Not intentional but I believe the jealousy I evoked in a guy got him to put in more effort. We met a few months ago and had two dates. He ghosted. I made no attempt to contact him - I had other options. Three months ago I get a text. I told him I had started seeing someone else and that I could not see him. He texted me almost every day for three weeks. At one point he said he was not going to text me unless I texted him first. Well, he continued to text me. Me and the other guy didn't work out but I didn't let this guy know for about 2 weeks. We are back together and he is consistent this time. Two months so far. If he starts to back-off I WILL dump him. He can't run in and out of my life.
Exactly …he’s running from his emotions he definitely has feelings and likes you ..men freak out when they like a girl too much which cause them to pull away because they don’t wanna appear wear or needy and desperate.. ego
Woman get bored AF with lazy men, who put no effort in long term relationships too!! People are committed to the feeling of NEW! Freedom is a bigger need than love . Spiritual freedom. No bondages.
This is so true, its not always that he isn't interested if he doesn't compete with other men when he's jealous. I noticed my guy pulls away everytime I go on vacation where there are lots of other men around. And it works- it keeps my mind on him because he isn't initiating or texting back so I spend the whole vacay chasing him lol. Then when I get home he's back to his old self after a couple of days.
I don't ever want to make him jealous, and I don't like to make any person jealous; because if you hurt someone emotionally, you are almost guaranteed that they will try to hurt you back full force. I never trust jealous people, because they will likely try to find something wrong with you (and they WILL find one of your faults if they look long enough) and they will magnify your faults, and likely gossip. But if they're the type of person who gets jealous of people easily (just people in general), people will sense that they are insecure. People can catch onto someone who is always spreading gossip, and that person only makes themselves look bad (which actually pains me, because they must feel awful going through life comparing themselves to everyone around them). I am going to be as humble and true to this guy as possible, and genuine about my feelings without coming on strong. I hope for the best; I hope that he will totally keep chasing me and then tell me that I was worth the chase! Amen!
Teach about NOT staying with lying cheating men. They will never stop. Building self esteem and emotional maturity is vital for girls to stop being an item on. Shelf. As you describe in many videos.
Ppl try to make you jealous because there jealous so they will project there insecurities on to you so they won’t be they only one feeling that way, so now they feel in control of you respond to they B.s
If he's consistent and loving you sincerely, then make him feel safe and never make him jealous. For a man like this I'd even avoid talking with other men. But for a$holes who are playing hot n cold and ghosted for no reason, yes this is the game for them, because guys tend to discard from feeling too comfortable. Still, don't be stupid and goes too hard in making him jealous as that may backfire you, just act normal and nice enough to allow other guys to feel comfortable around you and it's their friendliness to you that'd kill him when he sees it.
Elliot, I think that I have unintentionally made my guy jealous when another guy started talking and laughing with me, and then he tried to make ME jealous, and I couldn't figure out why at first. Does this mean that he sees me as not being worth it anymore? He still looks at me from a distance, but it's been 4 months and he still hasn't asked me out. I don't even know if I should just act like I don't give a crap (which I have been doing) or talk to him about it?
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days..
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days.
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days
Not intentional but I believe the jealousy I evoked in a guy got him to put in more effort. We met a few months ago and had two dates. He ghosted. I made no attempt to contact him - I had other options. Three months ago I get a text. I told him I had started seeing someone else and that I could not see him. He texted me almost every day for three weeks. At one point he said he was not going to text me unless I texted him first. Well, he continued to text me. Me and the other guy didn't work out but I didn't let this guy know for about 2 weeks. We are back together and he is consistent this time. Two months so far. If he starts to back-off I WILL dump him. He can't run in and out of my life.
Update? 👀
Perfect . know your worth.
Yes girl 🔥
Update??❤
Exactly …he’s running from his emotions he definitely has feelings and likes you ..men freak out when they like a girl too much which cause them to pull away because they don’t wanna appear wear or needy and desperate.. ego
Letting him know that you’re hard to get because that makes it harder for other men to get you, but letting him know that he is able to get you 🙌🏻
And they say women are complicated... 😩
Woman get bored AF with lazy men, who put no effort in long term relationships too!! People are committed to the feeling of NEW! Freedom is a bigger need than love . Spiritual freedom. No bondages.
Trueeee
This is so true, its not always that he isn't interested if he doesn't compete with other men when he's jealous. I noticed my guy pulls away everytime I go on vacation where there are lots of other men around. And it works- it keeps my mind on him because he isn't initiating or texting back so I spend the whole vacay chasing him lol. Then when I get home he's back to his old self after a couple of days.
It’s like manipulation..
I love how Elliot understands how petty we are :D
Really like this set up! Helps me follow along!
I don't ever want to make him jealous, and I don't like to make any person jealous; because if you hurt someone emotionally, you are almost guaranteed that they will try to hurt you back full force. I never trust jealous people, because they will likely try to find something wrong with you (and they WILL find one of your faults if they look long enough) and they will magnify your faults, and likely gossip. But if they're the type of person who gets jealous of people easily (just people in general), people will sense that they are insecure. People can catch onto someone who is always spreading gossip, and that person only makes themselves look bad (which actually pains me, because they must feel awful going through life comparing themselves to everyone around them). I am going to be as humble and true to this guy as possible, and genuine about my feelings without coming on strong. I hope for the best; I hope that he will totally keep chasing me and then tell me that I was worth the chase! Amen!
Khan academy for relationships 😂
Yesssss 😂😂
Teach about NOT staying with lying cheating men. They will never stop. Building self esteem and emotional maturity is vital for girls to stop being an item on. Shelf. As you describe in many videos.
„draw ur fine ass here“ 😂
You are the best dating/relationship coach Elliot! Love your vids, they make total sense!
I LOVE your analysis of these topics. It is so helpful for me to understand the complexity of these topics. Thank you for your approach.
Says you're not special than tells you how to make him regret it later
Whyyyy SO MANY adverts in such short videos. I hate as a paying member that I still hav 2 endure that 💩!😬😩
It makes me laugh so much when you make Johnny references. 😂 Totally dated one.
Ppl try to make you jealous because there jealous so they will project there insecurities on to you so they won’t be they only one feeling that way, so now they feel in control of you respond to they B.s
I really like Elliot’s handwriting!
If he's consistent and loving you sincerely, then make him feel safe and never make him jealous. For a man like this I'd even avoid talking with other men. But for a$holes who are playing hot n cold and ghosted for no reason, yes this is the game for them, because guys tend to discard from feeling too comfortable. Still, don't be stupid and goes too hard in making him jealous as that may backfire you, just act normal and nice enough to allow other guys to feel comfortable around you and it's their friendliness to you that'd kill him when he sees it.
Elliot, I think that I have unintentionally made my guy jealous when another guy started talking and laughing with me, and then he tried to make ME jealous, and I couldn't figure out why at first. Does this mean that he sees me as not being worth it anymore? He still looks at me from a distance, but it's been 4 months and he still hasn't asked me out. I don't even know if I should just act like I don't give a crap (which I have been doing) or talk to him about it?
I don't try to make anyone jelous. It's not nice.
same with girls: we "only like challenges we can win."
Thanx Elliot
Best relationship video that I've ever seen😇 thank you
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days..
Text on whatapp appreciate later..
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Love you Elliot
Hey Elliot, do any of your videos apply to men over 50? 😂🤭
yes 100%
@@ElliotScottDating wellllllll......lol
Iv found so far that there's no change in most mens behaviours to 20yrs ago, so i aint expecting there ever 2b any change.🤷🏻♀️
Men over 50 shouldn‘t date around or play games like teenager
All of them. Same shit, they are still men.
Don’t date a guy name Pete 😂😂😂
Hahaha Love your message
This is true but funny too lol
lol its all too hard, no wonder I am single
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days.
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Lol
How do I email you? I'm curious to see if you can shine some light on my current situation. Which will hopefully spark a new video!
link in the video description
There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days
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Ctfu 😂😂😂you funny ash
I dated a guy named Pete 🤣
I wonder if you (a dating coach) would date a girl who knows all these (or watch your videos) or rather deal with girls who has no idea.
Yes I would
@@ElliotScottDating I like the way you answered that question... you didn't. 🤔😆
Isn’t this called obsessed if he’s doing this? Especially the social media thing? Jw
7 adds no time for that
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