ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 มิ.ย. 2024
- Are you looking for tips on understanding others better and their behavior? If psychology has taught us anything, it’s that people are complicated. While there’s no quick and easy way to assess a person’s true character and motivations, there are a few tips and tricks that can help you gain insight into someone's mind. We've made a list of a few things you didn't know that can tell you a lot about someone. If you're interested in things like human behavior and body language, we've recently released a video on body language. You can check that out after this video: • 19 Things Body Languag...
#things #behavior #psych2go
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Naphia
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Foley, G. N., & Gentile, J. P. (2010) Nonverbal Communication in Psychotherapy. Journal of Psychiatry, 7(6); 38-44.
Golbeck, J., Robles, C., & Turner, K. (2011). Predicting personality with social media. Journal of Personality Psychology, 13(28): 253-262.
Howlett, N., Pine, K. L., & Fletcher, B. (2013). The Influence of Clothing on First Impressions: Rapid and Positive Responses to Minor Changes in Attire.
Journal of Fashion Marketing & Management, 17(1); 38-47.
Rentfrow, P. J., & Gosling, S. D. (2003). The do re mi’s of everyday life: the structure and personality correlates of music preferences. Journal of personality and social psychology, 84(6), 12-26.
Swanson, W. (2005). Unwritten Rules of Management. Simon & Schuster; New York, NY.
Thayer, S., & Schiff, W. (2017). Eye-contact, facial expressions, and understanding other forms of nonverbal communication. Journal of Social Psychology, 95(1), 117-124.
Have feedback or want to be a part of our mission? Contact us at editorial@psych2go.net
"The way they dress"
Bruh then I'm giving mixed signals everyday
Lmao same
Me too
Saaame
I dress like a princess then goth then tomboy then to slut goes in a circle
I was like that in high school. Keep 'em guessing! :D
“Narrowed eyes show that the other person may be threaten or suspicious of you”
.......it’s not like that, I just forgot my glasses
😂😂😂... Or asian✌️
OMG I CAN RELATE TO THIS ON A PERSONAL LEVEL and people just look at me funny 😂
joel santiago im asian and forgot my glasses
Nah comon I know that isn't the reason I stopped squinting long ago because it does absolutely nothing for me when i don't have my glasses... Oh wait I'm projecting my apologies carry on.
@@ana7icia I'm Asian too 😚😉
You forgot the most important one: how they treat their "loved" ones. It's easy to be nice to a stranger for a moment. But how do they treat people behind closed doors? That's what I'm looking for.
@@tokyo7012 Not necessarily, people who are extra nice to you just like you as a person.
It's when they make excuses for hurting you or others that you can tell weather or not they are a good person.
Narcissism, look it up, learn about it, you won't regret it.
Yaa...💯% Rit That, How They Act In Their Own Den😏
So true, I know people who seemed so nice when I met them once or twice and then when I saw how they talked to their partners and family and yeah I think I developed trust issues.
the closet one will be the one who really make us realise what kind of person we are
1. Body language
2. Social Media
3. The way they dress
4. Taste in music
5. How they treat strangers
6. How they make eye contact
7. The shopping cart theory
I am finding this comment thanks💜💜💜
@@pariot7953 im finding the same jej
I love how this advises us to casually stalk people on socials for insight about them.
But I don't like music at all :(
Thanks
-Why did you break up with him?
-He didn't return the shopping kart.
Pppftt
th-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/w-d-xo.html done that
I'm not in the market for people who don't return shopping karts!
@@poojabhandaari Don't advertise. iz rood.
Who steals a shopping cart. And how do you fit that thing in a car anyways
You forgot one: how they treat animals. An animal abuser is a deal breaker for me
I knew my boyfriend was Right when my cat chose him. How people relate to animals is so important.
Nixand Breant yes indeed
What if ur a bit shy bc animals are kinda unpredictable but still like to pet them? :3 (totally asking for a friend 😅)
@@BlueStar4040 Then I can tell you're shy but probably nice. X3
@@nixand_brennt the thing is im not shy to people at all
But there's this one cat whi always hissed at me bc she ONLY trusted the owner... Thats why im kinda intimidated XD
My friends cat LOVES me tho
Important to note that body language doesn’t express the same way in everyone.
For one person a closed position may be defensive, for another it can be self-soothing/comforting, which has in itself nothing to do with being defensive.
A note about eye contact: People with ADHD, such as myself, MAY sometimes find it difficult to focus on what your saying if we are making eye contact rather than looking elsewhere or looking around. This is not true for everyone with ADHD, however it is true for some, so I just wanted to let you all know that, just so you know there are other causes for lack of eye contact.
Yes. I also find that my Aspergers friend doesn’t make eye contact, yet is fully engaged in the conversation. I found this uncomfortable, but once my friend was diagnosed, it made perfect sense.
I have ADHD and I struggle with knowing how much eye contact is too much. It feels weird after a few words and I need to look away, but you’re right, it can definitely be easier to focus when not directly looking at the person talking to you.
I do the same thing when finding veins on patients in the hospital. I rarely look at their arms and hands until I clean them and actually go to stick. My fingers feel the veins easier when I’m not watching them. Lmao
I came here to say that this works only in neuro typical people, with people ADHD and people in the autistic spectrum you might confuse the lack of eye contact with lack of interest. I’ve learned to mostly mask this, but I’d rather not look people in the eye, so actually I have less eye contact with people I’m more comfortable with and I mask it so well that people I just met no longer notice this
I lack eye sometimes, but still listen to what the person is saying
I think this is very important to say. It may be difficult to make eye contact for people with ADHD and/or people on the autistic spectrum.
Please take this into account, it is not a sign of not paying attention or lack of interest.
Their favorite soup can tell you a lot about a person, for example, it can tell you what their favorite soup is
Edit: this is the first popular comment on this account and every reply is a notification oh god oh fricc
*GASP* why have I never thought of this???
Psychologists: that'll be 200 bucks
So inspirational
What if you don't like soup
@@AnApple-xg8lm Death.
Hold up, y’all don’t return the shopping cart? There’s people who don’t do it?
I see it all the time. Lazy bastards who either leave them in the car park or on the pavement and just walk away as if it's a normal thing. It makes me want to plant my foot in their ass and make them do it, or take the trolley they left and slam it into their car so it doesn't happen to someone else.
i ve been kind to waiters until I noticed that in years it was worth nothing and none was nice to me back......
@My Subliminal Results If you're too dense to extract your answer from the wording of my reply, it would be a waste of my time to make any attempt at explaining it.
Your "lmao" itself shows you really don't give a damn as to any real reason, you just wanted to ridicule me and find something to use as ammunition. Well...forget it.
Laugh until your head falls off for all I care. Your ceasing to exist would be nothing but one less puss filled carbuncle on the ass of society.
The carts are inside my supermarket, and nowadays the spacing is too small to be able to walk through all of the people with more carts while theyre waiting, so my mother tells me to leave it in a place where someone else can take it while shopping and it wont be too too inconvinient for others to move around. Even though this isn't the best reason, at least i havent seen a cart left by someone else or my family in the middle of a spot where lots of people walk around
I dont do it because workers always help me load stuff into my car and they just take it back with them
As a senior citizen w a handicapped sticker for parking, I consider it a God send to find a cart nearby to help assist me to walk into the store.
I really like the shopping cart part. As a child, I always wanted to return the cart and now as a teen I still wanna return the cart. I find it really fun if I’m honest.
ever tried shopping cart curling? its so fun.
@@user-we7go7ed3l ngl no idea what that is
I return the cart just so I can run with it and crash it into the other carts lol
“The way you treat strangers...”
We’re all looking at you, Karens.
Lmao
@SlovesL You made me laugh so hard I snorted 😔... _Thank You!_ 😁
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 stop it lol
This is the funniest comment i have ever seen *likes
th-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/w-d-xo.html hahaha
I'm really loving the plant thingies on the characters' heads
Want the plush?
Same!
@@Psych2go I do!
Its so cute right 😆
@@pastorjoelosteen8488
let me guess you're a scam bot
Some people smile for no reason, even if they're talking about something terrible. It's bizarre. Look at people's eyes and ignore their mouths, to tell if they're really smiling.
Yea I have a habit of smiling when I'm talking about something sad or experiencing something sad/bad and people often get sketched out.
My dog died and when I found out I started smiling. Of course as soon as I was alone, I started crying.
@@sibilansnel Why, though?
@@JohnSmith-td7hd im not sure myself but maybe it has to do with blocking pain or just not wanting to cry in front of parents. I felt more empty than sad though.
@@sibilansnel I have the same problem, I hate being an open person ESPECIALLY to parents, I just act surprised then when I’m alone, I let it out, I thought nobody was like me lol!
Long story short: If you're an INFJ, mimic yourself. We're hard to get to know, but in a fun way (said as an INfJ). We're weirdos, not unfriendly.
im an infj too, how can i mimic myself if in already myself?
Laura, I prefer to think of us as UNIQUE.
Have a good one Laura.
@@sahar1213 Honestly, I read this back and have no idea - I was in the hospital when I wrote this and on an opioid for pain. I'm thinking I was super out of it. lol.
@@lauraburk4304 lmao
@@lauraburk4304 😂😂
Watching this makes me feel like an alien studying for an exam on how to be human.
Didn't need to call me out like that
Hahaha that's hilarious.
What does it mean if they have a slick American accent
YES!!!
Truth
"If someone is rude to a stranger, is a mean person"
Me: a Karen.
Not this Karen. 😇😘
my mom does that oof-
Lol
@Starla Barr An Entitled person I think
@Starla Barr - "a woman perceived as entitled or demanding beyond the scope of what is appropriate or necessary. A common stereotype is that of a white woman who uses her privilege to demand her own way at the expense of others"
"There is nothing to gain from returning a shopping cart" . Sure there is : 1 euro.
mood
Just keep in mind, these are opinions. People do these various things for several reasons, i.e. the crossing arms, doesn't always mean defensive, it can also be boredom, or just self control whilst waiting, as the person doesn't succumb to their child like desires to have to be entertained or engaged at all times, it's a great way to keep from touching things in a public place, which is something most people should learn to practice.
Me: “why am I always the weirdo who returns the cart?” Psych: cause you’re a decent person 🤗
Of course. Here's a hug :)
I appreciate you
You are “decent kind and courteous!” ☺️
Always thought I was the only one :)
Well I return them because I want my coin back...
The way you treat strangers is such a huge indicator of character. The world would be a better place if we could all be a bit kinder.
Yes Nicole!
true
Nicole Durango I agree 100%.
Absolutely 💗
When your awkward and shy in public it's harder to even make eye contact with strangers lmao
You can learn a lot about someone when they’re going through something tough, such experiences usually require you to drop whatever persons or phase you’re in and show your true self
I LOVE the waiter rule!! You really can tell a lot about a person by how they treat waiters, house keepers, massage therapists!! :) ..and it’s soooo hard for me to keep eye contact too long!! I lose my train of thought if I’m talking! And I LOVE the shopping cart test!! Spot on!! LOVE you guys and this beautiful channel!!!! You are planting seeds of kindness!!!
This is true , went on a job interview and he kept harassing the waiter this and that. Too needy IMO
@@m.kastro591 soooo sad!!! Can’t we just all go back to kindergarten and be kind?? Hey happy new year!🎊
If body language counts,it shows a persons intentions,an insight into the human psyche,what you wear what you say how you act,shows what you are influenced by,why people are shy,it's recognisable,if their kind or not,the first impression could effect the relationship💥💲❌
Hi@@Jackgritty28!! Beautifully said!!
Do you ever see people not put back their shopping cart? I have never come across someone who did not put their cart back in my entire life.
summary:
1. Their body language 0:54
2. Their social media accounts 1:42
3. The way they dress 2:17
4. Their taste in music 2:56
5. How they treat strangers 3:35
6. How they make eye contact 4:19
7. The shopping cart theory 4:55
Recommend watching to learn more 🖤
Thanks for the handy recap.
Thank you :)
hope & sprite no problem 🖤
What about the hip hop person?
@@rishiverma8682 i thought i was the only one thinking about this😶
Actually crossed arms is common misconception to be defence, when it's self-soothing (self hug). It doesn't have to be defensive really.
exactly it makes me feel safe and comfortable
Yeah its a comfort to me
Depends what the facial expression is
For me it can send REALLY mixed signals. I’ve had friends who’ve used it to comfort themselves but my bully uses it as a way to say that they don’t care about what I feel and as way to try to compel superiority.
SO TRUE!!!
I'm usually not really talkative and I tend not to interact with others if possible but when I'm really into something that someone is talking about I'm very talkative,confident and I go straight to the point.
A lot of people say that I'm loyal and stuff but I'm really just a human being.
With prosopagnosia it's also typical to be more attentive when not making eye-contact.
When other people think that it is because of a lack of interest, life can get more difficult.
It's a quite recently discovered phenomena which about 2.5% have but most still don't know it.
(Prosopagnosia = Face blindness / the inability to recognize someone (only) by their face)
"But those who often break eye contact are nervous, uncomfortable, or distracted"
*im autistic*
update: I got diagnosed with adhd as well
Yeeeeeep, I think some bad eye contact comes from certain disorders. -I’m a bad eye contact ad(h)d person
me looks away cuz im distracted or I'm not interested
I was looking for this comment I SWEAR.
Autistic individuals are different
I have PTSD and also can’t do any of those things. Guess I am not worthy of love 😅
"the way they dress"
im too broke to wear what i really want
👁👄👁
Relate (T ^ T)
Lol im just too fat XD
Almost all of my clothes are from the thrift store. You never know what you find. I almost always find something in great or new quality, sometimes with tags still attached, for a mere fraction of the original price! This way I can also explore the styles I may like without the pressure of purchasing something so expensive. Keep an open-mind! Have a wonderful week, hon!
Fat mood. That or your environment
Sameee. I really like funky sporty wear style, but all I wear is jeans and random basic shirts
How to get to know someone: Get to know them.
Every 60 seconds in Africa a minute passes
This is accurate to a point. Lots of potential for totally misreading someone if you don't leave a lot of room for variables.😉
This was helpful, beacuse it's hard for me to interact with people
Same here bro
right?
That is Kinda sad
Shut up malfoy me tooo ;-;
Saaame💔
Narrow eyes may also suggest that the sun is in their eyes and a different conversation spot is preferable.
but what if they're indoors
@@tokyo7012 the light is very bright
@@user-qf3df6jz7m yeah for sure it is
@@tokyo7012 they lost their glasses, have (a) weak eye lid(s), hate you, hate someone else, has a habit of narrowing eyes etc. Lol
@@thelivingkazoo5331 ... why wouldn't they buy new glasses, platypus
this feels like a guide for aliens when they become integrated into our society
I really like the shopping cart theory. Straightforward and easy to apply.
Not so straight forward in our country, we have car guards, which you normally tip and they will take the trolley back, so this depends highly on the country and the customs they have. Animal abuse on the other hand will be a no no in any country. Though declawing cats is also a different thing in the UK and Usa. To me it is wrong
In my country we don't have car guards as the person above said, but I have never once seen shopping carts randomly scattered around supermarket exits / around their station. It's just a public order thing everyone does
Anyone else think Amanda's voice is so soothing? 🧘🏾♀️
Hadn't thought about it!
Such a dreamy voice
yes
Yess that is why i mostly listen to these videos in night at sleep time..
Yes!!! She also did a guided meditation video for psych2go as well
"I'm not giving you a dirty look, I just think really hard." My facial expressions won't allow me to hide anything. I give dirty looks without even realizing it.
Same!
Same, I gave a resting bitchface
No! I just really need to pee/shit really bad so can we end this conversation!
th-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/w-d-xo.html
Tauney omggg factssss!!!! Like I say so much with just my face and I don’t even realize
The only way I’m social on media these days is by commenting stuff on TH-cam and for now I really like that
Some of this is Generalized and more subjective than anything
Lack of eye contact in my case means: autism. Please don't think I'm distracted >.< Looking people in the eyes is just the bane of my existence.
Ahhahahaha saaaame adhd here
I am afraid that this video was created by neurotypical person who has good intentions but doesn’t have a clue about people who don’t fit the standard pattern.
Same
and I'm not blinking/ keeping my eyes narrow because I'm nervous or suspicious, the air is just dry and keeping my eyes closed lets me focus more on the person speaking to me
happens to all of us
Great Quote: "A person who is nice to you but rude to the waiter is not a nice person" -- Dave Barry, Author.
😀👍👍👍👍
Woah emojis
A lot
My friend well- ex-friend was like that
my head always goes down when I'm either really thinking about something or I'm just remembering those embarassing things I did in the past
4:30
I’m a very anxious person who constantly can’t make eye contact because of shyness or distraction (because of my ADHD) but when I find someone attractive I will either have trouble looking them in the eye or make excessive eye contact, sometimes with an emotionless expression, so it comes off as creepy
“The picture they post or share can tell you a lot about what they like”
I guess I don’t like anything then
Or if they post their whole life means they have no life.
What if its all a lie. What if its not the whole story.
Some like to keep their stuff private and don't bother posting stuff bc there's no need
Social Media is not really a good indicator. Most of what people post in social media is not real life.
I'm not willing to share that much because it's non of strangers business and especially non of long time stalker ex's business. I have my close frens to share everything with
Psyctogo: things that can tell you about a per-
Me: the different head flowers
Psyctogo: no that's not-
Me: *the. Different. Head. Flowers*
Lol😂😂😂😂
Yes
Lol
Get off of the drugs. Either that or get back on the ones you're supposed to be taking.
you know whats funny: half the public is bored during the whole concert, and when they play fantasy impromptu for an encore they areenlightened :)
except the elite listeners who are bored because its bla....
A body language expert once said that crossed arms don't always indicate defensiveness, but can be a self-soothing technique. If someone feels uncomfortable, they may cross their arms to give themselves a sense of security. So, it's not always a bad thing.
YESSS SHOPPING CART TEST!!!!!! It bugs me SO much when people don’t put it back, and I’ve never even worked at a grocery store. It’s just such a simple thing to do and is common courtesy. I yelled at a dude one time and his excuse was he’s gotta watch his kid. I replied, “great, now your kid just gets to watch you be lazy, inconsiderate, and unaccountable. Didn’t your mother teach you to PUT BACK what you’ve used after you’re done with it, it’s common decency and respect.” He said ‘F U’ and drove off. Surprisingly he came back 5 min later and said, “ I thought about tilt for a minute, and you were right.” (Felt good to be right😏) but I was more impressed he came back just to put the cart back 👍🏻
that was a good intention but makes you look like a karen
"People are complicated"---that's why so many of us keep our interactions limited to cats and dogs.
Complicated people are a hobby for me, evil people not at all.
Daniel Esteve That’s an interesting hobby! Can you explain what you mean? 🤔
It means to study your pets brains bc psychology. Who else is less annoying to keep around to do that to? Duh
Animals are complicated too.
True, my dogs are easy to understand.
Reading body language, nonverbal ques and eye contact goes right out the window when you're on the spectrum.
This right here! I'm on the spectrum and I cannot do eye contact to save my life.
I'm on the spectrum, and I can more sense from their demeanor than body language.
thank you for that piece.
@@shadowsightliker spectrum means??
@@swatisaini6447 Autistic.
One of your criteria has been one of mine for a long time. How someone treats wait staff or anyone in a service sector position. It also shows thier empathy factor in subtle and not so subtle ways.
The shopping cart theory is a metaphor for life and extends to basic moves such as opening a door for someone or stopping to see if someones okay.
Good observation. Agree.
Video: their social media
Me: well I never post so does that mean I’m boring?
I would say it makes you more interesting since people really need to discover everything about you by themselves instead of looking at your social media :). I find the people who rarely post the most interesting ones at least
Maybe it depends on if you’re fun to hang out wit
I disagree, it doesn’t make you interesting nor does it make you boring, it just means that you don’t necessarily give as much of a fuck about that social media.
I dont even check my social media
I barely ever use social media.
"the shopping cart theory"
*I'm sorry, is this some sort of American joke I'm to European to understand*
Ahahahaha, I was thinking the SAME! 😂😂
Oh yes, true
That's funny. It's not a joke, just a little thing easy to notice because it's out in public. There are similar things like picking up litter, waiting your turn in line or conversations, or lately, Wearing A Face Mask.
Yeah, here we have put a coin into the cart if we want to take one with us for shopping, so we obviously take the cart back in the end.
Aldi be like: want your coin back? go and return the trolley then
4:55
well, here in germany you actually get some money back that you earlier had to put in the cart to use it, so that doesnt apply.
But i generally love the every-day exaples you give, very nice
I love and respect this channel so much! has lot to learn about life. this channel has educated me so much. thank you so much, psych2go!
3:36 The most important people you should be nice to are the waiters, servers, anyone who's less than you in their work or financially.
They needs respect more than anything.
Always smile to them, say thank you, help them with something. This little things aren't little and have such a great impact on them. Be a nice person and always be humble. Make a good thing in someone's day, have a good impact y'all❤️
Amen to that. They have to put up with a lot and rely on tips.
Well, that isn't something 100% real. At least in my case. My dad is a god man with waiters and is very friendly with them, but he was a shit with my mom. Manipulator, lier, etc. Soo, yeah, be careful
Nevaeh osi osi Definitely not everyone treats them nicely are necessarily nice people (my dad is like that too tho!), I was just saying as a reminder to be nice to them bc it really matters.
@@user-my8qj Yeah, i really understand ur point. I only said that for any person who take it literally. Btw, i think that it matters too
Yeah.
They can mess with your food.
But for real I agree lol. That's one of the worst things you can do to make a first impression
I’m terribly shy most of the time. I have heard from people that I come across as stand off-ish or antisocial when in reality I just don’t know what to say.
I feel that way too.
People also sometimes think you're being arrogant when you're really just shy
Please don't use the word "antisocial" in this context any more. "Antisocial" is what sociopaths, psychopaths and punk rock anarchists suffer from; the condition where a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others.
Introverts are "asocial"; people who have a lack of motivation to engage in social interactions and activities, or have a strong preference for solitary activities.
In short, learn what words really mean before you use them.
@@angelus_solus i think 'antisocial' is being used correctly here. They aren't describing the way they feel about social interactions, but the way they come across to other people. When you're shy, it can come across as being cold/disregarding other people's feelings and rights. At least, that's how i read it
I want to improve myself. My mom had a high IQ (she died from cancer) and was mean to people. She always thought other ppl were idiots. That's not true. Just because someone doesn't know what you know doesn't mean they're an idiot. I catch myself thinking like her sometimes and I don't like it.
Your voice is soo chill it calms me down
5:26 “There’s nothing to gain from returning your shopping cart.”
*well... if you’re in Europe you’d also be losing some money*
Yes! Thank you😂 We need some other example instead.
same in singapore. you have to use either the old $1 or the new $0.50 coin to unlock a shopping cart. well, we call it a trolley.
i heard there are people who use sharp objects to forcefully push the coin out of the trolley. not only do they get their money back, they also don’t return the trolleys. therefore, it’s common to see them in housing estates.
@@share_accidental i have once see a cart on the side walk when walking to school
@@amagdonal9365 near where I live there is an apartment complex a short walk from a major grocery store and on the other side of the apartment complex is a creek that runs through town. And you can probably guess where this is all leading to - for some reason there are a few shopping carts down in the creek near the apartments. I wonder how they got there....
Here Aldi's has their carts set up similar (for a quarter). I have noted that occasionally some people are lazy enough that a quarter means nothing to them and they still will leave the carts out in the parking lot. Which is fine for me - I just gather up their abandoned cart and make an extra quarter.
“The music they listen to”
Me as a person who listens to hard rock, metal and goth music 👁👄👁
METALLICA!!! 🤘🏻😂
And your user name is Red Forman. You sir, are a contradiction.
I like it. 😄
damn you seem rad
Me, who listens to _everything_ from the hard rock to some light pop music: 🗿
Yeee good stuff. What if my favorite artists are Rammstein and Lady Gaga??
Please don’t stop making videos I LOVE THIS CHANNEL SO MUCH by the way new subscriber
I think the most important thing is how kind people are and how open they are to help others.
I know some people who are extremely helpful and they are awesome!
Brains Applied it really depends dude....it really depends.....
What are some ways to tell if someone is truly kind? Leave your thoughts ;)
According to the shopping cart theory literally everyone in my neighborhood is all nice, empathetic, kind people but I highly doubt that lmao
It just shows character - a person who will do the right thing even when not being watched. Shows nothing about how nice, kind or considerate they are, IMO
Maybe it's just because they're used to doing it? Like, if everyone around you is doing something, you're very likely to do that too. So if everybody in your neighborhood always returns the shopping cart it can turn into an unspoken rule that everyone follows without thinking about it.
#5 is so completely true! I've always utilized this to see how people really are. If they're rude to servers in any way shape, form, or fashion then I'll never go out with them again because I used to be a server. I know exactly how hard that industry is! So when I see a server I see myself and professional colleagues. I cannot stand to go out with ungrateful entitled rude people! THAT is the quickest way to make me stop hanging out with you and just dealing with you in general.
My bad. I didn't mean to make a hard left turn and start a rant. I'm deeply passionate about #5. That's all. Take care. (Smile)
Many people have commented as to how someone treats family is a tell tale sigm too.My parents bicker and nit pick at what others would consider normal like wanting to meet a friend for lunch, coming home after sunset, wanting to go out after sunset, choice of clothes isnt religion appropriate etc.This makes me want to avoid conflict and agree with what they say.However,in other settings am not meek.So I guess the context varies too.
Some people know those things gave them the image of a “good person” so they do it even though deep down are awful. It's so hard to really trust people
That's because they are cold and calculating. Take them out for a drink or allow them to get confortable and see how their true personalities surface. Nobody can keep up the charade for long.
That's y I don't trust ppl who say "I'm a nice person" or when you get to know a bartender and learn they are nice to customers just to get a better tip even tho they are annoyed with them
the bartender one is different. Its their job to be nice to you even if you annoy them.If they express they find you annoying they get fired. They are just doing their work.
TalkWithAngelX3 you are absolutely right! you have to trust bartenders no matter what. They have the alcohol 😏😂
@@0MissNemo0 And is THAT why so many people want us to believe they can hold a bottle, glass, can in thier hands, and/or set it on a table?? Weird af. Anyway, just spend time with people, a first impression is always just that! Eventually, you will get into some kind of setting that just isn't all comfortable for anyone involved (nope don't do ther hairdresser's expedition to the Everest ;)) - when people are more concerned then about how to cooperate, and/or find agreement, rather than believing they are the most important individual, and/or only keeper of "the truth" on this planet, that is certainly a start to figure out how they actually tick.
Them: “Their taste in music”
Me: Well then I’m all over the place aren’t I?!
Control freak
@@kareneveler9658
_Thanks._
@@akaunderdog4223
*Thank you!*
then ur all of them xd
Same here😂😭
But another comment had a reply that said that we're open emotionally and to new experiences and I kinda agree with it I guess 😅
Each vibe of each song in you playlist all together describe who you are or who you want to be personality wise
Same for your art and doodles
Body language and irrational behaviors can also be signals of deeper issues, of pain ect. This video is great for signals of possibility but more important, I believe is an overall pattern.
The irony is not lost on me of impression though, I took care of people in pain for thirty years and now have chronic back pain.
I have had people literally confront me with being "restless" in my seat when I am actually shifting because of discomfort. Several days of chronic pain can also seriously affect mood. I have been on both sides of this one now. But overall if people I took care of had a good disposition their sharpness was never horrible and regret usually followed. I have definitely found this one to be true for me.
"Listening to someone personal playlist can give you a glimpse into their inner world"
Me who listen to different genres:🤔
It's about the majority of your playlist. You can listen to many types of music, but there is always something that you draw you in more than the others.
Me, who listens to rain sounds and bird chippings... :-)))) Go, analyse that!
@@eeaotly easy
Dunno. I VE got everything from Beethoven to Buck Owens, Enya to B.B.King. Missing: plastic contemorary country, rap, hard metal. Oh, well, that says something, I guess.
*identity crisis intensifies*
shopping carts in Germany need a coin to unlock, so everybody returns them
where i live too! (toronto, most places)
American here,
Shopping carts strewn about a parking lot are as American as baseball and obesity.
They're building an Aldi near where I live and I seriously doubt that a coin will be enough to deter this much ingrained laziness and apathy.
ebusive it works were I live. And these obese welfare queens shop there.
Same in Spain and Romania, and probably most developed countries
Same in many countries in Europe (Poland for me). Also if you don't return it and just leave it people make stinky eyes at you and prolly plan your murder so you can finally go to hell where ypu belong. Ah. Such a lovely place
so far, the one i connect with most is definitely music. I can be described as one of two things, depending on the subject of the description. "Smart, but unwise", and "Loud, but articulate". My favorite genres are classical, metal, and rap. lmao
How do you make all these illustrations and animations? I am in complete awe
Do you guys ever want to know the person you are thinking of is the type of person that they are? Hope this video helps you.
This helped me
Yep
ily and your videos ❤️❤️ they help so much
Yaaay
100th Like on this comment :) probably
Those of you humans that haven’t returned your shopping carts I’m very disappointed in you
I once came across somewhere and in the grass was a shopping cart, I instantly started thinking about Fortnite.
You know those convenient shopping basket with a handle and wheels? I've seen people going on transit with them... (hardcore judging those people)
Sorry...? Usually we'd put it at the side
@@voidofalltrades Why not just put them in the return where they belong? If you don't put them in parking spaces, great! 😁 👏 That's nice of you! Now people don't have to get out of their car to move it. But you're making the caddie's job harder by not returning them where they belong. They don't belong on the side. The caddie is supposed to collect the carts from the returns and use their machine thingy (I dunno what it's called but it creates a cool Slither-like chain of carts!) to put them back inside the store. Think about how annoyed they would be to have to run a marathon across creation to find lost carts. Especially if it was raining! I don't know if they ever do this in the dark but that has to be frustrating, too.
Same. I silently judge them. I get that people have pain or something like ADD, but as a person who struggles with both, I have not once neglected to put carts back in the return. If it's possible for someone like me who has to sit down every few steps while in the store due to pain to put carts away, it's possible for everyone else. 😊
This is very informative. Thank you for taking the time and effort of uploading this video!
Thank you for making things clearer.
6. How they make eye contact
*Neurodivergents have left the chat*
As i Neurodivergent human bean i can say that this is accurate
THIS
"The music they listen to,"
What about me who enjoys a wide variety of musical genres (I like to listen to video game music and Musicals)?
I've got a few game soundtracks. Red Dead Redemption 1 and 2. and I recently bought Horizon Zero Dawn and The Witcher 3.
Could mean that you're high in openness and emotionally available for new experiences, which is a great strength to have 🤗
I think there's different rules for unicorns
What about classical music? Dr. Edward Dutton (the Jolly Heretic) has a video on why intelligent people like classical music.
@@bigscarysteve i think classical music is the most complexe and sophisticated type of music. I still listen to many different genres, though!
For me, classical fits a particular setting, like studying or reading :)
Thanks for always making interesting and informative videos, myself and many others appreciate and love your content!
I really like how positive this video is
I hope nobody takes this too seriously and think they can read other with these tips. Some may be fair assumptions, but we are not as simple beings as this implys.
Ways to learn more about a person: STALK THEM
*Yandere chan has entered the chat*
@@yourlocaldemon2195 Yuno has entered the chat
YASSSSSS
Yes , but... We can tell lies easier with words. Body language reveals much more information about people and it can much harder to people to hide it.
Bro like wtf
i really love this channel! thank you so much, i discovered your videos a lot and they were really helps me so much. keep your great work ❤️
I love these videos I’ve been watching for about a good two or three years possibly in body language is very important to me because most of the things people are saying aren’t coming out of their mouth
I just wanted to say for the eye contact too sometimes people who fall under the ASD spectrum also have trouble making eye contact but that does not mean they are being rude.
"There is nothing to gain from returning your shopping cart" me, a German: Uhm, yes there is, I want my 1€ back
Lmaoo relatable
Genau so lol
Echt so haha
i was looking for this XD
Ikr, but even if not I would still return it.
People that don't return carts are not to be trusted.
Love the shopping cart theory! I almost always return it unless I'm tapped out emotionally and focused on what's wrong in my life.... or I have my daughter already buckled in, out of necessity she had to be restrained lol, I will leave it for the lot attendant at that point. All great tips for sure!
Don't feel guilty you already paid for the service & the store has a person specific for this job. This should not even be included in the list.
The shopping cart theory has not worked for me until recently. I don't own a car & if my bike was parked in a rack, I'd have to unload my stuff unto my bike & leave it to return the cart. Seemed like a good way to have my stuff stolen. Now very few stores offer bike racks so I park my bike at the shopping cart stall. Problem solved!
The calming voice helps with anxiety and the bright colors help with adhd and add :)
I just wanna thank the Psych2Go team for making this channel! I am a 12 year old who wants to learn more about psychology and this channel really helps me with that! Not only that, but you are also helping other people with their issues in general!
Thank you. ☺️
Same!! I am 12 too, I also wanna learn more about psychology since it’s something I look forward to the most! glad that somebody is like me!!
Me too!
Same!!! But I’m 14 lol
same, im 14 and this channel is super helpful
update: i am 14 now and wow, i used to be way more polite lmao
FULL OFFENCE TO THOSE WHO DON'T RETURN THEIR SHOPPING CARTS LIKE SHAME ON YOU 😤
bruhhh its okayyy beause some stores let costumers take the cart and then use the same oen when they come to the tore again
@@tokyo7012 ohhh is that so? I see that's pretty cool ig
@Odelia Omosebi asiaaa
Ohh I always return, what type of made man does that
Honestly i just don't know how to do it.
I recently learned by myself, that trying to read a person is not such a good thing and it leads sometimes to misunderstanding. Maybe I read wrong, :-) but sometimes it is hardships, just to look and make an assumption, because maybe he is in that mood, but because of an different subject. As they said in the beginning, we humans are complex. So for myself I learned, I need to ask more question to people, to really understand them! And also I learned, that I need to learn myself better! With love David from Munich/ Germany
Do you need help to fix a broken relationship? I know of a great man who can help you bring back your twin flame in 24hours
W-hatsap him⏬⏬⏬⏬⏬
十2349155456138🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮抄送，你會很高興....
You guys are so cool! I love watching your videos! Keep up the good work!
I just noticed that I drooped my "friends" that would talk back to other teachers, waiters or other workers, they would always be nice to me but not other people.
What if we listen to anime openings. What category does that go to .
ehh ehh you are cultured. Lol or you look to music to hype you up~
I have no idea but yo what op(s) do ya listen to?😄
@@pine-solismylemonade5542 Demon Slayer, Diabolik Lovers and etc lol
Weeb/Memer? Aka good humor maybe?
Then you are a man of culture as well.
I learnt from somewhere that observing someone's gait and way they walk is an easy tell, but that's only so useful to a person who looks at the floor while they walk
Observing gait and posture is an area physiotherapists will have an interest in and observe its not normally one psychologists will spend time over. Then again psychologists will look for (and find) deep, traumatic unresolved childhood issues from observing someone taking a shit.
i think the body language is most important .examples like raising a hand, a hand thats raised high may mean they want attention while a low raised hand means theyre not confident or they dont want to attract attention
Always listen to your gut! The subconscious is always picking up on signals that we should not ignore :-)
Agree
add2console ♥️
So.many.facts.
Yes, I won't go against it again.
Ehm,not really. Even if sometimes it's the better to follow the guts, this doesn't mean that they're always right :)