Men (Over 50) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)

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  • What do guys find attractive? More specifically, what do men over 50 look for in a woman? Men choose women based on mainly 4 feelings. Watch this video to figure out what these feelings are and how you can use it to help you find the right man.
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  • @EZDatingCoach
    @EZDatingCoach  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

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  • @davidpalmer7175
    @davidpalmer7175 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Here's my criteria... 1) Intelligence ...2) Sense of humor... 3) Emotional stability... 4) then comes LOOKS. The stronger the first 3 are, the more #4 can slide.

    • @kevvintage7654
      @kevvintage7654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yours are better. His sound a bit manipulative.

    • @1960317
      @1960317 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What usually gets the man's attention first?

    • @patriciacorrea8871
      @patriciacorrea8871 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I don’t know about emotional stability for a woman but I guess if you typically apear to be. 😋

  • @judyperri9496
    @judyperri9496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Whenever I asked my ex husband to do anything he said to stop nagging him, even though I would only ask once I haven’t dated for a while , working multiple jobs, I have become very independent out of necessity but also because I hate to feel needy I wish men could see how much it means to us when they support bus emotionally ,that’s really what I need from a man

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The right man will love doing things for you assuming you ask in the right way. 😀😀🙌🙌

    • @sunbox4700
      @sunbox4700 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@EZDatingCoach Women don't need to try too hard to ask the right way, just because a woman asked, it's already brave enough, most women are afraid to even ask anything because they know a man will discourage them. I wish women were welcomed to just ask then trying to guess how and in what way and walking on eggshells around men...

    • @carol6544
      @carol6544 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I do everything for my husband. I only ever ask my husband to help me with things that I can’t do by myself I don’t do it in a nagging way but he makes me feel like I am. It’s not to do with how I ask but that he can’t be bothered says he will do it when he feels like it. What can I do? 🤷‍♀️

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carol6544 Oh carol I’m really sorry about that okay. Please do everything you can to make sure your relationship works fine if you really feel something special for him and if he’s feeling the same way.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Judy I’m so sorry about that okay. You know women like you are rare to find in this world but men at times don’t really appreciate what they’re blessed with till they lose it.

  • @SKOLAH
    @SKOLAH ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I dunno...I need a man for kisses, cuddles, sex, some company and a male perspective sometimes. Things you can't buy. And if he'll deal with arachnids for me, he's my hero. 🙂
    In my experience, men aged 45+ tend to be...Unattractive in the way they view women. Not all of them, of course. I also find them lacking in mental energy.
    And many don't look after their bodies. They look pregnant and say they want a slim woman who looks after herself. It makes no sense. Feels like it's some sort of entitlement.
    They let go of themselves, make no real effort, yet feel they should have a beauty queen.
    🤷‍♀️
    Just saying.

    • @harrybans2457
      @harrybans2457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Give me a chance

    • @jessicaward5315
      @jessicaward5315 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@harrybans2457
      No. Put in the effort

    • @monkpoggi
      @monkpoggi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What you said about these older men is spot on. Most of them look like pigs. And Yes, they all seem to want a drop dead gorgeous virgin. They can't face reality

    • @nadinedaoud2538
      @nadinedaoud2538 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sad but true 😄

  • @missseeingthesights
    @missseeingthesights ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm kinda laughing out loud at making a man feel needed by asking him to put my coat on.... what kind of simpleton do you think us women are? What about making someone feel needed by sharing deep conversation and friendship, or long bouts of laughter? Surely that's the golden nugget? Relax and be yourself, and if in the small chance that she can't put her own jacket on, help out, but don't think that will be the action that melted her heart...

    • @chanthana7694
      @chanthana7694 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol. I was going to say, I had a long list of things that I need fixing so he really going feel a lot of needed from me.😂

    • @darlielibbybuttonshandmade4128
      @darlielibbybuttonshandmade4128 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Correction : What kind of simpletons do you think we women are ?

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lol, one time I was dating this guy. We had went to a party. It was pretty cold out and so I asked him could he get my jacket from the car? In my entire LIFE, I cannot remember making a request like that. Well, to my utter shock, he kind of gave me a GLARE before doing so. It was the only time I EVER had asked him to do something personal like that!!!! And he had claimed to be in love with me. Really disappointing that he supposedly loved me, yet obviously felt very offended by my simple request.

  • @Jenniferkayhart
    @Jenniferkayhart ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I couldn't get passed no. 1. I'm self sufficient and reliant. This generation of men made me that way. Most men I know and have dated since 2002 (including my children's father) we're not / are not emotionally equipped to handle being an adult, let alone someone who could lead in a relationship. THAT is not my fault. I made more money, worked more hours, and when I had the kids he was happy to let me handle all the responsibilities of that as well. I could go on and on about the emotional state of men in my generation, but every generation has its trials. I'm not even sure I want to date. I was thinking of doing my journey by documenting it on TH-cam and came across your video doing some research. But, this is a subject my friends and I have discussed at great lengths. Our generation of men seemed filled with narcissist, mama's boys, or some form of fear of "commitment" bla bla bla ... anyway I blame it on Hollywood. So it's hard to make a guy feel needed. Most of them don't even know how to show up to warrant that. But anyway ... I'll probably watch you later out of curiosity, but .... I don't date Because I have a lot to offer and for once I'd like to be matched at my energy level. Paying for people's dreams when they don't actually want to put the work in is old. What I need is someone who still loves life and wants to keep experiencing all it has to offer. .... just saying
    Ok I'll shut up.now.

    • @essenceoflove1069
      @essenceoflove1069 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Amen. You described exactly the issues I’ve had over my life. They DON’T want to lead. They just want to complain when we do it out of necessity.

    • @SusanESaly
      @SusanESaly ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed.

    • @christinarobleto1786
      @christinarobleto1786 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree we have alot of mama's boys out there & they need to grow up. Stick to your boundaries & enjoy life.

    • @essenceoflove1069
      @essenceoflove1069 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @theprairielight But we do need them. We can’t do it all. Our community needs them to lead so we can then focus more on our children; ourselves. We are so stressed we are killing ourselves overeating and not eating properly. Our mental health needs them. We need each other. We need them to heal and become our leaders.
      We are both dealing with the remnants of slavery, Jim
      Crow and the continue daily micro aggression. We need a spiritual awakening so we can learn to love ourselves because religion can’t do it for us.
      Practicing Universal Laws have helped me tremendously. I left religion behind. My thought process is so different. I feel empowered. I am empowered. God is looking for true believers.
      Much love!❤️

    • @essenceoflove1069
      @essenceoflove1069 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @theprairielight lol. I hear you. It may take 1-3 years, and and lifetime of steady growth.
      It isn’t easy but what is the alternative? Very few couples (5-10 percent) will have harmonious relations because the vast majority of people have not done and will not do the work.
      What I’m saying is directly related to the Bible verse about many being called, but few are chosen. Few will choose to do the work. That is reality. The fee that do will attract others that do.
      The 90 plus percent who don’t want to do better will just switch partners hoping they are getting something better, but they will not. They are getting someone who is on the same vibration as them just in another outer disguise.

  • @bananka4905
    @bananka4905 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh. He can be the bread winner. I have no problem with that at this stage of my life. I've been working hard since I was 13 years old... time for someone to help me .or share the load

    • @themaggattack
      @themaggattack หลายเดือนก่อน

      THANK YOU! Help with my coat? And the door? And THAT'S IT?
      Lame!
      I'll be polite and say thank you to those gestures- but if you're trying to BE with me, then you better not stop at just gestures.
      I provide substantial services in a relationship and I expect substantial services in return.
      Just bc I'm 50+ doesn't mean I should consider myself lucky to accept any old scrub into my life.
      I'm not patting anyone on the back for doing nothing and pretending it's something. Help me with something I actually NEED (or even WANT) help with!
      If you can't help with expenses or at least pay for dates and vacations at the big age of 50+, then at least be able to fix & build things... or give really good massages. Provide SOMETHING substantial!

    • @bananka4905
      @bananka4905 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@themaggattack lazy and never knew love

  • @jessicadjonne2687
    @jessicadjonne2687 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Reading through these responses makes we want to start a relationship clinic. It’s so obvious why they’re single!!
    Take a deep breath single people, take the labels off along with expectations and just relax. Open your eyes to who you’re dating. And if you want them to do something, ask them, sweetly.
    Just as in Any training, positive encouragement works best!

    • @Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle
      @Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautifully said. We're living too much in our heads instead of relaxing and let things unfold and even evolve ❤

  • @VargasandLaRueChannel
    @VargasandLaRueChannel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I got tired of my date asking me to wear a dress and show my legs. He's 5 ft 4 and weighs 240

  • @jo-annmacneill6454
    @jo-annmacneill6454 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Women are looking for men for companionship to do things together. Every woman is looking for a man.

  • @AnnetteChiniquy
    @AnnetteChiniquy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Him needing to be needed all the time can come off as a little needy. Best wishes everyone❤

    • @KiahDG
      @KiahDG 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 Same here.. 😂

  • @dianealden9293
    @dianealden9293 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Stay Away from dating apps if you are over 50!! You will thank me later. :) Develop yourself including fitness and dress and hobbies. Learn and never stop learning- find humor in everything and hsve a grateful heart. Be content with your own company. Make friends with gals or guys. Make people feel safe to speak up.

    • @gbone7581
      @gbone7581 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You forgot get a dog!

    • @lisadinthongsai1383
      @lisadinthongsai1383 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

    • @cynthiageskes1457
      @cynthiageskes1457 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or a cat - but that would make you a 'cat lady' - why are single women with dogs not 'dog lady'? Why are single men with cat(s) not 'cat man'? BTW- men who have cat(s) are great. I have 🐈 🐈. BTW- I love dog🐕 too.
      Men who have cat 🐈 & 🐕 are great. Hope to have 🐕 too someday.

  • @shannond.5916
    @shannond.5916 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There's 4 As Appreciate, Affirm, Admire and Accept.

  • @BonniciAlexia
    @BonniciAlexia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I never ask for anything like the sugar example, because I'd feel he'd be pissed off with me treating him like my lackey. So I do things myself, unless someone does something without me asking. And then, yes, I'd appreciative because he :1. knew me well enough to see that something was wrong #2. Did the thing without me having to ask/do it myself. #3. Even if I didn't want it, he still made the effort. So I'd probably accept it because of that. It's something I do for others (friends or boyfriends), and those small gestures are HUGE. It's about noticing and awareness, which means the person is in the moment.
    I've also been with guys who walk 5 steps ahead, not noticing they're walking too fast/taking giant strides, and I'm not at his side. When I was younger, I'd run to catch up. Then I'd ask them to slow down. Now I just keep my pace, and see if they even notice, because they are obviously oblivious to my presence, and the salad days of running after someone are over.

  • @hellodenise9612
    @hellodenise9612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have experienced resentment from men for not making enough money! One even saying I want someone rich! I think I picked some that are not right for me?

  • @iamlatroshia
    @iamlatroshia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg this video was so on point!! Ty!!

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    yessss the guy ive been seeing loves when I need something from him. I'm pretty independent as a person so it was hard asking him to help with random things but it did improve our relationship!

  • @yingluck5858
    @yingluck5858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Needed
    Appreciated
    Accepted
    Boundaries

  • @belindachambers9836
    @belindachambers9836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome vid!!Thank you Mike You Rock!!!

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such a wonderful video to be honest. He spoke facts for real.

  • @AD-uq4pz
    @AD-uq4pz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We’re all screwed

  • @adriennevanstaden9460
    @adriennevanstaden9460 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this information...

  • @abdoolahnooraneesoyfoo4562
    @abdoolahnooraneesoyfoo4562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANKS MR MIKE ABSOLUTELY TRUE

  • @bibiharoon3811
    @bibiharoon3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re Absolutely Right…….

  • @gabrielamartinyuk9894
    @gabrielamartinyuk9894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I need a man! I’m super old fashioned and it’s truly a struggle with dating being this way because men are used to independent women.

    • @clairebearie87
      @clairebearie87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yep babe. I feel ya

    • @sethdanse8581
      @sethdanse8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also need a woman I can fall in love with you and spend my life with, do you think I could be what you want in a man and fall in love with

    • @blessingmlambo8573
      @blessingmlambo8573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sethdanse8581 yes

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gabriel, sorry you think that way..a woman ..can be..old fashion in her beliefs, a.and still be independent, ..both, together, are make for a well rounded woman, which in fact..makes for a much better human being..and that's a very good thing in it self..however we all are free to believe as we wish..and please I hope you have not taken my reply to yours as criticism,it was never my intent to do so...but just what I believe..regarding this matter.thank for allowing me this opportunity, to have shared it with you and any who as read it as well ..thank you..

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bosslady2002 Don’t think you said something wrong okay. You spoke facts to be honest.

  • @soniaboussalem7451
    @soniaboussalem7451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    All of that would only work if he’s a nice guy

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly!! We break up with guys who aren't nice!!! Right? 😃😃😃

    • @samkline7705
      @samkline7705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice guys are EVERYWHERE, and women cant stand them. We are boring, dull, and dont make you tingle.. But you complain that bad boys dont treat you nice. If women could figure yourselves out, maybe men MIGHT be able to, too.

    • @soniaboussalem7451
      @soniaboussalem7451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samkline7705 you can be nice and not be boring and dull. Yeah nice guys are everywhere? Yeah always nice at first and when they have you they turn into monsters.

    • @samkline7705
      @samkline7705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@soniaboussalem7451 Then you are NOT meeting the nice guys; you're still meeting D-bags.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@soniaboussalem7451 I know life might have thrown so much at you from some men that hasn’t made up their mind on what they wants before getting involve with any woman. But that doesn’t mean you won’t find that special one meant for you when the time comes okay.

  • @videoettaceo8900
    @videoettaceo8900 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This whole reward for just cleaning up after yourself... I really can't wrap my mind around it. Why would I praise a man for effectively being grown up enough to wipe his own behind after a bm.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you ever do a man's laundry with skid marks you may change your mind. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @angierox6964
    @angierox6964 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you! I’ve been working on the Needing part. Due to my parents, I wanted to make sure I was able to take care of myself if my husband ever left. And I also had to take care of everything when I was young, so I have tools I have ambition, not afraid to take risks, have my own business… But I do need a man to be in my life so I wish I would’ve learned this in my 20s instead of my 50s. Lol!

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We all have our own path. 🙂🙂

  • @farzforz
    @farzforz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really like all your videos.Useful and concise.thanks

  • @janetrobinson8925
    @janetrobinson8925 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great advice. I keep telling myself, the right man hasn't met ME yet!

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good day to you Janet. How’re you doing today? I hope you’re feeling much better today! And be rest assured the right man meant for you will surely show up without any stress when the time comes.

    • @DavidWalter-rq6hn
      @DavidWalter-rq6hn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello Janet, I agree with you but I think I'm here now lol, how are you doing today?

    • @trutherone2140
      @trutherone2140 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This may give you a better result from the Universe. "The right man is out there. I know he is my destiny and is also seeking me. It is bound to happen in the near future".

    • @mba2ceo
      @mba2ceo ปีที่แล้ว

      only works till 40 and then crickets

    • @Jorgesanagustin645
      @Jorgesanagustin645 ปีที่แล้ว

      basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend...

  • @sylve3456
    @sylve3456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    We need men. But finding a good looking sparkling passioned well developed man who doesnt drink, cheats or doesnt see your feelings and wellbeing as a priority is very hard to find. Besides the divorce trauma's and stress from work.

    • @clairebearie87
      @clairebearie87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      looking for the unicorn there hun

    • @beautifulmess2023
      @beautifulmess2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A godly man is the only way to go

    • @michelles2299
      @michelles2299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are asking too much I notice good looking at the top of your agenda let me tell you good looking men are bastards

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its a wasteland out there

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lisaariottiart Hello beautiful lady, how’re you doing today? Don’t make that land a wasteland if it’s what I’m thinking okay. Cos no matter how long the right one will surely come to make you smile a whole lot no matter what life might have thrown at you.

  • @-Mark_F
    @-Mark_F 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is really a great video. Four simple things but they resonated so much as I am a guy and that made so much sense to me. Now I have to find a woman like that. Thank you for posting!

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome. Glad you enjoyed it. If you ever want help finding an amazing woman let me know. 💪💪👍👍

  • @pensfan4life
    @pensfan4life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been alone so long that I'm so used to doing everything myself and don't NEED help from anyone or a man.

    • @stormskies3861
      @stormskies3861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But don’t write someone off either. You don’t need a guy and that’s a great way to be but someone will come along one day and you will WANT them and that’s the difference. He may also love that you are very independent. But don’t write anyone off.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      You might not need a man now due to some things life might have thrown at you to make such decisions but there’re times everyone needs to be loved by that special one no matter how independent we can be. Especially when we getting old to be resting and enjoying life with our family.

    • @exoticallovergirl
      @exoticallovergirl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have never enjoyed the protection of a man. It is a true luxury.

    • @susaneisel230
      @susaneisel230 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree the only man I care about his feelings is the one I raised. I make my own money and men frankly aren't worth the effort at 58

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@susaneisel230 Everyone is fully entitled to their decisions in life! What really matters is our happiness to live no matter what we’re going through at any point in time.

  • @Suvikki74
    @Suvikki74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Bonus: Make mistakes, own them, "you are right". = Imperfections make the right person love you.

  • @bintokiria5338
    @bintokiria5338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @Janellejanelka
    @Janellejanelka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have such lovely energy Mike. Honest and to the point talks.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Jana!!! 💜💜

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s got such a wonderful energy to be honest. He spilled facts for real. You’ve got a very adorable profiles pics tho.

    • @Jorgesanagustin645
      @Jorgesanagustin645 ปีที่แล้ว

      basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend ..

  • @JJ-dx7xx
    @JJ-dx7xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is really great advice, Mike!! 😀 And I really love the acronym! Thank you

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome.

    • @frankdavis2327
      @frankdavis2327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a wonderful advice to be honest. Lol 😆 well you’ve got a very adorable profile pics.

    • @Jorgesanagustin645
      @Jorgesanagustin645 ปีที่แล้ว

      basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend ..

  • @chriskirsten8221
    @chriskirsten8221 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    im 52 and just want stabilty and reciprocation in a relationship these days
    hard to find?
    its damn near impossible......

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think in the early stages of dating folks are only willing to provide stability if the compatibility and chemistry are high which can be difficult to find. 🙂

    • @Carolina480
      @Carolina480 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes Chris it’s very hard dating at our ages it’s more challenging wish yuo good luck

  • @JW-wr4ep
    @JW-wr4ep 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You need to add.
    Not nagging (which you mention), not being argumentative over meaningless things.
    Ultimately, women at 50 need to enhance the happiness he has created for himself. bring peace and a lot of women can’t bring peace to themselves. Address baggage. Mindfulness, gratitude journal,…
    Don’t mess with men that are not happy themselves.
    As horrible as This sounds get evaluated for borderline personality disorder, and narcissist, personality disorder. Whether you are a man or a woman. You’ve got to address issues. A number of my friends now can identify certain traits, particularly those that are being untreated.
    (Any woman that can never say “sorry” or says her last X partners were narcissistic, and it was never her fault (no accountability) are HUGE red flags…like fireworks of red flags raining down, like it’s China.

  • @AsimaGuruBahasa
    @AsimaGuruBahasa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the best accurate dating advice I ever had. Thank you so much EZ. Btw.. Is this apply to age 30 or 40?

  • @anthonyvargasjr1602
    @anthonyvargasjr1602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brother that was awesome!

  • @Lizeth0102
    @Lizeth0102 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    4:45 You have you be physically attracted to the guy, it’s not a good sign if you’re not.

  • @makelifematter1896
    @makelifematter1896 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Effection means more than anything and all you mention sadly the ones that go with looks but im a firm believer its what inside that matters not the outside

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Correct!

    • @teresacroft7409
      @teresacroft7409 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men mainly go by looks and youth. PERIOD

  • @Leila2023_
    @Leila2023_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    can you please teach men this too... make women feel needed and appreciated. it would be nice the other way around too!

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will do! 🙂

    • @teresacroft7409
      @teresacroft7409 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true. It's always us catering to their poor fragile egos, while not getting attention or affection from them

  • @bosslady2002
    @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    In a marriage, Happy wife, Happy life..that true in dating, happy girlfriend,happy boyfriend..we woman have feelings too.mike

    • @migueljonz3901
      @migueljonz3901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You obviously must be married. Why are you watching this?

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Miguel if this comment was meant for me .
      Your wrong I am not married..I am a 75yr young woman minister of the word of God..if a woman or man do not give one another a chance ...time....to see,or,hear..what and who the person they are dating are real or not as to the character and integrity they have..weather they are wearing what I refer to as a mask, or masks,. That mask or masks,....will start following away real fast, one by one, after they marry...to late, can't erase the spots off of a leopard... that's what my Dad said once to me..and have lived long enough to know that's very true...either or will never be happy...who u are, is who you choose to be way before you even thought of dating or marriage...think about that...hope u have or had already either way...

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Judy, thank God more woman are becoming aware of who they are, and standing their ground,,as to what they expect from a man as being considered as a friend, boyfriend and or potential husband..we have eyes to see,ears to hear, and ...brains, and feelings...as well. however, how one was brought up in their younger yrs as to the way their mother, or any woman that raised them , how they were treated, physically and or abusively, in actions and speech,. Will most likely become just like the man who treated that woman ..kind consideration, compassionate, responsible man or just the opposite, each fits into the equiation.but, in having said that..thank God some having had to experience that..have had to bear it while living in that environment, untill they moved out ,and do very well in their relationships.they are those who detested have to see and hear and live it first hand..and refused to follow suit..they are more compassionate,caring, understanding human beings, in spite of all they had endured..and blessed.to have gotten out sane and whole..so women have step up to the plate,. And work on themselves, first and foremost, by learning to better .. themselves, financially, and emotionally..before ever considering, marriage or living together with a man..a woman should know who she is, what she wants,and expects not only from a man but from all human beings...if she dosent, then she is doing a disservice, to herself and society in general..thanks for letting me share..hope it has helped someone..

    • @jgimages1
      @jgimages1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bosslady2002
      you need a hug

    • @JohnDoe-cm2sf
      @JohnDoe-cm2sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You obviously never realize that your man is the prize and your job is to be in a supporting role of his mission

  • @agnesaj9199
    @agnesaj9199 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That statement "women don't need men anymore" is SOOO untrue. Men are wonderful and we women need them for lots of things. PLEASE STOP PERPETUATING THIS MYTH!!!

  • @Carolina480
    @Carolina480 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I Need a man I think women need men in so many ways I had a flat tire i need to change it I need a man for that because I can’t do that so we do need men

  • @samkline7705
    @samkline7705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Men are SO simple, and women cant seem to figure us out
    respect me as a man
    feed me
    never stop being a girlfriend, even as a wife
    f me, not as a reward, and don't withhold sex as a weapon
    any man will be yours forever

  • @emoore7476
    @emoore7476 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Number 1 is what my professor asked me, and what he asked from his other female students, apparently.

  • @BlackPearlMona369
    @BlackPearlMona369 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If he is a real man, woman will automatically and naturally feel she needs hem in her life. He will be really and from heart appreciated and respected. Also a real gentleman senses and knows these boundaries without us having to explain. In case of my ex, i communicated my positive boundaries, but i got the complete opposite. Sometimes, a woman practices all these tips but they are just not ment to be together,

  • @Michele-cx6qd
    @Michele-cx6qd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still need them

  • @jvolstad
    @jvolstad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was three years ago. Things are different today.

  • @zamakilechikombe-ee1ob
    @zamakilechikombe-ee1ob 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish all man there like you coch amen 🙏

  • @nimfabangay7318
    @nimfabangay7318 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty. I NAAB my guy....❤💃

  • @deanjohnson6722
    @deanjohnson6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the acronym, NAAB, thankkyou.

  • @Medietos
    @Medietos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We do need men. Finances is not everything, and not everybody has a job and salary. A real marriage relationship is essential and important.

  • @joeblakely5950
    @joeblakely5950 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Single men unable to pay the bills by themselves. Men with the working women doing better

  • @123smartcontent
    @123smartcontent ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So I stopped listening to the vid about halfway in because I started feeling bad. My ex never did any of those things. I'm not sure that a woman today even wants to do those things.

  • @geneviveross4234
    @geneviveross4234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Majority of Women in civilized society like America, Europe don’t NEED men, a wide majority are independent.....but the reverse is the case for the vast majority of women in Africa.. In Africa as a whole, majority of the women still depend on the man to provide everything for them. Majority of the Men are still the sole breadwinner in Africa...!!!
    Africa has a long way to go. Women are still treated as second class citizens. Much love everyone ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Artist1974CH
      @Artist1974CH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      First of all the west is not civilized. Also, western women are also being treated as second class citizens too. It is a global problem! Don't let some white supremacist tell you that life in the west is all nice and dandy. That's a bullshit, racist myth.

    • @Mali-fm3rc
      @Mali-fm3rc ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's wrong with being provided for ma'am?
      Asking from Africa!

    • @kresivarivkah612
      @kresivarivkah612 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men and women need each other. Not all us Americans are foolishly independent.

    • @spotdiagnosis7148
      @spotdiagnosis7148 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not civilization, men have to play as the provider for the family and protector, women on the other hand nurture, raise and maintain the family. When men lose this they won't commit to a relationship, and when girl feel dependent they less and less cling to family values. The final result is women craving men and men losing their energy on prostitution and less committed relationships

    • @ednahchirchir1924
      @ednahchirchir1924 ปีที่แล้ว

      Both need each other in Africa and other places

  • @elizabethmmbone8861
    @elizabethmmbone8861 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As for me I just need an older man am 33 but I believe these old people have Tru love and more respect I pray to God to have one

    • @lindatannock
      @lindatannock 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1st tip, don't call people over 50 "old" lol 😆. We're not old, just older than you!

  • @khappy1286
    @khappy1286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If the man doesnt help me w my coat, car door, bags, we are not a match. It's not a date for me if he doesn't.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I pray you finds that special one to make you the happiest woman in the world okay.

  • @Infrared1967
    @Infrared1967 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was nicely surprised with your advice. I'm gearing up to maybe date again in my 60's. My litmus test will be raking leaves either at my place or his. If he sees it as a pain or a degrading fall chore to whine through, I'll move on.
    If he's up for beer, wine, hot chocolate, munchies, music, and happy exhaustion as we lay in a pile of autumn colors then this is my kind of guy.

    • @artsylady3187
      @artsylady3187 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOLOLOLOL good luck with that......

  • @comtaar2245
    @comtaar2245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The fallacy in this talk is that you say men are interested in relationships. They are not. They do not truly want to be in them. So women who show this slavish admiration will only end up with huge regrets.

  • @alisawells8993
    @alisawells8993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi there I am single looking for a serious relationship, not in for drama and games, I have no kids

  • @divarose2017
    @divarose2017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So, she made you feel needed?? and she is now your EX??? Apparently that was not enough for you.

  • @johnshaff
    @johnshaff ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ladies, please know the man’s temperament before taking 100% of this coaches advice. There are plenty of other ways to make a man feel needed then giving him chores. Many men will not feel “needed” if you say something like the coach suggests “you’d look so sexy if you vacuumed the house”. They will feel manipulated, and feminized. I suggest to find a coach who is the type of man you want to be with, and take his advice. If this coach is that, than so be it

    • @MsBee-oz7vd
      @MsBee-oz7vd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you John. I agree with you! It is difficult getting back into the dating scene in one's 60's.

  • @jenniferl1908
    @jenniferl1908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent advice.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!!

    • @sethdanse8581
      @sethdanse8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you found love ye t

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that’s true. It’s a very useful advice to be honest.

  • @childsweethearts
    @childsweethearts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the video. Actually, guys don't give me a chance to do those things. They're only wanting hook ups and nothing more. When I say no on the first meeting, they get mad. How do we get to the stage you're talking about?

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi! You're welcome for the video. We need to find you some different men that are looking for partnership!

  • @YouTubeMaxwell
    @YouTubeMaxwell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I live in a small town and I am what you would call a biblical wife,, now don't get me wrong I'm not married I mean I believe in a submissive wife I don't have a problem with any of the things that you have said. The problem is there are just not that many men available at 50 in a small town, I have been married and I I'm kind of proud of myself because according to you I was doing a pretty good job but it takes two and honestly if someone is not ready or willing for a commitment there is no amount of love attentiveness making them feel they are the king of the castle that makes me giggle because I actually said that to him several times when he had a hard day at work that it was okay now cuz he was home and he was king of this Castle. But if both partners are not willing to give and take no amount of love and caring and positive affirmation is going to work.

  • @memoperfectphilippinevlog115
    @memoperfectphilippinevlog115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this am new in here..but i think my man is kinda nit a serious one

  • @gbaca07
    @gbaca07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your attitude is so much better than coach Corey wayne 😴

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    number one looks, 2-looks 3 looks 4 looks, Women NEED men, they resent it!

  • @harrybans2457
    @harrybans2457 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok 👌👍

  • @angelabrinson7893
    @angelabrinson7893 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You don't need all that....a gentleman is going to take care you 1st....how bout just be with the person you love

  • @bertposton589
    @bertposton589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guys, you are as valuable as your last paycheck in America.
    .

  • @amyludwig8685
    @amyludwig8685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @MichelleKumler
    @MichelleKumler 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I dont need a guy to put a coat on me because I live in Florida and its hot! Maybe a man who could fan me and feed me grapes while I lounge beside the pool 😃

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Men, feel free to post your application below for this prestigious role. 🤣

  • @michaelahrinco79
    @michaelahrinco79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me the most important thing is wen man pay for a woman on a date I think asking a female to go half is not acceptable,that'd just me

  • @naffs1069
    @naffs1069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If I make him feel “needed” then he thinks that I am using him. How do I win?

    • @constancedenchy9801
      @constancedenchy9801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @frankdavis2327
      @frankdavis2327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

    • @frankdavis2327
      @frankdavis2327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@constancedenchy9801 hello

    • @sethdanse8581
      @sethdanse8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can make me feel needed and I can make you feel wanted, that’s how much I wanna love you

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup- cognitive dissonance

  • @marlenehaigler6603
    @marlenehaigler6603 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No, I need a man and I tell him, but they want me to have money at 49 after being abandoned by my spouse. I'm raising a family with part-time work.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ugh, life is never fair, is it? At least you are receiving honesty. 💜💜

    • @marlenehaigler6603
      @marlenehaigler6603 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They usually don't come out and say it I've had to figure it out by the words they've said and when they find another young girl with a job, that's why they chose that. Thank you you're right thanks for helping people.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marlenehaigler6603 You're welcome and sorry you are dealing with this.

  • @judyjohns7491
    @judyjohns7491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Better example of boundaries pls?

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      You wanna give boundaries in your relationship?

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couples that understands theirselves knows their boundaries and flaws and had choose to accept them and live happily together.

  • @justicewillprevail1106
    @justicewillprevail1106 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve met so many men who once they feel needed, they start to treat you badly.

    • @winninginlife
      @winninginlife ปีที่แล้ว

      You made them too needed...as if you were needy & using them like an errand boy. I see alot of women do that, men also like a woman who is competent without him. Men need space just like women!

  • @gemmalonzano7424
    @gemmalonzano7424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I need man.. it's not true there's still woman needs man❤️❤️❤️and I'm one of them lol

    • @sethdanse8581
      @sethdanse8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need a woman like you, can we make it working together to be lovers darling

    • @michelles2299
      @michelles2299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get a life instead

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Gemma, if u are referring u,and other women need a man regarding sexually, that is a horse of a different color. No woman or man,who have found they are satisfied without looking here there and every where for that prince,or princess, are priceless...they know who they are,what they are about, and happy content with the lives they have made for themselves..however,having said that , it is always nice to have at least one true friend of the same sex, with basically the same interests..and intelligence..to occasionally do things with...as u put it..you need man... sounds as if your insecure, first find out why,then work on all the positives...you...have..bet you have many...we all do...bet u are awesome, give yourself credit...never depend on anyone.. Life changes,we change..be .. All..u...can..be..for...yourself..man looks at the outer person...but God..looks at a persons heart...thank you for letting me share my thoughts with u...happiness comes from within..when u have peace of heart and mind..you have everything...life is a good teacher,but God is a better one...be safe..

  • @KuhiChr
    @KuhiChr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so sorry for my feedback, but You do concentrate on the little unimportant things. What we need is, simple. A man takes a leed and is the boss in mind and body (action) during the relationship. Cleaning house, opening doors, etc. - why are we even talking about it? Everybody needs some support in life,, mental, physical, financial... Just do what You are meant to do, thanks!

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep, step up to the plate..in all ways,we as women, want to be needed as well as appreciated, we are not there to be their younger mother, with benefits..

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are so cute, I wish guys could watch this video too LoL 👍🥰😘

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope everyone watches this video and learn from it cos he gave such a useful and excellent advice to be honest.

    • @jacksonlevon9882
      @jacksonlevon9882 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Margaret, how're you doing today..? 🌹

  • @autsept7116
    @autsept7116 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would love to see the look on a man's face that a woman has just asked to go get her some sugar. Lol

  • @user-dn9vd9xg9p
    @user-dn9vd9xg9p ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So women raise their children because their children NEED them now there's an empty nested home and they have to raise another child that NEEDS them? Men truly do not understand that women felt relieved of when the needy children leave the home to have their own families. This burden took a toll of nonworking and working women with overwhelming physical, mental, and emotional and sexual burdens. Once children leave, the woman feels overwhelmingly relieved and free of providing all the needs then she focuses on the relationship and being free of providing herself to the entire family..... Now we have to raise another needy child? We look to men as providing for us in all ways to make up for all the years of women giving everything they had during child rearing years. Ugh! Women NEED these 4 things also. Too many snowflake mommy raised men nowadays.

  • @ayo9057
    @ayo9057 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m done with broke women. This eliminates most.

  • @TheRealNCYank
    @TheRealNCYank 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t really agree with the first two, but I do like the second two.

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Batting .500, leading the MLB. I will take it 😀

    • @alisawells8993
      @alisawells8993 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you

  • @RunToEternity
    @RunToEternity ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I almost forgot, first of all, don't tell me how to feel.

  • @justinahconsolation4850
    @justinahconsolation4850 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So helpful I'm 23 but tired of being single don't know what to do

    • @christinarobleto1786
      @christinarobleto1786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Find activities you like to do & have fun. Don't sleep around & keep your boundaries & common sense so you don't get in trouble

  • @eboo925
    @eboo925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No by 40 women want to work part-time 20 32 hours no overtime😁😁😁😁😁

  • @saralopez7732
    @saralopez7732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😘👍

  • @Random-rt5ec
    @Random-rt5ec 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Been married twice and @ 63 I am very happy living alone without the drama of a woman, but I do like sex & continue to date several women aka: spinning plates. My motto is: Hang out, have fun, hook up. Amazing: To my amazement younger pre-menopausal women are attracted to older guys like me. I am physically fit with masculine features.

  • @cindiaxtell4760
    @cindiaxtell4760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I broke every one of these rules with the man of my dreams! 😔

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, you got these ideas for next time!!

    • @sethdanse8581
      @sethdanse8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww sorry

    • @robertgreen722
      @robertgreen722 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Cindi! How come?

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Cindy I’m so sorry about that okay. And you still have all the time to make a turn around and fix everything so you both can live happily together if he’s still very much interested in you.

    • @richardmcguinn732
      @richardmcguinn732 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well you’ve got such an adorable profile pics.

  • @hoomannili
    @hoomannili ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Typical modern woman: I don't need a man
    Man: OK
    Then he goes his own way and removes himself from the dating market.

  • @mba2ceo
    @mba2ceo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WRONG !!! I do NOT want to be needed ONLY WANTED

  • @mrshbt1
    @mrshbt1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh.......... I neeeeeed men

  • @kaarentamm6423
    @kaarentamm6423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so basically you're dealing with a little boy?

  • @waynecampbell9208
    @waynecampbell9208 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're saying women don't need us anymore yet the majority of them still have steady boyfriends or husbands anyway and later on separate and divorce over and over again and again!! That is just so crazy!! So women pretty much have it made it sounds like!! Well congrats to them!! Talk about having their cake and eating it too, this one really takes it!!

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think men have massive value in parternship. Perhaps my explanation was a bit oversimplified.

    • @waynecampbell9208
      @waynecampbell9208 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@EZDatingCoach Ah!...So I see!...I guess this means the more things change, the more they say the same! ...I guess that's makes sense!

  • @OlderWomenRock
    @OlderWomenRock ปีที่แล้ว

    I have no probs asking for help , it’s easy for Me to show appreciation
    Think it takes a lot more .
    Putting a Man on a pedestal seems dangerous to Me
    Not sure this would often work .
    If a Man has good self esteem or has an inflated ego ( common ) it wouldn’t work .
    Why aren’t you mentioning the obvious , Men are physical . They generally want to be super attracted to you .