How some friendships last - and others don’t - Iseult Gillespie

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  • @general_degenerate5902
    @general_degenerate5902 วันที่ผ่านมา +784

    Finally, making friends using the scientific method

    • @pelikan5701
      @pelikan5701 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      Now with peer-review!

    • @justenoughrandomness8989
      @justenoughrandomness8989 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@pelikan5701 it's gonna take a bit to unlock that

    • @neon_lights
      @neon_lights 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

      I give up. I will never be able to come up with a comment more humorous then this. Please leave some humour for the rest of us unfunny bunch

    • @justenoughrandomness8989
      @justenoughrandomness8989 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@pelikan5701 unfortunately it takes quite a bit to unlock this (youtube ate my previous reply)

    • @justenoughrandomness8989
      @justenoughrandomness8989 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      @neon_lights you are part of the unfunny bunch

  • @someoneelse8295
    @someoneelse8295 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +25

    instead of saying things like "why couldnt i get better friends" i started becoming a better friend even to people that didnt necessarily deserve it, and i started attracting better people

  • @Pyraticalpunk
    @Pyraticalpunk วันที่ผ่านมา +335

    I struggle a lot with missing old friends who are no longer in my life, from a happier time in my life. They're gone now, and i have new friends but i still miss them a lot

    • @michaelwinter742
      @michaelwinter742 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +35

      Sometimes, when I’m walking through art museums, I miss artwork I had just looked at. Really, though, I’m just so glad I had that beauty in my life. Maybe I’ll revisit it later and maybe I won’t. But it was beautiful.

    • @ayf_
      @ayf_ 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +23

      Same, but we are missing the past, they are different people now, and we are too

    • @Bren-dont
      @Bren-dont 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +18

      In cases where the friendship ended because we're not compatible anymore, I tend to ask myself "am I really missing my old friends or just the feelings I used to have around them?"

    • @snowwonder9814
      @snowwonder9814 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      For me, my best friends are still in my life but we all live in different places. We text literally everyday. We all know exactly what’s happening in the other’s lives. We all just sent each other Christmas gifts in the mail.
      But it’s sad not being in person as a group anymore. We met in college and so all went back to our home states after graduating in 2022.
      I am glad we are still close emotionally though, despite far distances.

    • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
      @TheStoicBeacon-TGG 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      It's understandable to miss friends who were once an important part of a happy chapter in life. Sometimes, memories seem to tie us to a version of ourselves that no longer exists, making it harder to fully embrace the present. Have you ever wondered if missing those friends is a way of missing that version of yourself? Perhaps reflecting on how you've grown since then might reveal something valuable.

  • @sor3999
    @sor3999 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +36

    1:17 Don't be shy, expect others to like you more than you think
    2:15 Companionship, have things in common
    2:36 Closeness, regularly talk to each other, spend time together, share intimate thoughts together
    3:55 Communicate problems in the friendship
    I would add to the first point, is that the point of small talk is to get to the 2nd point: find things in common. When people say they hate small talk, think, it would be SUPER WEIRD to just cold open with your life story or niche hobby.

  • @naman23109
    @naman23109 วันที่ผ่านมา +382

    some friendship last long just like the friendship between me and TED-Ed since 9 years 😊❤

  • @lovwanshichetan
    @lovwanshichetan วันที่ผ่านมา +116

    For those who are alone & want friends, one shot ans - go out.
    Detailed ans:
    • Increase your chances of meeting people or create if necessary like by visiting park or joining different classes or anywhere where you can find & meet lots of people.
    • Now the second part is very essential- have more frequent conversation bcz meeting only isn't just fine.
    I hope, some of you will be able to find really good friends.
    ~ All the best ;)

    • @turtle360
      @turtle360 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

      This was actually more helpful that the entire video. Thank you.

    • @SkyGuardianHelmet
      @SkyGuardianHelmet 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's the tough part. I really rate my likeability low I mean really low... so it's tough starting a conversation. I sometimes ignore people just because of this. I was considered rude in college for that😭

    • @hashblack11
      @hashblack11 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@SkyGuardianHelmetIts ok, you're not alone in this. Join some clubs or communities based on your interests, interact more within your neighborhood, people like you more than you think, dw you'll definitely find your people, stay blessed nanba 🤍

    • @lovwanshichetan
      @lovwanshichetan 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SkyGuardianHelmet also add to @hashblack11 's ans, start reading some books & practicing way to communicate like in front of mirror, talking to self.
      Some books i find that can be recommended: Daring Greatly, The Gifts of Imperfection, How to Win Friends and Influence People

    • @boingyboop4960
      @boingyboop4960 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Friend making tip: join a group or a club where most people don’t already know each other, then when everyone in the group is having a nice conversation, offer to make a group chat. That way you can get everyone’s numbers and stay in touch with people, even after the group or club is no longer together. If you’re not comfortable making the group chat yourself, you can just suggest it, but I find the best way to make it actually happen is to do it yourself. It also allows you to create group hangouts and stuff outside of the club

  • @channyt8818
    @channyt8818 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    One year I was pretty isolated and talked only at work or towards my parents occasionally. When I met my current friends, it's like I completely transformed into a person. Conversationally, emotionally, and I looked forward instead of dreading tomorrow. It truly makes a world of difference to have a friend.

  • @Ttienhoang
    @Ttienhoang วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    I just ended things with a friend I once thought our friendship would last forever. Cause I truly appreciated our relationship and was grateful to have known him. But now, everything has stopped…
    Seeing this video reminded me of my old close friends. I miss you all so much and always wish you happiness in life 💛

    • @eaaea-o6z
      @eaaea-o6z วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Don't you want someone else?

    • @Ttienhoang
      @Ttienhoang วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@eaaea-o6z maybe, maybe not

    • @idib1739
      @idib1739 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      If he was a male and you're a female keep in mind that male/female friendship is bound to be ambiguous...

    • @moonimochi
      @moonimochi 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@idib1739oh lord how do I-
      Ok. Sure. Please reconsider.

    • @eaaea-o6z
      @eaaea-o6z 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yes..I don't want it to be open 🖤​@@idib1739

  • @choeyoonsun1
    @choeyoonsun1 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    People including friends come and go for reason or season. It's not possible to maintain lifelong friendship without the same commitment from others.

  • @All.The.Wonderful.Places
    @All.The.Wonderful.Places วันที่ผ่านมา +202

    HOW DOES TED ED READ MY MIND EVERY DAMN TIME???!

    • @babarazamsucks
      @babarazamsucks วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same with me although I’ve never had any friends.

    • @primenumberbuster404
      @primenumberbuster404 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Can I know the source of your pfp?

    • @lovwanshichetan
      @lovwanshichetan วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That's your delusion..

    • @lovwanshichetan
      @lovwanshichetan วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Sry fed, you won't get TedEd's like for that..

    • @skdhak739
      @skdhak739 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😂 ​@@lovwanshichetan

  • @DianeCooperTW
    @DianeCooperTW วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    A lot of friendship at least in my case ended simply because life happened. People after highschool and neighbours moving to different places getting jobs etc. it becomes difficult to maintain certain friendships

  • @mfznal-hafidz8592
    @mfznal-hafidz8592 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    For me, making a friend is easy, just small chit-chat with stranger is the way but not for making best friend. Making best friend really takes a long time.

  • @harvs626
    @harvs626 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    5 years ago, i dedicated myself to improving my charisma. That has helped me throughout the years in never feeling alone and finding genuine connections. The type of connections that these friends constantly offer themselves as a resource, from companionship to acts of service and gifts that I has been extremely helpful. One of the things that has been mentioned in this video is the acceptance prophecy. I always enter social settings feeling that I will be liked but I have to make sure to keep my ego very low and treat my peers with importance. Practicing this early on will incrementally improve your charisma. As you continue doing this, your confidence improves gaining you the natural ability to be likable.

  • @celesteseto8617
    @celesteseto8617 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +26

    I have extreme trust issues since high school because I had my group of friends since elementary school all the way up to high school, and literally the first friend I made was the first one I separated from. Whenever I just sit in class, just existing, not contributing to any conversation, that “friend” would just criticize the way I look and dress, and bring up my name just to say bad things about me in front of me. We were friends for about 10 years, and it wasn’t until year 7 that I could sense she was jealous of me. She was saying all those things to make herself look better than me. Later I texted her how I felt about her comments, but instead she blamed me for feeling that way. Now I have cut ties with her, but unfortunately she’s friends with all of my friends, and now they’ve become even more drawn to her. Even my best friend who originally had beef with her ever since elementary school had became very close with her only 1 year after her and I separated. And all of those friends I’ve had since elementary school, I’ve given them so much yet they give me nothing. Whenever I try to talk to them about my day, especially when I’m feeling down, they all want to run away. So whenever people tell me now I should go make friends and meet people, I tell them “No, I’m good”.

    • @madamemotarey
      @madamemotarey 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

      I'm sorry you went through that. I believe you can find the right people when you're ready :)

    • @celesteseto8617
      @celesteseto8617 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@madamemotarey Thank you 🥹 I hope I do.

    • @boingyboop4960
      @boingyboop4960 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      It sounds to me that your other friends believed what your old friend was telling them about you, rather than what they already knew about you. It’s unfortunate how people’s perception can be tainted in such ways, but I’m sure they’ll be someone out there who will be able to see you for who you truly are and actually value you as a friend. It might be wise to search outside of that friend group, where people are less likely to have heard false negative rumours about you, and more likely to be more open minded.

  • @sketchyskies8531
    @sketchyskies8531 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I tried reaching out to an old high school friend awhile ago, and she never answered my message. As sad as I am that we aren’t close anymore, I’ve accepted that the times we did have were happy

  • @arjunbhowmik1793
    @arjunbhowmik1793 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    My friends were totally toxic and judgmental, they always making fun of me infront of other friends, being alone is the best choice

  • @FirstlyMe
    @FirstlyMe 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +38

    I have extreme trust issues since I had a lot of fake friends growing up, hence I don’t have friends.
    Well, at least I don’t need to worry about betrayal and favors ykyk.

  • @BassBoosted33
    @BassBoosted33 วันที่ผ่านมา +762

    me watching this video having a total of 0 friends

    • @stardust5066
      @stardust5066 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

      Yo learning to be a good friend is primarily for YOU! It's good to be a good friend❤ whenever it may happen.

    • @stardust5066
      @stardust5066 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      But I understand really

    • @prakashkokkad8655
      @prakashkokkad8655 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Same here

    • @osmancavdur6144
      @osmancavdur6144 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂😂

    • @iamuga965
      @iamuga965 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      For real me too

  • @JohnSmith-yz7uh
    @JohnSmith-yz7uh 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Reaching out to my friends sometimes feels like an uphill battle. I text them and the dont text back or never text me first some day. I feel like a burden on them, due to low self esteem and eventually stop reaching out. Later i feel lonely if i find out i was left out of a activity because i didnt reach out, which feeds the cycle of not being wanted in the group, loosing touch with them even more. Its hard for me.

  • @Adventurealliancekerala
    @Adventurealliancekerala 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    The roots of true friendship grow deeper with time, yielding a harvest of trust and love.

    • @sagnikkundu89
      @sagnikkundu89 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

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  • @corymorimacori1059
    @corymorimacori1059 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    “Ooh, you make me live, whatever this world can give to me. It's you you're all I see. Ooh, you make me live now, honey, ooh, you make me live
    … Oh, you're the best friend that I ever had. I've been with you such a long time, you're my sunshine and I want you to know that my feelings are true,I really love you. Oh, you're my best friend.” Queen

    • @ephemerameera
      @ephemerameera วันที่ผ่านมา

      song..?

    • @corymorimacori1059
      @corymorimacori1059 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ best friend by Queen. Do listen to it, it’s a classic.

    • @ephemerameera
      @ephemerameera วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@corymorimacori1059 i thought u were writing a poem at first lol. but thank u, i will!! :D

    • @Ann963
      @Ann963 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ephemerameera Queen wrote it in the style that it is (which is quite different than their other songs) as an homage to the style of Elvis since they were big fans of him, especially Freddie Mercury as I understand. ❤

  • @justfrolikin
    @justfrolikin วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    I desperately want close friends 💔

    • @Killer_Queen_310
      @Killer_Queen_310 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      love your art

    • @justfrolikin
      @justfrolikin วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Killer_Queen_310 aw thank you

    • @kumaarvl6601
      @kumaarvl6601 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm Here my friend 🫂

    • @kumaarvl6601
      @kumaarvl6601 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    • @robertzakaria8526
      @robertzakaria8526 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Seek up a local church.

  • @MsWinterlife
    @MsWinterlife 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Excelling academically in school made me a target for bullies and I had no friends growing up, so I had to made do with my imaginary friends just so that I could still have conversations and practice social interactions. It seems to have worked out pretty well, because although I’m no longer at the receiving ends of constant sabotage, isolation and exclusion, I feel contented just being alone most of the time while still functioning ok in social situations. I have many colleagues and acquaintances, one or two friends that I keep in touch with once every few months, and a wonderful soul mate that fulfills all my emotional needs and helps me become a better version of myself every day. So I would say my life is happier than many people who are surrounded by meaningless associations out of convenience rather than deep connections.

  • @13milespergallon63
    @13milespergallon63 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +16

    The "Liking Gap" huh. I always though it was my terrible self esteem.

  • @shubhangikundu2827
    @shubhangikundu2827 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    My FBI agent working double time to help me out

    • @lovwanshichetan
      @lovwanshichetan วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      😂😂 that was hilarious..

  • @exethanter6124
    @exethanter6124 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Neuroscience has shown how our brain forms a sort of network with our friends, and we see and experience the world through this network. That's why a loss of a friend feels like a piece of you is missing.

  • @idib1739
    @idib1739 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    It is much harder to forgive a friend than a foe, ironically. This is why mending strained friendships is not something most people want to do to begin with.🤷‍♂

  • @nodrance
    @nodrance 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    who would've thought, the key to friendships, just like every other interpersonal relationship, is clear, open, honest, and respectful communication

  • @snowjae9380
    @snowjae9380 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    Communication is the most important skill with keeping good relationships. We can’t read minds, people!

    • @sor3999
      @sor3999 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I wish the friends I lost would've said something if they had a problem with me. I just texted them one day and never heard back. Repeat a few more times and I accept I've been ghosted for whatever reason. We regularly spent time together and I'd say we were really close, perhaps I wore out my welcome. I still have other friends who aren't as close and now I hesitate to try to be closer.

  • @shubhamtariyal439
    @shubhamtariyal439 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    ""Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.""
    ~ For those missing old friends and old times

  • @a.m.d.5154
    @a.m.d.5154 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    2:30 Yeah, I ship these two.

    • @fury_furry
      @fury_furry 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lmao

  • @dharmrajmaurya715
    @dharmrajmaurya715 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good Friends....one thing that no one can replace.
    Thank you TED-ED

  • @xXxluigimaster69xXx
    @xXxluigimaster69xXx วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    there's a thin line between a friend ship, and a foe boat

  • @ashraryeakin
    @ashraryeakin วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You can also try telling a girl that you've feelings for her. You'll be the greatest friend she ever had.

    • @devinmes1868
      @devinmes1868 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      LOL That's actually pretty funny. Kudos.

  • @superkiller5002
    @superkiller5002 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You'd think Ted Ed would've been a constant in your life that would have never changed; then they hit you with the "Goat no cap"

  • @ayeshaimranx
    @ayeshaimranx 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Okay that point about struggling with friends in teenage years hit hard cause i felt so bad for feeling that way, and even tho those feelings were unhealthy, Im glad I made out of it in a good way.

  • @syabilaazri7834
    @syabilaazri7834 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Alright Princess Twilight Sparkle, let learn about friendships....

  • @ThatOneGammaRay
    @ThatOneGammaRay 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lotta people need this right now

  • @askosefamerve
    @askosefamerve วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I have a 7 people friend group.. After 5 years you guys stick like glue or family.. 😂

  • @josheennisperos6573
    @josheennisperos6573 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    One of the greatest videos this channel produced. Please have these kinds of contents that foster positive outlook

  • @daeryssa9737
    @daeryssa9737 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is a great video!
    I have managed to maintain some contact with a few friends. I also have a close friend because we remain in contact more often because we have common interests.

  • @M4YO-p7s
    @M4YO-p7s 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I always struggle with maintaining friendships. As for myself I'm confident enough to talk with new people and get to know them, but i find it extremely hard to make them more comfortable with me....if tht make sense

  • @austinhernandez2716
    @austinhernandez2716 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +40

    "Just talk to people"
    Me, with social anxiety and selective mutism...

    • @Pho5phoru5
      @Pho5phoru5 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Have you considered some sort of class specifically chosen to help with that? There are a lot of different activities that could work, e.g. improv comedy, dancing, painting... anything that you'd find interesting with the chance to talk to other people. I've recently started Toastmasters (public speaking) which has been great since most people there are in the same boat to overcome stage fright. It's not easy at first but with practice you can definitely improve - exposure therapy is scary yet over time it gets easier and easier. Just keep at it

    • @austinhernandez2716
      @austinhernandez2716 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Pho5phoru5 I've tried everything. I took public speaking class. As a musician, I had to take 4 sight singing classes. I had to take conducting class. I've had tons of exposure, including many trips like two long trips across the world. None of that helped. I started taking medicine recently, maybe that will. Exposure has done little.

    • @boingyboop4960
      @boingyboop4960 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe you could try clubs like painting or drawing, something where talking might be less forced and more natural. If you’re not comfortable communicating verbally, you could perhaps pass notes to communicate, or show some people what you’re making or doing to spark conversation.

  • @forhadrh
    @forhadrh 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes the problem isn't with making friend, it's about finding good people worth enough to make as friend.

  • @coolberry3928
    @coolberry3928 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    The timing of this video. Was just moping over lost relationships.

  • @rianryan537
    @rianryan537 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This video popped out just when I have been struggling from a friendship breakup...

  • @alfrancisbuada2591
    @alfrancisbuada2591 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have 1 friend. But he's always busy. Maybe, when he gets back I can use this to be a better friend for him.

  • @gloriamasia
    @gloriamasia 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    After losing my best friend forever , here I am . I miss you gogi

  • @jangzhang7323
    @jangzhang7323 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Friendships are the best.
    You can steer them in the open water and feel the ocean breeze.

  • @gneu1527
    @gneu1527 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have the devious urge to send this to my short-fused/short-tempered friend

  • @The2Cat7Guy
    @The2Cat7Guy 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's sounds so easy to just make friends... I liked the animation on the video :)

  • @aloysiusbrown7233
    @aloysiusbrown7233 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Just yesterday, I had a fight with a friend over a misunderstanding. Now I am afraid that the friendship is over and it is so painful. I am trying to repair things and I wish I could take back the words I said. Hindsight is 20/20 I guess😢

  • @RudraneelDas-i3y
    @RudraneelDas-i3y 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    i used to study in a hostel ( a residential school) which was great... 125 batchmates living together,
    but by the end of the school we realized that- well, everything is about to fall apart, and yeah, everything actually did... sometimes freindship is the ultimate sacrifice to make which is kinda sus

  • @Simon28250
    @Simon28250 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I needed this because sometimes I think to myself if im actually a good friend 👍

  • @4.30gangCorpofficial
    @4.30gangCorpofficial 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I really love ted ed

  • @kirbymarchbarcena
    @kirbymarchbarcena 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Make new friends but keep the old,
    One is silver, the other is gold.

  • @anwarfellahi3673
    @anwarfellahi3673 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    feeling rejected each time diminich your desire to even try, do I even need friends?

    • @turtle360
      @turtle360 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes.

  • @user-qx9ks5sg9s
    @user-qx9ks5sg9s วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    beautiful animation as usual

  • @devesh1011
    @devesh1011 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    How can people not have friends? Like looking at the comments people saying they have 0 friends! How's it possible

    • @floof6896
      @floof6896 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      they spend too much time on social media

    • @thethrowbackguy4319
      @thethrowbackguy4319 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Right?!

  • @RichardHannay
    @RichardHannay วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for being a friend…

    • @skyeblauBK
      @skyeblauBK วันที่ผ่านมา

      Traveled down a road and back again

    • @alithemathguy
      @alithemathguy 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@skyeblauBKyour heart is true

  • @MunnaMobile000
    @MunnaMobile000 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    the animation is just so darned cute

  • @SHINICHI1412MS
    @SHINICHI1412MS วันที่ผ่านมา

    You has all the answers ted ed

  • @BuildinWings
    @BuildinWings 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Working in old folks' homes will give you a different perspective on friends, family, and their sustainability. It's not cheerful.

  • @nighttimedreamerzz1111
    @nighttimedreamerzz1111 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    If you’re always the one reaching out that should tell you something by itself.

    • @giuseppeagresta1425
      @giuseppeagresta1425 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not necessarily

    • @devinmes1868
      @devinmes1868 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @giuseppeagresta1425
      Friendships should never be one-sided

  • @eugene531
    @eugene531 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @gailaltschwager7377
    @gailaltschwager7377 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!

  • @Deepthi_MKG
    @Deepthi_MKG 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    No one has time to make deep relationships nowadays. Superficial connections are more easy. You don't have to go through the pain of commitment or sincerity. Being on "hi-bye" terms reduces the pressure of commitment. Nowadays it is easy to replace everything: the phones, vehicles, houses and even relationships, I guess. Gone are the days of meeting people and sharing stuff. Who needs people when you have the social media. Social media makes you less social in real life. Forge virtual connections that can be lost at the change of an account. Less effort, less hassle, less responsibility.

  • @kopalvashisth5063
    @kopalvashisth5063 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Great video! ❤

  • @MissNulis
    @MissNulis 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    "friendship helps with academic performance" -> depends on who your friends are ahahahaha.. but definitely they add spices to life!

  • @Xayne...
    @Xayne... วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    3:46 this literally happen to me

    • @sor3999
      @sor3999 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It's a true test of friendship. Perhaps they never thought of you that close and perhaps you misjudged things. One rule I have is you match people's energy, and if you feel closer than they do to you, you need to back off and place them further out in your circle as they have with you.

    • @Xayne...
      @Xayne... 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @sor3999 Thanx, I realized I can be a little bit naive, it was a hard pill to swallow but I guess I needed, I realized I don't have that group of friends

  • @Sandeep-p4z
    @Sandeep-p4z 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Talking to new person each day, sounds good to me..

  • @kawtharasmamahboubi2451
    @kawtharasmamahboubi2451 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Practice is much harder than theory

  • @mrdlir6298
    @mrdlir6298 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just what I needed ( I lost all my friends yesterday)

    • @turtle360
      @turtle360 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      What happened?

    • @vivekthombare9967
      @vivekthombare9967 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      What happened?

  • @Gunjanjain6527
    @Gunjanjain6527 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Even friends with benefits are useful to grow

  • @عبدالعزيزألأزرق-و5ي
    @عبدالعزيزألأزرق-و5ي วันที่ผ่านมา

    Extremely flawless

  • @10_ashutosh_01
    @10_ashutosh_01 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    enough "sweetness" for today.....

  • @mdakbor1106
    @mdakbor1106 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +71

    the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored

  • @syedmahdi3254
    @syedmahdi3254 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love iseult gillespie

  • @pluriversus
    @pluriversus 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Do you use your keyboard one octave lower by default, right? Why do you think it is a better setup? Thank you!

  • @vinceallermo9634
    @vinceallermo9634 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Me watching this video after my close friend just left me (7 close friends left me ever since grade 3)

  • @intheshell35ify
    @intheshell35ify 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Don't stop drinking at 42. 😔

  • @Booren
    @Booren 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    What is a friend ?

  • @AlfredoPuente8
    @AlfredoPuente8 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Just be like Koldo García, he pays thousands to his friends. All his salary is shared with his friends.

  • @caterinagargiulo
    @caterinagargiulo วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is interesting

  • @lavatr8322
    @lavatr8322 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Lol I'm now used to Being alone and aloof 😂

  • @omerfarukbykl6097
    @omerfarukbykl6097 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I liked the video but now, after finishing, I can't recall any tip or guide to keep friendships or make them last. I guess it wasn't a comprehensive tutorial or guide or wasn't practical enough or it was vague.

  • @niara6
    @niara6 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My friend circle is non-existent 😂

  • @KIKAN_THE_RAT
    @KIKAN_THE_RAT ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I think you forgot the most important one, NEVER ASK OR LEND MONEY TO YOUR FRIENDS EXPECTING TO GET IT BACK

  • @DiyaDutta13
    @DiyaDutta13 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I want a good friend 😇🤞

  • @baristasimmer
    @baristasimmer วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We are our worst critics.

  • @mariachiarabisti570
    @mariachiarabisti570 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anaïs Nin ❤

  • @ParadoxProblems
    @ParadoxProblems 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Cool, now to find 1 new person every day to talk to.

  • @ragingbull6887
    @ragingbull6887 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm far from alone

  • @a_weird_mess3
    @a_weird_mess3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How do I make friendships last if I don’t have friends? ☹️😔

    • @prash9650
      @prash9650 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Hey

  • @brettito
    @brettito 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You're my best friend TH-cam Channel.

  • @vladimirjar3800
    @vladimirjar3800 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    MAYONNASE!

    • @mayonnaiseeee
      @mayonnaiseeee 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      …hello there 😊

    • @vladimirjar3800
      @vladimirjar3800 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@mayonnaiseeee HAHA WHAT A COINCIDENCE TO FIND THIS ON A VIDEO ABOUT FRENDSHIP!

    • @vladimirjar3800
      @vladimirjar3800 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      MAYONNASE!

  • @aislin7388
    @aislin7388 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    There is an “end” in the word “friend” LOL

  • @callmethecommentcountess9329
    @callmethecommentcountess9329 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That’s the truth

  • @bensoncheung2801
    @bensoncheung2801 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @de1sh
    @de1sh 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bro wrote "According to science" in case something goes wrong then you can blame science not them.