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Here 1:02 Call them by their name 1:51 Hand someone something while in mid-conversation 2:30 Practice the pavlov theory by chewing gum during an exam 3:37 Try imagining you are where you want to be in life 5:05 Ask for a big favor then change it to a small one 6:21 Ask for a favor when someone is exhausted 7:11 Mirror others to help you make friends 7:46 Nod your head if you want someone to agree with you
I wanted to ask her such a question, blushed before I could even say a word and started to brabble that my ears get red and she smiled and said: „It‘s kinda cute. What did you want to ask?“ 😏 Then I asked if she could imagine to be with someone. I immediately got a „Yes.“ And later on she looked at me with sparkly eyes. 🥰
In Pavlov's experiment, he noticed that dogs drool when they see food, so he started ringing a bell every time before giving them food. After a while, these dogs started drooling just by hearing the bell, even if there was no food. The food wasn’t the point nor was the salivation, it was about creating the association between an unrelated object an a conditioned response. All the same, thanks for this video. It will help a lot of people.
Yea we humans affect others a lot just by speaking. Let's say that your friend told you that he ate e delicious sweet cake. You'll start salivating. But if you tell your pet that you ate a delicious meal nothing happens...
With the same association logic when you chew a gum with certain flavour while studying for exam and chew the same flavour gum while giving the exam you will recall what you studied in a much better way.
1. call them by their name 2. hand someone something while in mid-conversation 3. practice the pavlov theory by chewing gum during an exam 4. try imagining you're where you want to be in life 5. ask for a big favor then change it to a small one 6. ask for a favor when someone is exhausted 7. mirror others to help you make friends 8. nod your head if you want someone to agree with you
The only problem I have is with the first one, because parents would use your name to get your attention then scold you and then there are some friends that do the same thing when they dissaprove of what you're doing/saying so saying your name in itself is a manipulative tactic to get you to respond, if I am interested in what you're saying I'll give you my attention if not saying my name won't get my attention in fact it has the opposite effect because of my experiences, I will simply leave the conversation until the person is willing to have a civil conversation without the condescending tone.
It's funny how human psychology works. Everyone thinks they're in control, but really you are always being influenced by everything around you. I love it. Great video. -Kushtrim
That was a useful video. I came across a book recently that relates to this theme. It uncovers how marketers utilize reverse psychology methods that I haven't found in other sources. The site was something like baluter books. Keep up the fantastic work!
Psych2Go: "Here is how to recognize and avoid psychologically manipulative people." Psych2Go at Number 5 & 6: "Here is how to psychologically manipulate others for your own benefit."
@@PichuElric Oh no, the first part of my comment is referring to Psych2Go's past videos; there's quite a few of them that tell you how to spot red flags and whether or not someone is psychologically manipulating you. I just thought it was ironic, considering that Trick #5 and #6 could easily be one of those red flags that they warned about, at least if done often.
This is what worried me about the dog vs chinchilla example, where the assumption was that you didn't want a dog and really wanted the chinchilla. What happens when you ask for something big that you don't want and then are granted it? you can't follow that up with then asking for what you actually wanted. Except in the cases like the following example involving money :) need $20, ask for $50.. get $50.. problem solved. (but it could backfire if you ask for $50, get denied, then ask for $20 instead.. they could start to get annoyed with you as it feels like begging.)
i watch this every night before bed and the general tone of the person calm, soft and warm voice really soothes me. as someone who has dealt with depression and insomnia, it really helps me get to sleep finally 🛌🛌
“Use their name often during conversation” “Jeffrey, how did you get to this concert, Jeffrey? What would you say, Jeffrey? Jeffrey, what’s your favorite song by this band, Jeffrey?”
The door to the face technique is also used in stores where they pretend something is on sale. They'd have a really big number striped out and a way cheaper prize for the product instead....but it's not cheap at all. It just makes you think it is.
fake discounts are actually illegal and are against consumer protection laws in most states in the united states so yes the discounts are real (or they are just breaking the law)
#4: Fake it till you make it. All these years I've felt like I was manipulating people, but now I know it was merely psychological trickery, and I feel much more at ease with that.
“use gum to remember information for your test” IS THAT WHY THEY DON’T ALLOW GUM?!!???!! Edited: The reason why they stick the gum under the table/desks is because they aren’t allowed to have it so they hide it, if they see it in the trash their gonna question who had gum? or maybe it just gets stuck on the trash when they try to empty it lol
AND 9 years of animal control and cruelty rescues later... I was in training for reptile wrangling in Florida... Me : "Welp... That escalated beyond where I'd hoped." ;o)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:31 🗣️ *Using someone's name mid-conversation grabs their attention and adds charisma to your regular conversations.* 01:58 🤲 *Handing someone something while in mid-conversation can make them more likely to accept it, even if it's unrelated to the conversation.* 02:56 🍬 *Chewing gum during study sessions and the exam, following the Pavlovian Theory, may help associate the gum flavor with the studied information and improve memory during the test.* 03:53 🧠 *Use cognitive dissonance to align your mindset with the person you want to become, helping you change behaviors and achieve goals.* 05:20 🚪 *Ask for a big favor first, then change it to a smaller one (door-in-the-face technique) to increase the likelihood of the person agreeing to the smaller favor.* 06:49 😴 *People are more likely to agree to something they initially didn't want to do when they're tired or exhausted.* 07:18 🦎 *Mirroring others' movements and gestures (Chameleon Effect) can make them more open to getting to know you, potentially helping you make friends.* 08:17 🤔 *Nodding your head while discussing a point increases the likelihood of someone agreeing with you, according to a 1980s study in Applied Psychology.* Made with HARPA AI
This is interesting. In your narcissistic frenzy to add your own noise to someone elses work, you ignored at least two other people who had already made the same effort. Its been two years, did you think you'd be the first? Didn't care to be part of a conversation, albeit late, but felt the need to instruct? I'm kidding :D I don't even know you. But still...
@@sabilityone nah I disagree. Depression isn't just as you see it daily as being down and ruminating thoughts sometimes its alot more than that depression can actually cause phycosis/catatonia. You can't think yourself out of that so easily I'm afraid - your hardly even present really. Your comment is only from your experience which could have been very minor compared to others. Obviously you are important and your mental health at any state is important and no less than others but Its definatly a case by case basis and not one blanket statement for all. I'd recommend some research on a deeper/darker depression before commenting invalidating things on a mental health advocate page where there are so many suffering with depression reading your comment wondering why "choosing happy" didn't work. What you have yourself there is "Toxic positivity" it's a comment seemingly positive but actually not helpful and invalidating.
@@Liltattoo I agree with this but at the same time I wouldn't necessarily discard their thoughts on depression. There has been studies in which positive thinking alone combats depression at some degree, the more consistency the more powerful it becomes.
3:26 Missed the crucial part of the experiment: Pavlova rang a bell while the dogs were feeding. After conditioning they would start salivating when just hearing the bell and no food.
Yess true that's why when Pavlov rang the bell and did not present the food, the dog still salivated because it conditioned itself that whenever the bell rings food will be presented.
This is how we ended up with horses growing up. Sister asked for a horse, got a pony, before I knew it I was taking care of 3 horses, 3 ponies, 4 sheep and a dog... Sister was bored within a week of each of them.
My sister wanted a dog very badly but we don't have the time to walk with the dog everyday, eventually after a lot of asking my mom gave her 2 guinea pigs. She had no interest in them after a few days but they are now my two little buddies and I take real good care of them :) I guess that's how it goes with kids and pets.
1:24 i have this weird thing where as soon as i hear my own name i'm just absolutely terrified because i have been criticized in my educational form many times and just the idea of being called out terrifies me so even if *i'm* the one who says my name i still get that pull back to reality thing, and hear it so perfectly
tried that banana peel thingy on my friend. We talked for 5 minutes and then he suddenly realized he has a banana peel in his hands and we bursted out laughing
Funny trick thats especially usefull when you're walking busy streets: Looking at the ground in the direction you're walking in front of you, the people walking in your direction will subconsiciously notice and will move out of the line between you and the spot you're looking at. It even works for pretty far away distances. Often looking at the ground right in between two people walking next to eachother even splits them up until you've passed them :').
I finally understood why I study so much psychology. When I was a kid, I was never understood. At home, at school and almost everywhere. Even though I have stable relationships today, my past haunts me random times. I want to understand people as much as possible and silently wish I have someone doing that for me:
I think that if we do something to people, they will do the same for us, but sometimes maybe not. But try to understand the other was a so kind, so good luck :)
"Hey Mom?" "Mhm?" "Can I have 50 bucks?" "What? No, why do you want it?" "Uh..then can I have at least 20 bucks?" "For what?" "I wanted to buy a Chinchilla" "No."
Or use all at once go ask 50 bucks when she is exhausted yhen negotiate "I want to buy a dog " "Wt no" "Wtf y dont u allow anything i need it for my mental health for godsake atleast " "..." "Atleast a giblet please i need it " "Ugh ok fine"
Number four is so true! I literally realized like under a minute or a few ago that I'm doing that all the time with my most valuable goal without even knowing it, AND IT ACTUALLY WORKS! I literally giggle like heck now
Most teachers won't let you chew gum in school. The fix is find a distinctive smell instead. Memory is more closely associated with smell anyway so it's win win.
This video really opens my eyes to many aspects of psychology I hadn't thought about before. It made me reflect on my inner world and inspired personal growth!
@@jewelbernadettecelis561 That's so cool! While in our school it is supposed to be allowed the teachers usually scold us for it cause it's "not okay to chew gum when you are supposed to concentrate on your studies" or other reasons like that
#9. To figure out if someone is secretly focusing most of their attention on you more than everyone else in the room, try yawning. Since it's contagious, whoever yawns immediately afterwards was probably focused on you (or they're actually just tired in which case you still played a psych trick, but it was more on yourself😬).
"Dad, I want an eraser, watercolors, oil colors, acrylic colors, chalk, crayons, pencils, wooden colors, and papers" "What, that's too much!" Well, I just need the painters' equipment. "Oh, okay" This method is very useful for those who like to draw, try it
I used to do this to my father all the time. I would always ask for more money than I wanted. Then pretend to settle for the amount that I really wanted. Once in a while I got the first amount that I asked for. So it was a win-win situation.
I first watched this channel a couple years ago, and it helped me get out of a dark place in my life. Back to the present day I stumble on this video. Thank you so much for everything psych!
Back in school a boy in my class mentioned the bubblegum and he said that it really worked. And I tried it. The experiment with the dogs gave me an idea. When I study I`ll study with what/who I love most 😉 Awesome! Can`t wait to try it out! Thank you!♥️♥️
I have done the handling random objects to my friend while talking. i have experimented it with so many items that make absolutely no sense and its honestly super funny hahahah. Ive handed a lamp to my friend mid conversation and they took it without realizing at first LOL
What helps is that I usually call someone by their name beginning or during conversations. Also, I've chewed gum while taking exams and I did a math final once and I scored 97 out of 103 possible points, just to bring my grade up from a C, to a B- lol
@zzac1an literally so I did this while they were on the phone having a conversation with a friend or whatever and I walked up to them and gave them a lamp and walked away and they continued holding it while on the phone LOLOLOL
i tried one of these at school. i didn’t feel like getting up to throw a wrapper away, so i started talking and handed it over to my friend. when he took it he didn’t say a word until we stopped talking and he goes “hey!” and i just started laughing lol
Here’s another one: If you don’t want to be called on in class, make eye contact with the teacher while they are picking and then suddenly look away, it diverts their attention away from you.
@@jifpeanutbutter5510 I also used to do this during school days 😂 I tend to answer the first or second question which is usually quite easy and relax while others get harder questions 😂 most teacher actually do pick someone who does not answer any question for their target though they will be some exception teacher for this method.
I used cognitive dissonance unconsciously when I found out I was more social than I thought. I used to think I was a thinking introvert because I was good at math and didn't have that many friends, so I wasn't that social. Recently, I found out that I had been a social introvert all along, but just hadn't realized it for the reasons I mentioned. I accepted the truth and was immediately much more social, boosting my self-esteem and confidence in the process. 😂
The 2nd psychological trick actually worked on me. I was telling my sister some story and I only noticed that she was already ordering me around when she laughed at me.
I have a teacher who blurts peoples names out as he speaks, like, “Now we’re going to learn about color schemes, right, Lizzie? Sharon looks really excited for this one. Anyway, say Gerald here needs to pick out a color...” It works to grab your attention and keep you engaged for the whole lesson. You’re always on the edge of your seat, excited to be included in the conversation.
Can 100% attest to the power of #4. When I was graduating from college, I realized I wanted to be a senior-level manager or executive some day, but didn't believe I had what it takes with my social awkwardness and indecisiveness. So I started imagining myself being "the boss", taking charge of crisis, pulling teams together, etc. I'm still a social introvert in my private life, but I'm on the fast track for a promotion to lower management this year, with aspirations for accelerating that once I go back for my MBA in a year or two. Mind you, this is after FIVE YEARS of trying (and often failing) to slowly change my behavior patterns. It is NOT easy to do, and often I felt like a complete fake at first. To this day, I'm still a bit shaky sometimes and doubt my capabilities. But this is a prime example of what "fake it 'till you make it" really means: if you put your all into it and see patient, it can work for you, as well!
Number 4 really does work! I've always had a sweet tooth along with a big appetite. In turn, this caused me to gain a lot of extra weight and I was super unhealthy. So, I started convincing myself that I didn't like sweet things that much and that my appetite was on the smaller end. It felt weird at first but eventually I found that I was no longer able to eat super big portions of food anymore, and that I didn't care as much for sugary foods. I started exercising along with this and I lost most of the weight and I'm now at a healthy weight! Honestly the best decision I've ever made. But seriously, if you have a goal, use this trick! Most of the time it helps at least a little bit!
Psychological Tricks That Can Make Your Life Much Easier Look into someone's eyes when you get a dissatisfactory answer. ... Stay calm when someone raises their voice to you. ... Sit close to the aggressor to avoid attack. ... Remember everyone's names if you want to be popular. ... Write down your thoughts when you feel stressed or anxious
@@rhiko7 me knowing that never in the history of telling someone to calm down has someone calmed down: * in a calm and composed manner when someone is yelling * please, calm down. Talk to me once you're ready to act like a civilized adult again. * I walk away and leave them yelling by themselves like crazy *
Mirroring body language is super effective towards those with (maybe too much) self-confidence. Watch for that & then mirror their arm’s resting posture or lean on something if they do it first. It’s a shot to their ego they’re not expecting and it goes a long way with them. It works on me, too 😊
Wow I feel so lucky I really wanted to educate myself more in psychology to be able to comfort and help my friends better. I couldn’t bring myself to read books and watch boring videos but thanks to this cute animation and the calming voice I enjoy watching these very much. Thank you for helping us educate our selves.
Heh, I randomly did the imagining trick when I was in my late teens. I realized at one point that I was depressing myself by wishing for things (mostly attention from others) I didn't have. One day when I lost someone dear to me I noticed that I wasn't feeling any differently from when I didn't get attention and that was the most disgusting I've ever felt with myself. It felt so similar to what I'd been making myself feel that it seemed to diminish the worth of the loss I'd suffered, effectively insulting the memories of the one I cared for. So I started telling myself I was not allowed to mourn things I simply wanted and should be looking at things I have instead, so I can value them more and mourn only when it's appropriate. Every time I catch myself feeling envious or left out when I can't actively change it, I give myself a mental kick and go "Nope, you haven't lost anything, stop it." It's made me happier, outwardly more friendly which makes things better for everyone and taught me some introspection that helped me avoid bad things I otherwise wouldn't have noticed if I kept focusing so much on things outside my control. I now only mourn when it actually matters.
I’ve used the door in the face technique many times without even knowing that it was a psychological trick and it worked most of the time except for like once or twice when I wanted something that was too big of a favor
I honestly get a little weirded out when somebody uses my name often. It makes me feel like I'm about to get into trouble for something because my mom would use my name a lot when she was annoyed with me haha
I don't have any childhood trauma or anything but it just sounds so weird when someone uses my name often, it doesn't even sound like my name after a while. It annoys me ngl.
I get annoyed if someone repeats my name too often in conversation. It makes me think of the trick you use in customer service when trying to de-escalate a customer or when you're trying to talk them into buying something. It's an attempt at making them feel special and like you're treating them as an individual the way some newsletter emails put your name in the greeting instead of some generic "dear subscriber" greeting. I've used it at different jobs and it works plenty of times so I'm already in tune to it being used as a tactic.
So many times right after I get done talking to someone I realize I'm holding something and I'm like, " Wait, who gave me this? Where'd this come from?" and my friend is just like, " I handed it to you almost 10 minutes ago." and I think, ' Oh, great. It happened again.'
This channel helped me discover the anxiety I never realized I had, and I am ever grateful for their help in aiding me to understand more about the mental health and just how important it truly is. Plus their animations are just so darn cute!
1. Call by name. (The person's name piques their attention.) 2. Hand something mid-conversation (Them or you speaking. Try them) 3. Practice Pavlov theory. (Conditioning response to physical stimuli.) 4. Cognitive dissonance. (Imagine where you are and where you want to be.) 5. Favour Magnitude Transition (Ask for big favour, then downsize) 6. Favour Exhaustion Ask (The more exhausted someone is, the easier it is for them to comply to your favour) 7. Mirroring (Mirroring helps build positive connection. 8. Nod head slightly for agreement (If you nod your head slightly when suggesting or stating something, your friend/acquaintance/stranger are more likely to agree)
Me to my crush: I think we both **nods aggressively** like each other Update: I found out he already likes someone else and he kinda was just too nice? Whatever Update 2: the new school year has begun and we started pretty great I mean we’re pretty good friends, I still like him but I’m not “allowed” to date now so😔😔
1. Call them by their name (Used for catching their attention back to you) 1:03 2. Hand someone something while in mid-conversation (Make them carry something for you) 1:50 3. Practice the PAVILOV THEORY by chewing gum to ace a exam (Studies show that when you chew gum while your study sessions and during the exam you are likely to remember it more.) 2:35 4. Try imagining you where you want to be in life. (Example: You are shopaholic who wants to stop spending as much money, convince your mind that “you are not the shopping type that you already don’t like shopping.) 3:40 5. Ask for a big favor than change it to a smaller favor (Example: You want a hamster.. you ask your parents for a dog and they say no. Then ask for a hamster and they will be more likely to say yes. 5:06 6. Ask for a favor when someone is exhausted as they will be more likely to yes to receive more sleep. 6:22 7. Mirror others to help you make friends 7:12 8. Nod your head if you want someone to agree with you. 7:46
The "asking for more than you actually want" trick worked wonders with one of my former bosses. He was quite authoritarian, but also liked to think of himself as the protector of his employees.
a tip similar to the chewing gum trick: if youve got more than one subject to study, assign different types of music playlists to each of them. as an example, you can listen to piano music for science, and listen to jazz music for maths. and then the next time you study the same subjects, make sure you listen to the same playlists you assigned for each of them before. this will help you remember the stuff you learned before more, as you are listening to the same types of music.
Pavlovs stimuli was a bell. He would ring the bell before getting the dogs. So they began salivating when they heard the bell. Not when they saw the bowl. They were conditioned to think good was always coming when they heard a bell. It don't sound like much if a difference from what the video said, but it's a huge difference.
If you want someone to do something, grab a gasoline canister and some matches and tell them that you will light their house on fire if they don't do what you want. It almost works every time.
Sitting in the middle of the room with an axe and holding it with both hands while shutting your eyes, helps also. You can pretty please almost anything.
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1:02 Call them by their name
1:51 Hand someone something while in mid-conversation
2:30 Practice the pavlov theory by chewing gum during an exam
3:37 Try imagining you are where you want to be in life
5:05 Ask for a big favor then change it to a small one
6:21 Ask for a favor when someone is exhausted
7:11 Mirror others to help you make friends
7:46 Nod your head if you want someone to agree with you
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"Will you marry me?"
"WHAT?!"
"Will you go on a date with me?"
"That's a lot easier, yes."
lmao that would get a no from me, I'd already be freaked out and think they were too attached already
@@delilahloe5 ok
@@delilahloe5 lmao
@@delilahloe5 lmao
I wanted to ask her such a question, blushed before I could even say a word and started to brabble that my ears get red and she smiled and said:
„It‘s kinda cute.
What did you want to ask?“ 😏
Then I asked if she could imagine to be with someone.
I immediately got a „Yes.“
And later on she looked at me with sparkly eyes. 🥰
In Pavlov's experiment, he noticed that dogs drool when they see food, so he started ringing a bell every time before giving them food. After a while, these dogs started drooling just by hearing the bell, even if there was no food. The food wasn’t the point nor was the salivation, it was about creating the association between an unrelated object an a conditioned response.
All the same, thanks for this video. It will help a lot of people.
Yea we humans affect others a lot just by speaking. Let's say that your friend told you that he ate e delicious sweet cake. You'll start salivating. But if you tell your pet that you ate a delicious meal nothing happens...
With the same association logic when you chew a gum with certain flavour while studying for exam and chew the same flavour gum while giving the exam you will recall what you studied in a much better way.
It may not be Pavlovian, but the trick refers to the phenomenon of state related memory.
Me: *WATCHING EVERY PSYCHOLOGY TRICK*
The Next Day: FORGETS EVERYTHING
Chew gum while watching ;)
@@vmac6137 loooool
SAME LMFAO
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Me too😂
1. call them by their name
2. hand someone something while in mid-conversation
3. practice the pavlov theory by chewing gum during an exam
4. try imagining you're where you want to be in life
5. ask for a big favor then change it to a small one
6. ask for a favor when someone is exhausted
7. mirror others to help you make friends
8. nod your head
if you want someone to agree with you
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i always look for these comments, thank youuu!!
Thanks hun
The only problem I have is with the first one, because parents would use your name to get your attention then scold you and then there are some friends that do the same thing when they dissaprove of what you're doing/saying so saying your name in itself is a manipulative tactic to get you to respond, if I am interested in what you're saying I'll give you my attention if not saying my name won't get my attention in fact it has the opposite effect because of my experiences, I will simply leave the conversation until the person is willing to have a civil conversation without the condescending tone.
It's funny how human psychology works. Everyone thinks they're in control, but really you are always being influenced by everything around you. I love it. Great video. -Kushtrim
Yes, the environment and our emotions are a big part of our behavior.
Yes. We are constantly manipulated.
I am the one in control of all of you
That was a useful video. I came across a book recently that relates to this theme. It uncovers how marketers utilize reverse psychology methods that I haven't found in other sources. The site was something like baluter books. Keep up the fantastic work!
Psych2Go: "Here is how to recognize and avoid psychologically manipulative people."
Psych2Go at Number 5 & 6: "Here is how to psychologically manipulate others for your own benefit."
Wait what
I didn't get the first one? Should I start assuming people who use my name alot are prepping me so they can ask for something??
@@PichuElric Oh no, the first part of my comment is referring to Psych2Go's past videos; there's quite a few of them that tell you how to spot red flags and whether or not someone is psychologically manipulating you.
I just thought it was ironic, considering that Trick #5 and #6 could easily be one of those red flags that they warned about, at least if done often.
@@KlericYT Ah, I understand now! I just watched one of the older videos about spotting manipulative people that had several of these same tricks
important life lessons
Exactly....this bothered me tbh
"can I get a dog?"
"Okay sure"
"then, can I- Wait! No no that's not how you're supposed to answer!"
*"can I get a Dog you can't afford in a million years?"😂
Lmao just imagine
🚪DOOR IN THE FACE!!!🙂
How do you say tree in Russian?
@@alongpongener8997 sadly I dunno... haven't learned Russian letters xD
"Mom may I get a... a.. dinosaur"
"yes"
"then can I have a... Wait what?!“
what you've done to your mom...something aint right
that's a parent id like to have
Gives a dinosaur print instead..
"NOICE"
This is what worried me about the dog vs chinchilla example, where the assumption was that you didn't want a dog and really wanted the chinchilla. What happens when you ask for something big that you don't want and then are granted it? you can't follow that up with then asking for what you actually wanted.
Except in the cases like the following example involving money :) need $20, ask for $50.. get $50.. problem solved. (but it could backfire if you ask for $50, get denied, then ask for $20 instead.. they could start to get annoyed with you as it feels like begging.)
@@kirikayumura6015 go for type of dog bigger then smaller
i watch this every night before bed and the general tone of the person calm, soft and warm voice really soothes me. as someone who has dealt with depression and insomnia, it really helps me get to sleep finally 🛌🛌
i agree, her voice is sweet and soothing
Psychological trick successfully applied
Why is her voice so hypnotizing
because she imagines somene she likes whom she talks to. she even shifts to neutral at the end.
its one of their tricks xD
Her voice is like ASMR to me
I can fall asleep listening to it
she's nodding her head while speaking
@@kouranli4400 yea....
“Use their name often during conversation”
“Jeffrey, how did you get to this concert, Jeffrey? What would you say, Jeffrey? Jeffrey, what’s your favorite song by this band, Jeffrey?”
His shadow!!!
I think Jeffrey is not here
Jeffrey left for bathroom..
@@ess2004 Jeffrey is taking so much time, Jeffrey must be constipated...
@@Serpendo or Jeffery probably climbed out from the bathroom window to run away from him
"Teachers use your name to grab your attention"
My teacher :
*Chalk throw*
You too has already got chalkboozled?
@@mosio.2504 yes my kind sir, I presume you also have experienced my misfortunes
We only had an eraser thrown at us 🤣🤣🤣
BRUH WHAT!?
WHY DOES YOUR TEACHER THROW CHALK!?
@@spartanwar1185 they also throw pens, erasers and cars
The door to the face technique is also used in stores where they pretend something is on sale. They'd have a really big number striped out and a way cheaper prize for the product instead....but it's not cheap at all. It just makes you think it is.
fake discounts are actually illegal and are against consumer protection laws in most states in the united states
so yes the discounts are real (or they are just breaking the law)
Omg you are so right !!
"Nod if you want them to agree."
The animation: "Intense global head nodding to unheard music."
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@@Psych2go YESSSS! So informative!👍🏻 Thank you for all you do. And your little chonk character makes my day.🤗
@@Psych2go your content is great very helpful and funny! i loved the part where they grabbed the banana peel out of the other person's hand
@@Psych2go Yes, all of your videos are very helpful!
@@burgerboy_20 and the 'SPEECH 100' meme at the first tips
Psych2Go:"chewing a gum will help you in the exam"
Teachers: we don't do that here
the virus is a nice excuse , no one's gonna know because of the mask, I am planning to try this out once as my exams are approaching , well let's see😅
@@zainafatima7689 YEA SAME, next week we have some state exams and imma try and see how it goes :)
@@ihateblueberries1814 cool!
YOU GUYS ARE SO LUCKY I HAVE PROJECTS INSTEAD OF EXAMS
@@wowbrilliant4412 projects > exams
#4: Fake it till you make it.
All these years I've felt like I was manipulating people, but now I know it was merely psychological trickery, and I feel much more at ease with that.
yeah psychology is awesome until some peeps exploiting it as manipulative tools
Yeah, you’re just innocently PSYCHOLOGICALLY manipulating people.
Me: can you get me a pet shark
Parents: yes
Me: ah......
They said fake it till you make it and I did
-Taylor swift
I don’t know who records these videos but their voice is heavenly
It’s kind of like psychological hypnosis.
Amanda Silvera
Open description for once
@@celes7ial chill man who hurt you lmao go outside and touch grass
@@GarryFPV I'm totally chill, just use common sense
“use gum to remember information for your test”
IS THAT WHY THEY DON’T ALLOW GUM?!!???!!
Edited: The reason why they stick the gum under the table/desks is because they aren’t allowed to have it so they hide it, if they see it in the trash their gonna question who had gum? or maybe it just gets stuck on the trash when they try to empty it lol
IKR!
BIG BRAIN MOMENT
Thats why i use hoodies
We wear masks at my school 😗
Candy
I know this is really off topic, but can we just talk bout how adorable Giblets is for the whole video 🥺💛✨
Even the name is adorable
Gibletsss💘
I have chinchillas they're super cute
The gum-popping part of the video was so cute 🥺
yess omg the illustrations are so cute too
I'm just picturing children getting surprised with puppies and saying "dammit I wanted a chinchilla"
Lol
Lmao
I caught on the irony too. Chinchillas are expensive. Puppies/Dogs? Trip to the pound, Perhaps small adoption fee.
AND 9 years of animal control and cruelty rescues later... I was in training for reptile wrangling in Florida...
Me : "Welp... That escalated beyond where I'd hoped." ;o)
@Late to the Game Me? Nah, I ate it.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:31 🗣️ *Using someone's name mid-conversation grabs their attention and adds charisma to your regular conversations.*
01:58 🤲 *Handing someone something while in mid-conversation can make them more likely to accept it, even if it's unrelated to the conversation.*
02:56 🍬 *Chewing gum during study sessions and the exam, following the Pavlovian Theory, may help associate the gum flavor with the studied information and improve memory during the test.*
03:53 🧠 *Use cognitive dissonance to align your mindset with the person you want to become, helping you change behaviors and achieve goals.*
05:20 🚪 *Ask for a big favor first, then change it to a smaller one (door-in-the-face technique) to increase the likelihood of the person agreeing to the smaller favor.*
06:49 😴 *People are more likely to agree to something they initially didn't want to do when they're tired or exhausted.*
07:18 🦎 *Mirroring others' movements and gestures (Chameleon Effect) can make them more open to getting to know you, potentially helping you make friends.*
08:17 🤔 *Nodding your head while discussing a point increases the likelihood of someone agreeing with you, according to a 1980s study in Applied Psychology.*
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This is interesting. In your narcissistic frenzy to add your own noise to someone elses work, you ignored at least two other people who had already made the same effort. Its been two years, did you think you'd be the first? Didn't care to be part of a conversation, albeit late, but felt the need to instruct?
I'm kidding :D I don't even know you.
But still...
Didn't think there would be others but never too late haha :)
*Be sad*
"try to imagine you're not sad"
*Not sad anymore*
Depression is defeated
“Depression”
It’s basically the virtual machine of mental illnesses, you didn’t actually have depression, you just BELIEVED you had it
Haha only if coulf
Nah, depression is real.
@@sabilityone nah I disagree. Depression isn't just as you see it daily as being down and ruminating thoughts sometimes its alot more than that depression can actually cause phycosis/catatonia. You can't think yourself out of that so easily I'm afraid - your hardly even present really. Your comment is only from your experience which could have been very minor compared to others. Obviously you are important and your mental health at any state is important and no less than others but Its definatly a case by case basis and not one blanket statement for all. I'd recommend some research on a deeper/darker depression before commenting invalidating things on a mental health advocate page where there are so many suffering with depression reading your comment wondering why "choosing happy" didn't work. What you have yourself there is "Toxic positivity" it's a comment seemingly positive but actually not helpful and invalidating.
@@Liltattoo I agree with this but at the same time I wouldn't necessarily discard their thoughts on depression. There has been studies in which positive thinking alone combats depression at some degree, the more consistency the more powerful it becomes.
3:26 Missed the crucial part of the experiment: Pavlova rang a bell while the dogs were feeding. After conditioning they would start salivating when just hearing the bell and no food.
This was the same trick used in The Office.
Yess true that's why when Pavlov rang the bell and did not present the food, the dog still salivated because it conditioned itself that whenever the bell rings food will be presented.
Yep, that point was missed..
that's bad , pretty much animal abuse😮
imagine someone used the trick for asking for a pet, but their parents said yes and now they have a dog they didn't want to have
This is how we ended up with horses growing up. Sister asked for a horse, got a pony, before I knew it I was taking care of 3 horses, 3 ponies, 4 sheep and a dog... Sister was bored within a week of each of them.
asked for something parents will say no too, like something one of them realy hate... spiders, snakes... or something dangerous... be creative
@@redzora80 " *Mom i want a venomous scorpion as a pet* "
My sister wanted a dog very badly but we don't have the time to walk with the dog everyday, eventually after a lot of asking my mom gave her 2 guinea pigs. She had no interest in them after a few days but they are now my two little buddies and I take real good care of them :) I guess that's how it goes with kids and pets.
lol just about to bring up this very point
1:24
i have this weird thing where as soon as i hear my own name i'm just absolutely terrified
because i have been criticized in my educational form many times and just the idea of being called out terrifies me
so even if *i'm* the one who says my name i still get that pull back to reality thing, and hear it so perfectly
Same, whenever someone calls my name my heart races so fast and that's kinda a stress for me. Especially when hearing full name
tried that banana peel thingy on my friend. We talked for 5 minutes and then he suddenly realized he has a banana peel in his hands and we bursted out laughing
That banana peel is a classic! 🤣😂🤣😂
I bursted out laughing at this comment
Unbelievable!!
That sounds so fun 😂
😂😂😂 I was like most people will be like huh 🤔. I would notice.
Funny trick thats especially usefull when you're walking busy streets: Looking at the ground in the direction you're walking in front of you, the people walking in your direction will subconsiciously notice and will move out of the line between you and the spot you're looking at. It even works for pretty far away distances. Often looking at the ground right in between two people walking next to eachother even splits them up until you've passed them :').
You can also look over the people’s shoulder in the direction you want to take. Same thing, different focal point
I do this all the time when I walk
I've tried but public school couples are immune to the effects. On the bright side it's fun crossing under an arch of arms
this is literally what ive been doing since i learned how to walk
I love doing small social experiments like this 😂
I finally understood why I study so much psychology. When I was a kid, I was never understood. At home, at school and almost everywhere. Even though I have stable relationships today, my past haunts me random times. I want to understand people as much as possible and silently wish I have someone doing that for me:
I think that if we do something to people, they will do the same for us, but sometimes maybe not. But try to understand the other was a so kind, so good luck :)
you just hit the kokoro😩
wow we are the same
Wow I couldn't relate more. Sucks, I always wanted someone to always check up on me :/
@@dashaa6174 I’ll check up on you 🥺
The human mind is one of the most complex things, governed by mysterious and elusive rules..
"Can I have a puppy for my birthday?"
"Yes, sure."
[Stuck with puppy to look after when you really wanted a chinchilla.]
No giblets😔
it's Giblets the puppy now
yo.
I begged 7 years for a cat.
hoW?
Maybe we should ask for a crocodile first?
@@hoiorrandom 😂🤣
"Hey Mom?"
"Mhm?"
"Can I have 50 bucks?"
"What? No, why do you want it?"
"Uh..then can I have at least 20 bucks?"
"For what?"
"I wanted to buy a Chinchilla"
"No."
Or use all at once go ask 50 bucks when she is exhausted yhen negotiate
"I want to buy a dog "
"Wt no"
"Wtf y dont u allow anything i need it for my mental health for godsake atleast "
"..."
"Atleast a giblet please i need it "
"Ugh ok fine"
F
@@alluripranitha I read your name as "Aloo parantha" for once😅😅
@@whitepencil6818 me too😂
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This channel deserves all the love.
Thank you so much Can Ali Kaya. - Cindy
I agree
Ayn
@@anotherliluselessshit1402 Thanks!
@@Psych2go u guys know Turkish??
Number four is so true!
I literally realized like under a minute or a few ago that I'm doing that all the time with my most valuable goal without even knowing it, AND IT ACTUALLY WORKS!
I literally giggle like heck now
Most teachers won't let you chew gum in school. The fix is find a distinctive smell instead. Memory is more closely associated with smell anyway so it's win win.
I like to use colour. I find I remember the colour I used for a topic first and then it helps me to remember the notes I made using that colour.
You smell and taste with the same part of your brain so it's the same thing, essentially
Smell and taste are connected. Why do you think people sometimes plug their nose when eating or drinking something they don't find tasty?
Or tic tacs?
@@kateschmid2889 oh wait thankssss
Me chewing In School
Also My Teacher : You Throw What You Have In The Trash 🗑️
Ugh i hate when they do that 🙄
Ya but now it's online they don't notice it much. 😀
@@sirivenneladara8947 I feel Bad For Myself wHen i remember That We don't Care About Corona We still Study In School 😂🎒
Army here💜💜💜
@@babykooo7834 Blinkeu 🍓❤️
Another psychological trick : Have a really persuavsive voice like the one you're hearing right now.
I paused the video and just hear dogs barking ...... Huh
I hear my voice while reading your comment
You are right. My voice is very persuative.
Yep. Smile, gentle voice, innocent look
but it doesn't work on people who know me well
@@WildSheWolf_ Well, Yes. Everyone has different personalities and tastes
This video really opens my eyes to many aspects of psychology I hadn't thought about before. It made me reflect on my inner world and inspired personal growth!
Me: Tries the gum trick
It actually starts working
Teacher: How DARE you chew gum in my class
*Spit it out right now*
Hahah soo my school allow us to chew a gum cuz it really help us study and pass the exam
@@jewelbernadettecelis561 That's so cool! While in our school it is supposed to be allowed the teachers usually scold us for it cause it's "not okay to chew gum when you are supposed to concentrate on your studies" or other reasons like that
@@babybisexuwhale6663 same ToT
You can always chew the wrapper
Chew it slowly and quietly!
My school forbids it and that worked for me (15 years ago tho)
#9. To figure out if someone is secretly focusing most of their attention on you more than everyone else in the room, try yawning. Since it's contagious, whoever yawns immediately afterwards was probably focused on you (or they're actually just tired in which case you still played a psych trick, but it was more on yourself😬).
Nice
I tried this and my crush yawned first each time
@@shadwfangthefunnywolf3687 👌
Or change your body position, like touching your hand to your face. And if they mirror you, they are subconsciously focusing on you
You made me yawn just now 😂
"Dad, I want an eraser, watercolors, oil colors, acrylic colors, chalk, crayons, pencils, wooden colors, and papers"
"What, that's too much!"
Well, I just need the painters' equipment.
"Oh, okay"
This method is very useful for those who like to draw, try it
Does ur worked?
Wait a minute
@@chodend3257 phrase that I can hear
Fr ive tried it💀
I used to do this to my father all the time. I would always ask for more money than I wanted. Then pretend to settle for the amount that I really wanted. Once in a while I got the first amount that I asked for. So it was a win-win situation.
I first watched this channel a couple years ago, and it helped me get out of a dark place in my life. Back to the present day I stumble on this video. Thank you so much for everything psych!
I feel like some people are going to take these tricks to the extreme and will just creep people out mirroring others and headbanging while conversing
Already tried the headbanging 💀 didnt go well
This was hilarious 🤣
NOT THE HEADBANGING- 🤣🤣🤣
@@yellow_flash813 just reading your reply made me burts out laughing idk why
@@haphephobia same 💀
BRO. MY SISTER ALWAYS GIVES ME HER JUNK WHILE WE TALK. I LITERALLY CURSED HER IN MY HEAD WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS VIDEO LMAO
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LMFAO 😂😂😂
When you want a horse: "Mum can I have a...a....an elephant?" 🤪
Mom, can we get a get a farm?
@@user-fm4pm4fb1k Oooh good one! 😄
Maybe start with a car?
Start with unicorn
Start with two horses
Back in school a boy in my class mentioned the bubblegum and he said that it really worked. And I tried it. The experiment with the dogs gave me an idea. When I study I`ll study with what/who I love most 😉 Awesome! Can`t wait to try it out! Thank you!♥️♥️
Fun fact: Staring at someone's forehead silently makes them feel uncomfortable
*W h y*
Staring in itself makes ppl uncomfortable
I once did this to my friend. They we're really tall so when they notice I'm staring at they're forehead I just say I'm short and continued-
Or their shoes, they feel intimidated
Or their stomach
I have done the handling random objects to my friend while talking. i have experimented it with so many items that make absolutely no sense and its honestly super funny hahahah. Ive handed a lamp to my friend mid conversation and they took it without realizing at first LOL
What helps is that I usually call someone by their name beginning or during conversations.
Also, I've chewed gum while taking exams and I did a math final once and I scored 97 out of 103 possible points, just to bring my grade up from a C, to a B- lol
@@tommygunn6901 i chew gum around the clock HAHAHA
@zzac1an literally so I did this while they were on the phone having a conversation with a friend or whatever and I walked up to them and gave them a lamp and walked away and they continued holding it while on the phone LOLOLOL
Maybe you should try asmr you sound perfect haha
@@SamElle HAHA I recalled you mentioned that. It was wintergreen right? 😜
I avoid saying peoples names and actively try not to copy someones movements 😂
I find it very difficult and uncomfortable to use people's names, but I'm not sure why
Same! I'm so often unconsciously copying other peoples positions and movements that i feel like i'm mocking them 😅
@@kateschmid2889 Same! And I hate it, when someone says my name unnecessarily. And I don't know why ^^
@YamFestival i was like: lol nice one😂
then : wait a minute... thats a great idea !! (not the book lol, i mean the tricks)
@@kateschmid2889 same. No idea why
I’m detoxing my TH-cam algorithm to stop brain rot and you’re the perfect person to start with ❤❤
i tried one of these at school. i didn’t feel like getting up to throw a wrapper away, so i started talking and handed it over to my friend. when he took it he didn’t say a word until we stopped talking and he goes “hey!” and i just started laughing lol
lolol nice
HAHAHA sameee i did it to my brother he’s watching something and then I asked him what is it about then handed him the wrapper and he just took it
My sister always like does this and I just take stuff without noticing
@@chiedzasvogi4739 damn your sis is smart
Here’s another one: If you don’t want to be called on in class, make eye contact with the teacher while they are picking and then suddenly look away, it diverts their attention away from you.
or answer the teachers question at the start of class then ignore them since they will be thinking "he already answered earlier"
Did never work with my teachers. If you did that.. they'd pick you. Lmao.
Nah. Just be brave and answer a question in the beginning, and until the rest of the class you can chill
@@jifpeanutbutter5510 I also used to do this during school days 😂 I tend to answer the first or second question which is usually quite easy and relax while others get harder questions 😂 most teacher actually do pick someone who does not answer any question for their target though they will be some exception teacher for this method.
This works
. . .
Me: Hands my brother a banana peel
My brother: *THROWS THE BANANA PEEL AT ME*
XD
😂😂😂
The mid conversation things and tired favor never works on my brother
Now we gotta find what physiology videos he watching -
🤣
I used cognitive dissonance unconsciously when I found out I was more social than I thought. I used to think I was a thinking introvert because I was good at math and didn't have that many friends, so I wasn't that social. Recently, I found out that I had been a social introvert all along, but just hadn't realized it for the reasons I mentioned. I accepted the truth and was immediately much more social, boosting my self-esteem and confidence in the process. 😂
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So happy to hear you enjoyed this animation :) - Cindy
@@Psych2go :D
what
We* 🤝
Person who gets it be like: *m e*
1. “Call them by their name.”
Me: *CALL ME BY YOUR NAME!* * flys down pole *
Tried this with kindergardeners. Got arrested.
@@pisschamber0 unfortunate 😔
@@pisschamber0 F 😔
Good pfp
@@Maggie66112 thanks 🕳🚶♂️
The 2nd psychological trick actually worked on me. I was telling my sister some story and I only noticed that she was already ordering me around when she laughed at me.
I have a teacher who blurts peoples names out as he speaks, like, “Now we’re going to learn about color schemes, right, Lizzie? Sharon looks really excited for this one. Anyway, say Gerald here needs to pick out a color...” It works to grab your attention and keep you engaged for the whole lesson. You’re always on the edge of your seat, excited to be included in the conversation.
Hehe, what?🤣
😂❤😊! I will use it more lol! I think it’s positive reinforcement
almost every teacher i've had does this as well!
It just scares me when my teachers do that
Alternative Title:
4 Psychology Tricks and 4 Manipulation Tactics That Actually Work
Exactly
I swear i heard the 5th one when learning about double-speaking before
worked until you watched this video and knew better*
Can 100% attest to the power of #4. When I was graduating from college, I realized I wanted to be a senior-level manager or executive some day, but didn't believe I had what it takes with my social awkwardness and indecisiveness. So I started imagining myself being "the boss", taking charge of crisis, pulling teams together, etc.
I'm still a social introvert in my private life, but I'm on the fast track for a promotion to lower management this year, with aspirations for accelerating that once I go back for my MBA in a year or two.
Mind you, this is after FIVE YEARS of trying (and often failing) to slowly change my behavior patterns. It is NOT easy to do, and often I felt like a complete fake at first. To this day, I'm still a bit shaky sometimes and doubt my capabilities.
But this is a prime example of what "fake it 'till you make it" really means: if you put your all into it and see patient, it can work for you, as well!
Uhh that’s why they don’t want us to chew gum in class I get it
I’m pretty sure they don’t want us to chew gum cuz of the many other gums under tables and desks but sure
Yeah the teacher's want us to all fail and suffer and bring their reputation down by having us get worse grades in their class
@@MariaLopez-jd4tt We know, we were just mocking the education system.
So that's why you slacked of in school. :D
I wouldn’t want people to chew gum in class because I absolutely despise the sound of people’s gum chewing, it’s obnoxious and disgusting
Number 4 really does work! I've always had a sweet tooth along with a big appetite. In turn, this caused me to gain a lot of extra weight and I was super unhealthy. So, I started convincing myself that I didn't like sweet things that much and that my appetite was on the smaller end. It felt weird at first but eventually I found that I was no longer able to eat super big portions of food anymore, and that I didn't care as much for sugary foods. I started exercising along with this and I lost most of the weight and I'm now at a healthy weight! Honestly the best decision I've ever made. But seriously, if you have a goal, use this trick! Most of the time it helps at least a little bit!
Makes no sense to me...
I appreciate that you shared this, and great work, keep being creative with this approach.
It works for drinking water too!
Psychological Tricks That Can Make Your Life Much Easier
Look into someone's eyes when you get a dissatisfactory answer. ...
Stay calm when someone raises their voice to you. ...
Sit close to the aggressor to avoid attack. ...
Remember everyone's names if you want to be popular. ...
Write down your thoughts when you feel stressed or anxious
@@SeiichirouUta LOOL
Here is the thing I can't calm down when someone raises their voice.
I can't help myself from doing the same.
What should I do?
@@rhiko7
Take your time before answering
@@taj4137 Yeah I do try..but many a times I can't..my tongue slips 😅
@@rhiko7 me knowing that never in the history of telling someone to calm down has someone calmed down: * in a calm and composed manner when someone is yelling * please, calm down. Talk to me once you're ready to act like a civilized adult again. * I walk away and leave them yelling by themselves like crazy *
Mirroring body language is super effective towards those with (maybe too much) self-confidence. Watch for that & then mirror their arm’s resting posture or lean on something if they do it first. It’s a shot to their ego they’re not expecting and it goes a long way with them. It works on me, too 😊
Wow I feel so lucky I really wanted to educate myself more in psychology to be able to comfort and help my friends better. I couldn’t bring myself to read books and watch boring videos but thanks to this cute animation and the calming voice I enjoy watching these very much. Thank you for helping us educate our selves.
Heh, I randomly did the imagining trick when I was in my late teens.
I realized at one point that I was depressing myself by wishing for things (mostly attention from others) I didn't have. One day when I lost someone dear to me I noticed that I wasn't feeling any differently from when I didn't get attention and that was the most disgusting I've ever felt with myself. It felt so similar to what I'd been making myself feel that it seemed to diminish the worth of the loss I'd suffered, effectively insulting the memories of the one I cared for.
So I started telling myself I was not allowed to mourn things I simply wanted and should be looking at things I have instead, so I can value them more and mourn only when it's appropriate. Every time I catch myself feeling envious or left out when I can't actively change it, I give myself a mental kick and go "Nope, you haven't lost anything, stop it."
It's made me happier, outwardly more friendly which makes things better for everyone and taught me some introspection that helped me avoid bad things I otherwise wouldn't have noticed if I kept focusing so much on things outside my control.
I now only mourn when it actually matters.
I’ve used the door in the face technique many times without even knowing that it was a psychological trick and it worked most of the time except for like once or twice when I wanted something that was too big of a favor
Same
Same
Me after learning about this tricks: I will definitely try that out.
Me when the right moments comes
maybe next time.
No, you have to ask your crush to marry you in the middle of the night while nodding and then change it to a date.
yeah, that always happen to me.
@@svegon 😂😂
I honestly get a little weirded out when somebody uses my name often. It makes me feel like I'm about to get into trouble for something because my mom would use my name a lot when she was annoyed with me haha
and that is on trauma ✨
What do you mean, Zullala?
Like this, Zullala?
Am I making you nervous, Zullala?
I’m sorry, Zullala.
@@sophiathefurbst haha awww
I don't have any childhood trauma or anything but it just sounds so weird when someone uses my name often, it doesn't even sound like my name after a while. It annoys me ngl.
I get annoyed if someone repeats my name too often in conversation. It makes me think of the trick you use in customer service when trying to de-escalate a customer or when you're trying to talk them into buying something. It's an attempt at making them feel special and like you're treating them as an individual the way some newsletter emails put your name in the greeting instead of some generic "dear subscriber" greeting. I've used it at different jobs and it works plenty of times so I'm already in tune to it being used as a tactic.
*slips a banana peel to my friend midway into the conversation*
“why did you give me a banana peel????”
tada hhhhh
tada hhhhh
tada hhhhh
I feel like this doesn’t work unless you are in a deep conversation.
So many times right after I get done talking to someone I realize I'm holding something and I'm like, " Wait, who gave me this? Where'd this come from?" and my friend is just like, " I handed it to you almost 10 minutes ago." and I think, ' Oh, great. It happened again.'
i'm definitely gonna hand banana peels to everyone
The fact that I've been using these tricks all my life and I didn't know I was psychologically manipulating people is- 😱😵😱
Ahh same 😂
"so only use these for good"
..
If by that you mean, *my own good,* of course I agree with you
Is there any *other* kind of good? Haha.
*me a codependent pushover empath irl*
This channel helped me discover the anxiety I never realized I had, and I am ever grateful for their help in aiding me to understand more about the mental health and just how important it truly is. Plus their animations are just so darn cute!
Thank you for your feedback :) We're so happy to help! Glad you enjoyed the animation too!
1. Call by name. (The person's name piques their attention.)
2. Hand something mid-conversation (Them or you speaking. Try them)
3. Practice Pavlov theory. (Conditioning response to physical stimuli.)
4. Cognitive dissonance. (Imagine where you are and where you want to be.)
5. Favour Magnitude Transition (Ask for big favour, then downsize)
6. Favour Exhaustion Ask (The more exhausted someone is, the easier it is for them to comply to your favour)
7. Mirroring (Mirroring helps build positive connection.
8. Nod head slightly for agreement (If you nod your head slightly when suggesting or stating something, your friend/acquaintance/stranger are more likely to agree)
Me to my crush: I think we both **nods aggressively** like each other
Update: I found out he already likes someone else and he kinda was just too nice? Whatever
Update 2: the new school year has begun and we started pretty great I mean we’re pretty good friends, I still like him but I’m not “allowed” to date now so😔😔
Is your name aya? Mine is Ayam hehe and I'm sorry about that btw
@@ayamrudin7985 ayam goreng lol
@@afadamfam4447 Goreng? I don't get it hahah
@@ayamrudin7985 ayam mean chicken in my language and goreng mean fry so ayam goreng is fried chicken (sorry for making this joke lol)
@@afadamfam4447 hhahaha don't worry about the joke, I actually googled my name one time and chickens appeared in google images lol
Your content really helps me after having a bad day.🥺 Keep posting, you guys even inspired me to start my own youtube channel.
Your day will get better! :) - Cindy
"mom, can I get a dog?"
"No"
"than, can I get a chinchilla?"
"No"
😢😬
ASK FOR AN ANT
Lol YES!!! 🐜🐜🐜
4:50 - Wow, the tips here are super practical! Thank you for sharing this valuable advice 💯
Giblets: Nodding his head at the end of the video.
Me: *Starts nodding head then realizes* Wait... What!?
1. Call them by their name (Used for catching their attention back to you) 1:03
2. Hand someone something while in mid-conversation (Make them carry something for you) 1:50
3. Practice the PAVILOV THEORY by chewing gum to ace a exam (Studies show that when you chew gum while your study sessions and during the exam you are likely to remember it more.) 2:35
4. Try imagining you where you want to be in life. (Example: You are shopaholic who wants to stop spending as much money, convince your mind that “you are not the shopping type that you already don’t like shopping.) 3:40
5. Ask for a big favor than change it to a smaller favor (Example: You want a hamster.. you ask your parents for a dog and they say no. Then ask for a hamster and they will be more likely to say yes. 5:06
6. Ask for a favor when someone is exhausted as they will be more likely to yes to receive more sleep. 6:22
7. Mirror others to help you make friends 7:12
8. Nod your head if you want someone to agree with you. 7:46
Wow... So much effort... Ty btw
The "asking for more than you actually want" trick worked wonders with one of my former bosses. He was quite authoritarian, but also liked to think of himself as the protector of his employees.
How did youtube send me to this channel, and it's 3 years old? I'm so glad i found you
An alternative for the gum is perfume. I use that instead because my professors don’t allow gum. You could also use scented germ x or lotion.
You totally need too start an ASMR channel. Your voice is so soothing. Breathy. No clicks or vocal fry.
Fun fact: People will read your whole message if you write fun fact before it
*Psychology 100*
Noooooo did I really fell for it??!!
Noooooo did I really fell for it??!!
Ohhhhh noooooooo
Noooooo did I really fell for it??!!
I mean,, most times people just don’t leave sentences right in the middle of them
i love this person's voice no matter the topic im inclined to listen. she's like asmr
some times i like to think that Psy2go use some psicological tricks on us without we even noticing
We do it all the time. It's called marketing 101 :)
@@Psych2go can you please explain about it?
Literally no one:
Still no one:
Me when the teacher says to spit out my gum before class: bUt tHe pAVloNiAN eFFECT!!!
teacher: woah thats the next psychology concept we’re learning! u can keep the gum for a demonstration
The teacher: nice information, but you still have to go to detention.
Time traveller woahh
a tip similar to the chewing gum trick:
if youve got more than one subject to study, assign different types of music playlists to each of them. as an example, you can listen to piano music for science, and listen to jazz music for maths. and then the next time you study the same subjects, make sure you listen to the same playlists you assigned for each of them before. this will help you remember the stuff you learned before more, as you are listening to the same types of music.
Pavlovs stimuli was a bell. He would ring the bell before getting the dogs. So they began salivating when they heard the bell. Not when they saw the bowl. They were conditioned to think good was always coming when they heard a bell. It don't sound like much if a difference from what the video said, but it's a huge difference.
Everyone: Chewing gum will help you focus.
Schools: *Karen mode*:
*n o*
I found this to be both educational and entertaining as well.. I really love the animation style, the art and flow of it all.. thanks for this
Omg ur voice is so calming and relaxing, like I'm in heaven
Glad you love Amanda's voice! :)
1:01 loving it already
If you want someone to do something, grab a gasoline canister and some matches and tell them that you will light their house on fire if they don't do what you want. It almost works every time.
Sitting in the middle of the room with an axe and holding it with both hands while shutting your eyes, helps also. You can pretty please almost anything.
@@simosavustaja9420 A gun works well too
@@blanana_m I usually opt for a bazooka.
It's all fun and games till they say:
*"Can I be in the house?"*
🤣🤣🤣🤣
*you stayed up late at night binge watching the office on netflix*
wow what a coincidence *laughs nervously*
*do you have a hard time making friends?*
*stares at window intensely* i know you're watching me