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  • Lets talk about red flags. What are the red flags you look out for? My coaching sessions are ongoing. To book one of the packages or a session. Call /WhatsApp on 0768944224 or send an email muthonismission@gmail.com

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  • @wairimu558
    @wairimu558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "THE FIRST TIME THEY DISRESPECT YOU, IT'S ON THEM. THE SECOND TIME, IT'S ON YOU!". Deep!!

  • @DaenjelicQuotes
    @DaenjelicQuotes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love it that ''when you find yourself praying to God to give you a sign, that's a sign already...''

  • @wairimu558
    @wairimu558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Muthoni I resonate with almost everything you are saying. I have been deep in toxic relationships, I have let my guard down, and I have been exploited and walked on by men. Anyway, now am slowly recovering from those situations.
    But here is what I have to say, there is nothing like "I know I did things that I shouldn't have done" No.
    Life is not always about making the right choices. It's a package of all of it; the good decisions, the celebrations, the bad decisions, the mistakes, failures. These are what make life LIFE. The good choices and the bad choices make a package of who you are, own them in equal measure. The only thing is: what have you learned from all these experiences that will grow you as a person moving forward?
    Appreciate those 'bad decisions' you made because they have built you into the STRONG WOMAN you are today.
    And girl, keep up the good content.

    • @joyceleboo
      @joyceleboo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I'd copy save this. Well put. Awesome.❤

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    • @romanmateo2566
      @romanmateo2566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @zevlorenzo4737
      @zevlorenzo4737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Roman Mateo Glad I could help xD

  • @Mteulepioneers2024
    @Mteulepioneers2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Good point "when it starts raise it, if it continues stop it". This is not even a red flag it's a red duvet.

  • @mercygishohi6713
    @mercygishohi6713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Red signs I ignored in my 4yrs relationship 🚩🚩🚩
    1. Lie
    2. Borrow money and never return
    3. Complain about all my friends
    4. Complain I call my mom for to long
    5. Slept with his baby mama
    6. Hit me
    7. Choke me
    8. Call me a baby everytime we argue
    9. Irresponsible
    10. Drugs and alcohol
    11. Stealing from me.
    12. Accusing me of killing our baby( I had still birth at 36wewks)
    13. Slept with 6 women and gave me Infections.
    I wish I left when I saw the first ref sign. BUT ITS NEVER TO LATE.

    • @amrgmusic
      @amrgmusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i have seen 3 already and we are not even dating

    • @blessings9445
      @blessings9445 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mailod. Anyway, hope you're better now😁

    • @blessings9445
      @blessings9445 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mailod. Anyway, hope you're better now😁

  • @tourismmanagement4772
    @tourismmanagement4772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The female version of benjamin zulu is muthoni wa mukiri

    • @simiyudorcas1406
      @simiyudorcas1406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @janettole3442
      @janettole3442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true,but you know what,that's what the world needs.

  • @susanmaina7149
    @susanmaina7149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great teaching Msoo, the key word is LOVE YOURSELF

  • @flomwangi2078
    @flomwangi2078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooooo Jesus ...u r an eye opener to many... those teaching are just in another level more grace

  • @mercienjoroge9658
    @mercienjoroge9658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow leo notes nazo tumezitake na tukalearn
    Esp how to point out mistake s to someone, sometimes tunajipatanga tuko rude or tearful tukizipoint out.

  • @mirriamchege2927
    @mirriamchege2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This channel has been very helpful and i can't miss a single video. Its part of my routine now.
    Kindly Speak about '"Toxicity/Jealousy at the work place"

  • @christinenjoki2747
    @christinenjoki2747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ghosting is a NO for me. Disrespect is also a NO... My gut is also top notch.... I listen to it sana.

  • @beckyjinxs9699
    @beckyjinxs9699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you, You're doing a great job... Thanks for the lessons

  • @joanwinga9123
    @joanwinga9123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This hits home and I will watch it over and over again...thank goodness for you

  • @janemwaura3319
    @janemwaura3319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waoh thumbs up, love this video very informative indeed, face the bull by its horn don't fear if something is wrong because the guy is providing you,..
    Ladies get your money, waoh!

  • @BeingSaltandLight
    @BeingSaltandLight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mso you really make me happy. I love listening to you. The insights are fire. God is using you wonderfully.

  • @emilykaranja1191
    @emilykaranja1191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Drinking knowledge from this gal thanks Sana msoo
    Notebook nayo nayo

  • @Kate_benard
    @Kate_benard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am happy I was able to see those red flags when I was in a relationship n walked out... keeping sharpening ladies Muthoni.Good work!

  • @ruthnyambura3990
    @ruthnyambura3990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Msooo I hope u were here before I got married but i give up on that married an am myself now. Thanks dia for telling as the truth

  • @ruthgitau1285
    @ruthgitau1285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aki muthoni you're talking to me.I am really learning alot.

  • @rozanmuthoni3927
    @rozanmuthoni3927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have gone through Emotional abuse
    I always thought I was wrong
    But thank God I learnt a lot n walked away
    Thanks msoo for eye opening

  • @essym.m1980
    @essym.m1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey, Muthoni I wish I knew all your advice 10 years ago but anyways am still learning a lot. Keep what you are doing gal it's changing lives! It has changed me a lot.

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good teaching

  • @aquilerahchris9082
    @aquilerahchris9082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn truth 1000%, I'm proud narcissist servivor, when you meet one 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️they never change those zombies👹, even on new supply

  • @wahinyaabiah
    @wahinyaabiah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the great info and i like your sound check sana. I dont struggle to get you

  • @gathonikuriambugua4865
    @gathonikuriambugua4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have gone through cheating, verbal abuse and emotional abuse which were all deal breakers in those relationships. I am glad I have moved on from them.

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Then I have never been in love 😂😂😂 " finding myself googling things never" 😂😂😂....but I agree on most Kwanza that one of wanting to call shots 💯 is top of my list.

  • @annmuturi9847
    @annmuturi9847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish i saw this like 3 Years ago... There many things i would have done different. But all said done am working on me and knowing what i want in any relationship

  • @mumbyvivian9875
    @mumbyvivian9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Muthoni. Phones put upside down is a scarlet red high flag.

  • @njerindungu643
    @njerindungu643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thank God mso ur hia wen am still single lol kuelimishwa nayo ❤️💕😘luv u gal

  • @getrudemukami5112
    @getrudemukami5112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A plus to this content.so practicle and real examples .....💯💯🔊🔊

  • @SarahNyambura-co4hv
    @SarahNyambura-co4hv 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are doing nice job, some of us have in toxic relationships dating narcissistic and we even don't know if we are dating them very dangerous

  • @joanmuhoro1584
    @joanmuhoro1584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww... Always beautiful Mso and so full of wisdom❤️❤️

  • @KenyanAtHeart
    @KenyanAtHeart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on Muthoni. Always keeping it 💯

  • @trizawambui5284
    @trizawambui5284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mso i like your advice. But all the red flags you described are actually deal breakers. One needs to take a walk as soon as they happen. Coz they are bound to happen again, and may be this time very late.

  • @Habibtay
    @Habibtay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Muthoni you really have beautiful eyes and the words that come out of your mouth are so full of wisdom. That makes it very easy to listen to you non stop

  • @perismwangi8909
    @perismwangi8909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Muthoni I love your your talk being a mother of young girls.
    Another red flag is someone who does not want the best for either at work or in education......you look like you are doing better than them.
    Like I lost a chance to go for a scholarship coz he was threatening that if I take up that I will not find him later

  • @virginiamuthoni3746
    @virginiamuthoni3746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another deal breaker for me or red flag is that they rush intimacy and they never take you out on dates everytime he calls you to go to his house.

  • @wanjirakagira2165
    @wanjirakagira2165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Talk about long distance relationships

  • @BettyBellah510
    @BettyBellah510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A new subscriber looking foward to learn more.happy holidays and merry Christmas to all my online families i love u💖

  • @josephgitau3706
    @josephgitau3706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi, Msoo you are talking about the reality of things, but I guess, maybe is out of my previous relationships but most of the red flags you have highlighted wee with my partners, n they are women not men

  • @luciekaris1505
    @luciekaris1505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would wish you visit mt Kenya university you talk to us .your too informative

  • @philomenagathoni7119
    @philomenagathoni7119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm here to learn something new

  • @annewamuti3952
    @annewamuti3952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Muthoni, muthoni,..msooo...ndagwita maita Maigana....where were you when I stupidly googling and over working to please...😣😥😢😭

  • @perisgichoni793
    @perisgichoni793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an informative platform

  • @terryshiku4081
    @terryshiku4081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learning alot here mso

  • @dorcasgitari4125
    @dorcasgitari4125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What could have become of most of us if Msoo💖 never fed us with such knowledge ???🥱🥱Thank you for always sharing,,I can confidently say that my social life is on another level☺️☺️❤️

  • @faithtireito819
    @faithtireito819 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative Muthoni!

  • @maureenwahu7390
    @maureenwahu7390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eagerly waitting

  • @joywanjiru8874
    @joywanjiru8874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ata nimebuy notebook juu this is a class on its on thanks gal for always educating us I Rilly appreciate you are helping a soul out there....waiting for that topic emotional immaturity..

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaaaay!!!!! Bless you 🙏

    • @joywanjiru8874
      @joywanjiru8874 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @ruthmwangi6813
      @ruthmwangi6813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your topics Muthoni. Please talk about spouse mismanaging family finances especially in marriage. Keep up the good job 👏👏👏

  • @rabeccambeke2460
    @rabeccambeke2460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No but to my best friend....it really broke her heart..... before then I don't know that someone can be in a relationship with you only con you

  • @Ann_wanjiru
    @Ann_wanjiru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This your talks is making me know myself,, and what i want in life

  • @ivywegulo7465
    @ivywegulo7465 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks dear, I have watched it today, very helpful....

  • @njugunalynn9621
    @njugunalynn9621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have really prayed for those signs before and i think it is somehow desperate.

  • @hildachep7675
    @hildachep7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Taking notes.. Thanks

  • @wnyangati5405
    @wnyangati5405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you gal for the insight.

  • @olivemugo7973
    @olivemugo7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoy her topics ❤️❤️ enjoying it

  • @leahnjeri1213
    @leahnjeri1213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Weee!!!this was more than a therapy session. I have learnt something useful,thank you.

  • @loisenduta5296
    @loisenduta5296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Msoo anza classes juu girl you are deep! you are slapping us with wisdom left right center. Bless you mama❤️

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Really? Thank you

    • @loisenduta5296
      @loisenduta5296 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@muthonismission yeah like am sure there so many girls out that are so lost. They need these lessons trust me

  • @faithmuturi5017
    @faithmuturi5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wawawa! I never thought lucky of apologies is a red flag I now see where I go wrong

  • @tessnjokie4847
    @tessnjokie4847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true. Please talk about cohabiting in relationships.

  • @marthawanjiku6888
    @marthawanjiku6888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am following, its informative

  • @PurityMuriithi-dm8tt
    @PurityMuriithi-dm8tt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nani alipea msoo chai yangu 😅😅😅😅 Muthoni Mukiri you are ozzing wisdom ❤

  • @kanariopeninah
    @kanariopeninah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the info.

  • @christinewaweru7189
    @christinewaweru7189 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks alot, I needed to hear this

  • @magdalenewanjala6957
    @magdalenewanjala6957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are smart..i admire your voice gal..

  • @Middle_school2024
    @Middle_school2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good job Pauline❤️❤️

  • @abletasharnetwork
    @abletasharnetwork 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Akii ilove you with passion muthoni❤️ you speak to my soul darling may God bless you for me.

  • @susanwachiuri869
    @susanwachiuri869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here taking notes

  • @lynerosie
    @lynerosie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks dear..learning big time....

  • @carolwamuyu613
    @carolwamuyu613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting topic

  • @habibadawe
    @habibadawe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wuueh my friend must watch this aki we always go to internet looking for ways🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wuuuuuuh life aki💔💔😂😂😂

  • @gladys.kofficial661
    @gladys.kofficial661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our superb clinic always💞💞💞

  • @marymungai7942
    @marymungai7942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am learning a lot..I love your content.

  • @rabeccambeke2460
    @rabeccambeke2460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi gal thanks for everything... kindly can you talk about relationship scammers it's on the rise sana

  • @moreennjeru1603
    @moreennjeru1603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When a guy asks you to visit him in his house,a red flag for me

  • @princesslizjoy6173
    @princesslizjoy6173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow bravo Muthoni this so nice

  • @paulinewaithera5250
    @paulinewaithera5250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks a lot Mūthoni.
    Kindly also talk about where by you meet a guy and he starts asking ,“what you have?”. In terms of material things.
    For instance lets say i am a nurse. Then a guy asks me.
    “Apart from being a nurse what else do you do?”
    For how long should a lady stay before she disclose what she has/ or what she does?
    Because guys are also nowadays gold diggers.
    Kindly help.

  • @shizma7917
    @shizma7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was so toxic but deep down i knew that was a reaction and a self defence! 😒

    • @muthonismission
      @muthonismission  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The most important thing is accepting that you are toxic and working towards becoming a better person.

  • @ndungujoy5777
    @ndungujoy5777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U completely described a person I know

  • @catherinewaweru3649
    @catherinewaweru3649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this

  • @ironlady41
    @ironlady41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kindly wt if ur in a distance relationship en U've sensed the red flags form a man, wts the best way of quitting it,

  • @margret2688
    @margret2688 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to make him love me😂🤣Thanks mso
    New subscriber learning so much

  • @deborahnjeri1504
    @deborahnjeri1504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aki apo kwa googling was soo me😂😂 kwanza his captions aki post on socials ati 'what does it mean to say...' zingine napata ni song lyrics I end up listening to the whole song what it means and all renditions of the song🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Wueh! God is good😁

  • @abletasharnetwork
    @abletasharnetwork 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ihave been avoiding this video because I knew it's currying my trueth🙊am telling you am even shaking listening to this. But anywho thanks Mamie

  • @randomtingschannel2195
    @randomtingschannel2195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some do things without thinking but after you tell them it's over, they become extremely sorry of their actions. Do you forgive such?

  • @wanjirunduta5346
    @wanjirunduta5346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a class for real;
    Muthoni you're doing great.
    I look out for commitment too. It is very crucial.
    Keep soaring gal.
    Weekly therapy.

  • @anngathogo3610
    @anngathogo3610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wao, this is so informative, I have never though of putting them down but I now can. Thank you for empowering a girl 😀

  • @carolineluhrs306
    @carolineluhrs306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Muthoni,waaa!!why and where did you get all this experience??You’ve just hit that nail on the wall. I married my Germany husband very young,had no exposure with life,he separated me from my family and my friends. I never understood why?but later when I got fed up,is when i slowly slowly understand und understood what he was up to. He wanted me not to run to no one. Ooh my God🥲have been thinking am the only one…your so beautiful,i love your style,your hair is amazing,your wonderful..you’ve won my heart ♥️ we are in the same level..let me hit that subscribe button…beg…beg keep it up😘

  • @queenjane7574
    @queenjane7574 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loving your channel

  • @esthernjagi2031
    @esthernjagi2031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I had this advice several months ago...i would have saved myself from so much trouble and heartache..but thanks Msoo for speaking to me. I really appreciate

  • @winniemburu6797
    @winniemburu6797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ndani kabisaaa

  • @zobasworld4689
    @zobasworld4689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're such an amazing influencer loving you the more

  • @lilianndichu3457
    @lilianndichu3457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this lady everyday ❤️❤️❤️❤️Thankyou... Blessings gal

  • @sugarsam1
    @sugarsam1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahahaha, ati unakaa kama waru. Anyway I love your informative content, keep on going

  • @verowanga8727
    @verowanga8727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today i think you are talking to me direct

  • @teresahwangari2401
    @teresahwangari2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have really learnt alot

  • @alicemuchoki1019
    @alicemuchoki1019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is helpful

  • @priscillahnjuguna6783
    @priscillahnjuguna6783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Khai Muthoni,this was me sometimes back.Nowadays napita kama ambulance

    • @annewamuti3952
      @annewamuti3952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pole gal but i have to lol this one😃😂

  • @lakenya6559
    @lakenya6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have just subscribe ❤i really love your content

  • @sophiewanyoro7011
    @sophiewanyoro7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waiting