instagram's dating coach influencer epidemic

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  • @mangoslormpy7618
    @mangoslormpy7618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3321

    All influencer date gurus know is: Compare people to animals, soft eugenics, negging, eat hot chip and lie

    • @sunwoopark6762
      @sunwoopark6762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      It should be "soft" (HEAVY quotation marks) if they use "alpha males" and bullshit like that

    • @augustwilson9633
      @augustwilson9633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Girl EYE'M -

    • @thirteen6362
      @thirteen6362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      whats hot chip again? ;-;

    • @mangoslormpy7618
      @mangoslormpy7618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@thirteen6362 the whole comment's a reference to a text meme. But hot chips can include hot cheetos, takis, spicy doritos, etc. ^_^

    • @thirteen6362
      @thirteen6362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mangoslormpy7618 OHHHH TY

  • @ButterflyScarlet
    @ButterflyScarlet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4270

    *Him:* the emotional centre of a woman's brain is 8x larger than a man's
    *Me, frantically flipping through my neuro-biology lectures and textbooks:* um no i don't think that's correct like At All

    • @octaviuspenney4410
      @octaviuspenney4410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +846

      You can't tell him that tho, it might emasculate him :(

    • @aviimax
      @aviimax 4 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      must be that new neuro-biology

    • @starmanda88
      @starmanda88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      *insert obligatory reply about feminism infiltrating academia* 🤣🤣

    • @rice1156
      @rice1156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      i went straight to google after he said that... it's a no from me and wikipedia

    • @tookiwolfpaint5142
      @tookiwolfpaint5142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      yeah depending on what gender you are transitioning includes your brain either shrinking or octupling in size, it's pretty drastic

  • @dyran
    @dyran 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4599

    Mr. Romance, Mr. Chivalry, Mr. Wine-and-dine? Where's Mr. Struggle in all this?

    • @mlpdisneylover
      @mlpdisneylover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂😂

    • @BEngelbrecht97
      @BEngelbrecht97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +406

      Remember? We don't want to deal with Mr. Struggle. Like Noel said, ''leave him like his mother left him.''

    • @biancamarcal9496
      @biancamarcal9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      where's Mr. Steal yo girl

    • @addangel
      @addangel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      that's what I was thinking too 😂

    • @williamho2940
      @williamho2940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The only time the coaching "advice" is going to work is if one is also Mr.Rich, or Mr. Handsome. (Just to balance out Mr. Presumptuous, Mr. Obnoxious, Mr. Blind)

  • @robinewithane2286
    @robinewithane2286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3743

    ''I'm still wearing this smile you gave me'' sounds like something Noah Centipede would tweet

    • @shayb.1059
      @shayb.1059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Centipede 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @pollypocket4323
      @pollypocket4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Or buffalo bill

    • @KhayJayArt
      @KhayJayArt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Noah Cilantro

    • @krapea
      @krapea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      You mean noah centi toenail

    • @tifzu_
      @tifzu_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I-💀💀💀

  • @aidalynn4870
    @aidalynn4870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1883

    for some reason Casey exposing the weirdest parts of the internet is the only thing keeping me positive

    • @stoppickingurnose7852
      @stoppickingurnose7852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe it's because things are bad, but at least your life isn't so sad that you think you have to be a dating coach?

    • @1999Torii
      @1999Torii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same. Especially since jenna marbles is on hiatus. Im so glad i found casey

  • @MissSatanSparkles
    @MissSatanSparkles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2690

    The only good thing that has come out of social distancing is that we don't have to be around men like this

    • @veve7349
      @veve7349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      And the second good thing is that for once in my life I'm not the only one who's sitting at home all day.

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Unless you live with them 😓

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Vera true that !

    • @lonelylesbian2246
      @lonelylesbian2246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Being gay isn't a choice but this is why I'm gay

    • @rain5456
      @rain5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lonelylesbian2246 Thisssss

  • @JonanaBanana4
    @JonanaBanana4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1205

    This guy is wayyyyy to attached to gender roles to actually provide decent advice

  • @becca53444
    @becca53444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    This man legit thinks women should lie to men and never correct them just to protect their ego. Lol wtf

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Becca A blasphemy.

    • @KhayJayArt
      @KhayJayArt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Hes basically saying that men are emotional snowflakes.

  • @aaliyahfortune9841
    @aaliyahfortune9841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2173

    if you need to get dating advice from someone on instagram then at that point just break up

    • @mattDettling
      @mattDettling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂

    • @ley8443
      @ley8443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Aaliyah Fortune
      along with reddit lmfao

    • @CyanideOwl
      @CyanideOwl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Says 12 yo girl 🤣🤣

    • @jazz1056
      @jazz1056 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok that was a very good one!😆😆😆

    • @melynnejimenez8242
      @melynnejimenez8242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@CyanideOwl she still has a point 😂😂😂

  • @Lovelyclarii
    @Lovelyclarii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1187

    He looks like a primary school substitute trying to act cool.

    • @implicitnoir
      @implicitnoir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao true

    • @tenacitevi
      @tenacitevi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Nah he wouldn’t do that bc teaching is a woman’s job 😌

    • @ley8443
      @ley8443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ^ *sigh*

  • @breathe-2am
    @breathe-2am 4 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    Can confirm that bit about the brains, when i transitioned my emotional brain shrunk to make room for FOOTBALL, BUILD A DECK, and GHOSTING

    • @apparentdistance9752
      @apparentdistance9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      mooooooooood

    • @ghostrobots
      @ghostrobots 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      why did i expect that to end in "eat hot chip and lie"

    • @brooklynnbutterfield1951
      @brooklynnbutterfield1951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ghostrobots man i wiSh

    • @narleymarley666
      @narleymarley666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I just want you to know that your comment me laugh out loud. Like actually out loud.

    • @evapaulus6245
      @evapaulus6245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BUILD A DECK I'M DYING

  • @Samantha-hl8lq
    @Samantha-hl8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    I really hate his 'tip' about being passionate. Does he really want us to be passionate, say about feminism, animal rights or make-up? Because I think his idea of a girl being passioanate is stroking some guy's fragile ego by supporting his interests and suggestions, thus moulding our personality around a man's. This reminds me so much of the Cool Girl trope and I am triggered.

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Samantha good point

    • @konstance13
      @konstance13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      He also says to be passionate by giving yes or no answers, but then immediately says to be playful which usually means not being straightforward.

    • @Samantha-hl8lq
      @Samantha-hl8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@konstance13 Exactly! Makes no sense at all!

    • @gayatriputhran7348
      @gayatriputhran7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      this reminds me of a margaret atwood quote: "“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur."

    • @Samantha-hl8lq
      @Samantha-hl8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gayatriputhran7348 that's such a good quote! Which of her novels is it from?

  • @ravenblackwell4408
    @ravenblackwell4408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    Weird guy: Give us a striptease
    Casey from 300 miles away: A H
    that SENT me

    • @Madimichellee
      @Madimichellee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Raven Blackwell I laughed so hard that’s the most emotion we’ve ever seen from her 😭

  • @thomas-5417
    @thomas-5417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +705

    I’m a straight male and this man made me cringe so hard. He’s the kind of guy who thinks all men have the same thoughts and actions.

    • @clownfromclowntown
      @clownfromclowntown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      He’s also the sort of guy that believes women exist to serve men

    • @thomas-5417
      @thomas-5417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Blair the cat I think a relationship should be about balance. Both people should strive to make the other happy.

    • @a.l.michael6240
      @a.l.michael6240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hive mind dude bros

    • @raffa4456
      @raffa4456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      He's a sexist through and through 😅

    • @milkeyway7105
      @milkeyway7105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Jack Boot wow people who really think this unironically must be braindead

  • @blackriver19
    @blackriver19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    He's like that guy in high school that found out a girl had a crush on him and that small little ego boost spiraled into thinking he's a sex God. What I really wanna hear is the experience of the women he dated.

  • @urfriendemily
    @urfriendemily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1033

    him: have you ever thought, "what is it that men find attractive?"
    casey: no
    WHY did that make me laugh so hard

    • @user-ld6th3vw8e
      @user-ld6th3vw8e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      cuz she's right lol

    • @winter_wolf3284
      @winter_wolf3284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Imagine being a lesbian and hearing that just like: 😳

    • @ley8443
      @ley8443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      ^ yes indeed, as a lesbian that was my reaction

    • @dreamingofthemoon
      @dreamingofthemoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We said it at the same time😂

    • @esme_melody
      @esme_melody 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i literally said "no" at the same time as her and DIED laughing (also is she........u know.......?)(bc i sure am)

  • @SailingSeignior
    @SailingSeignior 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    The fact that this guy thinks being teachable is a negative attribute (emasculating) is a clear red flag. I like how you used a work example about why that’s bad, as well. If he’s like that in his relationships then I guarantee you he’s like that in the workplace. He shouldn’t be in a relationship or a workplace until he talks to a therapist about his issues with learning new skills and bettering himself. That’s not masculine. That’s just irrational behavior, through and through.

    • @jun-hs4eo
      @jun-hs4eo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What relationships?

  • @erikw4051
    @erikw4051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    3:51 As a trans guy I can confirm. I had to sign all my braincells away when coming out. But also, this guy has never even seen the braincell to begin with

    • @sterylmeep3388
      @sterylmeep3388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Goddamnit now you are a provider

    • @929er13
      @929er13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      provide or perish

    • @razahrtelvanni2018
      @razahrtelvanni2018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      How does it feel when someone tells you the correct way to chop onions

    • @casualcrisis6349
      @casualcrisis6349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      damn. as a trans guy i feel that 😔

    • @kirantator3921
      @kirantator3921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      is there a schedule as to who has the braincell or is there like a biweekly duel to see who gets to use it

  • @emikellum230
    @emikellum230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    these dating coaches peaked in high school

    • @Xvladin
      @Xvladin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Meanwhile I *pooped* in high school

    • @notdestini
      @notdestini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Low peak

    • @sammallory8099
      @sammallory8099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Emi K bold of you to assume they ever peaked.

    • @Kayla-rd5jd
      @Kayla-rd5jd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      he dated the head cheerleader in high school then got dumped by her before she went to college and it shows

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I cried in a bathroom stall like the little bitch that I am, in high school.

  • @NicholeParker
    @NicholeParker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    “Don’t accept criticism. Never learn. All constructive communication to provide better outcomes for everyone involved is toxic and a personal attack”. I had this mentality for awhile. Don’t be this asshole. Especially with your significant other. You’re on the same team. And no, you don’t reach the same outcome at the end. She has lovely diced onions and you have multiple cuts and onion mush

  • @tanya1694
    @tanya1694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    "we were born with playful spirit" don't remember that from my biology classes

    • @bigasspockets
      @bigasspockets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The playful spirit is stored in the balls

    • @jojol.2630
      @jojol.2630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, I know that some predators are born with a play instinct (think how kittens and puppies play) that they turn into hunting skills. I can see this being a theory but honestly I don’t know enough about it to make any connectionz

  • @teagannam
    @teagannam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2702

    In case anyone was wondering, *no, male and female brains aren’t “wired differently”.* They have some differences in hormone levels and that’s it. People of all genders experience relatively the same amounts of empathy, emotions, etc, and those differences are almost NEVER because of sex (not the act, like, your body... yaknow). Most of the time, men seeming more “cold and logical” vs women being “emotional and irrational” is uhhh gender roles :/. And yes those “male vs female brains” ideas/theories were indeed made and used to uphold and excuse sexism, and, later, transphobia. Yet another reason why this guy is gross and creepy! :)

    • @KathleenAndEmmaShow
      @KathleenAndEmmaShow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      Asher :p can confirm this comment 👏 I took a gender psychology class and the class could be summed up in one brief sentence: the differences between biological men and biological women are minute, there’s more variability between people of the same biological sex than there is with the opposite sex. Most behavioral differences are cultural from gender roles and misogyny, not innate. Whether you’re XX or XY or XXY or any other chromosomal difference, our brain is basically the same!

    • @ayeayelittledragon1367
      @ayeayelittledragon1367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      As a psych student I can confirm this

    • @edeeeXO
      @edeeeXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      I agree on most parts but there are differences in the brain's anatomy that are based on gender. There are some studies on this (some with trans individuals). So yes, there *are* differences but they 1. aren't the same in ever individual of one group and 2. aren't as stark as this guy makes them out to be. As of now, it's still kinda unclear how those differences *really* impact our behaviour as socialisation is always mixed in.
      Taking biology completely out of the equation is dishonest and gives transphobes ammunition imo. It's harder to argue against physical evidence.

    • @tijanaself897
      @tijanaself897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To be fair females have a smaller brain tho - - > smaller skull. I mean that is just used to tell if a skull is male or female

    • @Kitterfly247
      @Kitterfly247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LunaLover no one said it was

  • @brookebell2911
    @brookebell2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    dissociation: women always think I'm mysterious and intriguing bc I'm always staring into space

    • @flawedsanity
      @flawedsanity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same. It's wonderful. (And by wonderful. It's miserable)

  • @kaitlynnp.6752
    @kaitlynnp.6752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    almost every single “dating coach” ads and videos i’ve seen are rooted in unnecessary sexist and overtly sexual ‘tips’

  • @diaaaaanaaaaa
    @diaaaaanaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I really like that guys advice. He sounds very educated and smart :) gotta please my husband because even though he treats me horribly, hes only trying to provide for me :))) his girlfriend is nice to me so i should be grateful :))))

    • @implicitnoir
      @implicitnoir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      💀

    • @929er13
      @929er13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      GURL

    • @kathrynobrien1546
      @kathrynobrien1546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      when ur husbands girlfriend makes u go to bed at 8pm 😡😡😡😡

    • @diaaaaanaaaaa
      @diaaaaanaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@kathrynobrien1546 how did you get them to go from 7:30 to 8? Ive been trying but they say its for my own good :///

    • @tifzu_
      @tifzu_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      SWEETHEART I-💀😭

  • @sierrarevels6441
    @sierrarevels6441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I hate when people say "x is hardwired into this population" when what they really mean is "this population has been socialized to follow this meaningless societal norm"

    • @intimpulliber7376
      @intimpulliber7376 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Testosterone makes men more agressive but also calmer in dangerous situations. Want me to continue?

    • @katatat2030
      @katatat2030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss

    • @katatat2030
      @katatat2030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@intimpulliber7376 continue researching human biology and sociology? Yes.

  • @fiorefiore9910
    @fiorefiore9910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Mat: *cuts* *onion*
    His mother: "Honey, it's dangerous to use a knife like that. Let me show you how to do it"
    Mat: "MOM YOU'RE EMASCULATING ME!"
    Him mother: "Mat I'm just teaching you how to it right so you won't get hurt"
    Mat: *bleeding* *and* *screaming* "yOu Are eMasCuLaTIng MeeEEEeee!"

  • @colorsbyflow
    @colorsbyflow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    this guy is the kind of dude that refuses to act “womanly” because he thinks it will make him like actually turn into a woman so he calls any guy who shows emotion a soyboy

    • @htownsmookie6004
      @htownsmookie6004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Linhardt von Hevring Most of us men were raised to not show emotions,it can be a torture.

    • @Lindsey.-.
      @Lindsey.-. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Linhardt von Hevring That’s why I love Julien Solomita so much. He’s not afraid to be more feminine and have fun.

    • @ilikefiretruckandmonstertr80
      @ilikefiretruckandmonstertr80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      H-TOWN SMOOKIE i’m very sorry about that :( if it helps, most girls appreciate guys who are in touch with their feelings. although there are quite a few women who uphold the same beliefs, the whole “men shouldn’t show emotions” thing was started and is mostly enforced by other men. so unless you want to spend your life with a guy, don’t worry about what they think.

    • @htownsmookie6004
      @htownsmookie6004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prince Harry real Thanks,but also I live in what you can call the hood and women here say they don't want weak men either. Anyways thanks for the kind words.

  • @aleatoryw
    @aleatoryw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    "oh wow, she's evolving"
    "who?"
    "the pokemon reading this"

  • @aleezeqadir844
    @aleezeqadir844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    the only thing a man has provided me with is a headache

    • @a.l.michael6240
      @a.l.michael6240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Aleezé Qadir and a yeast infection ☹️

    • @ijustwannacomment2179
      @ijustwannacomment2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And proof I'm a lesbian and not indeed american

  • @evermoredany
    @evermoredany 4 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    I need Brent Rivera to teach me how to crush on my sister's boyfriend

    • @Xvladin
      @Xvladin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I need to learn how to do lewd yoga poses with my little sister in public while strangers watch us
      That sounds like the exact plot of a japanese doujin I want to read

    • @gracecaroline9138
      @gracecaroline9138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do you mean smash?

    • @evermoredany
      @evermoredany 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Xvladin 😂

    • @brian_Austin27
      @brian_Austin27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Xvladin 😂😂👌

  • @MaddieB
    @MaddieB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    the fact that men feel "emasculated" by women offering advice just proves how fragile masculinity really is

  • @casir.7407
    @casir.7407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    17:38 the first thing that came to mind was that john mulaney joke, "youre not taking me to no secondary location!!"

    • @olivia_rcr
      @olivia_rcr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Casi R. I live for John Mulaney references

  • @awesomeface265
    @awesomeface265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    He seems like one of those people who will see a video of a boy watching Frozen and start freaking out because he might catch ‘the gay’.

  • @lithium2000
    @lithium2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Life is an emotional highway and I want to ride it all night long

  • @miamafalda1118
    @miamafalda1118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    Guy: Have you ever thought "what is it that men find attractive?"
    Me: No. I'm a lesbian, Chad.

    • @sadpotato3386
      @sadpotato3386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Alright... What is it that women find attractive?
      - another lesbian.

    • @andrewb.8184
      @andrewb.8184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      One of the gay men here, I uh...don't think he's talking about what I find attractive

    • @teetheatersanonymous
      @teetheatersanonymous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mia Mafalda I WAS LITERALLY ABOUT TO COMMENT THAT OMG

    • @fkhan2006
      @fkhan2006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andrewb.8184 but you're a man!!

    • @miamafalda1118
      @miamafalda1118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@teetheatersanonymous SFAFDSFHGGHSJ

  • @clownfromclowntown
    @clownfromclowntown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This dude seems like the sort of guy who would say “lesbians aren’t real, they just haven’t found the right guy yet”

  • @angelbait5
    @angelbait5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    all i’ve done during quarantine is watch casey, and i’m honestly 100% okay with that

    • @ronaldmcdonald1364
      @ronaldmcdonald1364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      just wanna say...your pfp is snazzy

    • @angelbait5
      @angelbait5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      McDonald’s gotta rep that mcdonald’s😫

    • @wonderland.5
      @wonderland.5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@choicethetaurus OMG nice song your voice is so cute

    • @apparentdistance9752
      @apparentdistance9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mood

  • @julioagua
    @julioagua 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Casey has been warning us about epidemics since forever, but no one payed attention T_T

  • @johannabanks4608
    @johannabanks4608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    literally I love Casey, like all I’ve done is watch her (and take care of my two kids but that’s unimportant)

  • @mysticumlavandula9676
    @mysticumlavandula9676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    this man’s content is convincing me to start dating more feminine people.

    • @rain5456
      @rain5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      he's one of the many reasons I'm glad I'm a lesbian

    • @kingdionysus1867
      @kingdionysus1867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Happy that I'm a lesbian lmao

  • @phoenixtracy9875
    @phoenixtracy9875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    That whole video about “emasculating” the guy is a perfect example of toxic masculinity lmao

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abby Tracy emasculating is something very real

    • @dalma2649
      @dalma2649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Michael Merritt doesn’t mean it’s not part of toxic masculinity

    • @vlo4829
      @vlo4829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @dwun: If a woman is knowingly trying make her man feel emasculated then I'd say that's toxic femininity. Trying to tear someone down psychologically is just evil.
      The guy's example in the video of a woman offering advice to cut an onion better was just stupid.

    • @dalma2649
      @dalma2649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@vlo4829 toxic femininity lmao. Yall just say anything

    • @vlo4829
      @vlo4829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @dwun: Why wouldn't "toxic femininity" exist? That's basically what Mean Girls is about...

  • @susanita5211
    @susanita5211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    hey, guys, do you remember when baby Yoda was cute and we were not in a global pandemic?
    those were good times

  • @joefernandez8008
    @joefernandez8008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Drama Mama had a son and his name was Mr. Struggle.

    • @Queenofthemonsters14
      @Queenofthemonsters14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And then she left him because he was never going to become a whole man

    • @mdstevens0612
      @mdstevens0612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She should have fed him a pork bun. You're not a whole man without a pork bun in your hands.

    • @Queenofthemonsters14
      @Queenofthemonsters14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Tesseract A LITERAL U-TURN OMG

  • @thunderpunks
    @thunderpunks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    I feel like ur at ur most powerful when ur dragging men's dating culture

    • @shanicek5188
      @shanicek5188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      hisGrLfriday her final evolution?

    • @juju_8898
      @juju_8898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ultimate Casey

    • @CGZ26
      @CGZ26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh wow, Casey's evolving

  • @yunabean
    @yunabean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    A lot of what he says just screams “how to be the manic pixie dream girl for insecure men who want to feel big and strong, me alpha blah blah blah. I don’t think this dude realizes that those perfect, free spirited, youthful girls in those movies don’t actually exist in real life and they’re only there to make the male protagonists of those stories feel better about themselves. 🙃🙃🙃

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Did Amy from Gone Girl teach them nothing

    • @jonnybuijze1770
      @jonnybuijze1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They do exist maybe, they just don't want you. They're strong and enthusiastic for themselves, not some wimpy man.

    • @angelambrosia6397
      @angelambrosia6397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This reminded me of Leslie from bridge to terabithia

  • @lucas-eg5vh
    @lucas-eg5vh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    “drama mama drama mama~”
    me: dRAMAMARAMAMARAMAMA HEY

  • @katiesavage6555
    @katiesavage6555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Ah yes, the problem is emasculating your man not the fact that your man gets pissy because you helped him and not realizing masculinity isn’t tied to your weird need for superiority, my bad

  • @cambuck2231
    @cambuck2231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This guy is the epitome of "why don't women like me" without realizing that he's a borderline creep.

  • @marinkelepolo5530
    @marinkelepolo5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    "the reason he's ghosting you is because he's not into you" this applies to anyone but also wouldn't it be more polite just to tell them you don't think it's gonna work out?

  • @rafaelalmada723
    @rafaelalmada723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Biting" - I don't know why but when you followed that with bite his head off, that gave me chills. I'm not sure I'm gonna sleep peacefully tonight, as the eldritch head-biter approaches.

  • @louisemiller7584
    @louisemiller7584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    6:49 but why do I feel like this dude does not understand that no means no

    • @conansglasses2645
      @conansglasses2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      He's probably the type of guy to say " she's just playing hard to get " or even " its okay I like a challenge "

  • @24beccat
    @24beccat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would like to note as an anthropology student who often reads anthropological papers, never have I come across an article titled "The evolution of attraction: The Way You Walk Down The Street"

  • @mirellavuorinen7439
    @mirellavuorinen7439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    *how dare you emasculate this poor man by calling out his weird ass dating advice?? not attractive at all!!*

  • @KayLeah3
    @KayLeah3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    The more that men try to explain how to make them feel masculine, the more they show us how fragile masculinity is 😂

    • @sottosopravoce
      @sottosopravoce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Bingo.

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s partially true

    • @stephfm10
      @stephfm10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ooh I wanna like this multiple times. It's 100% true 😊

    • @missyguerriere316
      @missyguerriere316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      If women aren't afraid of strong men then men shouldn't be afraid of strong women

    • @clear5136
      @clear5136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Strong as in physical? Capable? Or mentally?

  • @dylanchouinard6141
    @dylanchouinard6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    I haven’t even gotten halfway through this but I gotta ask: are the straights ok?

    • @ButterflyScarlet
      @ButterflyScarlet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      The second he started talking about "the emotional centre of a woman's brain is 8x larger" I was like oh so this is bullshit? This is just straight up nonsense? Mkay

    • @lala-tm4gh
      @lala-tm4gh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      they are not

    • @andraznovak6735
      @andraznovak6735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      we are not okay. thanks for asking. send help pls

    • @MasoTrumoi
      @MasoTrumoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@andraznovak6735 okay here is help: people be different, yo, don't assume anybody from any group is always the same. Boom, we done, have a wonderful day.

    • @andraznovak6735
      @andraznovak6735 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@MasoTrumoi what are you talking about hahaha

  • @cjminor9636
    @cjminor9636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    casey in a beanie was something i didn't know i needed until now

  • @milkchocolateminaj
    @milkchocolateminaj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    casey if this makes you proud my mom might getting me a ratatlouis stuffed animal for my birthday

  • @jadesmith417
    @jadesmith417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ugh, the way he uses the word emasculating... Why not be with someone who can't take constructive criticism? As long as the woman is being constructive (showing a better way and letting you try and learn) and not destructive (declaring you can never do it as well, insulting you, or never letting you learn) there shouldn't be a problem. Got roasted all over some onions, smh.

  • @isitleeyourelookingfor6352
    @isitleeyourelookingfor6352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    "He will measure-"
    Me: 👀?
    "-the s-"
    Me: 👀👀???
    "-uccess of his day-"
    Me: oh

  • @harnessmadeofhopes
    @harnessmadeofhopes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This dude is basically telling men to be Edward Cullen...*Wheeze*

    • @izabella4823
      @izabella4823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel disrespected. Edward was much better than this. I had such a big crush on him when I was younger.

    • @conansglasses2645
      @conansglasses2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@izabella4823 was he tho ? He literally liked to watch bella ( when he still hasn't even properly introduced himself to her ) while she sleeps

    • @marinkelepolo5530
      @marinkelepolo5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@izabella4823 I feel like you should rewatch twilight 😂

    • @aaren1103
      @aaren1103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel like book Edward wasn’t that bad but movie Edward was trying to murder everyone with his eyes.

    • @syntheticat-3
      @syntheticat-3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't slander my boy Edward like this

  • @61Hokies34
    @61Hokies34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I don’t know why the thought of all men sharing the same brain cells is so funny to me
    edit: I’m a guy btw

  • @EmmaJenna30
    @EmmaJenna30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    CASEY U TRIGGERED MY FIGHT OR FLIGHT WITH THAT JOPPING INTRO FJDJDBJFKF

    • @lilsuperstarrteddi
      @lilsuperstarrteddi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      mcfly :0 bruh I heard that tooo

    • @aralynjade
      @aralynjade 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just be Kai and date Mark

    • @orbitor0973
      @orbitor0973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      whoa when was it?

    • @isabellevoldy
      @isabellevoldy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Claudia Lin at 4:29

    • @shanicek5188
      @shanicek5188 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought I heard that and I screamed

  • @oi3702
    @oi3702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “have you ever wondered what men find attractive in a woman?”
    me: no I’m *a lesbian*

  • @imverypun-ny5211
    @imverypun-ny5211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Him: *Realizes that he isn't into that girl he went on a date with* :/
    *He disappears from the face of the planet*

  • @julia-db7pk
    @julia-db7pk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    9:53 UR REACTION I CANTTTTT I WAS CRYING GFJHGAJH love this video so much

  • @meowmie4840
    @meowmie4840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm a simple woman, I see a new upload, I click

  • @madhatt3r93
    @madhatt3r93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The thing about "providing" is hilarious, imagine youre on a walk with your man in a forest and he just sees a bundle of sticks and he starts pulling you there mumbling "uggggh sticks... gotta... bring to the lair... to provide warmth... for... offsprings..." and you just have to yank him away like a dog trying to eat some roadkill

  • @imhungry9110
    @imhungry9110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    6:11 After seeing this I'll be washing my eyes religiously, maybe even more frequently than my hands

  • @a.n222
    @a.n222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Binge watching your videos on quarantine and it's the only thing that's keeping me sane lmao

  • @SelenaHernandez
    @SelenaHernandez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That 8:26 EW was peeeerrrrrrfectttttt 🤣🤣🤣

  • @gk1368
    @gk1368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Didn’t expect to hear SuperM - Jopping at 4:29 in this video

    • @jungkookjuice3157
      @jungkookjuice3157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG! CASEY DO YOU LISTEN TO KPOP!??!! ARE YOU A KPOP FAN!?! IM SO HAPPYYY

    • @user-gs4in9ls6r
      @user-gs4in9ls6r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i literally had to pause and check the comments

    • @yas8073
      @yas8073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      There's also Fancy at 13:15

    • @Dolphinhi2
      @Dolphinhi2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      CUZ WHEN WE'RE JUMPING AND POPPING WE'RE JOPPING

  • @ashaaa.m
    @ashaaa.m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    casey’s reactions to the sexual ones are so funny omg

  • @clopey6685
    @clopey6685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay, I can’t be the only one who heard SuperM’s Jopping at 4:30. Great video by the way!

  • @japanesedinner0
    @japanesedinner0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    casey, im losing my mind. quarantine is breaking me.

    • @jeyyran
      @jeyyran 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      pros of quarantine: you can't run into instagram dating coaches

  • @ar1ose
    @ar1ose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    fun fact: from birth there's actually not a (or not a groundbreaking one at least ) difference between a male babies' brain and a female babies' brain
    i could be wrong but im pretty sure this has been researched multiple times

  • @honeydewflower
    @honeydewflower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    was that jopping playing during the 'types of men' segment? ive heard mark lee's verse too many times to not recognise it immediately

    • @anushka15498
      @anushka15498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought that too!!!!!!

    • @anissabrina2129
      @anissabrina2129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      okay so its not just me that heard it fiuh

    • @myragingwhormoans
      @myragingwhormoans 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you think you're a big boy throwing three stacks?

    • @lydu.
      @lydu. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes and jihyo’s high note in fancy was later in the video too!!

  • @amyg8176
    @amyg8176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Dating advice channels: ladies, hide your true personality so you can settle for mediocre men!

    • @randomname2475
      @randomname2475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMFAO LITERALLY💀💀💀

  • @JackedThor-so
    @JackedThor-so 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Ok, I'm a gay boy, so I'm out of the loop... how exactly do straight men think? I am befuddled at the thought process behind everything that was mentioned in all the clips reacted to.

    • @miamafalda1118
      @miamafalda1118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'm a lesbian and also confused lol.

    • @Ash_W04
      @Ash_W04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I was sitting here this whole time thinking "I wonder what would happen if met a gay man/woman" because all his points were very hetero (talking about different brains, "roles", etc) 😂😂

    • @miamafalda1118
      @miamafalda1118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Ash_W04 His brain would not comprehend

    • @MasoTrumoi
      @MasoTrumoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Hi guys, "former straight" bi guy here, lemme break it down for you.
      Straight men don't think. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.
      No but forreal, what it is that a lot of straight people are so tunnel vision and obsessive about relationships they forget that anything beyond their own dating situation exists. This is why you almost never hear any non-straights give "biological dating advice".
      The same reason that a lot of straights think that we are "not normal" they think there's a systemic normalcy to how attraction works for everyone (and by everyone, they mean straights cuz we don't exist).
      Okay, NOW thank you for coming to my TED talk. I have no evidence of this, it's just based on my experience.

    • @MasoTrumoi
      @MasoTrumoi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Also, this particular guy is a toxic little baby man who wants to always feel like a strong manly king man who never is wrong or stupid. (Probably because he's usually wrong or stupid)

  • @newvoid5827
    @newvoid5827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do not understand how there is so much out there on "attraction" when it's such a subjective thing.

  • @anamhussain224
    @anamhussain224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If Casey just used the sound for Jopping at 4:30 my respect for her just skyrocketed

  • @Amelia-yq2cx
    @Amelia-yq2cx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    6:16 umm sorry bud but I don’t know any woman that walks like she’s in Backstreet Boys or NSYNC...

    • @marinkelepolo5530
      @marinkelepolo5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That part made me scared lol he seems really creepy. Like he just thinks women exist to serve men

  • @LexiePersonForever
    @LexiePersonForever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    but can you imagine someone watching you struggle while you're doing something wrong because they're trying to protect your pride when they could have helped you have a better or faster way the entire time? is that not annoying? if i was with someone and they were like "hey you should cut veggies like this it's quicker and safer" i'd be like "oh sweet thanks" not develop some weird grudge

  • @rayemanta
    @rayemanta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Coddling men’s egos by not letting them know there’s better ways to do things is why we have mansplaining

  • @fatmaabdullah9706
    @fatmaabdullah9706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    13:16 is that Jihyo fancy high note I’m hearing ??

  • @debaratiroy1583
    @debaratiroy1583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “who’s his audience? wolverine” SENT ME I-

  • @thegirlyouhaventmetx7717
    @thegirlyouhaventmetx7717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    She should’ve played a snippet of Dramarama by Monsta X 😂

    • @mgds85
      @mgds85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      At 4:28 we got some SuperM at least 😆

    • @gingeralefox
      @gingeralefox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And we got twice

  • @silverhawking
    @silverhawking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This guy is the literal poster child for toxic masculinity.

  • @eliascollier4774
    @eliascollier4774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THE SCREAM AT 9:56 HAS HAD ME CRYING FOR ALMOST AN HOUR NOW

  • @aniksiozna
    @aniksiozna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the dude at 3:23 : drama mama
    casey: drama mama? that sounds fun! *proceeds to say drama mama repeatedly*
    the kpop stan in me: d r a m a r a m a ?
    👁👄👁
    also was that jopping at 4:28 -

  • @kianas9288
    @kianas9288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “your ex is feeding off your energy” why the hell is he referring to peoples exes as dementors

  • @AnneSofie557
    @AnneSofie557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    omg we're jopping y'all

  • @imienazwisko3204
    @imienazwisko3204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    6:16 I like how there are no words needed at this moment 😂 just that stare

  • @caitlin952
    @caitlin952 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Casey this is hands-down one of your best videos ever. The editing, the commentary *chefs kiss*

  • @jessicat3691
    @jessicat3691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He’s just mad his gf showed him how to cut onions

  • @burnttoasts
    @burnttoasts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I find your voice so calming

  • @monoahlly
    @monoahlly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    man this quarantine really has me out of it. i didn’t even process that jopping was playing

  • @andinun2341
    @andinun2341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay but when you said steal lines from fanfics I went red because I’ve done this before! What surprises me more is the dude I was talking to was actually into it.

  • @kaitlyn7961
    @kaitlyn7961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    him: mr chivalry, mr romance, mr wine and dine
    me: im getting some girl defined vibes here....