LIFE AFTER DIVORCE: HOW TO START OVER AND WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- The most important thing to remember is that it is ok to take your time after divorce to really get to know who you are and what you want in your partner.
There is no rush, if anything learn how to love yourself again and allow time to heal youl and embrace who you have become.
You will know when you are ready and make sure it is for the right reasons base it on character not on your physical or emotional needs.
Speaking from my heart as always hope it reaches yours.
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I think you're the only muslimah that really has healthy tips and advice on newly single women. I'd love to see a video on being yourself in a marriage, and also could you do one that touches on having kids and getting remarried as that's a topic I'm really nervous about and no one really thinks about the kids after divorce, but you as a mother I'm sure you have some advice or guidance on that topic jazakallah kheir for taking the time to speak about these things!
Husna S. thank you for your sweet comment sure I will talk about kids after marriage 💕
Having money and social status makes a lot of difference in how women adjust to divorce. You are blessed with money, many women out there have no option to wait or pick and choose after a divorce.
As salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullah, Alhamdu lillah, I came across your channel. I've been divorced for almost 2yrs & im still trying to get over it so I appreciate ur sweet words of encouragement & advice. Baarakallahu feeki!
Walikoom asalam, I am a Certified Coach who works with divorced women to help them rebuild their life with my HEAL program, kindly contant me on my ig @mayya.alsaid
MashaAllaah great video...,I understand what you are saying sister but if your certain age it's difficult,I went through a divorce and then straight away got married again wish I had took step back because now I am going through difficulty in this marriage.
***Coolbreeze*** 989 I see where you are coming from but age is just a number believe me and that shouldn’t be the drive that pushes you to get married. I pray that Allah eases your struggle and may he bless your life with happiness
Assalamualaikum sister.. I just found your videos and watched it. Alhamdulillah, it helps me a lot. Now, I'm in the middle of divorce process. I still love him very dearly but this is a toxic and abusive relationship, so I need to save my self first, not to mention I have 4 years old daughter. I dont want her to see unhealthy or toxic marriage as a normal marriage. Bismillah.. thankyou for sharing..
Salaam alaykum sis, please do talk about us being ourselves inside of a marriage. I feel like it's so important. So many sisters lose themselves in their marriage without realising as they do everything and anything to please their other half.
I miss your videos girl!!!! last video I saw was لقيمات video it has been 8 years. I am happy I found your channel AGAIN 💚💙💛💚💙💛
راضية بحالي no way that was AGES ago 😂 glad you found me make sure you subscribe so you don’t lose me again ♥️
Asalaam alaikum sister. I have been following your channel since 2014 and thank you for the content in your videos. I would like to share my own experience. I experienced several heartbreaks in relationships but Alhamdulillah they were all relationships before marriage. I used to want to jump in a relationship a short time after having ended the previous one not untill I said to myself that I need to focus on my own future studies and career plus to settle down completely as a single person. Now I'm settled Alhamdulillah. I no longer have anyone to think of 24/7 to the point if not concentrating on my own stuff.
I have real trust issues with people honestly so I just wanted to ask how can I trust what he's saying? could be that he would say that he has no issues with my social media but once we get married BOOM hes someone totally different...this thought scares me the most. people lie a lot to get their ways
Anum Rajput there is no guntantee in life and there isn’t a full proof way to ensure that he/she doesn’t change her mind except trying to understand where they are coming from and explaining to them this is not was agreed. You need to ask the hard questions first and be honest about them and where you stand on some issues that matter for you and your deal breakers.
I was married to a narcissist and when i think about it there were warning signs that i ignored. So be aware of red flags and toxic traits. You know what you see, trust your instinct. ❤️
Sadly this was my case too. I bloody hate anything to do with him. Had 3 kids and lord
My favorite TH-cam Mislim girl .
letitadiva123 awww thank you ♥️
Assalamu aleikom wa rahmatullah sister. I really love your mindset, way of speaking and your whole person all together. You’re really inspiring and i pray that Allah rewards you for everything you do. Could you please make a video about what you said about the strength of being yourself even in a relationship and not losing yourself just to please the other one, please !! Because that’s the position for me right now and I’m sure it will help a lot of others too. Much love ♥️
Mashalla ur really beautiful and strong Omani lady
Love your advice!! I appreciate the upload! ✨
We really missed you
Aslm I really look up to you Masha Allaah. You so gorgeous!
Coffee Addict Walikoom asalam, I am truly honoured thank you
@@mayyaalsaid sister i like u very much.sister im in verry much trouble please make dua for me Allah give me strong iman,faith and yaqeen in my heart.may Allah fill my heart with his love ,qurans love and prophet love .may Allah give me understanding of deen with iman and ikhlas.ameen.suma ameen.plz sister pray for me and reply me i will be gratefull to u
Yes please more of this topic❤️
Kary I will ♥️ glad you are enjoying them
TheSewist i Need your advice...My parents always told me that i dont know and Cant do anything. Always yelling and no Love. There was no interest in me and they do Know nothing about me. I do not know who I am today and not feeling able to do anything.... i am suffering even today and i am almost 30, i am feeling like a child and scared. I am so jealous of other people who have loving parents.
Dear kary probably u can get professional help from a psychologist
But I am NOT suggesting a psychiatrist.... psychiatrists treat with medicines and I hv heard those aren't good. On the other hand PSYCHOLOGISTS provide counseling which I guess proves beneficial
I am divorced with three children...
Just want someone in my life who can be my best friend for life and me to be in his life.
I am just going to pray for Allah to send him my way.
After my ex husband experienced im very scared.
Beautiful and really helpful advices 🙏🏾🍀🍀
Starry Eyed Alhamdulilah glad you found them so 🙏🏼
I really want u please to make the video about being ur own self and not losting it under ur husband's orders
Thank u for ur video. Your words mean a lot.
Yasmin Sultan your most welcome 🥰
Am still single..
Folow what God says and you should be okay with marriage.
Assalamu alaikkum dear sister...May u have an amazing life as always... even I would like to know ur opinion about pleasing our husband....R v Muslim wives only made for pleasing their husbands?... even sum men who r well educated think likely so...I would like to know ur viewpoints on that...TC lots of love 😍😘
I would like to hear answers to those question as well 🍀
Walikoom asalam Sure will address these questions in my next video in sha Allah next Thursday 🥰
Asa WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKATUH
Sis thank u so much for guiding us... in ur talk u mentioned one should not just re marry for satisfaction of bodily needs...( Sorry to be open but what else could I write)
isn't it a genuine need....specially for a lady who didn't have this need fulfilled in first marriage due to any reason whatsoever....not being at fault and unwantedly thrown out of the relationship
I don't claim that I understand Islam very well....but I think that our religion builds a society in which the tendency to do sin is minimised/ stopped.... probably that's why Islam recommends that widows and divorced be remarried. Do I make a point?
I would love to have ur viewpoint on this....it matters a lot for me, coz u have ma Shaa ALLAH overcome the hard time in ur life ...and I am the one who is undergoing fear... anxiety ...and depression.....my husband hasn't divorced me yet but things are critical. Also ,as a Muslim sister plz pray for me ( anyone who is reading this) that ALLAH guide me make the right decision.
jazaakAllah khr
I wish u can reply to my message I have left my husband because I a was getting abused from him every time I even smiled for a restaurant worker and so much more little things that I will end up with so much pain and I don’t know what to do so I left him but after 6 months I felt lonely I felt like I need him in my life so we got back but now after a year of going back ever since we got back he I see him speaking with different girls and I don’t think I can take it anymore and I’m thinking about leaving him but I’m scared of how it’s gonna be after that
may ALLAH SWT guide u
Sister i like u very much,ur way of talk ur knowlege is very impressive .can u plz make dua that Allah give me strong faith,yaqeen ,iman in my heart and fill my heart with his love ,mercy and qurans love .ameen.plz reply i will feel honoured.
Ameen sum ameen
Good job
Salam sister, I hope you're doing well. I'd like to know please what is the material you're using to record your videos please?
Nice 👍
Omani Oman thank you 🙏🏼
Assalamualaikum...Di you really inspire us...
Well said.n you give a very important msg in ua video...
I have just started a new TH-cam Channel.
Plz give some tips how you manage filming,editing n all.
Thnk youu..
Di means sister 😀
Assalamualikum! 🤝
Abu Nazir Walikoom asalam
Here i am two years late😭i am always like that 😞
Saad Khan don’t think of it as late but as ready, now you are ready to receive the information you need to get to where you want to go
Saad Khan don’t think of it as late but as ready, now you are ready to receive the information you need to get to where you want to go
I want a divorce wiman in Saudi arabia for marrige, i Will love jer,
Really, mashallah
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