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We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day. And although we’ve spent much of our history coming up with ways to detect these lies by tracking physiological changes in their tellers, these methods have proved unreliable. Is there a more direct approach? Noah Zandan uses some famous examples of lying to illustrate how we might use communications science to analyze the lies themselves.
Lesson by Noah Zandan, animation by The Moving Company Animation Studio.
Pay close attention to person's trousers. If they are in fact on fire - then you got yourself a liar.
+PufferBluntman but wait their pants are frozen? What does this mean? sh-should I call a scientist?
Pro Tip: Don't wear pants.
I never do anyways :D
Oh I see. The answer is no pants. :O
lmfao
+PufferBluntman Liar, Liar plants for hire!
Actual title: How to lie better.
No it isnt liar XD
True
Exactly what I was thinking 😂 I realised the fault in my lies through this video.
@@BeanMachine360 ik u lying
@@sultanhanga I dont belive you XD
Okay, ‘I love you’ as an example for casual lies really hit home
And it's pretty simple and with a personal pronoun
Excellent video. When we suspect a lie, I suggest we don't call it out directly, but instead call attention to the person's own role/self in the story, and ask for more details to see if they trip up. Assume good intent, but also trust your gut.
I always do the same
Can you give any example?
@@serenesoul2042if you a drink and I drank it and I asked you if this is your which doesn't look like it any more and you say no so I drink it. But later you realise...
@@thebestteacher7466 You might want to call an ambulance my man
I just let it pass tbh, if they get happy by telling a fake story then so be it.
Biggest lie during online school:
Message in the chat box: Hi, my mic does not work and my camera is broken.
BAHAHAHAHA MOOD
thats actually true for me on my computer but i do it on my ipad...
@Cara Hollis Omg that is so true
I wish my teachers would believe it but I still don’t turn them on
That was literally me.
Biggest lie in the universe:
_I have read and accept the terms and conditions_
LMAO🤣
Copied
Pretty much
Underrated 😂
i read half of both 😳
As a professional liar, this is extremely accurate. I'm learning more about myself while watching this video, and I will use the information shown here to improve my lying game.
How do I know that everything here is the truth?
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Why the f*ck you lying? Why you always lying? Oh my God! Stop f*cking lying!
😂😂😂😂
Youre a politician, a lawyer, or whatever….but your def the problem and a parasite 😂
"Above all do not lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lies comes to a point that he will not distinguish the truth within him or around him, so he will lose all respect to himself and to the others, as a result he ceases to love"
Fyodor Dostoyevsky
that sounds like a lie, given the lack of first-person pronouns and convoluted expression of a simple idea.
@@ihategooglesomuch Dostoevsky was a novelist, and in this quote, he was speaking about a character in his novel, a man. If you think that the idea of lying to oneself is simple and if you consider analyzing this profound topic a 'convoluted expression,' then, in my opinion, you have a serious lack of understanding in this matter.
@@lyovmyshkin7561 /whoosh!/
@@ihategooglesomuch I mean to squeeze out negative takes out of that quote is an ability that only a person with a very hard life can possess. I feel sorry for you.
@@lyovmyshkin7561 he was joking lol
*turns on mic* to say: sorry teacher my mic is broken
teacher: ???
You have chat box for that
Awww an innocent lie...
Teacher : hol'Up
@@edgysphere you missed the joke
The other day someone in my class put in the chat they couldn’t hear the teacher, the teacher then proceeded to scream into the mic “CaN YOU HEAR ME” I-
The most dangerous lie is when the liars don't realise they're lying to themselves.
If you earnestly believe it then it's true
Ikr
hurts different
I think the most dangerous lie is the one that hurts people. I read, " lying lips hates those that it hurts." Therefore, if a person tells a lie that hurts an individual, the person is basically saying, he/she hates you.
They're called psychological liers
My favorite way to learn a lie is to ask someone else to ask the liar the same question, like for example I had a coworker who lied time to time, and she told me she was in the hospital so couldn't come in, but when someone else asked why she didn't come in, she told a completely different story to them because her comfort level was different with them
this taught me to be better at knowing when others are lying, how to be better at lying and how to be better at making obvious lies for comedic purposes
I do this weird thing where I smile when I tell the truth (and the other person thinks I'm lying). Only because I find it funny how they think I'm lying. It's really annoying when they say "You're smiling, which means you're lying"
They always do that, and they always think they are right. But when the actual answer comes along, I was telling the truth. But they never learn
Me haha tbh its funny when they dont believe you . i thought i was the only one with this
For me it was: "You're smiling while asleep so you aren't actually sleeping."
@Rena Linton thx
Yesssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We've all told this lie:
"Sorry miss, I did my homework, but left it at home"
and if the teacher wants it tommorow, u just do it that day and u are good, plus u put last day's data
I love how we're explaining the process of us lying to our teacher
Not me
But it is frustrating that you actually do your homework and left it at home but the teacher doesn't believe you lol
DragonSoul龍 you mean wasting hours of your life
Everyone: uses these for social relationships
Me: AMONG US TACTICS
EXACTLYYY AMONG US
lying has become the norm everywhere (as a couple, in family, at work, with friends, etc.). Simply telling the truth as it is is an act of humility
Plot twist: the video is a lie.
noice plot twist mate
its actually a lie because politicians reacted differently and the speaker picked those that demonstrate its point
plot twist: the video is a cake
pot twist I unsubscribed to your channel matt
Matt3756 - Arcade Plot twist: Your comment is a lie.
"how was school today?"
"it was fine."
Nah- that comes under the can't be bothered to explain "It was fine" reply, since almost every kid probably answers like that whether or not there was any issues.
Yeah... i hate my school
@@Asmaa_311
Who doesn't?
@@user-us5kq2yv3e you're right..
Unless you get bullied, it was fine. Even if you failed a test, it was fine.
I, person in the spectrum, have been so many times accused of lying while , in my head, I’ve been doing things I think are meant to be done (masking). Makes me wonder if I’ve been lied so much that’s the behaviour I’ve picked up as neurotypical.
This seems very accurate to my experience of American culture, as one who was born and raised in the U.S.A. After living and working in Northern Tanzania for 4 years, I would also argue that these 4 signs do not help with detecting lies in Tanzania.
this means that I talk like a lier even when I am telling the truth
herrapan95 same!
Me as well.
herrapan95 I can relate. This is why even this video fails to do what it says, it doesnt help you confirm someone is lying rather helps you detect probable lies.
You mean you always speak negatively, avoid linking yourself to the situation you are discussing?
herrapan95 Which is a good thing, people can't tell when I lie.
10-200 lies a day is a very wide margin
Especially for no-lifers like me
Does depend on the people you're with
Bob Bobbington what if the person is mute? And also that person can't learn sign language (because he/she doesn't have any hands)?
You don't have to listen to lies if you don't talk to people in the first place
I recently started playing a game that is all about lying.....
This has helped me get better at lying, thank you.
I'm impressed, not only did they teach us how to more likely spot a lie, but they didn't give anyone any way to lie better
Liar.
I can say with confidence that this did not just teach me how to lie more effectively.
not really self reference
complicated message
has negative words such as "not"
i conclude that this is a lie
XD
You're lying lol
Ah yes a honest statement right here, I do not sense anything deceiving about it.
This video definitely taught me how to catch a liar
I smell lies. Or wait, that’s my lies.
You think people watch this to spot lies, lol. watching it to make lies unspottable.
me
hahhaha same thing bruh
This video would never make a person a better liar and to suppose that someone would use it to empower their own lying capabilities is not only an egregious error but is a particular offense to a personal sense of moral responsibility.
It was a joke.
+william carroll
:D
I can confidently proclaim that the above informative material provided by the Creator would and could never be used to improve lie quality by anyone
“The key to success is sincerity. If you can fake that you've got it made.” George Burns
So if I had took in all this information correctly, liars...
1. Decrease their use of personal pronouns
2. Expresses a simple idea yet makes the explanation sound more complex and long.
3. Acts more negative
Keurlock pretty much on spot now do the opposite of those things and no one will catch you.
@@thatmobiledude2679 Oh I'm not here to lie...
I'm here to catch them 😎
@@Keurlock LIE DETECTED: SIMPLE EXPLANATION
I don't know about the first thing but I'm so introverted and rational that I don't form longer sentences when I'm lying and I'm acting negative or positive depending on my mood and how interesting the topic is. I don't like lying and I try my best to not tell any lies whatsoever, but I'd say I'm still pretty good at it. (Examples for long sentences of me just displaying my thoughts; so no lying)
@@HuslWusl thats the same for me but apparently now everyone belives thar "im fine" or "sorry i fell down the stairs and so i missed the bus" are lies >:(
"10-200 lies a day" I can't imagine that much human interaction as a shut in lol
You must be living the good life then. Keep away from people.
Internet is full of lies
Lol neither. It's CoronaTime.
I think internet lies count too:)
This aged well
I really enjoyed watching this 5 and half minute video, it really helped!
The biggest flag I’ve seen when catching a liar, is if you bring something up to the person, and they deny it, and you act like you believe them and let it go, and then they act unnaturally upbeat and kinder than they usually are, that’s a big sign they were lying, and think they got away with the lie, and now they’re being overly nice because a: they’re happy they got away with their lie, and B: they’re still trying to trick you into believing their lie.
Example: a cheater is being questioned by their spouse. The cheater isn’t usually over affectionate or romantic, but you accused them of cheating, and they came up with an excuse like “I had to work overtime” or “I was out with my buddies” and the girl is like “you’re right, I’m just over reacting”
And then suddenly they’re like “it’s ok babe, I understand, you don’t need to worry, let’s cuddle xoxo”
And they’re uncharacteristically being romantic and attentive. It may seem sweet, but in reality, if someone who wasn’t cheating were suddenly accused of it, they’d instinctively get mad or at least irritated. To the younger people here, look out for this ✋🏻
Now I know how to lie better
haha so true
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Yeah, but now we know how to know you're lying, better. Gotcha
John Noecker
Still, when you know what they're looking for, it allows you to streamline the process. . no zombie staring... anything more than 5 seconds between words, not good and searching for a telaprompter when there is none also not good ... i would not.....................lie.
just like everyone else
Don’t trust people with anime profile pictures.
Congrats you created a paradox.
@@chanbricks4461 Yup !
Too bad
*MY PROFILE IS NOT ANIME* XD
No bts profile pic
Shut up weeb
Over explaining yourself or being defensive, especially when nobody actually accused you of anything is a sign a person is a liar. Also, when you tell the truth your story stays the same because you don't have to remember anything.
Thanks, I will now use this knowledge to improve my lying when playing deceit!
New title: how to be a successful politician.
underrated
Damn
UNDERRATED
straight up
psychopaths: *INVEST*
Among us players: "Write that down, write that down!"
Tru
tool for among us players....
@@2stepssane-_- soo trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
exactly what i thought while clicking on this
Lol i am watching this for among us
Let me break it up to you: there is no consensus of when a person is lying. You either assume people don’t lie or assume people are always lying. You just never really know a stranger. It may be easier with friends/family because of patterns but even then you can never really be sure. Good book to read about lying is “talking to strangers”
lifehack: be awkward all the time and people won't be able to tell the difference between you lying and telling the truth.
Is it terrible of me that I watched this to learn how to lie better? :o
nah
+Zach Miles Yes.
+Zach Miles same lol
the only thing i learned was the difrent devices used to detect lies XD
I think my lying skills just upgraded rather than to actually feel guilty lmao
This video was made to make to spot a liar, on the other hand, this video also tells you on how to become a better liar.
james jason ikr
james jason On a third hand, this video was made to make you a bad lier. On a fourth hand, this video gives you false positives of a lier.
The video may be a lie.
james jason SOO your lie in some parts
And on the 8th hand you're an octopus
james jason that's why I am watching it
When I was younger ( 6 - 18 years old ) I would lie a LOT. Now that I'm much older ( 36 years old ) I realize that my memory isn't what it used to be and I'm too lazy to lie. I just speak the truth.... Which tends to be more harmful than lying most of the time. 🤔 Well, I am who I am. 🙂
“We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day”
that was the first lie I heard today..
"Sorry my phone died"
me, who has said that many times and wasnt lying: O-O
rightttt like I have an iphone, and I love apple but their battery life suckssss
@@walliem.3319 apple fans are weird. why.. They're not worth it. they're made to work for a bit and break. just get something else
Exactly
@@magk2524 ok but imessage gc's and the software design-
Yeah
*Biggest lie*
teacher: have u understand the lesson class?
students: *yes maam* !
Dont we all?😂
Always and forever hahaha
Lol yes
Fact
I detected the lie when you said 'maam"😌✨
Thanks, today I learnt how to lie without being detected.
Thanks, this really helped me improve my lying skills👍
in other words you can make a lie look more believable by:
- using first person pronouns
- simple phrasing
- positive language
So... building a complex, realistic narrative, but in simple words, using first person pronouns, and without negative words. Got it.
And the irony is that every politician says such things every election, and after they are in office the lie becomes obvious. And yet everyone keeps voting them in.
Yep, and Trump has it down to a science. That's what years of practice will do for you.
Or by making sure your emotions fit the lie your trying to make people believe.
When you speak, speak clearly, concisely, and confidently. No matter the content of what you're saying, it's an effective rule of thumb.
my dad was always telling me that he who understands lies, understands how to lie too
edit: this comment is by far the most liked i ever had
... well i dont know.. i guess thank you xd
No wonder how I can see straight through any of my friends’ lies
@@decidueyefan3844 ikr, i could easily tell when they are lying, telling an extreme story or sth, and this is that many times i got them busted and i had proof for their lies but i never did that, well i rly think that the skill to identifie lies is more about protecting urself from those lies than identifying and reporting publicly the liars, well it satisfies me that there is another person out there identifying his friends' lies xD
@Technical ASHD 😂😂😂fun facr, its the first time i reach so many likes at a comment
So that's why people always catch me off guard with their "interesting stories".
Yeah about you being adopted (sorry)
Not me watching this before Amber’s testimony lol
I used to watch so many of your videos at school, ur amazing
This is the most watched TED-ed video.
Says a whole lot about us humans.
th-cam.com/video/FYV9Adtn2pI/w-d-xo.html
Also seems like the least useful/interesting one. Especially those politicians' qutoes. There are plenty of similar sentences that were truthful but sound similar to the lies used in this video, it's just how politicans talk.
says a lot about society
we dont want liars but we are liars
Oh wait y--
Mom: I don't lie, so you shouldn't either, okay?
Restaurant: Free meals for kids 12 and under!
Mom: SAY THAT YOU'RE UNDER 12
Me: But I thought...
Mom: NOW
that's how my mom be lowkey
Being short and having a baby face, I got free dinner till I was 12... It was only for kids under 8. Thanks mom
Exactly my dad
Me at 14: minding my own business
My dad registering at the hotel: he's 11. *RAISE YOUR VOICE SO THAT YOU SOUND 11*
Jena Park
OR GET SPANKED
Yh. My mum always says to me "Never lie because it is a big sin"... When I was 14, my mum told me to say to the bus driver I'm 8 if he ever asked wheres my bus pass
This was really good, I have learned lie detecting and i wanted to learn more and nothing said in this video was in the other stuff that i have learned whitch made this super useful
This is really helpful... Thanks for the vid... Still relevant 7 years later
Biggest lie that we have told to ourselves once:
*"I'll just watch one more video then sleep"*
That's the lie I am telling myself right now
So true XD lol lmao
Me rn I said I’m sleeping at 12 it’s now 1 😢
Here's a pro tip: when you tell the truth, tell it like that's a lie. When people realise that you tell the truth, they will assume that it's just how you speak. So, when you tell a lie, people still assume that you speak the truth.
Until one day you wake up and don't know which is the truth and which is the lie.
That's very clever deception. Have you been doing it long?
my youth was spent telling occasional really obvious and bad lies - which resulted in everyone thinking I can't lie. So when I seriously messed up, and casually feigned ignorance, everyone even mentioned how I can't lie, and I laughed about that with them. XD
That is one of my most favorite things to do, I see you are a person of culture as well
@Talaveras Hi Talaveras. If you isolate yourself you'll be seen as distant, aloof, and untrustworthy. If you want real friends, you'll have to reject tactics that make you an unknown quantity to others. Cheers, P.R.
I dunno why but I have this weird skill to be horrible at lying and at the same time, I can immediately notice if someone is lying
I hate it when I’m telling the truth but I’m smiling and laughing. Like I’m just smiling because you think I’m lying 😭
"sorry i can't come, i'm busy"
the struggles of being an introvert...
Righttttt
I'm actually busy doing nothing, and that takes a lot of time
I feel so bad now. I, once, had to refuse my best friend when she came to invite me to her birthday party just because of this.
ah yes, my biggest enemy, my own personality
That's exactly me...
Man, some people really suck at lying.
Sorry,I guess you are absolutely dandly good at knowing some stereotype.Afterall it is soo true and correct and really custom.
*famous people
Artyom Metro a
me😣
Nudedragon They Improvise a lot.
a liar watching this:
well damn thank you now I will be more careful.
"We are anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day."
Me who hasn't spoke to anyone because I have no friends:
When liars see this, they'll get better at lying.
I guess I'll get better (˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵)
@@amarisrosalette3694 same
everyone is liar.
@@godfather-gh2vq *l i e s*
The ones that are good liars don't see themselves lying. They twist the truths in their favor, not just simply lying like a child making an excuse.
This video is simple but uses words extensively. Doesn't use "I" and is quite negative.
TLDR: this video is a lie
😂😂facts.
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@@wellfolks9096 💀you just messed up my brain functions ,but somehow I know what you mean
Great now im retarted
I phone is dead
Never let the truth get in the way with a good story
So to make your lies sound more truthful:
1. Self reference more
2. No negative language
3. Complex explanations
4. Simple phrasing
If you keep a liar talking for long enough, then they will contradict themselves, sooner or later. Sooner, probably.
Facts
hah, that's where you're wrong, I use a method where I check possible combinations of words that won't trip me and psychologically makes sense in their head to the point where I need 5 seconds to process the next line of words(random facts, this is why my name is gen because I tend to use how other people think and use it against them hehe >:)
simplified:
overthinking things without anxiety
@@genthefrog18 I am very smart
If they are skilled enough they might be able to avoid that, or they can just say your asking to much questions and make you look bad
@@yespapa8102 The object isn't to interrogate. Besides, you might not know you're talking to a liar, so bombarding them with questions isn't what you'd be doing.
The fact remains that nobody's capable of sustaining a lie for any length of time... they will say something completely contradictory to an earlier statement, because it's impossible to construct a wholly fictitious universe on the spur of the moment.
That's why liars keep their relationships superficial.
Mom : I don't lie
Also mom when someone's call comes : Tell them I am not at home
She's not lying since it was an order not a statement, and only statements can be true or false. But u r lying when u say mum's not home.
YOU LIAR
Priyanka Shukla
Inspired from Diary Of A Wimpy Kid
Mote like she asked u to lie lmao
More**
@@Hamza-vm9oj LMAOOO NICE
I love when someone thinks im lying even though I am telling the truth
I have this weird reaction that when i told someone a story my body react like i actually experience that story, if i tell them a tragic lie i ended up imagining it actually happen and my heart beat become faster and i actually ended up crying and worse i cant stop it
“Liars tend to be negative because they feel guilty about lying”
Psychopaths and sociopaths: 👀
@@samaahmed4053 Your more likey to be Sociopath/Psychopath than you are to born with blue eyes.
@@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 Blue eyes are about 8% of the population while phycos and socios are total 6% so idrk i don't think so
Anxiety and depression can make someone quite negative, a negative opinion doesn't mean they are lying lol
@@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 😳 I have blue eyes
@Kokichi Oma👀
My teacher is bad at spotting liars
Me: Lies to teacher
Teacher: Okay! :D You can go.
Me: Doesn't lie
Teacher: Johanna, we all know you're lying.
I forgot I even commented this
Johanna's Stuff 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Johanna's Stuff
My teacher, right there.
Lmao
Ye
my real life is so messed up, people always think i'm lying
People with trust issues : I take this as an absolute win.
just watching this to become a better liar
Hello Kitty lol
ドルミン yup me too
Arthur Fleck same
ayyyy same
Me too
I got no time to subscribe because I have a meeting.
Was that a lie?
Mike Serota Umm,I was actually IS meeting with my CEO company in africa---I mean at afghanistan.
But you got time to comment xD
+Free Cats another lie
It doesn't really matter to me. I just thought you were being funny I guess. (free cats)
that´s such a helpful video. I´m really thankful. thanks
thanks to this channel, i have achieved _DECEPTION_ 100
Um, no I didn't watch this video just to know how to get away with lying
It comes natural for a woman to know the art of lying
I totally believe you
LeahTheMint 0 I mean I dont know...It kinda sounds like you are...but this is the internet no-one lies here right?
a3ftw bf4isgr8 nope ALOT of people lie on the internet
you need to fix your sarcasm detector
so now you know what it means when your so says: "love is occurring here..." instead of " I love you".
Ha!
+Ward Huyskes Was funny.
+Ward Huyskes hahahahahahah
+Ward Huyskes 'I'm busy.' would be 'Due to preoccupation by unforeseeable activities it isn't possible to keep any promises about doing activities other than the one currently progressing'
Thanks, now we can lie more efficiently and effectively..
Easiest way to tell a lie is to believe it yourself
Eric Mwizerwa But would it be a lie if you believed it??
yes, it is still a lie
I also am a practitioner of cognitive dissonance
It does make it much easier if you question a potential unknown motive being the reason behind your lies.
Example: I am limping because my leg hurts, but what if I have some unconscious desire for attention that is causing me to limp and feel pain. Therefore my leg mustn’t really hurt for I am only limping because of an unconscious motivation.
someone could say donald trump is a good president and believe it but its still a lie
"I forgot my assignment at home."
I'll never forget this line.
U know because of people like this I had suffered once. I had forgotten my note book at home and it was first month of school and the thought I was lieing.(it was around 3rd month then she would have understood iam a good student and iam saying truth).
Yeah man, felt that too. People should also be considerate especially if you have good records.
@CREATIVE BROs r/Ihadastroke
I once said that excuse to my teacher
While i was doing online school from home- yeah, the i realised it makes no sense LMAO
Ella, you're done. Hahaha
this talk simplified, look out for all children, women and men.
Meanwhile me : trying to learn how to lie 💀
2:36
So that man, woke up late, ran to work, but it was raining, he slipped, lightning struck and fire started, he had to avoid the fire, was physically abused, had a concussion, bit by a dog, train derailed, and a U.F.O. came down to Earth.
Employees:....
I’m not sure if he even made it to his workplace
🤣🤣🤣this comment deserves more attention
Dead Zer0 , ur right!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏
Lmao
FuzzyPineapple seems legit
Alternate title : “How to become better liars”
Couldnt agree anymore than this. Totally underated
I don’t do any of these when I lie. Sorta creepy tbh
Also keep in mind that lies are best when you believe in it yourself.
I tend to look away or around when I’m talking & my ex would always say I was lying. I wasn’t. I just do that when I’m talking. Habit.
Who else said "oof" when reading "I love you" at the beginning of the video?
me haha
Nobody
I didnt even see that or i probably forgot
Oof
Oof
The problem is that when someone tells a difficult truth, or one that seems unlikely, it will sound exactly as if they are lying according to this video. Stuff like using complicated language or not directly referencing yourself can indicate that whoever is saying it is nervous, and they would be nervous if they were telling a lie or telling a difficult truth.
|Innovation| if it's difficult, we will know that.
the video is pseudo-science, if there were ways to tell lies beyond actually discovering the truth we would surely all do that because learning of the truth through investigation can be quite difficult at times.
We also use complicated language, like the statements described in this video, in order to reduce uncertainty and prevent misunderstandings or misconstruction.
|Innovation| my brain hurts
ThePyromania13 Agree
I shifted nervously when he said "even a terrible relationship"
I feel like it just taught me how to lie:
from "that laptop wasn't played on last night"
to "I did not play on my laptop, I just felt really hot in my mattress and rolled around a lot"
We had to do a presentation in class a few years and a guy copied the transcript of this video
the teacher never found out
Oh well
Is it really still tattling if no one knows who?
Well that was years ago so it's a bit late for that :P
Farm of Potatoes hmm hats not completely accurate but I get the idea
Will Change it
Believing a lie is the truth while lying is the best way to avoid being spotted as a liar.
Plot twist: it was you
Me, who shows those signs WHILE TELLING THE TRUTH: **CONFUSED SCREAMING*
You're not the only one who does this-
Yes..this is me. If lying I'm convincing. I'm honest then no one believes
xD
Same. I give as many details as I can to prove that my story is accurate. When I’ve lied, I tried to keep it as short and simple as possible to avoid messing up. I thought everyone knew that. 🤔
Yupp
I've been with my partner over 30 yrs & not long since found out he's been lieing on one level or another for most of that time so I guess he's due an Oscar for his performance.. Certainly for longevity if nothing else
that sucks, im bummed about a friend that always does it but i couldnt imagine a partner doing that. Hope all is well
"My dog ate my homework" is a classic.😂😂
a good liar when telling a lie always thinks that it is a truth.
Basically a person who is highly intelligent and good at observation can spot a liar better.
Sushmita Oraon Nah who has time to spot a liar only people who focus on everything
I also agree
all you really have to do is convince yourself you're telling the truth, i used to do this when i was younger, would think "yea i mean it happened in my head didn't it?" also just don't think you'll get caught with your lie, its gonna make you overcomplicate things and as a result you'll have a messy story and will most likely get caught.
In this case, he is called a "fantasist". He believes in his lies.
that is what I do. I forcibly make myself believe that my lie is the truth. NO ONE HAS EVER CAUGHT ME.
That moment when you say that you've forgotten your homework at home,
and being a forgetful yet diligent student, you DID forget it, but the teacher doesn't believe you since your classmates have used that as a lie a lot of times before.
As soon as I was at home I shot a Photo and send it to the teacher.
After making it quick, hehe :)
@@aramisortsbottcher8201 Lol smart