@@globalismoblackman Don't you mean a black man? Not all blacks are from Africa & even some black people have pointed out the political crap that people spew out from the government.
I will be coming over to Philippines for the first time early next year. I will come "blindly" as l do not enjoy dating sites with regards to scams. Hope to meet up with you then. Looking forward to my trip
I came to the Philippines after 25 years of stressed-out career and failed relationships in Los Angeles, thinking it was too late for me to have a normal family and an actual committed relationship. 10 years later I'm married to the best woman I've ever known, in the relationship I've been waiting my whole life for. She's from the Provinces, just as you say. Unspoiled, motivated, resourceful, happy, friendly, honest. I thought women like this were some Disney fantasy, after my time in L.A., but they exist in the Philippines.
@@Jazmine2534 Not all Filipinas are good, but a substantial portion are vastly superior to the lazy, entitled, deceitful tramps I dated in Los Angeles.
@@Jazmine2534 Not all Filipinas are good, but a substantial portion are vastly superior to the lazy, entitled, deceitful tramps I dated in Los Angeles.
@@Samson-dn4eo Yes, I live in the Philippines now. Bacolod City, Negros Island. Anywhere in Visayas is safe to travel. From Mindoro Island south thru the southern tip of Negros, Cebu, and Siqujor is quite safe. Mindanao is sketchy. My advise, don't go unless you have friends who live there. Manila is not a place to hang out, unless you are in the nice parts of the city called, Makati, Fort Bonefacio, or Mall of Asia areas. There are quite a few nice places on Luzon. Tagaytay for example.
When I first started researching the Philippines I had no intention to find a girl. I just wanted to live out my retirement here. I kept seeing ads for Chtristian Filipina. I broke down and joined. I am now living in the Philippines with my beautiful wife
@@ChadFosterExplores I'm a alpha make cowboy/farmer retiring to the Philippines, want to find a Christian country farm gal (w/kid or two) and marry into her family out in the boonies! And I will contact you when I get there! I have friends there but would like to do all I can to find happiness!
I'm am here now in PH. 1st trip here. My girlfriend is from Masbate & we met me in Cebu. I honestly have never experienced anything like I'm experiencing now. I was watching the sunset a couple of days ago and was overcome with a tremendous amount of happiness from being with her & everything ive been so blessed to experience here so far .I'm so happy I literally almost shed tears the other day. Haven't been this happy in a long long time....If you are thinking about coming here stop wasting time & book your flight.
I met a young provincial Filipina while standing on the tarmac late one night at Kadena Air Force Base in Okinawa Japan. She was walking by, and I went, "Hmmmm...." Five months later we married. Probably not the best way to go about it if you are looking to meet and build a relationship with one. The odds of it happening are pretty slim. You could be standing out there a long time before one wanders by.
I used to chat with a former US guy who met his Filipina wife while posted to the Philippines after a tour in Iraq. He was walking along the footpath and saw a Filipina walking in front of him, he liked the view so much he overtook her and started a conversation with her. The end result he has a wife and children.
@@maddoman11 meeting a beautiful Filipina in the Philippines is about the easiest thing in the world. As you noted, just walking down the street is certainly good enough to find one to spend a lifetime with. There are certain procedures and cultural touch points that do make it easier to start and build that relationship. The better you know those, the the better you can do so.
My province girl (Samar) and I met via PenaLove over 2 years ago. I liked being able to sort through our likes and dislikes online. Wasn’t looking for short term fun. But I met some really bad girls until I finally found a good girl. I think your advice in this regard is pretty good.
All good suggestions I've been in the Philippines off and on since the 90s.. previously married to a Filipina.. I checked into Christian Filipina and they have quite the salespeople and they are bloody expensive unless you're some kind of wallflower that can't walk up to a woman or have the common sense to check her out I would say it's a lot of money.. cheaper to have your own Filipino attorney and background check whomever you're associating with
Glad to hear you're doing well. I appreciate your fresh perspective. Keep posting. Even if you don't feel like you have a lot of content it's enjoyable going on the bike rides with you and seeing the scenery.
I "dated" my Filipina online for a year before meeting her. Best way to get to know each other as long as you don't lie. She was from Cebu city, so not a province girl. She was so nieve to the outside world, so when she finally came to the states she became disillusioned. Then her family started asking for money all the time. I put her in charge of that, but told her if she wanted to "send", she should get a job. She learned real fast the stress they put on me financially. Been married 12 years and have an 8 year old boy. Filipina girls can be sweet, but watch out for the "tampo". 😂 BTW I'm 61 now, and she's turning 34 this month. She was 21 when we met.
I learned about that sending money stuff when I worked at the hospital. She came here on a fiancé visa but when she got a job I said it's up to you. You are working for it now. I just never understood why they become the person they try to suck money from for life. I haven't been there yet, but I imagine they live very poor so I kind of understand but the mentality of wanting that support for life is mind boggling. Perhaps some have no choice.
I'm following you from last year. Yea I saw your vlog about Filipina Christian. I did sigh up 3 month ago, so far so good. Dating online in some way is better ,save you time and money. But to see the person in person and sense it is the better. Thank you and make new vlogs, you are good at that.
You "date" online to see where you will go to next. Plane trips are less than $100. I found my wife on the second island I flew to, but I think Cebu is the best starting point for a few days walking/taxiing around because the people are so friendly there. There's an energy that is matched in other places too but it's different. You get scooped up in the current of Filipino ways 1st, then you can start to venture out (to other islands).
Great video Chad you are so right on with all your talking points. I did a bit different after a year in the Philippines I have a home base. province of Capiz , Roxas City. Been here 3 months only saw and met 4 foreigners. Taking my time to find the right person to spend the rest of my life with. I am also ok living alone. Lost my wife 7 years ago it’s ok to be alone for now and find the right person to live with. I am not a fan of dating sites but may do it. I have made a lot of Filipino friends so enjoy the culture. It’s very easy for me to meet people and make friends so someday I will meet the right women. Take care and keep the videos coming.
Hey thank you for the message, that's great I heard it's quite nice up there I definitely want to check it out before too long, glad you are loving it and yes I agree in the right time you will meet the right one that's how I feel too, thanks for watching I appreciate it!
Live in the province for awhile and u might think differently. Loud obnoxious motorcycle, barking dogs all night ,crazy roosters, bad karaoke until 3am... not power for a day...a 1 our drive to the grocery store. no internet for a few days... ohh its paradise in the province...
Yes often that is true! For me it depends on where I'm staying and what area sometimes it could be pretty bad indeed. Video coming that talks about that side of the province
No internet, nice drive thru the country for groceries, I bet it is still quieter than the states, I've gotten used to wearing ear plugs ,no ice/frost/snow. Where do I sign up 😊
@@DManGrand you obviously haven't lived on the south side of Chicago, north St.louis ,west Memphis, Washington DC, East Los Angeles 20 other countries huh sounds like you don't know much about the US.
Hi Chad , I met my American partner online thru Ok Cupid, We are now married. I love watching your video . Thank you for sharing your experiences , you content is very helpful. Im a Filipina not to brag we are loving, kind hearted and caring. We value relationship.
“Stay True to who You Are” was the best quote of the video! Enjoy all of your content! Having a convo with you would provide valuable, experienced advice. Appreciate that you give me a better sense of perspective & direction prior to me visiting the Philippines. Thank You Chad!
You have a good point about actually being in the Philippines and how a guy is knocked off his focus.... Over Stimulation from a wider range of ladies... Who are open to date you... It really takes a lot of concentration and self discipline to stay on your goal of selecting the best women for you and your life goals.. It's not difficult for a lady to follow you when you are checking out the women... You have to stick to your criteria.. You are the prize... You have to use a certain amount of effort to take the initiative to know your surroundings... Don't put yourself in the position of relying upon her.... Then she will steer things to her direction... This is one of the biggest mistakes Western Men make... They give the power to the Filipina right off the bat.. They let them be their MOMMA... Bad move... You have to be the DADDY The MAN and be the ONE... to Take charge... Or you will get Sucked into their agenda...
Absolutely 💯 Chad, i did not use your link to CF but that is where I met my baby at. Still only an LDR but will see her in August and spend about 3 weeks getting to know her in person. I have never, ever had so much attention from a woman in my life. I am 60 and am amazed at the level of time and attention my Filipina devotes to me. I love it!
I agree with being cautious and taking care of the reputation. Dating here is very different. Not only with a foreigner but dating in general. We cannot just go out with anyone to test the water to see if we will get along and share the same vibes and then if not then jump to another guy to set another date until we meet the right one for us. You cannot do that here. People would think you are somewhat like a playgirl 😅entertaining different guys. So usually, we will do the “testing of water” through chat/call until we are sure enough to agree for a date. That’s why dating here is really hard, chatting/texting takes time only to realize that you don’t like each other the moment you meet them. (Oh, one thing we do is to date the guy in a place far from our Baranggay. So it’s safe from people’s attention and less pressure. We’ll just allow them to visit our hometown when we are sure that it will lead to a relationship 🫣)
Thank you for this insight from a Filipina. Between what you wrote and the vlog, I think we get a fairly good idea what dating is like in the province. For example, meeting her away from her home province takes the pressure off of her . Westerners need to empathize with the social consequences for a Filipina of dating a foreigner. We tend to think of dating as having no consequence because it has none in the West. In PH, there is a social price of dating and the province Filipina takes a big social risk when she dates a foreigner. Western men should do whatever they can to minimize that risk and the potential price they will pay if the relationship fails. Thanks for your insight
Yes...this is very true. Once me & my girlfriend got acquainted she wanted to make sure no one knew my name. She said every girl in the Barangay would be after me on Facebook trying to steal me away....lol
I've tried online dating in the UK for 18 years and yeah I got some like but I only got a few matches and they had a ready made family and even then I would get ghosted, Thing is I'm not ugly I'm 6'3 I have a good job good personality but got nothing.. So I'm working on myself get my life in tip top condition debt free save money then when I'm 46 - 47 I'm going to spending January - April in the Philippines get myself a good Christian women with good values who loves life and start a family. I think girls in the west are like kids in a candy shop they have too much choice and they usually end up picking something they don't like.. their loss not ours fellas. Get someone who will adore you and who will never leave doesn't moan a good happy women.. Good luck everyone God bless
@carloshahar5858 Dating would be a fine thing if the women even read our messages, if they don't even reply to our engagement, how can we ever meet. Believe me I've tried, God knows I tried. Good luck bro God Bless
Good common sense advice. Leyte seems like a very nice & chill island. I'm going to be relocating to either Phils or Thailand next year. Right now leaning hard towards Thailand, but I will be visiting both countries again in a few weeks and maybe go one more time later this year to check out new spots. Will be making my mind up by year end.
Have not regretted meeting my filipina online first before visiting Cebu. Granted it took awhile because there were a lot of girls but my wife checked all the boxes and we are both very happy. Good luck on your search, Chad...Jim
Great video. I've been here a little over a month near Manila. I really think I am with the wrong Philippina, but its so hard to just walk away from such a young beautiful woman. In the US it would be inconceivable to even think of moving on from what I have now. If I can find it in myself to break it off, I think I will try the province to see if I can find a better long term match. Nothing is holding me here in Quezon City except the woman.
I’m a Filipina here in Texas. If you have doubts, please move on. You don’t want to be with the “wrong” Filipina your entire life. Go to the province and meet your perfect match. Beautiful? There are lots of beautiful women.
You are falling for what is called the sunk cost fallacy. Because you've invested XYZ, you don't want to see that XYZ wasted by giving up even though it would be in your best interest to do so, so you continue to invest more and more XYZ. Just stop. Stop the investment. Stop the time wasting. Move on. It can be hurtful and regretful, but if it is in your best interest to do so then it is actually the best thing to do.
Appreciate your very Helpful videos Chad about Reality, different ways of Living, different ways of Thinking in Filipines Islands, keep up good work ! ! !
Thanks for the video and info. My plan is just to move to the Philippines and enjoy a better life. Take my time with finding the one and improve myself and enjoy the culture.
thats cool i took a pic at that same spot where you started the video at . i went there in 2016 and visited the waterfalls there and stayed 2 days on that island . was part of my road trip thru all of leyte and samar
A lot of filipina from province goes to Manila for work so i think you dont really have to go to super country side, there are many "probinsyana" who has ordinary jobs in Luzon, city parts. Just dont grab girls at clubs or just anywhere 😂 it's really up to you on how you handle it and how you judge. Be wise and ask God for wisdom.
Mrs Rick went from the province to Manila to go to one of the major universities. She lived at a relative's boarding house, which served all the young family members who also made that transition to college. When we later met she had a good experience of living in the big city but was still a provincial girl at heart.
yeah half v pinays i meet online dating in manilla n other cities r actuallt frm v provinces, vey wrk in cities a cle yrs 2 get money n ven go back hme 2 prov.
Local girls in Bali are very similar. Gotta go super slow. Text a few days. Go to lunch at a local restaurant very near their home / work. Not a fancy restaurant. Slowly slowly.
Lived 20 years in the Philippines, this guy has some great advice. I disagree with his reading of Filipina, in that they want to go slow, but instead what a confirmation that the guy went to the Philippines to meet her specifically. The gossip thing, 100%. The openness to strangers, ya 100%. Every Filipina has heard of guys shopping for "short time" with an ignorant girl. Impregnate her and disappear. So, she asks "do you have a Filipina you are visiting?" because for sure she is going to tell that Filipina her guy is still shopping. You chat for 3 months while in the US, city gal or country, you are going to get laid in the first 4 days. It is not about money, morals, drive, "entrapment," or any of that. It is you fit her dreams. She wants security, travel, predictability, to be valued, white/pretty children, an emotionally mature guy. You fit her checklist. Love? huh? She will learn to live and love with you. This is a culture without divorce. Make the best of what you have, he is the last.
Man i appreciate your videos and the window you provide into a possible new life. I’m 52 going through a divorce and in such a sucky time of life right now. Just unhappy and going through the motions of working and just day to day life. The more I learn about the Philippines it gives me hope for possible happiness in retirement. I just hope I have the guts to actually make that big move. Keep the videos coming man, thank you!!
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear someone positive. I’m not a bar hopper or party guy. I’m looking to change my life for the better. I’m hooked on your channel.
God knows better for you and for her. There is no luck, or accidental meetings, it’s all karma: you made a decision to end up one day in one place and she will be waiting for you there. Just have clear plan and Gods will to do something good in life.
My church friend actually met a really friendly and pretty Philippine online and chatted with her for almost a year before he went to go see her. I don't see it happening just by going for a week long vacation.
I appreciate very much that you qualified who is the Filipina you are meeting here in our country. We have been stereotyped so many times that the world forgot we are island people, and as island people, we possess our own island's culture and custom. Our three major islands are Luzon, Visayas, and Mindanao, thus we have Luzonian Filipinas, Visayan Filipinas, and Mindanaoan Filipinas. Needless to say, each Filipina has different worldviews and personalities shaped by their own cultural backgrounds. The Luzonian Filipinas are predominantly Tagalogs, Visayan Filipinas are Cebuanas, Warays, etc. and Mindanaon Filipinas are predominantly Muslims and Visayans. I challenge foreigners who are smitten by Filipinas whether online or offline qualify the Filipinas they meet. Discover these cultures and see which approximate the relationship goal you've set for yourself in meeting a Filipina. This comes as a fact check on who a Filipina really is.
'Some are Great!!! Some are not..., Your'e gonna be so Stimulated by all the options that make it such a Wild Place'. Thanks for sharing Your ADVENTURE OF A LIFETIME
I feel people saying "settling down" say it in a way like it's a bad thing and also seems to imply your living a 304 lifestyle. You can meet someone, stay pure , and still enjoy your current lifestyle of travel during courtship. And even in marriage you can make adjustments to your lifestyle but still have it after your family starts growing. Homeschooling your future kids as you travel and they can experience so many things that kids who go to public indoctrination camps do get to experience.
Living in the Philippines will definitely change your life especially if you marry into the their family, it will be required for you to financially support all members of the family 😅...good luck with that 😅
So what are you saying? Stay here and lose half your $h.t and your kids to a woman that never cooked and weighs more than you? I don't understand the point of your comment, unless you don't live in the West (America)
My girl is from Biliran. We met online 2 weeks before I visited Philippines. I had no plans so went to meet her and spent 3 weeks together around Biliran island includng Tinago falls. We talk every day and I am going back end of M ay to take her away to see Manila and other parts of Philippines
Hi chad, I live in Hawaii and I am planning on visiting the Philippines in about three months. I am going to Thailand first for two months because I purchased an elite visa there. I have subscribed to your channel and I watched most of your videos. The information I learned from your videos was very helpful. I have been watching carefree Chris’s channel and subscribed also. I see that you guys hang out a lot and get along very well. I am going to chat with Chris about starting a motorcycle shop and or club for motorcycle and scooters. Maybe the three of us can make something like this happen. I know he was talking about investing in some kind of business and looking for a business partner in one of his latest videos. I am 68 years old so I will try my best to keep up with you guys. Keep up the great work with your videos. Send this information to Chris and see what he thinks about it. I am planning on moving there and looking to make a investment into something.
Hey thanks for subscribing and watching I appreciate it, yeah he is extremely passionate about all of that I know he has some things in the works definitely stay tuned to his channel I think he will be talking about it more in his videos... Stay in touch! Enjoy your travels coming up
Hi Chad! Another very enjoyable video. I very much appreciate you’re talking and sharing your experiences with us in such an easy to listen to manner. I’ll be sending an email as I’ve made a lot of big decisions and progress into getting my first boots on the ground trip there this September/October. At the place where I believe some support and guidance is in order. Peace! ☮️
Yes, the good ones are not desperate and will take their time. Even if they are poor. That nurse was extremely eager to get abroad and make some nursing money. Red flag..IMO.
Never noticed that but it's true. You have to frequent the vendor for a week or so (scotty did by fluke), buying a dollar's worth & bs around before it becomes comfortable.
You are knowledgeable and spot on. Starting my channel here in baybay all the points you discuss are very accurate. Big eye opener vs the states. Actual feels nice being wanted vs ignored in the states .. keep up the good work Cheers !
Love the inserts of the riding shots... very much reminds me of riding around Thailand... where is that? I've been to the usual vacation spots and spent time in Manila and Angeles, but never really saw nice places to ride like that.
Biliran northern leyte. Yeah my favorite places in the Philippines are definitely not the popular spots. Funny how that is. Cool I bet riding around Thailand was fantastic
I love the quality of your present video, could you be nice and tell me what device are you using ? Thank you in advance, cheers from France and good job for your videos.
This is why WMAF couples are increasing, I love a kind, shy girl who doesn't want to rush. That's what it's all about.... unlike most European women these days.
I tried that site and will probably go on there again and no word of a lie within 24 hours over 200 actual messages granted definitely some scammers in there but out of those 200 only 3 made the selection so to speak but wow the attention I recieved was absolutely insane, I live in Canada, and nothing special to look at, things did not work out with the one I chose, but such is life, but if nothing else what a eye opener and experience, the site was a bit pricey but worth it,
great video sir appreciate the transparency... In a way Im like you, but right now i don't want a long term relationship, just companionship as I travel and see the world... any insights..
your correct to an extent, my advice to anyone who wants a wildlife just go in Manila and walked down the sstreets at night or even in the day there's lots of girls that just want to have fun, but if you meet a good girl yes you got right just move slow but you don't have to move to slow,you just got to use common sense and be able to feel the vibes :-) it is the most beautiful place in the world I think I'm sure there's many others, but I love it. I don't like the nightliife all those girls have had 10,000 men not to cool I want a good girl. And I have one right now but the people are so friendly it is overwhelming it reminds me of when I was a smile child, and I'm 57 now quite a few years ago today in America that is lost. Very very very few girls good girls in America most of them at a few dozen men already, don't get me wrong there is some good girls but not many today
I'm subbing to you now. I'm 44, blk, no kids, author, healthy and can't wait to leave Las Vegas. I'm moving to CEBU in 3 months. I'm looking for a province woman for a wife when I get there because I'm never returning to America. I earn $3,737.00/mo (100% VA Disabled).
Thank you for subscribing! You will do well here with that budget, be patient take your time and you will find an amazing partner just enjoy the whole experience!
I think if ya have any morals you don’t go for an innocent Provence girl when you’re there for a limited time. There are girls that are for fun and some hearts you just don’t break
If you want a Filipina wife, just go there cold. I met my wife simply walking down the street in Davao City in 1998. I walked into her restaurant and six months later I walked down the aisle.
To live in the province takes a different kind of guy. Older is better where you no longer need to bar hop and chase girls and ate ok with just on girl. I like peace snd quiet. Im 66 next month i have dpeaker in my work out atea outside and speakers inside with 2 power amps.bif i roll my amps outside and play all 4 speakers loud the neighbors music is drowned out. Let them play their music and I play mine. It use to be every night now one or 2 nights a week. We learn to get along with each other. I like seeing outside alone and happy no foreigner here to blah blah with. I like peace and wuiet you here motorcycles here but use to it. Good people here. No sm or robinson here. No fast food. Have skylink here i have a air con i run at night. Live in small one rool place. Have 33 year old girlfriend and i workout 3 times a week with my home made gym. Been with same girl for 3 years if she left there are a few girls who would be happy to take her place. To get to a big city 1.5 hour motorcycle ride and 1.5 hour boat ride. No bars here. This place is good for me. Most foreigners would hate it that is what i love it.
Hey Chad, great content, thanks! I completely agree with taking it slow and really thinking carefully about what exactly you want. We can’t blame the Filipinas at all for being cautious, since we all know not all expats have long term in mind. I have 2 questions: 1) if living in the province, and you date 1 woman and for whatever reason you decide to go separate ways, how big a problem does this cause if wanting to date a different woman in the same province town/city? 2) the attention and affection from young, attractive women is welcome for us men, no doubt. I can’t help but wonder though, are these young women really genuine - specifically, are they really attracted to us? 6:43 OR just our money? (Since entering a committed relationship with an expat will surely provide a ‘1-way, fast-track, first-class’ ticket out of poverty in a hurry). Thanks, David in southern Shikoku, Japan.
Hey thanks for the comment, I'll probably make a video going into more detail of this kind of thing but in a nutshell, yes there can definitely be challenges to date in a small town and then move onto someone else, the second girl if she knows you had a girlfriend there there's a good chance she will be very reluctant to be with you it wouldn't be impossible it would just take a lot of time to feel comfortable with it. It's possible that many won't even consider it at the beginning and not chat with you once you tell her. As for your second question that's a yes and a no it depends on the girl. I have a good friend who is a Filipina and she prefers much older guys and she's attracted to the look. Many like the maturity and security that an older guy brings. But there's also many younger cute girls that you can tell are not really into there much older or below average looking older partner. You will see them checking out other guys like crazy and you can tell their connection is kind of fake. so it really just depends you just have to find a genuine girl who wants a genuine relationship more than anything many Filipinas don't care about looks compared to western girls
@@ChadFosterExplores Hi Chad, thanks for the detailed reply! I feel my first question is the more difficult one to deal with. Since us guys often want to spend more time with a woman - to better get to know them - before deciding on a long-term commitment, this one is tricky if we decide she’s not the one for us and we have settled in a particular town/city in the province we like. (The tricky part is leaving on ‘good’ terms, so other women will be open to dating us. I wouldn’t want to feel I had to leave town). I hesitated asking my 2nd question since we all want to believe our Filipina genuinely loves us for us - not as a ‘cash cow’ or an instant ticket to middle class. I think it’s just good to be aware of this. If a genuine relationship is what we really want, then the Filipina’s true feelings should become more clear over time since being fake is very difficult to hide forever. I really think your approach is wise. I will definitely not rush into a commitment.
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Wow my best friend there is from Biliran but she does not live there she lives in Luzon and is now married to African American.
Stop focusing your life on trying to get a date. It's just sad.
@Chad Foster Explores ~ I'm a veteran. I can travel by military transport. Can I bring my Harley Davidson over to ride on & around in?
@@globalismoblackman Don't you mean a black man? Not all blacks are from Africa & even some black people have pointed out the political crap that people spew out from the government.
I will be coming over to Philippines for the first time early next year. I will come "blindly" as l do not enjoy dating sites with regards to scams. Hope to meet up with you then. Looking forward to my trip
I came to the Philippines after 25 years of stressed-out career and failed relationships in Los Angeles, thinking it was too late for me to have a normal family and an actual committed relationship. 10 years later I'm married to the best woman I've ever known, in the relationship I've been waiting my whole life for. She's from the Provinces, just as you say. Unspoiled, motivated, resourceful, happy, friendly, honest. I thought women like this were some Disney fantasy, after my time in L.A., but they exist in the Philippines.
Thanks! That's nice of you but as a Filipina, no one is perfect. We have flaws too.
@@Jazmine2534 Not all Filipinas are good, but a substantial portion are vastly superior to the lazy, entitled, deceitful tramps I dated in Los Angeles.
@@Jazmine2534 Not all Filipinas are good, but a substantial portion are vastly superior to the lazy, entitled, deceitful tramps I dated in Los Angeles.
you live in the philippines now? also what province is safe to travel ?
@@Samson-dn4eo Yes, I live in the Philippines now. Bacolod City, Negros Island. Anywhere in Visayas is safe to travel. From Mindoro Island south thru the southern tip of Negros, Cebu, and Siqujor is quite safe. Mindanao is sketchy. My advise, don't go unless you have friends who live there. Manila is not a place to hang out, unless you are in the nice parts of the city called, Makati, Fort Bonefacio, or Mall of Asia areas. There are quite a few nice places on Luzon. Tagaytay for example.
When I first started researching the Philippines I had no intention to find a girl. I just wanted to live out my retirement here. I kept seeing ads for Chtristian Filipina. I broke down and joined. I am now living in the Philippines with my beautiful wife
Wow that's awesome! Thanks for sharing
This sounds like an add for them. That place is FULL of scammers. REALLY bad!
@@socom2173 And the price to join is like $200-300 my gosh
@@ChadFosterExplores I see Leyte on the map but where are you riding? it looks awesome. i'm making plans to move some where in the PH !!!!
@@ChadFosterExplores I'm a alpha make cowboy/farmer retiring to the Philippines, want to find a Christian country farm gal (w/kid or two) and marry into her family out in the boonies! And I will contact you when I get there! I have friends there but would like to do all I can to find happiness!
That's what I did back in 2015 it was one of my best decisions been married to my beautiful Filipina, God has really blessed me
Are you still in the Philippines or did you move back to the west?
Don’t run out of money! 😂
A Filipina God? Punctuation means everything…😂
Married 30 years to a Filipina. Best choice I ever met.
@@rlh125 no we live in the us
I'm am here now in PH. 1st trip here. My girlfriend is from Masbate & we met me in Cebu. I honestly have never experienced anything like I'm experiencing now. I was watching the sunset a couple of days ago and was overcome with a tremendous amount of happiness from being with her & everything ive been so blessed to experience here so far .I'm so happy I literally almost shed tears the other day. Haven't been this happy in a long long time....If you are thinking about coming here stop wasting time & book your flight.
I'm very happy for you. My first trip is in November. ❤
Gunna order the tickets later today, thanks for helping me to make the decision
It's really very nice that the Philippines made you this happy.. it's what most of us wish on every visitor...
I met a young provincial Filipina while standing on the tarmac late one night at Kadena Air Force Base in Okinawa Japan. She was walking by, and I went, "Hmmmm...." Five months later we married. Probably not the best way to go about it if you are looking to meet and build a relationship with one. The odds of it happening are pretty slim. You could be standing out there a long time before one wanders by.
I used to chat with a former US guy who met his Filipina wife while posted to the Philippines after a tour in Iraq. He was walking along the footpath and saw a Filipina walking in front of him, he liked the view so much he overtook her and started a conversation with her. The end result he has a wife and children.
@@maddoman11 meeting a beautiful Filipina in the Philippines is about the easiest thing in the world. As you noted, just walking down the street is certainly good enough to find one to spend a lifetime with. There are certain procedures and cultural touch points that do make it easier to start and build that relationship. The better you know those, the the better you can do so.
My province girl (Samar) and I met via PenaLove over 2 years ago. I liked being able to sort through our likes and dislikes online. Wasn’t looking for short term fun. But I met some really bad girls until I finally found a good girl. I think your advice in this regard is pretty good.
Thanks! And thank you for sharing your experience
All good suggestions I've been in the Philippines off and on since the 90s.. previously married to a Filipina.. I checked into Christian Filipina and they have quite the salespeople and they are bloody expensive unless you're some kind of wallflower that can't walk up to a woman or have the common sense to check her out I would say it's a lot of money.. cheaper to have your own Filipino attorney and background check whomever you're associating with
Glad to hear you're doing well. I appreciate your fresh perspective. Keep posting. Even if you don't feel like you have a lot of content it's enjoyable going on the bike rides with you and seeing the scenery.
Thank you 🙏
Just remember boys, NEVER live anywhere near HER FAMILY! At least 1 island away or 8 hours travel. Trust me.
Maybe if you marry into the wrong family. We lived a half hour from my in-laws for 8 years and had zero problems. Gotta set some ground rules.
I "dated" my Filipina online for a year before meeting her. Best way to get to know each other as long as you don't lie. She was from Cebu city, so not a province girl.
She was so nieve to the outside world, so when she finally came to the states she became disillusioned. Then her family started asking for money all the time. I put her in charge of that, but told her if she wanted to "send", she should get a job. She learned real fast the stress they put on me financially. Been married 12 years and have an 8 year old boy. Filipina girls can be sweet, but watch out for the "tampo". 😂 BTW I'm 61 now, and she's turning 34 this month. She was 21 when we met.
Tampo????
@@FreedomRock44 Being silent for days.
I learned about that sending money stuff when I worked at the hospital. She came here on a fiancé visa but when she got a job I said it's up to you. You are working for it now. I just never understood why they become the person they try to suck money from for life. I haven't been there yet, but I imagine they live very poor so I kind of understand but the mentality of wanting that support for life is mind boggling. Perhaps some have no choice.
better being silent, i prefer it...than some blabber mouth , lol
@@pogopiratepeteThere are pros and cons with tampo but once you figure out how to deal with it it's ok.
I'm following you from last year. Yea I saw your vlog about Filipina Christian. I did sigh up 3 month ago, so far so good. Dating online in some way is better ,save you time and money. But to see the person in person and sense it is the better. Thank you and make new vlogs, you are good at that.
You "date" online to see where you will go to next. Plane trips are less than $100. I found my wife on the second island I flew to, but I think Cebu is the best starting point for a few days walking/taxiing around because the people are so friendly there. There's an energy that is matched in other places too but it's different. You get scooped up in the current of Filipino ways 1st, then you can start to venture out (to other islands).
Hello there, how are you doing?
Be careful. When you say hi to the family they'll be planning the wedding the next day and you'll be the last one to know.
LMAO
3rd date? Bring a Uhaul.😂
Just be friendly. The woman that doesnt interest you might introduce to one that will interest you.
Golden
Sound advice.
Great video Chad you are so right on with all your talking points. I did a bit different after a year in the Philippines I have a home base. province of Capiz , Roxas City. Been here 3 months only saw and met 4 foreigners. Taking my time to find the right person to spend the rest of my life with. I am also ok living alone. Lost my wife 7 years ago it’s ok to be alone for now and find the right person to live with. I am not a fan of dating sites but may do it. I have made a lot of Filipino friends so enjoy the culture. It’s very easy for me to meet people and make friends so someday I will meet the right women. Take care and keep the videos coming.
Hey thank you for the message, that's great I heard it's quite nice up there I definitely want to check it out before too long, glad you are loving it and yes I agree in the right time you will meet the right one that's how I feel too, thanks for watching I appreciate it!
Live in the province for awhile and u might think differently. Loud obnoxious motorcycle, barking dogs all night ,crazy roosters, bad karaoke until 3am... not power for a day...a 1 our drive to the grocery store. no internet for a few days... ohh its paradise in the province...
Yes often that is true! For me it depends on where I'm staying and what area sometimes it could be pretty bad indeed. Video coming that talks about that side of the province
Well it’s the truth ..province peoples want to move either in the city or nearer.
No internet, nice drive thru the country for groceries, I bet it is still quieter than the states, I've gotten used to wearing ear plugs ,no ice/frost/snow. Where do I sign up 😊
@@James-b6v3b of the 20 countries that I have either lived in or visited the philippines is the noisiest by far... u will see.
@@DManGrand you obviously haven't lived on the south side of Chicago, north St.louis ,west Memphis, Washington DC, East Los Angeles 20 other countries huh sounds like you don't know much about the US.
Hi Chad , I met my American partner online thru Ok Cupid, We are now married. I love watching your video . Thank you for sharing your experiences , you content is very helpful. Im a Filipina not to brag we are loving, kind hearted and caring. We value relationship.
“Stay True to who You Are” was the best quote of the video! Enjoy all of your content! Having a convo with you would provide valuable, experienced advice. Appreciate that you give me a better sense of perspective & direction prior to me visiting the Philippines. Thank You Chad!
You're welcome! Happy to hear that
@@MichaelLeeSheller hello how are you doing?
@@Shona45rami Experiencing the Philippines! 😎 ☀️
@@MichaelLeeSheller Are you over there in the Philippines now? Can we exchange contacts and get to chat more if that’s fine with you?
You have a good point about actually being in the Philippines and how a guy is knocked off his focus.... Over Stimulation from a wider range of ladies... Who are open to date you...
It really takes a lot of concentration and self discipline to stay on your goal of selecting the best women for you and your life goals..
It's not difficult for a lady to follow you when you are checking out the women... You have to stick to your criteria..
You are the prize... You have to use a certain amount of effort to take the initiative to know your surroundings... Don't put yourself in the position of relying upon her.... Then she will steer things to her direction...
This is one of the biggest mistakes Western Men make... They give the power to the Filipina right off the bat.. They let them be their MOMMA... Bad move...
You have to be the DADDY The MAN and be the ONE... to Take charge...
Or you will get Sucked into their agenda...
Nice Video mate! Very down to earth and informative.
I’ve been looking for a legit channel on the PI because I’m moving there by the end of year and this is the one. Great job.
Stunning scenery
Definitely! Beautiful part of the Philippines here
@@ChadFosterExplores Is that scenery in rural Cebu?
Absolutely 💯 Chad, i did not use your link to CF but that is where I met my baby at. Still only an LDR but will see her in August and spend about 3 weeks getting to know her in person. I have never, ever had so much attention from a woman in my life. I am 60 and am amazed at the level of time and attention my Filipina devotes to me. I love it!
I agree with being cautious and taking care of the reputation. Dating here is very different. Not only with a foreigner but dating in general. We cannot just go out with anyone to test the water to see if we will get along and share the same vibes and then if not then jump to another guy to set another date until we meet the right one for us. You cannot do that here. People would think you are somewhat like a playgirl 😅entertaining different guys. So usually, we will do the “testing of water” through chat/call until we are sure enough to agree for a date. That’s why dating here is really hard, chatting/texting takes time only to realize that you don’t like each other the moment you meet them.
(Oh, one thing we do is to date the guy in a place far from our Baranggay. So it’s safe from people’s attention and less pressure. We’ll just allow them to visit our hometown when we are sure that it will lead to a relationship 🫣)
Thank you for this insight from a Filipina. Between what you wrote and the vlog, I think we get a fairly good idea what dating is like in the province. For example, meeting her away from her home province takes the pressure off of her . Westerners need to empathize with the social consequences for a Filipina of dating a foreigner. We tend to think of dating as having no consequence because it has none in the West. In PH, there is a social price of dating and the province Filipina takes a big social risk when she dates a foreigner. Western men should do whatever they can to minimize that risk and the potential price they will pay if the relationship fails. Thanks for your insight
Thank you for sharing that!
@@Kevin-G-7 you’re welcome 🤗
@@ChadFosterExplores you’re welcome 🤗
Yes...this is very true. Once me & my girlfriend got acquainted she wanted to make sure no one knew my name. She said every girl in the Barangay would be after me on Facebook trying to steal me away....lol
Stay smart bro don’t rush, don’t forget not just you that your supporting
The scenic views from you and Carefree Chris are absolutely stunning. Is Leyte one of the Islands susceptible to recurring Typhoons?
yup
I've tried online dating in the UK for 18 years and yeah I got some like but I only got a few matches and they had a ready made family and even then I would get ghosted, Thing is I'm not ugly I'm 6'3 I have a good job good personality but got nothing.. So I'm working on myself get my life in tip top condition debt free save money then when I'm 46 - 47 I'm going to spending January - April in the Philippines get myself a good Christian women with good values who loves life and start a family. I think girls in the west are like kids in a candy shop they have too much choice and they usually end up picking something they don't like.. their loss not ours fellas. Get someone who will adore you and who will never leave doesn't moan a good happy women.. Good luck everyone God bless
Well said. Dating is just as bad in the US.
@carloshahar5858 Dating would be a fine thing if the women even read our messages, if they don't even reply to our engagement, how can we ever meet. Believe me I've tried, God knows I tried. Good luck bro God Bless
Are you here in the Philippines now?
Good luck bro you will be fine there loss 👍
@inamioh no I'm in UK getting my life in order before I commit
Enjoyed your content. Liked and Subscribed!
Thanks for keeping it real!
@@robin8559 hello how are you doing?
Good common sense advice. Leyte seems like a very nice & chill island. I'm going to be relocating to either Phils or Thailand next year. Right now leaning hard towards Thailand, but I will be visiting both countries again in a few weeks and maybe go one more time later this year to check out new spots. Will be making my mind up by year end.
Hello how are you doing?
@@Shona45rami I'm good. Busy year as I get ready to move. How are you?
@@clrodrick I’m doing pretty good too, thanks. I will love to chat some more and we get to know each other better if that’s fine with you.
leyte is v typhoon capital of phs
Have not regretted meeting my filipina online first before visiting Cebu. Granted it took awhile because there were a lot of girls but my wife checked all the boxes and we are both very happy. Good luck on your search, Chad...Jim
Thanks Jim! Congrats on meeting the one, for me it will happen at the right time probably when I'm not expecting it haha
online is okay if your smart , glad it worked out
Great video. I've been here a little over a month near Manila. I really think I am with the wrong Philippina, but its so hard to just walk away from such a young beautiful woman. In the US it would be inconceivable to even think of moving on from what I have now. If I can find it in myself to break it off, I think I will try the province to see if I can find a better long term match. Nothing is holding me here in Quezon City except the woman.
I’m a Filipina here in Texas. If you have doubts, please move on. You don’t want to be with the “wrong” Filipina your entire life. Go to the province and meet your perfect match. Beautiful? There are lots of beautiful women.
You are falling for what is called the sunk cost fallacy. Because you've invested XYZ, you don't want to see that XYZ wasted by giving up even though it would be in your best interest to do so, so you continue to invest more and more XYZ. Just stop. Stop the investment. Stop the time wasting. Move on. It can be hurtful and regretful, but if it is in your best interest to do so then it is actually the best thing to do.
lots of province grls in man n other cities
Appreciate your very Helpful videos Chad about Reality, different ways of Living, different ways of Thinking in Filipines Islands, keep up good work ! ! !
Dear Chad greetings
Today for the first time watched your video and I was impressed
Thanks for the video and info. My plan is just to move to the Philippines and enjoy a better life. Take my time with finding the one and improve myself and enjoy the culture.
I met my girl online also. This year be third time to the Philippines plus we are getting married this year!!
In honesty, flashing benjamins is a sure fire way but not necessarily recommended. Having a kind heart and genuine smile works really well here.
thats cool i took a pic at that same spot where you started the video at . i went there in 2016 and visited the waterfalls there and stayed 2 days on that island . was part of my road trip thru all of leyte and samar
I'm engaged to a beautiful province filipina in Eastern Mindanao.
Im blown away at how amazing she is and how happy I am
A lot of filipina from province goes to Manila for work so i think you dont really have to go to super country side, there are many "probinsyana" who has ordinary jobs in Luzon, city parts. Just dont grab girls at clubs or just anywhere 😂 it's really up to you on how you handle it and how you judge. Be wise and ask God for wisdom.
Mrs Rick went from the province to Manila to go to one of the major universities. She lived at a relative's boarding house, which served all the young family members who also made that transition to college. When we later met she had a good experience of living in the big city but was still a provincial girl at heart.
yeah half v pinays i meet online dating in manilla n other cities r actuallt frm v provinces, vey wrk in cities a cle yrs 2 get money n ven go back hme 2 prov.
Local girls in Bali are very similar. Gotta go super slow. Text a few days. Go to lunch at a local restaurant very near their home / work. Not a fancy restaurant. Slowly slowly.
Lived 20 years in the Philippines, this guy has some great advice. I disagree with his reading of Filipina, in that they want to go slow, but instead what a confirmation that the guy went to the Philippines to meet her specifically. The gossip thing, 100%. The openness to strangers, ya 100%.
Every Filipina has heard of guys shopping for "short time" with an ignorant girl. Impregnate her and disappear.
So, she asks "do you have a Filipina you are visiting?" because for sure she is going to tell that Filipina her guy is still shopping.
You chat for 3 months while in the US, city gal or country, you are going to get laid in the first 4 days.
It is not about money, morals, drive, "entrapment," or any of that. It is you fit her dreams. She wants security, travel, predictability, to be valued, white/pretty children, an emotionally mature guy. You fit her checklist. Love? huh? She will learn to live and love with you. This is a culture without divorce. Make the best of what you have, he is the last.
Man i appreciate your videos and the window you provide into a possible new life. I’m 52 going through a divorce and in such a sucky time of life right now. Just unhappy and going through the motions of working and just day to day life. The more I learn about the Philippines it gives me hope for possible happiness in retirement. I just hope I have the guts to actually make that big move. Keep the videos coming man, thank you!!
You're welcome, hang in there man there's no doubt there are possibilities for you when the time is right
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear someone positive. I’m not a bar hopper or party guy. I’m looking to change my life for the better. I’m hooked on your channel.
@@Kuya_Tom67 hello how are you doing?
@@Shona45rami I am doing very well. How are you?
@@Kuya_Tom67 I’m doing good too. Can I get to know you better if you don’t mind ?
Sure ok
@@Kuya_Tom67 good
You brother, love the videos! What providence would you recommend for first time traveler to the Philippines?
Thank you
I paid Christian Filipina to start trying to meet women, and my money disappeared, and so did my conversations. And they were very respectful.
did they receive your money and delete your conversations?
God knows better for you and for her. There is no luck, or accidental meetings, it’s all karma: you made a decision to end up one day in one place and she will be waiting for you there. Just have clear plan and Gods will to do something good in life.
Great content. Thanks!
Have your fun with the city girls as the province girls get attached way to quickly and will experience heartbreak very easily..
My church friend actually met a really friendly and pretty Philippine online and chatted with her for almost a year before he went to go see her. I don't see it happening just by going for a week long vacation.
good segment, and important points. important to know what you want and be responsive to what the filipina you are meeting wants
Hello how are you doing?
Awesome video it's good to know if I go to the Philippines
Thanks for the info. I wish I was there too! Maybe one day
I appreciate very much that you qualified who is the Filipina you are meeting here in our country. We have been stereotyped so many times that the world forgot we are island people, and as island people, we possess our own island's culture and custom. Our three major islands are Luzon, Visayas, and Mindanao, thus we have Luzonian Filipinas, Visayan Filipinas, and Mindanaoan Filipinas. Needless to say, each Filipina has different worldviews and personalities shaped by their own cultural backgrounds. The Luzonian Filipinas are predominantly Tagalogs, Visayan Filipinas are Cebuanas, Warays, etc. and Mindanaon Filipinas are predominantly Muslims and Visayans. I challenge foreigners who are smitten by Filipinas whether online or offline qualify the Filipinas they meet. Discover these cultures and see which approximate the relationship goal you've set for yourself in meeting a Filipina. This comes as a fact check on who a Filipina really is.
Seriously just getting the chance to zip around that coastline on a scooter is epic. I can't wait to visit.
'Some are Great!!! Some are not..., Your'e gonna be so Stimulated by all the options that make it such a Wild Place'.
Thanks for sharing Your ADVENTURE OF A LIFETIME
I feel people saying "settling down" say it in a way like it's a bad thing and also seems to imply your living a 304 lifestyle. You can meet someone, stay pure , and still enjoy your current lifestyle of travel during courtship. And even in marriage you can make adjustments to your lifestyle but still have it after your family starts growing. Homeschooling your future kids as you travel and they can experience so many things that kids who go to public indoctrination camps do get to experience.
Geeze Chad 5k views after 5 hours?? Good job dude!! Keep it up!
Living in the Philippines will definitely change your life especially if you marry into the their family, it will be required for you to financially support all members of the family 😅...good luck with that 😅
So what are you saying? Stay here and lose half your $h.t and your kids to a woman that never cooked and weighs more than you? I don't understand the point of your comment, unless you don't live in the West (America)
My girl is from Biliran. We met online 2 weeks before I visited Philippines. I had no plans so went to meet her and spent 3 weeks together around Biliran island includng Tinago falls. We talk every day and I am going back end of M ay to take her away to see Manila and other parts of Philippines
Hi chad, I live in Hawaii and I am planning on visiting the Philippines in about three months. I am going to Thailand first for two months because I purchased an elite visa there. I have subscribed to your channel and I watched most of your videos. The information I learned from your videos was very helpful. I have been watching carefree Chris’s channel and subscribed also. I see that you guys hang out a lot and get along very well. I am going to chat with Chris about starting a motorcycle shop and or club for motorcycle and scooters. Maybe the three of us can make something like this happen. I know he was talking about investing in some kind of business and looking for a business partner in one of his latest videos. I am 68 years old so I will try my best to keep up with you guys. Keep up the great work with your videos. Send this information to Chris and see what he thinks about it. I am planning on moving there and looking to make a investment into something.
Hey thanks for subscribing and watching I appreciate it, yeah he is extremely passionate about all of that I know he has some things in the works definitely stay tuned to his channel I think he will be talking about it more in his videos... Stay in touch! Enjoy your travels coming up
Hi Chad! Another very enjoyable video. I very much appreciate you’re talking and sharing your experiences with us in such an easy to listen to manner.
I’ll be sending an email as I’ve made a lot of big decisions and progress into getting my first boots on the ground trip there this September/October. At the place where I believe some support and guidance is in order.
Peace! ☮️
Yes, the good ones are not desperate and will take their time. Even if they are poor. That nurse was extremely eager to get abroad and make some nursing money. Red flag..IMO.
Never noticed that but it's true. You have to frequent the vendor for a week or so (scotty did by fluke), buying a dollar's worth & bs around before it becomes comfortable.
Sir every u sleep you have to pray so that ur wishes will be granted,be safe always
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Great talk. It was like listening to a friend. Ps your life sounds appealing.
Thank you!
Gracias por tus vídeos tan explícitos. ❤❤❤
Tagum city 🌆, Panabo city 🌆, Mati city 🌆 is good for a foreign to find love ❤️.
I have met my wife on the Christian website. Its a very helpful site .
That's great!
My thoughts exactly. Totally agree
thx Chad,,love to meet you there,,im comeing in november for 5 months,
Nice and good advice keep posting am rom Philippines
I'm Balding, but I was dating the girl from vlog i Vain at Panglao, she is 18 and beautiful. Phillipines is magic
Great video
You are knowledgeable and spot on. Starting my channel here in baybay all the points you discuss are very accurate. Big eye opener vs the states. Actual feels nice being wanted vs ignored in the states .. keep up the good work Cheers !
Oh nice! Good luck and enjoy the TH-cam ride! Good times 😎
What if youre not christian? This is a genuine question.
Love the inserts of the riding shots... very much reminds me of riding around Thailand... where is that? I've been to the usual vacation spots and spent time in Manila and Angeles, but never really saw nice places to ride like that.
Biliran northern leyte. Yeah my favorite places in the Philippines are definitely not the popular spots. Funny how that is. Cool I bet riding around Thailand was fantastic
Nice content Chad 👍
I love the quality of your present video, could you be nice and tell me what device are you using ? Thank you in advance, cheers from France and good job for your videos.
This is why WMAF couples are increasing, I love a kind, shy girl who doesn't want to rush. That's what it's all about.... unlike most European women these days.
Wow, thats my late Dad's province ❤️
hello, I have a question, where were you in the first shot of the video?? the landscape there looks amazing
I tried that site and will probably go on there again and no word of a lie within 24 hours over 200 actual messages granted definitely some scammers in there but out of those 200 only 3 made the selection so to speak but wow the attention I recieved was absolutely insane, I live in Canada, and nothing special to look at, things did not work out with the one I chose, but such is life, but if nothing else what a eye opener and experience, the site was a bit pricey but worth it,
great video sir appreciate the transparency... In a way Im like you, but right now i don't want a long term relationship, just companionship as I travel and see the world... any insights..
thanks for the great advice
I just started watching these videos from different Philipinas and they all say BE PATIENT!!!!!!
As soon as I read that you are advertising for a dating site, almost everything else you say, I no longer will believe.
your correct to an extent, my advice to anyone who wants a wildlife just go in Manila and walked down the sstreets at night or even in the day there's lots of girls that just want to have fun, but if you meet a good girl yes you got right just move slow but you don't have to move to slow,you just got to use common sense and be able to feel the vibes :-) it is the most beautiful place in the world I think I'm sure there's many others, but I love it. I don't like the nightliife all those girls have had 10,000 men not to cool I want a good girl. And I have one right now but the people are so friendly it is overwhelming it reminds me of when I was a smile child, and I'm 57 now quite a few years ago today in America that is lost. Very very very few girls good girls in America most of them at a few dozen men already, don't get me wrong there is some good girls but not many today
Thanks Chad. It help a lot brother. Get your pssport now....
I'm subbing to you now. I'm 44, blk, no kids, author, healthy and can't wait to leave Las Vegas. I'm moving to CEBU in 3 months. I'm looking for a province woman for a wife when I get there because I'm never returning to America. I earn $3,737.00/mo (100% VA Disabled).
Thank you for subscribing! You will do well here with that budget, be patient take your time and you will find an amazing partner just enjoy the whole experience!
That is huge there.. be aware of where good health care is if you have medical issues. Provinces do not have good medical
I think if ya have any morals you don’t go for an innocent Provence girl when you’re there for a limited time. There are girls that are for fun and some hearts you just don’t break
Good video very nice person s in Philippine 😊
If you want a Filipina wife, just go there cold. I met my wife simply walking down the street in Davao City in 1998. I walked into her restaurant and six months later I walked down the aisle.
My scam senses are tingling when every expat youtuber out there is pushing christian filipina with their ref code.
I listen to those videos during the day so that i can daydream while writing emails
So do you live there full time and do you worried about what's going on with China and the Philippines
which provinces do you recommend to visit?
Hey Chad, Where is this road in the video around 13.00. Sun on the right, travelling East?
To live in the province takes a different kind of guy. Older is better where you no longer need to bar hop and chase girls and ate ok with just on girl. I like peace snd quiet. Im 66 next month i have dpeaker in my work out atea outside and speakers inside with 2 power amps.bif i roll my amps outside and play all 4 speakers loud the neighbors music is drowned out. Let them play their music and I play mine. It use to be every night now one or 2 nights a week. We learn to get along with each other. I like seeing outside alone and happy no foreigner here to blah blah with. I like peace and wuiet you here motorcycles here but use to it. Good people here. No sm or robinson here. No fast food. Have skylink here i have a air con i run at night. Live in small one rool place. Have 33 year old girlfriend and i workout 3 times a week with my home made gym. Been with same girl for 3 years if she left there are a few girls who would be happy to take her place. To get to a big city 1.5 hour motorcycle ride and 1.5 hour boat ride. No bars here. This place is good for me. Most foreigners would hate it that is what i love it.
Hey Chad, great content, thanks! I completely agree with taking it slow and really thinking carefully about what exactly you want. We can’t blame the Filipinas at all for being cautious, since we all know not all expats have long term in mind. I have 2 questions: 1) if living in the province, and you date 1 woman and for whatever reason you decide to go separate ways, how big a problem does this cause if wanting to date a different woman in the same province town/city? 2) the attention and affection from young, attractive women is welcome for us men, no doubt. I can’t help but wonder though, are these young women really genuine - specifically, are they really attracted to us? 6:43 OR just our money? (Since entering a committed relationship with an expat will surely provide a ‘1-way, fast-track, first-class’ ticket out of poverty in a hurry). Thanks, David in southern Shikoku, Japan.
Hey thanks for the comment, I'll probably make a video going into more detail of this kind of thing but in a nutshell, yes there can definitely be challenges to date in a small town and then move onto someone else, the second girl if she knows you had a girlfriend there there's a good chance she will be very reluctant to be with you it wouldn't be impossible it would just take a lot of time to feel comfortable with it. It's possible that many won't even consider it at the beginning and not chat with you once you tell her. As for your second question that's a yes and a no it depends on the girl. I have a good friend who is a Filipina and she prefers much older guys and she's attracted to the look. Many like the maturity and security that an older guy brings. But there's also many younger cute girls that you can tell are not really into there much older or below average looking older partner. You will see them checking out other guys like crazy and you can tell their connection is kind of fake. so it really just depends you just have to find a genuine girl who wants a genuine relationship more than anything many Filipinas don't care about looks compared to western girls
@@ChadFosterExplores Hi Chad, thanks for the detailed reply! I feel my first question is the more difficult one to deal with. Since us guys often want to spend more time with a woman - to better get to know them - before deciding on a long-term commitment, this one is tricky if we decide she’s not the one for us and we have settled in a particular town/city in the province we like. (The tricky part is leaving on ‘good’ terms, so other women will be open to dating us. I wouldn’t want to feel I had to leave town). I hesitated asking my 2nd question since we all want to believe our Filipina genuinely loves us for us - not as a ‘cash cow’ or an instant ticket to middle class. I think it’s just good to be aware of this. If a genuine relationship is what we really want, then the Filipina’s true feelings should become more clear over time since being fake is very difficult to hide forever. I really think your approach is wise. I will definitely not rush into a commitment.