Dating coach Logan Ury on "How To Not Die Alone" and applying behavioral science to dating

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  • Logan Ury is the author of "How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love" and the director of relationship science at the dating app Hinge. She joins "CBS Mornings" to talk about her book, which uses behavioral science to give people tools to improve decision making when it comes to dating.
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  • @htandetzki77
    @htandetzki77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My husband is not someone who sparkles and sweeps you off your feet. He is someone who is responsible and reliable. So yes, go for the slow burn not the spark!

    • @connie10000
      @connie10000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I agree, responsible and reliable IS #1 vs the spark. Yet I still Hoping. I even recently moved to South Carolina. Led by the Holy Spirit and Southern hospitality.

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@connie10000 Technically you guys lowered your standards but said in a very professional way BY Logan Ury. Careful, Chad is around the corner so becareful and don't get mad if you see him later on. You married down, Ma'am. June 9, 2024. USA

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wheat Waffles was right. You just lowered your standards and you married security than true burning desire lust love. 2024

  • @debbie2721
    @debbie2721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Can't wait to read this book!
    Gale, thank you for your honesty 🥰👏💜🤦🏻‍♀️😁

  • @carloscarter2416
    @carloscarter2416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Truth people are scared to work for their relationship or marriage

  • @kimberlyridenour8003
    @kimberlyridenour8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't believe 75% of people on Hinge are ready for a relationship. I think a lot say they are but are not!

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No they are not ready. They will be ready once they are 57 years of age. June 2024. USA

  • @briansounalath
    @briansounalath 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m been saying this ish for years. People who are always single, their expectations are too high (it’s cause their friends). They think they deserve the best when they are not themselves. I actually came up with a system to solve this where you rate yourself on qualities from 1-10 and potential mates. The overall combine number should be similar. Pick five qualities you look for. It works and it’s fool proof.

    • @Akira282
      @Akira282 ปีที่แล้ว

      basically true..we've set ourselves up for astronauts and not normal folks

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Akira282 People need to marry average people but the people of today if they are not attractive desire some one hot and (IF) they themselves are not hot to begin with. It's like the chubby person with zits wanting to date the hot woman and wanting to go with her to the Prom or Morp. June 9, 2024. USA

  • @leonardascorpius5304
    @leonardascorpius5304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    #4&5: Lovebombing Narcissists who court you for a month, and Habitual Ghosters-Avoidants if they find just one thing "off" about you, without realizing that they, too, have quirks and red flags. But all communication stops suddenly, with no real warning, no closure. Until they show up on text during Mercury Retrograde or a lonely Friday night after their 6th date of the week canceled at the last minute, and now, they're sooooo desperate to see you and make up for lost time. SMH. Glad I'm not playing that dating game anymore.

    • @hahadarrie
      @hahadarrie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Say that again.

  • @JoseHernandez-vi1iu
    @JoseHernandez-vi1iu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm just like that i need the to warm up nice advice!

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had to save my life so I had to divorce. I keep getting the wrong men. Two times married but I am scared to be abused again. I just wanted to get a friend first, but people change

    • @connie10000
      @connie10000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hear ya. My Holy Spirit Antennas are on high alert whereas before.... I always gave the benefit of the doubt when I should NOT have! Listen/watch for Red Flags. Pay attention and let them go quick! Your inner gut instinct is YOUR PROTECTION!!!

  • @k.p.9990
    @k.p.9990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where is the 4th category, all the above? Lol

  • @brooklyn3299
    @brooklyn3299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This makes me think those dating apps are dying and they’re just trying to continue selling the idea that Men of Caliber would exist on those apps. As if!

  • @Jay-ef2ii
    @Jay-ef2ii 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Isn't the message about lowering your standards? This is my perception. June 9, 2024. USA

  • @FollowmedowntheNumberWhole
    @FollowmedowntheNumberWhole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Born alone. Die alone. The rest is just a dream. Some famous person said that. I think it’s kinda true. It’s about how you spend your elder years I think that matters more.

    • @Adboss17
      @Adboss17 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every old person I know tries to hold me hostage to be around them(grandparents , aunts, uncles,etc.) because they are alone..seems awful but I guess to each is own..and these are all active seniors..they seem insanely lonely and desperate for a touch and convo..so good luck

  • @eatpigsnot
    @eatpigsnot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    what about people who just never get a chance to meet anyone? i am 55 and never had a date. the opportunity never presented itself and there was never a chance to make an opportunity. i curse god everyday for my life

    • @lorrainea.285
      @lorrainea.285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have to go out there and MAKE YOUR OWN OPPORTUNITY!!!!! I’m 24 & I got out of my comfort zone & found the love of my life❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @eatpigsnot
      @eatpigsnot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lorrainea.285 i do not even have the opportunity to make an opportunity.

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@eatpigsnot False. What is one small thing you can do to change your situation? Step 1: improve you attitude! 😀

    • @eatpigsnot
      @eatpigsnot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LadyK007 how in the world am i supposed to have a positive attitude? i was positive and nice for decades and it got me nowhere. there are some people that god wants to be miserable, and unfortunately for me i am one of them

    • @preciousayebiowei6393
      @preciousayebiowei6393 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmm

  • @tatertotmotivation
    @tatertotmotivation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior!!

  • @RyanCoomer
    @RyanCoomer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If a waiter or waitress is waring a Mask I make it a POINT NOT TO TIP them at the end of my meal. Sometimes I will not even pay for the meal and walk out disgusted

    • @k.p.9990
      @k.p.9990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You must be a bored troll....