Right. But that's also what I wanted when I was 30 and 40 and 50. If I wanted a woman, she'd have to be a gentle, calm, loving presence in my life. I've had enough angry, violent, nagging women to last forever.
When I was 61 I dated and got engaged to a 52 year old. I was willing to give up some of my independence, but I will not babysit a drama queen, emotional wreck, therapist's dream or an alcoholic. Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!
" Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!" I think they may do that IF You stop comparing these elderly women with Your previous YOUNG girlfriends. However I think You are unable to do that because You NEED to remember them and the time You had with them just as You sometimes need to look at young girls . You have these needs because You need to stimulate Your testosterone production. Young women stimulate our testosterone production more then elerly women do, We men need to have a good testosterone production or we become unhealthy. I think this is also the primary reason we can´t stay away from porn when we do not have a good sexual relation. By comparing You with their dead husband they are making a statement about how attractive they were when they were young ....
Doesn't have to be a dead guy. They're comparing your shortcomings with a previous guys perfection. You'll always be the lesser prize. The consolation. At least if he's dead, she can't get him back.
I've been single for a while, I am 69. I would like to meet a good man and his age is unimportant to me, younger would be nice. I notice many men in my age group are unhealthy, depressed, drink too much, and talk endlessly about the terrible marriage they left. Or they seem to think that if they buy dinner I owe them sex. It's difficult to meet good men who could make a good partner. Oh well. The good news is..... I love my life, friends, and am fine if I never meet anyone!
Hi Debbie. Thanks for leaving me a comment. Yes, there are a lot of men in that age group that are unhealthy and depressed. It certainly can be overwhelming weeding through all those guys. Many of my clients have felt the exact same way. But, what they have found is that if you have a good filtering system and a strategy you can get to a great guy efficiently. If you would like my help in showing you how to do this, book a call with me here: www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
This guy’s living in la-la land I’ve never had an over 60 open a door for me in a fit. And their first questions are about my assets. Men over 60 just want to make sure that you’ll not be any kind of financial burden on them, that you’ll accept always being last after the whole rest of their families, grown up kids esp. and that you require no commitment whatsoever from them. Past that they will dump you in a nano-second for Anybody younger than you.
Some women over 60, look better than women in their 20's. I would agree that this is not easy, not being fat and very fit, but these women exist. I saw them.
perhaps me being English and as we say over here ive been dragged up propper like, but opening doors, and ladies first type thing is something ive done all me life, and im nearly retired.
@@Conn30MtenorA prenup is only good when she profits. Do not get married. Move your assets into an irrevocable trust. This makes it difficult if you do something stupid for a women's court system judge to transfer your assets to their predetermined winner. If you have gone through divorce once you know that contract is evil and a rip-off.
The idea that men want money from women seems pretty strong in this group for some reason. It isn't generally true. It COULD be that men who intentionally seek out elderly women are doing this. The vast majority of men don't care about women's money or career, because it doesn't generally benefit us. The old saw: "what's his is hers and what's hers is hers" seems to apply. Her money will always be hers alone. His money becomes "our money" the moment she marries him or moves in.
Most people who are in bad shape by 60 were probably also in bad shape by 45. I see people every day who look very old and worn down that I know are younger than me.
This reminds me of one of Nicole Kidman lines in “The Human Stain” says I’m not your first love but I want to be you last.” It’s tough for women being with men this age. No one wants to be a “caregiver” partner because of bad health.
@@sethtenrec Actually men healths decline more and you guys think you can still go after much younger women shoot if I am a 60 yo I would still rather be alone!
Works both ways…my ex-girlfriend of 30 years ago is besieged with health problems while I am in very good health… we almost married and I am thankful we did not marry…
I'm 58 years old and I haven’t been in a relationship since 2017. I actually like my freedom. I can't be bothered with sports and I know that would be a serious turn-off to a man. I am also heavily involved in music as I take vocal lessons for an advanced choir and am in my first year of learning to play the trumpet. I honestly don't believe that there is some out there for everyone. I think that it either happens or it doesn't. The men of today do not live up to my standards. Ladies, if you want to get rid of a man who is bothering you, all you have to tell him is that you don't have sex outside of a marriage commitment and that man will dump you so fast, you'll be breathing in dust. I didn't find a man that was right for me so I bought a trumpet. I'm very happy 😂.
Mike, I have the added stress of having to start over financially. I'm cleaning homes right now at age 61 and living with and helping my 90 year old mom. I just don't have the money to work with you let alone go travelling with a guy. This makes me feel ashamed that I didn't set my life up better in the first place. I live in Canada so the exchange rate doesn't help. I know my shame about lack of money is a huge barrier to being my best self. I need to deal with this before I can even think of attracting the right man. I want to end by saying that I think your videos are superb and I appreciate them very much even though I've never acted on them. You make a huge difference in the world!
❤My situation is similar…I have all the freedom of retirement and I know what I want and love…at this stage of life I want someone fun to travel and play with. Unfortunately, I am on a fixed income and am totally burned out on the theme of most relationship coaches Who empathize “How to manipulate a Man into Loving You”….So I chose to just continue loving and improving myself and being my own best friend…I have No Interest in the Dating Game…My hope that while I live my best life, my Partner will show up at the Dog Park, the Golf Course, the Horse Show, Ski Slopes or a Card Table. Either way…I would rather live alone…then make another costly or embarrassing mistake.
@@MaMaGTUrbo I absolutely agree with you. I don't know how to put it together but there is something unnatural about this service. I think such meetings should take place without the participation of a third person and the involvement of money. I have already retired and was thinking how I could find someone to just take a walk in the park, go have a cup of coffee, talk. I'm thinking of going to houses where people of my age gather. They have all sorts of activities and interest groups . If anyone else will follows my steps,then wish you the best.
I really enjoyed this; thank you. I'm a 61-year-old widower this year after 35 years of marriage & children. She went through a three-year, extremely difficult illness with complications and I was there for her throughout. But before that happened, the years working and rearing kids took a toll on the "us" side of the relationship and on emotional and physical intimacy. We woke up to an empty nest and two people sharing a house and a financial life, but not really knowing who "we" were anymore. We had just started to re-engage and do the fun exploring you spoke about, when the illness cut that short. I feel a bit cheated by fate to be this age, and the person who was my lover, best friend, and life partner and whom I expected to grow old with, is gone. The future I always expected was "our" future and what "we" had planned. That's gone, and now I'm figuring out "my" future and "my" plan. I'm sitting here with time and money and not sure what to do next. Although I welcome the peace and autonomy that's mine right now after so much trial and heartache, it's difficult to visualize myself long-term as a loner, as I'm finding that I crave the feminine spirit in my life. I think men are meant to spend their lives in the company of a woman. But it's scary at this age to contemplate a new love, because there's the visualized ideal and of course the reality of taking on someone else's heavy life baggage, potentially dysfunctional family, and the potential for health crises (which to be honest, I've been there and done that, but which I would do again for anyone I deeply loved). What's needed is someone who pretty much has it together, who's not a train wreck, and who can bring stability and positive growth rather than chaos, conflict, and atrophy to the relationship. What you call The Great Love could not be more on target for a stable and mature man my age. The song "Big Love" by Little Village speaks to me the same way. At this age, I am looking for a woman to expose my soul to, to trust, to wrap my arms around, and to melt with. It's an old cliché, but a man can cling to a woman and their flesh - and souls - become one. Her body is my body and vice versa. I'm looking for that woman who can become the highest value in my life and from whom I feel inseparable. Regarding the concept of "Super Woman", or let's say a can-do, take-charge, independent woman who is out to prove she's in control of her life and "doesn't even need a man": true feminine beauty in a woman to me lies in her innate humility, her ability to respect and honor me as the accomplished and worthwhile man that I am, and to have a sense of grace in her manner toward me that tells me I'm wanted and appreciated for being the man in her life whom she loves. In return I would show love, patience, gentleness, compassion, desire & appreciation, thoughtfulness, and would be at her service. I'm not saying I don't want an accomplished and intelligent and capable woman, far from it. But I don't want to be treated like a subordinate to be "managed" or to be treated like a rival for "control" of all decisions. I don't want to struggle against her intent to control me. If you're a woman doing it right, I will do what you desire gladly and willingly because I want to please you, as a gesture of my appreciation for what you do for me and mean to me, and will not need to be brow-beaten and driven. And yes, as a man, I have simple physical wants and needs. I would be happy to have a woman care for and feed me, and to be available for physical intimacy with a reasonable level of frequency, engagement, and enthusiasm. That can be difficult, perhaps, as men's and women's libidos differ as they age, particularly post-menopause. I'm still sorting things out, but I've got you bookmarked.
Wow! I totally relate to this story. My wife of 45 years died four years ago even though she was seven years younger than me. two years later I met a woman who is 77 years old. I too am 77 years old. we immediately hit it off and have been together for the last 2 1/2 years. we’re both financially independent, but certainly not what you would call wealthy. Neither of us want to get married and we each own our own homes. We see each other two or three times a week and enjoy each other’s company very much. I believe this is truly a very unique relationship as I live in a senior citizen community where 75% of the residents are single females. Before I met this woman, I dated about 10 other women and most had baggage that I didn’t want to deal with. After having been married for 45 years, I’m not sure I can ‘love’ another woman, but we are certainly ‘best friends ‘
Yea yea am a lady 61 fromUganda but my story is separation, you will learn to adjust slowly get friends to chat with life will go on Now am 15 years out of marriage , feel good etc etc
@@cubiczirconiabeard5366It was just a rational lament anyone would have in the same situation, nothing more. No need to infer anything beyond it or parse it too deeply.
My heart goes out to you most sincerely. There are no words of consolation for such an upheaval. I am 57 and widowed since October 2020, after 25 years together. My husband's struggle with brain cancer was short, just 7 months. He decided to forgo treatment, choosing instead to remain at home, a wise decision in 2020. I was in his arms when he died, just as he wanted. And I wouldn't have had it any other way. We shared a great love. There were many lessons and far too many mistakes along the way, but we spent the better part of our marriage happily in sync. One of the keys we stumbled on was making certain we never lost sight of each other. Our son was ours for a short time, but he has to step away into his own life. He was never mine to keep, but my husband was. I am moved by your post. It speaks to me as a plea, tinged with a hint of uneasiness and deep longing. I so appreciate your understanding of the ideal dynamic between a man and woman. I put trust you enough to surrender myself to your care. In return, I take on caring for you, meeting your needs with tenderness. It is a difficult transition when that dynamic crumbles. When the two are one, what happens when one dies? Does only half remain? You want a woman to open yourself to. One who will understand the significance and honor the privilege, without weaponizing it against you later. One that understands what being submissive truly means within the dynamic. (Nobody needs to get their undies in a bundle, minds out of the gutter) My input is valuable. My perspective is different than yours. But the decision falls to you, as does the responsibility for the outcome. Doesn't mean I will always agree, but I will cooperate, without whining. And I will not torment you should things go sideways. I'm not hoping they do just to have an excuse to berate you. I will stand with you and actively participate. I have no desire to control you, only to equip and encourage. Celebrate success. A woman appreciative of your efforts to show kindness and care. Yes, I'm able to open a door for myself, but it's so nice when you do it. Isn't closing the car door an opportunity to sneak in a welcomed kiss? Understanding when something goes wrong, there's a misunderstanding or something ugly slips out it is not an intentional attack intended to destroy. We're all human. Forgiveness goes a long way. And the corpse of that never becomes a zombie in a future falling out. Fed and cared for. Oh, the joy of a well prepared meal. Love passed from heart to hands and across the table. Some of the best evenings begin with dinner. It brings me joy to cook and bake. And I truly believe pie is magical. Your needs are simple. And quite reasonable, actually. As a woman, I don't believe they differ all that much from my own. I'm not able to speak for all women. I do have friends that relish being single, not having to deal with sex. Being too available for sex is possible. There's no challenge. I likely have a very different frame of reference. I never refused my husband, but there were circumstances, such as surgery restrictions that prevented sex. I know many men wish for a woman who initiates sex. But there needs to be a balance. A woman initiating all the time robs a man of the opportunity to build tension and pursue, the display of masculinity at its very best, most alluring. My breath caught in my throat when you expressed such an understanding about changes as we age. The libido is alive and well, but I'm not certain how my responses have been impacted by menopause. I've gone through it alone. I'm not particularly interested in throwing myself out there haphazardly. I'm not a teenager. The full-grown man wants a fifty foot woman to wrap your arms around. What if she's just a couple inches more than 5 feet? Gotta Be Somebody by Nickleback is an echo response. Hope you find her. She's looking for you as well.
Well I just met 3 men over 60. Allen is a dreamer he texts no followed through on 3 dates we made. Neil well we met 6 years ago and reconnected again on my birthday and he’s a serial dater will never change. Ralph I’ve known for 30 years he got severely burnt on his first marriage and holds a grudge. So I just moved on and seeing what other crap I can find. I swear I attract wounded men.
There ARE a lot of wounded men out there. With a 50% divorce rate, and with women being heavily favored by the court system, no wonder men are bitter and “wounded.”
Women who are dating over a certain age will only attract losers because non losers are either already with the love of their lives or don't want anyone.
Okay -- I am a bit late to the party here, but I have to put in this comment. For context, I am above Medicare enrollment age. I can certainly understand the four points you made in this video. I have experienced partial - only partial - experiences you described in your four points. But -- here is what I have seen in older men "out there": Whether they are single by divorce or by the death of their wife, the common theme is that the woman they want is simply "A nurse with a purse." That is, a woman must have money so she will take care of him (financially and through personal care, as well) as the man ages. Early conversations between the man and the woman are more like job interviews. The woman is screened for her financial status and compassion. Conversations include recent vacations, where she lives, the car she drives (all indicators of financial status; either good or bad), and if she volunteers, goes to church, helps friends and neighbors in need, etc., indicators of compassion. This part is CLEARLY second on the priority list. Forget "receiving", etc. The only thing that counts is the money, and if she can't or won't take care of him, she can afford to hire someone who will.
I am 59 and will be 60 in February. My life partner passed unexpectedly in 2020. He was the best man ever in my life. I will be dating again but scared because I was with my partner for seventeen years. If I don't meet a man then it wasn't meant to be. I still miss my partner. Mike your beard is very elegant.
I just turned 70, single, never married, no kids…had a good job and saved a lot of money….been retired 6 years and done 15 international trips since… meeting women overseas and having the best time of my life….
I'm a super woman my husband passed away for 5 year..I never think to marry ag ain. And suddenly a man from from Facebook said hello and told his divorced 3 times .I've only known him.for 3 weeks and ask me to come to USA..i thought it's a scam. Cant believe...we registered our marriage in Las Vegas..and I found the greatest man in life. God fearing and loving..I'm blessed..🤩we are now 6 years and still going..thank you jesus. 🙏😇😍
He is divorced 3 times you met him om fb only 3 weeks and dot married in Vegas lol a likely story or you both got something you want that suits fiancally or other or its a likely story. i would say you a passport to the usa and he has a lasr chance partner
I'm 62, but my mind is sharp enough to recognize a sales pitch when I see it. This guy is trying to tell us that being over 60 is a great time, full of adventure, and new experiences and romance, just waiting for us, and all we need to do is get his services. What a crock. I meet a lot of 60+ women and they look awful. Sagging belies, and chins , and wrinkles, and problems and issues. And the women aren't falling over themselves to get to me either, because getting old sucks. Most people aren't thinking what a great time to travel and rock climb, or do white water rafting. They're thinking I'd sure like to sit on a couch with a nice cup of tea and watch TV. The prospect of waking up next to an old person isn't as attractive as this guy makes it sound. And if you hook up with the wrong person at our ages and it goes pear shape you may find yourself losing assets, and we no longer have the years to recover from that any more. This guy has no idea of what dating in your 60's is like.
True, and if we have assets, we certainly don't want or need marriage and the risk of losing what we have. It's bad enough that they immediately move into our house.
Nice to find a truthful man for a change. I certainly don’t want a man who’s contributed NOTHING to my life, my success, my assets and my stability but just wants to float in and benefit from all I have created alone. See my comment above and tell me if I’m right.
I just came up on this and I’m a widow after being married for 27 yrs and omg how dating has changed and idk if I really want to try again at my age 62 🤨I want compatibility with someone but not sure if I want to be vulnerable again at this time in my life
@@EZDatingCoach So true, I can't tell you how many dates in my 60's I've been on that the women thought they were ready, and they really aren't. What's sad about this is I have developed an "emotional shield" and have learned not to get too attached.
yes, of course we do. And women want younger men. But in life you don't always get what you want. Wanting and having are two different things. Ands lets face it, people over 60 just don't look good any more, so its hard to get excited about the prospect of waking up next to an old person. It gets to a point where you're better off waking up alone.
I'm 62. My parents taught me to cook over 50 years ago. Same with my 4 younger brothers. When I was a teenager, I often came home to one of my brothers cooking something. I don't need a cook; I'm the best cook I know. I may be the best you could ever hope to know. I don't need a nurse; I'm in perfect health. The VA takes care of any concerns i might have.
I’m widowed, spent the last several years taking care of my obese, alcoholic husband. Now I’m free! I’ve got money to travel, and I’m having so much fun with my adult kids! I have my dogs and parrots for companions. What I don’t want is an overly dependent ‘friend’. I’m very leery of anyone contacting me because I’m very attractive and I think it gives the wrong impression sometimes. I just have strong fears that certain guys would attempt to control or use me
As a nurse I can tell you the alcoholic abuse patients are getting younger. Enjoy your life and protect your peace of being a nurse to someone who neglected themselves at all costs.
Most such men give up on trying to get women at all by age 30. They spend their early lives trying to get dates and never get any. Or they just get dates that go nowhere, but cost a great deal. By 30, most of them figure that women really don't want them. Later on, every.now and then, one of these former party girls shows up, wanting a nice guy now. Its too late by then. You MIGHT find such a guy who still believes he can get a woman, but then vast majority don't. My guess is that MAYBE 1 man in 5 or 1 in 10 MIGHT be willing to try that.
Im 53 divorced , no kids , i am happy , fitness enthusiast and i need a companion to compliment me ,not complete me . I am not desperate to find one but I do wish to stumble upon one someday.
@@riyazahmed208 I help people all over the world, as long as they speak English. 🙂 It is expensive with the exchange rate but if that is alright we can setup a free to chat to discuss further?
@@annmariemarino2003 You missed the mark. But, at least you make yourself believe it so. Watch a few episodes of Kevin Samuels to better understand. Enjoy your cats.
I think men do this, because overseas women are generally more feminine and know what it takes for a marriage to work. Too many American women are so masculine, it’s like living with another guy.
Can only speak for myself , I’m very open to receiving . I’m not feeling at all like a Super Woman . I’ve found the guy doesn’t want to give or provide much. They like their life just the way it is and unwilling to accomodate / compromise to have a new partner in their life . Long term single Men get used to be independent as Women do but Men I found really don’t want to give up any of their independence.
@@jeannettemagin1500 "you need to be gorgeous and 20 years younger than them" Fact of life: Men are easily attracted by young, fertile, beautiful women but not by elderly women that after menopause has lost most of their youthful beauty. However, your abilities in the bedroom may change that if You got what it takes in sexual experience, attitudes and fitness. Do You ?
@@jeannettemagin1500 Nope, I'm 64 and I have zero interest in dating any woman over 10 years younger then I. Less in common, more sexually compatible, and no young children to deal with.
I think women should work on themselves to feel great and beautiful inside out . I have been chased by many younger guys but none of them interest me .. Could be my traditional value on the way . I am 55 but looking young and outward exploring many venues to empower myself . You are not defending by some random guys who do not know themselves . I am feminine but do not submissive .
He's on here telling women what he thinks they want to hear. Women know beyond the shadow of a doubt how they've been treated by men all their lives. He's banking on someone being desperate enough to believe the lies so he can make some money off of them.
I’ve been waiting to have men, people really, to get to this place! I’ve always seen relationships as about getting to know yourself and sharing yourself more deeply with another human being to the depths of one’s soul. Early on most people are driven by hormones, expectations, ‘suppose to… ‘ and proving something to self or others! Grace comes with wisdom and wisdom comes with age (be it ‘aging’ 1 year or 20yrs)!
Men over 60 want no drama, someone to share household bills, peace, a pleasant and cooperative lady, who shares at least one interest or hobby with him. Also an occasional bit of intimacy, appreciation and sex ?
I love the comment of angelwatts. Right there with you sister! Im going to be 65 in a couple of months, widower for six years. traditional and old school. Have not found a man to my standards. Im attractive, healthy and fit. Would like to meet a man that genuinely cares!!! Not in the books for me!😅
60 is a bit old to be looking for a great love. If you didn't find it young, you ain't finding it now. I agree with the "not looking to start a family", looking for fun and someone that receives.
great love? most men i meet who are in their late 50s or early 60s are broken (financially and/or emotionally) . they are looking for someone to take care of them. most of them aren't evolving - they are stuck. never met an interesting 60s man. they are out there but they are taken
Been single divorced since along time ago. Work a lot. But also travel, love sports, music, etc. haven’t been in a relationship since 1997. Sounds bad, but made sure my two now adult children got through college and careers.
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Interesting teaching, thank you Mike! I wish you had the answers to all our problems 😂 I guess some things just are what they are….and time, I pray in my case, will shake things out.
Yes, and we don’t want a self-centered, grumpy old man. You’re just one accident away from being disabled or in pain. Let’s just hope that you have someone to take care of your old ass if you ever need it.
First time I'm seeing this! Wow, my story, the man over 60 u describe is what I've wanted my whole life. I am 65yr old woman who did camping, hiking skiing biking exploring! Did it all with my husband and loved it..loved him more than I can describe. He abandoned me. And I found out he was having an affair living a secret life. I am not greiving anymore but. I feel destroyed. I always took cAre of my body never wanted to be the wife that let herself gooo! So I'll be divorced . But.are there men over 60 that would date someone scared this way?
Im a 48 year old empty nester i wouldn't mind being with someone that is a little older I have spent the last 8 years finishing raising my kids and now ready to start the next faze of my life.
I'm done looking and waiting. I was too busy raising 3 children absolutely all by myself, creating a career without any assets, I'm so proud of myself. I did have 2 husbands and a few companions. An alcoholic, narcissists and predators and practically No love life 🤣 so before the end (I'm 69) I wanted to find myself a kind loving man and experience a few things everyone else had in their youth, but it seems impossible to find a normal kind person at my age. Lots of liars, traitors (men and women, also aiming just a friendship, that too seems like Mission impossible). I'm fed up. I guess I'll focus on my own self and my grandchildren. Love is not scheduled in my present Karma. Even though everyone wants me but not in the way I want to....oh well, I guess no-one deserves me and that's that.
So I am screwed? I am 64, widowed and had back surgery and so I am not in shape to hike, travel the world and mirror a guy's interest. My husband was an outdoorsman and I was not and we had a great relationship. It seems impossible now.
I tore my abdominal at one point in my life. During that stage I was playing soccer 5 days a week and super active. Once, my ab was torn I had to reinvent who I was. Once I discovered new Mike, I dated women that made sense for that version of me. You can do the same.
You seem like a very nice person but honestly don’t know how you can say these types of relationships are possible. They absolutely ARE NOT! Not sure what fantasy planet you’re living on. Do women really fall for this???
They might. I'm surprised so many men are in the comments agreeing. This sounds like a guy pondering to a female audience. As a man in my 60s (62), I really don't see any reason to marry unless I want more kids, in which case, a much younger woman would be involved. Women like to believe good men will always want them regardless of age. They also seem to think their looks, body weight and sexual history don't matter. None of that isbyrue.
I am a 60yo widower and I have been with the same partner for 7 years. We maintain our own homes and expenses. It works! We both have peace in our lives. We are in no hurry to be married nor cohabitate.
Thanks. I enjoyed listening to you. The only thing where'd disagree with you is where we say - women and men do it - " I didn't know what I wanted or who I was at the tine, back then" I'll put it another way ...." I was who I thought I was and believed myself to be, AT THE TIME. I DID know what I wanted, AT THE TIME. I DID do what I wanted, AT THE TIME. But, over time, I changed, evolved, discovered new things, new experiences, new people, new parts of ME. NOW, I'M NOT any longer who I was back then. Now, I'm ME , as I am now. Now, what I want and need fits with me, NOW." Personally and professionally, this us what I've discovered about myself and other people. Wisdom with hindsight can he great. But not if we cancel out our past history and treat it like we were wrong, or our spouses were wrong, at the time. It's like when we say, or other people say to us - BE the BEST version of yourself. Well, hold on now. Because, right now, you and me ARE the best versions of ourselves that we can be, RIGHT NOw, in our circumstances, in our conditions, with our resources, with our knowledge or insights and beliefs and needs and hopes and desires. Right now, we ARE the best versions of NOW. In this NOW. And in 6 or 12 months time, you and I will be a slightly different version of the best versions of ourselves. How4ver, we need to APPRECIATE this right now best version. Because, if we don't, we're NEVER going to ever get to be this imaginary, fairy tale, " best version". I.e. When will you ever be " good enough" / best version?
❤❤ Being a mature woman, I would like to know a person who completes me, but the expectations men today want in a relationship is so much work, demanding time spent on them and are not allowing the freedom women need at our most delicate and deserving time in our life. I have come to realize, I don't want all these changes and/or expectations to be relived. I waited my whole life to have this freedom and make my choices of happiness.❤❤ Note, I don't so dating sites 💯
I will be turning 63 this year, as a man I have been single most of my life, own my home, I'm financial, met a wonderful woman who I stupidly thought liked me, she ended up ending our relationship, now I know it is what it is no more, she did not want the the drama at her age been 61 never felt so embarrassed and stupid putting myself out there never again.
Sorry to hear it. Falling in love and it not working out shouldn't feel embarrassing. I am proud of you for trying. Perhaps if you ever decide to try again it will be reciprocated fully. 👍
Hi there,read you’re post we are always our own. Worst critic don’t do this to yourself. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person and there’s a wonderful person out there. It’s not about getting what you want. All the time is what God put in your life. God bless.😊
Hi there,read you’re post we are always our own. Worst critic don’t do this to yourself. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person and there’s a wonderful person out there. It’s not about getting what you want. All the time is what God put in your life😊
I gave up at 20 years single. Soon to be 70. To much checklisting, red-flags, must-haves etc. and religious orientation is really one of my only almost non-negotiables.
I figure being over sixty , basically spent my entire adult life trying to find a woman that I could trust . After all that time I finally realized that such a woman does not exist . I finally smartened up and do not even bother to look any more .
@@chetubetcha4404 There are millions of women of integrity and worthy of trust in the US. I help men find them all the time. If you would like some help, let me know. 👍👍👍
Thanks i found your chanel.i am 63 years i am still single still work as care giver . I need a man who need a true woman.i am a care loving person.need someone who loves me true . Im tired being alone.i am filipina .i still work as a care giver.
I could barely listen to this drivel. You have no idea what you are talking about. I have been trying to date men in their 50’s and now 60’s and each and every one of them only wanted sex. I’ve stopped trying. And don’t say it’s my fault. I’m not taking the blame for their stupidity. One or two maybe but this has been a constant for years. I gave up even meeting them because all they talked about was sex and how I might taste and all that stuff. No they haven’t learned to be a better person or changed or looking for their last love. They say that to get your attention. I’ve had that game played on me soooo many times. Yes I have boundaries. It’s called the door. If you counsel people for money you better rethink this. Find out what is really going on.
I am very well attuned to what men want, remember I am a man. 🤣 Sorry you keep running into men that just want sex. Any ideas or clues what you may be doing to attract men that just want sex instead of men who want to get to know you?
Cindy, I am not sure about your age, but sex is indeed one of the most important priorities for men. In fact, as a man in his 30s, I find it fascinating that men in their 60s still desire sex. Nonetheless, as a man, I can tell you that you can make many men fall in love with you by making sex special for them, but before you do this, you need to find out how empathetic that man is towards you and other people. Try to do some tests on empathy without him knowing it. For the men who pass the empathy tests, you should work to make the sex with them special, it make time but sooner or later they are going to start having feelings for you. But for men with low empathy levels, cut the relationship because they will not even appreciate the good sex you have with them.
I am 68 year old widower. I am in very good shape and go to the gym 3 times a week. I am looking for a partner that has her own money and takes care of herself. I cook, clean and do laundry.
I do all that i love alone have my own apartment and a smallish midest pension which i manage well on wirh low bills etc and have 2 cats. I take of my appearance and walk a lot no mediacak issues. But i live here i live and was born here in Ireland and dating in middle years is the pits hre it you are lucky to get a few dates. And steer clear of dating apps full of fakes scammers and time wasters
When I die I want to go quietly in my sleep like my grandpa did. Not kicking and screaming like the passengers in his car. “67 “ and sliding downhill into the abyss.
Thank you so much 🥰 this is so helpful wow i had no idea about dating a man over 60. So interesting. I appreciate you and all the people that have experienced their relationships.
Happy is the woman who captures a man’s last love 💕 We have scars by this age. Fall down 7 and get up 8, but don’t need a second more of the modern woman who sees a man as a burden. Let’s explore the classics when a man could be a man. A woman a woman. “Baby it’s cold outside.” Receptive femininity is the unicorn I seek.
I just am not a woman who fits into the masculine “work” world. Being a single mom does not fit me. Nice thought that there are truly men who want this woman. Great video. Appreciate you.
I would enjoy the companionship and an end to doing stuff by myself. I don't have a shopping list of what she's like, but i do have deal-breakers. They include psychotic ex-husbands, kids who are mentally ill, drug addicts or still live at home. Im actually pretty easy to please. I dont want a mommy. My mum was awesome, but she's gone to the garden show in the sky. Somebody to travel and do stuff with.
Hi Mike, I am a divorced, black professional, 77 female active,healthy, spiritual not religious attractive, one grown son, financially independent, I am looking for my soulmate, younger than me within 10 years, mature, healthy, active, attractive, no romantic attachments, financially independent,romantic,open communication skills, easy relationship.
@@gwenroberts6330 - You sound fabulous!! Id you want sign up for a call with me and we can discuss helping you find an equally amazing man - Link to setup a call - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Note to guys over 60. A young women doesn't want you unless you're rich. If you're rich, it's unlikely you are reading this. If you're not rich, either work hard to get there or stop dreaming.
Seems to me, at least from a certain pov, virtually all women want rich men. In which case, the mans age doesn't matter. I saw a study that said women expect a man to earn at least 50% more than the woman does.
If you’re even approaching 60… And need someone who calls them self a dating coach, you must not have learned anything in life. Everything this guy is saying it’s just common sense. He should call himself a common sense coach.
It takes 2 to make a relationship and it takes 2 to break it, I have been married for 48 years and why, because I respect him and he respects me. This crap of one has this idea that they should get automatic respect is BS, it is a two way street. Many of these males keep telling woman" you do what I want or I will leave this country""bye"or be happy with your cats, well some of you men be happy with your hand job.
Let me enlighten you about men in their 60’s…. Men (in the UK) marry and have kids WAY too young, before they even know who they are themselves. A nice skinny body comes along and he’s in there (just to show off to his mates) and by the time he’s 24 he’s got 2 or 3 kids, mortgage, a crappy job, debts and feels stuck. Then he chats up a single bird at work, wifey finds out, divorces him and cleans him out financially forever. By mid-30’s/early 40’s he’s a broke, bitter, emotionally unavailable commitment-phobe - which is when he meets the decent woman he should have married but he’s now terrified of commitment so instead of marrying her, he goes back to wifey or gets some other stranger pregnant - and the whole story starts again. By age 60 he comes crawling back to the one he should have married: she’s achieved success without his sorry arse in the picture so she sees him for the prat he is now the rose-tinted glasses are off. THAT, my friend, is the reality of men over 60!
@@EZDatingCoach It’s quite tragic, isn’t it? I can walk past a college-age youth and virtually know how his life is going to pan out (with a few exceptions, of course). I just wish I could warn them! Great channel.
I've been divorced for 20 years. I tried dating for a while after my divorce, but the women I met were so toxic I said the hell with it. I just want peace and quiet. I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, and how I want. I want to be able to play golf, have a few beers with guys, travel around Europe, and enjoy my grand kids. Now, at 75, sex is not a big deal anymore, so I see absolutely no point in having a woman around to muck up my peaceful life. There is no way that I'd be willing to become the retirement plan for any woman.
@@pearlfeather9326 Ah, sorry to disagree, I have no drama in my life except when I miss a 6" putt. When you live alone and only have other retired male friends there is no drama because men can't stand drama.
Most men become quite different AFTER they get married, so I'm open to a loving relationship but never getting married again. What's the point in getting married after 50? If anything, that legal contract will cause more problems. .... Done working? LOL not in today's world.
I have a lot of supposed “strikes” against me per some men (never married single Mom) but I have more great traits. I’m not giving up on love and I’m 58. I have money, professional job that I can retire from whenever I’m ready, debt free, own my home, maintain my home, great kid who works, no ex in the picture, still pretty and take care of myself. I gave up dating in 2016 because I found no quality men without major issues. I’ve done all the hard work and am ready for the fun stuff. I want a calm man that when I look across the room at him I get a tickly feeling. 😍. I haven’t lost hope. Marriage and mingling finances are not for me unless there are ironclad prenups on both sides. At this age we should give it all to our children. There are really good women out there but we just aren’t putting ourselves out there for the same exact reasons men aren’t. I hate drama and I live a very peaceful life. Don’t give up, but yet be happy alone cause life is too short.
Of course!!!! My oldest client so far was 80. Book a call with me here if you want private coaching ... www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
I really don't care what single men over 60 months. I want them to know what I want if I'm gonna trade the happiness I have been on my own by letting somebody else in. They better not mess it up.
@@artsylady3187 no please date older men, before it is too late for you. A man 60years old is not interested in women around 60 years old it was always and will always be
A cook , caretaker. Housekeeper and someone to help them. No sharing equality not that age. Younger yes. 70 s never. Senior women are healthier., single men need. My experience is . I love being single . I take care of my self. Don't want to babysit.
I'm in awe! An honest man. Thank you for putting your head and heart into your comments; as i am indeed perplexed at this stage and close to ready to throw in the towel. Hope is renewed!! What's your address? Lol just kidding!
Where is this man? I wish. Most seem to want a nurse or a purse.
They exist, we find them with clients all the time.
Love your wording. 🤣🤣
@@EZDatingCoach What PLANET are they on because it damn sure is NOT earth.
I am a nurse with a purse and am NEVER giving up either. You want medical assistance? Pay me. Reality folks.
@@annmariemarino2003 my gf is a nurse, I get my medical care from my medical provider, not her.
I'm 75 and was married at 69. I was looking for (and found) an equal in intelligence, education and crazie. I won
Congratulations!
Lucky you it's a rare occurrence.
it is really in time at 69, not worth anymore to marry at such age better of alone then, you marry at 25-30 or latest at 50
@@williamvanholder3368 Idiot
Or marry someone much younger.
Men that reach 60 and or already 60 want to reach 70 in peace. Regardless of being alone or with someone.
you act like 60 is 100
Same with women, before we fall apart 🤭
Right, I'm not trying to build a famly. I'm past all that and if they don't fit the program I'm on then they can go get on someone else's..
Right. But that's also what I wanted when I was 30 and 40 and 50.
If I wanted a woman, she'd have to be a gentle, calm, loving presence in my life. I've had enough angry, violent, nagging women to last forever.
So do women.
When I was 61 I dated and got engaged to a 52 year old. I was willing to give up some of my independence, but I will not babysit a drama queen, emotional wreck, therapist's dream or an alcoholic. Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!
" Also if you are a widow-STOP comparing us to your dead husband!"
I think they may do that IF You stop comparing these elderly women with Your previous YOUNG girlfriends. However I think You are unable to do that because You NEED to remember them and the time You had with them just as You sometimes need to look at young girls . You have these needs because You need to stimulate Your testosterone production. Young women stimulate our testosterone production more then elerly women do, We men need to have a good testosterone production or we become unhealthy. I think this is also the primary reason we can´t stay away from porn when we do not have a good sexual relation.
By comparing You with their dead husband they are making a statement about how attractive they were when they were young ....
Doesn't have to be a dead guy. They're comparing your shortcomings with a previous guys perfection. You'll always be the lesser prize. The consolation.
At least if he's dead, she can't get him back.
I’m with you on being compared to a widow (ex wife, first love, etc.).
How old is this guy? I think he’s really out of touch with reality!
The implication of his being out of touch with reality is that he'll have to put up with any or all of that.
I've been single for a while, I am 69. I would like to meet a good man and his age is unimportant to me, younger would be nice. I notice many men in my age group are unhealthy, depressed, drink too much, and talk endlessly about the terrible marriage they left. Or they seem to think that if they buy dinner I owe them sex. It's difficult to meet good men who could make a good partner. Oh well. The good news is..... I love my life, friends, and am fine if I never meet anyone!
Hi Debbie. Thanks for leaving me a comment. Yes, there are a lot of men in that age group that are unhealthy and depressed. It certainly can be overwhelming weeding through all those guys. Many of my clients have felt the exact same way. But, what they have found is that if you have a good filtering system and a strategy you can get to a great guy efficiently. If you would like my help in showing you how to do this, book a call with me here: www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Perhaps you should consider "Dutch Treat" then the man will have no expectations at all.
This guy’s living in la-la land I’ve never had an over 60 open a door for me in a fit. And their first questions are about my assets. Men over 60 just want to make sure that you’ll not be any kind of financial burden on them, that you’ll accept always being last after the whole rest of their families, grown up kids esp. and that you require no commitment whatsoever from them. Past that they will dump you in a nano-second for Anybody younger than you.
Some women over 60, look better than women in their 20's. I would agree that this is not easy, not being fat and very fit, but these women exist. I saw them.
Run away from creeps. But you called it correctly for many of these men who just want to use you.
perhaps me being English and as we say over here ive been dragged up propper like, but opening doors, and ladies first type thing is something ive done all me life, and im nearly retired.
I'd ask for a prenuptial. I didn't work my whole life to give it away or allow myself to be vulnerable to someone's whims.
@@Conn30MtenorA prenup is only good when she profits. Do not get married. Move your assets into an irrevocable trust. This makes it difficult if you do something stupid for a women's court system judge to transfer your assets to their predetermined winner. If you have gone through divorce once you know that contract is evil and a rip-off.
Down in FL, men are looking for either a nurse or a purse!
What about outside of FL?
The idea that men want money from women seems pretty strong in this group for some reason.
It isn't generally true. It COULD be that men who intentionally seek out elderly women are doing this.
The vast majority of men don't care about women's money or career, because it doesn't generally benefit us.
The old saw: "what's his is hers and what's hers is hers" seems to apply.
Her money will always be hers alone. His money becomes "our money" the moment she marries him or moves in.
Florida is a repository of broken old people and failed lives, that is a know fact. Don't believe me - drive around downtown Daytona.
60 is not old these days. Im almost 60 and very active - surfing, diving, skiing, jetskiing. 60 doesnt mean invalid.
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Depends on the person! Some are in very bad shape!
I'm ten weeks into a six-pack ab program.
Five weeks from being ripped!
Most people who are in bad shape by 60 were probably also in bad shape by 45.
I see people every day who look very old and worn down that I know are younger than me.
You don't equal everyone 60 is fing old as it has ever been maybe even more.
This reminds me of one of Nicole Kidman lines in “The Human Stain” says I’m not your first love but I want to be you last.” It’s tough for women being with men this age. No one wants to be a “caregiver” partner because of bad health.
That's works both ways, by the way.
@@dangerousdanny8290 exactly
@@sethtenrec Actually men healths decline more and you guys think you can still go after much younger women shoot if I am a 60 yo I would still rather be alone!
Works both ways…my ex-girlfriend of 30 years ago is besieged with health problems while I am in very good health… we almost married and I am thankful we did not marry…
I can't afford the groceries that most of these overweight women must eat. 😢😢
I'm 58 years old and I haven’t been in a relationship since 2017. I actually like my freedom. I can't be bothered with sports and I know that would be a serious turn-off to a man. I am also heavily involved in music as I take vocal lessons for an advanced choir and am in my first year of learning to play the trumpet. I honestly don't believe that there is some out there for everyone. I think that it either happens or it doesn't. The men of today do not live up to my standards. Ladies, if you want to get rid of a man who is bothering you, all you have to tell him is that you don't have sex outside of a marriage commitment and that man will dump you so fast, you'll be breathing in dust.
I didn't find a man that was right for me so I bought a trumpet. I'm very happy 😂.
You sound quite nice. Wishing I could hear you sing.
Mike, I have the added stress of having to start over financially. I'm cleaning homes right now at age 61 and living with and helping my 90 year old mom. I just don't have the money to work with you let alone go travelling with a guy. This makes me feel ashamed that I didn't set my life up better in the first place. I live in Canada so the exchange rate doesn't help. I know my shame about lack of money is a huge barrier to being my best self. I need to deal with this before I can even think of attracting the right man. I want to end by saying that I think your videos are superb and I appreciate them very much even though I've never acted on them. You make a huge difference in the world!
Thanks for the kind words. Keep going, you got this!! 👍👍
❤My situation is similar…I have all the freedom of retirement and I know what I want and love…at this stage of life I want someone fun to travel and play with. Unfortunately, I am on a fixed income and am totally burned out on the theme of most relationship coaches Who empathize “How to manipulate a Man into Loving You”….So I chose to just continue loving and improving myself and being my own best friend…I have No Interest in the Dating Game…My hope that while I live my best life, my Partner will show up at the Dog Park, the Golf Course, the Horse Show, Ski Slopes or a Card Table. Either way…I would rather live alone…then make another costly or embarrassing mistake.
@@MaMaGTUrbo
I absolutely agree with you.
I don't know how to put it together but there is something unnatural about this service.
I think such meetings should take place without the participation of a third person and the involvement of money.
I have already retired and was thinking how I could find someone to just take a walk in the park, go have a cup of coffee, talk.
I'm thinking of going to houses where people of my age gather.
They have all sorts of activities and interest groups .
If anyone else will follows my steps,then wish you the best.
I'm 60 and stay single I couldn't imagine going down on a 60+ set of meat flaps.😢
No need to be ashamed NJ. You can do everything right, and still end up with a pretty lousy life.
I really enjoyed this; thank you. I'm a 61-year-old widower this year after 35 years of marriage & children. She went through a three-year, extremely difficult illness with complications and I was there for her throughout. But before that happened, the years working and rearing kids took a toll on the "us" side of the relationship and on emotional and physical intimacy. We woke up to an empty nest and two people sharing a house and a financial life, but not really knowing who "we" were anymore. We had just started to re-engage and do the fun exploring you spoke about, when the illness cut that short. I feel a bit cheated by fate to be this age, and the person who was my lover, best friend, and life partner and whom I expected to grow old with, is gone. The future I always expected was "our" future and what "we" had planned. That's gone, and now I'm figuring out "my" future and "my" plan. I'm sitting here with time and money and not sure what to do next.
Although I welcome the peace and autonomy that's mine right now after so much trial and heartache, it's difficult to visualize myself long-term as a loner, as I'm finding that I crave the feminine spirit in my life. I think men are meant to spend their lives in the company of a woman. But it's scary at this age to contemplate a new love, because there's the visualized ideal and of course the reality of taking on someone else's heavy life baggage, potentially dysfunctional family, and the potential for health crises (which to be honest, I've been there and done that, but which I would do again for anyone I deeply loved). What's needed is someone who pretty much has it together, who's not a train wreck, and who can bring stability and positive growth rather than chaos, conflict, and atrophy to the relationship.
What you call The Great Love could not be more on target for a stable and mature man my age. The song "Big Love" by Little Village speaks to me the same way. At this age, I am looking for a woman to expose my soul to, to trust, to wrap my arms around, and to melt with. It's an old cliché, but a man can cling to a woman and their flesh - and souls - become one. Her body is my body and vice versa. I'm looking for that woman who can become the highest value in my life and from whom I feel inseparable.
Regarding the concept of "Super Woman", or let's say a can-do, take-charge, independent woman who is out to prove she's in control of her life and "doesn't even need a man": true feminine beauty in a woman to me lies in her innate humility, her ability to respect and honor me as the accomplished and worthwhile man that I am, and to have a sense of grace in her manner toward me that tells me I'm wanted and appreciated for being the man in her life whom she loves. In return I would show love, patience, gentleness, compassion, desire & appreciation, thoughtfulness, and would be at her service. I'm not saying I don't want an accomplished and intelligent and capable woman, far from it. But I don't want to be treated like a subordinate to be "managed" or to be treated like a rival for "control" of all decisions. I don't want to struggle against her intent to control me. If you're a woman doing it right, I will do what you desire gladly and willingly because I want to please you, as a gesture of my appreciation for what you do for me and mean to me, and will not need to be brow-beaten and driven.
And yes, as a man, I have simple physical wants and needs. I would be happy to have a woman care for and feed me, and to be available for physical intimacy with a reasonable level of frequency, engagement, and enthusiasm. That can be difficult, perhaps, as men's and women's libidos differ as they age, particularly post-menopause.
I'm still sorting things out, but I've got you bookmarked.
Wow! I totally relate to this story. My wife of 45 years died four years ago even though she was seven years younger than me. two years later I met a woman who is 77 years old. I too am 77 years old. we immediately hit it off and have been together for the last 2 1/2 years. we’re both financially independent, but certainly not what you would call wealthy. Neither of us want to get married and we each own our own homes. We see each other two or three times a week and enjoy each other’s company very much. I believe this is truly a very unique relationship as I live in a senior citizen community where 75% of the residents are single females. Before I met this woman, I dated about 10 other women and most had baggage that I didn’t want to deal with. After having been married for 45 years, I’m not sure I can ‘love’ another woman, but we are certainly ‘best friends ‘
Yea yea am a lady 61 fromUganda but my story is separation, you will learn to adjust slowly get friends to chat with life will go on
Now am 15 years out of marriage , feel good etc etc
I only read to the "cheated by fate" part. Cheer up, things could be a lot worse. Life can really really kick you in the teeth.
@@cubiczirconiabeard5366It was just a rational lament anyone would have in the same situation, nothing more. No need to infer anything beyond it or parse it too deeply.
My heart goes out to you most sincerely. There are no words of consolation for such an upheaval.
I am 57 and widowed since October 2020, after 25 years together. My husband's struggle with brain cancer was short, just 7 months. He decided to forgo treatment, choosing instead to remain at home, a wise decision in 2020. I was in his arms when he died, just as he wanted. And I wouldn't have had it any other way.
We shared a great love. There were many lessons and far too many mistakes along the way, but we spent the better part of our marriage happily in sync. One of the keys we stumbled on was making certain we never lost sight of each other. Our son was ours for a short time, but he has to step away into his own life. He was never mine to keep, but my husband was.
I am moved by your post. It speaks to me as a plea, tinged with a hint of uneasiness and deep longing. I so appreciate your understanding of the ideal dynamic between a man and woman. I put trust you enough to surrender myself to your care. In return, I take on caring for you, meeting your needs with tenderness. It is a difficult transition when that dynamic crumbles. When the two are one, what happens when one dies? Does only half remain?
You want a woman to open yourself to. One who will understand the significance and honor the privilege, without weaponizing it against you later.
One that understands what being submissive truly means within the dynamic. (Nobody needs to get their undies in a bundle, minds out of the gutter) My input is valuable. My perspective is different than yours. But the decision falls to you, as does the responsibility for the outcome. Doesn't mean I will always agree, but I will cooperate, without whining. And I will not torment you should things go sideways. I'm not hoping they do just to have an excuse to berate you. I will stand with you and actively participate. I have no desire to control you, only to equip and encourage. Celebrate success.
A woman appreciative of your efforts to show kindness and care. Yes, I'm able to open a door for myself, but it's so nice when you do it. Isn't closing the car door an opportunity to sneak in a welcomed kiss? Understanding when something goes wrong, there's a misunderstanding or something ugly slips out it is not an intentional attack intended to destroy. We're all human. Forgiveness goes a long way. And the corpse of that never becomes a zombie in a future falling out.
Fed and cared for. Oh, the joy of a well prepared meal. Love passed from heart to hands and across the table. Some of the best evenings begin with dinner. It brings me joy to cook and bake. And I truly believe pie is magical.
Your needs are simple. And quite reasonable, actually. As a woman, I don't believe they differ all that much from my own. I'm not able to speak for all women. I do have friends that relish being single, not having to deal with sex.
Being too available for sex is possible. There's no challenge. I likely have a very different frame of reference. I never refused my husband, but there were circumstances, such as surgery restrictions that prevented sex.
I know many men wish for a woman who initiates sex. But there needs to be a balance. A woman initiating all the time robs a man of the opportunity to build tension and pursue, the display of masculinity at its very best, most alluring.
My breath caught in my throat when you expressed such an understanding about changes as we age. The libido is alive and well, but I'm not certain how my responses have been impacted by menopause. I've gone through it alone. I'm not particularly interested in throwing myself out there haphazardly. I'm not a teenager.
The full-grown man wants a fifty foot woman to wrap your arms around. What if she's just a couple inches more than 5 feet?
Gotta Be Somebody by Nickleback is an echo response.
Hope you find her. She's looking for you as well.
Well I just met 3 men over 60.
Allen is a dreamer he texts no followed through on 3 dates we made.
Neil well we met 6 years ago and reconnected again on my birthday and he’s a serial dater will never change.
Ralph I’ve known for 30 years he got severely burnt on his first marriage and holds a grudge.
So I just moved on and seeing what other crap I can find.
I swear I attract wounded men.
I attract amazing men who..... (Fill in the rest and see what you start to attract).
There ARE a lot of wounded men out there. With a 50% divorce rate, and with women being heavily favored by the court system, no wonder men are bitter and “wounded.”
😂 oh wow!! girl you still want to continue? That sound very scary, but I admire your resilience.
Women who are dating over a certain age will only attract losers because non losers are either already with the love of their lives or don't want anyone.
You should try to find out why that is.
Okay -- I am a bit late to the party here, but I have to put in this comment. For context, I am above Medicare enrollment age. I can certainly understand the four points you made in this video. I have experienced partial - only partial - experiences you described in your four points. But -- here is what I have seen in older men "out there": Whether they are single by divorce or by the death of their wife, the common theme is that the woman they want is simply "A nurse with a purse." That is, a woman must have money so she will take care of him (financially and through personal care, as well) as the man ages. Early conversations between the man and the woman are more like job interviews. The woman is screened for her financial status and compassion. Conversations include recent vacations, where she lives, the car she drives (all indicators of financial status; either good or bad), and if she volunteers, goes to church, helps friends and neighbors in need, etc., indicators of compassion. This part is CLEARLY second on the priority list. Forget "receiving", etc. The only thing that counts is the money, and if she can't or won't take care of him, she can afford to hire someone who will.
Thanks for the heads up!
I am 59 and will be 60 in February. My life partner passed unexpectedly in 2020. He was the best man ever in my life. I will be dating again but scared because I was with my partner for seventeen years. If I don't meet a man then it wasn't meant to be. I still miss my partner. Mike your beard is very elegant.
Sorry about that Leslie, lost my wife also that same year, and I miss her also.
I just turned 70, single, never married, no kids…had a good job and saved a lot of money….been retired 6 years and done 15 international trips since… meeting women overseas and having the best time of my life….
Glad you are having fun!
I am in no way interested in Western women. Overseas...the way to go
@@bertposton589 "Overseas...the way to go"
Maybe so ... just remember "no money , no honey" ( as the thai bar girls use to day with a laugh...)
Oh boi
@@staffanlundberg nm money no honey is everyhere
I'm a super woman my husband passed away for 5 year..I never think to marry ag ain. And suddenly a man from from Facebook said hello and told his divorced 3 times .I've only known him.for 3 weeks and ask me to come to USA..i thought it's a scam. Cant believe...we registered our marriage in Las Vegas..and I found the greatest man in life. God fearing and loving..I'm blessed..🤩we are now 6 years and still going..thank you jesus. 🙏😇😍
I hope you mean he died 5 years ago. "He passed away for 5 years," sounds like he rose from the dead after 5 years.
I am so happy for you but I’m 68 year old woman married for 44 years and if I am ever on my own again I’ll never remarry.
Great story sister patty
He is divorced 3 times you met him om fb only 3 weeks and dot married in Vegas lol a likely story or you both got something you want that suits fiancally or other or its a likely story. i would say you a passport to the usa and he has a lasr chance partner
Just curious why anybody would think it's cool to be God fearing. No one should be afraid of God.
I would never date again. The would is full of users and scammers.
Exactly!
I haven’t dated in 16 years and can honestly say I’ve never been happier or more at peace. I’m NEVER giving that up. EVER
@@annmariemarino2003 you can have both
so true
And bloody straight faced Liars…
I'm 62, but my mind is sharp enough to recognize a sales pitch when I see it. This guy is trying to tell us that being over 60 is a great time, full of adventure, and new experiences and romance, just waiting for us, and all we need to do is get his services. What a crock. I meet a lot of 60+ women and they look awful. Sagging belies, and chins , and wrinkles, and problems and issues. And the women aren't falling over themselves to get to me either, because getting old sucks. Most people aren't thinking what a great time to travel and rock climb, or do white water rafting. They're thinking I'd sure like to sit on a couch with a nice cup of tea and watch TV. The prospect of waking up next to an old person isn't as attractive as this guy makes it sound. And if you hook up with the wrong person at our ages and it goes pear shape you may find yourself losing assets, and we no longer have the years to recover from that any more. This guy has no idea of what dating in your 60's is like.
True, and if we have assets, we certainly don't want or need marriage and the risk of losing what we have. It's bad enough that they immediately move into our house.
Nice to find a truthful man for a change. I certainly don’t want a man who’s contributed NOTHING to my life, my success, my assets and my stability but just wants to float in and benefit from all I have created alone. See my comment above and tell me if I’m right.
I just came up on this and I’m a widow after being married for 27 yrs and omg how dating has changed and idk if I really want to try again at my age 62 🤨I want compatibility with someone but not sure if I want to be vulnerable again at this time in my life
Take some time for yourself. Maybe down the road you will be open to it.
@@EZDatingCoach So true, I can't tell you how many dates in my 60's I've been on that the women thought they were ready, and they really aren't. What's sad about this is I have developed an "emotional shield" and have learned not to get too attached.
@@Oldguynotbald That is sad. Hopefully one day you will feel comfortable to bring that shield down.
Men over 60 want women under 30!!
False.
Seriously?
yes, of course we do. And women want younger men. But in life you don't always get what you want. Wanting and having are two different things. Ands lets face it, people over 60 just don't look good any more, so its hard to get excited about the prospect of waking up next to an old person. It gets to a point where you're better off waking up alone.
@@EZDatingCoach Wait until you turn 60 dude. You're gonna find out.
Agree! They think that only women age but they get younger!
He's looking for a mute cook, maid and nurse. LOL!!
Unfortunately
Emphasis on "mute". A brown paper bag to cover her face, depending on the circumstances.
I'm 62. My parents taught me to cook over 50 years ago. Same with my 4 younger brothers. When I was a teenager, I often came home to one of my brothers cooking something.
I don't need a cook; I'm the best cook I know. I may be the best you could ever hope to know.
I don't need a nurse; I'm in perfect health. The VA takes care of any concerns i might have.
Lol
@juliuscesar4176 no brown paper bag needed since >60 need glasses to see up close and usually forget where they are
This is hilarious
A video on what men over 60 want from a man substantially younger then that🤣🤣
I’m widowed, spent the last several years taking care of my obese, alcoholic husband. Now I’m free! I’ve got money to travel, and I’m having so much fun with my adult kids! I have my dogs and parrots for companions. What I don’t want is an overly dependent ‘friend’. I’m very leery of anyone contacting me because I’m very attractive and I think it gives the wrong impression sometimes. I just have strong fears that certain guys would attempt to control or use me
Yea, when you’ve been abused you don’t trust yourself. How can you trust someone else?
Good luck with the rich life you’ve come to from that scar 🙏🏽
As a nurse I can tell you the alcoholic abuse patients are getting younger. Enjoy your life and protect your peace of being a nurse to someone who neglected themselves at all costs.
Where are the men who are emotionally stable, faithful, loyal with good family values, integrity and is fun and adventurous???
They either married.in their 20s or gave up in their 20s to 30s, because all the women they met preferred good looking A holes.
In committed relationships.
Long past.
That is just reality.
@Scole23786 being ignored because we live quietly.
Most such men give up on trying to get women at all by age 30.
They spend their early lives trying to get dates and never get any. Or they just get dates that go nowhere, but cost a great deal.
By 30, most of them figure that women really don't want them.
Later on, every.now and then, one of these former party girls shows up, wanting a nice guy now.
Its too late by then. You MIGHT find such a guy who still believes he can get a woman, but then vast majority don't. My guess is that MAYBE 1 man in 5 or 1 in 10 MIGHT be willing to try that.
Where the unicorns are.
Im 53 divorced , no kids , i am happy , fitness enthusiast and i need a companion to compliment me ,not complete me . I am not desperate to find one but I do wish to stumble upon one someday.
Love it!!!! We are here to help!! 🙌🙌
@@EZDatingCoach Thats nice of you. But I am from India . I wonder how we could go about it .
@@riyazahmed208 I help people all over the world, as long as they speak English. 🙂 It is expensive with the exchange rate but if that is alright we can setup a free to chat to discuss further?
@@EZDatingCoach Well, that may be a good idea. I dont know if i would afford the commercial part, but can have a free chat with an open mind.
@@riyazahmed208 Sounds good. www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Most 60+ men went out overseas to find love
Yes, and these women are finding citizenship 😂
@@EOrtiz-mr3tv Most of them don't want to come to the States. Yours is an old and tired argument.
EXACTLY! They want “ submissive “ women🙄
@@annmariemarino2003 You missed the mark. But, at least you make yourself believe it so. Watch a few episodes of Kevin Samuels to better understand. Enjoy your cats.
I think men do this, because overseas women are generally more feminine and know what it takes for a marriage to work. Too many American women are so masculine, it’s like living with another guy.
Can only speak for myself , I’m very open to receiving .
I’m not feeling at all like a Super Woman .
I’ve found the guy doesn’t want to give or provide much.
They like their life just the way it is and unwilling to accomodate / compromise to have a new partner in their life . Long term single Men get used to be independent as Women do but Men I found really don’t want to give up any of their independence.
They don't but they still want to chase after much younger women to see if we want to be caregivers smdh men need to date closer to there age group!
Exactly!! He failed to mention that you need to be gorgeous and 20 years younger than them!! This guy isn't dating women in their 50s!!
@@jeannettemagin1500 "you need to be gorgeous and 20 years younger than them" Fact of life: Men are easily attracted by young, fertile, beautiful women but not by elderly women that after menopause has lost most of their youthful beauty. However, your abilities in the bedroom may change that if You got what it takes in sexual experience, attitudes and fitness.
Do You ?
@@jeannettemagin1500 Nope, I'm 64 and I have zero interest in dating any woman over 10 years younger then I. Less in common, more sexually compatible, and no young children to deal with.
I think women should work on themselves to feel great and beautiful inside out .
I have been chased by many younger guys but none of them interest me ..
Could be my traditional value on the way .
I am 55 but looking young and outward exploring many venues to empower myself .
You are not defending by some random guys who do not know themselves .
I am feminine but do not submissive .
He's on here telling women what he thinks they want to hear. Women know beyond the shadow of a doubt how they've been treated by men all their lives. He's banking on someone being desperate enough to believe the lies so he can make some money off of them.
I’ve been waiting to have men, people really, to get to this place! I’ve always seen relationships as about getting to know yourself and sharing yourself more deeply with another human being to the depths of one’s soul. Early on most people are driven by hormones, expectations, ‘suppose to… ‘ and proving something to self or others! Grace comes with wisdom and wisdom comes with age (be it ‘aging’ 1 year or 20yrs)!
Well said!
Good
Best thing about being over 65? I can smell bullshit before it hits the ground.
Women don't know excitement from excrement. I enjoy a peaceful quiet life free of drama and don't dare risk loosing it.
Happy for you!!! 💜💜
Yes, please stay single.
Same diff to women. Non drama is boredom to women.
It's a pity your mum had you!! Don't worry no woman will want a guy like you.
Men over 60 want no drama, someone to share household bills, peace, a pleasant and cooperative lady, who shares at least one interest or hobby with him. Also an occasional bit of intimacy, appreciation and sex ?
I love the comment of angelwatts. Right there with you sister! Im going to be 65 in a couple of months, widower for six years. traditional and old school. Have not found a man to my standards. Im attractive, healthy and fit. Would like to meet a man that genuinely cares!!! Not in the books for me!😅
It is not easy as a 60 year old trying to date again
No it is not. That is why my team and I are here and trying to help. 💜
@@EZDatingCoach give us more information on those of us dating over 60 and even early seventies please
@@victoriafontana3520 I would love to. What information are you looking for?
Not true. My ex boyfriend was 62 and I’m 32.
Hello pretty, Why do you say so? Any reason?
60 is a bit old to be looking for a great love. If you didn't find it young, you ain't finding it now. I agree with the "not looking to start a family", looking for fun and someone that receives.
I met this 64 yr in a toddler's body. I could not believe how obsessed he was about his looks. needless to say, my babysitting days are over
great love? most men i meet who are in their late 50s or early 60s are broken (financially and/or emotionally) . they are looking for someone to take care of them. most of them aren't evolving - they are stuck. never met an interesting 60s man. they are out there but they are taken
You only need one. 💜💜
Been single divorced since along time ago. Work a lot. But also travel, love sports, music, etc. haven’t been in a relationship since 1997. Sounds bad, but made sure my two now adult children got through college and careers.
@@carolynluckas1219 you are superwoman! I love it!!!! It is time someone supported and helped you! If you want to pursue your love life with some help book a call here - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Interesting teaching, thank you Mike! I wish you had the answers to all our problems 😂 I guess some things just are what they are….and time, I pray in my case, will shake things out.
I met a guy last year and it was obviously a great love between us. On both sides. But it turned out he was commitment phobic.
@@aquamarine0303 sorry to hear it
I know what I want andd it's not an old woman with pains & aches but is still vital in her life. My sun is just coming up NOT setting!
Yes, and we don’t want a self-centered, grumpy old man. You’re just one accident away from being disabled or in pain. Let’s just hope that you have someone to take care of your old ass if you ever need it.
Preach brother. I’m fit and healthy and the grandma market is a sad place.
Finding one that is slender and healthy AND not a superwoman is a unicorn ❤
Lol😂
First time I'm seeing this! Wow, my story, the man over 60 u describe is what I've wanted my whole life. I am 65yr old woman who did camping, hiking skiing biking exploring! Did it all with my husband and loved it..loved him more than I can describe. He abandoned me. And I found out he was having an affair living a secret life. I am not greiving anymore but. I feel destroyed. I always took cAre of my body never wanted to be the wife that let herself gooo! So I'll be divorced . But.are there men over 60 that would date someone scared this way?
After you heal and make yourself available a man will 100% want you. 👍👍💜💜
Your profile pic looks nice
Im a 48 year old empty nester i wouldn't mind being with someone that is a little older I have spent the last 8 years finishing raising my kids and now ready to start the next faze of my life.
Wow, you are so young. You are ready for adventures! How can I help you on your journey?
What helped me most heal forward from divorce was book THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH ❤
LOL I can't even find a date! Don't go to bars, tried online dating but too strange. I've given up
Well when you are ready to try again we are here to help you
There is nothing to chose from, i am in the same boat
nothing out there anymore we come from a different place and time
Somebody who doesn’t look like my deceased auntie.
Some people just let themselves get old old
I'm done looking and waiting. I was too busy raising 3 children absolutely all by myself, creating a career without any assets, I'm so proud of myself. I did have 2 husbands and a few companions. An alcoholic, narcissists and predators and practically No love life 🤣 so before the end (I'm 69) I wanted to find myself a kind loving man and experience a few things everyone else had in their youth, but it seems impossible to find a normal kind person at my age. Lots of liars, traitors (men and women, also aiming just a friendship, that too seems like Mission impossible).
I'm fed up. I guess I'll focus on my own self and my grandchildren. Love is not scheduled in my present Karma. Even though everyone wants me but not in the way I want to....oh well, I guess no-one deserves me and that's that.
There is a great man for you. However, you must believe that. And when you do, you will be able to meet him. 💜💜
Obviously you've been choosing the wrong men.
So I am screwed? I am 64, widowed and had back surgery and so I am not in shape to hike, travel the world and mirror a guy's interest. My husband was an outdoorsman and I was not and we had a great relationship. It seems impossible now.
I tore my abdominal at one point in my life. During that stage I was playing soccer 5 days a week and super active. Once, my ab was torn I had to reinvent who I was. Once I discovered new Mike, I dated women that made sense for that version of me. You can do the same.
You can't keep doubting, you have to keep trying
You can still find someone that shares the same interest as you
You seem like a very nice person but honestly don’t know how you can say these types of relationships are possible. They absolutely ARE NOT! Not sure what fantasy planet you’re living on. Do women really fall for this???
They might. I'm surprised so many men are in the comments agreeing.
This sounds like a guy pondering to a female audience.
As a man in my 60s (62), I really don't see any reason to marry unless I want more kids, in which case, a much younger woman would be involved.
Women like to believe good men will always want them regardless of age. They also seem to think their looks, body weight and sexual history don't matter. None of that isbyrue.
Pandering. Stupid spell check.
I am a 60yo widower and I have been with the same partner for 7 years. We maintain our own homes and expenses. It works! We both have peace in our lives. We are in no hurry to be married nor cohabitate.
@@Berto1964 love that for you two!!! 🙌🙌
Good list. as a guy who just turned 60, I can relate and agree with your list. Less with number 3 than the rest, but a great insight.
Thank you🙏🙏
Thanks. I enjoyed listening to you. The only thing where'd disagree with you is where we say - women and men do it - " I didn't know what I wanted or who I was at the tine, back then" I'll put it another way ...." I was who I thought I was and believed myself to be, AT THE TIME. I DID know what I wanted, AT THE TIME. I DID do what I wanted, AT THE TIME. But, over time, I changed, evolved, discovered new things, new experiences, new people, new parts of ME. NOW, I'M NOT any longer who I was back then. Now, I'm ME , as I am now. Now, what I want and need fits with me, NOW." Personally and professionally, this us what I've discovered about myself and other people. Wisdom with hindsight can he great. But not if we cancel out our past history and treat it like we were wrong, or our spouses were wrong, at the time. It's like when we say, or other people say to us - BE the BEST version of yourself. Well, hold on now. Because, right now, you and me ARE the best versions of ourselves that we can be, RIGHT NOw, in our circumstances, in our conditions, with our resources, with our knowledge or insights and beliefs and needs and hopes and desires.
Right now, we ARE the best versions of NOW. In this NOW. And in 6 or 12 months time, you and I will be a slightly different version of the best versions of ourselves. How4ver, we need to APPRECIATE this right now best version. Because, if we don't, we're NEVER going to ever get to be this imaginary, fairy tale, " best version". I.e. When will you ever be
" good enough" / best version?
I am 60 and still looking for peace and sanity
❤❤ Being a mature woman, I would like to know a person who completes me, but the expectations men today want in a relationship is so much work, demanding time spent on them and are not allowing the freedom women need at our most delicate and deserving time in our life. I have come to realize, I don't want all these changes and/or expectations to be relived. I waited my whole life to have this freedom and make my choices of happiness.❤❤ Note, I don't so dating sites 💯
Thank you Mike for this helpful information. I have always enjoyed your videos. God Bless you and keep up the good work!!
Thanks for watching Della!!! 👍👍💜💜🙏🙏
@@EZDatingCoach Is there any difference between people who are in their 70's, compared to the 60's, what men look for.
@@dellaholzer1011 - It is very similar in my experience. Possibly the health of the partner becomes even more important in the 70s.
@@EZDatingCoach Thank you, I guess that makes sense.
I will be turning 63 this year, as a man I have been single most of my life, own my home, I'm financial, met a wonderful woman who I stupidly thought liked me, she ended up ending our relationship, now I know it is what it is no more, she did not want the the drama at her age been 61 never felt so embarrassed and stupid putting myself out there never again.
Sorry to hear it. Falling in love and it not working out shouldn't feel embarrassing. I am proud of you for trying. Perhaps if you ever decide to try again it will be reciprocated fully. 👍
Hi there,read you’re post we are always our own. Worst critic don’t do this to yourself. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person and there’s a wonderful person out there. It’s not about getting what you want. All the time is what God put in your life. God bless.😊
Hi there,read you’re post we are always our own. Worst critic don’t do this to yourself. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person and there’s a wonderful person out there. It’s not about getting what you want. All the time is what God put in your life😊
I gave up at 20 years single. Soon to be 70. To much checklisting, red-flags, must-haves etc. and religious orientation is really one of my only almost non-negotiables.
I figure being over sixty , basically spent my entire adult life trying to find a woman that I could trust . After all that time I finally realized that such a woman does not exist . I finally smartened up and do not even bother to look any more .
Where do you live? There are so many amazing women that are trustworthy scattered throughout the world.
@@EZDatingCoach Correct , they are scattered through out the world , just not in western countries . Hence the rise of the pass port bros .
@@chetubetcha4404 There are millions of women of integrity and worthy of trust in the US. I help men find them all the time. If you would like some help, let me know. 👍👍👍
@@EZDatingCoach That is amusing , most the women in the USA are gold diggers , no thx . They will monkey branch first chance they get .
Sad.
Maybe the question to ask the person when you’re comfortable is are you looking for a relationship? I want a partner in life we both contribute.
@@fourthtunz yes
I’m 65 and just ant to be alone… I can take care of myself, and don’t need anyone to look after me…
What do we want ? Loving, thats what.
Thanks i found your chanel.i am 63 years i am still single still work as care giver . I need a man who need a true woman.i am a care loving person.need someone who loves me true . Im tired being alone.i am filipina .i still work as a care giver.
Low key announcing phillipina/caregiver 🤣🤣🤣🙃
I could barely listen to this drivel. You have no idea what you are talking about. I have been trying to date men in their 50’s and now 60’s and each and every one of them only wanted sex. I’ve stopped trying. And don’t say it’s my fault. I’m not taking the blame for their stupidity. One or two maybe but this has been a constant for years. I gave up even meeting them because all they talked about was sex and how I might taste and all that stuff. No they haven’t learned to be a better person or changed or looking for their last love. They say that to get your attention. I’ve had that game played on me soooo many times. Yes I have boundaries. It’s called the door.
If you counsel people for money you better rethink this. Find out what is really going on.
I am very well attuned to what men want, remember I am a man. 🤣
Sorry you keep running into men that just want sex. Any ideas or clues what you may be doing to attract men that just want sex instead of men who want to get to know you?
@@EZDatingCoach Don't gaslight her. Listen.
Cindy, I am not sure about your age, but sex is indeed one of the most important priorities for men. In fact, as a man in his 30s, I find it fascinating that men in their 60s still desire sex.
Nonetheless, as a man, I can tell you that you can make many men fall in love with you by making sex special for them, but before you do this, you need to find out how empathetic that man is towards you and other people. Try to do some tests on empathy without him knowing it.
For the men who pass the empathy tests, you should work to make the sex with them special, it make time but sooner or later they are going to start having feelings for you. But for men with low empathy levels, cut the relationship because they will not even appreciate the good sex you have with them.
I am 68 year old widower. I am in very good shape and go to the gym 3 times a week. I am looking for a partner that has her own money and takes care of herself. I cook, clean and do laundry.
@@edwardyanis1301 sounds like a catch
No, sounds like he's looking for a companion, not a partner
I want one that is healthy but broke. I have enough for the two of us and a superwoman isn’t likely to have and feminine energy left to squeeze.
You can't have everything. You are supposed to look after your Wife financially.
I do all that i love alone have my own apartment and a smallish midest pension which i manage well on wirh low bills etc and have 2 cats. I take of my appearance and walk a lot no mediacak issues. But i live here i live and was born here in Ireland and dating in middle years is the pits hre it you are lucky to get a few dates. And steer clear of dating apps full of fakes scammers and time wasters
When I die I want to go quietly in my sleep like my grandpa did. Not kicking and screaming like the passengers in his car. “67 “ and sliding downhill into the abyss.
Works better a little shorter:
I want to die in my sleep like grandpa, not screaming like his passengers
Thank you so much 🥰 this is so helpful wow i had no idea about dating a man over 60. So interesting. I appreciate you and all the people that have experienced their relationships.
You're welcome. Thanks for watching. 🙏🙏
Not sure where I was supposed to ask for the individualized coaching assistance you mentioned in this video?
Hi! You can chat with me about coaching here - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
How do I sign up
Here you go... www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session 🙂🙂
Happy is the woman who captures a man’s last love 💕
We have scars by this age. Fall down 7 and get up 8, but don’t need a second more of the modern woman who sees a man as a burden. Let’s explore the classics when a man could be a man. A woman a woman. “Baby it’s cold outside.”
Receptive femininity is the unicorn I seek.
I just want to find a friend. Someone to talk to, but still a provider. Church would be a plus
I just am not a woman who fits into the masculine “work” world. Being a single mom does not fit me. Nice thought that there are truly men who want this woman.
Great video. Appreciate you.
@@jowhipp6382 Appreciate you for watching. 🤩
I am 62 recently retired on my own finally after a 30+ marriage and want to live life on my own terms for awhile.
Do it!!! And enjoy!!!! 👍👍
How much do you charge?
I would enjoy the companionship and an end to doing stuff by myself. I don't have a shopping list of what she's like, but i do have deal-breakers. They include psychotic ex-husbands, kids who are mentally ill, drug addicts or still live at home. Im actually pretty easy to please. I dont want a mommy. My mum was awesome, but she's gone to the garden show in the sky. Somebody to travel and do stuff with.
I had to laugh at the injunction against psychotic ex husbands. I guess at a more advanced age we do have some baggage.
Hi Mike, I am a divorced, black professional, 77 female active,healthy, spiritual not religious attractive, one grown son, financially independent, I am looking for my soulmate, younger than me within 10 years, mature, healthy, active, attractive, no romantic attachments, financially independent,romantic,open communication skills, easy relationship.
@@gwenroberts6330 - You sound fabulous!! Id you want sign up for a call with me and we can discuss helping you find an equally amazing man - Link to setup a call - www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
What are you talking about? Just be yourself. Of course people can receive, safe, explore. Stop over thinking and be yourself
Note to guys over 60. A young women doesn't want you unless you're rich. If you're rich, it's unlikely you are reading this. If you're not rich, either work hard to get there or stop dreaming.
Seems to me, at least from a certain pov, virtually all women want rich men. In which case, the mans age doesn't matter.
I saw a study that said women expect a man to earn at least 50% more than the woman does.
If you’re even approaching 60… And need someone who calls them self a dating coach, you must not have learned anything in life. Everything this guy is saying it’s just common sense. He should call himself a common sense coach.
Common sense ain’t that common ?
I love men in their 60s.❤
More grounded and experienced.
I want to be a feminine woman and my kids are grown up.
@@fallon7616 🙌🙌🙌
It takes 2 to make a relationship and it takes 2 to break it, I have been married for 48 years and why, because I respect him and he respects me. This crap of one has this idea that they should get automatic respect is BS, it is a two way street. Many of these males keep telling woman" you do what I want or I will leave this country""bye"or be happy with your cats, well some of you men be happy with your hand job.
Let me enlighten you about men in their 60’s…. Men (in the UK) marry and have kids WAY too young, before they even know who they are themselves. A nice skinny body comes along and he’s in there (just to show off to his mates) and by the time he’s 24 he’s got 2 or 3 kids, mortgage, a crappy job, debts and feels stuck. Then he chats up a single bird at work, wifey finds out, divorces him and cleans him out financially forever. By mid-30’s/early 40’s he’s a broke, bitter, emotionally unavailable commitment-phobe - which is when he meets the decent woman he should have married but he’s now terrified of commitment so instead of marrying her, he goes back to wifey or gets some other stranger pregnant - and the whole story starts again. By age 60 he comes crawling back to the one he should have married: she’s achieved success without his sorry arse in the picture so she sees him for the prat he is now the rose-tinted glasses are off. THAT, my friend, is the reality of men over 60!
@@EdelweisSusie Thanks for sharing. 👍
@@EZDatingCoach It’s quite tragic, isn’t it? I can walk past a college-age youth and virtually know how his life is going to pan out (with a few exceptions, of course). I just wish I could warn them! Great channel.
Sounds more like a specific story.
I doubt that scenario fits many, even in the UK.
GREAT advice. I AM a super women. You’ve enlightened me. I’ve got to turn it down and receive more. Thanks EZ Dating Coach
Yes superwoman!!! 🦸♀️
Hi Barbara, I wish to have a superwoman in my life
Even if as a friend
I've been divorced for 20 years. I tried dating for a while after my divorce, but the women I met were so toxic I said the hell with it. I just want peace and quiet. I want to be able to do what I want, when I want, and how I want. I want to be able to play golf, have a few beers with guys, travel around Europe, and enjoy my grand kids. Now, at 75, sex is not a big deal anymore, so I see absolutely no point in having a woman around to muck up my peaceful life. There is no way that I'd be willing to become the retirement plan for any woman.
What do you mean you wont be a retirement pl an?
If you have money and you find someone who you have a good time with what's the big deal?
@@pearlfeather9326 because I don't trust them.
@@pearlfeather9326 All women have one thing I'm not interested in.... drama. I'd rather go fishing.
@twofarg0ne763
Drama is part of life..
Everyone has drama unless your dead!
@@pearlfeather9326 Ah, sorry to disagree, I have no drama in my life except when I miss a 6" putt. When you live alone and only have other retired male friends there is no drama because men can't stand drama.
Yes where is this gentleman to be found?
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What man over 60 is looking for a woman over 60. 😂😂😂
That's delusional 😅
Seems like all these points are things they should have applied in their previous marriages. U said it baggage.
Most men become quite different AFTER they get married, so I'm open to a loving relationship but never getting married again. What's the point in getting married after 50? If anything, that legal contract will cause more problems. .... Done working? LOL not in today's world.
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I have a lot of supposed “strikes” against me per some men (never married single Mom) but I have more great traits. I’m not giving up on love and I’m 58. I have money, professional job that I can retire from whenever I’m ready, debt free, own my home, maintain my home, great kid who works, no ex in the picture, still pretty and take care of myself. I gave up dating in 2016 because I found no quality men without major issues. I’ve done all the hard work and am ready for the fun stuff. I want a calm man that when I look across the room at him I get a tickly feeling. 😍. I haven’t lost hope. Marriage and mingling finances are not for me unless there are ironclad prenups on both sides. At this age we should give it all to our children. There are really good women out there but we just aren’t putting ourselves out there for the same exact reasons men aren’t. I hate drama and I live a very peaceful life. Don’t give up, but yet be happy alone cause life is too short.
What if you are over 70? Do you help those women? I am 73 but most people think late 50’s!
Of course!!!! My oldest client so far was 80. Book a call with me here if you want private coaching ... www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session
Very true good advice thanks 🙏
I really don't care what single men over 60 months. I want them to know what I want if I'm gonna trade the happiness I have been on my own by letting somebody else in. They better not mess it up.
After quarantine I'm happy w 4hrs max
Thanks for this! I'm in my 30s and looking to date older men.
please don't..this ruins lives of the older women...if young girls would stop dating the older guys maybe us women would have a chance at love
@@artsylady3187 no please date older men, before it is too late for you. A man 60years old is not interested in women around 60 years old it was always and will always be
Nailed it..
Are you open to out of Europe? As I am in Africa.
I help everyone who speaks English. 🙂
A cook , caretaker. Housekeeper and someone to help them. No sharing equality not that age. Younger yes. 70 s never. Senior women are healthier., single men need. My experience is . I love being single . I take care of my self. Don't want to babysit.
💯 agree!
I'm in awe! An honest man. Thank you for putting your head and heart into your comments; as i am indeed perplexed at this stage and close to ready to throw in the towel. Hope is renewed!! What's your address? Lol just kidding!
🤣🤣 you're welcome... Thanks for the kind words. 💜💜
What if your in your 60s single but never had a relationship ever in your life?
No time like the present to get your first relationship if you want one? 💜💜
@@EZDatingCoach nah am sent to stay single for life
@@unisangalaxystudio Awesome, go for it! 👍
Gentlemen, just rent it by the hour and go on your way rejoicing.
Nuff Said.