this feminine mode naturally, you trust him to listen and care for you so you don't need to outrage yourself
Sometimes when they lie into your face and don’t care for you at all, you cannot do anything feminine to change their mind. We are no idiots. Sometimes we have to leave
Wow,these are all correct. I have tried everything. I was raised by an Irish ,angry feminist mother.holy moly.I am going to have to go over this.she was a narcissist and my person of 21 yrs is a chess playing narcissist and a twin soul 😂help!
Exactly right. 1. Men will start fights when they lose interest 2. Noticing things he wants to keep hidden from you starts fights. Knew a girl who was always agreeable. Guy kept her around to pay rent while he cheated on her. Hey she made it easy. Then left her when he had a new girl lined up anyway. Good luck with that.
Lol I think there should be a disclaimer stating that this works only when your man is someone that is a calm listener, a good communicator, and is highly emotionally intelligent. I never raised my voice first and always approached my man with a calm and collected demeanor and stated exactly how something made me feel or if I needed something to change and no matter how polite and gentle I was with him, he made the entire thing a living hell of an experience. No matter how small the matter was, we went to absolute war every time because he wasn’t a good listener or a good communicator.
I agree with aanggora. Some men create war no matter what we say or even if we are completely silent. Sometimes it doesn't matter if we are like an angel if he is like the ...
@@samaaabujaffar1033Men who are insecure and run off their fragile ego will fight you tooth and nail no matter how calm your demeanor is. You will be very drained
I think a lot of women can identify with the frustration we feel when we have a partner that plays head games and plays dumb or plays with words. Many of us have started off being calm, and patient and slow to anger but over time, our patience has eroded and bitterness and resentment has creeped in .. resulting in an explosion or zero bs tolerance.
I feel like so many girls don’t know the secrets we deserve to know… I found this book, 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life-changing. Has anyone else heard of it??
did this today and it works lol. tell him what you need and how to love you the way you need. he should get it without yelling, without screaming, he’ll immediately turn it around. the people saying don’t be with a man that makes you mad… right. that’s kind of comical. have you ever heard of a married couple who never fights? no. hugely unrealistic expectation. couples fight and it’s normal to a point. you’ll be alone forever if you break up with someone every time you argue lol.
there’s a difference between being mad and arguing or being upset. if someone regularly makes you genuinely mad and angry, that’s probably a sign of incompatibility
What’s comical is you thinking all men will come around. Say that to the many men in prison who clearly do not give a crap about laws let alone your feminine energy. In fact, they’ll use that submissiveness to act out worse. They’ll treat you like a doormat. Sure couples have fights but does your man always want to win ? If yes, then there is the problem.
You're right @ Lisa glamour. When I'm in my feminine energy and I'm calm with my man during an argument, he calms down too but, when I'm aggressive it becomes worse
Yes. I learned the hard way. I got so mad at my man over the stupidest thing. He retreated. Evaporated. Hopefully we reconcile. The Bible says harsh words stir up anger but a soft answer turns away wrath.
Using your feminine self. Your feminine words and actions are good most of the time. Really good keeps the peace However, sometimes you need to stick up for yourself and let your masculine side Come out so nobody runs you over no women is a Robot💯🫶🩷
As someone who has been in her masculine energy in a relationship, it so much more efficient to withdraw when displeased and it sends a more clear message than words do. The right man will enhance your femininity naturally ❤
That’s what I was thinking 🤔 I feel like my whole life I’ve been masculine and alpha and it’s bc I’ve never been w a man that lets me be or makes me wanna be feminine
@KCmakeovers I totally understand. It's just our natural makeup to be receptive but with a certain conditioning it takes the ((right)) man to make one feel safe to just be.
I get tired of voicing my needs. Even in a feminine way. It’s like I’m not seen or heard no matter what method is used. Soft or loud. Doesn’t matter. I’ve gotten to a point where I rather just say nothing at all. It’s painful and heartbreaking.
That is the sign I would use to pack my bags and leave in silence without another word. If you said at some point "I do not tolerate_____" and then he broke that boundary... then leaving is the only way to prove that you do NOT actually tolerate that thing. Men act to demonstrate what they actually believe and they watch your actions. Words have little meaning. If behavior was a language...what is he telling you by ignoring everything you say or need?
You need to distance yourself everytime he breaks a boundary. Also don't forget that you can't change people that much. I try to say something once or twice and when it happens again I distance myself and I'm not available. You need to also realise that people are not stupid and they know exactly what they are doing so if he disrespects you or continues with behavior that bothers you he does it on purpose. The best way to react is to make some space, even in your own apartment. Go into a different room and ask to not be bothered because you're working on things. Go to the gym. Work on art projects. Do online courses. Go to networking events alone. Go have coffee on your own or go for a walk. Show him that you are happy doing things without him. There's a chance that he's too confortable with you so he thinks you'll stay anyways or you are too available for him. Watch how his dad treats his mom. He might recreates patterns from his childhood. Maybe his mom normalized that behavior. Also at one point accept him how he is and focus on yourself. The more you work on yourself the more they usually step up. If not then good bye. Also realise that there are men out there who can't take women seriously. It usually comes from their dad or dad figure in his life. Some men also use it as a form to gain the upper hand in the relationship. Not doing what you want gives them some form of control and authority. Sadly some men only take other men seriously. So if you have to you can talk about other men's qualities in a favorable way. When he f.e. never puts his shoes away, you can start bringing up your male coworker and how you admire how clean and organised his desk is. Or you walk by a nice car and see the male driver and you say you admire when a man can keep his car so clean, even on the inside. Stuff like that. If all these things don't work then consider your future and other options.
Why are you begging a lazy dude who doesn't care to be a decent guy and make you happy. I'd tell him, this is not working for you anymore amd you need to move on. . . Then go quietly without any debate or more words. Be classy and let him see that
I absolutely agree with you! Most men are wounded and need mental healing. They take their anger and frustrations on their woman because it seems easier than to take accountability. Wounded minds never take accountability.
@@jaxell4832 no - the issue is because women unconsciously believe that a men is "a woman's mind in a male body", and believe that men will think and behave exactly the same as a women.
No lies detected! I grew up with hostile over reactive women who get rude and disrespectful at the first trigger of insecurity and blow up! Mom is now old and manless so I never had the right example on how to handle men. But I didnt want to be like that so its taken ALOT of work and deprogramming and over 10yrs ago came across Rori Raye who has different techniques that has stuck with me and I always revert back to them. You Explained everything perfectly! I love your aura you are the embodiment of what you speak about and its refreshing! Thank you ❤ for the reminder of this!
My man has been so patient with me these last few years. We are growing together and I’m patient with him too. Me not being mad right away has helped a lot with him not walking away
Sometimes I find that when I communicate calmly and with poise especially with men, they’re more willing to listen to me. When a man is disrespectful towards me, I use to fire back at them (I still do sometimes) but I walk away.
No, my boyfriend reacts in a good way when I say "I would feel better if you do this.." he does value my state of mind so it works atleast in my relationship.
Whenever I tried to voice my feelings to my ex husband, if he heard the words “I feel” before I could even finish speaking right away, his first reaction was always “no” right away trying to tell me he knew what I was feeling more than what I was and would legit stand there and argue with me that I didn’t know what I was talking about and there was no way I could feel the way I do. Even when I left the marriage and told him I was leaving because after 20 years, he still did this and never listened to anything I really said. Til this day, he doesn’t know my favorite color, food or anything. He still knows nothing about me. It’s mind blowing
Oh! He used to say “i can’t do anything about your feelings” whenever i said “i feel”. I gave up after making him understand politely and respectfully 1000 times and that too over the same issue.I started arguing then, he took a break and this is what he got but for the rest of his life😂. Free from all the toxicity now.
@Jamhael1 always I was trying to be nice girl not to lose my men, but as a result they don't worth it we broke up... he treated me badly at the end, so I learnt my lesson, I cried so I'm no more want to be slave of my life partner, I m independent women of myself my country it is very good to feel like this... you man think " ah it is okay when I treat her badly in front of everyone" no it's not who are you? Really you too a person just simple the answer you men are not God...! So treat her nice and it will be good after all, be humble men. Then I think your partner will never get a chance to say these words I think.. know yourself know her value.. Do you want to know how he feels when I'm Gone?
@@ENGLISH_with_teacher_m I can't answer because: - I can't read minds; - I can't know what other people feel; - I am not responsible for the actions of others, only my own; Empathy is only about what the individual expect if he/she is in the place of another, not a "general statement" that is the same for everybody. I'm sorry if my words are harsh, but better the bitter but honest truth than a sweet but poisonous lie. I can't change your past, nor remake your memories, nor undo the harm you suffered, but I can only give you this: One harmed you. And if you deny yourself because of one, he still win. Go look for another.
Ahhh, I just realized. I’m naturally not a nagging woman. I’m actually rather feminine when it comes to those everyday things. I get extremely masculine only when attacked lol. I’m learning from you how I could actually stay in my feminine energy and with my dignity intact ☺️ lol. Love that 🫶!
The key is to use these arguments & disagreements to learn more about each other & what both of your needs & desires are, therefore deepening your bond in the process ❤
Every human being has the ability to feel ALL emotions-- it's what we do with them that creates our lives. If I am mad at someone, man or woman, I can say how I feel and what I'm needing, eg, "I am frustrated and could really use some help with this." How that person responds tells a lot about them and how they consider you, whether they help you or not and why. Don't listen to their words much, watch their actions a lot. The foundation: What motivates them the most? Sex? Money? Doing for others? Accomplishing their work? Receiving from others? Being with people? I know various people who fit one of these. Figure out their greatest motivation and decide if that's the kind of person you want to spend time with because they're very unlikely to change it over their lifetime. Do you want to live with that forever?
@@EverythingxBeautiful I don't have time for males and their behavior. And neither should other women. Even the slightest disrespect or a joke that I don't find funny means bye.
I think it's always a good thing for a person not to yell at others and have self control....just makes sure he treats you with the same measure of self control and kindness. Women shouldn't have to walk on eggshells and sugarcoat everything if their men don't make the same effort.
Absolutely and she said to always voice your boundaries and what you aren't willing to tolerate. If we don't enforce boundaries we will get crumbs every time
I believe this is a very important subject. I found myself many times complaining about small things and since I 'let it go', I feel more relaxed and him too.
This video is relationship GOLD! The women around me growing up had a lot of masculine energy, especially my mother. Now that I have found an amazing love with my boyfriend, I am working on balancing my feminine energy so that I can be the best partner for my masculine man. It’s a give and take. It’s about being strategic. Being the best version of yourself. As women, we should embrace our femininity ❤
I hope you don’t resent your mother. Do understand that she made her personality more masculine because the world was harsh on her and that was her way of protecting herself. Maybe her husband or her father were strong personalities.
This is needed because unknowingly men can still make you mad whether they real care for you or not because they don’t know our triggers ! So this information is much needed for every woman because nothing is perfect ! Thankyou ❤
Ohhh my bf told me the other day “you’re only listening to respond” & that was a wake up call. I also interrupt allllll the time, I literally don’t understand how not to interrupt. When he reminds me, I’m like oh I’m sorry & I mean it I really am. But then the next time something comes up I interrupt again & quickly. 😬😬😬 Thank you for this.
I am working on this it's one of my biggest problema I have. Especially after we had a baby. Between exhaustion and hormones I get so impatient when he doesn't help me more. I have blown up a lot. I am trying to hard to be calmer because I know it's best for all of us.
I completely understand! A man has to also be patient with you during that time. You have created life itself your body need time to rest, don’t hesitate to ask for help and prioritize your needs darling ❤️
I appreciate your support ladies. He is a great man but not perfect of course. He is learning to navigate parenthood as well. I do think he should help more without me asking but I absolutely think it's best if I stay calm and ask nicely which is what I need to work on. Our little one is a year and a half old now and it's getting a little easier but we still have a lot of work to do to find our flow of our home. I am a stay at home mom as well so I feel guilty asking for help with dishes, one of the hardest tasks with a toddler for me atm. But I know I cannot do it all and it's okay to expect him to help.
I think of Down to Earth with Rita Hayworth alllll the time when it comes to the topic of feminine persuasion and charm. Old movies are simply filled with game, thank you for interpreting 🫶🏾 and Rita Hayworth was stunning!
A man that is a gaslighter narcissist this goes out the window! 😂 but I just walk away when I feel myself about to go off the edge. In the midst of a misunderstanding I looked at his hands and said how I love them. Naturally I was diffusing the tension but he didn’t take the opportunity to turn the conversation around. I was very much in control in my feminine and still had to remove myself it was so heartbreaking.
I want to thank you for truly sharing your gift with the world. I’ve tried watching many creators videos on this topic, however, since my soul naturally has an abundance of wisdom and through experiences I’ve attained it I don’t align with their content bcus so much is based on manipulation or being delusional . So I value your channel so much bcus, I’m surrounded by a lot of masculine energy and I’ve always been attacked for dwelling in my feminine so at times I just need a reminder that I’m on the correct path & not to alter my energy for anyone. I’m just acting as a reminder from the universe that you’re doing amazing work as I know you’re aware. 🌻🌻🌻
i started this video thinking oh here we go again with this feminine stuff yeah yeah... but I'm so glad I calmed down and listened because you were nuanced and very helpful... thank you, from a slightly more masculine and combative (but still feminine) woman 🥰
I think this type of video is very important and should definitely been taught more, once when i was younger it was easy for me to sort of not respond to men and keep my anger inside when a man would do something terrible, i would just keep quiet, feel angry and focus on my life with friends and activities. Then usually the apology would come from the man himself without doing anything. Then after a couple of times men doing the same things, something snapped and i was like, i am not going to let this stuff go unpunished anymore. And then i started to blow up when something bad would occur. However i guess it became too much of a defense mechanism/habit. I always wondered how to get back to my unbothered self, so this video has really helped to get some tips on how to do better in the future.
And you only repeating the cycle of abuse and distinction. Its a waste of time to even get hostile with ppl unless they do something blatantly horrible. Ppl can actually voice their gansta in a calm intelligent way without being unhinge
@@GemAnointedOh get off your high horse, the title of this video is problematic enough. Women should be allowed to be angry, especially if someone is disrespecting her. I’m so tired of this narrative that being angry is taboo for women bc it’s not “feminine” enough. Men have shamed women for years when they speak up for themselves, defend themselves or show anger. Videos like this might mean well but it’s taking a step backwards.
I found this just yesterday and have watched this through 3 times already! 🥰 Resolving conflict has always been our relationship's "Achilles' Heel". And I can only work on myself to try and resolve these issues. I'm absolutely guilty of doing some less than helpful things when fighting, so I really hope this will be helpful! I suspect it will! Thank you!!! 🥰🥰😍😭
I like this video. This really works in my marriage. My husband always listens to me when we discuss things that are important for me while cuddling. Sometimes I feel weird that we never fight (because in my prior relationships I used to fight all the time). I think that I am at my best version with my husband and for sure he lets me fully at my feminine energy. So these tips are really good if you have a good man. If your man is narcissistic or feminine run!
I would love it if you could upload these kind of audios/videos on Spotify, I also think it would make your community even bigger. I love how you talk about this thematic and your advices are really helpful❤️❤️❤️❤️
I been sharing your videos to my grandma and I feel so much joy praying with my grandma and sharing about manifestation law of assumption and femininity. My grandma does this to her sp she wants to get married. Her biggest flaws are not managing money and arguing about everything and him and me scared to say truth because we have to walk on eggshells but I’m committed and subliminals and affirmations mostly and of course your content. I’m working towards better weight loss habits. Staying by myself and stay committed and not feeling I need to rush. You inspire me to vlog my femininity weight loss journey. ❤❤❤
What about when you are being disrespected, and you feel anger. I feel like this at times could lead to supressed energy. I think knowing how to healthily express anger with your partner is important. Not everyday or for every thing but sometimes i think it is valid and necessary to our health.
the sandwich is a great tip and it made me see how i can bring up things that bother me in a better way. he even suggested this method himself (more or less without ending with the compliment) but i love the idea and i pictured myself using this. it’s just better communication
Growing up in a highly disfunctional family, with a narc father, i never knew how to behave healthy. It was all about gaslighting, drama creating , and finally forcing me to react ...and reactive abuse , back at home... Countineusly atracted sumilar narc men.. finally healed and started looking for healthy man .. but the problem is , i never knew how to behave healthy, i never saw it, and it never worked anywhere either.. with a toxic narc man, act like a borderline person .. that is the only thing that works... .. thanks for the video... hope i will find a healthy man someday, and can finally live healthy life ❤️
This is very good knowledge and shared in a clear and easily understood way. Thank you! I hope you don’t mind if I give you some professional advice as a photographer and director of photography. You are absolutely beautiful and your silhouette in the frame looks gorgeous. I love the environment and the flowers. If you take a couple of steps towards the camera, we could see more of your facial expressions and it would also eliminate the strange looking cross shadow behind you. But I also have to say that the contrast of the green dress and the absolutely gorgeous red roses is a really nice color punch! ❤
I find it best to not ask my partner to do anything in the house and just focus on his career and when he comes home then it's a place he can relax as he works long hours. My work schedule is more flexible so if I'm away singing, I will ask him to do certain things and also leave a note next to his bed with what I want him to do, and thank him for taking care of me
This video came to me at the perfect time. My boyfriend who is now the father of our beautiful son, and I have been finding ourselves getting into little arguments here and there. I personally feel like I have handled our disagreements both good and not so good at times but this video has given me so much reassurance and encouragement to handle conflicts better in the future in order for us to both be happy. Thank you for these useful pointers ☺️
Nope! If youre mad alot you one gotta walk and heal. 2 hes not treating you right and youre trying to be heard. Also wslk. You can become powerful alone then try with someone else or him
There’s a reason why men stop and pay attention when we finally get quiet and don’t chase them. Unfortunately, most of us do that as our last resort when we’ve been walked on.
All these tips work on women too. It's just being mature. It not tied to feminine energy only. And we should live our lives and express our emotions instead of behaving like dulls
Thank you so much for spreading delicate femininity and being an example. I feel Im learning just by watching your moves🤗. I truly believe a world needs real humble yet very strong women who inspire and build the strongest men and as a result families❤️❤️❤️
Most issues can be resolved remaining calm on both sides. If we need to raise the voice, it is already a red flag. In that case, there is no need to reflect on strategies and on how talking to him next time. If you can’t express yourself without him getting angry or not listening or not giving any care to what you complain and if you have to walk on eggs, why would you want to stay and build a future with that person.
U Just Made me cry. Because a lot of relationships will be saved by your advices. Usually it's the women who really cause conflicts in a relationship. They really expect every man to read them and be aware of their emotions.
Hmm I don’t know about this , I won’t ever let men talk to me down and call me names and disrespect me so I can get something like get married or to be with him. Specially if they make a big deal because they are feeding you when u can feed yourself
Hi, Lisa! Love your content and I've been following you for quite a while now❤ Could you make a video specifically for the eldest daughter who are starting on their feminine journey? We are known to be more anxious in letting another person take the lead, more self suffucient and the one who takes care of others but still wanting to attract a healthy masculine man. I know it would help a lot of ladies who struggles with the same issue, if you do. Thanks and lots of lovee❤❤
i am in a situation where i feel that my emotions are chronically dismissed and that actions are taken to deliberately undermine my wellbeing. The actions of the masculine I am referring to is damaging my reputation and toxic to my wellbeing. My question is: what is the feminine approach to this, and when is the feminine approach appropriate? I do believe right now I desire distance and separation. I truly feel that it is incumbent on them to step up and make amends and follow through on their promises to improve. I don't feel that just simply making less time for them and saying I am spending time with other friends when I am asked to do hang out communicates my desire to not interact at this point in time. That seems like I am just beating around the bush and avoiding expression of my decision (which was made after I had communicated my boundaries and had them repeatedly violated).
Thank you Lisa for this video so so much! I am very untrustworthy towards people and I tend to hold grudges even towards men and I was doing that towards my current parent. He is a calm and collected man , more of action than words but as you all know, we woman appreciate actions but we also want to hear words and to talk. He grounded my emotions but I am still working on my approach as much he is working on opening himself. This is the right video in the right time, big THANK YOU❤ Also, I love that dress on you😍
In other words: keep your emotions under control - emotional intelligence is not about letting your emotions take a hold over you, but to keep them under control: there are moments for expression, and moments to use logic.
I‘ve been doing a lot of character research on men and women and I have to say this video brings it all down to a T! Great advice, trust this woman! 👏♥️ Good luck, now go have fun with your gorgeous femininity and happy man
Men who care for their women will not disrespect them, however there are times where they will withdraw in order to process situations. I think we take it to heart and understandably so! I find that it’s better to be sweeter and ask politely for what I need instead of get too upset, even if I am. I make it a challenge for me to get what I want and therefore letting my feminine energy guide me. It’s really hard especially with a shy man. Just stay balanced and keep being who you are. Either way, it sets you apart. ❤
💯 % Yesterday saw an older couple holding hands after going out to dinner, the woman carrying leftovers in a Togo box. They seemed like it was a rare date night, like they had not done so in a while. The guy seemed especially happy. She then asked him a question about did he do an errand and he said No. she suddenly went from warm to frigid she got so angry, dropped his hand and started berating him and he dropped back. It may have been important but it was just an errand. They were healthy happy just had a nice dinner. It seemed like she wasn’t in control of her emotions. And damaged her relationship.
there is always a way to restore a relationship, but it takes vulnerability, willingness from both parties, trust, and actual change. first, start working on yourself for yourself, but not for the repair of the relationship. your relationship will benefit if you take care of yourself and this will show your partner that you are changing, thus increasing trust and maybe a willingness to try to repair the relationship. setting boundaries is important as well from both parties. change is slow and we sometimes will revert back to our old habits. in times like that, swallow your ego, work on apologizing, and showing your partner how you want to move forward.
Yes can you give a talk on what to do if you have already lost your cool and not acted in the proper feminine way? I want to fix what I could have broken this man meets the world to me we are trying to plan a wedding
Exactly most ppl are uses to accepting disrespect or letting it slide that they assume she is saying tolerate abuse when she is saying how to communicate during conflict and how u need boundaries with not only others but yourself and the way you treat your own communication ppl just are perpetual victims and never wants to look inward
Je ne savais pas à quoi m'attendre avec cette vidéo, mais ce qu'elle dit rejoint les techniques de communication non violente (CNV) et d'écoute active qui sont vraiment enseignées dans des formations ou livres. Très bien et merci de communiquer ces techniques ❤
I think less is more ! When we try to look sexy all the time and ignore our true feelings because of the man, it's going to make us a doll only to please them ! Address your feelings and live the way that it makes you happy 😊
Please remember women, this only works for masculine men. Not toxic men, not narcissists, not abusive men - only kind, healthy, masculine men.
Facts
Thank you for clarifying 🙏
Never will work with a insecure grown child...Boy Bye !!!
True, or with our modern clowns
That's like 1% of men 😂
ladies also dont be with a guy that make you so mad. Being mad all the time is going to age you and kill your happiness and inner glow. Pick a good man but make sure you're good woman.
Yes, i agree. I've been with this man who gets mad over many little things and it's incredibly unhappy in the house and I regret moving him into the house and living with me and my kids
@@Emma_Beme hopefully things get better for you and your family 💛
@@Emma_Bemeyou can still move him out.. He don't need to be there if he's making all of you unhappy
I married a man that terrorizes.my life daily...he is constantly accusing me of cheating...he's horrible. I regret marrying him hoping he would change...but no...men will never change so don't waste your time thinking they will. If your man shows he is incapable of loving you with respect....believe him!!!
A lot of negativity here… attractive masculine men will make women angry… feminine men don’t… you don’t need to run away from a masculine man to become feminine… over time you will resent him too for being the nice guy… you want a man, not a mouse in your hand
When youa actually date a men that truly cares for you, you enter on this feminine mode naturally, you trust him to listen and care for you so you don't need to outrage yourself
Yess Ameen well said I agree 👍
Agree🎉
I came here to say same thing 😅
That's right
It’s all in how your are raised
Why is no one talking about book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”? Just look at that energy, it's exactly what Lisa embodies!
By Robert Greene?
Im checking the book out. Thanks!
Sometimes when they lie into your face and don’t care for you at all, you cannot do anything feminine to change their mind. We are no idiots. Sometimes we have to leave
It’s apart of feminity to leave with grace . Not stay with aggressive chaos .
@@anamarie.7 I agree. In some cases I think it’s necessary that men feel the consequences but then another man should hold them accountable
Yup, should have done so years ago.
Wow,these are all correct. I have tried everything. I was raised by an Irish ,angry feminist mother.holy moly.I am going to have to go over this.she was a narcissist and my person of 21 yrs is a chess playing narcissist and a twin soul 😂help!
Exactly right. 1. Men will start fights when they lose interest 2. Noticing things he wants to keep hidden from you starts fights. Knew a girl who was always agreeable. Guy kept her around to pay rent while he cheated on her. Hey she made it easy. Then left her when he had a new girl lined up anyway. Good luck with that.
Lol I think there should be a disclaimer stating that this works only when your man is someone that is a calm listener, a good communicator, and is highly emotionally intelligent.
I never raised my voice first and always approached my man with a calm and collected demeanor and stated exactly how something made me feel or if I needed something to change and no matter how polite and gentle I was with him, he made the entire thing a living hell of an experience. No matter how small the matter was, we went to absolute war every time because he wasn’t a good listener or a good communicator.
How did you go to absolute war if you were calm?
I agree with aanggora. Some men create war no matter what we say or even if we are completely silent. Sometimes it doesn't matter if we are like an angel if he is like the ...
She mentioned that this video is if you're with a masculine man, not a man-child... I'm really sorry about your experience 💖💖💖
Facts everytime I said something no matter how nice calm he would just yell at me or blow it up and threaten to breakup with me.
@@Qaldar she said approach him calm not continue it if he’s being aggressive
Definitely only works for masculine men
How come
@@samaaabujaffar1033Men who are insecure and run off their fragile ego will fight you tooth and nail no matter how calm your demeanor is. You will be very drained
This is for men with secured attachment; if you’re not familiar with the term. Research avoidant, anxious and secure attachments.
@@11nica5 those things were already proven to be false.
The issue is that women unconsciously believe that a men is "a woman's mind in a male body".
I think a lot of women can identify with the frustration we feel when we have a partner that plays head games and plays dumb or plays with words. Many of us have started off being calm, and patient and slow to anger but over time, our patience has eroded and bitterness and resentment has creeped in .. resulting in an explosion or zero bs tolerance.
So real
Yup
I feel like so many girls don’t know the secrets we deserve to know… I found this book, 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life-changing. Has anyone else heard of it??
No 👎 I haven’t but thx for sharing ❤
did this today and it works lol. tell him what you need and how to love you the way you need. he should get it without yelling, without screaming, he’ll immediately turn it around. the people saying don’t be with a man that makes you mad… right. that’s kind of comical. have you ever heard of a married couple who never fights? no. hugely unrealistic expectation. couples fight and it’s normal to a point. you’ll be alone forever if you break up with someone every time you argue lol.
Facts☝️
Omg! Finally a sane wise comment lol❤
there’s a difference between being mad and arguing or being upset. if someone regularly makes you genuinely mad and angry, that’s probably a sign of incompatibility
@@uhsagiThat may be a sign that you have an issue with patience as well
What’s comical is you thinking all men will come around. Say that to the many men in prison who clearly do not give a crap about laws let alone your feminine energy. In fact, they’ll use that submissiveness to act out worse. They’ll treat you like a doormat.
Sure couples have fights but does your man always want to win ? If yes, then there is the problem.
You're right @ Lisa glamour. When I'm in my feminine energy and I'm calm with my man during an argument, he calms down too but, when I'm aggressive it becomes worse
Yes. I learned the hard way. I got so mad at my man over the stupidest thing. He retreated. Evaporated. Hopefully we reconcile. The Bible says harsh words stir up anger but a soft answer turns away wrath.
So true💯
Using your feminine self. Your feminine words and actions are good most of the time. Really good keeps the peace However, sometimes you need to stick up for yourself and let your masculine side Come out so nobody runs you over no women is a Robot💯🫶🩷
I think the green dress complements your olive skin so beautifully 💚
Thank you ❤❤
she reminds me of "the princess and the frog" in this dress🙂
Right! She’s beautiful! 💚💚💚
@@Lisaglamourdo you think you can make a video about color theory if you know about this? ❤️ lots of love
@@Lisaglamourgreat video. Do you have a link to this beautiful dress? 💚
As someone who has been in her masculine energy in a relationship, it so much more efficient to withdraw when displeased and it sends a more clear message than words do. The right man will enhance your femininity naturally ❤
That’s what I was thinking 🤔 I feel like my whole life I’ve been masculine and alpha and it’s bc I’ve never been w a man that lets me be or makes me wanna be feminine
@KCmakeovers I totally understand. It's just our natural makeup to be receptive but with a certain conditioning it takes the ((right)) man to make one feel safe to just be.
I get tired of voicing my needs. Even in a feminine way. It’s like I’m not seen or heard no matter what method is used. Soft or loud. Doesn’t matter. I’ve gotten to a point where I rather just say nothing at all. It’s painful and heartbreaking.
That is the sign I would use to pack my bags and leave in silence without another word. If you said at some point "I do not tolerate_____" and then he broke that boundary... then leaving is the only way to prove that you do NOT actually tolerate that thing. Men act to demonstrate what they actually believe and they watch your actions. Words have little meaning. If behavior was a language...what is he telling you by ignoring everything you say or need?
Get a new man 🙂
You need to distance yourself everytime he breaks a boundary. Also don't forget that you can't change people that much. I try to say something once or twice and when it happens again I distance myself and I'm not available. You need to also realise that people are not stupid and they know exactly what they are doing so if he disrespects you or continues with behavior that bothers you he does it on purpose. The best way to react is to make some space, even in your own apartment. Go into a different room and ask to not be bothered because you're working on things. Go to the gym. Work on art projects. Do online courses. Go to networking events alone. Go have coffee on your own or go for a walk. Show him that you are happy doing things without him.
There's a chance that he's too confortable with you so he thinks you'll stay anyways or you are too available for him.
Watch how his dad treats his mom. He might recreates patterns from his childhood. Maybe his mom normalized that behavior.
Also at one point accept him how he is and focus on yourself. The more you work on yourself the more they usually step up. If not then good bye.
Also realise that there are men out there who can't take women seriously. It usually comes from their dad or dad figure in his life. Some men also use it as a form to gain the upper hand in the relationship. Not doing what you want gives them some form of control and authority.
Sadly some men only take other men seriously. So if you have to you can talk about other men's qualities in a favorable way. When he f.e. never puts his shoes away, you can start bringing up your male coworker and how you admire how clean and organised his desk is. Or you walk by a nice car and see the male driver and you say you admire when a man can keep his car so clean, even on the inside. Stuff like that.
If all these things don't work then consider your future and other options.
Why are you begging a lazy dude who doesn't care to be a decent guy and make you happy. I'd tell him, this is not working for you anymore amd you need to move on. . . Then go quietly without any debate or more words. Be classy and let him see that
Maybe he’ll hear the click, click, click of your heels on the way out:)
I wish men would solve their conflicts in the same respectful manner. Sadly lots of them don't.
I absolutely agree with you! Most men are wounded and need mental healing. They take their anger and frustrations on their woman because it seems easier than to take accountability. Wounded minds never take accountability.
@@jaxell4832 no - the issue is because women unconsciously believe that a men is "a woman's mind in a male body", and believe that men will think and behave exactly the same as a women.
No lies detected! I grew up with hostile over reactive women who get rude and disrespectful at the first trigger of insecurity and blow up! Mom is now old and manless so I never had the right example on how to handle men. But I didnt want to be like that so its taken ALOT of work and deprogramming and over 10yrs ago came across Rori Raye who has different techniques that has stuck with me and I always revert back to them. You Explained everything perfectly! I love your aura you are the embodiment of what you speak about and its refreshing! Thank you ❤ for the reminder of this!
This advice is spot on!! I use it with my husband and he is obsessed with me 😍
My man has been so patient with me these last few years. We are growing together and I’m patient with him too. Me not being mad right away has helped a lot with him not walking away
We put so much effort and the men still don't stay committed forever.
Sometimes I find that when I communicate calmly and with poise especially with men, they’re more willing to listen to me. When a man is disrespectful towards me, I use to fire back at them (I still do sometimes) but I walk away.
I’ve never met a man that likes the words “I feel”. Even the nicest of men say they can’t do anything with it.
They don't care anything about feelings at all. My husband looks so dumbfounded when I say I feel 😂😂😂😂😂
No, my boyfriend reacts in a good way when I say "I would feel better if you do this.." he does value my state of mind so it works atleast in my relationship.
Whenever I tried to voice my feelings to my ex husband, if he heard the words “I feel” before I could even finish speaking right away, his first reaction was always “no” right away trying to tell me he knew what I was feeling more than what I was and would legit stand there and argue with me that I didn’t know what I was talking about and there was no way I could feel the way I do. Even when I left the marriage and told him I was leaving because after 20 years, he still did this and never listened to anything I really said. Til this day, he doesn’t know my favorite color, food or anything. He still knows nothing about me. It’s mind blowing
Oh! He used to say “i can’t do anything about your feelings” whenever i said “i feel”. I gave up after making him understand politely and respectfully 1000 times and that too over the same issue.I started arguing then, he took a break and this is what he got but for the rest of his life😂. Free from all the toxicity now.
@@chandrimabandyopadhyay1509 that's great, he is a keeper! Cause most men are not like that at all.
remember it's not what you say but how you say it 🌼
Shes right...wait until the other is calm... don't bring stuff up in front of ppl.
Learnt 3 words i have never used in my life:
I dont tolerate that.
I dont want that
It is not attractive to me when a man does that
As a men, my answer to those is:
Why?
@Jamhael1 always I was trying to be nice girl not to lose my men, but as a result they don't worth it we broke up... he treated me badly at the end, so I learnt my lesson, I cried so I'm no more want to be slave of my life partner, I m independent women of myself my country it is very good to feel like this... you man think " ah it is okay when I treat her badly in front of everyone" no it's not who are you? Really you too a person just simple the answer you men are not God...! So treat her nice and it will be good after all, be humble men. Then I think your partner will never get a chance to say these words I think.. know yourself know her value..
Do you want to know how he feels when I'm Gone?
@@ENGLISH_with_teacher_m I can't answer because:
- I can't read minds;
- I can't know what other people feel;
- I am not responsible for the actions of others, only my own;
Empathy is only about what the individual expect if he/she is in the place of another, not a "general statement" that is the same for everybody.
I'm sorry if my words are harsh, but better the bitter but honest truth than a sweet but poisonous lie.
I can't change your past, nor remake your memories, nor undo the harm you suffered, but I can only give you this:
One harmed you. And if you deny yourself because of one, he still win.
Go look for another.
@@Jamhael1 aha thank you for attention anyways😊 i appreciate that.
@@Jamhael1 Now, im single. Im gonna pray for good man with healthy mind ☺
Omg the way she talk and her voice you can feel that she is embodying the feminine energy
Ahhh, I just realized. I’m naturally not a nagging woman. I’m actually rather feminine when it comes to those everyday things. I get extremely masculine only when attacked lol. I’m learning from you how I could actually stay in my feminine energy and with my dignity intact ☺️ lol. Love that 🫶!
By attacked I mean like criticized or that type of thing. Someone trying to instigate an argument with ME lol.
Same haha
The key is to use these arguments & disagreements to learn more about each other & what both of your needs & desires are, therefore deepening your bond in the process ❤
Every human being has the ability to feel ALL emotions-- it's what we do with them that creates our lives.
If I am mad at someone, man or woman, I can say how I feel and what I'm needing, eg, "I am frustrated and could really use some help with this."
How that person responds tells a lot about them and how they consider you, whether they help you or not and why.
Don't listen to their words much, watch their actions a lot.
The foundation: What motivates them the most? Sex? Money? Doing for others? Accomplishing their work? Receiving from others? Being with people? I know various people who fit one of these. Figure out their greatest motivation and decide if that's the kind of person you want to spend time with because they're very unlikely to change it over their lifetime. Do you want to live with that forever?
watching this a second time because i needed a reminder after a conflict last night lol
Hahahaha!!! 😂😂😂😂 This is me right here.
Instructions unclear: turned into a man
Lmao my bf and I got in a fight last night and this pops up today 😂
I don't get mad, I just leave. Disrespect means goodbye.
Yes indeed!
Same here
@@EverythingxBeautiful I don't have time for males and their behavior. And neither should other women. Even the slightest disrespect or a joke that I don't find funny means bye.
Same here
If it’s a dealbreaker, yes.
The fact that you know about the sandwich method makes me respect your work even more lol
I think it's always a good thing for a person not to yell at others and have self control....just makes sure he treats you with the same measure of self control and kindness. Women shouldn't have to walk on eggshells and sugarcoat everything if their men don't make the same effort.
Absolutely and she said to always voice your boundaries and what you aren't willing to tolerate. If we don't enforce boundaries we will get crumbs every time
I believe this is a very important subject. I found myself many times complaining about small things and since I 'let it go', I feel more relaxed and him too.
This video is relationship GOLD! The women around me growing up had a lot of masculine energy, especially my mother. Now that I have found an amazing love with my boyfriend, I am working on balancing my feminine energy so that I can be the best partner for my masculine man. It’s a give and take. It’s about being strategic. Being the best version of yourself. As women, we should embrace our femininity ❤
I hope you don’t resent your mother. Do understand that she made her personality more masculine because the world was harsh on her and that was her way of protecting herself. Maybe her husband or her father were strong personalities.
I completely agree with what you're saying. My man is very masculine, alpha. This describes us. I just need to learn how to solve conflict better.
I like that you use clips of Lynette in your videos. She’s definitely a perfect example of a woman in her masculine energy!
Yes! I always thought that watching the show
What movie is it?
Because her "man" is feminine. She had to change to create balance. He is weak and childish.
@@lean-angelygazzingan5893 desperate housewives
@@lean-angelygazzingan5893It’s a show called Desperate Housewives.
This is needed because unknowingly men can still make you mad whether they real care for you or not because they don’t know our triggers ! So this information is much needed for every woman because nothing is perfect ! Thankyou ❤
Ohhh my bf told me the other day “you’re only listening to respond” & that was a wake up call.
I also interrupt allllll the time, I literally don’t understand how not to interrupt. When he reminds me, I’m like oh I’m sorry & I mean it I really am. But then the next time something comes up I interrupt again & quickly. 😬😬😬
Thank you for this.
And women are also capable of rage naturally. It's not our nature to be super soft and calm little flower.
I am working on this it's one of my biggest problema I have. Especially after we had a baby. Between exhaustion and hormones I get so impatient when he doesn't help me more. I have blown up a lot. I am trying to hard to be calmer because I know it's best for all of us.
I completely understand! A man has to also be patient with you during that time. You have created life itself your body need time to rest, don’t hesitate to ask for help and prioritize your needs darling ❤️
I hope the situation improves for you sweetheart
You have a right to be angry if your husband is acting like a baby. He's the father and needs to act like a man.
I appreciate your support ladies. He is a great man but not perfect of course. He is learning to navigate parenthood as well. I do think he should help more without me asking but I absolutely think it's best if I stay calm and ask nicely which is what I need to work on. Our little one is a year and a half old now and it's getting a little easier but we still have a lot of work to do to find our flow of our home. I am a stay at home mom as well so I feel guilty asking for help with dishes, one of the hardest tasks with a toddler for me atm. But I know I cannot do it all and it's okay to expect him to help.
@@Lisaglamour she already stated that she has asked for help.
Physical touch always work 😅 with my man he can be so pissed , one hug & a kiss 💋 he melts 😊
How am I supposed to give a hug when he is abusing me?
@@Rshmi-Kmllh dont and leave
I think of Down to Earth with Rita Hayworth alllll the time when it comes to the topic of feminine persuasion and charm. Old movies are simply filled with game, thank you for interpreting 🫶🏾 and Rita Hayworth was stunning!
Every time you go to war with him, he will defeat you... if you wish to defeat him, then love him ❤ that is our feminine power
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and if he is the one going to war with you? abusive.
Who says he will defeat you?? That’s not the point. If you have to fight with him, he’s not worthy of your attention!!
Love this
i love when there’s a new lisa glamour video ♥️
I appreciate the solutions on how to solve conflict with your partner in a feminine manner. The is gold ✨Thank you Lisa🌹❤️
This was literally the best advice!!..so simple but so effective..thank you!
A man that is a gaslighter narcissist this goes out the window! 😂 but I just walk away when I feel myself about to go off the edge.
In the midst of a misunderstanding I looked at his hands and said how I love them. Naturally I was diffusing the tension but he didn’t take the opportunity to turn the conversation around. I was very much in control in my feminine and still had to remove myself it was so heartbreaking.
A gas lighter narcissist doesn’t know how to please a woman. It would never work ever.
I used an “I feel” by saying “I feel like im holding onto emotional crumbs”once and he said “you saying that hurt my feelings”
I want to thank you for truly sharing your gift with the world. I’ve tried watching many creators videos on this topic, however, since my soul naturally has an abundance of wisdom and through experiences I’ve attained it I don’t align with their content bcus so much is based on manipulation or being delusional . So I value your channel so much bcus, I’m surrounded by a lot of masculine energy and I’ve always been attacked for dwelling in my feminine so at times I just need a reminder that I’m on the correct path & not to alter my energy for anyone. I’m just acting as a reminder from the universe that you’re doing amazing work as I know you’re aware. 🌻🌻🌻
i started this video thinking oh here we go again with this feminine stuff yeah yeah... but I'm so glad I calmed down and listened because you were nuanced and very helpful... thank you, from a slightly more masculine and combative (but still feminine) woman 🥰
I think this type of video is very important and should definitely been taught more, once when i was younger it was easy for me to sort of not respond to men and keep my anger inside when a man would do something terrible, i would just keep quiet, feel angry and focus on my life with friends and activities. Then usually the apology would come from the man himself without doing anything. Then after a couple of times men doing the same things, something snapped and i was like, i am not going to let this stuff go unpunished anymore. And then i started to blow up when something bad would occur. However i guess it became too much of a defense mechanism/habit. I always wondered how to get back to my unbothered self, so this video has really helped to get some tips on how to do better in the future.
This is all good, but sometimes you just have to show them the hood side of you.
And you only repeating the cycle of abuse and distinction. Its a waste of time to even get hostile with ppl unless they do something blatantly horrible. Ppl can actually voice their gansta in a calm intelligent way without being unhinge
I wholeheartedly agree 😂❤
@@GemAnointedOh get off your high horse, the title of this video is problematic enough. Women should be allowed to be angry, especially if someone is disrespecting her. I’m so tired of this narrative that being angry is taboo for women bc it’s not “feminine” enough. Men have shamed women for years when they speak up for themselves, defend themselves or show anger. Videos like this might mean well but it’s taking a step backwards.
@@LM.312 not reading all that. You sounds triggered and in able to comprehend the topic. And that's cool too you stay bitter hun
@@GemAnointedshe wrote one paragraph haha. And it was just clearly stated not bitter.
I found this just yesterday and have watched this through 3 times already! 🥰
Resolving conflict has always been our relationship's "Achilles' Heel".
And I can only work on myself to try and resolve these issues. I'm absolutely guilty of doing some less than helpful things when fighting, so I really hope this will be helpful! I suspect it will!
Thank you!!! 🥰🥰😍😭
I like this video. This really works in my marriage. My husband always listens to me when we discuss things that are important for me while cuddling. Sometimes I feel weird that we never fight (because in my prior relationships I used to fight all the time). I think that I am at my best version with my husband and for sure he lets me fully at my feminine energy. So these tips are really good if you have a good man. If your man is narcissistic or feminine run!
Ladies, plz don’t be afraid to change yourself for your man if he really deserves it. The things she said in this video really works 👍
I would love it if you could upload these kind of audios/videos on Spotify, I also think it would make your community even bigger. I love how you talk about this thematic and your advices are really helpful❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you try this while dating, and he still don’t respect your basic/reasonable needs, it should end after trying over and over.
I been sharing your videos to my grandma and I feel so much joy praying with my grandma and sharing about manifestation law of assumption and femininity. My grandma does this to her sp she wants to get married. Her biggest flaws are not managing money and arguing about everything and him and me scared to say truth because we have to walk on eggshells but I’m committed and subliminals and affirmations mostly and of course your content. I’m working towards better weight loss habits. Staying by myself and stay committed and not feeling I need to rush. You inspire me to vlog my femininity weight loss journey. ❤❤❤
Hey law of assumption gurlie here!!!
What about when you are being disrespected, and you feel anger. I feel like this at times could lead to supressed energy.
I think knowing how to healthily express anger with your partner is important. Not everyday or for every thing but sometimes i think it is valid and necessary to our health.
the sandwich is a great tip and it made me see how i can bring up things that bother me in a better way. he even suggested this method himself (more or less without ending with the compliment) but i love the idea and i pictured myself using this. it’s just better communication
Growing up in a highly disfunctional family, with a narc father, i never knew how to behave healthy. It was all about gaslighting, drama creating , and finally forcing me to react ...and reactive abuse , back at home... Countineusly atracted sumilar narc men.. finally healed and started looking for healthy man .. but the problem is , i never knew how to behave healthy, i never saw it, and it never worked anywhere either.. with a toxic narc man, act like a borderline person .. that is the only thing that works... .. thanks for the video... hope i will find a healthy man someday, and can finally live healthy life ❤️
This is very much The Thruth of Real Femenine Power! Now keep it together when you are angry AF 😣
Hmm 🤔 the voice thing makes sense but idk how to . I need to watch her more ❤ she’s amazing 🤩
I may have to watch this every week or every day! I need this reminder
This is very good knowledge and shared in a clear and easily understood way. Thank you!
I hope you don’t mind if I give you some professional advice as a photographer and director of photography. You are absolutely beautiful and your silhouette in the frame looks gorgeous. I love the environment and the flowers. If you take a couple of steps towards the camera, we could see more of your facial expressions and it would also eliminate the strange looking cross shadow behind you.
But I also have to say that the contrast of the green dress and the absolutely gorgeous red roses is a really nice color punch! ❤
I find it best to not ask my partner to do anything in the house and just focus on his career and when he comes home then it's a place he can relax as he works long hours. My work schedule is more flexible so if I'm away singing, I will ask him to do certain things and also leave a note next to his bed with what I want him to do, and thank him for taking care of me
This video came to me at the perfect time. My boyfriend who is now the father of our beautiful son, and I have been finding ourselves getting into little arguments here and there. I personally feel like I have handled our disagreements both good and not so good at times but this video has given me so much reassurance and encouragement to handle conflicts better in the future in order for us to both be happy. Thank you for these useful pointers ☺️
Nope! If youre mad alot you one gotta walk and heal. 2 hes not treating you right and youre trying to be heard. Also wslk. You can become powerful alone then try with someone else or him
There’s a reason why men stop and pay attention when we finally get quiet and don’t chase them. Unfortunately, most of us do that as our last resort when we’ve been walked on.
All these tips work on women too. It's just being mature. It not tied to feminine energy only. And we should live our lives and express our emotions instead of behaving like dulls
Thank you so much for spreading delicate femininity and being an example. I feel Im learning just by watching your moves🤗. I truly believe a world needs real humble yet very strong women who inspire and build the strongest men and as a result families❤️❤️❤️
Most issues can be resolved remaining calm on both sides. If we need to raise the voice, it is already a red flag. In that case, there is no need to reflect on strategies and on how talking to him next time. If you can’t express yourself without him getting angry or not listening or not giving any care to what you complain and if you have to walk on eggs, why would you want to stay and build a future with that person.
Thank you for creating this video. This green dress makes you so beautiful.
WE NEEDED THIS LISA!! ❤️❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨ You're a diamond 🥹
U Just Made me cry. Because a lot of relationships will be saved by your advices.
Usually it's the women who really cause conflicts in a relationship.
They really expect every man to read them and be aware of their emotions.
Hmm I don’t know about this , I won’t ever let men talk to me down and call me names and disrespect me so I can get something like get married or to be with him. Specially if they make a big deal because they are feeding you when u can feed yourself
You should not be with a man that is calling you names or being disrespectful, absolutely never
Hi, Lisa! Love your content and I've been following you for quite a while now❤ Could you make a video specifically for the eldest daughter who are starting on their feminine journey? We are known to be more anxious in letting another person take the lead, more self suffucient and the one who takes care of others but still wanting to attract a healthy masculine man. I know it would help a lot of ladies who struggles with the same issue, if you do. Thanks and lots of lovee❤❤
Yes!! Need a video specifically for us eldest girliez with shit real life problems and no masculine men around huhuhu
So helpful I should listen to this every day😊
Ay, Lisa! Te ves maravillosamente deslumbrante con ese color. Es uno de los mejores que has usado. ❤
Feminine energy brings out the masculine energy in a man.
i am in a situation where i feel that my emotions are chronically dismissed and that actions are taken to deliberately undermine my wellbeing. The actions of the masculine I am referring to is damaging my reputation and toxic to my wellbeing. My question is: what is the feminine approach to this, and when is the feminine approach appropriate? I do believe right now I desire distance and separation. I truly feel that it is incumbent on them to step up and make amends and follow through on their promises to improve. I don't feel that just simply making less time for them and saying I am spending time with other friends when I am asked to do hang out communicates my desire to not interact at this point in time. That seems like I am just beating around the bush and avoiding expression of my decision (which was made after I had communicated my boundaries and had them repeatedly violated).
Not your husband?? Demote his position.
Your time, your life, your presence is precious.🌷
This was Golden✨️ Thank you for this! 'Saved to Favorites'..❤
Thank you Lisa for this video so so much! I am very untrustworthy towards people and I tend to hold grudges even towards men and I was doing that towards my current parent. He is a calm and collected man , more of action than words but as you all know, we woman appreciate actions but we also want to hear words and to talk. He grounded my emotions but I am still working on my approach as much he is working on opening himself.
This is the right video in the right time, big THANK YOU❤
Also, I love that dress on you😍
In other words: keep your emotions under control - emotional intelligence is not about letting your emotions take a hold over you, but to keep them under control: there are moments for expression, and moments to use logic.
I‘ve been doing a lot of character research on men and women and I have to say this video brings it all down to a T! Great advice, trust this woman! 👏♥️ Good luck, now go have fun with your gorgeous femininity and happy man
Men who care for their women will not disrespect them, however there are times where they will withdraw in order to process situations. I think we take it to heart and understandably so! I find that it’s better to be sweeter and ask politely for what I need instead of get too upset, even if I am. I make it a challenge for me to get what I want and therefore letting my feminine energy guide me. It’s really hard especially with a shy man. Just stay balanced and keep being who you are. Either way, it sets you apart. ❤
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Yesterday saw an older couple holding hands after going out to dinner, the woman carrying leftovers in a Togo box. They seemed like it was a rare date night, like they had not done so in a while. The guy seemed especially happy. She then asked him a question about did he do an errand and he said No. she suddenly went from warm to frigid she got so angry, dropped his hand and started berating him and he dropped back.
It may have been important but it was just an errand. They were healthy happy just had a nice dinner. It seemed like she wasn’t in control of her emotions. And damaged her relationship.
Your voice is perfect Lisaaa, thank you 🤍
You are such a life saviour girl❤ this video popped at the right time.thankyou!
Love everything you do, Lisa! You’re an inspiration!
Great video. Thank you. It had me calm and ready to address a small problem and not make it a big one.
Lisa, can we talk about recovering and restoring the relationship if we have already done the things you said not to do?
I think walking away is the only answer but it takes a lot of courage and a backup plan
there is always a way to restore a relationship, but it takes vulnerability, willingness from both parties, trust, and actual change. first, start working on yourself for yourself, but not for the repair of the relationship. your relationship will benefit if you take care of yourself and this will show your partner that you are changing, thus increasing trust and maybe a willingness to try to repair the relationship. setting boundaries is important as well from both parties. change is slow and we sometimes will revert back to our old habits. in times like that, swallow your ego, work on apologizing, and showing your partner how you want to move forward.
Yes can you give a talk on what to do if you have already lost your cool and not acted in the proper feminine way? I want to fix what I could have broken this man meets the world to me we are trying to plan a wedding
These are teachings my therapist says for HEALTHY communication, any of y’all worrying if it’s manipulation IT IS NOT ITS LITERALLY THE OPPOSITE.
Exactly most ppl are uses to accepting disrespect or letting it slide that they assume she is saying tolerate abuse when she is saying how to communicate during conflict and how u need boundaries with not only others but yourself and the way you treat your own communication ppl just are perpetual victims and never wants to look inward
Hey Lisa , so much love from South Africa .❤😍😍
...thank you so much for sharing this crucial knowledge. Bless your precious heart.
Such a wise young woman
I really needed this I’m a therapist and therapist also need therapist. Thank you.
Je ne savais pas à quoi m'attendre avec cette vidéo, mais ce qu'elle dit rejoint les techniques de communication non violente (CNV) et d'écoute active qui sont vraiment enseignées dans des formations ou livres.
Très bien et merci de communiquer ces techniques ❤
I think less is more ! When we try to look sexy all the time and ignore our true feelings because of the man, it's going to make us a doll only to please them ! Address your feelings and live the way that it makes you happy 😊
Perfect timing. Thank you 😍😍
Ugh thank you for posting actual examples