*Jealousy can be challenging to deal with, especially when it's hidden. Let's apply these insights to create an atmosphere of trust and openness in our relationships.*
So, I work retail, and we have about a dozen cops who partol inside our store (due to the area we are in), 2 at a time, swapping out for different shifts. Me being a full time associate, I regularly chit-chatt with all of the cops who patrol here. There is one I have a MAJOR crush on though, and I keep wondering if he likes me too. He is very reserved, so I'm trying to pay attention to cues and body language. I have noticed that whenever he sees me talking to one of the other officers, he watches us closely, but from a distance... Looking over often, sometimes staring. One time, another officer told me that my perfume smells really good, and when I joked about that to the cop I like, he became annoyed, asking, "That conversation actually took place? How? He's been way over there!" He pointed to the other officer, currently standing 50 feet away. I explained that it happened while he was in the restroom, the other officer came over and talked to me for a few minutes. Anyway, when the cop I like questioned me, his normally calm voice suddenly changed to a very flustered and annoyed one (and louder). It made me tense up a little bit. So I decided to change the subject. But I also noticed that after that conversation, or after he sees me talking to another cop, he will ignore me for the reast of the day. Which I only talk to the others, because they are his friends, and I feel like I'm learning more about the life he lives, indirectly. But sometimes, he will wander over and strike up a conversation with the other cop about "cop stuff" that I obviously can't join in on, and lead him away from me. I'm not intentionally TRYING to hurt or upset him. I'm just saying that during casual conversations, I am noticing these things.
I am dating a man who is 20 years younger and whenever we go out with my friends, he tells me I’m not paying enough attention to him, which is not true He tells me he’s not jealous, but over the weekend we went to a social event which I ran into someone I used to date and I was talking to several other men that I knew and he got REALLY upset. We had to leave the bar, bring me home and left and hasn’t talk to me since it’s been a couple days - This is the second time it’s happened but the first time we talked through it, but he never told me that he was jealous. He just says he doesn’t feel connected. I think he’s very insecure!
For starters, he is considered your date which can give him a power to be jealous. Now if you 2 never dated, then he will have no excuse to be jealous. So yours is about dealing with your current fiance while the video title is about crushes. Technically, crushes is suppose to be people we never even dated. Now if he were to be jealous before he even become your dating partner, then that is a sign he is showing his weakness of insecurity early. Normally, anyone who starts out with crushes would not act so jealous that early but for him, he was already your dating partner. That has to be a sign your dating partner has trust issues and he is not a right person to date. Most likely a sign it is time to break up with him.
So basically, a person who is jealous clearly do not hide their obsession. They pretty much act so entitled to have you and would compete for attention. Due to their jealousy, they don't know the strategy of walking away.
I am with you. I would have no problem rejecting a person with these type of behaviors. A person who is jealous and knows they are not my fiance don't earn the right to complain about me. Especially if this comes from a person I clearly have no crush on, that person have no right to compete for my attention. Back then, I even had a married woman who would compete for my attention and would even allow her friends to play matchmaker on her behalf. This married woman refuses to admit her red flag. All I do is tell her sorry you are married. If you want me, bring your husband first. I would even dare her to compete for my attention in front of her husband knowing that she is scared to get a divorce. All she want to do is compete for my attention while keeping her husband. Her friend who wants to play matchmaker would even make excuses for her and try to convince me to take her. I know what kind of game she plays because I know that if I play this game, she will have a power to gossip about me and attempt to take credit on rejecting me. She is addicted too much on power. She claims I hate women all because she is projecting her red flags on me. She cannot handle rejection and would refused to improve her image. After watching this video, people who have this kind of behavior is clearly not good at being an introvert. They aren't good at being an introvert is because they aren't good at hiding obsession.
Aloha, Brody, thanks for the reminder of the signs and behaviors, I should let him know there's no reason for jealousy because we must have faith and trust in God in each other and most of all love and respect so these issues can be handled, however my spiritual way of making things better is to allow him to read, 1- Corinthians ch.13. I want you all to know, I will allow him to check my cellphone, it's as if it belongs to a Catholic nun!! Two thumbs 👍 up 👍 and thanks for sharing this, God bless you Bro., we love ❤you guys😊😊!!
I have a guyvwho acts this way but hes only my friend and makes me not even want to entertain the thought of us ever being more than friends
GOD will lead you to your “right person”, and will protect you along the journey. Choose Faith.
*Jealousy can be challenging to deal with, especially when it's hidden. Let's apply these insights to create an atmosphere of trust and openness in our relationships.*
So, I work retail, and we have about a dozen cops who partol inside our store (due to the area we are in), 2 at a time, swapping out for different shifts. Me being a full time associate, I regularly chit-chatt with all of the cops who patrol here. There is one I have a MAJOR crush on though, and I keep wondering if he likes me too. He is very reserved, so I'm trying to pay attention to cues and body language. I have noticed that whenever he sees me talking to one of the other officers, he watches us closely, but from a distance... Looking over often, sometimes staring. One time, another officer told me that my perfume smells really good, and when I joked about that to the cop I like, he became annoyed, asking, "That conversation actually took place? How? He's been way over there!" He pointed to the other officer, currently standing 50 feet away. I explained that it happened while he was in the restroom, the other officer came over and talked to me for a few minutes. Anyway, when the cop I like questioned me, his normally calm voice suddenly changed to a very flustered and annoyed one (and louder). It made me tense up a little bit. So I decided to change the subject. But I also noticed that after that conversation, or after he sees me talking to another cop, he will ignore me for the reast of the day. Which I only talk to the others, because they are his friends, and I feel like I'm learning more about the life he lives, indirectly. But sometimes, he will wander over and strike up a conversation with the other cop about "cop stuff" that I obviously can't join in on, and lead him away from me. I'm not intentionally TRYING to hurt or upset him. I'm just saying that during casual conversations, I am noticing these things.
I am dating a man who is 20 years younger and whenever we go out with my friends, he tells me I’m not paying enough attention to him, which is not true
He tells me he’s not jealous, but over the weekend we went to a social event which I ran into someone I used to date and I was talking to several other men that I knew and he got REALLY upset. We had to leave the bar, bring me home and left and hasn’t talk to me since it’s been a couple days -
This is the second time it’s happened but the first time we talked through it, but he never told me that he was jealous. He just says he doesn’t feel connected.
I think he’s very insecure!
For starters, he is considered your date which can give him a power to be jealous. Now if you 2 never dated, then he will have no excuse to be jealous. So yours is about dealing with your current fiance while the video title is about crushes. Technically, crushes is suppose to be people we never even dated. Now if he were to be jealous before he even become your dating partner, then that is a sign he is showing his weakness of insecurity early. Normally, anyone who starts out with crushes would not act so jealous that early but for him, he was already your dating partner. That has to be a sign your dating partner has trust issues and he is not a right person to date. Most likely a sign it is time to break up with him.
So basically, a person who is jealous clearly do not hide their obsession. They pretty much act so entitled to have you and would compete for attention. Due to their jealousy, they don't know the strategy of walking away.
My ex has constantly bringing the conflict 😂especially when i was with my gym coach whom he got jealous of
wow, my ex did almost every single thing in this video to me
How do i stop this?
I don't tolerate these signs from anybody,its a very bad sign of danger
I am with you. I would have no problem rejecting a person with these type of behaviors. A person who is jealous and knows they are not my fiance don't earn the right to complain about me. Especially if this comes from a person I clearly have no crush on, that person have no right to compete for my attention. Back then, I even had a married woman who would compete for my attention and would even allow her friends to play matchmaker on her behalf. This married woman refuses to admit her red flag. All I do is tell her sorry you are married. If you want me, bring your husband first. I would even dare her to compete for my attention in front of her husband knowing that she is scared to get a divorce. All she want to do is compete for my attention while keeping her husband. Her friend who wants to play matchmaker would even make excuses for her and try to convince me to take her. I know what kind of game she plays because I know that if I play this game, she will have a power to gossip about me and attempt to take credit on rejecting me. She is addicted too much on power. She claims I hate women all because she is projecting her red flags on me. She cannot handle rejection and would refused to improve her image. After watching this video, people who have this kind of behavior is clearly not good at being an introvert. They aren't good at being an introvert is because they aren't good at hiding obsession.
Good information
I've never experienced these things.
Wow, had no idea about Most of them... So, then, how (& when) would a partner respond to those behaviors?
Please advise...with thanks.
Is it possible that when he is jealous he may like a video of another woman dancing just to provoke my jealousy?
Wow my ex must have been really jealous😁
Aloha, Brody, thanks for the reminder of the signs and behaviors, I should let him know there's no reason for jealousy because we must have faith and trust in God in each other and most of all love and respect so these issues can be handled, however my spiritual way of making things better is to allow him to read, 1- Corinthians ch.13. I want you all to know, I will allow him to check my cellphone, it's as if it belongs to a Catholic nun!! Two thumbs 👍 up 👍 and thanks for sharing this, God bless you Bro., we love ❤you guys😊😊!!
Being sour when he calls you and you already in another call ( he is just friend)😂
Jealousy from guys is normal but excessive..... NO NO NO. THE JEALOUS SPIRIT WILL KILL. IT ALWAYS DOES.