HOW TO STOP BEING DESPERATE || AVOID DESPERATION WHEN DATING

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  • @phylisngungu805
    @phylisngungu805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wapi likes z watu Wa gulf ,I learn more from this channel I owe you msoo 🥰🥰🥰

  • @joanfundi325
    @joanfundi325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Am 28 and just giong through a break up and i actually felt like am going to die if he wont be next to me because am growing old. Then you bring this video to me. Are you not God sent...much much love Muthoni

    • @berylachieng111
      @berylachieng111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me too,im desperate and its ok

    • @joanfundi325
      @joanfundi325 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slowly am focusing on myself and running my own race. I have suspended men in the air. And i know how i wanted to be treated, if i dont get that one who treats me the way i want am better off alone.

    • @nancywambui3082
      @nancywambui3082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ah 28 you're not old b patient no need to settle with the wrong person if he does not want to settle things then he is not worthy

    • @emilywanjiru6157
      @emilywanjiru6157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mantra too Joan

    • @edwardrodney254
      @edwardrodney254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you probably dont give a shit but if you guys are stoned like me atm then you can watch pretty much all the new movies on instaflixxer. I've been watching with my girlfriend recently :)

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    if someone wants you in their life, they will make room for you,you shouldn't have to fight for a spot, never ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worthy

  • @sallymwasi
    @sallymwasi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 42 and single, I still believe there are good men out there.

  • @Helloo_oo
    @Helloo_oo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ghhaaaiiii Muthoni, this advice is sooo sober!! No attitude, no hype! And it's so true, when you give yourself the best you don't even stress people with standards!

  • @pandorastelevision9442
    @pandorastelevision9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Msoo name, it comes with every strong quality. We love you girl,you are reviving broken souls.💞💞💞💞

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooh am eagerly waiting can't Mic mambo msoo

  • @phyllisjulius1053
    @phyllisjulius1053 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woooow I like this yes am at that age n I believe bin myself that the right man is there for me, God's time always the best 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sheilawanjira29
    @sheilawanjira29 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waoh speaking to me directly ...thanks for such enlightening remarks. God bless

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anytime am close to tripping muthonis videos reminds me to carry myself with value... I feel that part of someone to treat you with respect if you have a date they wake up & communicate well si mtu anakughost or you the one asking whether the date is still there

  • @whitefang5208
    @whitefang5208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful nuggets. Self care and personal growth will attract the right guy to you.

  • @carolshish292
    @carolshish292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this,bitter truth....am truly learning alot,,,thanks gal😘👌👌👌👌👌

  • @itsWANGARI
    @itsWANGARI 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad I stopped by 🤗​🤗​ so much wisdom

  • @janetonsomu3309
    @janetonsomu3309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Muthoni for your wisdom,God bless

  • @nusulanakato
    @nusulanakato 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is a blessing!

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good topic... tis i can contribute i was so desperate i moved in with a man after knowing him for 3 months sema in kama drama ni kama findio... he was toxic,,, i learned my lesson good thing are never hurried

  • @shizma7917
    @shizma7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks!!! Focus on yourself, and yes you can date yourself for as long as it takes. Spoil yourself!!! Use that time for that.❤

  • @malekihanan9508
    @malekihanan9508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Msoo,the best channel for relationship.kudos👍❤

  • @olivemugo7973
    @olivemugo7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really learn alot from this channel muthoni you're amazing please keep sharing more and more looking forward to the next episode....❤️🔥💯

  • @anatrizahkambui1447
    @anatrizahkambui1447 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow... I Love this... Have learnt alot. #Be available but don't be too available... #focusingonmyself

  • @agnesladasha5641
    @agnesladasha5641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting here to learn some things ❤️

  • @susanmahihu8096
    @susanmahihu8096 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well stated thank you for sharing this talk

  • @ShikoShie
    @ShikoShie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aki this girl is something else
    I love love love love you Muthoni

  • @brendachepkorir607
    @brendachepkorir607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am glad I found this channel I have learned a lot❤️❤️❤️😚

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learn more on this channel been single for two years it feels good

  • @wanjirunduta8588
    @wanjirunduta8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the statement'Being single is not a disease'. Embrace it, focus on yourself & stop giving credit where it's not due. The point here is 'Jipende' .Thanks gal for this.
    #Weeklytherapy

  • @judynjoroge5045
    @judynjoroge5045 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right on time..taking care of myself.

  • @lilianndichu3457
    @lilianndichu3457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I must watch this one.... 😢Coz I know how I'm feeling... Can't wait

  • @thegreatman1781
    @thegreatman1781 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always feel you use this channel to communicate indirectly to your man.

  • @mellisakariuki7643
    @mellisakariuki7643 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you that was very nice, have learned something which i will help me get the best in me

  • @naomiwangare3977
    @naomiwangare3977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaaaw Muthoni, u help me so much with this forum here.

  • @estherpiuz6512
    @estherpiuz6512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i usually feel muthoni is talking to me ,because whatever i have gone through in life she has talk abt it.so if i had planned to do something silly i usually take a u-turn.Thens so much msoo you have really helped me change my mentality.

  • @cynthiamurunga8228
    @cynthiamurunga8228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting to Learn more as usual 😍😍

  • @bettymwaura3899
    @bettymwaura3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks ☺️ for your help Muthoni

  • @alukwejoy808
    @alukwejoy808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful I was really struggling to make a decision now I know

  • @emmymuriithi8805
    @emmymuriithi8805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am learning to date myself at 28 it's never too late♥️ thanks so much muthoni.

  • @juliustyson8394
    @juliustyson8394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know You have helped somebody somewhere 👏

  • @blessed_rose190
    @blessed_rose190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learn more from you in relationship ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @lizpeterson280
    @lizpeterson280 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this and I have truly learnt a lot from this🤗😍😍

  • @raykim1739
    @raykim1739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eagerly waiting for this Msoo..feeling so down😥

  • @Shekow_Ariana_Kuria
    @Shekow_Ariana_Kuria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm learning from each of your videos 😊thanks boo....i can't wait to implement 😁😁

  • @agnesjaynathan1108
    @agnesjaynathan1108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice talk,keep on talking to ladies mama,it helps

  • @africanrecipes7355
    @africanrecipes7355 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your story aligns with mine✨

  • @marymwangi5436
    @marymwangi5436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is for mere,,,,waiting patiently

  • @fxqueen1729
    @fxqueen1729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aaw😭this all I wanted to here like right now 🥺🔥 muthoni you doing amazing work 🎊🎊

  • @monicareborn2296
    @monicareborn2296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can't wait for this muthoni I'm almost desperate 😭

  • @maureenwanjiru2255
    @maureenwanjiru2255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If desperation was a person then that’s me. Am just in my early 20’s bt I was just craving for a man. It’s that fear of being single. Each example you gave feels like you were talking about me. Met someone on a dating site, 2weeks into knowing each other I was already complaining that his not giving me his ‘girlfriend’ attention. Each time I meet a guy, give him my number and in my head I declare that’s my man. Later on I look back and realize I settled for less. Some guys ain’t really what I would settle for. Bt this topic just hit me on the head that I should accept am desperate and work towards being single and happy and understand myself.Thanks muthoni

    • @aliceomarphiri9635
      @aliceomarphiri9635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl a little bit of advice...work on yourself don't compromise about what you look for in a man. Love yourself,feel complete first without a man if a man comes he will not complete you but complement you. Go on several dates and I don't mean have sex with everyone....if one man is interested in you dont lock door on other potentials.

    • @maureenwanjiru2255
      @maureenwanjiru2255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aliceomarphiri9635 wow thank you so much for this. Once am on one date i always declaire myself taken and thats it. Yeah thanks for emphasising on not having sex with everyone.

  • @elizabethmuthoni3013
    @elizabethmuthoni3013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dear..I was waiting for this

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks dear good content there

  • @joynjau1776
    @joynjau1776 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Msoo always learning 😘😘

  • @njerindungu643
    @njerindungu643 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mm all i can say is thank you mso 🙏😘

  • @jennydoureen5642
    @jennydoureen5642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whatever you saying is totally right.However its now easy to say all these because you are now in a serious relationship.Lets all be honest,when in 30s and single and no relationships,NOT many ladies will say ‘its ok to be single’ ‘i am happy’ ‘i will concentrate on other things.Many will surely not be happy honestly.

    • @DorisWanjohiGifttv
      @DorisWanjohiGifttv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The foolish ones. Listen to Benjamin Zulu dear ones.

  • @BEHAPPY-wr1fe
    @BEHAPPY-wr1fe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've enjoyed the lesson

  • @perpsperps5652
    @perpsperps5652 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do a video of your selfcare routine kindly.

  • @lucymwangi221
    @lucymwangi221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting to learn

  • @gloriawabera264
    @gloriawabera264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Muthoni for your advice especially to the young generation we're really learning alot....I have found a big sister in you...I am always inspired when I listen to your episodes....Keep it up and may this channel grow to greater heights 🌺🌺🌺

  • @gracemwenga3616
    @gracemwenga3616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Muthoni you just amazing😘thank you

  • @rosemwangi7612
    @rosemwangi7612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow this is what I needed at the moment....I got so desperate after I met a guy and he told me that I should b married by now. Imagine and am only 24yrs😿

  • @michaelak5382
    @michaelak5382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this so much as a women in my 20s . I might have to listen to this video everyday. Thank you❤️🙏🏾

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey big sister... Waaiting

  • @olivemugo7973
    @olivemugo7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting patiently ❤️

  • @valdryannita1223
    @valdryannita1223 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello... Am new here and I love your almost all your videos... Thank you ❤️

  • @neliuswairimu4124
    @neliuswairimu4124 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Muthoni for this♥️🥰

  • @menensusan1908
    @menensusan1908 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have learnt alot....thankyou😩💖💖

  • @janenjeri7797
    @janenjeri7797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is from the heart I can see it from muthoni.

  • @njerimwangi8546
    @njerimwangi8546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks muthoni for this

  • @joypeace1632
    @joypeace1632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Muthoni, since i started listening to your content, i cant deny that you have changed me. YOU INSPIRE ME GIRL!!

  • @doricas2049
    @doricas2049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am here listening 👂

  • @eunicemacharia4692
    @eunicemacharia4692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waow nice and powerful topic .....thankyou Muthoni

  • @estherchibutia3283
    @estherchibutia3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am Worthy

  • @morinenyawira946
    @morinenyawira946 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    whenever she says if are huku saying/huku doing this,i always find myself smiling,thats like your favourite slogan,keep going on girl

    • @jacintamuthoni9192
      @jacintamuthoni9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ni kaaa slogan....na 'you know what I mean '

  • @mercyl9591
    @mercyl9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder why people get desperate🤔🤔🤔seriously its fun loving yourself, pampering yourself and knowing whether you have some1 or not you will be happy!!

  • @carolinemugo4830
    @carolinemugo4830 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Profound 💯

  • @lizmomishkalizmwikali2854
    @lizmomishkalizmwikali2854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow ... Great content

  • @joycekimuhu8426
    @joycekimuhu8426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At my early thirties n just a week ago this son of Pharoah broke my heart n now am taking an off dating myself

  • @margaretmaina7670
    @margaretmaina7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You impact me so much

  • @cirumacharia8017
    @cirumacharia8017 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you msoo

  • @emmywanjohi6957
    @emmywanjohi6957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting eagerly

  • @agnesmwangi4506
    @agnesmwangi4506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can working on myself work with a tight budget. How do I convince myself that I'm enough after years of negative talk?

  • @traceeytracie6811
    @traceeytracie6811 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mercy jepkemboi this is for you 🥰

  • @sstangtu2309
    @sstangtu2309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been single now for over 1 year 6months and it's the best times ever

  • @dinahwaturi2214
    @dinahwaturi2214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou so much Muthoni.

  • @ChristineMAdero
    @ChristineMAdero 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Polite correction.. singlehood not "singleness" mama... good channel

  • @lucythuo1257
    @lucythuo1257 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting

  • @periskihara6987
    @periskihara6987 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This message is mine

  • @jessicamaina7466
    @jessicamaina7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you muthoni

  • @lizmichael4421
    @lizmichael4421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woooooooow, 💕

  • @margaretmaina7670
    @margaretmaina7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I looooooooove youuuuuu

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im not interested in realationships period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @evalynmuchemi3711
    @evalynmuchemi3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am in my late 20's and i ave nothing more to wait rather than start dating my self...

  • @hildaalividza3461
    @hildaalividza3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always waiting for her videos ♥️

    • @peacefaith8483
      @peacefaith8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am happy after watching Muthoni's mission I didn't know how I healed,I come to love myself,and am happy to be single ♥️ continue with the good work,

  • @reggyann133
    @reggyann133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Muthoni kwani umetumwa aki😂😂😂you are talking to me😭😭

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking foward 👌

    • @lucymwangi221
      @lucymwangi221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kukuonanga everywhere kunafanya nifeel like nakujua😂

    • @jacintamuthoni9192
      @jacintamuthoni9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here inakaa ni kaa namjua lol!

    • @puritymuthama2243
      @puritymuthama2243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucymwangi221 same here🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I love her positive comments

    • @itsirene0086
      @itsirene0086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucymwangi221 lol same way here

  • @jullietwanjiku2683
    @jullietwanjiku2683 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mukiri you are a life saver💃💃...

  • @rosendichu3379
    @rosendichu3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg 😢,, thank-you so much am going through alot right now,, Am doing long distance relationship 😔 ,,, and I can see it will end in tears .. And am not ready thank you so much 😘

    • @peacefaith8483
      @peacefaith8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Check it's red flags

    • @rosendichu3379
      @rosendichu3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peacefaith8483 yeah

    • @peacefaith8483
      @peacefaith8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's your high time you learn to love your and leave that relationship slowly, since you have started seeing the red flags in it, thanks me later,you can watch Muthoni's mission on Red flags

    • @rosendichu3379
      @rosendichu3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peacefaith8483 I watched and am at peace now.. Coz I know what I didn't know.. Thank you so much..

    • @rosendichu3379
      @rosendichu3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

  • @ochiengmary
    @ochiengmary 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I found your channel early enough,my life would have been different,I regret making some decisions and am afraid I can't undo them....feeling depressed 😞

    • @sharonnjeri3581
      @sharonnjeri3581 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't beat yourself up for past mistakes; we are all human. I have adopted a new mantra recently, that is keeping me going, "I am an imperfect girl, living an imperfect life, but trying to do my best."

    • @kirabohadijjah6840
      @kirabohadijjah6840 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      forgive yourself and dont try those mistakes again

  • @vivianadhiambo9037
    @vivianadhiambo9037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not all men are trash,siz just stop looking into the dumpsite 😂😂 Periodt!!!

  • @wanjikungangak
    @wanjikungangak 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤜🏻🤛🏻

  • @beverleyatieno750
    @beverleyatieno750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😍😍❤❤❤

  • @margaretmaina7670
    @margaretmaina7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes i willl date myself