WHY YOU ATTRACT TOXIC MEN

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  • If you keep attracting Toxic men, then most probably you are the problem. In this video we look deeper at what we are doing wrong and how to change the narrative. Enjoy the video and leave a comment below!
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  • @shizma7917
    @shizma7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    #5 Too nice gang lets gather here and style Up.

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i was in Toxic relationship OMG never again.... i have raised my self esteem , told myself i deserve better, i refuse to settle for less SELF LOVE

  • @pileshongwe7827
    @pileshongwe7827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Muthoni please talk about how to heal and gain back your confidence after being in a toxic work environment/ boss to a point where the treatment you got led to depression and low self-esteem in the work space.

    • @Wakinyua
      @Wakinyua 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Give time some time. You'll be fine.

    • @leonardodamian1893
      @leonardodamian1893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @terrancelouis8752
      @terrancelouis8752 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Leonardo Damian yup, I have been using Instaflixxer for since december myself :D

  • @gracembogo1678
    @gracembogo1678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you have inspired me i didn't know myself. I have gone through a lot but i have learn not feel like a victim .SELF LOVE thanks very much i will not be the same person again.

  • @wambui_ngatia
    @wambui_ngatia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really appreciate this conversation.More women need to be aware of how attaching yourself to the wrong man can shift your life’s trajectory. It’s understated.
    Also women need to stop feeding on society's double standards when it comes to dating. A good example is where men are expected to search and women to just settle. Some of these toxic ideologies like “being chosen” are to blame because they encourage women to be passive in important decisions e.g who they partner with, leading them to placing mediocrity on pedestals and tolerating bull$***. Unfortunately, a lot of young women learn to attach their value/worth with desirability from men, so making the decision to attach themselves to the wrong man almost seems better than nothing at all. You move different when you know you're the prize ☺️

    • @cathywangari1639
      @cathywangari1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly my thoughts..have learnt this the hard way...well said

  • @mwaikadu7474
    @mwaikadu7474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ng'ang'a is blessed to have you.
    A heavy point today is "don't focus on if he loves you "

  • @floblessings9146
    @floblessings9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When they fund you they own you👌 that's the truth.

  • @wanjirunduta5346
    @wanjirunduta5346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For those of us who are still single, I think this is the place to be. Remember not to degrade your values. Focus on his/her values, leave the looks aside.......Thanks So Much Muthoni......Every episode is a learning session. May the Lord keep blessing Muthoni's Mission. The content is dope.

  • @pandorastelevision9442
    @pandorastelevision9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loaning a man is never in my plan.Even my husband, never!

  • @MyJoan88
    @MyJoan88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The look on your face when talking about 'mastyro'. Priceless 😂😂

  • @kananajoy3156
    @kananajoy3156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like this statement 'when they fund you, they own you, they treat you like a property'. This is very true.

  • @selestinemanga3642
    @selestinemanga3642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am lucky av found this,am glad I left that toxic relationship,, healing a heartbreak ain't easy tho

  • @gutsby456
    @gutsby456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Had i known all this early enough. ..i wouldn't b here today
    Lessons learnt ...my kids shouldn't experience the same.

  • @janemwihaki2124
    @janemwihaki2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "You are looking for an ATM"😂😂 I love your realness and facial expressions Muthoni. God bless you beautiful mentor...

  • @anatrizahkambui1447
    @anatrizahkambui1447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whenever I listen to you I gets new strength to move on and to value myself more

  • @sandragloria222
    @sandragloria222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every single lady should listen to this, God bless you Muthoni

  • @joywanjiru8874
    @joywanjiru8874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks gal for teaching me personally im grateful...learning in progress

  • @nancymoraa2650
    @nancymoraa2650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the way you speak only real and true facts, many women have fallen victim to these evil relations

  • @morinenimoh1454
    @morinenimoh1454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you mah❤
    You're saving us from unnecessary Situationships out here.

  • @therectorsdiary3068
    @therectorsdiary3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are such a well-read lady Muthoni Was Mukiri!Proud of you!

  • @SeraphineOkumu
    @SeraphineOkumu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hapo pa being too nice/selfless to a fault ni ukweli kwanza us women as natural nuturers👏👏👏👏Selfishness is your saviour

  • @jacqiekinash8606
    @jacqiekinash8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Make a video on how to find true and honest man.... That's my resolutions for the year 2021

    • @ramahcheruto4176
      @ramahcheruto4176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allow me to comment, as a lady you dont look. Just position yourself ,focus on your personal growth the right guy will find you.

  • @joycenyambura5075
    @joycenyambura5075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You put it out so simply yet strong and the message is home.very helpful

  • @fredrickmwatha8913
    @fredrickmwatha8913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good job as always👍 keep it coming 🔥
    My take away today, "Be what you looking for"..enough said.

  • @its_wachera2995
    @its_wachera2995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She said your too much ,and i felt it 😭😭😭😭😵😵😵😵

  • @marymbugua1239
    @marymbugua1239 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rehabilitation center for broken men🥱.I like when you say"be what you are looking for in a guy"Learning alot fro you power gal.So on point😘

  • @alicemurigi493
    @alicemurigi493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am watching this..I have been doing this...love you muthoni

  • @maxwellkihara3778
    @maxwellkihara3778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's great muthoni,you are very sensible,and you are very beautiful.

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can listen to your videos all day. Lessons-when you start looking for a sign its a sign itself.
    -we are the price to be won
    -casual sex is a big noo, if you allow it ones it will keep happening and he will finally leave.
    -Dont be too nice to a man you just met

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yassss girl 👏👏

    • @gracewambu681
      @gracewambu681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very true....am in a new relationship n the guy has started asking for a loan from me to hell with him I don't care of his cuteness

    • @joynyambs5902
      @joynyambs5902 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gracewambu681 leave girl

    • @glowsylvia9792
      @glowsylvia9792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gracewambu681 run honey run

  • @ackleen1
    @ackleen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always learning something new from you...thanks gal

  • @paulinekamau1564
    @paulinekamau1564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That " you're too much" really got me😊😅

  • @gakiikariuki6365
    @gakiikariuki6365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Muthoni for sharing what you know. You have helped me level up as a lady.

  • @maryannndichu1470
    @maryannndichu1470 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that you are asking God to show you a sign..its a sign already...wooow!!

  • @beltawaithira3352
    @beltawaithira3352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learned alot my gal😍

  • @patricia2104
    @patricia2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aki unashout!!...😂😂...Woi..hits home!

  • @wairimunjuguna9460
    @wairimunjuguna9460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aki you are being so true thank you for doing this selflessly

  • @njugunalynn9621
    @njugunalynn9621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a prize to be won. I love that.

  • @wink1824
    @wink1824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its the "You are TOO MUCH" for me🤣

  • @mercynganga4441
    @mercynganga4441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou for sharing this,you are full of wisdom dear,kudos!

  • @estherirungu8330
    @estherirungu8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spot on👌... Thanks for the message. Always looking forward to your next episodes

  • @healthbysalome
    @healthbysalome 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    well articulated... kwanza hapo pa desperation ooh my it's a biiiig trap...well dome muthoni

  • @risperwakio3754
    @risperwakio3754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, dear Muthoni, Hugs hugs I have felt corrected and counseled at the same time.

  • @faithnjoki694
    @faithnjoki694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mukiri is God sent

  • @bettyinspirationals3197
    @bettyinspirationals3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tnks
    I'm in a relationship, where he doesnt respect me
    We have a argument and says hurtful tins like "U'll suffer and kill urself"
    He makes it everytime feel like i'm d cause of all dis
    I end up feeling guilty and begging him, i cnt seem to let go
    Ur vid sure is opening my eyes ne
    I tot d prob was with me

    • @cymanono
      @cymanono 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re the queen,show him so

    • @hellenahjohnson9661
      @hellenahjohnson9661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leave girl

    • @bettyinspirationals3197
      @bettyinspirationals3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tnks soo much everyone for ur words!!! They are sooo encouraging, its not easy bt i'm trying to

    • @bettyinspirationals3197
      @bettyinspirationals3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I left him, and he's being begging, i know i dnt want to go back, bt he's saying we should jst be friends , its it advisable to agree to that, coz i really dnt want to hv anytin to do with him

    • @bettyinspirationals3197
      @bettyinspirationals3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said he needs it for his inner peace!!, I'm confused nw coz i dnt want to end up having feelings for him again

  • @nlindamay
    @nlindamay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sis Muthoni. We appreciate you!

  • @gracewambu681
    @gracewambu681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thnkyu msoo it's my high tym to think of this am encouraged n inspired much love

  • @lilianndichu3457
    @lilianndichu3457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.... Thank you @Muthoni..❤️❤️❤️💯I love the messege

  • @lifeasadoll6461
    @lifeasadoll6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you didn’t get anything from this video! Take note of when she said they are searching for strong women because. of the thrill they derive in pulling you down! This is not done outrightly but with so much manipulation. Take note because you only realize when you are completely crippled.

  • @phyliswanjiru8300
    @phyliswanjiru8300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this conversation. Am always learning

  • @ed000
    @ed000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My lady you have really explained in detail for me.... thank you

  • @njerindungu643
    @njerindungu643 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish all womans can do this words as someone of us have, good job mso ❤️

    • @annwanyoike8165
      @annwanyoike8165 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont hurt yourself to please someone, dont be too nice to someone☑️☑️

  • @trendingketrendingke1568
    @trendingketrendingke1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    one of the few channels nimeweka notification bell, really helped after my break up, but hii clip sijrelate, this one is for the laydays

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 💯

    • @maggiewagura5435
      @maggiewagura5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This so amazing..especially looking for a man to fund you..they take advantage

  • @magdalinemwicigi7616
    @magdalinemwicigi7616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you msoo

  • @marywagikuyu1735
    @marywagikuyu1735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🙏 thank you so much for educating us

  • @faithmuturi5017
    @faithmuturi5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow am the price to be own! that's wonderful

  • @roselynewanjikuofficial5491
    @roselynewanjikuofficial5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can say that again!

  • @floblessings9146
    @floblessings9146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this,keep up muthoni. So encouraging and learning alot♥️

  • @zipporahwangui5411
    @zipporahwangui5411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Si I am almost saying Amen! Umenikata kweli kweli

    • @jacksonkariuki9965
      @jacksonkariuki9965 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aki pole 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @zipporahwangui5411
      @zipporahwangui5411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacksonkariuki9965 ha ha Nishapoa. We learn as we progress

    • @jacksonkariuki9965
      @jacksonkariuki9965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zipporahwangui5411 yes that's true but I just like your honesty

    • @zipporahwangui5411
      @zipporahwangui5411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacksonkariuki9965 honesty is all we need

    • @jacksonkariuki9965
      @jacksonkariuki9965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zipporahwangui5411 absolutely yes . we all want to have friends like you

  • @carolnkirote5620
    @carolnkirote5620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So encouraging mukiri💖

  • @breemackena2324
    @breemackena2324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I met ur channel earlier 😚

  • @abletasharnetwork
    @abletasharnetwork 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️Hooii well said darling ipick a leaf longlive sis👌

  • @catherinewaweru2787
    @catherinewaweru2787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wao wao
    That is great wisdom
    Thank you

  • @traceeytracie6811
    @traceeytracie6811 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When she said you are not rehabilitation centre i felt it

  • @rachaelongalo6296
    @rachaelongalo6296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where can I find such a dress? Its so lovely

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. Cant remember the Instagram shop name

  • @muchirifaith2169
    @muchirifaith2169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow wow. God bless you gal

  • @naomikamau2859
    @naomikamau2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today you are on 🔥🔥🔥.the best.

  • @nancynjeri7690
    @nancynjeri7690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    muthoni i would kindly request you to advice me in my relationship coz am in a dillema on what to do

  • @elizabethmuthoni3013
    @elizabethmuthoni3013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dear. I thank God for this class

  • @maryannndichu1470
    @maryannndichu1470 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This means he must meet all the values...if he is honest and loving but his finances are disorganized.. that means red flag??

  • @francieafrica7306
    @francieafrica7306 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks,en keep up the good job...

  • @dr.ohuruc.1511
    @dr.ohuruc.1511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too nice point hit home whhooa 🤦‍♀️

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing teaching swee

  • @shiinjoroge7669
    @shiinjoroge7669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you muso.nakupenda bure

  • @theboss5448
    @theboss5448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said muso love you

  • @trendingketrendingke1568
    @trendingketrendingke1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love a woman who is nice, acha hizo

  • @mek463
    @mek463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good insights there 👏

  • @margret2688
    @margret2688 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nilikuwa wapi kuwatch hizi videos aki😂🥺

  • @ruthkabiru4095
    @ruthkabiru4095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate especially for them not being patient..

  • @sugarsam1
    @sugarsam1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nimeskia mtu akiosha vyombo😂😂 anyway good educative content 👍

  • @maryannemwangi168
    @maryannemwangi168 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    True that we need to interrogate the man and know what u get is ur choice and get the man from ur purpose

  • @esthermuthoga929
    @esthermuthoga929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waaaaaow I needed this😜😜

  • @evelorena3961
    @evelorena3961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting topic i really need it thnk u dia

  • @estherwairuriwainainah3073
    @estherwairuriwainainah3073 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are full of wisdom.

  • @monic1594
    @monic1594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you soo much Muthoni.....just like that 😘

  • @linahochego6949
    @linahochego6949 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this woman❤️

  • @loisewangari903
    @loisewangari903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks dear for your advice have been following you but I feel like am sinking into depression due to break up and singleness, what do I do?

  • @annewamuti3952
    @annewamuti3952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah, desperation.....point

  • @maureenmwangi8311
    @maureenmwangi8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow....you've nailed it.

  • @elizabethmuthoni3013
    @elizabethmuthoni3013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God keep blessing you dear

  • @magdalenewanjala6957
    @magdalenewanjala6957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you muthoni you inspire me🌷🌷🌷🌹

  • @nyawirapurity2133
    @nyawirapurity2133 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eishh !!!muthoni

  • @wellingtongithinji9556
    @wellingtongithinji9556 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great message...I was thinking you don't know any language apart from Gikuyu

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

    • @mwaikadu7474
      @mwaikadu7474 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 same case here mpaka nashangaa ama ni mso

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aiiii how is that possible in Kenya when all schools are taught in English?

  • @bettykarinje
    @bettykarinje 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, well said. Msoo

  • @hannahwambugu9266
    @hannahwambugu9266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyce msg...so educative...

  • @edwardyiaile4647
    @edwardyiaile4647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love your message ❤️

  • @mercienjoroge9658
    @mercienjoroge9658 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed this topic inasema ukweli sana hehe

  • @personperson7592
    @personperson7592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11:49 is so true💯😁

  • @kokiskitchen
    @kokiskitchen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am blessed 🙏

  • @LeFtic1
    @LeFtic1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You so much ❤️

  • @sheilahkungu9969
    @sheilahkungu9969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dear that's all i can say thengiu muno