I am in a abusive relationship with my husband,he is not on his deen, he gets mad over small things and curses me in bad words,I prayed to Allah to show me a way what to do just yesterday. Today this video came out and it is the exact situation I'm going through. Ya Allah you are the best. Is there anyone who else have any advices for me. I've been dealing this for more than two years
@@FreeQuranEducation I have reached out to my family members we sit and talked my uncle told him to do things which will could've bring some peace but he refuses to do it and still abuses me till now even after the family decision
@@Fatimah-oy7wt don't sit back and let him abuse you because his not the only guy in the world there's a lot of guys out there who would love to marry you and appreciate you so don't wait for him to stop abusing you because you don't know when his going to stop his not wroth it
@@Fatimah-oy7wt Assalamu alaikum Try your best i know you did it for sure but keep do it and talk to him try to expand beautiful time with your husband and thereafter if you can be patience then do if he changes then Ok. But if he don't then you can get rid of it by divorce but you know divorce is not good thing but in worse situation divorce is good. May Allah bless you.. May Allah show you right path and Inshallah i will definitely pray for you Fatimah.
Salam, this video just gave me a bit of hope. Just recently my wife of 13years told me she wants a divorce. Our marriage was bad over the past 2 years and she has giving me the silence treatment since then. It all started when she stopped praying salat and telling me I'm to strict in my Deen. When I asked her and my children to come and pray with me she says I want to have "control" over her, astarfilullah... Ever since she said she wants to divorce I m loosing my mind, worrying about the future, kids, house, financial etc... I know Allah will not abandon me or anyone in hardship and I hope for the best Inshallah 🤲
Brother may Allah make it easy on you and your children save it if you can, save for the sake of your children, say sorry if you have to even you have not done anything wrong, feed her from your own hand, bcoz once the divorce happens its a win for shaitan and men loose everything everything 🙏🏻
This is my life right now. I'm in so much pain after my husband asked for a divorce. This video has given me hope. Please anyone reading this, please make duaa for me😭
I prayed to Allah and i saw this.. Alhamdulillah MashaAllah what a beautiful reminder! I am struggling now, my husband divorced me bcoz he met a new girl in Taiwan, we have 2 kids. Still hurting but i thank Allah for giving me such wonderful 2 kids! Everyday is a new beginning for the 3 of us! I know someday, someone will love me and my children for the sake of Allah swt ❤️
I love Mufti your such a great man. Im going through a tough divoce. Divoce is done but im finding it hard to more on. Specially when my other half has moved on it hurts and still does. I had a lot of anger in me and got to take revenge. Cause of the way i was treated. After watching your video here this made me change completely. You are truly a wonderdul man. Keep up the good work my brother, salam Walakum
@@simsalabimsa6882I truly pray that Allah gives you the strength and courage to deal with this sister. I'm in a lot of pain myself in my marriage. It can be very very hard. May Allah have mercy on all of us. It's a trial, I hope everyone passes this test. I'm here to talk as your sister if you ever want to lighten your heart. Allah is the healer, He will heal our hearts too In Shaa'Allah, we just have to show patience
@@muneebaalam8483 Amen my beloved sister, thank you for your lovely encouraging message. I will include you in my prayers. may Allah give you comfort. Is there still hope for your marriage? I have a 4 week old baby ... Alhamdulillah, mashaAllah. When he was 2 weeks old, my husband announced a divorce. I don't want to lie, I've also done a lot wrong and I'm certainly not innocent. I just would never have broken up ... I would have tried again and again.
Alhamdulillah this video comes on time .after 16 years of marriage with 4 kids mashallah .going for divorce because he is a neglecting man and woman doesn't like that Alhamdulillah Inchallah Alhla give me a good man
Divorce is really a bad episode. But we later give thanks to Allah for that same divorce, Subhaana'lah. Allah is really great. Even though am not yet remarry, but I feel so free and relaxed bcos it's not my fight but Allah's.
I just asked my husband for taqwah. Alhamdullilah Because I know in my heart if you have that everything else will fall into place. InshaAllah And people say they have a lot, but Allah reveals what exactly is in the heart. Alhamdullilah But even in this, I have learned the hard way, that as easy as I am and was Allah has guidelines that everyone is to follow. For a Sister, no matter what age, has rights. Alhamdullilah No matter how the Ummah may react. You know, "Oh sister, you should be thankful that a man is even wanting you at your age, your size, your color." Adhubillah! I've heard it all till this day. Alhamdullilah May Allah guide us to the straight path. Amin And InshaAllah down the road men like that will realize what they had and Allah took her away. We are all Diamonds and need to be treated as such. InshaAllah We have already been through the pressures of life, I speak for myself, and Allah has molded us the way HE wanted. And this should be celebrated and appreciated, not demeaned and spit on and beat. Diamonds are what they are, reflectors of light, Allah's light. Alhamdullilah And we don't need to be crushed back into bits of sand. InshaAllah Barak Allah ufik Mufti, had to get that off my chest. Alhamdullilah
You are so right sister but I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
MashaAllah Beautiful reminder. I’m currently dealing with a divorce now. She put me through so much I did anything and everything for her and she just threw it all away.
So so sorry to hear that. May Allah make it easier for you and grant you the best of imaan, happiness, peace and prosperity in this world and the Hereafter. Ameen I'm going through the same, i loved him and appreciated him like he was the biggest Gift from Allah, he ABUSED me in every way and took advantage of that, didn't even care about his own children and duties towards us. After 3yrs of separation and rebuilding mine and my children's lives from scratch, my children's lives are now better than before Alhamdulillah but he wont divorce me. I think I'm going to get a khula. Please remember us in your duas.
Sham c - one day at a time. Unfortunately divorce is very common in life now, but we must continue to pursue our happiness and remind ourselves of الله Subhanahu wa ta’ala. I will keep you in my دعاء 🤲 and please do the same for me, assalam’aleikum.
@@RGTheGreat Thank you so much for your duas. It hurts so so much. 12yrs living with his madness and 3yrs waiting for him to realise his mistakes/wrongdoings. Sometimes divorce is the only option you are left with. Thank you so much for your advice. I did take one day at a time. The first yr I spent completing studies, looking for a job and crying to sleep on the prayer mat. 2yr spent working, starting to build our lives from the beginning without him and every second felt suffocating....again cried to sleep on prayer mat. 3rd yr spent decorating mine and my children's house praying that he will eventually realise, show remorse and come and join us. Now starts the 4th yr and my house is virtually complete. Career is well on its way. Confidence is back, heart still in pain but ready to close that chapter which breaks me and start a new one where Allah Will bless me with something better insha Allah. I pray your journey is made easier for you brother. The pain will always be there but you just get used to it and divert it to practical things around you.
Sham c - when it comes to matters of the heart, things are never easy. As I am going through my path of healing, I am realizing now that looking back not being in that situation any longer was best for me, my health is back, stress level was always tense, I would always make دعاء 🤲 to الله to make it easy for me during my marriage and although a divorce is something I didn’t want to go through I believe it’s important to know that because our hearts are broken, we are wounded, we are hurt, we need to redirect that pain Into something magnificent, I’ll tell you, I am almost done with my education this year and I started in the beginning of my divorce. Raising my son by myself and the help of my family, I look at myself then compared to now, I am so proud of myself! You are right the hurt will always be there and in more ways than one it would sting me time and time again, but, it’s a reminder to not get in the same situation again.
I did the opposite. Being a man I did that to a woman And was on the wrong path and allah is dealing with me now. Since then rizq has gone down everything but Allah gave me new house in exchange and now I am all alone done lockdown covid alone. But I am now inshallah closer to Allah then I have ever been. And have stopped all bad things and habits. This has drawn me back to Allah. Pls make dua for me. As I realise now how much of a good soul allah originally gave me
I am married and going through a divorce. My husband slept with another woman and contracted and disease and abused me. This gives me hope. My love is still out there somewhere. May Allah bless my abusive husband. And may Allah make it easy on my husband to come in the future.
May Allah give you the best man that can exist in this world for what you had to endure and still having the heart to say a prayer for him. May Allah heal you completely and also give you Jannah in the next life. AMEEN.
Me and my husband is getting divorced soon... I have a daughter... He threatened me always.. Always says he will easily divorce me. He will continue to get married untill he will get a wife that suits his mother's Expectations....and needs my family to meet the expenses.. Finally I have decided to go with divorce
Jazakallah for this beautiful video... i have been very very depressed i have put in 200% in this realtionship to make it work and yet he wants a divorce doesnt care we have a daughter mocks me to all his friends has an affair... i fear divorce due to my child but this video helped me a lot Jazakallah
I don' t agree that so many good people in the world. I haven' t got a divorce. I' m still married. There are so many upset familys. Because of wife or husband with bad charakters. I wish from Allah that the muslim people were better humans
I know so many people who didn't marry again and honestly it's way better because taking responsibility of the own kids is more important than being married
If you believe he is capable of making sure to lead you to heaven and treat you with respect then stay... You shouldn't think a husband like a god, woman in the old days always remaining us that husband is god but no, husband is one of so many way that make us closer to Allah swt.
I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
We are not speaking its been 2 days we had huge fight o my brothers and sisters please pray for me and my Nasir. Please please please o Allah please i do not want the divorce. 😔
May Allah save your marriage dear sister. Make lots and lots of dua to Him. He never lets us down if we have full faith in Allah. Make dua my sister. May Allah reform you both, have Mercy on you and create so much love and respect in his heart for you and Allah that you cannot believe how much blessings Allah has showered upon you. Please remember me in your duas
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......
You put my shoes on for 2 minutes you will thank Allah for the life HE has given you my beloved brother, i went so much and still going Alhamduillah never loose hope and you are not alone🌹🙏🏻 keep praying your salah on time inshaAllah He will make it easy for you ameen
My husband divorced me because his mother did not want me to be in his life anymore. We lived together for 4 and a half year. We loved each other so much. Because i didnt get pregnant his mother got him married again and forced him to divorce me. Finally he divorced me a month ago.
Go back to him tell him that you love him tell him to take you back does not matter if he has a wife if 3 months have passed than marry him again and if he was forced to give divorce then the divorce is invalid but if he gave divorce willingly then it is better to leave him.Not having children is not a reason for divorce.
my aunts husbend did that and he is having an affair with a hindu lady. ......my aunt was such a good wife she took his beatings beatings and his abusive ways and his kids are in 10nth and 7nth grade. she I physically weak she can't get up on her own she can't stand for long and such it was a big hassle for her to climb down or go up the stairs and he left her in such a state. I....she is crying qnd asking for help not to mention my father did the same thing .
In f same condition my husband is too hard n rude everyday .he is torturing me n break me down ..i dont want to stay wid him i told him but he is hanging me....
But I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
A.o.a I'm in great trouble.its a great problem in our relationship.but now my husband want to live with me & I also want the same but our families don't want this,then plz tell some wazifa,what can I do?
@@rabbi619 you're right but that is not easy for me to leave my family, because in anger my husband said I divorce u,that why I'm not sure that our divorce is done or not
@@ChZamin-uq5pc I did find something just to help you if your husband was in a state of anger and he divorced you but his intention was not to divorce you but he said it due to his anger then it does not count as a divorce this is the view of ahmed and ibne taymiya . But if his intention was to divorce you and he said it then whether he was angry or not it is a valid divorce. Please tell your husband to be truthful and if he really didnt mean it then according to that view i mentioned you are still married. But please again i say this i help good people and also sometimes the bad ones when they really need help but since you are good i guess both of you are truthful and good. Tell your husband to speak the truth this will only work if your husband is truthful.
حضانة الطفل ورضاعته عن عبد الله بن عمرو أن امرأة قالت يا رسول الله: إن ابني كان بطني له وعاء وثديي له سقاء وحجري له حواء وإن أباه طلقني وأراد أن ينزعه مني فقال لها رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم-: أنت أحق به ما لم تنكحي. رواه أحمد وأبو داود وصححه الحاكم. أولا: هذا الحديث عن رضاعة المرأة الشاكية لطفلها وليس عن الحضانة فهي تتكلم عن الرضاعة وليس الحضانة وزوج هذه المرأة هو صحابي مسلم ولم يفعل شيئا يخالف الشرع أو رسول الله،فهذا ماعليه المسلمون في زمن رسول الله أن حضانة الطفل للأب بعد الطلاق وماأقدم عليه هذا الصحابي عمل شرعي من أخذه لإبنه بعد ولادته،ولكن المرأة جاءت تشتكي لرسول الله أنها أولى برضاعة طفلها من غيرها لذلك أمر رسول الله بإعادة الطفل لها لترضعه بشرط أن لاتتزوج خلال فترة إرضاعها للطفل(حولين كاملين) ولايدل هذا الحديث على الحضانة وإنما الرضاعة. ثانيا: مايأكد الحديث السابق وأنه خاص بالرضاعة وليس بالحضانة هو قوله تعالى في سورة الطلاق: "فَإِنْ أَرْضَعْنَ لَكُمْ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۖ وَأْتَمِرُوا بَيْنَكُم بِمَعْرُوفٍ ۖ وَإِن تَعَاسَرْتُمْ فَسَتُرْضِعُ لَهُ أُخْرَىٰ (6)". هذه الآية صريحة في أنه لو حدث خلاف بين الأب والأم في إرضاع الطفل كأن طلبت أم الطفل أجرة على الرضاع لم يرض بها أب الطفل ولم يتوصلوا إلى حل وسط فالآية الكريمة تعطي الحق للأب أن يبحث عن امرأة أخرى ترضع الطفل وتعتني به وتربيه مدة السنتين ولا دخل للأم بذلك لأنها تنازلت عن رضاعته والأب هو الحاضن الشرعي للطفل.فما دور الأم بعد أن رفضت إرضاع الطفل؟ هل ستزعمون أنها الحاضن للطفل؟أم أنها المدير العام؟أم المشرف؟أم المراقب على حضانة الطفل؟ أليس في هذا دليل شرعي على دحض الفتاوى الباطلة لمن يزعم أن حضانة الطفل للأم. لكن من يدّعي العلم من المشايخ وغيرهم ضلوا الطريق وأفتوا بما لايعلمون وبدون دليل شرعي ونسبوا أقوالهم إلى أئمة المذاهب وتلامذتهم وصارت هذه الفتاوى الباطلة عُرْفا لدى الناس يتناقلونه جيلا بعد جيل دون أن يتحقق أحد من صحة هذه الفتاوى وأدلتها الشرعية من القرآن الكريم أو السنّة النبوية. هذا الكلام لن يعجب من يزعمون أنهم أعلم من الله ورسول الله والصحابة وخاصة النساء ولن يعجب من درسوا الأحكام الباطلة وتأثروا بأساتذتهم الذين تأثروا أيضا بأسلافهم وهكذا ثم إنه لن يعجب من يسمون أنفسهم حقوقيون وقانونيون ممن درس القانون الوضعي بعض السنوات في معاهد أو كليات وأوهموهم أنها قوانين شرعية وكذلك لن يعجب هذا الكلام قضاة الجور في المحاكم الوضعية ولا المرتزقة من المحامين،لذلك من يريد أن يناقش أو يجادل منهم فعليه بإثبات كلامه بالدليل الشرعي من القرآن الكريم أو السنة النبوية وليس بالقانون الوضعي الفرنسي الأصل الباطل المطبق في المحاكم الوضعية في العالم أو ليصمت ولايروج للباطل فيكتسب من ورائه الإثم والذنوب....
This is extemely imporant if any one can help me to make my decision.two month ego i married a girl who is very short. at first i thought i will cope with it.but now i feeling that she is too short to cope with.it was my decision to marry her.now what can i do because everytime i see her i feel very bad and couldnt continue normal married life with her.
Brother love her the way she is because she can’t change herself and you said it was your decision to marry her. So see the reason why you married her for. Was it her Akhlaq or whatever reason it was for. Don’t be hard on yourself and her. Just make the marriage work because you just don’t look at someone’s physical appearance, you look at someone from within too. If you divorce because of that she is going to have insecurities that she will develop from it. But if the marriage ain’t going anywhere wallahi just divorce her to not make her wait but I recommend you to think it through and Allah know best😊. P.s I don’t know much about marriage coz am just 20 but I hope it useful😅
Please consult some religious, fair and level headed family member, if possible. If not, reach out to some mufti or scholar. I think it's wrong to divorce your wife on the basis of her height. Physical appearance fades away with time anyway. You should try and look for the good things in her. While physical attraction is important, marriage is not supposed to be based entirely on it. What were the things that made you marry her? Try to think of those reasons. May Allah guide you
@@ameliacollins5650 brother i divorced her a week ago. i found it very difficult to adjust with her.i married her without the consence of my mother.she was short but she was an angry girl too.i told her that i have mad a mistak to marry her too quickly.hearing that she became very angry and told me that she also did't like me.it made me divorce her quickly.
You need to leave if you are being abused in any way especially emotional because it takes a very long time to heal from that damage. You have to protect yourself no matter what. It is better to be single and happy than in a relationship and abused.
@@samia6888 thanks for the advice 👍..but what about the children? growing up in a divorce environment?is it fair for them?im just looking for an advice for this too.
@@ponylion7644 I am from a family where my parents were not right for each other but they decided not to divorce and I remember begging mom to divorce my dad. It didn't mean I hated any of them at all. It is very very difficult for a child to see abuse in their parent's relationship. It messes them up for life. I am going to therapy now and doing EMDR and where does every session lead me to? The arguments and abuse that happened when I was little that I had to witness. Most of my problems stem from that. I don't even know who I truly am without all that dysfunction. Unfortunately I have also been in relationships that mimicked my parents. I attracted men who were controlling and narcissistic because that felt "normal" to me. The parents divorce will inevitably have an effect on the child no doubt but if the parents divorce, they have a chance at finding a better partner for themselves so they can be happier and the child can see how a healthy relationship is like and if that is not the case then at least the child won't see their parents abusing each other every single day. Every case is different but if it were up to me I would never put my children through what I had to endure. If I get abused by my husband I will leave. I need them to truly understand that abuse is not acceptable and it is okay to leave even someone you truly love to save yourself.
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......
I am in a abusive relationship with my husband,he is not on his deen, he gets mad over small things and curses me in bad words,I prayed to Allah to show me a way what to do just yesterday. Today this video came out and it is the exact situation I'm going through. Ya Allah you are the best. Is there anyone who else have any advices for me. I've been dealing this for more than two years
Please seek professional/Family help as soon as possible
@@FreeQuranEducation I have reached out to my family members we sit and talked my uncle told him to do things which will could've bring some peace but he refuses to do it and still abuses me till now even after the family decision
@@Fatimah-oy7wt don't sit back and let him abuse you because his not the only guy in the world there's a lot of guys out there who would love to marry you and appreciate you so don't wait for him to stop abusing you because you don't know when his going to stop his not wroth it
@@km_diallo9897 thank you sister hope Allah helps me i have beautiful daughter
@@Fatimah-oy7wt Assalamu alaikum Try your best i know you did it for sure but keep do it and talk to him try to expand beautiful time with your husband and thereafter if you can be patience then do if he changes then Ok. But if he don't then you can get rid of it by divorce but you know divorce is not good thing but in worse situation divorce is good. May Allah bless you.. May Allah show you right path and Inshallah i will definitely pray for you Fatimah.
‘Allah wanted you to appreciate the man he had chosen for you’
Allahu Akbar!
Salam, this video just gave me a bit of hope. Just recently my wife of 13years told me she wants a divorce. Our marriage was bad over the past 2 years and she has giving me the silence treatment since then. It all started when she stopped praying salat and telling me I'm to strict in my Deen. When I asked her and my children to come and pray with me she says I want to have "control" over her, astarfilullah... Ever since she said she wants to divorce I m loosing my mind, worrying about the future, kids, house, financial etc... I know Allah will not abandon me or anyone in hardship and I hope for the best Inshallah 🤲
May Allah(s.w.t) grant you ease and choose for you the absolute best descision.
@@realntname5591 Ameen 🤲
Brother may Allah make it easy on you and your children save it if you can, save for the sake of your children, say sorry if you have to even you have not done anything wrong, feed her from your own hand, bcoz once the divorce happens its a win for shaitan and men loose everything everything 🙏🏻
may allah grant you someone better
@@tahminaakhtermina8607 Ameen 🤲
*crying* bcos this message soothes me
I know i'm still young. I'm 20..it hurts..6 years in a relationship, and she left. O Allah, thank you for recommending this video to my conscience.
Khairul Azlan i feel your pain. Similar situation.
May Allah ease your pain & grant you someone much better that deserve your love.. ameen..
Hadia Ali probably they were just dating..
What?you were married when u were 14?
What? 😓
I m crying as I m listening to this lecture. Powerful n I can definetly relate
This video is amazing, please do not stay in abusive relationships. Everyone deserves to be happy, trust alllah swt he is the best of planners 🤲🏻
This is my life right now. I'm in so much pain after my husband asked for a divorce. This video has given me hope. Please anyone reading this, please make duaa for me😭
Lots of Duas for you 🙏😌
@@FreeQuranEducation Jazakum Allahu Khayran
Wallah ! You inspired me again . May Allah SWT grant you a best reward for it !
the animation is very beautiful
Jazakum Allah Khayrun for positive words :)
1:06 just touched my heart 💔
I prayed to Allah and i saw this.. Alhamdulillah MashaAllah what a beautiful reminder! I am struggling now, my husband divorced me bcoz he met a new girl in Taiwan, we have 2 kids. Still hurting but i thank Allah for giving me such wonderful 2 kids! Everyday is a new beginning for the 3 of us! I know someday, someone will love me and my children for the sake of Allah swt ❤️
Ameen sis.
I love Mufti your such a great man. Im going through a tough divoce. Divoce is done but im finding it hard to more on. Specially when my other half has moved on it hurts and still does. I had a lot of anger in me and got to take revenge. Cause of the way i was treated. After watching your video here this made me change completely. You are truly a wonderdul man. Keep up the good work my brother, salam Walakum
Same here.. Is it better now sister?
@@simsalabimsa6882 how are you doing now?
@@muneebaalam8483 ..there are good and bad days. I am still very attached to him
@@simsalabimsa6882I truly pray that Allah gives you the strength and courage to deal with this sister. I'm in a lot of pain myself in my marriage. It can be very very hard. May Allah have mercy on all of us. It's a trial, I hope everyone passes this test.
I'm here to talk as your sister if you ever want to lighten your heart. Allah is the healer, He will heal our hearts too In Shaa'Allah, we just have to show patience
@@muneebaalam8483 Amen my beloved sister, thank you for your lovely encouraging message. I will include you in my prayers. may Allah give you comfort. Is there still hope for your marriage? I have a 4 week old baby ... Alhamdulillah, mashaAllah. When he was 2 weeks old, my husband announced a divorce. I don't want to lie, I've also done a lot wrong and I'm certainly not innocent. I just would never have broken up ... I would have tried again and again.
Alhamdulillah this video comes on time .after 16 years of marriage with 4 kids mashallah .going for divorce because he is a neglecting man and woman doesn't like that Alhamdulillah Inchallah Alhla give me a good man
I am here
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen . How are you now?
Subhannah Allah- Allah swt rewarded me with soooo much better!
Assalamualaikm
Kindly remember me while having dua
Divorce is really a bad episode. But we later give thanks to Allah for that same divorce, Subhaana'lah. Allah is really great. Even though am not yet remarry, but I feel so free and relaxed bcos it's not my fight but Allah's.
I just asked my husband for taqwah. Alhamdullilah Because I know in my heart if you have that everything else will fall into place. InshaAllah And people say they have a lot, but Allah reveals what exactly is in the heart. Alhamdullilah But even in this, I have learned the hard way, that as easy as I am and was Allah has guidelines that everyone is to follow. For a Sister, no matter what age, has rights. Alhamdullilah No matter how the Ummah may react. You know, "Oh sister, you should be thankful that a man is even wanting you at your age, your size, your color." Adhubillah! I've heard it all till this day. Alhamdullilah May Allah guide us to the straight path. Amin And InshaAllah down the road men like that will realize what they had and Allah took her away. We are all Diamonds and need to be treated as such. InshaAllah We have already been through the pressures of life, I speak for myself, and Allah has molded us the way HE wanted. And this should be celebrated and appreciated, not demeaned and spit on and beat. Diamonds are what they are, reflectors of light, Allah's light. Alhamdullilah And we don't need to be crushed back into bits of sand. InshaAllah Barak Allah ufik Mufti, had to get that off my chest. Alhamdullilah
You are so right sister but I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
❤️🌹
MashaAllah
Beautiful reminder. I’m currently dealing with a divorce now.
She put me through so much I did anything and everything for her and she just threw it all away.
So so sorry to hear that. May Allah make it easier for you and grant you the best of imaan, happiness, peace and prosperity in this world and the Hereafter. Ameen
I'm going through the same, i loved him and appreciated him like he was the biggest Gift from Allah, he ABUSED me in every way and took advantage of that, didn't even care about his own children and duties towards us. After 3yrs of separation and rebuilding mine and my children's lives from scratch, my children's lives are now better than before Alhamdulillah but he wont divorce me. I think I'm going to get a khula. Please remember us in your duas.
Sham c - one day at a time. Unfortunately divorce is very common in life now, but we must continue to pursue our happiness and remind ourselves of الله Subhanahu wa ta’ala. I will keep you in my دعاء 🤲 and please do the same for me, assalam’aleikum.
@@RGTheGreat Thank you so much for your duas. It hurts so so much. 12yrs living with his madness and 3yrs waiting for him to realise his mistakes/wrongdoings. Sometimes divorce is the only option you are left with.
Thank you so much for your advice. I did take one day at a time. The first yr I spent completing studies, looking for a job and crying to sleep on the prayer mat. 2yr spent working, starting to build our lives from the beginning without him and every second felt suffocating....again cried to sleep on prayer mat. 3rd yr spent decorating mine and my children's house praying that he will eventually realise, show remorse and come and join us.
Now starts the 4th yr and my house is virtually complete. Career is well on its way. Confidence is back, heart still in pain but ready to close that chapter which breaks me and start a new one where Allah Will bless me with something better insha Allah. I pray your journey is made easier for you brother. The pain will always be there but you just get used to it and divert it to practical things around you.
Sham c - when it comes to matters of the heart, things are never easy. As I am going through my path of healing, I am realizing now that looking back not being in that situation any longer was best for me, my health is back, stress level was always tense, I would always make دعاء 🤲 to الله to make it easy for me during my marriage and although a divorce is something I didn’t want to go through I believe it’s important to know that because our hearts are broken, we are wounded, we are hurt, we need to redirect that pain Into something magnificent, I’ll tell you, I am almost done with my education this year and I started in the beginning of my divorce. Raising my son by myself and the help of my family, I look at myself then compared to now, I am so proud of myself! You are right the hurt will always be there and in more ways than one it would sting me time and time again, but, it’s a reminder to not get in the same situation again.
I did the opposite. Being a man I did that to a woman And was on the wrong path and allah is dealing with me now. Since then rizq has gone down everything but Allah gave me new house in exchange and now I am all alone done lockdown covid alone. But I am now inshallah closer to Allah then I have ever been. And have stopped all bad things and habits. This has drawn me back to Allah. Pls make dua for me. As I realise now how much of a good soul allah originally gave me
I am married and going through a divorce. My husband slept with another woman and contracted and disease and abused me. This gives me hope. My love is still out there somewhere.
May Allah bless my abusive husband. And may Allah make it easy on my husband to come in the future.
You are strong and whole and graceful. I hope you are okay.
May Allah give you the best man that can exist in this world for what you had to endure and still having the heart to say a prayer for him. May Allah heal you completely and also give you Jannah in the next life. AMEEN.
Rafia Khatun inshaAllah, with Allahs mercy i will get better. Thank you.
Samia aww, JazakAllah Khairan. I appreciate that very much. InshaAllah, by Allahs decree i will have an amazing husband soon.
@@withlovebubbles6097 he isn't practising Islam?
Beautiful message, and beautiful animation!
Same like my case. Thanks Allah.
Very scary to get marry
stick to worshipping allah swt and he'll guide you and easen the process for you inshallah
@mahdi sabri r u asking me r light 900????
Mashallah honestly best video so far, I love everything about this video
Jazakallah khair... May Allah reward you. Im inspired again.😊
Me and my husband is getting divorced soon... I have a daughter... He threatened me always.. Always says he will easily divorce me. He will continue to get married untill he will get a wife that suits his mother's Expectations....and needs my family to meet the expenses..
Finally I have decided to go with divorce
Salaam wa lakiuem. How are you dealing. Both of you?
May Allah make it easier you sister
@@SS-uq9vr may Allah make it easier for you sister
Where do you live, sister. I guess you taken mistake decide.you try to understand him.
May allah swt make it easy for you, never regret your decision x
Jazakallah for this beautiful video... i have been very very depressed i have put in 200% in this realtionship to make it work and yet he wants a divorce doesnt care we have a daughter mocks me to all his friends has an affair... i fear divorce due to my child but this video helped me a lot Jazakallah
I'm sorry to hear that sister, may Allah have mercy on you
Mashallah amziang byaan mufti jazakallah
BarakAllahufeekum, Thank you so much for this videos, it changes my life🤲🏽❤️ Jazzak Allahu khairan🌹
I don' t agree that so many good people in the world. I haven' t got a divorce. I' m still married. There are so many upset familys. Because of wife or husband with bad charakters. I wish from Allah that the muslim people were better humans
best topic my tawaqul increase more on ALLAH LOVE YOU ALLAH
" BESHAK HAR MUSKIL K SAATH ASANI HAI "
JazakAllahu khair
I know so many people who didn't marry again and honestly it's way better because taking responsibility of the own kids is more important than being married
If you believe he is capable of making sure to lead you to heaven and treat you with respect then stay... You shouldn't think a husband like a god, woman in the old days always remaining us that husband is god but no, husband is one of so many way that make us closer to Allah swt.
I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
@@cansugungor4405 yeah it is. There can be more discussion on why, when, who, how but this is the short answer, 'yes, it will be a sin'.
May Allah protect us all from this kind of trial.. Ameen ya Rabb 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
We are not speaking its been 2 days we had huge fight o my brothers and sisters please pray for me and my Nasir. Please please please o Allah please i do not want the divorce. 😔
May Allah save your marriage dear sister. Make lots and lots of dua to Him. He never lets us down if we have full faith in Allah. Make dua my sister. May Allah reform you both, have Mercy on you and create so much love and respect in his heart for you and Allah that you cannot believe how much blessings Allah has showered upon you. Please remember me in your duas
May Allah give you what you want. Aameen
Ok i will make dua for you
The animation is perfect
I really needed this.
Alhamdulila
Alhamdulila
Alhamdulila
I never again want marriage again. .
Never again. ..Only have a good men to me for feel love. .
Ameen Thuma Ameen
Salaam wa lakiuem. Mine ended pretty bad also. I think I feel your pain
@@irfan6374 may Allah make it easier for you brother. I'm about to go through the same. Please remember me in your duas
Sham c, email me irfan.mir@atlanticaviation.Com
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......
My ex wife has destroyed me completely... Left me nowhere...
Assalamualaikum be patient be strong brother 👏🏻So many people in your situation 👏🏻
You put my shoes on for 2 minutes you will thank Allah for the life HE has given you my beloved brother, i went so much and still going Alhamduillah never loose hope and you are not alone🌹🙏🏻 keep praying your salah on time inshaAllah He will make it easy for you ameen
My sister is going through a divorce i ask everyone to make dua for her pls
Ok i will make dua for your sister so that she gets a good husband.
barak allah feekum
How do I ask my queries to mufti menk
Salam brother, what software are you using to create this amazing animated videos?
Sometimes men can be in this situation. May Allah help us all.
My husband divorced me because his mother did not want me to be in his life anymore. We lived together for 4 and a half year. We loved each other so much. Because i didnt get pregnant his mother got him married again and forced him to divorce me. Finally he divorced me a month ago.
May Allah make it easy for you sister 🤲🏼🤲🏼
@@Fatimah-oy7wt Ameen!
Go back to him tell him that you love him tell him to take you back does not matter if he has a wife if 3 months have passed than marry him again and if he was forced to give divorce then the divorce is invalid but if he gave divorce willingly then it is better to leave him.Not having children is not a reason for divorce.
I like to watch all this video , subhanallah. This editing really creative . What type app you use for it??
my aunts husbend did that and he is having an affair with a hindu lady. ......my aunt was such a good wife she took his beatings beatings and his abusive ways and his kids are in 10nth and 7nth grade. she I physically weak she can't get up on her own she can't stand for long and such it was a big hassle for her to climb down or go up the stairs and he left her in such a state. I....she is crying qnd asking for help not to mention my father did the same thing .
He's still having affair with that lady?
Thank you🌹
It's true that Instead of living with a bad person for a whole life time it's better to take divorce from husband
In f same condition my husband is too hard n rude everyday .he is torturing me n break me down ..i dont want to stay wid him i told him but he is hanging me....
Please leave him, and don’t care about corrupted Muslims who says women have no rights to divorce because it’s your life and want to be safe
Asalamu alikum warhmatullah are men the only ones aloud to ask for divorce?
Walekum as salaam
No women can also ask for divorse. It ia called as Khulla.
@@mineabou yes i have some understanding of khula
Thank you every one for you kind help
But I always hear if a woman wants a divorce without a valid reason, this is a major sin and she can not go to heaven. It is always about woman. I am curious, if a man divorces his wife without a valid reason is this a sin too? Like, if a man marries a woman only for sex and after that he gives triple talaq and marry with another one, then divorces again and marry again and so and so... Is this a sin?
A.o.a I'm in great trouble.its a great problem in our relationship.but now my husband want to live with me & I also want the same but our families don't want this,then plz tell some wazifa,what can I do?
Leave your family go back to your husband your husband is your guardian and not your family dont let family interrupt your relationship.
@@rabbi619 you're right but that is not easy for me to leave my family, because in anger my husband said I divorce u,that why I'm not sure that our divorce is done or not
@@ChZamin-uq5pc I did find something just to help you if your husband was in a state of anger and he divorced you but his intention was not to divorce you but he said it due to his anger then it does not count as a divorce this is the view of ahmed and ibne taymiya . But if his intention was to divorce you and he said it then whether he was angry or not it is a valid divorce. Please tell your husband to be truthful and if he really didnt mean it then according to that view i mentioned you are still married. But please again i say this i help good people and also sometimes the bad ones when they really need help but since you are good i guess both of you are truthful and good. Tell your husband to speak the truth this will only work if your husband is truthful.
@@rabbi619 he said that he did not intentionally said that,when he said about divorce,he instantly realized that oh what I did,He instantly regret
@@rabbi619 I find that you are a nice person,May Allah bless you
Will wife uttering talaq breaks a marriage?
She does khula
I know a lot men who have been abused so much in their marriages. Men need to careful really. Marriage is not worth it
Inshallah
حضانة الطفل ورضاعته
عن عبد الله بن عمرو أن امرأة قالت يا رسول الله: إن ابني كان بطني له وعاء وثديي له سقاء وحجري له حواء وإن أباه طلقني وأراد أن ينزعه مني فقال لها رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم-: أنت أحق به ما لم تنكحي. رواه أحمد وأبو داود وصححه الحاكم.
أولا: هذا الحديث عن رضاعة المرأة الشاكية لطفلها وليس عن الحضانة فهي تتكلم عن الرضاعة وليس الحضانة وزوج هذه المرأة هو صحابي مسلم ولم يفعل شيئا يخالف الشرع أو رسول الله،فهذا ماعليه المسلمون في زمن رسول الله أن حضانة الطفل للأب بعد الطلاق وماأقدم عليه هذا الصحابي عمل شرعي من أخذه لإبنه بعد ولادته،ولكن المرأة جاءت تشتكي لرسول الله أنها أولى برضاعة طفلها من غيرها لذلك أمر رسول الله بإعادة الطفل لها لترضعه بشرط أن لاتتزوج خلال فترة إرضاعها للطفل(حولين كاملين) ولايدل هذا الحديث على الحضانة وإنما الرضاعة.
ثانيا: مايأكد الحديث السابق وأنه خاص بالرضاعة وليس بالحضانة هو قوله تعالى في سورة الطلاق: "فَإِنْ أَرْضَعْنَ لَكُمْ فَآتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۖ وَأْتَمِرُوا بَيْنَكُم بِمَعْرُوفٍ ۖ وَإِن تَعَاسَرْتُمْ فَسَتُرْضِعُ لَهُ أُخْرَىٰ (6)".
هذه الآية صريحة في أنه لو حدث خلاف بين الأب والأم في إرضاع الطفل كأن طلبت أم الطفل أجرة على الرضاع لم يرض بها أب الطفل ولم يتوصلوا إلى حل وسط فالآية الكريمة تعطي الحق للأب أن يبحث عن امرأة أخرى ترضع الطفل وتعتني به وتربيه مدة السنتين ولا دخل للأم بذلك لأنها تنازلت عن رضاعته والأب هو الحاضن الشرعي للطفل.فما دور الأم بعد أن رفضت إرضاع الطفل؟ هل ستزعمون أنها الحاضن للطفل؟أم أنها المدير العام؟أم المشرف؟أم المراقب على حضانة الطفل؟
أليس في هذا دليل شرعي على دحض الفتاوى الباطلة لمن يزعم أن حضانة الطفل للأم.
لكن من يدّعي العلم من المشايخ وغيرهم ضلوا الطريق وأفتوا بما لايعلمون وبدون دليل شرعي ونسبوا أقوالهم إلى أئمة المذاهب وتلامذتهم وصارت هذه الفتاوى الباطلة عُرْفا لدى الناس يتناقلونه جيلا بعد جيل دون أن يتحقق أحد من صحة هذه الفتاوى وأدلتها الشرعية من القرآن الكريم أو السنّة النبوية.
هذا الكلام لن يعجب من يزعمون أنهم أعلم من الله ورسول الله والصحابة وخاصة النساء ولن يعجب من درسوا الأحكام الباطلة وتأثروا بأساتذتهم الذين تأثروا أيضا بأسلافهم وهكذا ثم إنه لن يعجب من يسمون أنفسهم حقوقيون وقانونيون ممن درس القانون الوضعي بعض السنوات في معاهد أو كليات وأوهموهم أنها قوانين شرعية وكذلك لن يعجب هذا الكلام قضاة الجور في المحاكم الوضعية ولا المرتزقة من المحامين،لذلك من يريد أن يناقش أو يجادل منهم فعليه بإثبات كلامه بالدليل الشرعي من القرآن الكريم أو السنة النبوية وليس بالقانون الوضعي الفرنسي الأصل الباطل المطبق في المحاكم الوضعية في العالم أو ليصمت ولايروج للباطل فيكتسب من ورائه الإثم والذنوب....
Assalamualaikm
I love the animation amazing, Subhaana'lah. But I hope it doesn't mean your face will be going off in your videos.
This is extemely imporant if any one can help me to make my decision.two month ego i married a girl who is very short. at first i thought i will cope with it.but now i feeling that she is too short to cope with.it was my decision to marry her.now what can i do because everytime i see her i feel very bad and couldnt continue normal married life with her.
Brother love her the way she is because she can’t change herself and you said it was your decision to marry her. So see the reason why you married her for. Was it her Akhlaq or whatever reason it was for. Don’t be hard on yourself and her. Just make the marriage work because you just don’t look at someone’s physical appearance, you look at someone from within too. If you divorce because of that she is going to have insecurities that she will develop from it. But if the marriage ain’t going anywhere wallahi just divorce her to not make her wait but I recommend you to think it through and Allah know best😊. P.s I don’t know much about marriage coz am just 20 but I hope it useful😅
Please consult some religious, fair and level headed family member, if possible. If not, reach out to some mufti or scholar. I think it's wrong to divorce your wife on the basis of her height. Physical appearance fades away with time anyway. You should try and look for the good things in her. While physical attraction is important, marriage is not supposed to be based entirely on it.
What were the things that made you marry her? Try to think of those reasons. May Allah guide you
@@ameliacollins5650 brother i divorced her a week ago. i found it very difficult to adjust with her.i married her without the consence of my mother.she was short but she was an angry girl too.i told her that i have mad a mistak to marry her too quickly.hearing that she became very angry and told me that she also did't like me.it made me divorce her quickly.
You should not have divorced her just because of her height bring her back if she wants to stay with you.
what happened if the wive abuse the husband mentally?..and end making the husband broken and develop mental illness.
If its that difficult to handle, then a divorce or sometime away from the wife is better than mentally harming yourself.
@@OwnTrick thank you very much appreciated..this do help me alot.
You need to leave if you are being abused in any way especially emotional because it takes a very long time to heal from that damage. You have to protect yourself no matter what. It is better to be single and happy than in a relationship and abused.
@@samia6888 thanks for the advice 👍..but what about the children? growing up in a divorce environment?is it fair for them?im just looking for an advice for this too.
@@ponylion7644 I am from a family where my parents were not right for each other but they decided not to divorce and I remember begging mom to divorce my dad. It didn't mean I hated any of them at all. It is very very difficult for a child to see abuse in their parent's relationship. It messes them up for life. I am going to therapy now and doing EMDR and where does every session lead me to? The arguments and abuse that happened when I was little that I had to witness. Most of my problems stem from that. I don't even know who I truly am without all that dysfunction. Unfortunately I have also been in relationships that mimicked my parents. I attracted men who were controlling and narcissistic because that felt "normal" to me. The parents divorce will inevitably have an effect on the child no doubt but if the parents divorce, they have a chance at finding a better partner for themselves so they can be happier and the child can see how a healthy relationship is like and if that is not the case then at least the child won't see their parents abusing each other every single day. Every case is different but if it were up to me I would never put my children through what I had to endure. If I get abused by my husband I will leave. I need them to truly understand that abuse is not acceptable and it is okay to leave even someone you truly love to save yourself.
Powerfull animation
Allah know who is bad. It's very hard to judge.
Why isn’t one made for the guys who are innocent!!!!
Amazing mashallah but.. Why do they have weird eyes?
this vid was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo funny
This advice seems very partial toward women though.
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......
Plz pray for me, mere husband mujhe talaq de rhe hain apni mom n 3 behno ke chakkar mein, wo sab kisi ko apne bete ke sath bardasht nhi kar pa rhin, aur main 8 mahine se apne mayke me hun aur ab mayke wale b mujhe behad sataa rhe hain, main kya karun kaha jaun......