I’ve been obsessed with this idea ever since I started reading 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula.' Like, why don’t we talk about this stuff more? Girls, you NEED to check it out!
That analogy for Take your time was spot on! You want a fireplace (long term consistent) not fireworks (comes quickly and disappears). I have been following your content for few years now. Thank you for sharing all this wisdom about feminine energy. 🎀🌸🌹
I know you do not drink alcohol lisa. I think you really need to instill in the ladies in this audience myself included to abstain from drinking alcohol on dates. It's quite easy to go on a first date or a second date and have two drinks and then the subject matter could change and you go along with the subject matter that might be inappropriate. This has happened to me and I've decided that I will no longer have any alcohol on any dates until I'm in a formal relationship I will abstain from drinking even one drink!
This is so true❤❤ I refuse to chase a man. My now husband asked me to marry him after one month of being a couple since I made him chase me for 3 years. I didn’t mean to do it but it just happened to turn out that way. He still treats me like a princess every day👑🩷
same my husband chase me for a year and got my number by accident only haha he treats me like a queen still and I still keep him on his toes because I am unpredictable like that
I hate to say this, but, at first I thought your videos were going to be a little shallow. Sadly, I started looking for ways to boost my confidence, while dating an abusive man. You helped remind me who I am and my worth. I am respecting myself again. Thank you. ❤
Can you do a video on how to be when you’re in serious relationship already so that you don’t waste your time or get taken for granted . Thank you , love your content ❤
Very nice video. I'm one of those women that always gets attention/respect even without makeup. The only problem is that when I meet people, I'm so happy and fun loving that it probably seems childish to some, which makes people think what happened 😂.
We are told that is how we ought to be but then the world and its people cannot handle it because most people pretend a lot. So when they see a real person, their brains short-circuit and they cannot deal with that authenticity.
same 😂 me at the gym, not talking to anyone for 2 years with a stoic stare.... vs. when me when I meet a friend there and my bubbly caring 5-y-o personality just explores into the room 😂 I believe it is good and actually love both of those sides :) The only thing I consider an issue with it is not owning it. Like, feeling ashamed for it? Either the tough and distant one or the childish one. I also believe this is what repells people more - the 'hiding' and 'being scared to express oneself fully' - than being funky. There are so many adults doing videos acting like kids, or just simply by being with our closest friends when we put our guards down... who does not love that moments? Male or female? So I suggest for us to get comfortable in the process, feel the growing confidence in being either of those crazy alter egos, owning it with zero regrets and shame and enjoy ourselves ❤
I may be completely wrong Lisa, but I noticed you are wearing a ring on your left ring finger. Are you engaged? If not I apologize for my assumption. Ps, Love the video. I'm almost 20 and your videos are very helpful for me in my life and my new chapter in life around men recently. Thank you so much! 💜😊❄
This is TMI but nobody IRL relates to my experience. So thank you for your videos Lisa. I let a man go when he only sent an emoji to a friendly text after i had said no to his reckless lifestyle. You are right not to reply. He wanted 2 things i didnt: he wanted other women with us and he showed me nonstop pictures of himself with other women and asked if he could photo me that way. Luckily i never touched him we never met in person, but it was very confusing to me that an intelligent person would be so reckless. And that all those women would be with him.
I’ve gotta say, girl, if you were to make this video and instead of saying, “for your man“ say, for your family member “or that toxic person in your life“ I would probably share this over and over and over! In the meantime, it’s my favorite for my relationship with my husband
You need to communicate with people yeah, not just ghost. Especially if said person is ND and read social signals or tell if they were rude because such rules are invisible to them.
I also have a "Baby Bella", but mine definitely has the femme fatale energy. You touch her without consent and you'll bleed. She even puts my other 4 boys in their places and chases their mom away. Yep, she's my orange feline fur sister and a total femme fatale
Thank you for advice how do I make myself self confidence when I am not looking slim n fit..n when my man called me if I don't answer his call straight away he he will think I am ignoring him or talking to other man..
also what can we talk about with men and with other women, there are many things people say not to talk about but little on what to do talk about and i can rarely find anything to talk about by default
Find causes and hobbies you are passionate about. Read, study subjects of interest and travel. Keep up with world events. You will always have plenty to talk about
If you want to fix your teeth 🦷 to upgrade your physical appearance - I say do it. But in the meantime work also on your mindset/energy/self worth etc. Because when the teeth are fixed, along with the inner work, you won’t need to “show” anyone but YOURSELF that you are indeed valuable ❤ x
how am I supposed to be feminine when I have 4x exalted venus but it's exactly conjunct my south node (and jupiter) and everything else is in aries and scorpio, plus double ruler pluto square venus, i dont feel myself when im being feminine, sometimes it makes me wanna puke
You can still be feminine. You’re just making excuses for yourself. Just because you have certain patterns doesn’t mean you can’t overcome them. Knowing and understanding your patterns is the first step.
hi Lisa !!!u are lovely feminine and elegant ..i wanted u to know that these men the gentelman ones are too rare to find..most guys these days have become women in the western world.. real men are very unattractive which is unfortunate so i rather be alone then be with the wrong guy...pls social media made men not wanting to invest in women anymore ..old school seducation is just useless people are followers to the new era and social media... being very sexy ,mysterious , fit and attractive and being a femme fatale and feminine and having boundaries and funny and wise with sense of humor and highly creative artistic, never worked for me i tried it all..men that i want always ghost,disapear never invite me for diner or restaurant ..men who apraoch me are ugly so i went online hoping to meet someone on a dating site and its worse they just are not serious and plenty of ugly men there as well lol tell us what is the real secret to make a good looking man invest in us because i see many ugly women who have the most good looking man by their sides which i can ever understand and why the good looking women rarely can have that..
Invest in soul and confidence. That drawls people by the millions!!! It’s crazy and unbeliable!!!!! I have so many want to date me and I’m like??? What??? At my age many are ok but plenty 10 years younger interested and other really good looking men! I’m with a nice man and good looking! I had the pick of the litter like the guy I’m with but love him and our chemistry. God brought us together.
@@preetisethi4929 no sweetie, this is called commonsense. It seems foreign to u. U didn't have a logical answer to my question so now you're just babbling.
I find that some man will treat high value woman as princesses , but also in the same time they play with low values ladies. They are never mind to get more attention from any woman
Lisa your videos are always always helpful to me and I am really really sorry because I am too too late you are my truly truly inspiration and I will always be your supportive♥️♥️🥹😭
I am 74 years old. I am still learning....we never stop learning. I value Lisas opinions and videos.
You’re amazing just for this!
@@joolsfactor fabulous lady! 💕
Age is just a number keep learning ma'am you are amazing to have such a mindset
I admire you so much! ❤ wow!
You are awesome
I’ve been obsessed with this idea ever since I started reading 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula.' Like, why don’t we talk about this stuff more? Girls, you NEED to check it out!
truly a good book
Saying you have worth means you don’t have it. Value speaks for itself! 🌹🌹🌹
I was raised to say and do not just do. Words and actions together
Not true, its just self respect on yourself and not going any lower
@@Portia620 understandable, but I also think actions speak louder than words
That analogy for Take your time was spot on! You want a fireplace (long term consistent) not fireworks (comes quickly and disappears). I have been following your content for few years now. Thank you for sharing all this wisdom about feminine energy. 🎀🌸🌹
I know you do not drink alcohol lisa. I think you really need to instill in the ladies in this audience myself included to abstain from drinking alcohol on dates. It's quite easy to go on a first date or a second date and have two drinks and then the subject matter could change and you go along with the subject matter that might be inappropriate. This has happened to me and I've decided that I will no longer have any alcohol on any dates until I'm in a formal relationship I will abstain from drinking even one drink!
Because you can’t drink. Two drinks over a dinner date should be perfect.
This is so true❤❤ I refuse to chase a man. My now husband asked me to marry him after one month of being a couple since I made him chase me for 3 years. I didn’t mean to do it but it just happened to turn out that way. He still treats me like a princess every day👑🩷
So happy for you dear ❤️❤️❤️
We have to learn from you, but she said is all about BEING... knowing how worthy we are.
same my husband chase me for a year and got my number by accident only haha he treats me like a queen still and I still keep him on his toes because I am unpredictable like that
I hate to say this, but, at first I thought your videos were going to be a little shallow. Sadly, I started looking for ways to boost my confidence, while dating an abusive man. You helped remind me who I am and my worth. I am respecting myself again. Thank you. ❤
I know my worth and don’t need to say it!!!! Men can still reject it but that’s when we see it still and move on!!!
Can you do a video on how to be when you’re in serious relationship already so that you don’t waste your time or get taken for granted . Thank you , love your content ❤
Very nice video. I'm one of those women that always gets attention/respect even without makeup. The only problem is that when I meet people, I'm so happy and fun loving that it probably seems childish to some, which makes people think what happened 😂.
The same for me. I'm not good pretending I don't care, when I'm happy I show it, and when I'm not, I don't.
We are told that is how we ought to be but then the world and its people cannot handle it because most people pretend a lot. So when they see a real person, their brains short-circuit and they cannot deal with that authenticity.
same 😂 me at the gym, not talking to anyone for 2 years with a stoic stare.... vs. when me when I meet a friend there and my bubbly caring 5-y-o personality just explores into the room 😂
I believe it is good and actually love both of those sides :)
The only thing I consider an issue with it is not owning it. Like, feeling ashamed for it? Either the tough and distant one or the childish one. I also believe this is what repells people more - the 'hiding' and 'being scared to express oneself fully' - than being funky. There are so many adults doing videos acting like kids, or just simply by being with our closest friends when we put our guards down... who does not love that moments? Male or female?
So I suggest for us to get comfortable in the process, feel the growing confidence in being either of those crazy alter egos, owning it with zero regrets and shame and enjoy ourselves ❤
Your videos over the years have changed my life. Thank you❤
Mee too...😊
Thank you for mentioning money is NOT a goal!!! Those men can be a problem and it can be a bad deal .
Better to be high-value than low-rent!
💕i swear i just love hearing your intro "Hello my beautiful darlings"☺️
Awww I remember when Bella was a baby! She’s so big! ❤️
I may be completely wrong Lisa, but I noticed you are wearing a ring on your left ring finger. Are you engaged? If not I apologize for my assumption. Ps, Love the video. I'm almost 20 and your videos are very helpful for me in my life and my new chapter in life around men recently. Thank you so much! 💜😊❄
She is engaged. 💕
How did you figure out? Sometimes I wonder if I'm seeing 2 rings or one and she NEVER answers those questions. @@keziahmitwens539
It's so weird realizing that I do a lot if this naturally. No wonder men are obsessed. 😂
I've walked away several times and ended up in an on and off relationship for years.
Walk way and stay away! Next!!!
Can you try to make a video on how people react to you when you go out in the public? Just a suggestion... nothing serious❤
This is TMI but nobody IRL relates to my experience. So thank you for your videos Lisa.
I let a man go when he only sent an emoji to a friendly text after i had said no to his reckless lifestyle. You are right not to reply.
He wanted 2 things i didnt: he wanted other women with us and he showed me nonstop pictures of himself with other women and asked if he could photo me that way. Luckily i never touched him we never met in person, but it was very confusing to me that an intelligent person would be so reckless. And that all those women would be with him.
My style is more casual, but I'm listening very carefully.
I’ve gotta say, girl, if you were to make this video and instead of saying, “for your man“ say, for your family member “or that toxic person in your life“ I would probably share this over and over and over! In the meantime, it’s my favorite for my relationship with my husband
Value and worth are inherent when you know that nobody can play with you
it’s always feels so good to look at you!
Shera says we bring nothing to the table. We don’t have to bring anything to the table. We are enough as we are.
I love your videos Lisa! You're so inspiring 💕
Great video and your hair is PERFECT!
Extremely wise words! 💗🌹
Uh oh, I’m seeing a ring on your left finger.👀
Am here for all of it. Thanks for your advice.
You slaughtered that dress, Queen. 👌🏽
That is true...we get bomb loving, it is quick! Can you please just do a video only for single women. I will get 1st client❤
5:52 yeah that my type of mens , finally i found preson who's talks about this real mens ❤❤❤
You need to communicate with people yeah, not just ghost. Especially if said person is ND and read social signals or tell if they were rude because such rules are invisible to them.
Hi Lisa, can you make a video in french !
And in Ukrainian.😊😂
Thank you Lisa again for an amazing video 💓
Well said ❤
Thank you very much Lisa ❤ I've learnt so much from you.
I also have a "Baby Bella", but mine definitely has the femme fatale energy. You touch her without consent and you'll bleed. She even puts my other 4 boys in their places and chases their mom away. Yep, she's my orange feline fur sister and a total femme fatale
Love this
Very very helpful to me
Amazing!! I love your dress!!!! xoxoxo Bella is sooo sweet!! xoxoo
Thank you for advice how do I make myself self confidence when I am not looking slim n fit..n when my man called me if I don't answer his call straight away he he will think I am ignoring him or talking to other man..
That dress looks amazing on you! Thanks for the advice, as always.
also what can we talk about with men and with other women, there are many things people say not to talk about but little on what to do talk about and i can rarely find anything to talk about by default
Find causes and hobbies you are passionate about. Read, study subjects of interest and travel. Keep up with world events. You will always have plenty to talk about
But how can I feel truly high value if I was abused for 2 years???
Лиза, хорошее видео. Но...знающие люди говорят, что Джордж Клуни гей и изменяет Амаль с молодыми парнями.😢
Yes! 💥 😊
I would like to show a man my value one day but first l gotta do something about my teeth first
I bet you’re beautiful and your beauty radiates SO much people don’t focus on your teeth! Sending you positive energy 🎉
If you want to fix your teeth 🦷 to upgrade your physical appearance - I say do it. But in the meantime work also on your mindset/energy/self worth etc. Because when the teeth are fixed, along with the inner work, you won’t need to “show” anyone but YOURSELF that you are indeed valuable ❤ x
Your teeth look good! And you're beautiful ❤️
how am I supposed to be feminine when I have 4x exalted venus but it's exactly conjunct my south node (and jupiter) and everything else is in aries and scorpio, plus double ruler pluto square venus, i dont feel myself when im being feminine, sometimes it makes me wanna puke
You can still be feminine. You’re just making excuses for yourself. Just because you have certain patterns doesn’t mean you can’t overcome them. Knowing and understanding your patterns is the first step.
@@ntmn8444 how is feeling alien to myself and nauseous when I'm being feminine an excuse? Better not answer at all if you're gonna be invalidating
I just love you 😅😅😅😅
Your awesome
Preach 👏👏👏👏👏👏
how to hold a man accountable
😂. Same with women though.
hi Lisa !!!u are lovely feminine and elegant ..i wanted u to know that these men the gentelman ones are too rare to find..most guys these days have become women in the western world.. real men are very unattractive which is unfortunate so i rather be alone then be with the wrong guy...pls social media made men not wanting to invest in women anymore ..old school seducation is just useless people are followers to the new era and social media... being very sexy ,mysterious , fit and attractive and being a femme fatale and feminine and having boundaries and funny and wise with sense of humor and highly creative artistic, never worked for me i tried it all..men that i want always ghost,disapear never invite me for diner or restaurant ..men who apraoch me are ugly so i went online hoping to meet someone on a dating site and its worse they just are not serious and plenty of ugly men there as well lol tell us what is the real secret to make a good looking man invest in us because i see many ugly women who have the most good looking man by their sides which i can ever understand and why the good looking women rarely can have that..
Invest in soul and confidence. That drawls people by the millions!!! It’s crazy and unbeliable!!!!! I have so many want to date me and I’m like??? What??? At my age many are ok but plenty 10 years younger interested and other really good looking men! I’m with a nice man and good looking! I had the pick of the litter like the guy I’m with but love him and our chemistry. God brought us together.
Somos muito abençoadas por recebermos a tua linda sabedoria, querida Lisa! E... que cãozinho tão fofo!! 😍🥰💛🙏😘
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Aww.❤ .. you mean enticing a man her father's age makes Amal a high value woman ?
Why is age your focus, as if she's a child? We're all adults, she's VERY grown. U seem to still have a young mind.
@@ebonyeverything2751 lol.. looks like I hit your personal chord.
@@preetisethi4929 no sweetie, this is called commonsense. It seems foreign to u. U didn't have a logical answer to my question so now you're just babbling.
@@ebonyeverything2751 ok 👍🤣
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Princess treatment??? Normal healthy treatment is what we all need to want!!!😂🤦♀️
Speak for yourself. I love it when men offer to carry things for me and do things for me. It’s nice for a change!
I find that some man will treat high value woman as princesses , but also in the same time they play with low values ladies. They are never mind to get more attention from any woman
THIS " JUNK " in your heads , brought to you women , where you are known as " " STREET STUFF " & LEFT OVERS ۔
Kind of a gold digger but whatever.
13:37 what movie is this?
Co ask
At 4:00 and 12:57 Sabrina (the original) movie with Audrey Hepburn Humphrey Bogart then 13:40 Desperate Housewives I think that’s Eva Longoria
Lisa your videos are always always helpful to me and I am really really sorry because I am too too late you are my truly truly inspiration and I will always be your supportive♥️♥️🥹😭
@@mansoor3159 Thank you beautiful ❤️❤️
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