The horrifying true story of Katy Perry's ex

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  • @robm8746
    @robm8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10215

    9:50 bottom right!!!

    • @robm8746
      @robm8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1645

      Except for my kid being born, this is the greatest day in the history of my life!

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1572

      winner! its Conor Mcgregor! Wes is actually flying to Las Vegas right now to see him fight!

    • @leegaesswitz181
      @leegaesswitz181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      Gosh darn you Robert.

    • @proanimaluver6487
      @proanimaluver6487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Ok I think I saw him flip us off lololol bottom right
      Never mind I made my screen bigger and saw the pic lol BUT WAtch HIS HAND H E FLIPPED YOU OFF NOT ME LOL

    • @chernobylsurvivor2398
      @chernobylsurvivor2398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Already man you guys make it your jobs to find these things lol

  • @bethsenior5889
    @bethsenior5889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9125

    MrBallen: doesn't have a million ads in his videos or spend a year at the start of each video talking about a sponsor: the real MVP

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +768

      🙏🙏

    • @welsh.truth.dragon3914
      @welsh.truth.dragon3914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

      He doesn't click bait either xx

    • @roolenoir3183
      @roolenoir3183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

      No click baiting, wonderful story teller. I don’t mind the people with sponsors in fact it makes me so happy they’re doing well enough to get one.

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      I think it's great when people get sponsored.. it's truly an accomplishment

    • @PurrMore
      @PurrMore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      No words to express how thankful I am for these facts!! 🙌💕

  • @moon12349100
    @moon12349100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7648

    imagine, a guy who doesn't even want to play a violent character to become such a monster over a head injury

    • @rogerr6322
      @rogerr6322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      Hollyweird people probably made him crazy.

    • @Matty80822
      @Matty80822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      there's a fine line. sometimes erasing the feeling of guilt can make a monster vs a saint

    • @Eventual-Visitor
      @Eventual-Visitor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@rogerr6322 The dude was a full blown top shelf Hollyweird crazy himself.

    • @KJAlways
      @KJAlways 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That is a good observation. How ironic that is! Thanks for sharing this.

    • @cheyennev8881
      @cheyennev8881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow I didnt even think of that

  • @fiona-lyons
    @fiona-lyons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5353

    A friend of mine was hit in the head with a brick during a mugging. He was in a coma for about a week and came around with a.different personality. The sweetest,.kindest guy was suddenly aggressive, angry and rude. It took months for his previous personality to re-emerge. When you look at the worst killers you often find traumatic head injuries in their past. Never underestimate a head injury.

    • @flannelpillowcase6475
      @flannelpillowcase6475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      he's lucky to have a friend like you who stuck around through his dark times instead of just abandoning him. wish everyone could have loyal friends like that, myself included. glad he recovered from such a heinous crime, even if partially.

    • @canterburytail2294
      @canterburytail2294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Ay, my daughter is very young and is dating someone who has a TBI and I don't know him and worry about her because of how common TBI's and violence have been linked.

    • @beetlejuice4357
      @beetlejuice4357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@canterburytail2294 Have you told her about your worries. Maybe show her this video or something else to scare her away from him. Better to scare her than to for something to actually happen. I hope she is ok. Sometimes parents over worry so that may be the case also. I am a worry wort so no judgement.

    • @TheSlipperyNUwUdle
      @TheSlipperyNUwUdle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      We also have to make sure not to sensationalize head injuries as well. Not everyone that has a head injury will be a serial killer or even a bad person in general. My sister had a pretty bad head injury and she’s largely the same now. Just a few small changes.

    • @TheSlipperyNUwUdle
      @TheSlipperyNUwUdle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@canterburytail2294 don’t worry about that. I think she should be cautious, but no more cautious than around anyone else. My sister had a brain injury and she’s largely the same person. And not violent at all.

  • @jessicagrace2817
    @jessicagrace2817 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +660

    My adult son has had more than one serious head injury...to see the change in his personality has been one the biggest sorrows in my life

    • @TheJoeml85
      @TheJoeml85 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I have had a bunch of terrible concussions I think it made me depressed I don’t know no know ever knows about head injuries

    • @Silas-lc9op
      @Silas-lc9op 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I'm sorry that happened 😢 ❤

    • @dillon5889
      @dillon5889 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve had about 8 in 4 years

    • @toribern419
      @toribern419 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so sorry. 😞

    • @Skip2myLoo2
      @Skip2myLoo2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh God bless you 🙏🏻 I couldn’t imagine what that must be like. 😢

  • @relaine6068
    @relaine6068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    I'm a veteran working on putting her life back together and you provide an incredibly soothing background narrative that helps keep me out of my own anxieties - even if the topics are dark and intense. I always look forward to your videos in the evening. I can tell you're a father with a caring spirit. You're out here helping vets. Keep it up ❤

    • @JRWeezy84
      @JRWeezy84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Im n middle of nervous attack right now seeking somethin to help my mind

    • @Tyler-ql2ob
      @Tyler-ql2ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you for your service💙

    • @KymzFax
      @KymzFax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Relaine Thank you for your service and I hope things get better. Mr Ballen is a vet too....❤

    • @Johnnyrocks34
      @Johnnyrocks34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@JRWeezy84 i suffer from anxiety attacks myself! Hang in there!

    • @Assault-Roomba
      @Assault-Roomba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We all in this together sister. I know I’m a random TH-cam commenter but I’m still trying to adapt to civilian life, especially after Iraq. It gets better. The crucial traits are patience and restraint. Let us know if we can do anything

  • @luishizaru
    @luishizaru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8172

    Johnny really died the day of that motorcycle accident; he was never the same after. The doctor who refused to diagnose him is incredibly incompetent.

    • @MrAkaacer
      @MrAkaacer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Science still knows very little about the brain. Doctors aren't magicians mate. What was he going diagnose him with? The mri scan didn't show any physical damage to the brain. Maybe if he stayed on his meds the second doctor prescribed, it would've helped. Short of a Judge slapping Johnny with a conservatorship, what else can be done? Johnny just sounds like an asshole.

    • @casual_speedrunner1482
      @casual_speedrunner1482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +870

      @@MrAkaacer There WAS no MRI scan, and light sensitivity is a dead giveaway to a head injury. Couple that with the odd behavior and you’ve got such an obvious head injury someone who’s NOT a doctor would know it immediately.

    • @bobsaturday4273
      @bobsaturday4273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      thats a scary story in itself how bad most doctors are , just dope pushers for big pharma companies , not real doctors

    • @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive
      @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      exactly.

    • @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive
      @O_Ciel_Phant0mhive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      @@MrAkaacer maybe if the system would have taken better care of him and not release him, they would be better help mate.

  • @jakehixon4073
    @jakehixon4073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2132

    The strangest thing is that he left sons of anarchy because it was too violent but then became so violent in his personal life. Very scary that a brain injury can cause this.

    • @egregiousfilmin4842
      @egregiousfilmin4842 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Or if he did have schizophrenia, they usually have triggers that worsen their auditory/visual hallucinations - if he had angry voices yelling at him all the time in his head he probably wouldn't have enjoyed being around more anger, externally. One of my best friends hates clowns because one manifestation of her schizophrenia (the one that apparently bothers her the most) is a big face with exaggerated features that laughs at her at inappropriate times.

    • @Sugeknight111
      @Sugeknight111 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Read what happens to the singer of INXS. He had a head injury and lost his sense of smell. He was never the same after that. A blow to the brain can change a person so much. It’s crazy.

    • @cappiece3786
      @cappiece3786 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Maybe it was sons of anarchy

    • @multi-mason
      @multi-mason ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @cappiece3786 exactly what I was thinking. The show was about a violent motorcycle gang. It was a motorcycle accident that somehow triggered his personality change. Coincidence?

    • @cappiece3786
      @cappiece3786 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@multi-mason maybe but very strange 🤔

  • @ObviousRises
    @ObviousRises 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +832

    Sensitivity to light is a huge symptom of head injury

    • @legoDragonfly-1
      @legoDragonfly-1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      True I think in many cases. My cerebellum herniating In to my spinal cavity (chiari malformation) and I have extreme light sensitivity thst got really bad when the herniation got bigger

    • @user-ik1qj8ni4o
      @user-ik1qj8ni4o 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I have idiopathic intracranial hypertension (IIH) and I get super sensitive to light, migraines, sensitivity to sound, and I have crazy outbursts (I mean not hurting anyone. Maybe cussing someone out but who knows what it coulda led to cuz it def made me short tempered) but I def don’t act like myself… unless they do a spinal tap to remove the csf fluids. So maybe he had an overflow of fluids in his brain.

    • @TotalDec
      @TotalDec 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True

    • @Esunasecta-zf9ov
      @Esunasecta-zf9ov 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He was in Scientology, that was the problem

    • @JulieCB1983
      @JulieCB1983 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@legoDragonfly-1 wow- you have Chiari type 1 too? Do you also have Syringomyelia? I saw the comment on light and was hopping in here when you took the words out of my mouth. I have to wear sunglasses outside, some days even when overcast.

  • @AbbaZabbaOlyFrn
    @AbbaZabbaOlyFrn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3026

    My whole life I've always known my uncle as an erratic, impulsive, and angry man easily prone to violence and making bad choices that landed him in prison. My mom told me he wasn't always like that he was a very different person before I was born, she said he was smart, kind, compassionate. Then he was t boned by a drunk driver, he survived but sustained a serious brain injury after that he was never the same. Even after he died of liver disease my heartbroken mother said "we finally put your uncle to rest, I wish you got to meet my real little brother but he died all those years ago in that car crash"

    • @rhondasisco-cleveland2665
      @rhondasisco-cleveland2665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      How sad.

    • @glendalynda6587
      @glendalynda6587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      I sm so sorry. My cousin had a head injury and he totally changed at the end of his life. He became violent and tried to murder my brother. He was murdered. His craziness caused it.

    • @bluesakura2092
      @bluesakura2092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i’m sorry to hear that

    • @glendalynda6587
      @glendalynda6587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@bluesakura2092 It was sad he changed so much. People in the family didn't want him around.

    • @mysuperduperlife
      @mysuperduperlife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i wanna give ur mom a hug :( sad story, i feel for u guys.

  • @MummaQuan
    @MummaQuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +998

    Dan is a real one for saving that random worker guy. Easily could’ve just called the cops and not gotten involved, but he stepped in and helped the dude get away.

    • @YoloMasterGamerTag
      @YoloMasterGamerTag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That’s back in the days, now people would let the worker die and record for TH-cam

    • @misseselise3864
      @misseselise3864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      yeah it takes some massive balls to do that. and i bet the they were terrified once they learned what he was capable of

    • @holygraiIclips
      @holygraiIclips 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@YoloMasterGamerTag its sad but true

    • @Slimpster520
      @Slimpster520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@YoloMasterGamerTag back in the day? It was like 2012. That wasn’t that long ago. Lolok

    • @leecourtney9968
      @leecourtney9968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Call the police and wait 20-25 minutes to watch this idiot kill the worker really? bleeding-heart liberals they're all over the place damn?

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12730

    The fact that he went on a rampage before going out like that, is frightening, rest in peace to Cathy and her cat

    • @bigbiemacaw
      @bigbiemacaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

      And him to be fair, that wasn't him, it had to be something like the head injury, God love all involved, poor guy obviously had something bad going on, they all deserved a different outcome,...its all very sad..if my child went trough something like that I wouldn't be letting him go off to live else where, id want him close to keep an eye on the situation, its a bit of a fail on his parents part, I know they never could have known but they did know that was very out of caricature for there son...

    • @thehitmanhimself6794
      @thehitmanhimself6794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      you are everywhere

    • @misspiggy4545
      @misspiggy4545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      off topic but you’re everywhere👁👄👁

    • @refluxcatalyst7190
      @refluxcatalyst7190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      @@bigbiemacaw God created the situation and allowed this insanity to happen by that logic. Not a very loving god that you describe.

    • @AuRowe
      @AuRowe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@refluxcatalyst7190 God gave you the free will to judge why bad things happen😝

  • @sarakeller9881
    @sarakeller9881 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +335

    I work at a psychiatric hospital and head injuries are no joke. We have had a few that changed the person. I am very angry at the parents for not getting him care. They should have petitioned for gaudianship after the 2 arrest. There was plenty of evidence to at least get a temporary for medical intervention.

    • @greenman8644
      @greenman8644 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell me, why is it that psychiatrists treat mental health disorders with brain trauma? I was given ect and my brain is fucked. You’re profession is a joke.

    • @k.h.7575
      @k.h.7575 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah exactly!

    • @MaryBywaters
      @MaryBywaters 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well they were told that he didn't have a head injury and he refused to go and be checked out. I guess that they didn't know what to do. In fact there is a person on this thread that just said exactly that. Temporary_Human. It's about his wife and now he is prompted into action. Feeling bad and awful for not realising to get her help sooner.

    • @dianecooper5523
      @dianecooper5523 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      A friend of mine was car surfing in a park. (Stupid!) They hit a speed bump and you guessed it, he fell and landed on his head. He quit breathing 3 different times, before the teenagers called 911. They were scared to get in trouble while this poor boy is dieing. But he was saved and went through hell trying to relearn things again. He was sent to a special hospital for brain injured people. But even 14 years later. He is sooo different than he was. So sad and scarey. Cause he would physically hurt people and laugh. It was hilarious to him. He was not like that. So many changes.

    • @OpalandOogum
      @OpalandOogum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agreed! My cousin when thru 2 tbi. The 1st one was so bad it actually but chsnged the color of his hair. He was my best frirnd our whole lives and the head injury changed him so much he turned on me ehich resulted in my dog dying. Theres alot of people walking around like that and people dont realize

  • @salutechewmobilekitchencat7703
    @salutechewmobilekitchencat7703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1028

    My daughter has TBI from a trampoline fall. Doctors refused to do any imaging at the ED and no one listen that she was "different" after this for three years. Finally I found a doctor that took my concerns seriously and tested her. November 2019, she got a tbi diagnosis. Advocate for yourselves and your loved ones!

    • @ashleycharlton1713
      @ashleycharlton1713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yes u have to unfortunately we are human in healthcare and are usually understaffed...however any fall with the slightest chance of head trauma HAS to get a CT scan to rule out a cranial bleed or hematoma it's just a given however not all professionals are professional or may be focused on less important factors...

    • @marlenet5115
      @marlenet5115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Always do what you think is right. If you feel a doctor is not doing what they should, insist or get another opinion. Always fight for your loved ones!

    • @RobinSueWho
      @RobinSueWho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      This past 1.5 years have proven to me that just because someone has a medical degree doesn't make them intelligent. Too many stupid drs in the world so you have to persevere until you get an intelligent one.

    • @dewisudiastuti6198
      @dewisudiastuti6198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      My father was the sweetest and kind person, or so my mother, family and people around us said (I wasn't born yet during this period 😅). One day he got hit and run when he was just standing by the sidewalk, hence where he got his head injury and he never the same person again. He was a mess bipolar, his mood swings is so severed that once he killed our dog bare hand, causing a deep trauma to me and my older sister since we witness it. I would say it's lucky that our family survived with no harm at all from him. His manic period limited to destroying stuff (except once with the dog 😭), never violence to his own family. It was back in the 70's and we're from third world country, there's no advance medication or therapy for this kind of mental illness. Never underestimate a head injury, sometimes it caused an angel turn into a devil.

    • @RobinSueWho
      @RobinSueWho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dewisudiastuti6198 I'm so sorry that happened to you, your family AND your father. If he did sustain a tbi (traumatic brain injury) he and everyone he loved was robbed of his true loving nature and it caused sorrow for all around you. Anytime anyone really gets any type of knock/hit to the head an mri should be done but as you said, your country may not have had that available. I hope you all are doing better these days.

  • @calebbailea8125
    @calebbailea8125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    Honestly Head injuries are probably one of the most terrifying things-
    You can hit your head (like in a car accident) and your personality can completely SHIFT.

    • @1ronw1ll78
      @1ronw1ll78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No pun intended? Lol

    • @gdblackeye5797
      @gdblackeye5797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@micheleparker838 that’s terrible, hope they are doing well

    • @karylkline6442
      @karylkline6442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That happened to my friend. She was an actress. It changed her whole life

    • @TheEastBayAnglers
      @TheEastBayAnglers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Happened to me

    • @LAEDCSolutions
      @LAEDCSolutions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’ve seen this happen with 4 of my closest friends one of which had a very promising career in welding, which was his favorite thing to do; even after work he’d be welding up some art or some project he wanted to do. After his head injury he decided he never wanted to weld again and now works on a charter fishing boat and hasn’t touched a welder sense, he also lost his drive to excel in life, now he just doesn’t care and rides life like a wave instead of trying to surf life which is how he lived life before! Always wear a helmet when head injuries are a factor it could save your life or your life from changing forever!!!

  • @keenan1972
    @keenan1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1453

    The poor old lady. She was just living life and helping young gifted people out. So sad

    • @gummy5862
      @gummy5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      That’s why you cannot let mentally unstable people into your life.

    • @Mr.CliffysWorld
      @Mr.CliffysWorld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@gummy5862 ... Or your home lol

    • @chiefyovany572
      @chiefyovany572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Mr.CliffysWorld no shit

    • @gregoryhitchcock5258
      @gregoryhitchcock5258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He need serious medical help it's sad.He have got the proper medical help earlier this could have been stop.

    • @hbtm2951
      @hbtm2951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@gregoryhitchcock5258 So i learned his parents were Scientology members can't confirm but if it's true, they are directly responsible for this.

  • @Prelooker
    @Prelooker 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    This story reminds me of Michael Hutchence, INXS' singer. He suffered a tiny head injury and it changed him so much, he ended up taking his own life.

    • @BernieKnapp-h3n
      @BernieKnapp-h3n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I watched a documentary about him. It was so sad what happened to him. He ended up hanging himself. He was such a talented young man.

    • @Prelooker
      @Prelooker 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BernieKnapp-h3n I loved INXS. I watched the documentary too. Heartbreaking! And such a silly incident ruined his life!

    • @marzigeisha
      @marzigeisha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It wasn't a tiny head injury, he cracked the back of his head on a curb after being punched in the face. His skull was fractured and he didn't seek medical attention for 3 days. It changed him forever.

    • @madarab37
      @madarab37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He had a major head injury. Helena thought he was dead.

    • @lovemissle
      @lovemissle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It could go the other way around. Always in trouble as a teenager... In a fight a guy broke a bat on my head. No blood on the floor, It was all on the ceiling. Became Christian after, Got married. Now I have 2 wonderful boys

  • @NoNameEst1992
    @NoNameEst1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4832

    He gets a year in prison for breaking into someone's house and assaulting them... But they drop it to 6 weeks because the prison is overcrowded 😂😂😂 what kind of broken ass legal system is that

    • @celestecasale3156
      @celestecasale3156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +460

      ✨America✨

    • @sauljahboi5965
      @sauljahboi5965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +363

      Too many murders have been perpetrated by people who were supposed to be in prison but instead were let back on the streets.
      Nonviolent offenders should be the only prisoners afforded any leeway.
      Justice System seems intent on letting the most psychotic prisoners out.

    • @dillonlee2512
      @dillonlee2512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You don’t know the fuckin half of it smh

    • @suryadas6987
      @suryadas6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@sauljahboi5965 Yes, so true but be careful...you might offend all of the snowflakes here advocating for this violent killer.

    • @goldennugget5680
      @goldennugget5680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It is what it is

  • @kayoss8787
    @kayoss8787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1501

    Frontal lobe head injuries are now one of the leading hypothesis for serial killers. All of the major ones have a confirmed and unconfirmed head injuries.

    • @razeezar
      @razeezar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I knew that Fred West had a brain injury (from an accident in his youth if I recall) - I wasn't aware of any confirmed or unconfirmed head injuries for any of the other major sk's that spring to mind.

    • @2121-w7s
      @2121-w7s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      What about all of the serial killers that were part of the mk ultra trails.... ohh don’t cancel me 🤣

    • @candicecrawford2996
      @candicecrawford2996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That tracks

    • @batintheattic7293
      @batintheattic7293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Definitely an extremely exacerbating factor. Also, I've never heard of a naturally aggressive/antisocial person becoming more peaceful after a frontal lobe injury. It always seems to go the other way.
      I wonder if there's also a heritability to these kinds of personality changing head injuries, too. When we hear about killers and people, who have been violent from an early age (or, indeed, children who are violent and/or killers), we usually find that they've come from violent and disfunctional backgrounds. So, we have been putting the manifestations squarely at the feet or learned behavior and/or a bit of genetics. What if violent parents, generation by generation, smacking their children around is actually procuring character changing head injuries that in turn lead to the children being more violent and abusing their own children?
      Mostly, we raise our children to avoid drugs. We try. We rarely put any effort into raising them to avoid activities that could cause physical brain damage. In some parts of the UK - it's almost seen as a mark of parental love to give the boys mini motorbikes. Get them out banging their heads up as soon as possible.

    • @atashgallagher5139
      @atashgallagher5139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@batintheattic7293 I don't think so, people have been getting genital mutilated for thousands of years and yet every baby boy is still born with a foreskin and every girl is born with intact labia. there could be epigenetic changes that get passed down but likely those would be changes related to healing brain injuries which would make them less likely to get sever brain damage that won't heal. One thing that could very much get passed down is hormone levels, neurotransmitter levels, and variations in brain structure.
      now none of that really discounts your theory, but what does discount your theory at least to me, is that domestic violence, pedophilia, murder, serial murder, rape, and most other violent offenses are usually committed by someone who had violence or abuse done towards them in their child hood, but the important part is that this correlation is only seen in men, and women who commit violent or abusive crimes have no more or less chance than any other woman to have been abused or hurt in the past. If it was something getting passed on generation to generation why would it only ever have an effect on men when women commit almost as many violent or abusive crimes the only exception being murder.
      also if you look at it from an evolutionary perspective passing on chronic injuries to your children is the stupidest possible thing imaginable, sure it could be able to happen a little bit but those people who have the ability to pass on physical trauma to their children would be very quickly weeded out of the gene pool as that family would slowly degenerate over time.

  • @fructosecornsyrup5759
    @fructosecornsyrup5759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1201

    It's so, so scary how easily a normal person can become something sinister because of a simple injury.

    • @thatguy7715
      @thatguy7715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Nothing simple about a brain injury .

    • @az9498
      @az9498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Yeah, Joe Rogan has had some guests on that had a head injury that ended up completely changing their personalities.
      Such as Rosanne.
      We're all just a compilation of a bunch of chemicals.

    • @sirfgmk2
      @sirfgmk2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      This what my mom always says, if you want to discipline your children don't ever put your hands on their heads.

    • @jbri1
      @jbri1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@sirfgmk2 don't hit them ever*

    • @vl4394
      @vl4394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@az9498 Well, not really, we're by no means a "chemical soup" as they say. Have to remember, our entire body was assembled from raw material via the intelligence of a single cell, and a single cell is like a city inside We're a bunch of highly organized material, and tragically you can never truly know the entirety of yourself.

  • @texasoutlook60
    @texasoutlook60 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I'm a retired mental health social worker and IMO he had a brain injury that affected his emotions and judgement. The sudden change in behavior as reported by his father is a big clue. Thanks for sharing!

  • @bettyboopluv23
    @bettyboopluv23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6268

    The drastic change in his personality right after the bike accident is evidence enough for me to lean towards traumatic brain injury. It’s too much of a coincidence for it to not be.

    • @BUSTRCHERRI
      @BUSTRCHERRI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +525

      I know right? Even Katy Perry said in an interview about him just after the whole ordeal. She said she couldn't put a finger on him and his mood swings.
      It was like one minute he was hot n then cold yes n then no in n then out up n then down....

    • @jeffreythomas515
      @jeffreythomas515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@BUSTRCHERRI 🤯

    • @dawgwithabone6826
      @dawgwithabone6826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Agree,
      Such a tragedy in so many ways.

    • @jungleviper
      @jungleviper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Sam

    • @Elecktra7752
      @Elecktra7752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes was proven

  • @TheLadyWoreBlack73
    @TheLadyWoreBlack73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +971

    People have no understanding of how life changing head injuries really are until it happens to them.

    • @Nturner822
      @Nturner822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      100%…it’s terrifying to discover that, for better or worse; you’re a different person. You lose your identity and become terrified of your own capabilities

    • @bigdadddyd123
      @bigdadddyd123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      After 6 diagnosed concussions over 8 years of football and dozens and dozens of un diagnosed bell ringings that I just pretended like I was ok so I didn’t miss time playing I can tell you for certain I am a completely different person after every single head trauma event. I’m still fucked up and will be for the rest of my life. I’m 27 now I stopped playing football at 19…

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can be worse for the family.

    • @mikaellindqvist5599
      @mikaellindqvist5599 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sounds on the story he didnt after the fact either...

    • @mikaellindqvist5599
      @mikaellindqvist5599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bigdadddyd123 In Swedish icehockey youre not allowed to continue playing after your fifth i believe.

  • @loririttel8513
    @loririttel8513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2417

    Johnny Lewis’s mother, recently passed from cancer sadly, is my first cousin. Her parents, Johnny’s grandparents, were my favorite Aunt and Uncle. It’s my understanding that Johnny’s father is writing a book about this. Various assertions about drug abuse and other rumors have been painful to them as I have learned from other members in the extended family. That said, I wanted to thank you personally for telling this story truthfully and while I braced myself for this story to be painful and sensationalized, you did not do that. I have been a subscriber to your channel for a while now. I love how you can tell a story and yes, I love the strange dark and mysterious. Thank you for pointing out Johnny’s goodness prior to his decline. As a relative, it can be shocking - but Johnny was famous. I am going to share this with Johnny’s first cousin (their mother’s are sisters). Hoping he feels like I do-you handled the story well. Deepest sadness for his land lady and cat and others harmed. Meanwhile, your story felt less horrifying than others that I have heard which were peppered with rumor of drugs and only focused on the horrific killing that occurred, leaving out facts and I feel your rendition is an attribute to the need for the mentally ill (be it a diagnosis, such as a schizophrenic break, or results of a head injury). Thank you and keep up the good work keeping in mind that all involved may have family members listening to you tell the story.

    • @Louis-si4ci
      @Louis-si4ci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Deep sympathy to your family......a young man who I grew up changed drastically after a head injury caused by a motorcycle accident. The anger and nastiness he displays now is so sad, he has turned violent and aggressive to any family who have tried to help him and he wont listen. His mother is heartbroken as he acts like he hates her with such evil aggression its awful. Yet he works and functions day to day but destroys any close relationships with his anger. He just changed into a complete different person. We need more research into head injuries. I wish your family and the victims all love and peace.

    • @valariezacharias4776
      @valariezacharias4776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      If you're on any social media, you might try telling him this on one of those.
      I don't think he checks comments after the secret is found, but I'm sure he'd love to read what you have to say!

    • @aprileakins7881
      @aprileakins7881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sorry for your loss ❤️🙏

    • @fenix648
      @fenix648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      This is so sad. Half sack was one of my favorite characters on Sons.

    • @Grace-fu1mz
      @Grace-fu1mz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      It's interesting to hear a family member's perspective on this. It must've been so hard to deal with that and my thoughts are going out to you. Thank you so much for coming out and sharing this! It must've taken so much courage and bravery!

  • @kmduarte2005
    @kmduarte2005 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    One of my good friends was in a very bad motorcycle accident and ended up with two skull fractures.
    Before the accident he was a sweet, silly, docile guy, but after the crash he was easily irritated, and would rage fit for little, to no, reason at all. His personality completely changed.
    My heart breaks knowing he’s hurting like that.

    • @tonystevenson26
      @tonystevenson26 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exact same experience, my friend would just suddenly rage...I only found out why much later

  • @allisonthompson8221
    @allisonthompson8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    That's terrifying to think that a brain injury could alter your character that much. That is just such a terrible thought and I feel so bad for him and everyone else involved.

    • @zanejackson-cl9ds
      @zanejackson-cl9ds ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think it's the TYPE of brain injury plus acting plus success stress that truly caused the character change and idk if I would call his character changed so much as scrambled

    • @gregmoyers7757
      @gregmoyers7757 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not sure if head injury did this. Schizophrenia and bipolar conditions often don't show up until adulthood. If he had taken his meds he might still be alive and so would be his victim.

    • @rachie7744
      @rachie7744 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      My husband suffered a TBI. I barely recognized him for years. We were fortunate enough that I was able to provide him with a few years of rest (he didn’t have to work or overly stress himself) so that he was able to heal. But it’s only been the last year I have finally started to see the man I married. That means I took over three years. And I also want to note I spent time in college studying brain injuries-this is really common, and the tests don’t have ways of looking at parts of the brain that change/effect personality. It’s all very tragic and if anything, I am surprised that Johnny couldn’t find a better specialist living in Hollywood

    • @Sara-xk1ns
      @Sara-xk1ns ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s scary to me bc a lot of times the injured doesn’t notice or feel the changes everyone else is seeing so they think everyone is out to get them or crazy, and it usually takes something drastic for them to see it. I feel like he was failed by the medical and juridical system, they had many opportunities to get him diagnosed whatever the outcome was. Could’ve prevented such a tragedy.

    • @kittyblossom7342
      @kittyblossom7342 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brain injury alters a person's personality by 180 degrees.

  • @AmericanMysticDegenerate
    @AmericanMysticDegenerate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    Such a sad story for everyone involved. It sounds like he was a good guy before the potential brain injury. A lot of ruined lives

  • @whoodatihz
    @whoodatihz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1572

    It's like, he got stuck in the character he didn't like playing.

    • @_luckicharms
      @_luckicharms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      damn maybe his head injury was so severe that his brain was unable to disassociate his acting roles from his real personality.

    • @leratonakin1832
      @leratonakin1832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wildddd

    • @zookuki
      @zookuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Also thought about it, but his character was actually not violent at all, so nah. (also not British 😆)

    • @ItsMeTyScott
      @ItsMeTyScott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I had a TBI when i was 16 i put my body between me and a girl sitting on the center consel and I went through the windshield of a jeep. I can definitely attest to the violent outbursts and dramatic change in personality at times these days it doesnt happen as often but sometimes the littlest things will trigger me to become violently angry ive had to learn to control it because i wasnt going back to prison for a 4th time the previous 3 definitely did nothing to help my condition other than give me a place where i didnt get in as much trouble for beating people, quite literally half to death but hey ive been managing to cope alot better these last 8 years I've been free.

    • @Chicacarnivora
      @Chicacarnivora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@ItsMeTyScott im sorry to hear about that,what a shame and broken system,😣 I really wish you the best and I'm happy your able to control it for the most part 🤍

  • @WaotJay
    @WaotJay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    My young in-law was in a bad car accident. He turned up to the house and stole some things which was out of character. He was also speaking out of character to family.
    He died three days later.

  • @benmacdhui
    @benmacdhui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1444

    After his accident, the light sensitivity, to the extreme in his case- is a dead giveaway of a head injury.

    • @kojack635
      @kojack635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      People with migraines also have extreme light sensitivity

    • @afterthestorm7012
      @afterthestorm7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @P. R. A great combination of incompetent doctors and questionable parental concerns. Throw some pills at it.

    • @flyhog8574
      @flyhog8574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@afterthestorm7012 did you hear the same thing I did. The dad kept urging his son to go to a doctor that would look into the head injury. He didn’t just “throw pills at it”.

    • @afterthestorm7012
      @afterthestorm7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@flyhog8574 I'm sorry you're right the dad did urge him to see a doctor.

    • @lindahurst7114
      @lindahurst7114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      YES! Think about CTE. Remember Aaron Hernandez?

  • @DJDickieH
    @DJDickieH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    The irony is that he became the very thing he left his job for in the end, with his acting role. Hope they all found peace in the end.

    • @shitmandood
      @shitmandood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some found piece.

    • @celestialgz
      @celestialgz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought the same. it's so sad

    • @hunterrr9196
      @hunterrr9196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fr shouldve just chased the bag 😥

    • @Chill-mm4pn
      @Chill-mm4pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It seems like he was repressing his aggression and it came out when he took a knock to the head. Crazy story.

    • @Sonar_125
      @Sonar_125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi richard

  • @javagoblin1585
    @javagoblin1585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6457

    Imagine having a full career and a whole ass family to still be referred to as: Katy Perry's ex. lmao.

    • @mayle2010
      @mayle2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +611

      Well this video was posted this year, way after the crime and way after SOA came out. Katy Perry is still relevant so it makes sense to choose this video title. Heck it got me to click on it.

    • @javagoblin1585
      @javagoblin1585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      @@mayle2010 thats kind of my point. The relationship with Katy completely overshadows his entire career lol.

    • @karolinapupi19977
      @karolinapupi19977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      @@javagoblin1585 in fairness that is the reason why I clicked on this video

    • @mistercrankypants
      @mistercrankypants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Click Baity for sure.

    • @zacharywilliams9708
      @zacharywilliams9708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Id be happy to be known as that. Just having dated Katy perry would be the highlight of my life

  • @RainRaiHan-cz9be
    @RainRaiHan-cz9be 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    He’s behaving violently and unstable and his father thinks it’s a good idea to send him to live at the villa? Like what?

  • @racheldenny2612
    @racheldenny2612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Head trauma has given blind people their sight back, made people play instruments, draw when they never could, do math,ECT... savants..., it's incredible. You can truly turn into someone else...and sometimes you turn into something you don't want to be. It can be a blessing or a curse...

    • @Itried20takennames
      @Itried20takennames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Well, 0.01% blessing, 99.99% curse. There are a few rare cases of benefit that may or may not actually exist, and a few cases of relatively harmless things like foreign accent syndrome, it is almost always a tough and life-ruining medical problem. The idea that a head injury makes you magically play the piano, or see if blind, etc. is Hollywood fantasy.

    • @zerotodona1495
      @zerotodona1495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      …my brother was bless after he had westnile virus and put into a coma. He’s making a bunch of money now as a pharmacist while I’m just a loser. Must be nice to have a beneficial head injury.

    • @SkebtheOne
      @SkebtheOne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@zerotodona1495 or maybe your just not doing enough?

    • @vamountainman2512
      @vamountainman2512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@zerotodona1495 west Nile nor a coma put him in a position to become a pharmacist. That was hard work, effort and education. Unless you live in some 3rd world heap where they pass such qualifications out for the right amount of bribe money.

    • @Xerex9999
      @Xerex9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Itried20takennames i've heard of a guy who started to talk another language after some injury, so no, it's not a fantasy

  • @itstoad5779
    @itstoad5779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2327

    I knew Cathy Davis when I was a kid. My folks are good friends with one of the people who lived at the villa from time to time and I have many very fond memories of holiday parties there. She was an incredible woman who deserved so much better.

  • @commonomics
    @commonomics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2722

    Johnny died the day of his motorcycle accident. After that it was a different person.

    • @halosaskew6001
      @halosaskew6001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Could be a walk in.

    • @mslee4495
      @mslee4495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      That's exactly what I was thinking some one or something else took over.

    • @brittanyw.9351
      @brittanyw.9351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      @@user-ct1md9lw9d I don't think he's making up excuses. At least in my eyes, what Johnny did was horrifying. I think he sustained a brain injury in that accident and who he was changed. Look into frontal cortex injuries -- though I've not heard of one to cause this extreme of behavior shift that quickly, it has to be more than that, I'd think. And then when he went to the one Doctor, they didn't handle it correctly, and because Johnny was an adult, there wasn't a lot anyone could do to force him back to the Doctors. Whole thing is a series of unfortunate events. It's sad Cathy paid with her life for it, because who Johnny was died the day of the accident.

    • @deinellpugs
      @deinellpugs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@halosaskew6001 true. Like Jim Morrison

    • @lovingmayberry2000
      @lovingmayberry2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      CM. Very true.

  • @DidgyT
    @DidgyT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    TBI (Traumatic brain injuries) are VERY closely linked to violent behavior! Poor Johnny! He wasn't supposed to be that person... The doctors could have made the correct diagnosis and potentially prevented all of this violence. May all the affected rest in peace...

  • @peydaee_
    @peydaee_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    He probably ended up with frontal lobe damage. The frontal lobe damage can cause change in personality, difficulty in interpreting ones environment, as well as not being able to adequately assess risks and danger. He basically lost his self control.. I wish someone was able to help him because Cathy and her cat didn’t deserve to have died.

    • @jguenther3049
      @jguenther3049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Frontal lobe damage can result in the limbic brain (AKA The Guardienne, “automatic self,” or “adaptive unconscious”) taking over. It's capable of going through the motions of everyday life, more or less, but it has no conscience. This reminds me of the case of Phineas Gage, the railroad foreman who had an iron tamping bar blown through his brain. He lived for about 12 years afterward, but those who had been close to him said he wasn't the Phineas Gage they once knew.

    • @michellemuskeyn5070
      @michellemuskeyn5070 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He should’ve had a lobotomy

    • @jguenther3049
      @jguenther3049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@michellemuskeyn5070 So your cure for damaged frontal lobes is more frontal lobe damage?

    • @peydaee_
      @peydaee_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michellemuskeyn5070 that would have most likely made him comatose.

    • @keetahbrough
      @keetahbrough 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      the frontal lobe processes emotion. emotion does not originate from the brain. emotions are physiological. so when the frontal lobe is damaged , control of emotion is effected.

  • @MrBallen
    @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    This has a slow build up, and a wild ending that happens suddenly without much warning.

    • @NiteStorm324
      @NiteStorm324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Here before this is famous

    • @peter1135
      @peter1135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Another great video MrBallen!!!

    • @nightdreams2552
      @nightdreams2552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think it's sad I know you can't force treatment, but I think I would at some point

    • @teewhy7075
      @teewhy7075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Insane story. Never knew.

    • @danielafrehley21
      @danielafrehley21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm 100% addicted to the strange dark and mysterious delivered in story format! And the best part: my bf is too, so usually when we do something together we also listen to u together. Lots of love from Slovakia.💗

  • @lizsegal5328
    @lizsegal5328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2999

    The doctors failed him and everyone that was affected by his brain injury behaviour...a truly tragic story.

    • @mkv2718
      @mkv2718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      his parents did too. they should’ve dragged him to the hospital and told the doctors what what going on themselves. i live with someone with a brain injury, you cannot just expect them to tell the drs everything that is going on

    • @westnblu
      @westnblu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@mkv2718 I still think he had undiagnosed psychological issues. The head injury accentuated this. There were things going on with him prior to that bike ride that were not addressed.

    • @WhateverDude38
      @WhateverDude38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mkv2718 I think that depends on the state you reside whether or not you can be admitted by someone else if you're an adult. It is really sad though.

    • @endlessvoid4278
      @endlessvoid4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds right to me. Obviously wasn't normal behavior so poor guy must have had bad brain damage. Maybe even something that wasn't found ,or just plain crazy.

    • @SphereOfStreaming
      @SphereOfStreaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Chris Shaffer If they really loved him then they wouldve

  • @jeremysutherlin3803
    @jeremysutherlin3803 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Out of all the crazy disturbing stories, the moment I hear something happened to a pet, I'm out. None of this should have happened, but even when it's not described what happened to the pet, knowing something happened to the pet makes me wince the hardest.

    • @jenniferprettyman1111
      @jenniferprettyman1111 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yup. I'm there with you. Any animals, not just pets. I can't hear it.

  • @eshowoman
    @eshowoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2251

    Did Johnny’s parents tell Cathy Davis about his psychological/neurological issues and criminal history? If they didn’t they were incredibly irresponsible.

    • @Taangxx
      @Taangxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +415

      I think they were very irresponsible. Your son obviously has violent tendencies, he's clearly not in his right mind, he just got out of prison for a break in and assault, yet you think its a good idea for him to move out on his own into a house with other people??? I just don't think that was wise.

    • @ivyhenderson6127
      @ivyhenderson6127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      in the video he says that the parents explained the situation to her

    • @MikeyMike-x4z
      @MikeyMike-x4z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @hbtm2951
      @hbtm2951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@ivyhenderson6127 I don't think explanation is enough, people with mental disorder are somewhat dangerous

    • @ashleystovalldaman
      @ashleystovalldaman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      They share blame in this

  • @RoonilWazlibLover
    @RoonilWazlibLover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    I remember my mother crying when this happened. The woman he killed was her landlord and the first friend she made when she moved to LA about forty years ago 😟

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Oh my gosh I’m so sorry for her! So sad

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Omg.. this is devastating. I'm so sorry to your mom and that you had to see her in pain over this

    • @MisterDevos
      @MisterDevos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bullshit lol

    • @dominicgreen5088
      @dominicgreen5088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@MisterDevos not everyone is a capper, it has as much capacity for truth as it does a lie.

    • @Time_to_Stop_Animal_Cruelty
      @Time_to_Stop_Animal_Cruelty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I feel more sad for her poor cat, getting dismembered. I hate that ppl usually never mention animal victims who r utterly helpless n innocent.

  • @nancymalcom6190
    @nancymalcom6190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3889

    I'm with the brain injury crowd. Sounds like a frontal lobe injury. Such a shame.

    • @chadcuckproducer1037
      @chadcuckproducer1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +305

      Its not unheard of for trauma to kick mental illness into action. Also he was entering the age that schizophrenia tends to crop up.

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +367

      It's insane that the doctor didn't do the MRI anyway. I don't understand why.

    • @fawtyseven5516
      @fawtyseven5516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Yep. Especially that frontal lobe. I’ve seen a lot of meth users get like that and that drug wrecks havoc on that part of the brain.

    • @angietyndall7337
      @angietyndall7337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Agreed and there has to be a more in depth way to check for TBIs, because what was done by this guy proves this.

    • @wes4522
      @wes4522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@pollypockets508 It's up to the patient in the end unfortunately

  • @jamiecheever8888
    @jamiecheever8888 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It's ironic how he left the show because it was too violent. He no longer wanted to play a violent character in the show but ended up being violent in real life.... Humans are strange.

  • @Hentao
    @Hentao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1368

    This one was really sad. Cathy was such a good person, giving space and helping a lot of people that are trying a difficult path, she didn't even care for johnny's jail background, she was just happy to help

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      The cat part was just too much for me. Yeah it wasn't his fault because of traumatic brain injury. But I blame his family. They KNEW he had a brain injury, they KNEW he was acting strange and committing crimes. He was behaving violently. They needed to have him committed. They should have asked a judge for power of attorney. All they had to do was call 911 say he's having a mental health crisis and they'll keep him for three days and ask the doctors at the hospital to recommend they get power of attorney so he can receive further treatment. They failed their son. Just like the parents of the werewolf killer Mr.Ballen did a video on. They failed their son too. Don't fail your family members who are in mental health crisis. Call 911 get them evaluated. Please. If you choose not to do this the blo od's on your hands when something like this happens and your mentally ill loved one hurt someone.

    • @zeuxlaught2797
      @zeuxlaught2797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@WhitneyDahlin true. and his family was bailing him out for no reason.

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@zeuxlaught2797 oh my God I forgot about that! Yeah you're exactly right that makes everything so much worse. They should have left him in jail where he couldn't hurt anyone and he would have been transferred to a mental hospital, and a judge definitely would have ordered he get inpatient treatment. They literally had to do nothing to get him treatment all they had to do was not bail him out over and over again. Man this whole situation is a tragedy. The parents had to have failed their son like ten times in a row for this tragedy to happen. And that's exactly what they did. I hope they feel guilty for it. But something tells me that their the type of people who sleep well at night and don't blame themselves at all.

    • @Rattlsnke
      @Rattlsnke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@WhitneyDahlin I would not compare this to the werewolf family. I believe his parents loved and cared for him and did what they thought was best. It is hard enough to leave your child in jail, but it was making him significantly worse. They kept trying to get him to go to more doctors to find out what was wrong with him, but he kept skipping appointments and if he did go he would not go to the follow ups. As for calling 911 to have him committed, that is often more traumatizing than it is helpful and they rarely hold you more than 24-32 hours, luckily. I think sending him back to the writer’s villa was not an irrational decision. Of course you would not believe your son would murder an old friend, especially when he has only had a few violent outbursts on strangers, not friends or family. Going to a familiar, peaceful place, where he could express his artistic passion could be thought of like a form of therapy. There are many drug rehabilitation centers similar to this. They explained the situation to Cathy before he went there and she welcomed him with open arms.

    • @marshamay2695
      @marshamay2695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WhitneyDahlin ppp

  • @lizrusso9274
    @lizrusso9274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1036

    This is so sad. I’m an esthetician in Burbank and Johnny was my client while he was filming SOS. Many working actors tint their eyelashes while they are filming so they can look more natural. He came in once a month for about a year and half. He was always on time, friendly, calm and engaging to speak with. He was very excited about his daughter being born. He was always a delight to be around in my spa. We talked about all kinds of things.
    He loved animals. At the time, I recently rescued 2 put bulls and we probably talked about the dogs more than anything else because he was always interested in how they were doing in their rehabilitation and training. I remember our conversations like it were yesterday.
    I am so sorry to all involved in this mysterious tragedy. Absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @alisonjacques8009
      @alisonjacques8009 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aa aq

    • @Aabdul-RehmanN
      @Aabdul-RehmanN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      cap

    • @amberowen2004
      @amberowen2004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@Aabdul-RehmanN Just because nothing interesting happens to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen to others. I’ve met many celebrities being in the service industry and working in park city, some are even regulars. It’s pretty common for service industry workers, It’s not that crazy or unbelievable lol.

    • @amberowen2004
      @amberowen2004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @King Charles ✔ It’s someone who does skincare and similar beauty treatments and work in a spa or sometimes plastic surgeons offices/medical spas so things like facials, waxing microdermabrasion, permanent makeup, lash/brow tinting etc.

    • @checkyourhead9
      @checkyourhead9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      thank you so much for sharing your story about Johnny. I feel so sad about how everything happened for him and the others involved.

  • @iridescence51
    @iridescence51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1045

    That irony in this story is truly heartbreaking. Johnny disliked violence to the point he needed to get off Son of Anarchy for his own good. Only to get in a motorcycle accident and end up doing the what he left the show for, except obviously for real.
    Head injuries are really something else.. in some stories, people turn from an average person to a genius at something. Or from a kind person into something fearsome. I find it interested, but frightening, how even a single well placed punch could change someone’s personality like that.

    • @oneyplayes465
      @oneyplayes465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yea, so true. I am starting to look at concussions more and more serious now.

    • @acrock21
      @acrock21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      obviously he was probably having flash backs to his set on SOA

    • @FalseShepherd
      @FalseShepherd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yeah there was so many Victims in this story Johnny was also one of them when he had that accident he was never Johnny. If that accident never happened things could have been different.

    • @jokerspudding1192
      @jokerspudding1192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@acrock21 that's what I've been saying me and my friend got I to an conversation about this mainly cause half Sack was my favorite character besides Jax and Opie

    • @acrock21
      @acrock21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ​@@jokerspudding1192 He probably hit his head so hard that it damaged his memory... and since he had worked so hard on his character and given it so much emotion... his brain grabbed onto the memory of his character and his emotion from the show. He literally became what he hated. That doesnt change that he did what he did.

  • @Maryisthegoldengirl
    @Maryisthegoldengirl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You have a natural talent for story telling!!I enjoy your channel so much!!

  • @NepentheBlue
    @NepentheBlue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    After Johnny's motorcycle accident, when he was at the acting class and began speaking in a British sounding accent makes me think of Foreign Accent Syndrome. It's a real thing, very rare, and sufferers find themselves suddenly speaking in an accent completely unlike their own. It's theorized to be the result of a brain injury. If only Johnny had gone to have an MRI, like his parents had urged.

    • @virginiaviola5097
      @virginiaviola5097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A lady I knew spoke with an Irish accent after a stroke. Not Irish, never been to Ireland..she was Australian. I also knew of a very elderly Italian woman who woke up from a stroke speaking only Spanish, for reasons no one in the family could understand. When family were doing research for a family tree they discovered that she had been born in Argentina, but her parents had returned to live in Italy when she was 2 or 3 years old.

    • @ANPC-pi9vu
      @ANPC-pi9vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is why we need to make it easier to place people like this under temporary conservatorship. It's so clear as his behaviors worsen and his crimes escalate that he does not have the mental capacity to make decisions for himself until his condition is diagnosed and stabilized.
      There was a study that was done that found prison populations have three times higher rates of frontal lobe dysfunction than the general population, which would indicate brain dysfunction plays a big role in criminality. Forcing treatment instead of punishing through prison can help a good portion of criminals reform. The ones who can not reform and are dangerous due to severe brain disfunction or mental illness that doesn't respond to treatment should be put in some sort of permanent asylum where they can continue to try new treatments and be given some human dignity instead of being treated like a criminal who committed crimes by choice, while protecting society from them.

    • @dorothyzijlstra5626
      @dorothyzijlstra5626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, I was thinking of this too.

    • @Squirrelmistress
      @Squirrelmistress 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he stopped doing the accent once someone asked him why he was doing it.

    • @imgoldenspyder9409
      @imgoldenspyder9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A relative of mine had a serious head injury, after he came out of a coma, he spoke with an English accent for a short period, he wasn't even aware of it & everyone was surprised by it since he was never around anyone with an English accent. He has become agoraphobic ever since the injury & doesn't like to stray too far from his home. Sad to see the change especially considering that he used to be an extremely outgoing, social & popular young man, animated, full of life, funny, talkative & entertaining, a dare devil who loved an audience--after the injury, he had a problem with understanding personal space or proper, censored conversation when around others which made people feel extremely uncomfortable, some individuals even threatened him physical harm & this has led unfortunately, to his isolating himself from the world, he's become quiet & reclusive & has anxiety attacks whenever he leaves his home. Brain injuries can definitely turn a person into someone entirely different.

  • @mathiaslibby6445
    @mathiaslibby6445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    Can we talk about how much of a legend dan is saving the painter

    • @keegs1163
      @keegs1163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He was an actual hero though i'm sure most would act the same given the poor painters situation

    • @Max_R_MaMint
      @Max_R_MaMint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dan is Chad's older brother, lol.

    • @dewalt4594
      @dewalt4594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can you just leave a comment without being such a follower and saying " can we talk about how much " ??
      Can we talk about how much of a loser w no life that you are just trying to get " likes " that you have to copy others that do this??? Can we ??

    • @oliviathompson9937
      @oliviathompson9937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why so whiny?

    • @treygreene2546
      @treygreene2546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And his wife

  • @harnoordhillon7315
    @harnoordhillon7315 ปีที่แล้ว +946

    As sad as it is for him to have undergone so much trouble post the accident due to an undiagnosed brain injury, why are we not sympathising enough with the poor woman Cathy. She was a gem and dedicated her life to kindness. She did not deserve to meet such a terrible fate!

    • @aannddrryyaa
      @aannddrryyaa ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right on point.

    • @SMDH.2204
      @SMDH.2204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true.

    • @venessacallaghan7645
      @venessacallaghan7645 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cathy

    • @fanngurl164
      @fanngurl164 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You're absolutely right! But I think it's because the story is about him, that the comments are focused on him.

    • @MorganMoonePole
      @MorganMoonePole ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Or the cat 😭😠

  • @karencarignan8050
    @karencarignan8050 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my brother was 13 he was hit by a car and suffered a brain injury. At first it affected his short term memory, but a month or two later he could no longer remember anything prior the accident. Not only did his behavior change but he became extremely intelligent. Yet 13 years was totally whipped out. At that time his doctors were even baffled at his condition.

  • @MrBallen
    @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    From Billy Jensen’s article: “Two songs off her Teenage Dream album, “The One That Got Away” and “Circle the Drain,” are rumored to be partly about Lewis.”

    • @tripi7906
      @tripi7906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow! And I love your flannels!

    • @squatch26
      @squatch26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s crazy to think and nobody would of thought that.

    • @klc7275
      @klc7275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I remember seeing a James Corden segment where she said The One That Got Away was about Josh Groban. I've never heard of the other song though.

    • @kenkaniff8428
      @kenkaniff8428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@klc7275 that MAY be because she is afraid to mention johnnys name after what he did. it could very well of been about johnny but she doesn't want to admit it after the crime that occured. just a thought and my opinion. it makes sense tho doesn't it?

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hmm. I feel like the quality has degraded since I subbed to ballen a month ago. :\. I was expecting 3 to 5 uploads, and more cool stories like his old stuff of people in ovens etc.. I've had enough legit crazy exes of my own, and mental illness /depression myself so..😐😓 this stuff isn't unusual but a fact of life for a lot of people. Especially Hollywood weirdos.
      It's not "shock value" material at all. 🙄😑😑😑😓😓... It's just a depressing story. I could tell you tons like this one from Hollywood ALONE, and are way more "shocking " ... 😖😞🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
      C'mon mate, why this decline all of a sudden ?? 😓🤦‍♀️

  • @vincentdesacola5438
    @vincentdesacola5438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    It's actually sad. Knowing that good people's personality can be altered by some accident

    • @maillemacanaugh1841
      @maillemacanaugh1841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But for the grace of god, there go I

    • @dosuald
      @dosuald 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's more common than you think, horrifying

    • @jeromepoe946
      @jeromepoe946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That’s how I got schizophrenia… it’s not how people imagine it at all and misunderstood and I wouldn’t believe you if you told me the things it actually does before I had it. I learned the hard way (LITERALLY 😂) (Ik my illness isn’t a laughing matter nor any illness but having good fun with small jokes is ok and that’s coming from someone with the actual illness)

    • @velvetunderpants44
      @velvetunderpants44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awful..

    • @wendychavez5348
      @wendychavez5348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I'm living proof. I don't know who I was before the car accident and traumatic brain injury that changed my life; I remember some things, though it feels like I'm watching a home movie of someone else's life. My family and friends had to get to know an entirely new person. Its disconcerting for me, probably quite eerie for them.

  • @blueheartcreative
    @blueheartcreative ปีที่แล้ว +204

    My sister currently has a brain injury from a car accident a few months ago. It really changed her personality and she’s still trying to figure out how to live again. It’s really scary and I can totally see how a brain injury could cause this.

    • @Stacey0909
      @Stacey0909 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I experienced a TBI from a horrible accident. I had my seatbelt on; and, the airbag deployed. But, my seat came unbolted from the floorboard. I broke my ocular bones, nose, and 4 places on the top of my skull and forehead. It took years & competent counselors; and, I am able to be me again. 🎉

    • @justtired123
      @justtired123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Get her the very best treatment you can as soon as possible. It makes a huge difference. One thing to look into is sometimes areas that have to do with hormones get damaged so if that's the case correct treatment can start turning things around fast. I hope she is resting her brain a lot.

    • @Cedawood
      @Cedawood 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎉​​@@Stacey0909ohhh you have been through the war's, I hope you are coping & the OP story is so hard to hear, let alone be actually involved with.
      I am just a random person, but I too have been through similar event's & just wanted to wish you well🎉
      Keep on keeping on! Xx

  • @nicoleortiz9884
    @nicoleortiz9884 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    being cast on a show about a motor cycle gang and then having an issue with violent plot lines makes so sense at all lol

  • @CountryWV
    @CountryWV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    When you mentioned him speaking with a British accent made me think about a lady I met in a butcher shop I worked at. She was in an accident & got a head injury. After the injury she spoke with a Australian accent. She told me she had foreign accent syndrome. It usually follows a head injury.

    • @savvygood
      @savvygood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m from WV and worked in a butcher shop too!

    • @VanishingPuppet
      @VanishingPuppet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      While true, this isn't exactly the same thing. This was a singular episode apparently, where FAS is - from all the cases I've heard and read about - permanent.

    • @cyclingseagull
      @cyclingseagull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I live in England and most people have British accents here.

    • @BigBodyBiggolo
      @BigBodyBiggolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cyclingseagull lol i heard about that, its so severe that even after years some people start developing the accent

    • @cyclingseagull
      @cyclingseagull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@BigBodyBiggolo We must all have head injuries to talk like this.

  • @thesoapingllamas5131
    @thesoapingllamas5131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    Definitely a TBI. My husband suffered one when he was 26 years old. Took him 10 years to recover and he now has a degree and has very little damage left. He is one of the lucky ones.

    • @bluetextonwhitebg
      @bluetextonwhitebg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      bless you for being such a good wife/person. i really needed a good story to balance out the vile stuff in these videos.

    • @homerdadon6363
      @homerdadon6363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's good to hear

    • @hensonlaura
      @hensonlaura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      My son had a traumatic brain injury, nearly died, was saved by emergency brain surgery to relieve previously undetected bleeding. His personality has changed in that he is more relaxed, tolerant of others, almost difficult to irritate. It is so odd. Odd but good!

    • @robinholland1574
      @robinholland1574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am as well. I am so thankful for my doctors.

    • @thesoapingllamas5131
      @thesoapingllamas5131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@robinholland1574 that's great news! Stay safe and be blessed.

  • @miloselfesteem2326
    @miloselfesteem2326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I've been binging this channel since the 4th of July. I am now terrified of:
    Forests
    Caves
    Cave Diving
    Scuba Diving
    Being on a boat
    Being on a plane
    Being alone after a party
    Being alone at home
    Antique shopping
    Skiing
    Traveling
    My own friends
    Myself
    ... AND I LOVE IT!

    • @rissa8489
      @rissa8489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same I’ve been binge watching all of his vids for hours they’re so entertaining

    • @Ms420g
      @Ms420g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or even going downstairs at night… lol

    • @freakshow7386
      @freakshow7386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samw

    • @ModdedMoon
      @ModdedMoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Which video had antique shopping in it?

    • @vintagecowgirl9893
      @vintagecowgirl9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Antique shopping 😂. Don't know why I'm laughing, I've had several weird experiences of 'old' items.

  • @EllpaFox47
    @EllpaFox47 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    pro tip: sudden personality change is always a sign of brain damage. if someone you know has a sudden shift in personality and they were never in any kind of accident, its probably a brain tumor

  • @bobrice5159
    @bobrice5159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Soon as I heard his entire demeanor changed, TBI popped into mind. It’s no joke, traumatic brain injury can be hell.

    • @andydeadpool8923
      @andydeadpool8923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My husband is a neurologist. He has completely ruined football, motorcycles, and boxing for me. I used to love it, but hearing him talk about the effects that even minor brain injuries can cause, I can't stand to watch any more.

    • @javariusjavarlamariuslamar3759
      @javariusjavarlamariuslamar3759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andydeadpool8923 I’ve had 10 concussions 😔

    • @andydeadpool8923
      @andydeadpool8923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@javariusjavarlamariuslamar3759 I'm truly sorry to hear that. I've had a couple myself (caught a punch to the face that knocked me out cold, fell down the stairs and slammed my head hard enough that I was bleeding out of both ears two weeks later -- really rung my bell.)
      After that slam into the drywall, I find i sleep a hell of a lot more, and my memory isn't nearly as sharp. Husband said it was like my CPU got a little slower.

    • @alalouis1
      @alalouis1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents end up having to supervise their kids forever after that

    • @firstnamelastnameisallowed7943
      @firstnamelastnameisallowed7943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 40 now, but when I was 14 I was in a very bad car wreck. I went face first into the dash and it was an old truck with a metal dash board that didn't expect my face to well and didn't budge much at all LoL. I was the passenger obviously being 14 and we hit a dirt embankment at 70 so it was a complete and sudden stop and I had no seat belt on.
      I ended up passing away three times but was brought back each time again obviously because, well I hope I don't need to explain that part!! The list of broken bones and all the reconstructive surgery's I had over the next many years was all of them! That's what it seemed like any way LoL. The list was long but one of the major ones was a TBI. You have heard of that karate chop move when you upercut someone in the nose you can kill them from the nasal bone going up and stabbing the front of their brain ya? That is basically what that stupid ford truck did to me in a spectacular way. Plus all the brain swelling and the impact bouncing what little brain I had around like a ping pong ball, you could say my dome got jumped in to the TBI family like a gang member back in the day! The first year I don't remember much but after that I would get head aches that were crippling and I would have the craziest outbursts of rage and I would remember being almost like a separate person thinking why am I so mad but would not be able to stop. Physically could not stop hitting whatever triggered me at that moment. The worst was a few times just would black out from being so mad and would come to standing out in the street or someplace I had never been and had no idea were I was at or how I got there. Years and years later I still have a bit of a temper but I can control myself now and I'm lucky that something like this never took place because being on the side of what Jonny was seeing and feeling I can say that it's not something you ever want to see or go through. Terrible that he didn't get the help he needed instead of the ever so easy take these drugs and call me in the morning that doctors always prescribed then. Horrible ending on this one.

  • @proudpatriot3491
    @proudpatriot3491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    Poor guy goes from not wanting to play a violent character to being as brutal as some of the SoA characters. I believe the motorcycle crash did something to him

    • @marq0992
      @marq0992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Just gotta state that it is no excuse though.

    • @proudpatriot3491
      @proudpatriot3491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@marq0992 I totally agree, so unfortunate this happened.

    • @twiddlegbf
      @twiddlegbf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This guy is like a horror movie killer. He feels no damage, he is extremely strong, and he doesn’t talk.

    • @colecampbell1906
      @colecampbell1906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      ​@@marq0992 i mean it kinda is a solid excuse.... brain damage causing you to do things you wouldn't have ever done normally is probably the one thing that could excuse him doing it.

    • @caleb2631
      @caleb2631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don’t think that it could be used in my eyes saying “I have a mental disorder it wasn’t my fault” so I don’t rly feel bad it just kinda sucks to see such a good guy go to that real easy just from something a doctor possibly didn’t see

  • @christydyson4516
    @christydyson4516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Im always so enthralled with your stories, no way I can spot the "secret" I've always been into true crime, and mysteries, but NO one can tell a story quite like you!

    • @rororobertson
      @rororobertson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @janellekays5399
      @janellekays5399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I so agree. Maya if he wasn't so cute we could notice the background. Just sayin

    • @odin688
      @odin688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed, well said. :)

    • @dankone3
      @dankone3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wtf do you want to spot the secret for anyway? What are you 12?

    • @jimmyschmidt5077
      @jimmyschmidt5077 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't ever find the secret either

  • @ivymyricks5528
    @ivymyricks5528 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So glad I found your page. You are really good at storytelling! Thank you I’ve been looking for a page like this

  • @AllScarsHealTarotcardreader
    @AllScarsHealTarotcardreader 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1834

    Am I the only one who NEVER finds the secret !! You’re too captivating! Best story teller

    • @LizONLY
      @LizONLY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Same! Im always so busy listening I never see it. I heard a rumor "the secret" was going away? I hope its not.

    • @flipnasty2296
      @flipnasty2296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Nope lol I've never found it once even when someone points it out i can't find it

    • @GlowBowlPhilosophy
      @GlowBowlPhilosophy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Definitely not the only one lol I never see it either.

    • @liz6799
      @liz6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You're not alone...I can never find it either 😄

    • @watchmeeatfatbellydancer5864
      @watchmeeatfatbellydancer5864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I never see it even if ppl give the answer 😂

  • @aliciat3049
    @aliciat3049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I agree with those who think his personality change came from a head injury. Some years ago, I guy in our church fell off a ladder and hit his head. His personality completely changed: random outbursts, anger, and / or crying. He even chased after the pastor with a metal pipe once, the police were called, and the pastor filed a restraining order against him.

    • @kina18
      @kina18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A boy I went to school with suffered a head injury in auto accident. He went from being a pleasant guy to blithering idiot. I don't believe he became violent but nothing he said made any sense. He would say bizarre things like once he told my cousin that he was going down to the pond to r#pe a turtle. His mother finally placed him in an institution because she couldn't keep him home and he'd wonder about getting into trouble due to weird things he'd say.

    • @thecaptainsnark
      @thecaptainsnark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the fact that the personality change came right after the accident is what makes it sound like a brain injury. It would be a big coincidence if a mental illness came on at the exact same time.

    • @valarmorghulis5575
      @valarmorghulis5575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree. We had a neighbor before who’s head was hit with a bat in a brutal fight with his wife. the poor guy was not the same after. He didn’t have any violent outbursts, but there are time when he is just, passive… and when he talks, he won’t even finish the sentence sometimes and doesn’t even seem to notice he stopped. Head injuries should never be taken lightly.

    • @brianwhite289
      @brianwhite289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm curious if having a scan from before the accident to compare against would have revealed anything.

    • @DannyD-lr5yg
      @DannyD-lr5yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like the person at your church had damage to his frontal lobe, which is in charge of things like emotional regulation and impulse control. This is also the part of the brain that’s impaired and/or differently abled in people who have ADHD.
      I wonder if people like him would be helped from drugs/medications FOR ADHD 🤔 Saying this because I have ADHD that wasn’t diagnosed until last year, when the memory/focus impairments actually had disastrous effects on my new job. After getting on Adderall, I was surprised to find how much less emotionally reactive I am. Situations that used to make me angry are now a mild annoyance, and things that made me cry and feel like dy!ng are now a bit of a bummer. My doctor explained the emotional dysregulation that can be part of ADHD, and I had no idea. Meds like Add3rall are designed to stimulate the frontal lobe specifically, along with increasing dopamine (as ADHD generally involves very low dopamine, which is responsible for the motivation difficulties and the absurdly high rates of drug add!ction).
      Now, I have several extended family members who also have ADHD, which is highly heritable - HOWEVER, I was also literally dropped on my head as a baby lmao. From 6 ft up, onto concrete, smack onto the front of my head. So, I’ve always wondered if that’s part of mine.
      Just some thoughts! Either way, this main story and the man at your church are very sad situations 😔

  • @chrisburke624
    @chrisburke624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I know a guy a few years back who had a very clear, undiagnosed brain injury. Genuinely the nicest guy, and stayed extremely sweet. But after the injury he had so much anger, and became fearless in a way that was extremely frightening.
    80% of his personality stayed the same. But that brain injury- diagnosed or not, changed him

    • @Roxy-ch4gv
      @Roxy-ch4gv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have a tbi. I lost my filter and its scary how unafraid I can be of things.

  • @curlymanjordan
    @curlymanjordan หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Johnny: I can’t be in sons of anarchy anymore it’s to violent….
    Also Johnny: proceeds to become extremely violent …

  • @odinbelleza1590
    @odinbelleza1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    I love how MrBallen gives credit to the source unlike other creators.

    • @KimAhrina11
      @KimAhrina11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who are other creators that didn't give credits to the source? Also other creators took Mr.Ballen narrative, simply translate it to their own languages without gave credit to Mr.Ballen

    • @zacharyshort384
      @zacharyshort384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KimAhrina11 "other creators took Mr.Ballen narrative, simply translate it to their own languages without gave credit to Mr.Ballen"
      ^ That was Odin's point haha

    • @KimAhrina11
      @KimAhrina11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zacharyshort384 I mean other local creators with millions subs & mostly their audience are people from their own countries. Odin's point most likely English speaking creators

    • @zacharyshort384
      @zacharyshort384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KimAhrina11
      I'm confused.
      OP's point was that other content creators don't give credit to their sources. You then gave examples yourself of other content creators not giving credit to their sources (geography is irrelevant).

    • @KimAhrina11
      @KimAhrina11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zacharyshort384 i mention their own languages which like can tell that my point to those locals content creators. Geography is still relevant

  • @londonsage8696
    @londonsage8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    Johnny Lewis had several head injuries. That’s why he couldn’t stand light and the erratic behavior. Certain people thought he was abusing drugs, but he wasn’t. Even Kurt Sutter allegedly said about Johnny’s death “sad, but not surprised” . The autopsy showed no drugs. I’m sorry Cathy loss her life. I’m sorry Johnny lost his life. This was such a sad story.

    • @lovesanimalshatesrats6339
      @lovesanimalshatesrats6339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I shouldn’t have read the comments 😢

    • @shoutatthesky
      @shoutatthesky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If there was an autopsy wouldn't it have shown whether there were any head injuries?

    • @richardtolan5702
      @richardtolan5702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@shoutatthesky Not after he fell to his death and smashed his head.

    • @kch7051
      @kch7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He's a pile...that lady seemed to help everybody, and this ass took her life.

    • @Eremon1
      @Eremon1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kch7051 Keyboard warrior diagnosis...check....

  • @MetalWoodpecker
    @MetalWoodpecker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    The doctor who ignored the head injury, has a lot to live with.

    • @chadcuckproducer1037
      @chadcuckproducer1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Im unconvinced it was 100% for certain it was a tbi and not just coinciding with schizophrenia emerging.
      Remember he was reporting hearing voices and screaming and had been checked over for a tbi and the doctor seemed to think it was mental illness.

    • @MetalWoodpecker
      @MetalWoodpecker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@chadcuckproducer1037 yes. You are right, that's a good point.. however I think that antipsychotics needed to be monitored then and the doctor ignored the family and split the diagnosis between bipolar and schizophrenia, which from my perspective is negligent. Crisis prevention was completely undone, and psychosis was left untreated. I deeply blame that negligence. Just my vote..

    • @chadcuckproducer1037
      @chadcuckproducer1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@MetalWoodpecker yes, the family left a lot to be desired. Especially considering that he was lashing out violently.

    • @atnfn
      @atnfn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So a head injury turned him into some sort of evil superman. Sounds more like he got demon possessed.

    • @austinv9964
      @austinv9964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You have no ide what Jonny said during that appointment, remember that the dr doesn't have the advantage of having all of these details. Head injuries and mental health issues can be difficult to distinguish between without a very thorough background and testing.

  • @EL-ee4cz
    @EL-ee4cz หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I suffered traumatic brain injury and I know I'm not the same. I was arrested 12 times in 2 years, never having legal trouble for 42 yrs. I'm sober for over a year and I'm constantly trying to control my parasympathetic nervous system and remind myself I'm safe and ok. It's a long road.

    • @fangletterman-ng2ro
      @fangletterman-ng2ro 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Try taking pressure off the brain with cranial bone adjusting (craniopathy) thru a Certified AK or SOT chiropractor. Directories thru the ICAK and SORSI, respectively.
      Also: Omega 3 fish oils along with phosphatidyl serine to rebuild brain cells, and curcumin to reduce inflammation (swelling) of the brain.
      Plus, Erchonia low level laser treatment on the brain along with doing cognitive puzzles.
      Also, get regular chiropractic spinal adjustments. Spinal motion, or lack of motion, also affects cranial bone motion.
      NEVER allow ANYONE to use a chiropractic adjusting imstrument, even a simple Activator, ANYWHERE on your head or face!
      Now, go, do, and get better!

  • @kimmykimak3737
    @kimmykimak3737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +973

    Thank u for a respectable piece on my cousin Johnny. Many of us believe it was the head injury from his accident that change his personality and demeanor.

    • @smokymtnlady3856
      @smokymtnlady3856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Of course it was the head injury, it’s very evident that’s when the change started! The Drs failed him! I’m so sorry for your loss!

    • @kimmykimak3737
      @kimmykimak3737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@smokymtnlady3856 Thank u, I wish I would have gotten to know him better.
      My door would have always been open to him.

    • @alystFFS
      @alystFFS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It is a truely tragic story. I hope the world will remember him as the person he really was. He sounds wonderful before the accident. I am sorry for the pain and loss you must have endured as a family.

    • @yuvanbaldwinew9282
      @yuvanbaldwinew9282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Unfortunately T.B.I are over looked by dr. My brother had one from a car wreck. Its no joke.

    • @RobotronSage
      @RobotronSage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yuvanbaldwinew9282 Indeed

  • @hawyadoin1175
    @hawyadoin1175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    What a crazy story. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about this. I was a huge fan of SoA and Half Sack was always a likable character. It’s sad that he never accepted the treatment that he obviously needed.

  • @grimcity
    @grimcity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Man, what a tragic story. His initial doctors really failed him. That's just horrible.

    • @SummerSetBytheSea
      @SummerSetBytheSea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I absolutely agree!

    • @jerryboics9550
      @jerryboics9550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Schizophrenia isn't going to show up on an MRI...

    • @GamerMarine89
      @GamerMarine89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@jerryboics9550 correct but it also could of been due to a head injury from the motorcycle accident, just his brain being screwed from acting all those years, it could of been a number of things. The fact that he was in a motorcycle accident and they didn't do a MRI on him is stupid as shit. Do a CAT and MRI to be safe, you're supposed to be making sure your patients are okay and healthy, take all the precautions just in case.

    • @pdmullgirl
      @pdmullgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@GamerMarine89 Facts. Plus he certainly had the money to get all these tests done, no problem. So the fact that the doctor(s) didn’t do them, they failed him. So sad.
      All that possibly could have been prevented. ❤️💜💚

    • @lyndareilly6893
      @lyndareilly6893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THE SO CALLED DOCTORS DIDN'T EVEN TRY, I HATE THEM. KNOW WHAT THEY CALL THE LAST GRAD FROM MEDICAL SCHOOL...DOCTOR!

  • @DidgyT
    @DidgyT 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you Mr. Ballen for the endless entertainment! You work hard for us and we appreciate you!

  • @HearthacheHound
    @HearthacheHound 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    How can that doctor """not suspect""" a head injury when he checked literally every box for one on the frontal lobe???

    • @HearthacheHound
      @HearthacheHound 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Also: how can be that someone is deemed so unhinged to be placed in a psych ward, but be judged enough aware to be able to refuse medical checkup? (Not even procedure: that is another thing). Genuine question, idk how America Health sistem works in terms of coercitive care.

    • @MelissaKopcho
      @MelissaKopcho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There was a time in the usa when people could "get rid of" family members by having them locked up in "insane asylums". I'd have to research it more, but from casual observation it seems that history has been behind legislation that makes it very difficult to force care on someone against their will, even if they really need it. The exception being if a person is an immediate threat to themselves, in which case they can only be held for 24-48 hours depending on the county.

    • @yuwannakno1269
      @yuwannakno1269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The US 'Healthcare' system is worthless as a second world country. EVERYTHING about it sucks.

    • @izzojoseph2
      @izzojoseph2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MelissaKopcho ~ you’re pretty much spot on

    • @tarancehill651
      @tarancehill651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yuwannakno1269 agreed. Last time I used the health care system (with insurance!!) I got a $350 bill for a FLU TEST.

  • @STasugx
    @STasugx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +592

    I adored him in Sons of Anarchy. His character was an angel amongst wolves, and to hear this was reflective of his personality in real life before the accident makes this even more heartbreaking. RIP to him and his landlord.

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I loved him too! Was so surprised to find this out about him 😢

    • @carlyross8344
      @carlyross8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      And her cat! 😢

    • @J86_918
      @J86_918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I think he did suffer psychological issues and imagine working n that show delving deep into a character with an unstable mentality I wonder if that caused him to lose touch a bit

    • @X3AmySarah
      @X3AmySarah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@J86_918 he also had a brain injury that no one did anything about

    • @J86_918
      @J86_918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@X3AmySarah yup unfortunately we were still in the “grow the hell up” era rather than helping people 😪

  • @tanyaferguson1738
    @tanyaferguson1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Since watching TH-cam I've stumbled across a story about him once. Until I heard the full story here I hadn't any idea how sad this young actors life had turned. He was a good-looking man and a good actor and I think the system failed him because I truly believe that he sustained an injury to the head from his motorcycle accident & he was misdiagnosised. My heart goes out to his family, his friends & all who loved him. And if it weren't for MrBallen posting this video I would have continued to believe that Johnny had just lost his marbles and would have been left with the wrong impression of him. Thank you MrBallen for having the sense of mind to feel this story needed to be told. You are still saving our country from the bad things even if those bad things are bad impressions. Keep up the fantastic job you're doing.

    • @paulwahome2956
      @paulwahome2956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.... what do you know

    • @samalderman2721
      @samalderman2721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro I don’t think anyone could speak their appreciation for mr.b and what he does more better than you just did

    • @austinsimone3330
      @austinsimone3330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for expressing how I feel better than I ever could have @Tanya Ferguson

    • @tanyaferguson1738
      @tanyaferguson1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for all your awesome comments on what I posted about this latest video. And I'm really glad that there are others out there who feel the same way I do and aren't hating on me about either my grammar, or punctuation or just for speaking the truth. I've seen all of the videos MrBallen has posted pn TH-cam that he posted here and he has never deviated from the format he uses when making his videos. In days like these, we need to hear the truth and we need to be able to find a way to find our way back to our own Humanity even if it is through the telling of the darker side of Humanity, and MrBallen is leading the way as our "Top".

    • @hyperspacejester7377
      @hyperspacejester7377 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "until I heard the full story" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Karamel.Peachez
    @Karamel.Peachez 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I remember this story being on Death by Fame on the ID channel but they definitely didn’t go into detail like this! I’m so glad I caught it here and yes it seems as though his accident was the catalyst for everything that followed right up until the unprovoked attacks. Thanks for the content!

  • @ZombieSazza
    @ZombieSazza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    Head injuries are no joke, they can cause serious issues. The hospital should’ve kept him in for observation. There’s been cases where folk have thought they’ve been attacked, had their home broken into, think they’re talking to people in front of them when none of these things have happened, but their head injury has messed them up and they’re convince these are really happening. So if you ever hurt your head, make sure they properly check you over, because it can get worse and worse.

    • @shelby8559
      @shelby8559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ty

    • @donnamillner9906
      @donnamillner9906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s recommended if you sustain a hit to the head that knocks you out, even for a short time, you should get a ct scan to rule out a bleed.

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes defined take a head injury seriously

    • @Gino_567
      @Gino_567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      honestly sounds more like undiagnosed schizophrenia than a head injury to me..

    • @maximtiffany1976
      @maximtiffany1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Gino_567 If you ever met anyone with a traumatic brain injury, you might change your mind about that. You'd be surprised how it can completely change someone's personality.

  • @doubleodie3813
    @doubleodie3813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Mr.Ballen I've heard a story of a child who one day basically turned evil and no one could figure it out. But one Dr. did it was a tumor in his brain that put pressure on his brain causing this erratic and violent behavior. Also it's believed that those who were deemed possessed and had exorcisms might have also had similar brain tumors.

    • @7mcandes
      @7mcandes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I saw a TH-cam documentary on the brain and violent behavior. There was a similar story.

    • @ayabokti161
      @ayabokti161 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂......😈
      Humans are so predictable

    • @thebusinesswoman23
      @thebusinesswoman23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've always wondered if some "possessed" people instead had things like; schizophrenia, dissociative identity disorder, bipolar, adhd, or symptoms like mania, or psychosis from definitive physical/psych conditions.

  • @Emcee3Two
    @Emcee3Two 3 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    I believe whole heartedly there was a head injury involved in his change of behavior. By best friend and I were walking through L.A. a few years ago, I ducked under the bar of some scaffolding, but because of the bill on his hat, didn't see how low it was and hit himself in the forehead pretty good. From that very moment, his mood changed. He no longer wanted to do ANYTHING, and as a normally outgoing, extrovert, he became a hermit. Entered a deep depression that took 2 years for him to get out of. And it was literally like a switch flipped, it was that sudden. And that was just from a tap to the front of the head that he was able to walk off. So I can imagine a much more severe and more permanent result being possible from more severe head trauma. Such a sad story all around.

    • @jout738
      @jout738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      His head might hit in the crash that way, that he lost from his brains the empathy part, while the violent part just became some how stronger with him wanting to out from no reason make violent acts.

    • @Emcee3Two
      @Emcee3Two 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @Ellie A eventually. It took 2 years and the help of therapy. It was crazy because he felt the immediate change too, and we would have multiple conversations about how he was cognizant of his drastic change, but was somehow powerless to change it. The self awareness actually deepened his depression because he wanted nothing more than to change back to how he was before, but couldn't figure out how, until he was finally able to due to whatever brain trauma healing, and the therapy. It was crazy to witness from a 2nd hand perspective, and I would have been super skeptical of its legitimacy had I not been there myself.

    • @BerniBernsify
      @BerniBernsify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Absolutely this is TBI behavior !! He probably got more damage confronting those 2 guys also. It's not something doctors can easily see and tell you , yep 💯 you got traumatic brain injury, here's your treatment. No, it's a huge gray area with no real cure. Just like anything to do with spine damage/deterioration, nerve damage, chronic debilitating pain and autoimmune disease. we are in the dark ages for that kind of medical treatment!!

    • @Integraldisinteragtion
      @Integraldisinteragtion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Emcee3Two was he ever officially diagnosed with any head injury? In this case I think the warning signs were far too many, like the accent change to british

    • @Reg_The_Galah
      @Reg_The_Galah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Makes you wonder if it’s possible to hit your friend in the head a certain way he’ll return to normalcy

  • @RobRoss
    @RobRoss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They should have autopsied him and studied his brain to see if they could find any physical damage from the accident that might explain his behavior.

  • @aluthebhaja7528
    @aluthebhaja7528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1235

    *Me finally thinking of completing my assignment *
    Mr Ballen: I don’t think so kid!

    • @spaidsmain
      @spaidsmain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You in school still?

    • @aluthebhaja7528
      @aluthebhaja7528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@spaidsmain yes. I’m in 11th grade

    • @prixietrixie_
      @prixietrixie_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm in 12th Grade

    • @kailaayling9989
      @kailaayling9989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      big love and huge respect london uk x

    • @Humanzzz
      @Humanzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@prixietrixie_ wtf is 12th YOU GOTTA DO 12 YEARS?

  • @elsienicole5663
    @elsienicole5663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    I didn’t even know this guy died….let alone murdered an old lady and her cat. Yikes! See this is why people need to take head injuries more seriously. I understand his parents tried to get a second opinion but man, what a tragedy.

    • @ANPC-pi9vu
      @ANPC-pi9vu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The problem is, someone who's lost their capacity of self control or informed decision making can't be trusted to do what is needed to get diagnosis and treatment. It used to be easier for courts and relatives to force people into treatment facilities, but patient's rights activists went way too far in making it hard to do that. If they could have put him under a temporary conservatorship or something in response to his initial criminal charge, they could have saved lives. It's sick and sad. There was one study that found that prison populations have around three times higher occurrence of frontal lobe dysfunction than the general population. The frontal lobe mediates your decision making process, pretty much. A really famous case of frontal lobe disorder in criminality would be the Boston Strangler, a serial killer who went on to take part in a lot of research while in prison and donated his body to science. I once saw a fascinating documentary about it.

    • @tittentei7331
      @tittentei7331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mk ultra

    • @tiredofitall9213
      @tiredofitall9213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ANPC-pi9vu You are completely right! I fell 8 yrs ago, seen lights and stars literally, puffy face had 2 black & blue eyes as well. The hospital ER doctors sent me on my way saying I was fine🙄
      The next day they called and stated that I fractured my frontal lobe. I did go to a neurologist and they clamied it will heal ok, but I also had a concussion. I never went back, because at that time I didn't have insurance and no money.
      Since then I've been diagnosed with Depression and Bipolar Disorder. I really think that head injury has a lot to do with my mental health! It's sad that he didn't get the right help😔 If a different doctor didn't look at my MRI or CAT scan they would've never have seen my fracture. I think due to my substance abuse history they were very biased towards me. It's like they wanted me out of the ER🤷🏻‍♀️ Even though I looked like I had been in a car accident or beaten up badly...

    • @nicolem3502
      @nicolem3502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tiredofitall9213 I know people who have gotten into car accidents and fights and gotten diagnosed with TBI, later on they got a bipolar diagnosis as well. People who damage their brains using synthetic drugs act in a similar manner.

    • @nicolem3502
      @nicolem3502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tiredofitall9213 the psychologist who diagnosed you with bipolar disorder probably made notes attributing it to a possible TBI. I work in a psych ward, when we do nursing report, they will go over each patients diagnosis ,some are unspecified meaning that we don't know yet what is going on with them until further psych observation, but they'll mention past head injuries or drugs use or whatever is helpful in understanding what could be causing their current mental crisis/behaviors

  • @Holytoaster
    @Holytoaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    The doctor that just gave him pills and sent him on his way failed him miserably.

    • @apophis259
      @apophis259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Dave Hope I think he was referring to the fact his brain injury may have been caused by the motorcycle accident not a neurosis

    • @andresgonzalez1236
      @andresgonzalez1236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Dave Hope he gave him sych meds. He went in thinking it might have been a head injury. He definitely needs to lose his license

    • @MargetMints
      @MargetMints 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Dave Hope Not that. He means the Doctor seems to not even see the head injury as a possibility and so... Failed big time... Just like you did right here

    • @mousiemilky6927
      @mousiemilky6927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Normal pills

    • @thinkfirst1989
      @thinkfirst1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Dave Hope It absolutely does not work for people who have mental illnesses that separate their perceptions from reality. People with delusions and hallucinations need some level of regular supervision and care.

  • @rustybucket5465
    @rustybucket5465 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This dude was a weirdo in 2005. His failed career is what made him nuts not a bike accident.

  • @galilaya42
    @galilaya42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    Now that's the definition of irony. Someone so against violence then their brain injury turns then into a violent murderer. The brain is a wonderful and strange organ. RIP to the deceased.

    • @v12alpine
      @v12alpine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The violent thoughts were already there. The acting violently was for sure triggering. Dude had a mental disorder and refused any treatment.

    • @julianbyas
      @julianbyas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Always boggles my mind when I wonder about how the right formula of matter found in our universe creates such complex, sentient consciousness, that's still displayed so differently from one person to the next

    • @arganiaspinosa9122
      @arganiaspinosa9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yea, if he was in his right mind he would have been deeply ashamed of all the harm he caused people.

    • @benpietrzykowski9216
      @benpietrzykowski9216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well you just stated the reason why over half the world believes in some sort of higher power . It just doesn’t add up

    • @bigthunder7002
      @bigthunder7002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@julianbyas and that all matter is essentially made up of all the same stuff yet materializes in very unique and different ways.
      But maybe the “matter” doesnt create consciousness but is designed rather to receive it. Like a radio receiving a signal

  • @alyzimm1741
    @alyzimm1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    Ballen's story telling is hands down the best of the best💯

    • @_a_v_j
      @_a_v_j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It's like a drug to me

    • @samr.i.9485
      @samr.i.9485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They're the best, real glad I came across this channel

    • @fearxscape
      @fearxscape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YESSS!

    • @sandipbiswas766
      @sandipbiswas766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Been binge watching these 😭

    • @fearxscape
      @fearxscape 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sandipbiswas766 one is like a Japanese airplane Story and the other was a island Story, I think. I now wonder where my Original Comment to you went. Please ck out on his Playlist "Before they were famous!" TALK ABOUT A TWIST LOL

  • @TheTamsicles
    @TheTamsicles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1663

    Mr Ballen: a woman AND HER CAT needlessly died. As if there weren’t any more reasons to love Mr. Ballen, he makes sure to mention the cat and the importance of his/her death as well. Poor woman and kitty 😿

    • @SonikPanther
      @SonikPanther 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Why are you afraid to misgender a cat?

    • @erismana2105
      @erismana2105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@SonikPanther * eye roll

    • @Anne-qr2si
      @Anne-qr2si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      For animals you don't know the gender, It is used

    • @NikkiRyan1979
      @NikkiRyan1979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@SonikPanther 😂🤣👍🏻

    • @donibgurung3995
      @donibgurung3995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pp

  • @jennadavis-waite4442
    @jennadavis-waite4442 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know a lady whose husband got a tbi after a vehicle accident. His personality changed to the point where she couldn't be married to him anymore, it was like he was a stranger. He couldn't be bothered with their young children anymore and the kids were now scared of him. He ended up cheating on her before she could leave him, which wasn't something that had been an issue in their marriage before. She feels more relieved than sad/hurt, because she said he's so unlike the man he used to be, that it's literally like he IS a completely different person. She said he's permanently angry, rude and even his voice sounds different. He's a recreational drug user now and has a girlfriend much younger than him. The ex-wife tries to encourage the kids to see him, and vice versa, but the kids don't want to see him and he doesn’t want to see them.

  • @tynee123
    @tynee123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    It's so frustrating when stories that end so tragically start off with a person whose mental health was so clearly obvious, yet the the ball was dropped throughout multiple incidents. Smh! My sympathy goes out to all involved.

    • @cirkle862
      @cirkle862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’ve spent time working neuropsych units. Unfortunately the tech just isn’t as advanced as we’d all like yet. If any good at all can come from situations like that poor kid went through it will be further development of diagnostics and understanding of brain injuries/mental health issues.

    • @Liberty-Freedom-Outdoors
      @Liberty-Freedom-Outdoors 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You said their mental health was so clearly obvious what ?????? It is what ? I’m great shape bad ugly I mean like finish your sentence

    • @oggyboggy8692
      @oggyboggy8692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The fact that the the judge didn't send him to a mental institution when he wanted to represent himself? Like, did he not seem a bit off? And the fact that a man who broke into a womans apartment for unknown reasons got a reduced sentence???? Seriously scary.

    • @TheFixIsIn-fe1jy
      @TheFixIsIn-fe1jy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The judge could have had him do his sentence in a mental hospital, they are at the end of the day who decides where when and how.

    • @janedoe8566
      @janedoe8566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Liberty-Freedom-Outdoors lol I was thinking the same thing. People always say that instead of saying poor mental health or whatever.

  • @ashleywinter6620
    @ashleywinter6620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Does anyone else get sooooo caught up in listening to the story that no matter how many times you try, you just know you never will find the secret in the video because you can't stop watching Mr. Ballen tell the story. Oh, and if you read this, PLEASE don't cut your hair. Us guys with long hair gotta keep that look going brutha! lol. Keep up the awesome work!

    • @LouEllermore
      @LouEllermore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I listen to the stories during work so I miss them everytime

    • @DJ-Krimson-Steele
      @DJ-Krimson-Steele 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LouEllermore Same.

    • @kiimmig2293
      @kiimmig2293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have only found a couple of them, and that’s being told exactly where to look 🤣😂

    • @zebrastrong9291
      @zebrastrong9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve never once seen the hidden item, lol

    • @Bokmoh
      @Bokmoh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Women be jealous of my hair dawg. Lets go.

  • @thorodinson4019
    @thorodinson4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    He legit said that he didn't like violence in the show he was working in which is why he left. It's sad what happened to him.

  • @astronomyangel
    @astronomyangel หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cannot stop rewatching your videos, best to watch/listen to when resting or going to sleep.

  • @luisangeles487
    @luisangeles487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    He ended up being the guy he never wanted to be

    • @ombeth
      @ombeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Really good point

    • @KimberlyHarge
      @KimberlyHarge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow, yeah talk about life imitating art, or vise versa.😧🤔😔

    • @user-bg5or2ck5x
      @user-bg5or2ck5x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ah man, this made me really sad 😔

    • @ellamayoxoxo9510
      @ellamayoxoxo9510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This comment made me so sad 😞

    • @hyperspacejester7377
      @hyperspacejester7377 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      People often find their destiny on the path they took to avoid it!

  • @deannacrownover3
    @deannacrownover3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I have a head injury from a bad motorcycle accident.
    After two years, I find that my emotions seem to be gone.
    The only one I can muster is anger, and it's become my default emotion.
    I can see how this could happen.

    • @loganplonski922
      @loganplonski922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hoping you all the best in your recovery.

    • @TB-ne1rw
      @TB-ne1rw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Please. Insider meditation. It helped me.

    • @shinseiki2015
      @shinseiki2015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes anger is the easiest feeling to create, dont need a lot for the brain to get it

    • @deannacrownover3
      @deannacrownover3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TB-ne1rw thank you! I'll look into it right away!

    • @laurenbrown869
      @laurenbrown869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do the Dr Dispenza courses with meditation. Healed myself! You can as well.

  • @scarlao
    @scarlao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    RIP Cathy Davis. Seemed like a lovely lady.

    • @natismyname.4844
      @natismyname.4844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      and her cat rip

    • @NoName-mi8bm
      @NoName-mi8bm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I keep thinking why do I know here name as soon as youtuber mentioned it. Definitely didn't realize she was murdered.

    • @Dan-ny1wx
      @Dan-ny1wx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hate seeing these messages at the top it’s a spoiler for the video!

    • @scarlao
      @scarlao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Dan-ny1wx I apologise that the death of a human being spoilt things for you.

    • @NoName-mi8bm
      @NoName-mi8bm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Dan-ny1wx Tip. Watch full video then view comments.