Nah, not necessarily, different people come with their own set of relationship skills, and your partner might be better at certain things or fill a job in the relationship that isn't your job to have in the relationship, and that's ok. Your job is to be thankful and acknowledge the fact that they take certain things on for the betterment of the relationship. There are certain things that I do in a relationship that I would never ask my girl to do because that's not her job, and vice versa
She's on point. Women play ignorant, but know this truth already. We Men that are emotional intelligence are the same men women will say he soft, Mama's boy, like a brother or say he is gay. Then, later claim they have mature as women, and now want an emotional intelligent good man. Hell no! I leave these black females alone, and try my best to avoid them.
You say that because you know what Obama said: "Are parents did not love us enuf to teaches us these things". And far tooo many of our parents did not know themselves because the educational system refused to teach it. Sadly ,this is the truth all you got to do is ask Oprah, Joyce Meyer and Minister Farakhan and they will tell you the same.
A particular comment in this section said essentially that the man they're talking about sounds like a narcissist and like they'd say mean things to their partner. I have some thoughts on that, as a man in a relationship in which I have struggled with being severely emotionally neglected by my female partner. If there's zero space for me to talk about my feelings in a relationship without my partner getting uncomfortable or upset at MY discomfort or MY being upset, the problem becomes all about what SHE feels about what I feel, leaving the issue of how I actually feel to just... not be resolved. I go out of my way to comfort my partners, but if a man can't trust his partner to support him in a similar respect, where is the love in THAT? It just isn't worth the emotional labour when you bust your ass to perform to the standards of a woman and she doesn't think she should be held to the same standard. How can I trust my partner to lay out relationship rules if she doesn't think she should have to play by them? At that point, the odds are stacked against me, the game just becomes giving, and giving, and giving, and getting scraps at best of recognition and support in turn, and the game stops being worth entertaining. It isn't narcissism to leave a relationship where you're neglected, and you certainly wouldn't say that if the positions of these genders were swapped in this scenario. It'd be a chorus of "you go girl" and "dump his ass". It's really not arrogance, toxicity, or narcissism. It's knowing one's own worth and respecting oneself. We're worth being cared about, and the fact of the matter is that women who aren't capable of that don't deserve to reap the benefits of an emotionally intelligent man. As far as what you claim these men would say, just... just no. It isn't disrespect or cruelty to open up to your partner about what isn't working in the relationship. A mature and truly emotionally intelligent woman will want to know when there's a problem, even if it hurts, so that issues can be worked on, just like they expect their male partners to recognise their shortcomings so THOSE can be worked on. The appropriate response isn't to get offended and villainise men for expressing dissatisfaction with how they're treated, it's to actually talk about it the same way you'd want your feelings talked about. Respectfully. Without anger. Without judgement. My feelings aren't an insult to anyone, they're just how I feel, and it isn't automatically my fault for feeling that way. If this carries on and on, then yeah, something in me is going to snap. I'm going to stop being so gentle and calm, because I've tried desperately to talk, but there's nothing I get back from that relationship besides my words being twisted to make the problem about my having the audacity to "insult" my partner, and an adamant refusal to just... hear what I'm saying, take that shit at face value, and work with me to grow as people and a couple. Yeah, you're damn right that eventually I'll get tired of it and just get up and leave because I care about me as much as I deserve, and you don't.
Women today are terrible. I would run if heard any woman using the narcissistic, emotional intelligence or toxic masculinity. They have no clue what any of it even means.
Beautifully said, and I’d like to add a clarification for abusive personalities. The five pillars of emotional intelligence are self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, empathy, and social skills ( I like to say social grace). Emotional intelligence calls for men/women to be able to navigate their own emotions and express their needs from a place of respect. Often, we see extremely abusive personalities claiming they are emotionally intelligent, but they seek to destroy and manipulate with their words. Ideas incongruent with their beliefs leads to aggression, demoralization, and bullying (all of which are responses of a weak mind). An emotionally intelligent person consistently works on his or her mind. They are not highly reactive, they are controlled, they have fortified within themselves the ability to regulate their own emotions and thus, their reactions.
Not to correct you but I think it is most women that don't want accountability because for a man that is not accountable, no woman will date him anyhow. However a woman who don't want accountability will still go on dates after dates after dates if she is pretty enough. She will be able to sleep with all of them but she will never get that ring!
When I was younger and all over the place with my energy, women loved me. I'm relatively tall, well built and attractive. On top of this I have always been able to talk well and so women would queue up around the block to be noticed by me. But When I became this exact man in the video. My speech became calmer and unhurried. I can see a woman's spirit and mind before Ive registered her body. Because of my transformation it was like night and day in respects to female advances. Yes there were elements of me cutting off emotionally erratic women. But the vast bulk of women stay the hell away from me. I've learnt that most women realise the type of man that's Infront of them but the man they know they need is scary because he requires her to be the best version of herself.
I needed to hear this. I’ve dated several people who would collapse into tears or rage when triggered and throw their emotions at me. It was my job to take it and empathize with them, but I was shoving my own emotions down in doing so. It became my role to always be the one who takes it and empathizes. I love your post and everyone’s comments because it shows me that I’m not alone and thinking that those folks who I dated weren’t ready for me to fully show up, because when I did, they would start crying or start lashing out. I had worked my ass off to not do that myself and it would result in me exploding in a huge torrent of rage further down the line. No more of that. From now on, I’m making my own space and not folding over.
Emotionally intelligent men are a force to be reckoned with and not for the everyday person. Not only for all those above reasons but they can see the holes in you and will make you see it and fix it yourself. Most women could not handle an emotionally intelligent man. It’s a whole new ball game lol. But I love these guys, they have taught me more than I ever thought I could learn but the lessons are really really HARD! They are irreplaceable once you meet one but they are rare.
From reading some of these comments, it appears some didn't take it from her either. Some people sadly will never hear this message regardless of who is delivering it😢
This absolutely deep! My xwife when she's not respecting me by her behavior when I stop the conversation told me I was not OK without seeing her own disrespectful attitude and the fact that I can not tolerate it
excellent points dear sis emotional intelligence is a taboo people avoid in some crowds instead of looking at it from both rational and emotional sides they rather be one way minded.
Yupp once i started how much value my peace of mine was it became easier to protect myself.learning your value doesnt come in a blink of an eye it comes with trials and tribulation and getting to know yourself on a deeper level . You cant protect yourself if you dont know yourself. Even SUN TZU said know yourself and your enemy the one who doesnt know bith loses years of battles .
So true I made the mistake of getting back with an ex hoping a few years apart changed her ways and approach to things that made me break up the first time. Within 2 months I knew they hadn´t and I immediately cut her off for good. There was no future to be had with her.
I come back to this video often as a reminder because the women I sadly encounter just on a day to day basis relieve that someone being emotionally intelligent is based on the ability to simply express one’s self. The problem with this generic notion is that these same women also assume that just because you have emotions and can articulate them, it also means that these said emotions are right and leave no room for further observation and possible correction or readjustment. To put it simply, they manipulate a situation according to their feelings while down playing their role in a said situation or they simply don’t like being to they are wrong about something. Is a manipulation tactic that lacks accountability and responsibility of one’s self control. From my experience women only want an intelligent man when that man’s intelligence caters to what she wants and desires. Not principles like compromise or seflessness.
This lady keeps it real, and agree with what she said however, I feel with having emotional intelligence also means to have emotional maturity as well. There needs to be a balance. One is to hold themselves accountable, regarding how they communicate and connect using emotional intelligence due to the intellectual information/knowledge one acquires after doing the work. You have to know and understand what type of man/woman you dealing with ok, regarding how you connect, communicate and express yourself to another. To be emotionally intelligent, is to be self aware 👀 ok so, if one doesn't like the way you "communicate" and express yourself using emotional intelligence, he/she does not respond well, the connection is not there. It's about being self aware and truly listening, to hold space for another to safeguard and respect how the other feels and perceives things ok.. Anyone who does the work to become and embody what is means to be emotionally intelligent is one thing, but if there is no emotional maturity as well, then that's how you explain how men/women become emotionally manipulative, narcissistic, egoic and just overall impossible to communicate with because of a lack of understanding and inability to effectively connect.
Fact. Emotional maturity goes hand in hand with emotional intelligence, there is no point to be emotionally intelligent, if some doesn't have the emotional maturity to apply it.
I think you are referring to relationship management, which is one of the pillars of developing a higher EQ. A lot of ppl can score high on an emotional intelligence test in every other area, but come in very low in that area. You can be self aware, be able to self-manage and even be socially aware and STILL not have the skills to show up for your partner in an emotionally mature relationship.
Thank you sister! For breaking this down. I've been seeing goofy ahss women all over the Internet talking about men being emotional intelligent lol. Always some goofy ish. Knowing daggone well she couldn't deal or stomach an emotional intelligent man with their chaotic mindset
That's the realest thing that I have heard on anyone channel. Your life is a business, and if you can't run your life. Then you have already lost. I'm always working on myself to be a better me, so I never have time to talk about people's, nor be around anything toxic!
Emotional intelligence isn't ONLY him being thoughtful, patient, understanding, him being able to talk you off a ledge but then you not possessing those same skills/qualities to offer in return. If that's what you want you gotta have it as well.
True...... Absolutely that's a two-way street but when a person play and don't come with it they'll get the cutoff game real quick for and I just don't have time absolutely..... Some of it is common sense and a lot of people don't usually use a lot of common sense with that so that's to be expected but then when you do it back to them but they need to do they need to understand you know the same exact thing but then at the end of the day it's how you handle your yourself in the situation at the same time you can't always build up by yourself up or going to a frenzy when your partner is trying to sit back and say something to you absolutely...... This is why I said everything is not for everyone and that girl hit the nail on the head with a hammer 🔨.....
She is right. The pendulum swung the other way to me and i darn near fell out my seat 😂. J/k but he definitely read me down & i was stunned but receptive. I needed to hear some truths
Hope I develop to be a man of this perspective. It takes time, mistakes, and humility to reflect, that shapes this maturity and intelligence. Some find it quickly some find it slowly. I feel like I am of the slow kind. Lol but it's progress not perfection.
You should never ask for anything from a partner that you are unable to offer.
facts.
That’s it, that’s all.
Very well said.
And this is what it all boils down to
Nah, not necessarily, different people come with their own set of relationship skills, and your partner might be better at certain things or fill a job in the relationship that isn't your job to have in the relationship, and that's ok. Your job is to be thankful and acknowledge the fact that they take certain things on for the betterment of the relationship. There are certain things that I do in a relationship that I would never ask my girl to do because that's not her job, and vice versa
God dam she’s spitting pure facts
She's on point.
Women play ignorant, but know this truth already.
We Men that are emotional intelligence are the same men women will say he soft, Mama's boy, like a brother or say he is gay.
Then, later claim they have mature as women, and now want an emotional intelligent good man.
Hell no!
I leave these black females alone, and try my best to avoid them.
I like her.
and she is very easy on the eyes
She is, but be careful next time not to say the Lord's name in vain.
@@7thFreeSon I respect your opinion but your lord not mine
She didn't cook, she set the place on fire 💥
She bbq’d!!!!
Exactly! You betta have done the work on yourself to match the emotionally intelligent man you want!
Big Facts!
FACTSSS! You have to be the kind of person you want to attract.
You say that because you know what Obama said: "Are parents did not love us enuf to teaches us these things". And far tooo many of our parents did not know themselves because the educational system refused to teach it. Sadly ,this is the truth all you got to do is ask Oprah, Joyce Meyer and Minister Farakhan and they will tell you the same.
@@samuraibushido7077 You’re quoting Barack with that grammar??
Exactly!@@hellothere8347
In other words: If u can't match the energy, that emotionally intelligent person WILL NOT let you drain theirs
True and it also drains your energy because anything that's not on the same level is either draining or overwhelming.
She’s on point with this because in order to recognize the emotions of others, one must first fully understand their own.
Yes very true
Yea too bad she too masculine. Too much make up. Bad wig and overweight
💯💯💯👌🏾
She is a high value woman.
That lady is speaking facts. And she is gorgeous!
Nah she over masculine with a bad wig and too much make up. Real men don’t like this only women don
A particular comment in this section said essentially that the man they're talking about sounds like a narcissist and like they'd say mean things to their partner. I have some thoughts on that, as a man in a relationship in which I have struggled with being severely emotionally neglected by my female partner. If there's zero space for me to talk about my feelings in a relationship without my partner getting uncomfortable or upset at MY discomfort or MY being upset, the problem becomes all about what SHE feels about what I feel, leaving the issue of how I actually feel to just... not be resolved. I go out of my way to comfort my partners, but if a man can't trust his partner to support him in a similar respect, where is the love in THAT? It just isn't worth the emotional labour when you bust your ass to perform to the standards of a woman and she doesn't think she should be held to the same standard. How can I trust my partner to lay out relationship rules if she doesn't think she should have to play by them? At that point, the odds are stacked against me, the game just becomes giving, and giving, and giving, and getting scraps at best of recognition and support in turn, and the game stops being worth entertaining. It isn't narcissism to leave a relationship where you're neglected, and you certainly wouldn't say that if the positions of these genders were swapped in this scenario. It'd be a chorus of "you go girl" and "dump his ass". It's really not arrogance, toxicity, or narcissism. It's knowing one's own worth and respecting oneself. We're worth being cared about, and the fact of the matter is that women who aren't capable of that don't deserve to reap the benefits of an emotionally intelligent man. As far as what you claim these men would say, just... just no. It isn't disrespect or cruelty to open up to your partner about what isn't working in the relationship. A mature and truly emotionally intelligent woman will want to know when there's a problem, even if it hurts, so that issues can be worked on, just like they expect their male partners to recognise their shortcomings so THOSE can be worked on. The appropriate response isn't to get offended and villainise men for expressing dissatisfaction with how they're treated, it's to actually talk about it the same way you'd want your feelings talked about. Respectfully. Without anger. Without judgement. My feelings aren't an insult to anyone, they're just how I feel, and it isn't automatically my fault for feeling that way. If this carries on and on, then yeah, something in me is going to snap. I'm going to stop being so gentle and calm, because I've tried desperately to talk, but there's nothing I get back from that relationship besides my words being twisted to make the problem about my having the audacity to "insult" my partner, and an adamant refusal to just... hear what I'm saying, take that shit at face value, and work with me to grow as people and a couple. Yeah, you're damn right that eventually I'll get tired of it and just get up and leave because I care about me as much as I deserve, and you don't.
Very well said. I whole wholeheartedly agree.
This point right here they arent ready for smh. So true
Women today are terrible. I would run if heard any woman using the narcissistic, emotional intelligence or toxic masculinity. They have no clue what any of it even means.
Preach.
Many people won't read your comment because of how long it is, but it truly deserves to be read in its entirety and meditated upon.
FACTS, Make sure you know what you want before you receive it.
It goes beyond just knowing, you have to BE that which you want to receive in a partner.
I think you missed the point of what was said. It’s not about knowing what you want. It’s about being able to offer the same back.
IF YOUR NOT READY FOR THAT DON'T BE ASKING FOR AN INTELLIGENT MAN 🔥🖤
Beautifully said, and I’d like to add a clarification for abusive personalities. The five pillars of emotional intelligence are self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, empathy, and social skills ( I like to say social grace).
Emotional intelligence calls for men/women to be able to navigate their own emotions and express their needs from a place of respect. Often, we see extremely abusive personalities claiming they are emotionally intelligent, but they seek to destroy and manipulate with their words. Ideas incongruent with their beliefs leads to aggression, demoralization, and bullying (all of which are responses of a weak mind). An emotionally intelligent person consistently works on his or her mind. They are not highly reactive, they are controlled, they have fortified within themselves the ability to regulate their own emotions and thus, their reactions.
Oooooooowwwwe she broke it down At That Level, Emotionally Intelligently 🗣🎤💯💯💯💯🔥
“so if you not ready for that don’t be asking for an intelligent man” PERIODT
This was a refreshing take coming from a woman. I agree with every word she said.
Protect her at all cost
🎉if you noticed the rock on her finger. I would argue that she may be more suited to speak on this then others.
Emotional intelligence requires accountability! Most folks don’t want that!
Not to correct you but I think it is most women that don't want accountability because for a man that is not accountable, no woman will date him anyhow. However a woman who don't want accountability will still go on dates after dates after dates if she is pretty enough. She will be able to sleep with all of them but she will never get that ring!
When I was younger and all over the place with my energy, women loved me. I'm relatively tall, well built and attractive. On top of this I have always been able to talk well and so women would queue up around the block to be noticed by me.
But When I became this exact man in the video. My speech became calmer and unhurried. I can see a woman's spirit and mind before Ive registered her body. Because of my transformation it was like night and day in respects to female advances. Yes there were elements of me cutting off emotionally erratic women. But the vast bulk of women stay the hell away from me.
I've learnt that most women realise the type of man that's Infront of them but the man they know they need is scary because he requires her to be the best version of herself.
Damn I Loveeee it💜💛
Respect.
LIKE
I needed to hear this. I’ve dated several people who would collapse into tears or rage when triggered and throw their emotions at me. It was my job to take it and empathize with them, but I was shoving my own emotions down in doing so. It became my role to always be the one who takes it and empathizes. I love your post and everyone’s comments because it shows me that I’m not alone and thinking that those folks who I dated weren’t ready for me to fully show up, because when I did, they would start crying or start lashing out. I had worked my ass off to not do that myself and it would result in me exploding in a huge torrent of rage further down the line. No more of that. From now on, I’m making my own space and not folding over.
She said nothing but the truth.
A very honest take on reality that pleases my soul to hear.
She spoke that very clearly 🙌🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💯
We already had the alternative. I want one. Sounds like ambition, integrity, godliness and the Ps are there.
Kitty is so wise! Love her ❤
Emotionally intelligent men are a force to be reckoned with and not for the everyday person. Not only for all those above reasons but they can see the holes in you and will make you see it and fix it yourself. Most women could not handle an emotionally intelligent man. It’s a whole new ball game lol. But I love these guys, they have taught me more than I ever thought I could learn but the lessons are really really HARD! They are irreplaceable once you meet one but they are rare.
Protect This Sister at All Cost 💯 O.G.Florida 🌴
Testify sister testify 👏🏾👏🏾💯
🗣️ Straight Facts 💯
Glad to see some defence on part of Emotional Intelligent men. If a guy says it it wouldn't have gotten the message across!
From reading some of these comments, it appears some didn't take it from her either. Some people sadly will never hear this message regardless of who is delivering it😢
Don't ask for something today & you are'nt Equipped To Handle it Tomorrow. You Nailed That One!!!
I’m leaving exactly on the account of that.
No disrespect will fly under my watch, only we know what we want and only we can fight for it!
And that's the truth, The whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Very well said.
She is the realist, with everything being very well said.. very intelligent and speaks with great confidence. I love it, much love and respect .
This absolutely deep!
My xwife when she's not respecting me by her behavior when I stop the conversation told me I was not OK without seeing her own disrespectful attitude and the fact that I can not tolerate it
She’s not lying.
Thank you my sistah!! Teach these women what time it is! Teach em!
excellent points dear sis emotional intelligence is a taboo people avoid in some crowds instead of looking at it from both rational and emotional sides they rather be one way minded.
Kitty! On point as usual.
SHE SPOKE THE BOOK OF TRUTH!!!
She just nailed it!
They say there's POWER in words or the tongue which could set a forest ABLAZE 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you to her lvl of teaching!! reinforced My Defense👏
YES!!! Well said!!!!
This is amazing. Not as much as what to expect but moreso for what I need to change in me.
Found her! KITTY ROSE!!!!
Real Talk Plain Simple Facts 💯%Respect:
She is speaking the truth.
Yupp once i started how much value my peace of mine was it became easier to protect myself.learning your value doesnt come in a blink of an eye it comes with trials and tribulation and getting to know yourself on a deeper level . You cant protect yourself if you dont know yourself. Even SUN TZU said know yourself and your enemy the one who doesnt know bith loses years of battles .
Well said Sister Thank you
And SOOO BEAUTIFUL and smooth with it Thank you 🌹🌹🌹
Love it.. and love her well spoken telling it how it is and not how they want it to be ❤❤
Real talk,sis❤❤
Yes maaam...Preach...That's that masculine man...where he at??
Don’t how She is imbued with such wisdom …its really refreshing
Yes, I do!! ❤️❤️ She's right!
the silence in that room speaks volumes
Facts cuz any other time they’re in their hootin & hollering.
I 1st discovered this video on Instagram. I can not get enough of this 💖 Well said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
She is always dropping gems
Who is she?
So true I made the mistake of getting back with an ex hoping a few years apart changed her ways and approach to things that made me break up the first time. Within 2 months I knew they hadn´t and I immediately cut her off for good. There was no future to be had with her.
That’s like the rare moment i’ve seen a a mature woman being real. And most of all coming in hot with real equality
She speaking pure facts
they not ready
I come back to this video often as a reminder because the women I sadly encounter just on a day to day basis relieve that someone being emotionally intelligent is based on the ability to simply express one’s self. The problem with this generic notion is that these same women also assume that just because you have emotions and can articulate them, it also means that these said emotions are right and leave no room for further observation and possible correction or readjustment. To put it simply, they manipulate a situation according to their feelings while down playing their role in a said situation or they simply don’t like being to they are wrong about something. Is a manipulation tactic that lacks accountability and responsibility of one’s self control. From my experience women only want an intelligent man when that man’s intelligence caters to what she wants and desires. Not principles like compromise or seflessness.
DAMN!!! SHE SPOKE SOME REAL TALK!!! KUDOS MA'AM 👏🏾
Preach Sister
Smart and beautiful. Loved this
May the womb that carried you be blessed my sister.
She is queen. Literally a queen👸 We need more women like her in the society
They say they want it but when they get it they can’t handle it
Preach sister!
I agree with her. Thats Facts!!
This lady keeps it real, and agree with what she said however, I feel with having emotional intelligence also means to have emotional maturity as well. There needs to be a balance. One is to hold themselves accountable, regarding how they communicate and connect using emotional intelligence due to the intellectual information/knowledge one acquires after doing the work. You have to know and understand what type of man/woman you dealing with ok, regarding how you connect, communicate and express yourself to another. To be emotionally intelligent, is to be self aware 👀 ok so, if one doesn't like the way you "communicate" and express yourself using emotional intelligence, he/she does not respond well, the connection is not there. It's about being self aware and truly listening, to hold space for another to safeguard and respect how the other feels and perceives things ok.. Anyone who does the work to become and embody what is means to be emotionally intelligent is one thing, but if there is no emotional maturity as well, then that's how you explain how men/women become emotionally manipulative, narcissistic, egoic and just overall impossible to communicate with because of a lack of understanding and inability to effectively connect.
EXACTLY! ❤❤❤❤
Yup facts!!! I love this comment
Fact. Emotional maturity goes hand in hand with emotional intelligence, there is no point to be emotionally intelligent, if some doesn't have the emotional maturity to apply it.
I think you are referring to relationship management, which is one of the pillars of developing a higher EQ. A lot of ppl can score high on an emotional intelligence test in every other area, but come in very low in that area. You can be self aware, be able to self-manage and even be socially aware and STILL not have the skills to show up for your partner in an emotionally mature relationship.
Thank you sister! For breaking this down. I've been seeing goofy ahss women all over the Internet talking about men being emotional intelligent lol. Always some goofy ish. Knowing daggone well she couldn't deal or stomach an emotional intelligent man with their chaotic mindset
Whelp. I done lost my shit hearing this. Her soul is burning too bright for this world rn and im here for it
Pure FACTZZZ
She is so right!!
That's the realest thing that I have heard on anyone channel. Your life is a business, and if you can't run your life. Then you have already lost. I'm always working on myself to be a better me, so I never have time to talk about people's, nor be around anything toxic!
This is so true !!!
She needs a standing ovation
TRUTH!! DEPTH!! 💕❤️💕
Telling the whole truth!!❤️
Wisdom to the nth degree. Nothing but respect and admiration for a queen worthy of her 👑
🔥🔥🔥🔥…. I’m gonna leave it right there
Emotional intelligence isn't ONLY him being thoughtful, patient, understanding, him being able to talk you off a ledge but then you not possessing those same skills/qualities to offer in return. If that's what you want you gotta have it as well.
True...... Absolutely that's a two-way street but when a person play and don't come with it they'll get the cutoff game real quick for and I just don't have time absolutely..... Some of it is common sense and a lot of people don't usually use a lot of common sense with that so that's to be expected but then when you do it back to them but they need to do they need to understand you know the same exact thing but then at the end of the day it's how you handle your yourself in the situation at the same time you can't always build up by yourself up or going to a frenzy when your partner is trying to sit back and say something to you absolutely...... This is why I said everything is not for everyone and that girl hit the nail on the head with a hammer 🔨.....
This is brilliant
It’s a fool’s world. It seems, the world only starts caring, when you stop.
She is right. The pendulum swung the other way to me and i darn near fell out my seat 😂. J/k but he definitely read me down & i was stunned but receptive. I needed to hear some truths
She is beauty personified
Sheeeeeeesh, a word Sis, a word.
10000000% Preach Black Queen Preach!
Facts!
She's right 💯
💯❤️ Sis❤️💯 spitting FACTS!!
PREACH IT Kitty
Speaking truth.
Where can I watch this whole episode?
That was beautifully said
Hope I develop to be a man of this perspective. It takes time, mistakes, and humility to reflect, that shapes this maturity and intelligence. Some find it quickly some find it slowly. I feel like I am of the slow kind. Lol but it's progress not perfection.
Hello ma'am may i just say its nice to have a traditional women around that understand the way a true man works..
Young men don't waste a single moment in your life in conversation with women about what women want
I agree with her 💯💯💯💯💯