❤ {Divorce: My 4 Tips to help you get through it} ❤ #12 The World Through My Eyes
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- Divorce is a tragic end to a beautiful relationship. It tears a family apart and it is just a very sad thing to happen to a family.
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In Life we must accept WHAT IS, let go of WHAT WAS, and prepare for WHAT IS GOING TO BE !
Exactly i couldnt agree more, thank you for sharing that.
Love this! Can I share this quote?
kebayachic I love that quote too by Marlon Hosten i am not sure who the author is but i guess we will have to ask Marlon if it was okay to re-post.
But before we accept we have to realise which is such a hard step too, and we still feel emotions to lose something that matter hardly for us..
It is hard to say goodbye to something you thought would last for long..
With time, patience and self love and surrounding it will be fine and being positive will get easier insha'Allah.
And then...... The nightmare becomes a woke up.
I’m going thru a divorce right now. Alhumdulillah I found your channel ♥️
Me too... it hurts so much.. i pray that Allah makes it easy for os
Mee too
@@saffiahmisiko6358 are you ok now? is everything alright? May allah guide you
Hasan Tariq I’m trying to cope with it,I got married on 29th July 2020 then got divorced a month later and I was given three divorce at once,my marriage lacked communication,it was soo painful my dear I wanted to take my life, I wanted the marriage to work so bad to an option I even upto for a consoling just to keep the marriage but it didn’t,that pain I couldn’t take it,but each day Allah made it easier for me I’m in the processes of healing.in shaa one day Allah will bless me with another wonderful person
its been 5 years of my divorce.. I 've two kids. i've been gone through the same pain..same feelings. Allah helped me ..I tried to get closure to Allah during that period
Alhamdulilah glad to hear that you were able to get closure, may Allah continue to give you strength
Hi how are you
family members can make things worse.
I know some people who have families that are terrible people and love to laugh at others misfortune
Most women use western law against men to bully them
@@mohammedulhaq4073 can you explain this further?
@@mohammedulhaq4073 i guess in same way how men in some Muslim countries with pariarchal societies, (mis)interpret and (mis) use islamic laws and rules against Muslim women.
I can't stop admiring you lady ... You are a strong soul ... I salute you❤
Habibti Mais Al Aufi thank you xx
Hank Mark shut up
Going through a divorce right now and your videos helps me a lot.
Same here the most difficult thing I’ve gone through
Assalamualaikum to all... im going through divorce and its a very crucial path. I feel bad coz im too young as the society took it from a bad view as children are involved . I want new chapter but cant turn over. Too painful. I tried to make it work . Divorce was last option. Please make duaa for my daughters . I want to move on...
+auto car ebs walikoom asalam
Divorce is hard on all involved (spouses, kids and extended family members) I pray that Allah gives you the strength to overcome this.
I wish the best from Allah SWT. Do not feel worried.
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M.Syedur Rahman Asalamalykum Akhi do you think it's appropriate casually dropping your number to a sister who's clearly going through a bad time
May Allah help you and your family get through this difficult time, Ameen.
@@mohamedyusuf7571 i also wonder the same
You always come across as so elegant and sincere its a good example for us muslim ladies
+sophie rianna alhamdulilah i am glad that I come across that way :)
im really moved with what you have shared and its really inspiring to everyone who's going thru a tough times during the process of their divorce. your tips helped a lot in moving thru another chapter of life. your so amazing. God speed you with love and care with your life.
Salam sister I have never commented on a video before. I want to tell u that your video touched me you can tell that you spoke from the heart and divorce was truly your last option. I am going through a very terrible time with my husband and feel like I cannot take anymore I am seriously contemplating on asking him for a divorce. My head tells me to leave but my heart doesn't want to believe that I've failed? I have turned to Allah swt for guidance I only hope I make the right decision for me.
Walikoom asalam sister, sorry to hear that you are contemplating divorce. Just as i said in my video if there is any hope that you can save your marriage. Try everything you can to save your marriage keep divorce as your last hope. Keep praying and may Allah help you overcome this
Divorc dos NOT defined US it's just an obstacle a gap in our life journey it's not our fault because I'm sure most of us woman in Arab society do there best to make there marriage work but it was not meant to be its in our destiny Allah's will and we have to accept it and move on no divorced woman should be ashamed of herself I like you video I know I'm late but it's very inspiring encouraging I'm glad to be a faithful subscriber
+Kanami Sama You know what they say better late than never (just like my reply to you)
I totally agree we shouldnt be ashamed of our status but sadly some are and I hope that by voicing my views on this matter will give other women the strength to own up to it too.
Asalamalykum warahamtullahi wabarakatu my dear sisters wallahi reading these comments and watching this video I'm in pain and I feel so sorry for all of you going through this may Allah grant you all ease and there are good men out there who will treasure you and love you no matter what.
Be the change that you would like to see in the world. Other men will stop their misbehavior is you point out their wrongdoings to them. Muhammed SAW never behaved like this, neither should these so-called Muslims.
Ameen! I’m considering leaving my husband. I’m tired of being emotionally abused. I’m tired of him always criticizing my complexion and calling me ugly whenever an argument rises. Apparently only light skin women are attractive to him funny how this is now coming up now that we’re married... he’s Snapchat and FB is full of chicks that look like video girls. It’s so hard to trust men. I just pray Allah gives me the strength to make the right decision because this life is too short to continue to keep living in this misery
Never get family involve it only makes things worse handle ur problems urself that's how I deal with stuff if divorce comes it's not our fault we weren't meant to be together
I do not know how I landed on this video but I am glad I did.
You beautiful soul!
Shamsiya Noorul Quloob Allahuma Ameen, no idea how or why but so glad you did ❤
10 days in to a divorce and internally i am an emotional wreck. Just waiting for my iddah to get over so i could get busy with life. Work, go to the gym and divert my mind. I turn to Allah to make this easy on my soul as the pain is too much. Its just so DIFFICULT. And i pray to Allah that everyone who is going through this just has it made easy to move on. May Allah protect us. Ameen. Sister may Allah bless you. Thank you for your advice.❤️
You are a beautiful sister and the knowledge imparted in your videos is a blessing! Divorce is a difficult decision but sometimes it is the best option available. I wish you well...
+RC S thank you for your support :)
You go girl :) , so proud of you! Im a new subscriber and already I'm in love with your youtube video!! , Society are mostly the main root of problems stretching ❤️ iloveyou keep it up.
+Banno Smile Aww thank you for subscribing and i totally agree society are part of the problems, appreciate your support much love from Oman x
+TheSewist Dear sister do you have aby tips on how to try to choose the right guy for marriage? I have seen some family memebers who have difficulties in their relationship and this realy puts me off of getting married. Any advice please? Thank you, youre very inspiring. Keep going on. Much love. 💗💗
Zahra Moradi Istikharah sister.
Only Istikharrah as guidance will come from Allah.
Unfortunately I just a few days discover your Chanel , i really appreciate what did you post .....keep going 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
We are all worthy of love!
The world needs more love!!
Indeed we are and yes we do
This is so hard!! I have no support system... This is so hard...
Bianca Muhammad Sister, find strength in outside groups. Join some groups such as gardening or bushwalking groups. Whatever interest you.
May Allah give you the best support system. Ameen
Hi Bianca I hope you are in a better place today insha Allah and have moved on, hopefully looking back and stronger 🌈
@@shembeliever6095 amen
Good to watch your videos,we are going through the same episode, I felt strong after watching your videos.your daughter is very cute,I would like to see her more often.God bless you happiness in your new wedding life.amen
Mashallah wonderful video. Very few people talk about divorce. You gave very good advice so helpful. I went through this 5years ago and your story sound similar to mine. Seeking the guidance of Allah was very crucial in not giving up and helping my children cope. Jazakallah for sharing
you are so brave!
G+ Link: plus.google.com/u/2/106795871795554242731 Kudos for the video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (should be on google have a look)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning how to stop divorce minus the normal expense. Ive heard some great things about it and my best friend Jordan got cool results with it.
You have widened my horizons, thank you. I fully support you and may Allah bless you
Alhamdulilah thank you Shamsa may Allah bless us all ya rab xx
Assalamu alaikum.
Thank you for your videos.
It quite strengthens me.
I currently live with my parent again, and get separated from my husband.
I'm also considering divorce from my husband, although we haven't filed anything for the court yet.
May Allah bless us, aamiin.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
T Mahaj mine as well. This is painful
Divorce is allowed for a reason.... to have a peace of mind, if you think on pleasing society, remind yourself they don't put food on your plate. Focus on yourself.
Asalamu alaykom. Thank you fpr making this video. I couldn't find the right advice or words for my dear friend so I sent her this video. I hope this is beneficial to her and that you get the Reward. Ameen.
Walikoom asalan, your most welcome its the least I can do with hopes that it benefits those who need it the most. I pray that all goes with your friend.
Thanks for sharing. In the spirit of helping, past tense for seek is sought. Jazakallah l’kheir.
i really needed this!!! thank u soo much!
shums77 Alhamdulilah, glad it helped you x
وعسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم
Jzakallah Khair sister I can feel where u coming from May Allah make it easy on all divorcees
You are amazing mayAllah keep you happy always.I have been divorce today nd I will follow your advice
Terribly sorry to hear this Lubna, I hope my advice will help and may Allah make this easier for you x
JazakaAllah.. very useful.. May Allah bless you with the very best
Ameen ya rab, may Allah bless us all
Thank u my dear for this video.. ❤️❤️❤️
I admire your courage and it's inspiring
Thank you Silmi
I am grateful for this.. one of the hardest thing anyone can go through. your strong woman.
+Amina :) sometimes being strong is the only option we have xx
+TheSewist Assalaamualikum Warahmatullah ukthi. I just came across your videos and am loving them. You are beautiful ukthi inside and out! You remind me of my African American friends, revert sisters I knew back in New York. I currently live in Dhaka and have posted some of your beautiful reminders. Your post on how you started wearing your Hijab was heartwarming. BarakAllahu Feeki
+Amatullah T Walikoom asalam my dear, thank you so much for your kind words. Jazaki Allah khir for sharing my videos. I look forward to meeting you one day in sha Allah too, stay blessed x
Assalamualaikum sister!Thank you for sharing your experience with us! You indeed have strength and a beautiful soul! May Allah (swt) bless you with happiness in the donya and grant you Jannatul Firdaus inshallah!
I feel you sis
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may Allah bless us and help is facing the bad eye of people
Allahuma Ameen thank you much love
You don't look old enough to be married never mind divorced. Exercise is a great way of coping with difficult times in our lives.
Thank you... i am just going trough it and i really appreciate ur words... may allah bless you. Salam alaikum
Thank you so much for your video!
Your most welcome, stay blessed
Am so much inspired and looking forward to get more tips from what you share. In shallah Allah will bless you with a more loving husband.
you are a very woman.keep being strong.i hope you have found your happiness.
+unlucky girl jazaki Allah khir, thank you for your words of encouragement
You are so beautiful. Alhumdullilah sister you are helping others, like me.
Aww thank you Rose, you have a beautiful soul thank you for your words
I want to divorce my husband.We are together 15 years. From longtime I am depressed. Our society does not allow divorce family.My mental health always suffer from depression
Moreover, I have no home to live.I have job but no home
As-Salaam Alakum, I'm glad you liked the quote, please feel free to post it. It is a quote that I came up with through my own life experiences. When you emerge from a divorce you are shredding a part of your past and accepting a new reality while preparing for an uncertain future that you never anticipated. In the muslim community divorced women sometimes struggle to remarry because men tend to label them as divorced, non-virgin,
having kids as well as emotional baggage form a previous relationship. There is Hikmah ( wisdom ) in everything whether we see it or not. Our lives are NOT IN THE HANDS AND PERCEPTIONS OF OTHERS who have failed to comprehend the reasons for our divorce. I hope that God will bless you to find a spouse who will provide you with the emotional support, love and care for your two daughters, help you to advance in your sewing career and provide you with the LOVE and SECURITY that you deserve. Ma' Salaam
Yes, well put. I also divorced at a young age (no children from previous marriage), I did re-marry later on and Alhamdolillah I was happy to be able to have a new start. My ex was cruel in many ways and there was no option except to leave as he was unwilling to change. I left 12 years ago but it did affect me for many years, specially when going through the process of trying to find a new spouse. Allahu Alim--He chooses different tests for different people. I think Sr Maya's message of seeking help from the Almighty makes it clear she passed that test.
I m going through this pathetic phase right now. There is total blackout u feel no idea what to do now just a feeling of pain which I cannot remove ..pray for me sister
This video has helped me a lot
Thank you sister.
You are not alone!
Allah works in amazing ways!! New chapter! New life!!
.......New Mind!!!!!!
Thank you sweetie, yes he does subhan Allah excited for what Allah has in store for me :)
masha Allah my dear this is my first video of yours;;;; u r very brave
👌 Well said. I totally agree the society has label for everything. Love this video. x
Yes indeed they do, we just have to focus on pleasing Allah and not people. May Allah guide us all to the right path, ameen
Ameen. ♡♡♡
Its,very inspiring coz im also just a divorce and im also now be a single mom
Astuti Wiji sorry to hear that your marriage has ended, I pray that Allah gives you strength you need to get through this.
+TheSewist thank you so much sist,.
Astuti Wiji make the most of being free. Re discover yourself through enjoying activities that interest you.
It is hard. But that's how I'm getting through it. I am divorced after 20 years of narcissistic abuse.
Couldn't be happier.
I am going through same thing and I am dreading the title of "single mother".
I could not agree more. If compass of Allah , has not helped, and efforts and communication also has not helped a marriage. There is no point beating the bush. The more time pass and it hurts more people, , including children. Divorce is a sad reality but there are times in life when you need to accept it and move forward .May God bless you for sharing your thoughts, you are a strong woman MashAllah
Thank you sister for this video. Its great advice i appreciate you. May Allah bless you. :)
Thank you for sharing sister
I've just recently got divorced and it's the worst pain in my life. I've never experienced pain on this level before. It's unbearable.
Sorry my dear sister you will get aGood husband inshallahu
Jazakillah sister...I have hone through a divorce too jst recently and I can relate to your video ...jazakillah for making this video. ...needed advice ....so ur video is of a great help ....may Allah bless you vit jannah. ..
Ayasha Shaikh it breaks my heart to know of your divorce. I pray that Allah gives you the strength to go through this, I am glad you found some comfort in my video, stay blessed ❤
As Salaam. +8801713017971
MashAllah thank You Sister for Advices. May Allah reward you.
Ameen ya rab, may Allah reward us all thank you!
I hope u will find the man that u will find happiness with
Alla Kareem
Amen ya rabb
Barak'Allahu feek sister 💖
Mashallah you are so strong, that's what I want to be.
I believe we are all strong but we just don't know it.
I am divorced and was emotionally Disturbed. Your videos helped. Salute from india. Thanks.
Mohammed shaji
Salam brother, sorry to hear about your situation I pray that Allah gives you the strength to overcome this
TheSewist Wasalam. I am now into book publishing. I am interested to know about your culture and people. Thx.
TheSewist What is the situation in your place regarding divorce? Is it according to quran ?
Hi dear,i want to go for divorce i hv spent almost 4 years without staying with my Ex,so wat does the islamic law say about that.I heard that wen u spend 3 months without staying with him,that ur considered as divorced.is it true
Whats happened with you in ur last marriage im curious?? Im sorry uv been through this it sounds terrible tho
who is this man that divorced a special lady like you
Thanks for sharing..
My family and parents are constantly fighting and yelling I’m scared they might break up please pray for me ameen
Absolutely agree with you sister
Sister I know this is a late comment but how can we deal with loneliness after divorce?
Mademoiselle I know this is a late reply but if anyone opens this I will tell you the best thing is to simply put everything aside and put your 100% trust in allah and remember everything happens for a reason. You need to put yourself first and use your lessons you learned to better yourself and take your time when picking a spouse allah has written everything for you! May allah give us all strength inshallah 🙌🏻
May Allaah SwT help all such suffered daughters of Muslim Ummah !
mashallah your advise is amazing.
Thank you, I just hope that i was able to help someone who needed to hear this.
I kept going over everything in my head, and still struggle with feeling guilty and/or responsible replaying it over and over. Im over it and at the same time struggle with the concept religiously - how much of it will I answer for ? How much of it am I punished for? Its so hard
You seem to be going through rough patch, sadly i can only pray that everything works out for you.
Please try to forget the past and move on. it's tough and I can relate. keep moving forward girl. lots of love! love yourself
you are a great example....thanks we should keep in touch are you living in UK? i have two daughters myself and your daughter i saw in another vid very cute mashAllah x
+Rabia Ky Jazaki Alla khir sister, I live in Oman, how old are you daughters?
Yes I am blessed alhamdulilah to have two daughters, they are simply a joy to have
Did you have any children if you did how did you manage with that any advice ?
masha Allah, you are a brave woman.
You are so beautiful may Allah bless you inside and out Ameen
I m proud of you
Experiencing this difficult times of my life.. Alhamdulillah
Love your make-up. Masha Allah sister
هل لديك.نماذج ترجمة نصية. يا اختنا ممكن ترسلي E_A. و A_ E
Is there are channel like this by a man for men discussing dealing with life after divorce? Im divorced and going through loneliness for years. Would be nice to have a Muslim divorced guy channel for lowering gaze etc
im sorry to hear that :) but its not the end of this world .. Allah ewafgech inshallah
Thank you Alia S S Al-Essa indeed it isnt which was the message in the video. Thank
I agree with ever thinking you said.
I can relate your issues on my platform.
Darling you certainly have made a difference
What brother in his right mind would divorce a beautiful sister like her subhanallah SMH🤦🏽♂️
May Allah guide us all. amen
Allahuma Ameen
Assalam alaikum sister. I'm pregnant and my husband doesn't love me anymore and we going to get divorced. Any advice towards pregnant women?
is that the reason your so happy
subhanallah...so brave...
Please pray for me.. im going thru hard times, my husband just divorced me.. it is completely hurtful as he accused me of cheating behind his back. Allah knows the truth, not even a single time I even thought about it. Ya Allah, save me from this deeply sadness.. amiin
Salaam. This is the first video I watched on your channel. May Allaah reward you.
Thank you Mohammed may Allah reward us all
This is Hafsaa from Makkah
U r so lovely so great
And i love u in sake of allah
Salam Hafasaa habibiti
Thank you so much and I love you for the sake of Allah too
How old are you ? looking so young ?
It’s true people think your going to influence or encourage others to divorce too
عسى الله يعوضك بالخير
AL- EZZ اللهم آمين جزاك الله خير
a wife want divorce from her husband because they things not match together and that's the reason to want divorce and I have a baby boy and not to give my husband please give Suggestions abd Please Reply ?
This is new cultural phenomena to stigmatize divorce. it is not easy, but it is a solution for some. the Messenger of Allah, pbuh, married divorced women except Aisha, blessings be upon her.
He SAW has about four wives who used to be single: Aisha RDA, Jawarriyah RDA, Hafsa RDA and Saffiya RDA.
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Juwayriya RA, Hafsa Ra and Saffiya RA were all widows.
what if your pregnant? how do you get over divorce
Rabia Ky you have to think of the little heart beating in your stomach.. that you have to fight for that little sweetheart that's in your stomach that depends on you after Allah ❤
Rabia Ky I am also pregnant and going through a divorce. I am so very extremely upset
Marii Xuseen I'm very sorry to hear that.. right now it will feel hard but iA when baby is here all your attention will go to him/her Ameen.. iA Allah makes it easy for u and any1 in the same situation Ameen ♡
Maryiam Muslim Ameen. I believe in that. I'm having a baby girl, so maybe it won't be so hard on her without having a father. Maybe she will have another father who will love her even more than the biological one, some day. Allah knows best and he never takes something from a believer without replacing it with something better. Thank you for your sweet words dear sister.
Marii Xuseen masha'Allah a baby girl.. I have a baby girl too ♡ insha'Allah she will be your support to get through this.. and yes insha'Allah Allah gives you something even better which is good for you both Ameen ♡ it just shows how the person is who leaves his pregnant wife and you are worth much more and deserve much better.. insha'Allah you have supportive family and friends ♡ if you ever need I'm here to talk