If a Man is TRULY INTERESTED, He’ll Do This...

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  • @heathermetz6576
    @heathermetz6576 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1886

    1:47 “If a man asks you out, and he’s not willing to buy you a plate of food? How can you possibly think that this guy, can take care of a family.”

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Agree!

    • @boschwilliam17
      @boschwilliam17 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      True cause I don't think he would be a provider

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@thelifeofaria😂😂lol so Kuch effort for a plate of food ?? U really believe women would do that

    • @heathermetz6576
      @heathermetz6576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@thelifeofaria that’s a fair assessment. Most women are not looking for a man as a paycheck. Sometimes it’s hard to determine character on a first date. Having honest dialogue about expectations helps to decide to go further or part ways.

    • @heathermetz6576
      @heathermetz6576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Mimi_622 Ain’t that the truth. Had two parties where two sets of friends connected and they eventually got married and had kids. Sometimes life brings you together for others to discover.

  • @ladydawn27
    @ladydawn27 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +808

    You’ll never have to ask a real man to pay for date. Real men show up without asking

    • @BeautyQueen2023X
      @BeautyQueen2023X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women just want men to pay for all the dates because they are a bunch of gold diggers only going for money

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Tell that to the stingy Brits!

    • @trying3841
      @trying3841 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EcoworksFL Thats cause the loser men convinced women that "equal rights"

    • @luvingmerevivedandblessed8520
      @luvingmerevivedandblessed8520 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@EcoworksFLexactly. Smh lol! Leave 😅them kind right where they are!

    • @Arlene_DOTK
      @Arlene_DOTK 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly 👏 💯

  • @tracydonnelly7156
    @tracydonnelly7156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    My mom taught me this. She said “ you have what they want, make them earn it.”

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But it's also true that u won't have it forever (youth). Then u get replaced. Its Better to have a non toxic mindset such as this

    • @lindamaygregory
      @lindamaygregory 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Tracy that made me laugh 😂 Fabulous Mum! 😊

    • @Diarrheagod
      @Diarrheagod 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Rahul-ml2xbit’s not youth, it’s vagina. Period.

  • @shalcharlotte400
    @shalcharlotte400 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +453

    Never went on a date, went on office lunch with colleagues, he paid for everyone, 4 years later we got married and now he pays for everything. ❤

    • @angeljackson9507
      @angeljackson9507 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      He got a brother😮😂😅

    • @shaunrios6980
      @shaunrios6980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Awwwww can you share a brief story? I fell upon this video and im kinda down. I love hearing about love and your comment seemed sweet and worth asking if youre willing to share!❤ If not, your comment is sweet!! Happy for you!

    • @vickyviola1930
      @vickyviola1930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes please share your story! I love this!

    • @i3abikay
      @i3abikay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So sweet. That is a man.

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      What happened in the four (4) years?…btwn lunch w/colleagues & marriage?

  • @davidatkinson8515
    @davidatkinson8515 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1477

    If a man is asking a woman out, it is the man's job to pay for everything. The woman didn't ask the man out, the man asked the woman out. Fellas man up and treat your woman with the love and respect they deserve.

    • @Tenseiken_
      @Tenseiken_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Definitely. But it also goes the other way around. It's all about circumstances and who the people are. Both deserve the same love and respect; both give and receive.

    • @davidatkinson8515
      @davidatkinson8515 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Tenseiken_ So true.

    • @michochotv
      @michochotv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      ​@@Tenseiken_if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone

    • @Kenyagirly
      @Kenyagirly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@michochotvYou can say the same damn thing for women. If they dont have the money to pay for the date for the both of them or for herself than she shouldnt be dating in the first place either STOP BEING A DAMN GOLD DIGGER

    • @Kenyagirly
      @Kenyagirly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@Tenseiken_Preach

  • @lesliefaske
    @lesliefaske 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +908

    I love Steve’s old fashioned dating and relationship values ❤

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yes, same!

    • @user-wp4jw4wl3u
      @user-wp4jw4wl3u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Absolutely

    • @2452dee
      @2452dee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Absolutely he even tried to tell Kiki Palmer about her BD but she didn't listen 👂🏾😂

    • @shalonprice7480
      @shalonprice7480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes!!!! ❤

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      It should still be in fashion and it’s up to us ladies to keep the standards high for ourselves and our daughters

  • @MrTrickster8000
    @MrTrickster8000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +463

    I am 26 years old about to turn 27 this year in December. The way I was raised by my father is when ask a woman out on a date you pay for the meal and I mean the whole meal!!! You asked her out if you want to show her that you're really interested you pay the bill and you pay the tip!!!! That's how you tell a woman that you're interested and you mean business 💯💯💯

    • @Kenyagirly
      @Kenyagirly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Should go for the woman as well than if she was the one asking the man out it goes both ways girly

    • @MrTrickster8000
      @MrTrickster8000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Kenyagirly Facts 🤜🤛💯

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@Kenyagirly STOP SAYING THAT! WE HEAR YA ALREADY! BUT WOMEN DONT' REALLY DO THE ASKING!

    • @Ashtarot77
      @Ashtarot77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nofybn7794 Some of us do. But he still offered to pay.

    • @Absent-being_
      @Absent-being_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @ariannaquinton9965
    @ariannaquinton9965 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +569

    I made the mistake of buying meals as well and now he thinks he can always rely on me and “got it” at the end of the day. LADIES PLEASE DONT DO IT.

    • @Absent-being_
      @Absent-being_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You’re still with him?

    • @Smith281
      @Smith281 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re way too beautiful for that. Require more & you’ll get more.

    • @GlenMcDowellFarm
      @GlenMcDowellFarm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I have paid for both dinners in situations where I had NO interest in a follow-up date and didn't want to feel any obligation to the guy.

    • @HL-ud8xx
      @HL-ud8xx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      ​@@GlenMcDowellFarmplease stop lowering the bar for men. It's a date. They are exchanging a nice meal for your time and a chance to get to know you better - not for sex or a guaranteed 2nd date. They may not even want a second date. It's really that simple. Neither person owes anything to the other.

    • @dianne7184
      @dianne7184 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      On a date with a man, a woman should never be expected to pay for a meal, period.

  • @valeriedhodson3014
    @valeriedhodson3014 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Well put, " if he can't buy you a plate of food, he can't feed a family". You sold the concept to me.

  • @janetpattison8474
    @janetpattison8474 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I quickly ended a romantic interest, once I woke up to the fact that he was cheap. Watch for the red flags, and don’t waste time.

    • @simonezuri8303
      @simonezuri8303 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well said! Where are the real men?

  • @southernsass2937
    @southernsass2937 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +305

    The best thing you can give your children, is roots & wings.

    • @chillfluencer
      @chillfluencer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      To fly one has to cut off the shackles.

    • @31Alden
      @31Alden 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      BEAUTIFUL

    • @leahvaughan9363
      @leahvaughan9363 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You said it perfectly!

    • @mmommo10
      @mmommo10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      a stable diving board to dive off of!

  • @karynmartin2141
    @karynmartin2141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    It's the men with the huge Ego... that feels he doesn't need a relationship. But goes out looking for multiple women to fill a void. And has lots of options, or says he just wants a friend or a companion with the benefits of a relationship. Be aware of these kinds of men.

  • @teresakelton8286
    @teresakelton8286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +531

    No. I had a date asked me to pay on a first date and I never dated him again!

    • @kimbella1452
      @kimbella1452 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      I agree 👍 if you ask me out on a date and I have to pay! That's your last date with me

    • @kk-xi8li
      @kk-xi8li 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      100%. I had an amazing first date with a guy...at the end of the date, he had the audacity to ask for SEPARATE bills! Then tried to kiss me at the end of the date. ( I don't kiss on the first date anyway) but after the date he msgd me and asked why I seemed different at the end. I told him point blank I was turned off by what he did... he tried for a veryyyyy long time to make it up to me...but I could never see him differently after what he did. I was soooo turned off. Felt like he showed his true colours that first date

    • @BeautyQueen79
      @BeautyQueen79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Good 4 u 👍

    • @Kenyagirly
      @Kenyagirly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yet you want him to pay for everything though

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@kk-xi8liI'm sorry, but you said you had an amazing date with a guy and only because he didn't paid he lost you?! Really? So on the other hand if a guy paid for everything then he has the right for some action? Because that would be an exchange for it... I'm sorry but that so wrong in so many ways. I was like you in the past. And one day I had an amazing date and we split the bill on the first date. Today we are happy married and have a wonderful relationship. Why had my husband spilt the bill then? Because he was been used for free meals and never heard of the girls again. There two sides of the story. I was also raised that the man pays the bills for dates. But also he has the last word in everything! Woman can be housewifes and keep their opinion for themselves. That's how the past was. Also, sorry not sorry. Steve's have so many good advices which he preaches but has one woman after the other. I'm sorry but with such stupid stuff women and man will be alone forever. 😢

  • @bartholetbay412
    @bartholetbay412 หลายเดือนก่อน +644

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You wont regret it

    • @IPPELL
      @IPPELL หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@bartholetbay412 please help me where I can find her 🙏

  • @txdogmom1829
    @txdogmom1829 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Steve is a God send. He should teach a class for men today. 😂😂😂

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes... He does tell men today how not to behave in modern world by giving advice on how men behaved in 1960s.

    • @debbiecreter2005
      @debbiecreter2005 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Steve, please consider contacting Oprah to do a Masterclass on relationships. You are a great speaker and educator. So many people need help with this. God bless you!

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@debbiecreter2005 if that's sarcasm, it's lost on me😂

    • @debbiecreter2005
      @debbiecreter2005 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Rahul-ml2xb I’m confused by your response. I sincerely meant what I said. I think a lot of people need help with how to have meaningful relationships as evidenced by high divorce rates, reluctance to commit to marriage, and high domestic violence situations. Plus dating apps that are mainly hook up opportunities. It’s worrisome. Steve often addresses relationship issues and has professional guests on his shows who give excellent advice. Social media is interfering with normal human interactions and connections.

  • @esinfa
    @esinfa หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    If a man is having financial difficulties he still should provide the date and not let women pay for anything. He can prepare a picnic basket and arrange a picnic or something else creative that he can afford.

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes, 35 years ago a new boyfriend did that for me, he planned a surprise picnic. I found it really charming! Then on another date he cooked me a special ethnic meal that I had never tried before and followed up with serenading me with his classical guitar playing.
      It was all so charming and I did stay with him for a couple of years. Our relationship motivated him to strive for the employment that he was hoping for.

    • @MaryNAdam
      @MaryNAdam 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Or not date.

  • @MindyabusinessB
    @MindyabusinessB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    “REAL MEN; we know the deal!!!” The unfortunate problem is there are fewer and fewer REAL MEN left in the world!!! Thank you so much Steve for keeping it real; and speaking the TRUTH!

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb หลายเดือนก่อน

      If we try to find real men we are doomed. These so called REAL MEN are dead/ pushing 60s. Now only there are modern men😂😂😂 same logic for modern women too

    • @STBR-yp7jo
      @STBR-yp7jo 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s really sad.
      My grandfather raised me to know, “If a man loves you, there’s no ocean he won’t swim or mountain he won’t climb for you.”
      Today, a “man” doesn’t even pay for a nice date.

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@STBR-yp7jo well your grandmother didn't date in 2024. The advice is ancient. It will work if u want to date an ancient guy, in that case - best luck to u 😁

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Rahul-ml2xb no it’s not. It’s just that u have been brainwashed into thinking and doing otherwise. u sound like u are far from the gentleman of the past, which I’m sure u are proud NOT to be. Times have changed. I’m sure there are women out there who will suit u personally because they have been brainwashed too into being the types of women of 2024. Types meaning a “hook-up” culture where u want instant gratification, act selfish, dump people when they are too “nice”, have high narcissistic tendencies/full blown narcissism, expect smex if u buy her dinner, etc. u will probably end up alone, living a bachelor lifestyle for the rest of ur life, but if u do find that unlucky person, u will cheat on them when u get bored of them.

  • @davidatkinson8515
    @davidatkinson8515 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +433

    A man should always pay for the full meal on the first date.

    • @Blue-jq9wu
      @Blue-jq9wu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      And All the Dates etc

    • @chillfluencer
      @chillfluencer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah...a man who is stupid.
      If a woman cannot provide for herself - she a golddigger.

    • @guppylovers7452
      @guppylovers7452 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes ❤❤

    • @terrencetaylor8196
      @terrencetaylor8196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nonsense!!

    • @guppylovers7452
      @guppylovers7452 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ok ok

  • @kk-xi8li
    @kk-xi8li 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Can Steve please preach this to all the loser single men out there who are cheap and broke and still trying to date!?

    • @DeadCat-42
      @DeadCat-42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most good men don't date at all. We were taught all our lives all the things that women hate about men.
      Number one was unwanted approaching.
      I'll never do that as Im a good man .
      Only bad boy, felons, and sociopaths are thriving in this culture.
      If a man approaches a woman, he's probably one you should avoid!

    • @DeadCat-42
      @DeadCat-42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or to the good men who don't date at all because it's no fun for them?

    • @simonezuri8303
      @simonezuri8303 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah! Preach this to all the loser single and broke guys out there!

    • @SNIPEZONE23
      @SNIPEZONE23 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You preach it by setting your boundaries with all the "loser cheap guys" that keep approaching you. They're grown and know what they're doing, it's up to you what you allow.

    • @simonezuri8303
      @simonezuri8303 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@SNIPEZONE23Well said!

  • @TelepathicDiscoveries
    @TelepathicDiscoveries 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Steve said a real man will find it insulting because he’s intelligent enough to understand that it is indeed questioning his capabilities. A powerful man will pay for a woman’s meal he is interested in, is what I understand.
    There are men and then there are men standing in their power and owning it.🤷‍♀️ Men who have went through the lessons and fully experienced them to be able to achieve true understanding of manhood.
    Steve’s right to specify heterosexual men because the world is so unique in fashion now that you’ve got to be very specific at what you’re acknowledging. Steve is so wonderful to enlighten women this way without the bull crap. We thank you. We admire you. We love you. 🙌
    It can be difficult to navigate without experiencing terrible things firsthand because there’s just no manual only truth and authenticity and people don’t walk around explaining anything these days. It’s a competitive place.

    • @donaldraybohananjr2000
      @donaldraybohananjr2000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Steve isn’t God. People say a lot of things. Don’t you have an opinion.

    • @ms.j.w.4208
      @ms.j.w.4208 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love your comment...It's spot on...!

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love how Steve never say how a REAL WOMEN are supposed to behave. Otherwise comment section will be an obituary for steve 😂😂😂😂
      I specifically liked steve sentence that A MAN IS NOTHING WITHOUT A WOMAN 😂. he wouldn't dare say- AND vice versa😂

  • @michochotv
    @michochotv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    Its simple, its not forced on you, you ask her out on the date, if you don't have money to buy ordinary food for a woman, you claim to like, please leave her alone, stop taking any woman out on a date and be alone

    • @alonzojones9626
      @alonzojones9626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agree 100%. As well as if you claim to like a male and not willing to sleep with him leave him alone 😂. Tit for tat

    • @natalieh8023
      @natalieh8023 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alonzojones9626 creepy

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@alonzojones9626 lol loonie..are talking plate of food and you are going all the way to what is traditionally an act reserved for marriage. And what definitely can lead to a pregnancy that you're not carrying. Does a plate of food have the same repercussions to life as sleeping with someone?
      I can't understand how men claim to have reason and logic lol...this mentality of yours is a fail! What a shame!

    • @BeautyQueen2023X
      @BeautyQueen2023X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      WOMEN SHOULD LEAVE MEN ALONE AS WELL THAN IF SHE CAN'T EVEN PAY FOR HER OWN THINGS ON A DATE OR FOR BOTH OF THEM

    • @MaximumDivine
      @MaximumDivine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@alonzojones9626 I can like your company without wanting to sleep with you.

  • @terrifromm5085
    @terrifromm5085 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Steve tells it straight. I am listening.

  • @DarasDish
    @DarasDish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    "It dont make no sense" a.k.a "the math isnt mathing" 😂

  • @angelrose2669
    @angelrose2669 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    My eldest son knew this at 13. Flowers ,chocolates ,other gifts , a nice place to eat and he ( well , I 😅 )

    • @peacheedandee
      @peacheedandee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He sounds like a nice boy whom you raised well.

    • @angelrose2669
      @angelrose2669 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@peacheedandee Thank you very much for your kind words.. He was a nice boy ,now he is a nice man.

    • @beverlysmith6539
      @beverlysmith6539 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mine too!

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    *When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*

  • @loisrodenromans1097
    @loisrodenromans1097 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    Steve, I love your morning inspirations on the radio.The day after my mother passed, I got up to listen to your inspiration in my truck alone. When you said your mother could have just passed I heard the Lord say "Now we can begin". Thank you for being the voice I needed to hear that day. You're more than a comedian.👏🏽 You're changing lives.❤🙏🏼

    • @emmanuelcharles38
      @emmanuelcharles38 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      for sure

    • @caroltz8220
      @caroltz8220 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. May she rest in peace. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @MCM214
      @MCM214 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s what I taught my son too is you pay for the dates and be a gentleman.

    • @loisrodenromans1097
      @loisrodenromans1097 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@emmanuelcharles38 😃

    • @loisrodenromans1097
      @loisrodenromans1097 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@caroltz8220 🙏🏼 Thank you ♥️

  • @frankjrmasaka5555
    @frankjrmasaka5555 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I love this man, God keep him for me

  • @ThatsHOUDINl
    @ThatsHOUDINl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    "You gotta let her fly" ❤
    ~Steve Harvey

  • @fabulouslyK10
    @fabulouslyK10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    The key is REAL MEN, not sure if they exist any more????

    • @Drizzydid
      @Drizzydid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      They definitely do...but most girls of today's time turn them down when they meet them. Let's be real it goes both ways.

    • @fabulouslyK10
      @fabulouslyK10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Drizzydid you’re absolutely right. I’m ashamed by the way a lot of women behave these days!

    • @nubian77
      @nubian77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Drizzydid Those are fake nice-guys, who often have communication issues and are unable to engage with a women without being weird.. The guys that think because they have a job and open the door, that they deserve to have s3x and affection. Most "real men" are already married and committed. Women are not turning down good quality men, who understand emotional intelligence, and are affectionate and loyal.. Men who are "good" are often surrounded by women (wives, sisters, aunts, etc), and they have zero issues interacting with women.

    • @MrSlimnigga
      @MrSlimnigga 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We still here...just being quiet and on the 2nd row of fellas hollering and hailing you ladies hoping that you notice amidst the loudness and bravado of the 1st row of fellas

    • @mh2774
      @mh2774 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly. This current culture is emasculating men.

  • @europeanguy8773
    @europeanguy8773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I'm from Eastern Europe and it's common sense that a man pays on dates. If the woman offers to pay for her half later on, sure, but have your wallet out and ready. It's just an universal thing you hear or taught to as a child and a no brainer later on whether you are a teenager and invite her for ice-cream or in your 20s 30s on a formal date. The man pays, period. If he is not willing to make that efforts he's not serious.

    • @peacheedandee
      @peacheedandee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plenty of American guys SUCK compared to you guys. It's TRUE!

    • @simonezuri8303
      @simonezuri8303 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not that serious about you or just broke! Not REAL at all!

  • @ADDAuntDawnDisorder
    @ADDAuntDawnDisorder 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    That Mother & daughter looking after her daughter at midnight alone is NOT crazy!!! Knowing who she is going out with is necessary now! You HAVE to do that these days! Women are being abducted every day & r’d & killed. If she lives alone down the street, she is not a hostage! Keep looking after your baby girl!🙏💪

    • @Ladyblogtest
      @Ladyblogtest หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agree 💯❤❤❤❤

    • @alpanapaul8210
      @alpanapaul8210 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Ladyblogtest Its late at night and anything could happen during those few steps to her dorstep.

    • @mcleo9935
      @mcleo9935 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I dont blame that mother to go get her daughter times nowadsy is very serious​@@alpanapaul8210

  • @denissky3129
    @denissky3129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Appreciate that you still have a protective mother, she just wants your safely 🙏🏾 ❤

    • @marcellphillips2055
      @marcellphillips2055 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes that woman Gone Overboard with her protection. Her daughter needs to get from around her.Is the mother a Detective or what??

    • @user-tu1ev7gj5n
      @user-tu1ev7gj5n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That is too much!!! It is invasive and controlling

  • @susancottenham
    @susancottenham 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Speak it Steve! The man doesn't appreciate it! If he asks you out... enjoy the date! "REAL MEN" ☆☆☆☆☆

  • @Bluesmoke4200
    @Bluesmoke4200 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    In my 20s i used to go dutch with men. My mother laughed at me and said any man who would allow a woman to pay on a first date is not a real man. I brushed her off as being old fashioned but she was right nothing ever came of the dates with guys who asked me to pay. Now i wouldnt dream of paying for a thing, at least not early on in the relationship. I took my bf out for his 48th birthday (i am 39) on Feb 22 and he wouldn't even let me pay - he insisted on getting the tab on his own birthday! This is how men are - they are born with the drive to hunt and pursue what they want and to provide. If he is not providing for you and pursuing you and instead are giving you silly excuses about feminism and women's lib he is either a poor excuse for a man or he is not interested...in you. Watch all that feminism crap fly out of his vocabulary so quickly when he comes across the woman he's actually been looking for, the woman he's dreamt about. 😂

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You are absolutely correct! Men have double standards for their dream girl and they will treat the placeholder like crap and take advantage of her

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    If A WOMAN HAS A REAL GODLY MAN, SHE IS TRULY BLESSED. 🙏. BY GOD.

  • @simple_naildesigns
    @simple_naildesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    There’s a thin line with caring and overbearing but these times are dangerous and one can never be too careful.

    • @chimakalu41
      @chimakalu41 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That is exactly what I was thinking.

    • @user-tu1ev7gj5n
      @user-tu1ev7gj5n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That is the risk of living. You can't live with your mamma forever

    • @Bambuzajamaica
      @Bambuzajamaica 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I disagree with this on Steve. We all need for someone to always have our backs husbands and wives. Sisters brothers neighbors. Why is it different for parents and children. These ppl are biologically tied of course she wants to help you and do what she can to protect you. Why is it so hard for us to keep protecting our child because they’re 21. Not because it wasn’t done for you (generally) means we should not read thr times we live in and make adjustments. When you have a friend leaving your home you call to see if they reach home or if they’re coming for a visit and are late you call to make sure they’re not in a wreck much more your daughter 9:31

    • @Bambuzajamaica
      @Bambuzajamaica 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I thought the daughter was going to say something way out. But the truth is the mother is doing what she ought to do. Steve’s daughter might have a driver/bodyguard or assistant (don’t listen to Steve he isn’t telling the whole story, living in an apartment with security and doorman… very unfair to say that your kids have moved out implying they are on their own)
      The mother isn’t talking precaution because the daughter might hurt herself… it’s so the guy (who she doesn’t know) WILL KNOW she’s loved and is cherished and will come find his whole family if something goes wrong. Where’s the problem. Young lady I pray you just relax and let mom who’s so wise lay the protection around you so you can go out confidently knowing someone is looking out for you. Keep going mom Mr Harvey you are wrong wrong wrong on this one

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Bambuzajamaica yes, couldn’t agree more! The world isn’t what it used to - walk alone, and open the door to all kinds of dangers. As they say, when you become a parent, you’ll understand.

  • @sagefi1
    @sagefi1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I have never paid on a first date. The only time i would offer is if I had no interest in ever seeing the person romantically again, but I still was likely to see them again. Like maybe they were connected to a friend circle or professional circle. I feel like me offering to pay on a date is like saying I'm not interested

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lucky you..I have had men blatantly ask me to split the bill on the first date, so embarrassing, I end up.paying my share but have no interest to see them again.

    • @sagefi1
      @sagefi1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @EcoworksFL I can understand why you wouldn't want to see them again. I would suggest trying to screen them better maybe.

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @sagefi1 yes I agree..but is difficult to screen and you don't know who is stingy and tight till you meet them in person

    • @giovanahc
      @giovanahc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too! If I end up paying on the date, I'm not interested. Yes, just in case the same of friends or what not.

    • @annekathleen4498
      @annekathleen4498 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm the same. If I'm not interested in the man I will pay for myself. Otherwise he pays.

  • @CharityjosephineL
    @CharityjosephineL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Don't just set your financial goals without consulting a financial advisor. Their expertise ensures a solid plan for success. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly setting aside money in intervals for smart investments.

    • @JulianaschiamazzaIT
      @JulianaschiamazzaIT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

    • @EzraChristopher-in4sr
      @EzraChristopher-in4sr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Based on personal experience working with an investment advisor, I currently have $1m in a well diversified portfolio, that has experienced exponential growth. It is not about having money to invest in stocks,but also you need to be knowledgeable, persistent, and have strong hands to back it up.

    • @EzraChristopher-in4sr
      @EzraChristopher-in4sr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joiechretienneF Alice Legan Mitchell

    • @EzraChristopher-in4sr
      @EzraChristopher-in4sr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s the license coach I use.

    • @EzraChristopher-in4sr
      @EzraChristopher-in4sr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look her up on Google you will find the necessary information and also her web page to make a contact and schedule an appointment with her.

  • @Hyaphill
    @Hyaphill 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    There's nothing wrong with her telling her mother where she's going and with whom, even giving the friends phone number. Enough times people disappear and family don't know where they went and with whom. You're never to old to show respect to your parents.
    When I travel abroad I'll stay at family or friends. When I go out I'll say where I'm going and give the number of the other friend just in case. It's also a smart thing to do 😊

    • @Blue-jq9wu
      @Blue-jq9wu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Better do it 2024 for sure that show was 12 years ago and All Hell have broke lose around the world..Oh they will call Mom and Dad to come get them a half block away now of days .. it’s March 6 2024

    • @Hyaphill
      @Hyaphill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Blue-jq9wu I did see the show then.

    • @monicalouis8333
      @monicalouis8333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      These young people don’t watch the news. They better thank the Lord for somebody looking out for them. So many young ladies can’t warn you from the grave to be careful and communicate with your support/family and let them know where you’re going and when you will be back and who you are with.

    • @Bambuzajamaica
      @Bambuzajamaica 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen! I appreciate your fair statement. They’re young and believe what ppl are saying about parents “are too much”. It really is the responsibility thing to do imagine coming home at 1am my goodness. Young lady you have someone special in your mother and I know you know that. It also seem like they have a great relationship too

    • @AchemySoul
      @AchemySoul 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      To request that at 21 is insane though.

  • @melwest1407
    @melwest1407 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    that's why eve was created ❤ to be a complement, not provide but to support and love in response for protection and care ❤

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yup! Especially first date. Want someone's time, present and energy but dont want to pay? I feel like especially younger guys these days expect to split more.

    • @Cutiejuliya
      @Cutiejuliya 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Because they dont have the money. Steve should of specified depending in which bracket of age and income someone is

  • @angelaopara8569
    @angelaopara8569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Mr. Steve Harvey, Almighty God bless you.

  • @The1sassylady5378
    @The1sassylady5378 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank you Steve for your advice on men. Came at just the right time. ❤ Love your shows.

  • @karenhorton2345
    @karenhorton2345 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Steve’s pulpit - awesome ministry

  • @drfattie
    @drfattie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Steve you are nothing short of amazing. Ty for your show!

  • @conniegodette2706
    @conniegodette2706 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Facts 💯. Real talk

  • @wumanityforall6288
    @wumanityforall6288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Steve , you got to the exact point. Thanks. God bless you

  • @miaranaldo7048
    @miaranaldo7048 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm glad to be seeing this today. Sometimes I feel like there really feel like there's something wrong with my thought process. Thank you, Steve.

  • @angieatvegas
    @angieatvegas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Wonderful Steve !!!....please don't let the real men to extinguish !!!!!
    👏

  • @laurendowns4894
    @laurendowns4894 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    One more reason to love Steve Harvey. LOVE this man's advice!

  • @kristiefish7041
    @kristiefish7041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love Steve Harvey! He is such a breath of fresh air and common sense in this crazy world!!❤

  • @TreasaVeigas-qq5jm
    @TreasaVeigas-qq5jm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Great advice. Great conversation. Keep it up!

  • @user-bf8ge4op8p
    @user-bf8ge4op8p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I appreciate Steve for your motivations and inspirations

  • @thataintyours
    @thataintyours 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He's got a point. 💯

  • @marciachildress4321
    @marciachildress4321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Preach Steve ❤

  • @kristytouchet8362
    @kristytouchet8362 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I love your inspiration man,you rock

  • @Kellykittymom
    @Kellykittymom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I miss Steve having a show. He gives on point advice ❣️

  • @karenmorgan8900
    @karenmorgan8900 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Tell them Steve🙌🏾✊🏾🤲🏾

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Right! Real men. If he doesn't walk away

    • @BeautyQueen2023X
      @BeautyQueen2023X 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women walk away from men all the time

    • @DeadCat-42
      @DeadCat-42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My last date insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu.
      $1,100 then she told me she was married!!
      Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again.
      I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life.
      Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.

  • @PurplePinkRed
    @PurplePinkRed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Steve is spot on! 👏

  • @mcjo36
    @mcjo36 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks Steve. I truly felt that. I'm glad that I watched this. I need to Reiterate my way of thinking

  • @ndp885
    @ndp885 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love love love Steve Harvey. He is such a good man

  • @maureenwareham8822
    @maureenwareham8822 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey Steve. I watch your videos from the very beginning of your TH-cam channel. You give the greatest advice ever on all subject matter. Thank you so much keep up the great work I’m still learning.❤

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love Steve Harveys honesty !!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I agree with Steve.

    • @storyreact
      @storyreact 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh yeah 👍🏿

  • @faithmatters2095
    @faithmatters2095 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Brilliant thanks Steve

  • @HaileysGiftShop
    @HaileysGiftShop หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome my brother...totally completely awesome. I love this segment. Anyway, just praying that you and your family continue to shine, grow, prosper, and be incredibly blessed as you diligently pursue your life purpose and continue to enlighten souls all around the globe!!!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    DON'T SETTLE IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. STOP SETTLING. DON'T EVER CHOOSE TO SETTLE AGAIN IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN. ❤❤❤

  • @darlingdarlene4696
    @darlingdarlene4696 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Once I click on the video and heard Steve say Darlene, where I’d Darlene I was like I’m right here lol. This Darlene, loves you Steve! Enjoy your day ❤

  • @brandonwoodard821
    @brandonwoodard821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's very rare that I agree with Steve, and this is another one of those times

  • @janac2881
    @janac2881 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steve is great! Could listen to him all day!!!

  • @daus6035
    @daus6035 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steve you are spot on well said!

  • @minnierapos8693
    @minnierapos8693 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So true.

  • @tinacampbell8539
    @tinacampbell8539 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Online dating has ruined dating. Full stop

    • @DeadCat-42
      @DeadCat-42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I lived in a rural area, it took weeks of constant work online and paying for all the extras to get a date. The way women treat men dating (like an option, or HR interview for a job with too many applicants)
      I finally get a date, she insists on this new restaurant, no prices on the menu.
      $1,100 then she told me she was married!!
      Never dated again after that. Like most men I just stopped and I'll never ask another women out again.
      I wanted a wife and children, now I have to accept I'll be single for the rest of my life.
      Dating is hell for men , I'd rather eat glass.

  • @SwallowAPoem
    @SwallowAPoem 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm 50 & still single. I really like this guy. I like his way of honesty & confidence because he needs to be that way in order to stay real to himself AND to be real to US. Thank you Steve.

  • @dawn4999
    @dawn4999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    PERFECT ANSWERS!!❤ And the first 2 minutes into the video said it all!!!

  • @pendogwisu
    @pendogwisu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Napenda sana vipindi vyako Steve, I really appreciate your shows Mr Steve ,,, from Tanzania

  • @user-dx2bp1oq3b
    @user-dx2bp1oq3b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Uncle steve i love your show

  • @leighjefferies9759
    @leighjefferies9759 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well said! Steve...

  • @Julys-De-Jesus.
    @Julys-De-Jesus. 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What a man! God bless him 🙏🏽

  • @anitamazyck8603
    @anitamazyck8603 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Real 🙏❤️

  • @yolanda5756
    @yolanda5756 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    🤔I might not get in my car to go get my daughter from a few yards away but you best believe that we WILL be standing outside waiting for her ...😐 ..READY should any criminal want to find out!

  • @DrAsAbi
    @DrAsAbi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ufff... Goosebumps 🎉❤Some men says women should take half of the responsibilities and this message will definitely say how to know your man 😍

  • @ericacastrillo3872
    @ericacastrillo3872 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Preach Steve!! I love it..

  • @Chaveze101
    @Chaveze101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Real men always pay unless it’s a deal breaker for the woman.

  • @lorrainemadero4945
    @lorrainemadero4945 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Steve your the MAN ❤❤❤

  • @taielyce9424
    @taielyce9424 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “ Their wings work “ amen

  • @bethieb33
    @bethieb33 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!!! Someone finally said it. 👏🏻

  • @AishwaryaSharmahere
    @AishwaryaSharmahere 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Steeve i love your these kinda videos….make more ❤❤❤❤ love from 🇮🇳 india

  • @Nat77ification
    @Nat77ification 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love Steve. 😂

  • @paulaamador5224
    @paulaamador5224 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Steve!!! Thank you for this!!!

  • @aminah761
    @aminah761 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yesss Steve

  • @shehabmousa
    @shehabmousa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Steve's Reactions 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @brendasaunders4956
    @brendasaunders4956 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steve is spot on with such good advice.. appreciate

  • @user-kg4qt8xv6h
    @user-kg4qt8xv6h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love,this love the mother has for her girl ❤❤❤❤I feel like it's good to show love to those you care about when there's still time and when you can still show and practice ❤❤ life is too short, when you are gone they will remember you

  • @guardianangel4eva
    @guardianangel4eva 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The very one she she gorgeous respectfully and has a beautiful voice.

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I never paid for a single date in my entire life nor payed my way when in a relationship. No matter what anybody says...i consistently do what comes naturally to me wich is be a woman in the presence of a man. End of story.

  • @aboutmyfathersbiz
    @aboutmyfathersbiz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His advice and wisdom were Phenomenal!!! 👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽

  • @claudianellcooper46
    @claudianellcooper46 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so right Steve.😊

  • @katrinamathis6909
    @katrinamathis6909 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Many women have gone missing one block from home. Although she's doing to much. She don't wanna get that call.

    • @hope5360
      @hope5360 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Agree! I wouldn't let her work that shift in the first place. No way! Nothing good happens after 11pm.

    • @simple_naildesigns
      @simple_naildesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree!

    • @Missnoemit
      @Missnoemit 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, it's too late for a young woman to be out! 😔

    • @nubian77
      @nubian77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      the sad thing is, sometimes when you hold something too tightly you can instigate their demise- like a caged bird. There's also something called a self-fulfilling prophecy and law of attraction.. The more worry/anxiety mothers have (without using sound intuition), the more they actually attract the likelihood of the very thing they are afraid of happening.