I remember when I broken up with my boyfriend and moved out of state. I thought we were done. We still talked bc it's hard to let go when you've invested so much time and soul into but I didn't think anything more was going to come to it. One day he told me he needed to know my address bc he wanted to deliver me a present, I told him my address. A few hours later he surprised me in the front yard. He drove 500 miles for me. Afterwards we realized we still wanted to be together and moved back to him. 🖤
U know mine ex did the same he asked me the address the same way i guess these are some tricky phrases and tricky actions that guys use to get access of girls!! But we women need to know that we should never give a way where any boy could disrespect a girl! Today i told him am deleting my number & changing my address he asked me my address but i didn't tell him cuz am so done with him i know i hve realized it after soo long i wasted my soul,energy,time and emotions on him after 6 years even though am a lonely person living in worst criteria but now i know my value as being a Human as being a Girl!!! Lesson Learned.. "Never give access to ur body..respect.. time or whatever the risk is.. to boys even to the ones u love before they commit to u in front of everyone" 💖
I would not have been born if if my dad has not missed my mum after they broke up as a young couple (she threw plates at him, he said ''I can't deal with this'', she said ''fine'' and moved on. Some time went by and he called her, drove across the country to get her at her sister's house, and the rest is history. He missed her crazy ass.
Comes back? If he abandons you - you block him. If he comes back - you're just an option, not a priority. He would never leave if he thought about you as his potential girlfriend.
There is only one real way to make someone miss you and that is to pull back entirely. That goes for both men and women, that being said if you play that game with a man who knows the game it'll just work against you.
I agree. I have been watching quite a few of these videos from a couple people on YT. My recurring thought is: This is a lot of rules, and do's and don'ts. I think I will just have confidence, be myself, and live life. Done deal.
Unless it’s a Taurus you are dealing with I don’t recommend no contact with a Taurus especially if you want them ... they will not budge you can do no communication for a year block them everything if you do that the relationship is over because a Taurus will miss the hell out of you but you ‘ll never know it because they will NOT budge at all and will just move on
Interesting to note. Taurus' tends to like physical things, presence etc. It would depend on what else is in the person's chart as well. Edit: Missed a little word.
Hey Elliot I wanna say your videos were always great and straight to the point, but somehow they got even better. I click on a vid worried and leave it with morę confidence, love your energy !
I really enjoyed seeing him forward thinking not only inside of the chosen topic of the day, but also globally. Like, did you notice how he was suddenly aware of the possibly eternal life of the digital material and he made clear what he was referring to in his "toilet paper crisis" segment? That was really making history right there. Also, I thought about triggers and it really makes a difference. Because in my on and off relationship before splitting up periodically, I would always cry while talking for some reason, like, actually tearing up during conversation. I don't know, maybe I was ovulating or something, and he would always do something to help me come into harmony again and we would just end up having sex. And he even said it once to me, when we were back together again, that anytime he would see a girl emotional and on the verge of crying, like, in movies or on the knews, he would think of me and get a little turned on. And so, maybe, that became a trigger to him? I don't know, really. I just remember how I was so much into reading fairytales of the nations of the world before sleep and he would always forget the next day and I would tell him the story again in my words and almost always crying. Because strangely, there's something about reliving a story to your loved one, that makes it that much personal. Especially when the fairytales are about being unfaithful and having to disguise oneself and those about sullen destiny. I was really obsessed with reading those to him, but also now I find that I might have gained myself a trigger, too. I connect reading fairytales to being with him. I'm sure you can tell that we are no longer together now. And at this point, I don't know if we're ever getting back together, like ever. Because we broke up before social distancing and not one of us contacted the other on the phone once, only just small little texts here and there to stay merely in touch. I don't know, what this is a sign of for us as a couple. Maybe, those are the last drops of our relationship. Anyway, I'm still missing him right now.
Hey Elliot - at 3:21 I think ya meant DEstress & not Distress. Ain't nuthin' but a chickin' wing, just thought I'd let you know. This WHOLE ENTIRE video is honestly I hate to admit it - but soo true for me!! Some apply now and some apply to past relationships, but I have experienced EVERY SINGLE ONE of these. This really freaking opened my eyes...😌🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Just got here so I haven't watched it yet. I'm starting it RIGHT NOW THOUGH ELLIOT! 👏🏻👌🏻😚😂 Just had to comment early. Hope you're doing well!! As always- I love your freakin' videos!! I click on 'em SOOOOO FAST!! 😂 Cheers! 😁☀️🤗🔥👼💖☯️☪️☦️✌🏻️❤️😇🙏🏻🌌🌠💓🥰👍🏻🤛🏻💯🏆🥇💁🏻♂️ YOUR ADVICE & VIDS ARE EVVVVV-ERYYYYY---THIIIIINNNGG❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Rather interesting to learn about the male psyche. Your channel seems interesting! Are you able to do a video on a particular question I’ve got please? Unless there is a similar video of yours you would recommend? Long story short, I am in the process of dating and I am looking for a relationship. I have gone through the “fun sex” stage and I am ready for a serious relationship where I am looking forward to develop and learn new things about myself and grow as an individual with my partner (whoever that will be). What is the most important shift in character that is changed from being single to being in a relationship? I’d love to hear your opinion on this. It wouldn’t be all about me now so what major changes would I need to make when I am in a relationship? Thank you New subscriber!
A B EEEE!!❣️❣️💓☯️🙏🏻🌌🌠☪️❤️😇🤗 Crazy how SOOOOO MANY of Elliot's videos I say that about omg!! 💯💯💯👌🏻👍🏻🙋🏻♀️😚🙌🏻 Lol Cheers to you A B!!! I hope you and yours are staying well and healthy mate!! 😁☀️✌🏻️🙏🏻👼✨🙌🏻👍🏻
I think you are awesome !! I made a mess to clean up a mess. Would love to have a session with you .. I have grown so much these past 2 years. Could you please message me and let me know how much a session is.
When pulling away from the guy, what if you're living with the guy or married to him. Please do a video on this topic. U are wonderful, truly, but all your videos are for beginning dating.
So God help the couples who r married &/or just 4live together if most guys cant handle u being too ubundant & available... huh 😕🙃😟 i may as well just give up right now. In fact I think I will. DONE! 👋🏼 to being in love 👋🏼
Nothing. Men want nothing but sex these days, and they don’t have the morality to just go to a prostitute sad not pollute the dating pool of women who are dying for a decent relationship.
@Elliot- So I broke up with my bf for shit I found on his phone and cuz I went through his phone he ghosted me for a week…but today he came back on his own and yeah we hooked up. But my question is from this point on aside from not giving it up what can I do to ensure he keeps interest in only me etc?
What sucks is this one dude that I would like to come back around, I work with him. So I don't text him or anything but he will try talking to me at work and I'm friendly. I feel like I should just ignore him.😂
What happens if this is happening but he sees me everyday because l work for him So l can regain back everything Because l can't pull away because of work. So how l can him stop take me for granted.
Communicate your standards. Do not be afraid of losing the wrong guy. After approaching him about meeting more than once a week, if he doesn't care about your standards please move on. You deserve better, so go for it.
Elliott I need a session with you. I have a guy I've been seeing he love bomb me to death in the beginning . Then started missing in action every weekend then I pulled away and he would chase me it's still going on .when he thinks I'm gone he future fake with me then when I lean in he disappear . I feel crazy🥺😱🤯😲😣Help
Vanessa257888 if he only wanted to have sex and you said no I think he will not text you, maybe he don’t have others options.. but he continue talk to you, casual texting it’s better then flirting ,so I think you can answer him and see how he behave, then you can pull away. 3 dates it’s not so many, guys only wants sex from the beginning..
Really need a phone session before I ruin something I’m pretty sure might be from all your videos a real thing ... or may be from ALL your videos a waist of his time .. I mean mine .. lol
I remember when I broken up with my boyfriend and moved out of state. I thought we were done. We still talked bc it's hard to let go when you've invested so much time and soul into but I didn't think anything more was going to come to it. One day he told me he needed to know my address bc he wanted to deliver me a present, I told him my address. A few hours later he surprised me in the front yard. He drove 500 miles for me. Afterwards we realized we still wanted to be together and moved back to him. 🖤
thank you
So sweet! Surely then your love song has to be "I Would Drive 500 Miles"
@@handelnuremberg8757 I love that song❤️ lol
Aww. I’m so happy for you. I hope you guys are still going strong. ❤️
U know mine ex did the same he asked me the address the same way i guess these are some tricky phrases and tricky actions that guys use to get access of girls!! But we women need to know that we should never give a way where any boy could disrespect a girl! Today i told him am deleting my number & changing my address he asked me my address but i didn't tell him cuz am so done with him i know i hve realized it after soo long i wasted my soul,energy,time and emotions on him after 6 years even though am a lonely person living in worst criteria but now i know my value as being a Human as being a Girl!!! Lesson Learned.. "Never give access to ur body..respect.. time or whatever the risk is.. to boys even to the ones u love before they commit to u in front of everyone" 💖
I would not have been born if if my dad has not missed my mum after they broke up as a young couple (she threw plates at him, he said ''I can't deal with this'', she said ''fine'' and moved on. Some time went by and he called her, drove across the country to get her at her sister's house, and the rest is history. He missed her crazy ass.
😂😂😂
Comes back? If he abandons you - you block him. If he comes back - you're just an option, not a priority. He would never leave if he thought about you as his potential girlfriend.
Thats not always true .. but yeah many times it is😉
“He just doesn’t f**kin’ like you!” 🤣🤣🤣 you’re awesome Elliot, there’s no way to misunderstand what you’re putting down 😁. Love your channel 👌🖤
Lmfao I love it
He is too raw and honest😂😂
There is only one real way to make someone miss you and that is to pull back entirely. That goes for both men and women, that being said if you play that game with a man who knows the game it'll just work against you.
I agree. I have been watching quite a few of these videos from a couple people on YT. My recurring thought is: This is a lot of rules, and do's and don'ts. I think I will just have confidence, be myself, and live life. Done deal.
I don’t agree if you do this to a woman.
Unless it’s a Taurus you are dealing with I don’t recommend no contact with a Taurus especially if you want them ... they will not budge you can do no communication for a year block them everything if you do that the relationship is over because a Taurus will miss the hell out of you but you ‘ll never know it because they will NOT budge at all and will just move on
Interesting to note. Taurus' tends to like physical things, presence etc. It would depend on what else is in the person's chart as well.
Edit: Missed a little word.
I’m a Taurus and this is accurate lol
LibraLady nior my Venus is in Taurus. This is exactly how I respond on breakups
A Taurus is no match for a Scorpio
Im a taurus and this is so true!no matter how we love or miss the person.if were done,its totally over.
Find something to do, have fun, forget about that guy and enjoy your life with friends family that’s it.
Elliott, the problem with women is that we are much more hard wired to attach, that's why we can overlook all the negative things and stay with Dbags.
Agreed!
Cut him off high and dry and block all mutual friends and family. He will feel that burn for sure!
SpiritualWhistleblower yes l did it last month it was hard and I cried but I’m glad I did 💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ... I feel like myself again
Hey Elliot I wanna say your videos were always great and straight to the point, but somehow they got even better.
I click on a vid worried and leave it with morę confidence, love your energy !
Always GREAT content !! My fave dating coach ❤️😊
Wow, thank you!
I really enjoyed seeing him forward thinking not only inside of the chosen topic of the day, but also globally. Like, did you notice how he was suddenly aware of the possibly eternal life of the digital material and he made clear what he was referring to in his "toilet paper crisis" segment? That was really making history right there. Also, I thought about triggers and it really makes a difference. Because in my on and off relationship before splitting up periodically, I would always cry while talking for some reason, like, actually tearing up during conversation. I don't know, maybe I was ovulating or something, and he would always do something to help me come into harmony again and we would just end up having sex. And he even said it once to me, when we were back together again, that anytime he would see a girl emotional and on the verge of crying, like, in movies or on the knews, he would think of me and get a little turned on. And so, maybe, that became a trigger to him? I don't know, really. I just remember how I was so much into reading fairytales of the nations of the world before sleep and he would always forget the next day and I would tell him the story again in my words and almost always crying. Because strangely, there's something about reliving a story to your loved one, that makes it that much personal. Especially when the fairytales are about being unfaithful and having to disguise oneself and those about sullen destiny. I was really obsessed with reading those to him, but also now I find that I might have gained myself a trigger, too. I connect reading fairytales to being with him. I'm sure you can tell that we are no longer together now. And at this point, I don't know if we're ever getting back together, like ever. Because we broke up before social distancing and not one of us contacted the other on the phone once, only just small little texts here and there to stay merely in touch. I don't know, what this is a sign of for us as a couple. Maybe, those are the last drops of our relationship. Anyway, I'm still missing him right now.
I love your 'tough love' style. Hard to listen to, but so wise.......
Alex & you are my favs dating coaches. Kisses from Parawhy 🇵🇾
Omg, the timing on this vid is perfect. my ex wants to date again and claims he misses doing simple things with me. I'm getting a migraine.....lol....
You are so welcome
@@ElliotScottDating thank you, stay safe.
Hey Elliot - at 3:21 I think ya meant DEstress & not Distress. Ain't nuthin' but a chickin' wing, just thought I'd let you know.
This WHOLE ENTIRE video is honestly I hate to admit it - but soo true for me!! Some apply now and some apply to past relationships, but I have experienced EVERY SINGLE ONE of these. This really freaking opened my eyes...😌🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
yea you right my bad I wrote this quick ha
Your PowerPoint visuals are always the best 💯😻
Everyone, this works. Never chase a man. Pull the fuck away, live your life and let him see it.
Just got here so I haven't watched it yet. I'm starting it RIGHT NOW THOUGH ELLIOT! 👏🏻👌🏻😚😂 Just had to comment early. Hope you're doing well!! As always- I love your freakin' videos!! I click on 'em SOOOOO FAST!! 😂
Cheers! 😁☀️🤗🔥👼💖☯️☪️☦️✌🏻️❤️😇🙏🏻🌌🌠💓🥰👍🏻🤛🏻💯🏆🥇💁🏻♂️
YOUR ADVICE & VIDS ARE EVVVVV-ERYYYYY---THIIIIINNNGG❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I appreciate you! You made this just in time for my latest breakup! Lol 😆 you’re the best Elliot!
"He just doesn't fkn like u...move the fk on...." 🤣😂
You talking to people in the future about toilet paper is hilarious. Cause now I’m one of these people in the future lol
Your still the King 👑 🙏💖
Great video Elliott
Glad you enjoyed it
Rather interesting to learn about the male psyche. Your channel seems interesting! Are you able to do a video on a particular question I’ve got please? Unless there is a similar video of yours you would recommend?
Long story short, I am in the process of dating and I am looking for a relationship. I have gone through the “fun sex” stage and I am ready for a serious relationship where I am looking forward to develop and learn new things about myself and grow as an individual with my partner (whoever that will be). What is the most important shift in character that is changed from being single to being in a relationship? I’d love to hear your opinion on this. It wouldn’t be all about me now so what major changes would I need to make when I am in a relationship?
Thank you
New subscriber!
Oven ready for buns... I'm listening.
Why do Men always text me "miss you " when we aren't yet a couple? Is it possible they really miss me? Or do Men just say that
Because he missed you
@@larryrubin5150 yeah but I don't know his real intentions. Sometimes I think Men use the Miss You to sleep with you. Am I wrong?
Unless his words "miss you" are backed up by action, he's just testing you and looking for sex
@@blueblaze9862 agreed
He misses the assets
This came at the perfect time 😂
A B EEEE!!❣️❣️💓☯️🙏🏻🌌🌠☪️❤️😇🤗 Crazy how SOOOOO MANY of Elliot's videos I say that about omg!! 💯💯💯👌🏻👍🏻🙋🏻♀️😚🙌🏻
Lol
Cheers to you A B!!! I hope you and yours are staying well and healthy mate!! 😁☀️✌🏻️🙏🏻👼✨🙌🏻👍🏻
Wow awesome advice 🙏
I think you are awesome !! I made a mess to clean up a mess. Would love to have a session with you .. I have grown so much these past 2 years. Could you please message me and let me know how much a session is.
Subtitles available please!
Edit: nevermind, I finally understand your accent.
Well done slides, Elliot 💖👉
When pulling away from the guy, what if you're living with the guy or married to him. Please do a video on this topic. U are wonderful, truly, but all your videos are for beginning dating.
So God help the couples who r married &/or just 4live together if most guys cant handle u being too ubundant & available... huh 😕🙃😟 i may as well just give up right now. In fact I think I will. DONE! 👋🏼 to being in love 👋🏼
I' m happy you said is possible that we can't see what was written down there....Because I really didn't saw. 🥺
Thanks! You are the 💣💣💣💣
So basically move on...
Thank you Elliot!!!
Do you delete him from all social media or just make it so he doesn't see your activity?
Sara Levering yes delete him!
Couldn’t forget me huh?
Great video 👍🏻
How on earth you can show that you have moved on, if that person is not on your social media? Just not responding to his messages?
The word “value” is thrown around a lot and it’s used so loosely, so now I’m confused at what is considered valuable to a man other than sex?
Nothing. Men want nothing but sex these days, and they don’t have the morality to just go to a prostitute sad not pollute the dating pool of women who are dying for a decent relationship.
Hi Elliot x UK interesting
Toilet paper - coronavirus - 2020 😂😂😂
Serving coffee after your "power point" presentation ?
Diet coke.
@Elliot- So I broke up with my bf for shit I found on his phone and cuz I went through his phone he ghosted me for a week…but today he came back on his own and yeah we hooked up. But my question is from this point on aside from not giving it up what can I do to ensure he keeps interest in only me etc?
When are you going live again??
tomorrow
Is this for dumped people? Cuz I wont pull away100% hoping he will miss me, thats so stupid
So true
What sucks is this one dude that I would like to come back around, I work with him. So I don't text him or anything but he will try talking to me at work and I'm friendly. I feel like I should just ignore him.😂
Does it rly say Sexy Elliot Scott? Lmao. This guy smh 😂
How do I trigger on social media?
What happens if this is happening but he sees me everyday because l work for him
So l can regain back everything
Because l can't pull away because of work. So how l can him stop take me for granted.
I am dating a gemini ISTJ....help! He only sees me once a week. Wtf is that? Does it mean he just doesn't like me??
Communicate your standards. Do not be afraid of losing the wrong guy. After approaching him about meeting more than once a week, if he doesn't care about your standards please move on. You deserve better, so go for it.
Run. Geminis always want variety and they cheat cheat cheat
@@sophiastella212 the younger ones yes but at the age of 40 around some like that... he can change, trust me 🙏
Hey i really need advice How do I get a one on one call with you
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Elliott I need a session with you. I have a guy I've been seeing he love bomb me to death in the beginning . Then started missing in action every weekend then I pulled away and he would chase me it's still going on .when he thinks I'm gone he future fake with me then when I lean in he disappear . I feel crazy🥺😱🤯😲😣Help
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I did pull away 100% but he write to me sometimes, but it's no flirting, just a casual conversation, should I not even write back ?
Vanessa257888 why you pulled away? Had he did something wrong?
@@lolabola3599 cuz I didn't want to sleep with him after the 3rd date so I knew he didnt see me more than an object, but now hes like ehh with me
@@lolabola3599 stop talking to him you are boosting his ego every time you replay
Vanessa257888 if he only wanted to have sex and you said no I think he will not text you, maybe he don’t have others options.. but he continue talk to you, casual texting it’s better then flirting ,so I think you can answer him and see how he behave, then you can pull away. 3 dates it’s not so many, guys only wants sex from the beginning..
@@lolabola3599 lol but he did pursue for about 3-4 months before all this shit went down lol
Sexy Elliot Scott!! Haha 👍🏻 I agree!! Nice videos by the way!
Really need a phone session before I ruin something I’m pretty sure might be from all your videos a real thing ... or may be from ALL your videos a waist of his time .. I mean mine .. lol
Are you single now?? 😋😋
this video is weird
theres no advice ,
There is but you dont wanna hear it i think 😉
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swechha joshi LOVE IT!! ❣️❣️🙏🏻💖❤️😇
Great advice!🙏