If a Man is TRULY INTERESTED, He’ll Do This...
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- Steve explains EXACTLY what a man will do if he plans to commit to your relationship forever! #steveharvey
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1:47 “If a man asks you out, and he’s not willing to buy you a plate of food? How can you possibly think that this guy, can take care of a family.”
Agree!
True cause I don't think he would be a provider
@@thelifeofaria😂😂lol so Kuch effort for a plate of food ?? U really believe women would do that
@@thelifeofaria that’s a fair assessment. Most women are not looking for a man as a paycheck. Sometimes it’s hard to determine character on a first date. Having honest dialogue about expectations helps to decide to go further or part ways.
@@Mimi_622 Ain’t that the truth. Had two parties where two sets of friends connected and they eventually got married and had kids. Sometimes life brings you together for others to discover.
Never went on a date, went on office lunch with colleagues, he paid for everyone, 4 years later we got married and now he pays for everything. ❤
He got a brother😮😂😅
Awwwww can you share a brief story? I fell upon this video and im kinda down. I love hearing about love and your comment seemed sweet and worth asking if youre willing to share!❤ If not, your comment is sweet!! Happy for you!
Yes please share your story! I love this!
So sweet. That is a man.
What happened in the four (4) years?…btwn lunch w/colleagues & marriage?
If a man is asking a woman out, it is the man's job to pay for everything. The woman didn't ask the man out, the man asked the woman out. Fellas man up and treat your woman with the love and respect they deserve.
Definitely. But it also goes the other way around. It's all about circumstances and who the people are. Both deserve the same love and respect; both give and receive.
@@Tenseiken_ So true.
@@Tenseiken_if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone
@Kenyagirly You have gender roles reversed. I hope more people will raise their children the right way. Men are to be leaders and providers. I understand that some men will have temporary difficulties -keyword being temporary. However, if a woman has to focus on who's going to pay everytime she goes on a date with her man, that's a problem with his manhood and her choice of men.
@Kenyagirlybut again I’m not asking to get to know guys I mind my business but men seem to can’t mind theirs so it’s who ask who for the number
I love Steve’s old fashioned dating and relationship values ❤
Yes, same!
Absolutely
Absolutely he even tried to tell Kiki Palmer about her BD but she didn't listen 👂🏾😂
Yes!!!! ❤
It should still be in fashion and it’s up to us ladies to keep the standards high for ourselves and our daughters
My mom taught me this. She said “ you have what they want, make them earn it.”
But it's also true that u won't have it forever (youth). Then u get replaced. Its Better to have a non toxic mindset such as this
Tracy that made me laugh 😂 Fabulous Mum! 😊
@@Rahul-ml2xbit’s not youth, it’s vagina. Period.
You giving it up for a $300 meal on the first date? No? So around the 4th or 5th date? He has to spend about $1000 on you before you give them what they want? A hooker is cheaper. So is a maid.
Words of gold.🙏🏻
I am 26 years old about to turn 27 this year in December. The way I was raised by my father is when ask a woman out on a date you pay for the meal and I mean the whole meal!!! You asked her out if you want to show her that you're really interested you pay the bill and you pay the tip!!!! That's how you tell a woman that you're interested and you mean business 💯💯💯
@Kenyagirly Facts 🤜🤛💯
@Kenyagirly STOP SAYING THAT! WE HEAR YA ALREADY! BUT WOMEN DONT' REALLY DO THE ASKING!
@@nofybn7794 Some of us do. But he still offered to pay.
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Bizony így kéne udvarolni a férfinek,viszont sajnos még fordult a világ sok ferfit a nő tart el.ami szerintem szégyen.
Well put, " if he can't buy you a plate of food, he can't feed a family". You sold the concept to me.
AMEN 🙏🙌
You’ll never have to ask a real man to pay for date. Real men show up without asking
Tell that to the stingy Brits!
@@EcoworksFL Thats cause the loser men convinced women that "equal rights"
@@EcoworksFLexactly. Smh lol! Leave 😅them kind right where they are!
Exactly 👏 💯
WHat if it's not a date
I made the mistake of buying meals as well and now he thinks he can always rely on me and “got it” at the end of the day. LADIES PLEASE DONT DO IT.
You’re still with him?
You’re way too beautiful for that. Require more & you’ll get more.
I have paid for both dinners in situations where I had NO interest in a follow-up date and didn't want to feel any obligation to the guy.
@@GlenMcDowellFarmplease stop lowering the bar for men. It's a date. They are exchanging a nice meal for your time and a chance to get to know you better - not for sex or a guaranteed 2nd date. They may not even want a second date. It's really that simple. Neither person owes anything to the other.
On a date with a man, a woman should never be expected to pay for a meal, period.
The best thing you can give your children, are roots & wings.
To fly one has to cut off the shackles.
BEAUTIFUL
You said it perfectly!
a stable diving board to dive off of!
That’s potatoes and teriyaki chicken wings
It's the men with the huge Ego... that feels he doesn't need a relationship. But goes out looking for multiple women to fill a void. And has lots of options, or says he just wants a friend or a companion with the benefits of a relationship. Be aware of these kinds of men.
AMEN 🙏🙌
No. I had a date asked me to pay on a first date and I never dated him again!
I agree 👍 if you ask me out on a date and I have to pay! That's your last date with me
100%. I had an amazing first date with a guy...at the end of the date, he had the audacity to ask for SEPARATE bills! Then tried to kiss me at the end of the date. ( I don't kiss on the first date anyway) but after the date he msgd me and asked why I seemed different at the end. I told him point blank I was turned off by what he did... he tried for a veryyyyy long time to make it up to me...but I could never see him differently after what he did. I was soooo turned off. Felt like he showed his true colours that first date
Good 4 u 👍
@@kk-xi8liI'm sorry, but you said you had an amazing date with a guy and only because he didn't paid he lost you?! Really? So on the other hand if a guy paid for everything then he has the right for some action? Because that would be an exchange for it... I'm sorry but that so wrong in so many ways. I was like you in the past. And one day I had an amazing date and we split the bill on the first date. Today we are happy married and have a wonderful relationship. Why had my husband spilt the bill then? Because he was been used for free meals and never heard of the girls again. There two sides of the story. I was also raised that the man pays the bills for dates. But also he has the last word in everything! Woman can be housewifes and keep their opinion for themselves. That's how the past was. Also, sorry not sorry. Steve's have so many good advices which he preaches but has one woman after the other. I'm sorry but with such stupid stuff women and man will be alone forever. 😢
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I quickly ended a romantic interest, once I woke up to the fact that he was cheap. Watch for the red flags, and don’t waste time.
Well said! Where are the real men?
That’s great advice. I dated a guy who was cheap and ended up marrying him. He was so cheap that it was embarrassing. He served me divorce papers when I was getting chemo treatments and we had been married for 10 years. His cheapness was definitely a red flag and a constant irritation in our marriage.
Thanks for sharing. :) Will definitely look for the red flag next time.🚩
Thats nice, are you married now?
I dated CHEAP MEN! A total disaster! My advice, stay single ladies! Spend your money on yourself! :)
Steve tells it straight. I am listening.
If a man is having financial difficulties he still should provide the date and not let women pay for anything. He can prepare a picnic basket and arrange a picnic or something else creative that he can afford.
Yes, 35 years ago a new boyfriend did that for me, he planned a surprise picnic. I found it really charming! Then on another date he cooked me a special ethnic meal that I had never tried before and followed up with serenading me with his classical guitar playing.
It was all so charming and I did stay with him for a couple of years. Our relationship motivated him to strive for the employment that he was hoping for.
Or not date.
Steal flowers on the roadside...
I agree 👍
If he's having financial difficulties he shouldn't be dating at all. Dating is expensive and not having your finances together robs the woman of the experience she deserves, maybe the man too
In my 20s i used to go dutch with men. My mother laughed at me and said any man who would allow a woman to pay on a first date is not a real man. I brushed her off as being old fashioned but she was right nothing ever came of the dates with guys who asked me to pay. Now i wouldnt dream of paying for a thing, at least not early on in the relationship. I took my bf out for his 48th birthday (i am 39) on Feb 22 and he wouldn't even let me pay - he insisted on getting the tab on his own birthday! This is how men are - they are born with the drive to hunt and pursue what they want and to provide. If he is not providing for you and pursuing you and instead are giving you silly excuses about feminism and women's lib he is either a poor excuse for a man or he is not interested...in you. Watch all that feminism crap fly out of his vocabulary so quickly when he comes across the woman he's actually been looking for, the woman he's dreamt about. 😂
You are absolutely correct! Men have double standards for their dream girl and they will treat the placeholder like crap and just take advantage of her
True
“REAL MEN; we know the deal!!!” The unfortunate problem is there are fewer and fewer REAL MEN left in the world!!! Thank you so much Steve for keeping it real; and speaking the TRUTH!
If we try to find real men we are doomed. These so called REAL MEN are dead/ pushing 60s. Now only there are modern men😂😂😂 same logic for modern women too
It’s really sad.
My grandfather raised me to know, “If a man loves you, there’s no ocean he won’t swim or mountain he won’t climb for you.”
Today, a “man” doesn’t even pay for a nice date.
@@STBR-yp7jo well your grandmother didn't date in 2024. The advice is ancient. It will work if u want to date an ancient guy, in that case - best luck to u 😁
@@Rahul-ml2xb no it’s not. It’s just that u have been brainwashed into thinking and doing otherwise. u sound like u are far from the gentleman of the past, which I’m sure u are proud NOT to be. Times have changed. I’m sure there are women out there who will suit u personally because they have been brainwashed too into being the types of women of 2024. Types meaning a “hook-up” culture where u want instant gratification, act selfish, dump people when they are too “nice”, have high narcissistic tendencies/full blown narcissism, expect smex if u buy her dinner, etc. u will probably end up alone, living a bachelor lifestyle for the rest of ur life, but if u do find that unlucky person, u will cheat on them when u get bored of them.
Talk that talk!
*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*
I love this! This, like a poetic tune...
Its simple, its not forced on you, you ask her out on the date, if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, you claim to like, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone
Agree 100%. As well as if you claim to like a male and not willing to sleep with him leave him alone 😂. Tit for tat
@@alonzojones9626 creepy
@@alonzojones9626 lol loonie..are talking plate of food and you are going all the way to what is traditionally an act reserved for marriage. And what definitely can lead to a pregnancy that you're not carrying. Does a plate of food have the same repercussions to life as sleeping with someone?
I can't understand how men claim to have reason and logic lol...this mentality of yours is a fail! What a shame!
@alonzojones9626 I can like your company without wanting to sleep with you.
@@alonzojones9626 and this is the attitude and why women prefer to be single!
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Steve, I love your morning inspirations on the radio.The day after my mother passed, I got up to listen to your inspiration in my truck alone. When you said your mother could have just passed I heard the Lord say "Now we can begin". Thank you for being the voice I needed to hear that day. You're more than a comedian.👏🏽 You're changing lives.❤🙏🏼
for sure
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. May she rest in peace. 🙏🏻❤️
That’s what I taught my son too is you pay for the dates and be a gentleman.
@@emmanuelcharles38 😃
@@caroltz8220 🙏🏼 Thank you ♥️
My eldest son knew this at 13. Flowers ,chocolates ,other gifts , a nice place to eat and he ( well , I 😅 )
He sounds like a nice boy whom you raised well.
@@peacheedandee Thank you very much for your kind words.. He was a nice boy ,now he is a nice man.
Mine too!
A real man has Spoken!!!! I will never pay 50/50 on a first date or even 7th date. Thanks
Good luck finding a man lol
No man for you lol
"You gotta let her fly" ❤
~Steve Harvey
Speak it Steve! The man doesn't appreciate it! If he asks you out... enjoy the date! "REAL MEN" ☆☆☆☆☆
that's why eve was created ❤ to be a complement, not provide but to support and love in response for protection and care ❤
Can Steve please preach this to all the loser single men out there who are cheap and broke and still trying to date!?
Most good men don't date at all. We were taught all our lives all the things that women hate about men.
Number one was unwanted approaching.
I'll never do that as Im a good man .
Only bad boy, felons, and sociopaths are thriving in this culture.
If a man approaches a woman, he's probably one you should avoid!
Or to the good men who don't date at all because it's no fun for them?
Yeah! Preach this to all the loser single and broke guys out there!
You preach it by setting your boundaries with all the "loser cheap guys" that keep approaching you. They're grown and know what they're doing, it's up to you what you allow.
@@SNIPEZONE23Well said!
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks
You wont regret it
@@bartholetbay412 please help me where I can find her 🙏
That Mother & daughter looking after her daughter at midnight alone is NOT crazy!!! Knowing who she is going out with is necessary now! You HAVE to do that these days! Women are being abducted every day & r’d & killed. If she lives alone down the street, she is not a hostage! Keep looking after your baby girl!🙏💪
Agree 💯❤❤❤❤
@@Ladyblogtest Its late at night and anything could happen during those few steps to her dorstep.
I dont blame that mother to go get her daughter times nowadsy is very serious@@alpanapaul8210
I fully agree. She is being a good mom. People are attacked right inside their buildings coming off work late these days. I would do the EXACT same thing her mom is doing.
Soooo trueeee. Even me, and I’m 62 years old. I tell my son with whom, where and others. It’s being precautious. Totally agreee with you.
Steve is a God send. He should teach a class for men today. 😂😂😂
Yes... He does tell men today how not to behave in modern world by giving advice on how men behaved in 1960s.
Steve, please consider contacting Oprah to do a Masterclass on relationships. You are a great speaker and educator. So many people need help with this. God bless you!
@@debbiecreter2005 if that's sarcasm, it's lost on me😂
@@Rahul-ml2xb I’m confused by your response. I sincerely meant what I said. I think a lot of people need help with how to have meaningful relationships as evidenced by high divorce rates, reluctance to commit to marriage, and high domestic violence situations. Plus dating apps that are mainly hook up opportunities. It’s worrisome. Steve often addresses relationship issues and has professional guests on his shows who give excellent advice. Social media is interfering with normal human interactions and connections.
Yassss!!!!!
I love this man, God keep him for me
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life
By the way, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
No offense but if you have to win her back, she wasn’t yours to begin win. You can move on knowing you tried and take this time to fine someone to appreciate you and support one another
Or be better alone. The choice is yours. Good luck sir
Appreciate that you still have a protective mother, she just wants your safely 🙏🏾 ❤
Yes that woman Gone Overboard with her protection. Her daughter needs to get from around her.Is the mother a Detective or what??
That is too much!!! It is invasive and controlling
There's a lot of dead young women that needed an overprotective momma or someone....so I'm not gonna judge the mother. ...selah
I'm 50 & still single. I really like this guy. I like his way of honesty & confidence because he needs to be that way in order to stay real to himself AND to be real to US. Thank you Steve.
I have a beautiful man in my life now, 14years older than i am and i don't mind, he's a dear to me, ...he 's that character that truly represent a man, he tells me that it is kind of insulting to them when a lady pays for their lunch or dinner date esp. when she's asked out by a man ...he's the one who always pays whenever we go out during the day to be together or on every friday-night's out to eat, listen & dance to live jazz band/music...he's a wonderful man ❤
A man should always pay for the full meal on the first date.
And All the Dates etc
Yeah...a man who is stupid.
If a woman cannot provide for herself - she a golddigger.
Yes ❤❤
Nonsense!!
Ok ok
The key is REAL MEN, not sure if they exist any more????
They definitely do...but most girls of today's time turn them down when they meet them. Let's be real it goes both ways.
@@Drizzydid you’re absolutely right. I’m ashamed by the way a lot of women behave these days!
@@Drizzydid Those are fake nice-guys, who often have communication issues and are unable to engage with a women without being weird.. The guys that think because they have a job and open the door, that they deserve to have s3x and affection. Most "real men" are already married and committed. Women are not turning down good quality men, who understand emotional intelligence, and are affectionate and loyal.. Men who are "good" are often surrounded by women (wives, sisters, aunts, etc), and they have zero issues interacting with women.
We still here...just being quiet and on the 2nd row of fellas hollering and hailing you ladies hoping that you notice amidst the loudness and bravado of the 1st row of fellas
Exactly. This current culture is emasculating men.
I'm from Eastern Europe and it's common sense that a man pays on dates. If the woman offers to pay for her half later on, sure, but have your wallet out and ready. It's just an universal thing you hear or taught to as a child and a no brainer later on whether you are a teenager and invite her for ice-cream or in your 20s 30s on a formal date. The man pays, period. If he is not willing to make that efforts he's not serious.
Plenty of American guys SUCK compared to you guys. It's TRUE!
Not that serious about you or just broke! Not REAL at all!
I have respect for your comment 🌸
Not only eastern Europe, Indian and Asian as well
I love Steve Harvey! He is such a breath of fresh air and common sense in this crazy world!!❤
There’s a thin line with caring and overbearing but these times are dangerous and one can never be too careful.
That is exactly what I was thinking.
That is the risk of living. You can't live with your mamma forever
I disagree with this on Steve. We all need for someone to always have our backs husbands and wives. Sisters brothers neighbors. Why is it different for parents and children. These ppl are biologically tied of course she wants to help you and do what she can to protect you. Why is it so hard for us to keep protecting our child because they’re 21. Not because it wasn’t done for you (generally) means we should not read thr times we live in and make adjustments. When you have a friend leaving your home you call to see if they reach home or if they’re coming for a visit and are late you call to make sure they’re not in a wreck much more your daughter 9:31
I thought the daughter was going to say something way out. But the truth is the mother is doing what she ought to do. Steve’s daughter might have a driver/bodyguard or assistant (don’t listen to Steve he isn’t telling the whole story, living in an apartment with security and doorman… very unfair to say that your kids have moved out implying they are on their own)
The mother isn’t talking precaution because the daughter might hurt herself… it’s so the guy (who she doesn’t know) WILL KNOW she’s loved and is cherished and will come find his whole family if something goes wrong. Where’s the problem. Young lady I pray you just relax and let mom who’s so wise lay the protection around you so you can go out confidently knowing someone is looking out for you. Keep going mom Mr Harvey you are wrong wrong wrong on this one
@@Bambuzajamaica yes, couldn’t agree more! The world isn’t what it used to - walk alone, and open the door to all kinds of dangers. As they say, when you become a parent, you’ll understand.
"It dont make no sense" a.k.a "the math isnt mathing" 😂
I have never paid on a first date. The only time i would offer is if I had no interest in ever seeing the person romantically again, but I still was likely to see them again. Like maybe they were connected to a friend circle or professional circle. I feel like me offering to pay on a date is like saying I'm not interested
Lucky you..I have had men blatantly ask me to split the bill on the first date, so embarrassing, I end up.paying my share but have no interest to see them again.
@EcoworksFL I can understand why you wouldn't want to see them again. I would suggest trying to screen them better maybe.
@sagefi1 yes I agree..but is difficult to screen and you don't know who is stingy and tight till you meet them in person
Me too! If I end up paying on the date, I'm not interested. Yes, just in case the same of friends or what not.
I'm the same. If I'm not interested in the man I will pay for myself. Otherwise he pays.
Mr. Steve Harvey, Almighty God bless you.
I was literally sitting here in my feelings and I came across this video and you know ??!! I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER NOW !! STEVE THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME FEEL BETTER , YOU ARE SO RIGHT “ REAL MEN KNOW” 💯✅✊🏽👏🎯😭🙏 AMEN 🙏 PLEASE DONT EVER STOP DOING WHAT YOU DO !! Your guidance is much needed in today’s world 🌎 💯🌍 especially !!! I pray this new generation will take notes from REAL MEN LIKE YOURSELF 💯 CUZ “REAL MEN KNOW”- Steve H. ☺️👏😭💯🙏✊🏽✅☺️
It's very rare that I agree with Steve, and this is another one of those times
I miss Steve having a show. He gives on point advice ❣️
There's nothing wrong with her telling her mother where she's going and with whom, even giving the friends phone number. Enough times people disappear and family don't know where they went and with whom. You're never to old to show respect to your parents.
When I travel abroad I'll stay at family or friends. When I go out I'll say where I'm going and give the number of the other friend just in case. It's also a smart thing to do 😊
Better do it 2024 for sure that show was 12 years ago and All Hell have broke lose around the world..Oh they will call Mom and Dad to come get them a half block away now of days .. it’s March 6 2024
@@Blue-jq9wu I did see the show then.
These young people don’t watch the news. They better thank the Lord for somebody looking out for them. So many young ladies can’t warn you from the grave to be careful and communicate with your support/family and let them know where you’re going and when you will be back and who you are with.
Amen! I appreciate your fair statement. They’re young and believe what ppl are saying about parents “are too much”. It really is the responsibility thing to do imagine coming home at 1am my goodness. Young lady you have someone special in your mother and I know you know that. It also seem like they have a great relationship too
To request that at 21 is insane though.
Yup! Especially first date. Want someone's time, present and energy but dont want to pay? I feel like especially younger guys these days expect to split more.
Because they dont have the money. Steve should of specified depending in which bracket of age and income someone is
maybe that's because from childhood they have been taught about equality so their mentality is like why should they pay if the other person is equal to me
What a man! God bless him 🙏🏽
Steve , you got to the exact point. Thanks. God bless you
25 years ago I was having a really hard time financially, working in a restaurant in a foreign country. A wealthy business owner asked me out to dinner. He took me to an expensive restaurant. When the bill came, he said, "I believe in women's equality so we'll pay separately." This cost me more than what I what my normal grocery budget was for two weeks!! I was so shocked at his callousness!
I was to young and confused to call him m out on it though.
Oh no! This stuff happens. Did you like him?
@@jetpark3743 No, not so much. But his attitude lost him all of my interest.
One more reason to love Steve Harvey. LOVE this man's advice!
Wonderful Steve !!!....please don't let the real men to extinguish !!!!!
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His advice about meetings was amazing. Yes, it’s good what he did, to ask his friend instead of make problems with his company.
7:20 "you gotta let them fly" "their wings work". I needed to hear this. Sometimes we can be ALOT as single mothers 😔
“ Their wings work “ amen
God Almighty bless you for all this wonderful, truthful and fatherly advice. 🙏👍👏👏👏 This is Humanitarian services Mr Steve H. I like you like a father . You are a high valued man. No one is perfect but only good hearted people give you good advice and tell the truth no matter how bitter, without fear or Favour.
Appreciate mother love.. You will miss that.. ❤Nobody loves more then mother.
Steve’s pulpit - awesome ministry
Tell them Steve🙌🏾✊🏾🤲🏾
I'm glad to be seeing this today. Sometimes I feel like there really feel like there's something wrong with my thought process. Thank you, Steve.
Steve always has awesome advice! I would love to see Steve Harvey & Dr Phil giving advice together for a few full episodes. I love how both personalities give straight forward, logical advice! 🥰🥰🥰
Right! Real men. If he doesn't walk away
My last date insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu.
$1,100 then she told me she was married!!
Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again.
I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life.
Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.
What do I respect, love about Steve? Heart. He's got it, and he shows the world how to have it. God is good.
Facts 💯. Real talk
He's got a point. 💯
Mom told me when i was in high school ,"you have what they want ,make them earn it ,dont show easily if they told you so they wont respect you
Well I guess I'm not paying for dates anymore 💯 Steve you are right!! Thank you for this message 💕
Yes I was only thinking recently I need to totally up my game with the men I date!
@lindamaygregory Right? I think I'm too generous, lol 😆 😅
This is good to hear. So many guys these days cry about paying for a drink 🤦🏻♀️…
Cuz if you want to show how much women have to earn it too. You want equal rights, but not equal obligations. Women are valuable but so are men. Adapt to the 3D aspect that a circle can be a sphere. I earned all this and I appreciate the love I feel I never feel like I deserve. Everything is hard. But that is why I know my limits. That sacrifice can come in all forms. His was inspiring, mine was just money. Trauma creates madness and I am honored that maybe you can see that. The good. The strength. The uniqueness of his rarity. I like being read to. Can you do that. I am astonished at the amount of love. I have never been so belonged because I think I am strange. And survival is not heart, it is choosing when to be selfish and when to have compassion. Tetitris is hard because like love, nothing ever seems to fit and you lose after many years. Boredom. But when it does fit, I will f you up if anybody hurts my family. Our memories are fun. Even if not physically. The star will lead him home, because we only know darkness. But those glitters Cristalbal Lopez, I like the smell of gasoline. A junkie who doesn't understand how people can see any good in my vulgar actions and words. I am not well. But thank you for your kind words.
As always, good ole Uncle Steve comes through for me when I need reminded of the facts.
I agree with Steve.
Oh yeah 👍🏿
I really love this,man of wisdom ❤❤❤❤we really appreciate u so much,from Ghana Africa
Steve you are nothing short of amazing. Ty for your show!
I can sorta relate to the last story. I am super close to my son who is now a sophomore in college. He is moving into his own apartment in August, and I am having a hard time letting go, BUT this is what I raised him to do.
I need to find something to occupy my mind. Hobbies or something, but I'm not looking forward to this major change in our lives. I'm super excited for him, though.
#separationanxiety
Steve is spot on! 👏
That job advice was golden. Sometimes you need to be creative with breaking that wall. It's not fair but we all deal with it in certain ways.
Woman need to always set high standards. Men need to be taught to respect ladies.
Ufff... Goosebumps 🎉❤Some men says women should take half of the responsibilities and this message will definitely say how to know your man 😍
Thanks Steve. I truly felt that. I'm glad that I watched this. I need to Reiterate my way of thinking
Steve is great! Could listen to him all day!!!
I think first dates shouldn't be a full on meal date. It should be a coffee date or drink date. Mainly if you met him on a dating site. If you known him for a while then a sit down meal is ok.
This man is so smart.
Mom was feeling herself, BELIEVING Steve, would've taken her side 😂😂😂...
Awww, mom..
I think real men just come and ask you out, not online swipe not serious or investing in you.
You need Jesus pray for real men and for exactly what you want?
Thank you Steve 💖 it’s so refreshing listening to the truth about men from a man .
God bless you 😇
Preach Steve! Where are the real men?! Online dating has destroyed dating!
People get kidnapped from their door step,even from inside their home, let alone this young lady is 21 yrs old. You never know who could be watching her, it happens all the time, be careful better than sorry. Keep doing your thing mama.
Were you kidnapped when you were 21 or younger, and that's why you are saying this?
Nope. By being over-protective it makes the child less confident in her decisions and actions. The child will think, "I can't do anything on my own because demonstrates that I haven't learned good judgement"? i'll bet the mom did her daughter's homework when she was younger too.
I moved out of my family home at 20 with my then boyfriend whom I married. My sisters moved out when they were 18. Parents must instill good decision-making skills because they need to think independently from mommy and daddy. The way this mom even introduced her adult daughter as her "baby" shows it's the mom who has separation issues and wants to keep her daughter's independence suppressed. What kind of adult is THAT making? It's making an adult who second-guesses every little thing she does in life.
@@ChimiChimiChurryPie agreed 100% .
DON'T SETTLE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. STOP SETTLING. DON'T EVER CHOOSE TO SETTLE AGAIN IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. ❤❤❤
Amen!!!!
AMEN!
Yes mam❤ I heard that loud an clear!
My god this word was right on time for me
Yes and women need to do their part as well!! It may not be paying for stuff but nurturing loving and supporting her husband and the kids. I am a woman. That's why I know.
I appreciate Steve for your motivations and inspirations
I love,this love the mother has for her girl ❤❤❤❤I feel like it's good to show love to those you care about when there's still time and when you can still show and practice ❤❤ life is too short, when you are gone they will remember you
Great advice. Great conversation. Keep it up!
I love Steve Harvey for that, he's very fair and tells it like it is. I expect a lot of men to disagree with him but the 'right thing' is the 'right thing'
Preach Steve ❤
Hey Steve. I watch your videos from the very beginning of your TH-cam channel. You give the greatest advice ever on all subject matter. Thank you so much keep up the great work I’m still learning.❤
I love your inspiration man,you rock
Napenda sana vipindi vyako Steve, I really appreciate your shows Mr Steve ,,, from Tanzania
Mimi pia.
Personally, i would only go for coffee and go dutch if I dont like a guy romantically or atleast still in the fence. The moment I agree on a full meal, it means I like someone genuinely. However, I would suggest a place I know that is within his budget. I can pay for myself by harvey is right. If you cant even provide something as simple as a meal, why would I think he can afford a family.
Wow you are a dream lady
@jetpark3743 i dont think that at all. I think that is just common decency. I would never exploit someone for a meal. That is just wrong. I would also never go on a date with a guy I am not interested with. I dont like prolonging anyone's agony.
Bless you you make so much sense. I first saw you on Little Big Shots and man you have personality and common sense. Thank you so much.
I think it greatly depends on the circumstances. Every woman and man are different and so are their conversations and how they come to be. If the conversation goes as Steve said and the MAN directely invites the woman out for a dinner, then it's 100% on the man to pay. I mean, if you get invited somewhere, you expect exactly what it says.
However, conversations can be different. Personalities and characters can be vastly different. Some Women like to take initiative. Some are ambitious and know what they want. They might even ask YOU out. I think it's very toxic to force a stereotype on your potential partner and rather let them tell/show you who they are. We're not in the stoneage anymore where one ring fits all and I know traditional folks have a hard time accepting that.
You can tell the kinda crowd that Steve has by how they follow what he preaches and let's be real it's supposed to sound all gallantly and gentleman-like to cater exactly to them, which is fine, but I just don't like how all he sees is one way. It's like a doctor who learned how to be a doc 50 years ago and didn't update his knowledge since. It's NOT one size fits all. This isn't about having the money to raise a family. This is about principles, that I don't want an exploitative partner and last but not least I want them to express themself to me how they like without me forcing me onto them. Easy as that.