It goes both ways. Women should avoid taking on a motherly role with their partner, and men should avoid putting women in a position where that becomes necessary.
This is excellent advice 👏 I tend to overly open up to my husband about everything I feel and bombarding him instead of maybe saving those conversations for my girlfriends.
This was a great one! Please do a deep dive into the “mothering” issue! I start off girly then it flips and I become a mother. But I think it’s because I’m picking losers
My husband did a complete career change later in life and out of everyone I was the only one who said to him to go for it and he could do it after everyone else doubted him. Well fast forward a few years and now he has his own business and now we both live a more luxurious life. Stand by your man ladies.
Sucks that women have to handle mens egos with kids gloves. I wish men and women could both coexist and both would respect each others input so we could solve problems together. But all we have are a bunch of men who get angry when a woman knows more than him and tries to teach him something.
Don't think about it like that, think about it as : men and women communicate differently and are different in their needs. The more we understand each other, the better our relationships will be 😉
Yes i agree! It's just like there are things men could say to us that we wouldn't like. There is an art to each energy and gender and these aren't rules , it's just the way things work and things that you can learn to your advantage in relationships ❤ when both energies are in harmony, the energies flourish together and work in harmony and ease ☺️🤍
men and women are not the same. think of this information as users guide. coming to men softly in our fem energy brings out their strengths and masculinity. i learned too late in life abt masculine and fem energy. i spent decades in my masculine. i attracted weak energy men and was the breadwinner in my marriage. late in life i met a masculine man who allowed me to lean back and let him lead, it felt so good!
I understand not talking about insecurities or pointing out any of your flaws. However what about talking about any health problems or mental health issues? This is real life here people 🙂
Health problem is completely different darling 😉 But as I said, your partner cannot be your therapist. You can talk with him of course, express your feelings, have compassion from your partner is something essential. What I am talking about here is when it is extreme, when you constantly talk about all of your insecurities with him.
@@Lisaglamour I agree ☝️ Lisa. Unfortunately I have seen cases where beautiful darlings are going to the other extreme and hiding certain things to give an illusion of “dream girl perfection “ and once the man discovers said “health issues” he moves on. Not in all cases, but again like I say - some real life scenarios. But since we are only ever in control of ourselves and not other people, situations like this can be difficult to navigate, but not impossible 🙏 Have a wonderful 2025 🙌❤️ looking forward to more videos x
@@lou15176if a man walks away once he finds out about your health issues then he was definitely not the right one - good riddance! 😊 this said, the sooner you tell him the truth about your health the sooner he'll be gone and you'll be better off without him, indeed
I find myself behaving perfectly in the beginning but once I'm in the relationship and really comfortable around the person I find myself oversharing stuff that I shouldn't......like past relationships or traumas or embarrassing things. Idk how to stop :"(
I understand 😊 it’s difficult to find the balance of not oversharing and not being secretive and hiding certain info. Maybe just giving little droplets of information. People need to earn trust, we don’t just give it away ❤ this is for friends also and other non romantic relationships x
@lou15176 yes Im very guarded around people normally but with my man I feel too comfortable.....and he's so understanding and caring. Some traumas and stuff come up while trying to explain certain boundaries or behaviours. Its hard to stay secretive.
@@joyrainbowdress At least you have the self awareness to recognise this about yourself 😊 we could change the narrative and call ourselves mysterious instead of secretive 🙌 But I hear you, it’s all a work in progress x
Oh, it's so true that we want to hear compliments when we express our insecurities to a man. We pretend that this is a manifestation of sincerity, but if a man is just as "sincere" with us - we will be offended. Because he also wants a woman "prize" and we want to be that prize, to feel that we are desired, not pitied.
Can you make a video on feminine gift ideas? Like small handmade gestures you can give on special occasions to your man to make him feel appreciated? I have a man who spoils me a lot but since we’re in a committed relationship now he has expressed how much he would love if I also showed love through some small gestures on anniversaries (he doesn’t want me to buy anything just make something or do something special)
Great advise Lisa. I wish I'd known all of this when I was in my 20s. Too late now I'm 66. I'm still beautiful and have had the same boyfriend for 22 years. I've been the male energy expert all my life LOL. I love you and all of your great videos!
You share such Potent material!!!! Thank you so much Lisa, I love implementing your wisdom and also find myself naturally doing some of the things you talk about already. Lots of love
Lisa i love your Videos & really do need your help🥺 i find a guy attractive and think he does have feelings for me as well.. however none of us makes the first move & i think it’s because i don’t show him how i feel about him. I live as tho he doesnt exist because im too shy to even look at him and i know body language is key because how should he understand that i like him when i don’t even give signs? Could you maybe make a Video about this topic, how to show him how you feel about him and not being so shy, while staying in your feminine Energy 🙏🏻💕
Okay besides saying insecurity what if you are going through a hard time or your period? And feel under the weather and he asks you to talk about what’s making you sad or upset or you’re not confident that day do you lie? We need advice on that
what do you consider an insecurity? i thought we build deep connection by being vulnerable? so i am confused. just superficial things like i don't think i am pretty enough? versus i am struggling with this life thing over here? i agree with being confident and not fishing for confidents. i agree with being strong and self assured. but what about being vulnerable ?
Bonjour Lisa, Je regarde vos vidéos depuis un bon moment, quand j'ai appris que vous étiez française j'ai alors décidé de vous poser une question qui me préoccupe depuis longtemps et qui est en lien avec l'expression de son essence féminine : en tant que jeune femme française, plusieurs de mes amies ont déjà souffert du harcélement de rue. Une certaine pression se fait parfois sentir et je suis parfois si angoissé que des situations similaires m'arrivent que j'ai fini par me dire que si je m'habille de façon à être à mon avantage, ou alors si je porte des jupes, vêtement qui me plaît énormément, alors je risque de devenir une cible. Hors, quand j'ai découvert votre chaîne je me suis dit qu'il était alors possible d'embrasser sa beauté et sa sensualité sans avoir peur. Ma question est donc la suivante : est ce que vous avez déjà était inquiétée par des expressions de la mysogynie et du sexisme en exprimant votre beauté ? En vous remerciant pour vos vidéos inspirantes, Flore
Même les hommes les plus grossiers feront preuve de respect lorsque votre énergie leur ORDONNE de se tenir droit. Elle dit “Soyez conscient : je donne ce que je reçois !” alors même s’ils peuvent être tentés d’agir, ils n’oseront pas faire ce genre de conneries avec VOUS.
C'est un sujet très important, merci d'en parler. J'essaye moi-même d'être à l'aise avec mon style. Petit à petit. Pour ma part, j'ai remarqué que c'est quand on est gêné ou inquiète que les regards désagréables se multiplient. Comme si les autres pouvaient sentir notre stress et nos doutes. Quand on est à l'aise et qu'on ne réfléchit pas trop à l'opinion des autres, ils nous remarquent à peine. C'est plus une question d'énergie que d'apparence physique au final.
Have any of you heard this new trend between men asking what you prefer to talk about ur emotions.. to a tree or a woman.. Guess what.. they are saying to a tree 🫢
It goes both ways. Women should avoid taking on a motherly role with their partner, and men should avoid putting women in a position where that becomes necessary.
Yes, warn them once. Anything more than that is mothering and draining yourself.
That dress is perfect for a wedding or garden party!
Please do a video on where you buy your dresses!!!
Lisa, you are such a pleasure! 🎉
Emotinal independence and intelligence is everything
I cannot stop talking It’s my problem 😂
@allofnews41 😂😂
This is excellent advice 👏 I tend to overly open up to my husband about everything I feel and bombarding him instead of maybe saving those conversations for my girlfriends.
This happens to me too! I need more girl friends lol
This was a great one! Please do a deep dive into the “mothering” issue! I start off girly then it flips and I become a mother. But I think it’s because I’m picking losers
My husband did a complete career change later in life and out of everyone I was the only one who said to him to go for it and he could do it after everyone else doubted him. Well fast forward a few years and now he has his own business and now we both live a more luxurious life. Stand by your man ladies.
@@bellsbooklover Love this ❤️🙏
He won in life ❤
THIS IS EXTREMELY HELPFUL ❤❤
Sucks that women have to handle mens egos with kids gloves. I wish men and women could both coexist and both would respect each others input so we could solve problems together. But all we have are a bunch of men who get angry when a woman knows more than him and tries to teach him something.
Don't think about it like that, think about it as : men and women communicate differently and are different in their needs. The more we understand each other, the better our relationships will be 😉
Yes i agree! It's just like there are things men could say to us that we wouldn't like. There is an art to each energy and gender and these aren't rules , it's just the way things work and things that you can learn to your advantage in relationships ❤ when both energies are in harmony, the energies flourish together and work in harmony and ease ☺️🤍
men and women are not the same. think of this information as users guide. coming to men softly in our fem energy brings out their strengths and masculinity. i learned too late in life abt masculine and fem energy. i spent decades in my masculine. i attracted weak energy men and was the breadwinner in my marriage. late in life i met a masculine man who allowed me to lean back and let him lead, it felt so good!
I understand not talking about insecurities or pointing out any of your flaws. However what about talking about any health problems or mental health issues?
This is real life here people 🙂
Health problem is completely different darling 😉
But as I said, your partner cannot be your therapist. You can talk with him of course, express your feelings, have compassion from your partner is something essential. What I am talking about here is when it is extreme, when you constantly talk about all of your insecurities with him.
@@Lisaglamour I agree ☝️ Lisa. Unfortunately I have seen cases where beautiful darlings are going to the other extreme and hiding certain things to give an illusion of “dream girl perfection “ and once the man discovers said “health issues” he moves on. Not in all cases, but again like I say - some real life scenarios. But since we are only ever in control of ourselves and not other people, situations like this can be difficult to navigate, but not impossible 🙏 Have a wonderful 2025 🙌❤️ looking forward to more videos x
@@lou15176if a man walks away once he finds out about your health issues then he was definitely not the right one - good riddance! 😊 this said, the sooner you tell him the truth about your health the sooner he'll be gone and you'll be better off without him, indeed
I find myself behaving perfectly in the beginning but once I'm in the relationship and really comfortable around the person I find myself oversharing stuff that I shouldn't......like past relationships or traumas or embarrassing things. Idk how to stop :"(
I understand 😊 it’s difficult to find the balance of not oversharing and not being secretive and hiding certain info. Maybe just giving little droplets of information. People need to earn trust, we don’t just give it away ❤ this is for friends also and other non romantic relationships x
@lou15176 yes Im very guarded around people normally but with my man I feel too comfortable.....and he's so understanding and caring. Some traumas and stuff come up while trying to explain certain boundaries or behaviours. Its hard to stay secretive.
@@joyrainbowdress At least you have the self awareness to recognise this about yourself 😊 we could change the narrative and call ourselves mysterious instead of secretive 🙌 But I hear you, it’s all a work in progress x
Hey hey Lisa!!!!! Excellent message!!!! I need to learn and apply!!! xoxo 95% of ALL women love flowers!! Enjoy your day!!!
Oh, it's so true that we want to hear compliments when we express our insecurities to a man. We pretend that this is a manifestation of sincerity, but if a man is just as "sincere" with us - we will be offended. Because he also wants a woman "prize" and we want to be that prize, to feel that we are desired, not pitied.
Can you make a video on feminine gift ideas? Like small handmade gestures you can give on special occasions to your man to make him feel appreciated? I have a man who spoils me a lot but since we’re in a committed relationship now he has expressed how much he would love if I also showed love through some small gestures on anniversaries (he doesn’t want me to buy anything just make something or do something special)
You exude grace through all your pores...I love your energy!
Great advise Lisa. I wish I'd known all of this when I was in my 20s. Too late now I'm 66. I'm still beautiful and have had the same boyfriend for 22 years. I've been the male energy expert all my life LOL. I love you and all of your great videos!
I don’t know you but it makes me happy to hear you say, you are still beautiful.
Yes, you are.
YAY 🙌 thank you for posting
Since following you I know and understand myself love you
Love your videos they always come at the right time! ❤
Lisa, this is very helpful and informative. You are 100% right!!!!❤❤❤
You share such Potent material!!!! Thank you so much Lisa, I love implementing your wisdom and also find myself naturally doing some of the things you talk about already. Lots of love
Thank you for the reminders ❤
Yeah this is literally so helpful
Why you say the past doesn’t matter? Isn’t it good to know how he was with other girls or how he sees things about women? I just suscribed!
This was amazing.
My favorite TH-camr 🩷🎀
Lisa i love your Videos & really do need your help🥺 i find a guy attractive and think he does have feelings for me as well.. however none of us makes the first move & i think it’s because i don’t show him how i feel about him. I live as tho he doesnt exist because im too shy to even look at him and i know body language is key because how should he understand that i like him when i don’t even give signs? Could you maybe make a Video about this topic, how to show him how you feel about him and not being so shy, while staying in your feminine Energy 🙏🏻💕
Great advices !!
Okay besides saying insecurity what if you are going through a hard time or your period? And feel under the weather and he asks you to talk about what’s making you sad or upset or you’re not confident that day do you lie? We need advice on that
what do you consider an insecurity? i thought we build deep connection by being vulnerable? so i am confused. just superficial things like i don't think i am pretty enough? versus i am struggling with this life thing over here? i agree with being confident and not fishing for confidents. i agree with being strong and self assured. but what about being vulnerable ?
I loveeee youuuu sooo muchhhh 💗💗
I love you too my dear ❤️❤️❤️
Need your closet 😇❤️
Bonjour Lisa,
Je regarde vos vidéos depuis un bon moment, quand j'ai appris que vous étiez française j'ai alors décidé de vous poser une question qui me préoccupe depuis longtemps et qui est en lien avec l'expression de son essence féminine : en tant que jeune femme française, plusieurs de mes amies ont déjà souffert du harcélement de rue. Une certaine pression se fait parfois sentir et je suis parfois si angoissé que des situations similaires m'arrivent que j'ai fini par me dire que si je m'habille de façon à être à mon avantage, ou alors si je porte des jupes, vêtement qui me plaît énormément, alors je risque de devenir une cible. Hors, quand j'ai découvert votre chaîne je me suis dit qu'il était alors possible d'embrasser sa beauté et sa sensualité sans avoir peur. Ma question est donc la suivante : est ce que vous avez déjà était inquiétée par des expressions de la mysogynie et du sexisme en exprimant votre beauté ?
En vous remerciant pour vos vidéos inspirantes,
Flore
Même les hommes les plus grossiers feront preuve de respect lorsque votre énergie leur ORDONNE de se tenir droit. Elle dit “Soyez conscient : je donne ce que je reçois !” alors même s’ils peuvent être tentés d’agir, ils n’oseront pas faire ce genre de conneries avec VOUS.
C'est un sujet très important, merci d'en parler.
J'essaye moi-même d'être à l'aise avec mon style. Petit à petit.
Pour ma part, j'ai remarqué que c'est quand on est gêné ou inquiète que les regards désagréables se multiplient. Comme si les autres pouvaient sentir notre stress et nos doutes. Quand on est à l'aise et qu'on ne réfléchit pas trop à l'opinion des autres, ils nous remarquent à peine. C'est plus une question d'énergie que d'apparence physique au final.
@@belladonna00en effet🎉
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@belladonna00 Que voulez vous dire ?
I love 💕 your dress
💋💖I like this video and it helps me very much 💖Thank you 🌹Making him feel so appreciated for opening the door and paying the bills ?
Thank you ❣️
Vous etes belle et tres intelligente.
A bientot.
Great video 🩷thank you
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Have any of you heard this new trend between men asking what you prefer to talk about ur emotions.. to a tree or a woman.. Guess what.. they are saying to a tree 🫢
Those are hurt men that need to do some healing.
Дякую ❤ дуже корисне відео
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Thank you ❤