@@janellmdthey can be with someone else and still be thinking about you lol. The amount of stories of people that married or dating a new person but secretly still wanting their ex is crazy . But it’s more likely if you have genuinely moved on
when we shower them with too much love ,they play u weak . control ur emotions . it is sad that to keep them in love , u need to distance a lot from them but it is so necessary ,the moment u show attention out of love , u loose them because they take u for granted. this repeats in cycle . till u don't learnt their pattern .
Giving space is about NOT being dependent on any human! God is the only one we should rely on. Having another human is the icing on the cake but just know your happiness does NOT lie in another!!!!
@@Ilovebeauty513 I pray for your supernatural encounter with God as well!!! May He bring you the truth that you didn’t know your soul needed! Blessings to you!
No contact is truly for yourself so you can get clarity. You will truly understand what this relationship really meant to you. But then it elevates the relationship with YOURSELF!!!
Alex!! i been watching you since 2016/2017 when you started with a matress on the floor w no tshirt on in your boxers in an empty ahhh room, lmao... or in your moms/grandmas bedroom/house... some of my favorite videos are the ones where youre walking in the NY streets to or from the bodega it felt like i was chillin w you walking... or when you were in the park recording and you can hear the sounds of the inner city the park and the trees were bloomin it was a chefs kiss... or when you were just getting blasted talking that game, i was right there hitting on one with you, it felt like you were talking just to me like a big brother!! watching you literally helped me thru some dark times 🥺🙏🏼 ty father alex Sincerely, Your biggest freeloader ❤
This!! ❤ LOL biggest Freeloader had me in Fits!! After lots of others, he tells you the reasons the human nature. The Why. Very wise and real talk! I wanna go to the Bodega!! Xoxo So. California
I have been following since the exact time you gave my brother. I can’t find the words to describe how close I felt to Alex brother. And every single detail you have provided I was there with you. I have learned so much. God bless you. Also I am having a little tough time at the moment keep me guys in your prayers ❤love you all
Soon as you start becoming iffy or moving sideways im out. And i might not be there when you try coming back. I always warn them, dont play with me but they take it as a joke til im gone.
Matrix workers play with the brain all day. They live for that. Why warn them? At this point they are well aware of what they are doing so just make the decision for them. The longer you go tit for tat you will be stuck on stupid. Allow them to play with others who do that to multiples.
I do he always end up in my door step, the last two times he takes longer and longer to show up. It’s two months today he looked for me for 3weeks and stop contacting me, if it’s meant to be it will be,
I absolutely love your channel. I love your straightforwardness n facial expressions. When you spoke about Melissa the mom n you swung that stick inconjuction with your facial expression i was laughing hysterically. I rewinded it several times. Too funny. You give amazing advise. Thank you for sharing your knowledge .
aww alex your words are killing me , “ You will be the only thought that could give color to his world “ aww this is prob one of the most romantic statement i’ve ever heard or read lol , you are both intellectually and emotionally gifted
I’m 31 and I’ve been alone since I was 15 when I Broke my back. The isolation is worse than the injury could ever be. I rly long for deep connections though. Shallow connections seem to emphasize loneliness.
I broke up last year and I'm still in no contact, yet he start adding me on my new account, i still ignore it. NO CONTACT FOREVER , IM GOOD NOW ❤ -Thank you Father Alex 🙏🏻
Alex ur soo smart, I met a guy recently he has few of these traits. He wants to smother me he doesn’t want me to leave his side. I had to end this relationship
Hey Alex I heard you say Solitary confinement and 😂 that is where my parents got my name from... Being born premature and the only baby to be placed in an incubator (3 months of alone time). I'm used to being alone however I'm never lonely. Appreciate your content I came across you this weekend. Much ❤❤❤
Ex situation did that on me because I felt like I was settling. I ended up an alcoholic and lost 3 kilos and was on the verge of being underweight. I eventually had enough and walked away. There has to be a middle ground of inflicting pain.
Please do a video about the spells 🪄, I would love to hear your thoughts 💭 on love spellls, the occult etc. and the dangers of such things. Por favor 🙏🏽 Father Alex! Much love from Toronto 🍁🥂
Question: in the beginning, when you aren't around a lot and he starts filling in the blanks and making you larger than life....when they have you in front of them again do all of the illusions shatter? Or does the fact that they crystalized their vision of you make it stick?
Okay this caught me off guard. Yes he is mistreating me but seems im the controlling one as I genuinely cannot handle absence 🥺 I’m manipulative as it turns out by watching this video. Does that mean he is on the right to treat me sometimes badly or to not respect me? Could this be the consequences of me trying to be controlling and insecure? 😅 Think I fucked up big time in all 3 of my relationships. Always blamed them although they wanted to build with me, and I sort of used that leverage to control them. What bullshit. Please make video on how to build innate confidence. I sometimes feel I’m so unworthy. No matter how much people tell me I’m beautiful i’m a mental replica of my dad. now realising i’m very ladylike physically but wired like a man 😢 I feel very shitty after this video lol thx father alex for always making me retrospect and observe myself
You're very welcome, I play it myself along with the other background music Alex sometimes uses, that is the first movement of Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata. I personally find both pieces to be very soothing without being too miserable. Hope this helps.
What does it mean when an Ex is still posting subliminals obviously geared towards you… after 7 months No Contact. Well he contacted me a couple times but I ignored it because it wasn’t an apology
@@nostalgic_xo We are all human and to shame someone on a platform geared towards helping women, is very un-empathetic and disingenuous. Many people still get curious, and have weak moments and relapses in our healing journey. It’s not abnormal, feelings don’t just “go away” when someone becomes an ex. I have made great strides in my healing journey, I emotionally relapse around holidays & special days. I had not checked months… got curious and scrolled down & see he has been subbing me for months. I’m still in No Contact which is progress. You are on of those people who are narcissistic and I hope you are living in your KARMA everyday!
@@nostalgic_xo To shame someone on channel geared towards helping women is very unempathic and disingenuous. It’s normal to have emotional relapse in our healing journey, just because someone is ex doesn’t mean all feelings go away. I don’t stalk his social and haven’t for c months. I get weak around holidays and special days so I got curious and checked. I have made it far in my healing journey and it’s important to give people grace for being human. Its normal to still check an exes social media. I have made great strides and progress. You’re sick and narcissistic
To all the people liking that insensitive comment by @nostalgic_xo . Your lack of empathy is why youre single and never find love. You on these videos for reason! Obviously dating not going to well.
@@ceyciemateo9411 It's likely he has doubts or curiosity and wants to preserve his ego and baits you to chase instead. Don't do it, keep doing great with NC and if he has enough determination and feelings, he will come to you with the right energy and offer.
If he was alone okay but he’s entertaining himself with the girl he left for! Ps we were together for 16 years, he was cheating for 2 yrs now he’s living with the side chick
I'm so sorry! That's a shitty situation. May you find healing and a partner you deserve. Sounds like his side piece took out your trash and it'll likely turn out to be your blessing.
It's a manipulation tactic that's over played. Sometimes it's real sometimes its staged. People wanna get attention from ex lovers. It's so predictable that everyone is literally mimicking this "upgrade."
I love your content. And I don’t think it resonates for a lot of people. Some of ppl if you apply this technique, its gonna be useless. They might have mentality of out of sight out of mind. They might have tendencies of avoidance. They might just jump to next person and didn’t feel a thing. My take is, be careful of taking online advice cause you might caught yourself guilt tripping yourselves and gaslighting yourselves to the point lying to yourselves. If you need some kind of mind game just to make someone see you, you are already half way obsessed towards the other person. Mind games is for sick n weak individuals. Mindful people stay true to their inner believes.
Ladies, he knows hes mistreating you. Go no contact forever.
But then why he on the internet playing the victim , after 6 months no contact
@@ceyciemateo9411 he isn't man enough for you or husband material if hes acting this way
@@ceyciemateo9411so he can lure new victims by making you look like the bad guy lol
Not no contact. I’m currently in a no contact, it’s been weeks and feels like years. He is sooo right!
💯🙌🙏
Men fall in love in our absence - you are spot on.
But how… when they move on to someone else?
And what’s crazy is that if you’re dumb enough to go back, the abuse will be 10 times worse 😐.
But does it work a second or third time?
@@janellmdthey can be with someone else and still be thinking about you lol. The amount of stories of people that married or dating a new person but secretly still wanting their ex is crazy . But it’s more likely if you have genuinely moved on
@@DomesticAbuseSurvivor55well it doesn‘t always end because of abuse. my ex never abused me. we just grow apart
when we shower them with too much love ,they play u weak . control ur emotions . it is sad that to keep them in love , u need to distance a lot from them but it is so necessary ,the moment u show attention out of love , u loose them because they take u for granted. this repeats in cycle . till u don't learnt their pattern .
Giving space is about NOT being dependent on any human! God is the only one we should rely on. Having another human is the icing on the cake but just know your happiness does NOT lie in another!!!!
what a comment
Your happiness doesn't rely on an invisible sky-ghost creature either. There's no gods
There isn’t a god
@@Ilovebeauty513 I pray for your supernatural encounter with God as well!!! May He bring you the truth that you didn’t know your soul needed! Blessings to you!
🎯
No contact is truly for yourself so you can get clarity. You will truly understand what this relationship really meant to you. But then it elevates the relationship with YOURSELF!!!
Alex!! i been watching you since 2016/2017 when you started with a matress on the floor w no tshirt on in your boxers in an empty ahhh room, lmao... or in your moms/grandmas bedroom/house... some of my favorite videos are the ones where youre walking in the NY streets to or from the bodega it felt like i was chillin w you walking... or when you were in the park recording and you can hear the sounds of the inner city the park and the trees were bloomin it was a chefs kiss... or when you were just getting blasted talking that game, i was right there hitting on one with you, it felt like you were talking just to me like a big brother!! watching you literally helped me thru some dark times 🥺🙏🏼 ty father alex
Sincerely,
Your biggest freeloader ❤
This!! ❤❤
Lol yes love his point of view. He’s amazing.
This!! ❤ LOL biggest Freeloader had me in Fits!!
After lots of others, he tells you the reasons the human nature. The Why. Very wise and real talk! I wanna go to the Bodega!! Xoxo So. California
Fadda Alex is like a cool cousin you can talk to about anything. ❤
I have been following since the exact time you gave my brother. I can’t find the words to describe how close I felt to Alex brother. And every single detail you have provided I was there with you. I have learned so much. God bless you. Also I am having a little tough time at the moment keep me guys in your prayers ❤love you all
Soon as you start becoming iffy or moving sideways im out. And i might not be there when you try coming back. I always warn them, dont play with me but they take it as a joke til im gone.
Bingo!
Matrix workers play with the brain all day. They live for that. Why warn them? At this point they are well aware of what they are doing so just make the decision for them. The longer you go tit for tat you will be stuck on stupid. Allow them to play with others who do that to multiples.
Exactly!
Never going back to my ex
I’m so glad I’m over mine.
This 🙌
Never go back to vomit they say fact!
Saame.
Never ❤
Just unfriended that fool today. 🤷🏼♀️
Good for you!! You’ll be alright.
Lmaoooo
Same,what a cow
👏👏👏
this video is much deeper than I thought it would be. It made me rethink my life 😅
Yea, definitely gonna re-watch it myself! 😢
He only want me when I'm not there.
Dismissive Avoidant. Look it up and definitely just move on. It’s best.
He better call Becky with the good hair
@vilavilla33 see, you know.
He has mental problems. You def don’t want that.
the white color is suiting you very well father Alex😮
Ghost his azz sometimes 😩🤣🤣😂
I do he always end up in my door step, the last two times he takes longer and longer to show up. It’s two months today he looked for me for 3weeks and stop contacting me, if it’s meant to be it will be,
Omg I lost it when you whipped your pointer in the air and lost it. Love you, excellent video!
This is what he does to me naturally and it’s working on me…but it’s because he has lots of options and refuses to commit to anyone 😩
This part
You are the only one they will ever commit to 😊
They refuse to commit til their old, sick or nonfunctional and nobody wants them anymore..then they wanna commit to anyone walking smh
Why are you putting your life on hold? You are single.
The stick went flying lol
Came right on time to get my mind right❤
I’m addicted to your videos 😢
This was your best one so far
Thank you so much! I really needed this video
Wait this course break down sounds legit!! Definitely will be pre-ordering! Keep up the great work A
I absolutely love your channel. I love your straightforwardness n facial expressions. When you spoke about Melissa the mom n you swung that stick inconjuction with your facial expression i was laughing hysterically. I rewinded it several times. Too funny. You give amazing advise. Thank you for sharing your knowledge .
aww alex your words are killing me ,
“ You will be the only thought that could give color to his world “
aww this is prob one of the most romantic statement i’ve ever heard or read lol , you are both intellectually and emotionally gifted
Yes I’m going through it he ghosted me I’m so broken hearted . Going completely silent !!!
I love your content ❤ you be putting me on game
This resonates, thanks again for the wisdom and food for thought. It has been extremely helpful-Thanks Father Alex for another great sermon 😅
Love the Tyrone and Melissa references they always get me chuckling 😅❤
Why are your videos always relevant to my life
That stick almost got you😂😂
I think this is my confirmation!! Amen 🙌🏽
Preaching on this one 🔥🔥
Looking great Dalex❤
thanks alex for feeding my delulu
I’m 31 and I’ve been alone since I was 15 when I Broke my back. The isolation is worse than the injury could ever be. I rly long for deep connections though. Shallow connections seem to emphasize loneliness.
I broke up last year and I'm still in no contact, yet he start adding me on my new account, i still ignore it. NO CONTACT FOREVER , IM GOOD NOW
❤
-Thank you Father Alex 🙏🏻
Thank you 🫶🏼
I hope so , although it was a short lived situationship , but he hurt me, I’m pretty awesome .. he’s a loser his loss but I really hope so
Really good video! So psykological and on point
Alex ur soo smart, I met a guy recently he has few of these traits. He wants to smother me he doesn’t want me to leave his side. I had to end this relationship
Hey Alex
I heard you say Solitary confinement and 😂 that is where my parents got my name from...
Being born premature and the only baby to be placed in an incubator (3 months of alone time).
I'm used to being alone however I'm never lonely.
Appreciate your content I came across you this weekend.
Much ❤❤❤
Ex situation did that on me because I felt like I was settling. I ended up an alcoholic and lost 3 kilos and was on the verge of being underweight. I eventually had enough and walked away. There has to be a middle ground of inflicting pain.
Father Alex lookin so fine today
Show people more of ya paintings and do show on painting just a idea...and show people more on ya book club side love roxi finch uk ❤🎉
🥰❤️ Thank You
Shared love Roxi Finch ❤🎉 uk
Thank you
So many man after broke up they will meet someone else and get married with them after few months how is that possible 😢
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Ha. Good analogy.
The echo on the dog note 😂…. Subliminal
I enjoing the most, when this stick gets out of your hand&breaks in half each time😂
Watch that stick there😂😂
The girls channel is crazy😂
What’s the men’s channel called?? Lmao
I believe it’s called mindful seduction.
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358mindful seduction lol
Man, he must've wanted to punish that kid himself 😅
Please do a video about the spells 🪄, I would love to hear your thoughts 💭 on love spellls, the occult etc. and the dangers of such things. Por favor 🙏🏽 Father Alex!
Much love from Toronto 🍁🥂
this. ⬆️
Only dangerous if you believe in it
It’s all fake. Go on with your life. Be yourself.
Yes pls be careful of that stick Al. ! this is so interesting and informative hav to watch few times..
Question: in the beginning, when you aren't around a lot and he starts filling in the blanks and making you larger than life....when they have you in front of them again do all of the illusions shatter? Or does the fact that they crystalized their vision of you make it stick?
Exactly my question
Alex!!! We have questions that need answers. I wanna know too lol
I love you Alex you're the best
Okay this caught me off guard. Yes he is mistreating me but seems im the controlling one as I genuinely cannot handle absence 🥺 I’m manipulative as it turns out by watching this video. Does that mean he is on the right to treat me sometimes badly or to not respect me? Could this be the consequences of me trying to be controlling and insecure? 😅
Think I fucked up big time in all 3 of my relationships. Always blamed them although they wanted to build with me, and I sort of used that leverage to control them. What bullshit. Please make video on how to build innate confidence. I sometimes feel I’m so unworthy. No matter how much people tell me I’m beautiful i’m a mental replica of my dad. now realising i’m very ladylike physically but wired like a man 😢 I feel very shitty after this video lol thx father alex for always making me retrospect and observe myself
You need to go through therapy (Jesus is the only therapy that ever worked for me- no brainwash no bs .)
Is this like the phantom ex??
Hi
What’s the background music?
Thank You So Much for your love and light 🎉
Satie, Gymnopédie #1.
@@Challenger2A7 Thank you so much ❤️
You're very welcome, I play it myself along with the other background music Alex sometimes uses, that is the first movement of Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata. I personally find both pieces to be very soothing without being too miserable. Hope this helps.
Omg please do a video about spells!
Who said I was going to make a video about spells? 🤔🤨
@MindfulAttraction2.0 gotta read all your comments. A commentator suggested it
@@MindfulAttraction2.0😂😂😂
I 👍🏾 💯
My absent did not disturb my ex he was happy he got married had a bady I don't think he miss me .
Wow
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all hail father alex
What does it mean when an Ex is still posting subliminals obviously geared towards you… after 7 months No Contact. Well he contacted me a couple times but I ignored it because it wasn’t an apology
It means you've been stalking his social media too much lmao he's your ex, why do you ou care?
@@nostalgic_xo
We are all human and to shame someone on a platform geared towards helping women, is very un-empathetic and disingenuous. Many people still get curious, and have weak moments and relapses in our healing journey. It’s not abnormal, feelings don’t just “go away” when someone becomes an ex. I have made great strides in my healing journey, I emotionally relapse around holidays & special days. I had not checked months… got curious and scrolled down & see he has been subbing me for months. I’m still in No Contact which is progress. You are on of those people who are narcissistic and I hope you are living in your KARMA everyday!
@@nostalgic_xo To shame someone on channel geared towards helping women is very unempathic and disingenuous. It’s normal to have emotional relapse in our healing journey, just because someone is ex doesn’t mean all feelings go away. I don’t stalk his social and haven’t for c months. I get weak around holidays and special days so I got curious and checked. I have made it far in my healing journey and it’s important to give people grace for being human. Its normal to still check an exes social media. I have made great strides and progress. You’re sick and narcissistic
To all the people liking that insensitive comment by @nostalgic_xo . Your lack of empathy is why youre single and never find love. You on these videos for reason! Obviously dating not going to well.
@@ceyciemateo9411 It's likely he has doubts or curiosity and wants to preserve his ego and baits you to chase instead. Don't do it, keep doing great with NC and if he has enough determination and feelings, he will come to you with the right energy and offer.
👌
A guy who asks loads and loads of questions- is he attempting to seduce me? People are too self centred to give a sh@t about others.
dalexis, ur not supposed to be away from your partner. when ur with someone, ur making a new family, ur.making a team.
14:16 😅😂🤣
my dad passed last year 😢
Sorry to hear that 😔
Sending big love💚
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 ❤️
@@auroraxxfacekilla49 ❤️
I’m 💯percent sure it isn’t…but it’s ok! Buh bye 👋
If he was alone okay but he’s entertaining himself with the girl he left for! Ps we were together for 16 years, he was cheating for 2 yrs now he’s living with the side chick
I'm so sorry! That's a shitty situation. May you find healing and a partner you deserve. Sounds like his side piece took out your trash and it'll likely turn out to be your blessing.
How do I block this bs 'i bought a microphone so I can pretend to be an expert' sheeeeeetttttttt
Enjoy my absence
What if they look like their enjoing their single life and dont care,?
You do the same.
It's a manipulation tactic that's over played. Sometimes it's real sometimes its staged. People wanna get attention from ex lovers. It's so predictable that everyone is literally mimicking this "upgrade."
@@Erica-cf1xb he saw me and two days later he knew i went to nyc i guess he didnt like it so he went out and posted a grl on his lap on his ig story
you are so cute 🙂
Why do u never get a trim respectfully
I love your content. And I don’t think it resonates for a lot of people. Some of ppl if you apply this technique, its gonna be useless. They might have mentality of out of sight out of mind. They might have tendencies of avoidance. They might just jump to next person and didn’t feel a thing.
My take is, be careful of taking online advice cause you might caught yourself guilt tripping yourselves and gaslighting yourselves to the point lying to yourselves. If you need some kind of mind game just to make someone see you, you are already half way obsessed towards the other person.
Mind games is for sick n weak individuals. Mindful people stay true to their inner believes.
Ion think so , he quiet af
Dude is rambling at this point
So are you a narcissist if you actually validate yourself in every way and don’t need other people? I’m concerned.
No need to be concerned LOL. Usually narcissism comes with a lack of empathy. And a lack of self-awareness. A lack of accountability.
Is two months of no contact enough lol 💔
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check ur doctor for jaundice ur eyes and skin are a little yellow get your liver checked out ASAP
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