@@Resmith18SR Bro Don't forget she has a kid and she needs someone to take care of him too & in that case onnly old men are the ones who come forward and does it very few young males & Filipinos actually want to have that burden. So may be the girl is young but here she is the winner as she is getting someone who can take care of her and her kids better future. Don't be too jelous bro.
She seems a genuine person. How a woman looks at you says a lot. They way she was looking at him seems to indicate a genuine love and connection. Body language is important in analyzing the person's intentions
Please don't be fooled by simple gestures. I see a lot of people commenting on things like this that it must be true love because of the way she looks at her partner etc. Go on any TH-cam interracial couple interview and you will see the same thing time and time again. They look intently at their husbands when they speak. They gentle caress or hold them. This is all out of a playbook. Even high school girls are scheming to get husbands as soon as they're out of high school and they pass tips around on how to snare one. Older sisters and cousins will also pass on how to get a foreigner and their first stop is the dating sites. There are even Facebook groups and coaches who will coach girls exactly how to get a guy. It's an act. It's not true love. It's their ticket out of poverty and into the middle classes.
@reggie5495 you have good points. I said "seems" verification and testing is needed before any serious commitment. And even after marriage, never let your guards down. You never know.
"Lmao, you mentioned 'genuine'? Let's be real-many of these girls are coming from poverty, and this has nothing to do with love. She doesn't truly love him; it's about escaping hardship. One day, these men will realize that the love isn't real-it's all about the money. A 56-year-old man would have a tough time finding an 18-year-old to be with him in the U.S., but in the Philippines, he’ll find someone living in poverty who’s looking for a way out."
@@REALVIBESTV i agree, its genuine when u these type of girls go with older Filipino guys with odd jobs, though its not right to asian culture having a teenage wife, they look like pedos..and mostly older Filipino dont go with these type of girls,only whites do..some says looks like you are having sex with your daughter or granddaughter,only pedos do.
I love these two. When i met my fiancee, she was super shy. It was annoying trying to keep the convo going myself. But weathered through it and now can't get her to stop talking lol.
The Philippines is a lovely country and a great place to be. My interest is how do most of you guys make so much wealth, I'm just curious about the whole process. I still haven't figured out what to invest in yet. Somebody once told me "It costs you more to be poor." 🤯
Speaking of investments of passive income, Well I picked the challenge to put my finances in order. Then i invested in cryptocurrency, stocks, through the assistance of my discretionary fund manager
I'm 38 and in the west it's just draining....the women my age want too much and the younger ones dont want age gaps or they just use you for a fling to laugh with their friends about. Men are expendable here it seems and no one really likes each other...my married friends their partners just look angry with them all the time and roll their eyes at them. With this Filipina you can tell she really loves and adores him the way she looks at him
wait till you are 45. it gets worse. Its like a woman wants to see your Credit score and bank account before she will even go on a date with you! I'm 55 and my GF is 20. been together for two years now. Even enguaged now. Everything is good. We get along great. Travel together and vlog tegether all over Seasia. We have been to Thailand, Bali and now Da Nang.. each place for a month. So great. it is like life is a solid vacation!
I am 52 and married to Filipina that is 31. We live in the U.S. You can't go wrong exploring the Philippines to find a good woman. I would however recommend meeting someone in person instead of constantly communicating on a dating site or as we call it being a keyboard romeo. You have so many options at 38 , but you need to experience their culture. They are different than what you are used to. Good luck to you in your search.
@@sanjuanlaunionvlogwho paid for the vacations? You or did you split them 50/50? Filipina girls cost just as much as western women if not more. The only difference is they're often much younger and hotter but you're still paying for it in the end.
That is what older guys are looking for..girls from there have so much PDA compare to northern Luzon ,without PDA means they thought u wont love them, they are very showy,just make sure u have a wallet..just kidding.
If you provide a nice house and lifestyle and they have multiple children, they wont leave you. Gary is smart, hardworking, respectful and pious. I am sure Leah treasures him and she is a model housewife, mother and homemaker. They are both happy. God blessed them.
@@julieg54I divorced my husband I married back home. He was in debt and his house is ready to be repossessed here by the bank and he also put me in debt and always go on vacation and reunion back east. I have 3 jobs and have 2 kids from him and still broke cuz he takes my paycheck every month and so, I didn’t know his background so when I got here I was blindsided. We were married for 12 years and that’s enough, his first kids and relatives don’t like me so I put up with them for 12 years! His lifestyle was keep borrowing money and don’t pay them 😳😬😡even his own brothers and family hates him!
In most Western nations we are comfortable sending our children off to war at 18 years of age... But for some weird reason we deem them too young at that age to enter into a physical relation with a person outside a certain age bracket... My father married a 19 year old girl when he was 47 and I watched their 42 year love affair from beginning to the end and it was a beautiful thing to witness...
My grandfather went to the Philippines in the early 80’s and remarried a younger woman. He was no prize in my opinion but she was a great partner who raised two more kids with him and honours his memory even today- and he’s been gone for years.
I've often thought the same thing, but I would say that as I would love to date a woman in her twenties, even though there would be an age gap of at least 25 years 😊
@@28pbtkh23 26 year age gap here in my marriage. No big deal at all. Just take care of your body and eat healthy and fast periodically. I am white-American and my wife in black- African and gorgeous beyond belief. Very feminine. The only drawback (of sorts but again no big deal) is that she speaks Portuguese and very little English, but she we are learning each others languages.
I know this couple personally. They are truly in love with each other. Leah’s English has truly improved a lot and continues to improve… However, I was surprised when Leah stated she was a “single mother” when they met. Some people jump to conclusions about s woman’s character when they hear that. More accurately, Leah was a “widowed mother” due to the tragic and sudden loss of her young local husband who fathered her oldest daughter. I find them to be good and loving parents for both of their beautiful daughters.
I don’t know why everyone complains about the age difference. I met my Filipina when she was 20 and I was 50, we been married for 17 years and It’s all good,
Some people like imposing modern American "cultural" norms on the rest of the world, that's all. "Date your age" isn't practical most of the time, especially if a man wants to start his own family.
@@JeffMorrisonAdventures I’m still here in the USA but at present time we are having a house built in Cebu province. The plan is to be there by this coming June
Good for you! You got a beautiful good wife so don’t care about what anyone says! Enjoy your life bro! I’m coming back to the Philippines to do the same thing and enjoy my life too!
I met my wife (Phillipina Princess 😊) at 59, she was 25. It sounds sicko , and I wasn’t looking for someone that young,(40s was more like it) but our relationship is the best I have ever had, by a long, long way. Provincial girls are mentally much , much more mature than western women twice their age. There is no generation gap in the Philippines. 20 years olds socialise with 50 or 60 years olds. It’s just the way it is. And Philippinas think mature western men are attractive. It is true. We have been together for 3.5 years. I have a 21 yo son, she has a 7 yo daughter who I treat as my own. We have a wonderful life in Australia, travel to the Philippines once a year. She has a well paid and satisfying job here, and I sold my business a few years ago, and am a self funded retiree. Meet a genuine , God fearing girl, keep a young attitude, and you can be absolutely happy.
@davidhancock91, why a genuine god-fearing girl ? My Filipina gf and I had and have sex while we are not married. And she even told me she is not so sure about the existence of a god. And before me she also had sex with her two/2 former boyfriends.
Chad, enjoyed your question/answer with G&L. Though I have seen them around Duma and watched some of their vlogs I certainly didn't feel I knew them-until now. Your fun interview today was great insight into their lives.
This is the difference of Filipinas in the province and Filipinas in the city. When a filipina living in the province are educated and speak intelligible English,she might be a good catch, she's more calmer, and simplyer. Filipina in the big cities, they are like little bit westernize due to they have to work hard to pay bills, pursuing higher education and maybe career oriented, she can be a good catch too, actually they were province girls but their priorities are different. It is up to men what they are looking for, as I mentioned, Philippines is like a mall, there are signature ladies, sale or final sale for close out, high value or good for a short period of stay. In general, Philippines have good values and faith.
The variety is very much there, and yes city girls are a bit westernized but the extent varies, some are very bad but others are just there to earn some money but will ditch their career in a second when a good man comes along, seen it happen and my friends still laugh at how the city girl went from working to housewife like her ass was on fire. Their two children saw a recording of her and my buddy when they first met, her in work clothes, they were very surprised that their mom used to work as she is full time stay at home. Only job my lady has is a store online which brings in extra funds for vacations, and nest egg for when we have children.
At first I thought the couple was together because he got a young Filipina, and she was with him for the money, but after listening to them, I see that this is true love. He seems like an honest and good guy, and she loves him and not in it for the money. They are truly happy together and in love. They are also open and honest with one another and that's important...true honesty, love, and respect. I wish them both the best.
What they don't show about those age gap relationships is the transactional nature of such interactions. I bet behind closed doors he supports her family to some extent.
They don't always support the family but they support their wife. I often see the husbands claim that she's never asked for a penny or they give them no money but are paying all the bills, the rent and all the groceries and meals/dates out. That's the way it works. You finance their existence and they sleep in your bed.
@@reggie5495 With all the hardships that the average philipines families have to go through I will be surprised a filipino woman wont need some degree of support from the foreigner partner, especially when daughters are usually the breadwinner of the families.
Well, he is fit, sane and emotionally intelligent. He is not pedo gross guy. It really comes down to the integrity of both parties. It great seeing a very happy couple!
They look so happy together. She is very mature and realistic about life. I am sure she is a super supportive and caring wife. Everyone is young in their mind. The mind and people’s mentality don’t age like we do physically. They are happy together and that is all that matters. Congratulations to you two for finding love. May your relationship last a life time.
To those who say, "She only wants his money. The relationship is transactional," I asked my mom why she yells at my dad but is always nice to her boss at work. She said she loves my dad but her boss pays her money. If that's "love", you can keep it. I'd rather have a transactional relationship. My grandfather lives with 2 young ladies 30 & 40 years younger than him. He is always smiling while my father is MISERABLE!!!
I guess you have to ask yourself how many 18 yro olds are lusting over a 56 year old man? Not many obviously, she is with him because of a better life.
They seem like they have genuine attraction for each other. Different than a lot of other filipina-foreigner relationships. Glad to hear, and I hope they continue to have happiness!
Great video, Chad. Gary is actually the reason I allowed for the POSSIBILITY of meeting a Filipina as young as 21 even though I was actively looking for someone about 10 years older. The result is that I have met a 22-year-old who - other than the age thing - seems like a perfect match for me in every way and vice versa. I am still surprised by our compatibility, but I have Gary and Leah's success in the back of my mind assuring me this IS possible.
I’m in the same category I guess you could say, my girl is 18 also , I met her there and we plan to get married . I’m 65 but healthy , so what advise can you give me , from watching your vids I can see you have an intelligent / objective way of looking at things . Thank you for your great content 🤙🏽
She is absolutely gorgeous! God bless them. Wishing all the best in health and happiness to this couple. Large age-gap relationships are not my cup of tea personally. They rub me the wrong way because it doesn't seem fair to the younger person. My cup of tea is seeing people live their lives as they see fit. If they are happy, have at it.
It's all about ghe character thus knowing well before committing is important. For me I wouldn't marry a single mother because I don't want drama with former husband. I want a child that I can have authority over so that I can lead him to the right path.
And there are plenty of kids who could benefit from having a dad, and plenty of single moms who could benefit from having a loving and supportive partner. Or, it could just be all about you.
How bad is a situation where a woman, at the prime of her life, has to give herself to an older guy just to survive and be comfortable. She obviously had a child and was desperate to be able to care properly for that child 😢
From an ex-employee of Christian Filipina (and its satellite operation Filipino Visa) I heard that Company pays huge commissions to affiliate TH-cam vloggers, from $150 to $300 for each (typically American expat) who signs up. That must be true because there sure are a lot of expat TH-cam vloggers pushing Christian Filipina. In fact, I can't recall any expat TH-cam vlogger with 20,000+ subscribers who does not affiliate with Christian Filipina. For this reason I'm not watching videos by Christian Filipino affiliate vloggers.
@@user7897 I use Filipino Cupid which is a paid site. The ladies I've chatted with seem genuine but haven't met any yet since I'm still in Thailand. Also Date in Asia is a free site I just signed on to.
My dad met a Filipina named Lia when he was 20 and she was 50. They had 7 great years together, before she went back to her village in the mountains of Negros. Where she still lives today. . The air was sweet with the scent of sugarcane fields, and the mountains stood like old friends. She moved into her grandmother’s house (which was owned by a wealthy Mestizo family), where childhood memories clung to every corner. Each day, she rediscovered the rhythm of life: the warmth of neighbors, the quiet of evenings, and the peace she had long forgotten. In that simple life, Lia found herself again-her roots deeper than she ever realized. My dad still lives in Cleveland and works at the same factory for over three decades. Each day began the same: the shrill alarm, the drive through gray streets, and the endless clanging of machines.
When I met my wonderful Filipina she was 27 and I was 62. I was on a tiny Canadian pension and was struggling in Canada with a low paying job. I moved to the Philippines and we got married. I could afford to live here and support her, by building a tiny simple 40m2 province house. She obviously didn't marry me for my money nor my youth. She married me for who I was. Next month we celebrate our 5 anniversary of marriage, and we continue to adore eachother more and more. Great interview, thanks. I am a long term subscriber to both (all) your channels ❤
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement you bought her a house, support her and when will you have children? Before you met her if she what was her 5 year plan she would have said living in poverty in the province, now five years with you she has a house and a better life, seems like a good outcome.
You have enough money. If they can get you to buy some land and build a modest home before you kick off, they are way ahead of the game...the game of SURVIVING.
Right now I am in Jamaica. I met an 18 year old Jamaica girl and she fell in love with me.. I lived in New Jersey , USA but I told her that I came from Africa and I lived in Africa. I never told her that I lived in the States because I don't want her to love me because I am from America. She told me that she doesn't want kids. But at the same time, she said in our relationship if we have a child no problem.she is a beautiful 18 year old Jamaica girl. I am 58 years old originally from Liberia, West Africa
She’s not dumb. Depending on clothing, mannerism, accent, she probably knows you’re in America. Good luck. Once you bring her to the states, you’re rolling the dice. Hopefully you can live out there in here country.
Wow... A happy couple with a significant age gap. This must anger certain types to no end. Because it means those critics have no clue what they're talking about. Admittedly, that's a difficult truth to face.
I'm totally against this but how do you figure that I don't know what I'm talking about? I lived in two cities in the Philippines and I was dating a Filipina and at the time I was 42 and my girlfriend was 30 not 19 I know exactly what I'm talking about
@@Kristoferwitha_k you know exactly what you're talking about. For those two women Every person is an individual and only being in a relationship qualifies someone and determining whether or not to continue that relationship.
okay, so one couple made it, and to their credit, they look into one another but that would be called an outlier. Most of these bloggers and expats don't come close to this situation. Starting with an 18-year-old with a child, she admits her prospects were not good and he admits he had stringent criteria. He wasn't big on the kid. She lied about her age, so this relationship started under false pretenses. I am also guessing he has the 10x income of a Filipino man.
Beautiful story...and advice. Thank you for sharing your lives with we total strangers. I am also 61, soon 62. Would love to chat with you Gary. Thank you again for sharing your story.
Why r u so negative without thinking🤔. He said they have been together 6 yrs already, that’s Far outside honeymoon period. 20 yrs would also well outstrip majority of western marriages. Best of luck to them, if it works it works.
True, but Western relationships are transactional also. I still have a problem with the problem of how to determine the genuineness of a relationship. Women want children, men want children, marriage is a collaboration to make that happen.
You guys are the best! It maybe too late for me. I’ll be 73 in January, but I would love to have what you have. My wife of 20 years died of cancer 2 1/2 years ago.
I met my wife 5 years ago, when she was 19. I'm not like the western guys who have been conditioned by feminists to be afraid of taking a dip in the fountain of youth 😆. I now have 42 years of experience being 24.😊
Excellent, I've always said there are only two people authorized to weigh in on whether or not a relationship should move forward - the two adults considering the relationship. All too often, outsiders chime in with opinions that aren't necessarily needed, or wanted.
I want to remind every one of a fact that in the history of the world! when women reach puberty they were married at 12 or 13 years old often or yunger. and we all know that growing up lots of girls would be married at 15 and 16 years old in the United States!. but that's not my main issue, what I want to tell you is that in the Bible and in the history of the world, the Kings always had large harems or many wives and concubines. even the Christian kings in the Bible had many wives! and they were not old maids😅!!!!... get over it..😮😅 it's the truth. when a girl becomes a woman she's ,child baring age ,,marriage age. it's a personal choice between them and their families. it's a historical fact of life that dominated the history of this world.hellow!...
@@markeverson5849 Thanks for your unwanted comment. "ART. 234. Emancipation takes place by the attainment of majority. Unless otherwise provided, majority commences at the age of eighteen years."
i recently had a bunch of video chats with a 22yr old, she liked me a lot, but wasn't ready to settle down, or come to the states. oh well, there is plenty more. im 55
Its best to stay and live in the Philippines.. and or travel with them all over.. just my opinion. I'm 55 and my GF is 20. been together for two years now. Even enguaged now. Everything is good. We get along great. Travel together and vlog tegether all over Seasia. We have been to Thailand, Bali and now Da Nang.. each place for a month. So great. it is like life is a solid vacation!
@@sanjuanlaunionvlog yep im 54 and my gf is 20. i met her a year ago. I spent six months in the Philipines and Thailand with her then enrolled her in University. Shes transferring to NZ to live here for a while
I am married to an American man for 36 years , at first he is a decision maker without ever consulting me every step of the way . And our life went down hill ! I know he made all those money , but once you are married you have to have your spouse to know every decision you make , it takes two to make your life desirable .
This man found the real deal-I was lol inside when she said he was the leader of their family and she was happy-and he says spiritually- like he was concerned about being politically incorrect. That is what God intended for the man to be the leader of the home -because he is doing the RIGHT things for his family above his own self. This is what a real marriage should be and you are both blessed to have found each other and are blessed with your marriage and children to love and live like a family like we are intended to live in this world. They are both happy and in love because they are both fulfilling their potential in God's great Earth. The way he almost cried when he talked about the happiness his children brought to his life is an inspiration to of all of us. The way his wife said she was so happy to let him lead their family because he is worthy... This is what life is about!
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There is no difference among the dating sites. All of them are not foolproof.
I have met this couple personally. Both are genuine and in love with each other. Great interview Chad.
Easy to fall in love with a teenager isn't it? 😂
@@Resmith18SR 18yo pregger within 3=4 montsh of meeting! It was a blessing form God!
@@Resmith18SR Bro Don't forget she has a kid and she needs someone to take care of him too & in that case onnly old men are the ones who come forward and does it very few young males & Filipinos actually want to have that burden. So may be the girl is young but here she is the winner as she is getting someone who can take care of her and her kids better future. Don't be too jelous bro.
What app where they first on when they originally met ?
Sure
She seems a genuine person. How a woman looks at you says a lot. They way she was looking at him seems to indicate a genuine love and connection. Body language is important in analyzing the person's intentions
Please don't be fooled by simple gestures. I see a lot of people commenting on things like this that it must be true love because of the way she looks at her partner etc. Go on any TH-cam interracial couple interview and you will see the same thing time and time again. They look intently at their husbands when they speak. They gentle caress or hold them. This is all out of a playbook. Even high school girls are scheming to get husbands as soon as they're out of high school and they pass tips around on how to snare one. Older sisters and cousins will also pass on how to get a foreigner and their first stop is the dating sites. There are even Facebook groups and coaches who will coach girls exactly how to get a guy. It's an act. It's not true love. It's their ticket out of poverty and into the middle classes.
That’s what you think n go for your happy life.Not a bitter lifestyle,sorry that’s what I think of you
@reggie5495 you have good points. I said "seems" verification and testing is needed before any serious commitment. And even after marriage, never let your guards down. You never know.
"Lmao, you mentioned 'genuine'? Let's be real-many of these girls are coming from poverty, and this has nothing to do with love. She doesn't truly love him; it's about escaping hardship. One day, these men will realize that the love isn't real-it's all about the money. A 56-year-old man would have a tough time finding an 18-year-old to be with him in the U.S., but in the Philippines, he’ll find someone living in poverty who’s looking for a way out."
@@REALVIBESTV i agree, its genuine when u these type of girls go with older Filipino guys with odd jobs, though its not right to asian culture having a teenage wife, they look like pedos..and mostly older Filipino dont go with these type of girls,only whites do..some says looks like you are having sex with your daughter or granddaughter,only pedos do.
This couple is doing just fine. People should stop giving others relationship advice. Cheers!
lol. Isn't that what they called a cradle robber?
I love these two. When i met my fiancee, she was super shy. It was annoying trying to keep the convo going myself. But weathered through it and now can't get her to stop talking lol.
The Philippines is a lovely country and a great place to be. My interest is how do most of you guys make so much wealth, I'm just curious about the whole process. I still haven't figured out what to invest in yet.
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@@FanDan-ng1cnHi, How can I reach her directly please???
@@FanDan-ng1cnHow can someone get connection to that Woman y'all speaking bout !!!?
I'm 38 and in the west it's just draining....the women my age want too much and the younger ones dont want age gaps or they just use you for a fling to laugh with their friends about. Men are expendable here it seems and no one really likes each other...my married friends their partners just look angry with them all the time and roll their eyes at them. With this Filipina you can tell she really loves and adores him the way she looks at him
wait till you are 45. it gets worse. Its like a woman wants to see your Credit score and bank account before she will even go on a date with you! I'm 55 and my GF is 20. been together for two years now. Even enguaged now. Everything is good. We get along great. Travel together and vlog tegether all over Seasia. We have been to Thailand, Bali and now Da Nang.. each place for a month. So great. it is like life is a solid vacation!
I am 52 and married to Filipina that is 31. We live in the U.S. You can't go wrong exploring the Philippines to find a good woman. I would however recommend meeting someone in person instead of constantly communicating on a dating site or as we call it being a keyboard romeo. You have so many options at 38 , but you need to experience their culture. They are different than what you are used to. Good luck to you in your search.
@@sanjuanlaunionvlogwho paid for the vacations? You or did you split them 50/50? Filipina girls cost just as much as western women if not more. The only difference is they're often much younger and hotter but you're still paying for it in the end.
AMERICAN WOMEN ARE REAL BITCHES. IT WILL NOT BE LONG BEFORE THEY BECOME ALL BLOODY LESBIANS. TOO MUCH FREEDOM HAS DESTROYED THEM.
@@sanjuanlaunionvlog your GF is Pinay?
I just met a Filipina in Cebu and we have a great connection from the day we met. We laugh like these 2 and she is so affectionate.
Heyyyy ❤
That is what older guys are looking for..girls from there have so much PDA compare to northern Luzon ,without PDA means they thought u wont love them, they are very showy,just make sure u have a wallet..just kidding.
Thanks for having us Chad!
You're welcome! It was my pleasure as always great hanging out with you both:))
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we met together in "dateinasia" and 13yrs together plus 2yrs writing online
The best Leader was Jesus Christ. He was also an eternal Servant. A great great leader is also a great servant. God Bless you and you family.
Great video Chad.. you should interview Leah's sister, she has an American partner.
I've watched these two and heard their story before, great couple! They are so fun together! Leah is so beautiful!
I dont know her but watching me as a Pinay i can see she has a good heart and good charakter...God bless them!
i agree with ya! my Filipa wife is 34, not in the 20s I’m 44 but my wife is the best significant other i ever had in my life! ❤
im not into asian women but like russian ukrainian women do you think it would be the same when it comes to meeting them?
If you provide a nice house and lifestyle and they have multiple children, they wont leave you. Gary is smart, hardworking, respectful and pious. I am sure Leah treasures him and she is a model housewife, mother and homemaker. They are both happy. God blessed them.
Not always true, I know a few who have left an older guy
@julieg54 maybe there was no love. Strictly transactional.
@@julieg54I divorced my husband I married back home. He was in debt and his house is ready to be repossessed here by the bank and he also put me in debt and always go on vacation and reunion back east. I have 3 jobs and have 2 kids from him and still broke cuz he takes my paycheck every month and so, I didn’t know his background so when I got here I was blindsided. We were married for 12 years and that’s enough, his first kids and relatives don’t like me so I put up with them for 12 years! His lifestyle was keep borrowing money and don’t pay them 😳😬😡even his own brothers and family hates him!
This was one of the BEST videos I have ever seen! Keep up the good work Chad. God bless you!
In most Western nations we are comfortable sending our children off to war at 18 years of age... But for some weird reason we deem them too young at that age to enter into a physical relation with a person outside a certain age bracket...
My father married a 19 year old girl when he was 47 and I watched their 42 year love affair from beginning to the end and it was a beautiful thing to witness...
My grandfather went to the Philippines in the early 80’s and remarried a younger woman. He was no prize in my opinion but she was a great partner who raised two more kids with him and honours his memory even today- and he’s been gone for years.
I've often thought the same thing, but I would say that as I would love to date a woman in her twenties, even though there would be an age gap of at least 25 years 😊
@@28pbtkh23 26 year age gap here in my marriage. No big deal at all. Just take care of your body and eat healthy and fast periodically. I am white-American and my wife in black- African and gorgeous beyond belief. Very feminine. The only drawback (of sorts but again no big deal) is that she speaks Portuguese and very little English, but she we are learning each others languages.
thats what the media tells you and your media is not yours! you know who owns them...
What a fantastic story.
Well done you guys.
God bless your family
Thank you for an excellent interview !
I know this couple personally. They are truly in love with each other. Leah’s English has truly improved a lot and continues to improve… However, I was surprised when Leah stated she was a “single mother” when they met. Some people jump to conclusions about s woman’s character when they hear that. More accurately, Leah was a “widowed mother” due to the tragic and sudden loss of her young local husband who fathered her oldest daughter. I find them to be good and loving parents for both of their beautiful daughters.
Yeah, she's a good person. And there's always a story.
@limegreen90 Bullshit
Really interested to interview her again when Gary turns 80.
I don’t know why everyone complains about the age difference. I met my Filipina when she was 20 and I was 50, we been married for 17 years and It’s all good,
Do you live in the PI or in your home country? Do you have kids?
Some people like imposing modern American "cultural" norms on the rest of the world, that's all. "Date your age" isn't practical most of the time, especially if a man wants to start his own family.
@@JeffMorrisonAdventures I’m still here in the USA but at present time we are having a house built in Cebu province. The plan is to be there by this coming June
@@hjackson.92 I’m 67 and she is 37, I can’t have children ,
@@RogerExtein sounds great. Do you and your lady have kids?
Good for you! You got a beautiful good wife so don’t care about what anyone says! Enjoy your life bro! I’m coming back to the Philippines to do the same thing and enjoy my life too!
Found my beautiful loving wife in Cebu. 10 year age difference. Happily married 5 years now. Best decision of my life.
A lot of Rich American people influence in Philippines they give all their big show we are the most rich people in the world
@@joostroelens8710 I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say; but I am not rich by any stretch of the imagination lol
Do you have children with her?@@cyrusblackwood33
10 yr age gap is a bit different from 38 yr age gap
God bless them! I loved how the dude is admitting that he is also "learning in life"
I met my wife (Phillipina Princess 😊) at 59, she was 25.
It sounds sicko , and I wasn’t looking for someone that young,(40s was more like it) but our relationship is the best I have ever had, by a long, long way. Provincial girls are mentally much , much more mature than western women twice their age.
There is no generation gap in the Philippines. 20 years olds socialise with 50 or 60 years olds.
It’s just the way it is. And Philippinas think mature western men are attractive. It is true.
We have been together for 3.5 years.
I have a 21 yo son, she has a 7 yo daughter who I treat as my own.
We have a wonderful life in Australia, travel to the Philippines once a year. She has a well paid and satisfying job here, and I sold my business a few years ago, and am a self funded retiree.
Meet a genuine , God fearing girl, keep a young attitude, and you can be absolutely happy.
It's not sick at all, people have been programmed by their culture to think it is. Well you're not in Kansas anymore lol
@davidhancock91,
why a genuine god-fearing girl ?
My Filipina gf and I had and have sex while we are not married. And she even told me she is not so sure about the existence of a god. And before me she also had sex with her two/2 former boyfriends.
@davidhancock91,
why a genuine, god-fearing girl ?
old dog most young provincial women are virgins. in the future i will live in cebu and marry a local virgin
40 year old woman sounds way more sicko to me 😂!
Chad, enjoyed your question/answer with G&L. Though I have seen them around Duma and watched some of their vlogs I certainly didn't feel I knew them-until now. Your fun interview today was great insight into their lives.
Cool glad to hear that! They are a very nice couple
Did anybody commented on how good she speaks English? She might gotten been in school or college. She expressed herself better than most 👍
This is the difference of Filipinas in the province and Filipinas in the city. When a filipina living in the province are educated and speak intelligible English,she might be a good catch, she's more calmer, and simplyer. Filipina in the big cities, they are like little bit westernize due to they have to work hard to pay bills, pursuing higher education and maybe career oriented, she can be a good catch too, actually they were province girls but their priorities are different. It is up to men what they are looking for, as I mentioned, Philippines is like a mall, there are signature ladies, sale or final sale for close out, high value or good for a short period of stay. In general, Philippines have good values and faith.
The variety is very much there, and yes city girls are a bit westernized but the extent varies, some are very bad but others are just there to earn some money but will ditch their career in a second when a good man comes along, seen it happen and my friends still laugh at how the city girl went from working to housewife like her ass was on fire. Their two children saw a recording of her and my buddy when they first met, her in work clothes, they were very surprised that their mom used to work as she is full time stay at home.
Only job my lady has is a store online which brings in extra funds for vacations, and nest egg for when we have children.
At first I thought the couple was together because he got a young Filipina, and she was with him for the money, but after listening to them, I see that this is true love. He seems like an honest and good guy, and she loves him and not in it for the money. They are truly happy together and in love. They are also open and honest with one another and that's important...true honesty, love, and respect. I wish them both the best.
What they don't show about those age gap relationships is the transactional nature of such interactions. I bet behind closed doors he supports her family to some extent.
They don't always support the family but they support their wife. I often see the husbands claim that she's never asked for a penny or they give them no money but are paying all the bills, the rent and all the groceries and meals/dates out. That's the way it works. You finance their existence and they sleep in your bed.
@@reggie5495 With all the hardships that the average philipines families have to go through I will be surprised a filipino woman wont need some degree of support from the foreigner partner, especially when daughters are usually the breadwinner of the families.
Well, he is fit, sane and emotionally intelligent. He is not pedo gross guy. It really comes down to the integrity of both parties. It great seeing a very happy couple!
Some interesting topics covered in this interview. Thanks for the video, Chad...Jim
Hey Jim thanks glad you liked it! Easy-going nice couple so it made for an easy and fun interview with them
Great work Chad, she seems like a gem, and Gary is doing great too!
They look so happy together. She is very mature and realistic about life. I am sure she is a super supportive and caring wife.
Everyone is young in their mind. The mind and people’s mentality don’t age like we do physically. They are happy together and that is all that matters.
Congratulations to you two for finding love. May your relationship last a life time.
Great Interview! God Bless both of you and your continuous Happiness🙏!!!
She is such a joy
Those two are great together. I am glad they found each other. Leah laughs often, even on her channel. That is really good to find such joy.
Same age difference as me and my girl. True love has no boundaries. Legal.. that is❤️🙏
She is playing the cuddly and happy kitten very well.
To those who say, "She only wants his money. The relationship is transactional," I asked my mom why she yells at my dad but is always nice to her boss at work. She said she loves my dad but her boss pays her money. If that's "love", you can keep it. I'd rather have a transactional relationship. My grandfather lives with 2 young ladies 30 & 40 years younger than him. He is always smiling while my father is MISERABLE!!!
Too bad you didn't have a choice who your mom was.
Your grandfather is a legend
❤ your argument, 😂
I guess you have to ask yourself how many 18 yro olds are lusting over a 56 year old man? Not many obviously, she is with him because of a better life.
No matter how desperate I was for a better life, there's no way I could date a man older than my own dad. I guess to each is own.
They seem like they have genuine attraction for each other. Different than a lot of other filipina-foreigner relationships. Glad to hear, and I hope they continue to have happiness!
Great video, Chad. Gary is actually the reason I allowed for the POSSIBILITY of meeting a Filipina as young as 21 even though I was actively looking for someone about 10 years older. The result is that I have met a 22-year-old who - other than the age thing - seems like a perfect match for me in every way and vice versa. I am still surprised by our compatibility, but I have Gary and Leah's success in the back of my mind assuring me this IS possible.
A great interview - I enjoyed every minute of it.
It always amazes me the Christians preaching principals. " I'll skip the whole sex before marriage thing"
Beautiful couple. She seems like a great and mature-minded Filipina
I’m in the same category I guess you could say, my girl is 18 also , I met her there and we plan to get married . I’m 65 but healthy , so what advise can you give me , from watching your vids I can see you have an intelligent / objective way of looking at things . Thank you for your great content 🤙🏽
She is absolutely gorgeous! God bless them. Wishing all the best in health and happiness to this couple.
Large age-gap relationships are not my cup of tea personally. They rub me the wrong way because it doesn't seem fair to the younger person.
My cup of tea is seeing people live their lives as they see fit. If they are happy, have at it.
Holy molly. Both of them look like 10 years younger! Amazing, also what a sweet couple!
Dating single Mom's are a Red Flag in any Country. There are plenty of girls with out kids to fall in love with. But that's just me.
It's all about ghe character thus knowing well before committing is important. For me I wouldn't marry a single mother because I don't want drama with former husband. I want a child that I can have authority over so that I can lead him to the right path.
And there are plenty of kids who could benefit from having a dad, and plenty of single moms who could benefit from having a loving and supportive partner. Or, it could just be all about you.
@@stevephillips1635 is this comment for me?
@@stevephillips1635 -My life is all about me, not my fault someones Dad ran out on them, you go ahead and be Superman
@@stevephillips1635 -I'm not interested in hearing "You're not my Dad, you cant tell me what to do" for 18+ yrs.
How bad is a situation where a woman, at the prime of her life, has to give herself to an older guy just to survive and be comfortable. She obviously had a child and was desperate to be able to care properly for that child 😢
Dude is in great shape for 62! Better than most people in their 40s.
A 56 yr old dating an 18 yr old is a little bit weird but it’s still legal so good luck to him .
I saw the title then I see him. He’s in great shape for his age. Good luck to them both.
Yep, he's not fat and toothless.
I really liked this interview. It was real and felt honest.
From an ex-employee of Christian Filipina (and its satellite operation Filipino Visa) I heard that Company pays huge commissions to affiliate TH-cam vloggers, from $150 to $300 for each (typically American expat) who signs up.
That must be true because there sure are a lot of expat TH-cam vloggers pushing Christian Filipina. In fact, I can't recall any expat TH-cam vlogger with 20,000+ subscribers who does not affiliate with Christian Filipina.
For this reason I'm not watching videos by Christian Filipino affiliate vloggers.
I wish these two all the best. She's so pretty. You deserve her Bro. Wishing you both all the best.
I got a refund for my premium CF membership. I proved it was over 80% scam girls and they gave the money back without argument. :(
Same with me. I would receive an email, click on the link and the profile would be deleted or off line. Plus its silly expensive. Never again.
Cristian Philippina doesn't work as well for me.Did try for 3 months.
Which site is better?
None of them. Go in person. Save yourself the time and frustration. @@user7897
@@user7897 I use Filipino Cupid which is a paid site. The ladies I've chatted with seem genuine but haven't met any yet since I'm still in Thailand. Also Date in Asia is a free site I just signed on to.
Asked the right questions. On the spot. Good job.
English skills is a struggle he says?
Well, you're living in the Philippines, how about learning the local language?
My dad met a Filipina named Lia when he was 20 and she was 50. They had 7 great years together, before she went back to her village in the mountains of Negros. Where she still lives today. . The air was sweet with the scent of sugarcane fields, and the mountains stood like old friends. She moved into her grandmother’s house (which was owned by a wealthy Mestizo family), where childhood memories clung to every corner. Each day, she rediscovered the rhythm of life: the warmth of neighbors, the quiet of evenings, and the peace she had long forgotten. In that simple life, Lia found herself again-her roots deeper than she ever realized.
My dad still lives in Cleveland and works at the same factory for over three decades. Each day began the same: the shrill alarm, the drive through gray streets, and the endless clanging of machines.
When I met my wonderful Filipina she was 27 and I was 62. I was on a tiny Canadian pension and was struggling in Canada with a low paying job. I moved to the Philippines and we got married. I could afford to live here and support her, by building a tiny simple 40m2 province house. She obviously didn't marry me for my money nor my youth. She married me for who I was. Next month we celebrate our 5 anniversary of marriage, and we continue to adore eachother more and more. Great interview, thanks. I am a long term subscriber to both (all) your channels ❤
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement you bought her a house, support her and when will you have children? Before you met her if she what was her 5 year plan she would have said living in poverty in the province, now five years with you she has a house and a better life, seems like a good outcome.
You have enough money. If they can get you to buy some land and build a modest home before you kick off, they are way ahead of the game...the game of SURVIVING.
She is a real beauty very good looking woman she is absolutely gourgest wpman
It better then being alone if you love each other is all that could. Hope for you dont
Have to worry about your money hungry relatives 😅😮
Sorry but it wasn't for your looks. She's just broke.
Great interview today keep up the great work Sir.
Right now I am in Jamaica. I met an 18 year old Jamaica girl and she fell in love with me.. I lived in New Jersey , USA but I told her that I came from Africa and I lived in Africa. I never told her that I lived in the States because I don't want her to love me because I am from America. She told me that she doesn't want kids. But at the same time, she said in our relationship if we have a child no problem.she is a beautiful 18 year old Jamaica girl. I am 58 years old originally from Liberia, West Africa
She’s not dumb. Depending on clothing, mannerism, accent, she probably knows you’re in America. Good luck. Once you bring her to the states, you’re rolling the dice. Hopefully you can live out there in here country.
I think this is a genuine relationship. The young Filipina seems reasonable and accommodating which is good for an older person. ❤
Wow... A happy couple with a significant age gap.
This must anger certain types to no end.
Because it means those critics have no clue what they're talking about. Admittedly, that's a difficult truth to face.
They will literally have nothing in common.
I'm totally against this but how do you figure that I don't know what I'm talking about? I lived in two cities in the Philippines and I was dating a Filipina and at the time I was 42 and my girlfriend was 30 not 19 I know exactly what I'm talking about
@@Kristoferwitha_k you know exactly what you're talking about.
For those two women
Every person is an individual and only being in a relationship qualifies someone and determining whether or not to continue that relationship.
@@FromTheDeepTitanic well, you're an expert on crushes.
okay, so one couple made it, and to their credit, they look into one another but that would be called an outlier. Most of these bloggers and expats don't come close to this situation. Starting with an 18-year-old with a child, she admits her prospects were not good and he admits he had stringent criteria. He wasn't big on the kid. She lied about her age, so this relationship started under false pretenses. I am also guessing he has the 10x income of a Filipino man.
Beautiful story...and advice. Thank you for sharing your lives with we total strangers. I am also 61, soon 62. Would love to chat with you Gary. Thank you again for sharing your story.
Rule 1 and nothing comes after it, NO MONEY NO HONEY....
what a legend this guy is .if i met him he would be a good friend
Good luck to you! The validity of a relationship should be checked 20-30 years down the road, not in a honeymoon phase.
WTF cares what they do or how they do it. Maybe check in on yourself in 20-30 years because no one else will care what you are doing but you.
Exactly right. As soon as the Utang Na Loob runs out, she is gone.,
Why r u so negative without thinking🤔. He said they have been together 6 yrs already, that’s Far outside honeymoon period. 20 yrs would also well outstrip majority of western marriages. Best of luck to them, if it works it works.
In 30 years he is going to be dead....maybe in 20 years as well.
The honeymoon phase is 2 years, but they were together for SIX YEARS. 50% of marriages end in 2 years.
“There’s a lot you have to teach them” yeah it tends to work that way when you are your girlfriends grandfathers age
Transactional I'll say... but nothing wrong about it, seems like it works well for them.
True, but Western relationships are transactional also. I still have a problem with the problem of how to determine the genuineness of a relationship. Women want children, men want children, marriage is a collaboration to make that happen.
Asian womens are nurturing and loving. They are genuine and contented in small things.
Health gaps are far more important than age gaps. Marry to have a wife, not a nurse.
You guys are the best! It maybe too late for me. I’ll be 73 in January, but I would love to have what you have. My wife of 20 years died of cancer 2 1/2 years ago.
Did you watch his interview with Jerry. 81 never been anywhere, first time on a plane when he came here last year. Has a gf now and so much happier.
I met my wife 5 years ago, when she was 19. I'm not like the western guys who have been conditioned by feminists to be afraid of taking a dip in the fountain of youth 😆. I now have 42 years of experience being 24.😊
Excellent, I've always said there are only two people authorized to weigh in on whether or not a relationship should move forward - the two adults considering the relationship.
All too often, outsiders chime in with opinions that aren't necessarily needed, or wanted.
So you're 24 + 42 = 66 ??? 😲 I'm amazed! I hope you don't meet too many haters. Good for you.
@@28pbtkh23no haters only you suggesting it perhaps
I want to remind every one of a fact that in the history of the world! when women reach puberty they were married at 12 or 13 years old often or yunger. and we all know that growing up lots of girls would be married at 15 and 16 years old in the United States!. but that's not my main issue, what I want to tell you is that in the Bible and in the history of the world, the Kings always had large harems or many wives and concubines. even the Christian kings in the Bible had many wives! and they were not old maids😅!!!!... get over it..😮😅 it's the truth. when a girl becomes a woman she's ,child baring age ,,marriage age. it's a personal choice between them and their families. it's a historical fact of life that dominated the history of this world.hellow!...
@@markeverson5849 Thanks for your unwanted comment. "ART. 234. Emancipation takes place by the attainment of majority. Unless otherwise provided, majority commences at the age of eighteen years."
He looks younger and she looks older. Perfect 🎉
My situation is opposite, im 23 and my Filipina wife is 68, we are very much in love..age is just a number...and no, im not a gold digger
I'd bet she has money.
@@eddieBoxer it's not the money, it's the great sex life 😉
@@eddieBoxer😂
Great story! Congratulations to you both
Yep find a traditional Province girl that is not materialistic and is interested in being a family.
Thanks for your real videos
i recently had a bunch of video chats with a 22yr old, she liked me a lot, but wasn't ready to settle down, or come to the states. oh well, there is plenty more. im 55
Don’t let a good one slip through your fingers 😅😉
@@davidhancock91 yeh, i still have her number, she didnt block me. ill give her some time/space.
You dodged a bullet. Not ready to settle sounds like feminist mindset and unlike Filipina culture.
Its best to stay and live in the Philippines.. and or travel with them all over.. just my opinion. I'm 55 and my GF is 20. been together for two years now. Even enguaged now. Everything is good. We get along great. Travel together and vlog tegether all over Seasia. We have been to Thailand, Bali and now Da Nang.. each place for a month. So great. it is like life is a solid vacation!
@@sanjuanlaunionvlog yep im 54 and my gf is 20. i met her a year ago. I spent six months in the Philipines and Thailand with her then enrolled her in University. Shes transferring to NZ to live here for a while
she’s exactly what I want and expect in a Filipina . The good ones are exactly like this
I am married to an American man for 36 years , at first he is a decision maker without ever consulting me every step of the way . And our life went down hill ! I know he made all those money , but once you are married you have to have your spouse to know every decision you make , it takes two to make your life desirable .
That's right.. respect is very important..
Man is the Leader Under God he can consult but he Has to have a solid Vision to Lead.
Good for you . Her beauty is not considered “beautiful “ by the locals , but you are considered “ handsome” . Good luck!
I'm using "god had a plan" to calm any uneasy creepy feelings I ever have. Good one. 👍🏿
great interview with this beautiful couple i hope they stay together for a lone time
Guys family Back home:
-the women : mennnnnnnnnn
-the men : S C O R E D big time 😂
that's been the response
What a nice, genuine lady
I love these two. I’m one of Leah’s moderators. I think they’re as cute as a button!
This man found the real deal-I was lol inside when she said he was the leader of their family and she was happy-and he says spiritually- like he was concerned about being politically incorrect. That is what God intended for the man to be the leader of the home -because he is doing the RIGHT things for his family above his own self. This is what a real marriage should be and you are both blessed to have found each other and are blessed with your marriage and children to love and live like a family like we are intended to live in this world. They are both happy and in love because they are both fulfilling their potential in God's great Earth. The way he almost cried when he talked about the happiness his children brought to his life is an inspiration to of all of us. The way his wife said she was so happy to let him lead their family because he is worthy... This is what life is about!
At 39 met 26 online. Married 10 years now N.E. Texas. F.Y.I. 1/2 will embrace American divorce culture if brought to America.
You lucked out! 1/2 are horrible odds.
You two make a wonderful couple! Congrats
Don’t older women say “Age is just a number”?
Many thanks for this video!
Both are great nice to see and here about you both I would wish you luck but you don't need luck you have love
Absolutely beautiful family! Great lifestyle!
Most of it because of security.. filipina wanted a secure life .. some has no choice..
Gary is definitely the MAN! Salute to him!
ANOTHER GOOD VLOG
Happy to see a Filipina-foreign success story. Bless this couple!
Bob the builder is hot in PI, she will want kids and a house built, oldest story to man kind. She will also own 51%.
I'm so happy watching you guy's..God Bless Both for your happy married Life...