“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.
Hey,i might be a random person on yt, but listen i used to victimize myself, that maybe I'm the problem, that i should Better stay away from love as it breaks me . But after watching this video , my mindset changed- like- Hey my mindset is not the world. There is so much to it. Let's heal together and have hopes . 🦋🦋
I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.
Ive been doing this since I was a little girl. I write letters for when I'm sad, angry, jealous... As if I am writing to my best friend. It helps me stay mindful of my reactions and become my own bestie. Highly recommend
It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you
liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.
oh my god i love you so much. i just went though a very tough breakup, and you have literally changed my whole perspective with this one video. such great timing. thank you so much. you are amazing and inspiring. ❤
i found your channel five days ago after i had made a huge mistake and lost half of my friends. and honestly my mentality has changed SO MUCH. ur stuff ab manifestation, gratitiude, and talking to the universe/God has really helped so much and people say that i give off a different vibe now in just a bit of time. thank youuu sm for everything liz, this video is something i really needed and God bless you.
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
I love the fact that you put on legends bc it makes the brain pay full attention to what you're saying therefore fixating on it. Thank you for sharing all of your beautiful perspectives with us. You showed me that boundaries are not a mean thing, but a necessary one to evolve and have the thing I have for others: RESPECT.
Just one week ago I ended the toxic friendship (boy best friend)the bond of 4 years. I felt unwanted, unworthy, unloved. Before ending the bond I tried everything to make better but nothing works, so I came to that decision. I thought this friendship will last forever but....Ended ! It's better to be alone rather than being in toxic friendship. Slowly, I'm accepting the reality and liz videos are helping me out 💙🌸🤝
shes literally changing my life to the better thank u very much liz thanks to u i had the courage to survive from a toxic relationship and set boundaries
Thank you liz for sharing your own experience, ive recently been going through alot and when you said "crying lets your emotions out" i realised, that crying doesn't make you weak, instead it helps you become a stronger person.
we will be okay, same as you im on day 4 of break up still hurts but im on the acceptance and realizing things, it will take time but we will get better i believe on that, we will get better
I know I need this. I know my own worth and I won’t settle on the same level as him, he’s such a jerk. He cheated on me and lack of sex discipline. After he broke up with me for like 3 days? I guess he went out and hook up with some other girls out there💀 I laugh at that now instead of crying like mannnn I’m so lucky that I can get out of his life. Right now, it’s nearly 3 weeks but I’m doing really better than I was before. I love myself more, I spend time with myself to get to know me better and I’m truly believe that I can get over this within 1 month (I give limit to myself) Shout out to our Queens here, I know we can do it, We’re STRONG. Just give yourselves some time and love yourself the most. You guys can do it💖💖💖 Thank you so much Liz, it helps me a lot.
Yk what you're like a big sister to us. I needed to hear this today because I was so mentally drained and exhausted..thank you for that and I'm praying for you that you may get more success and happiness❤
I listened to this vid all the time while I prepared to take an exam and it turned out I could make it!! thank you lis so much without this vid I still doubting myself, can face any failure or be brave enough to out of my comfort zone. You really helped me.
i’m in a tough spot right now my me and my bf had an argument and i apologised because i understood i did something wrong (bear in mind he was messaging other girls on a dating app and i still forgave him) however when i said i loved him he did not acknowledge anything he just said gn and fell asleep like nothing i don’t know wether he’s going to break up with me but i’m ready and prepared after watching all these videos i am done trying to please someone who can’t even accept my apology even through everything he’s put me through. if he breaks up with me i will always come back to Liz to help. thank you liz ❤
thank you liz ♡ my bf broke up with me yesterday because he's going back to his home country. i really thought we were going to be together forever. we had everything planned out and he was my first love. to anyone else going through a breakup and battling mental health issues rn, im here with you and i support you we'll be ok ♡♡
I genuinely hope you feel better soon. I’m sorry for your break-up and I hope you find someone that will stay and support you. I’m also going through a break up right now. Thank you for your words
Hi i have been through kind of same thing. Its been a month we break up and he went back to his country immediately. So now i m better not crying everyday but still processing..
When you realize she went through this and suffered through this, thats why she was talking about this and thats the message if she can get over this so can you 💜💜💜💜💜
Yesterday he broke up with me after a relationship of 8 years , yes 8 years and I couldn't believe where I am, my whole world shattered. I was crying my eyes out all puffy and guess what I don't know how a video of yours came to me via Instagram and yes i watched you I felt powerful to overcome all these and just 3 hours ago I told him that I'm ready to move out of this relationship. It's hard , it's still hurting but I know it won't last I'll heal , I'll recover I know my worth. And it's a big thanks to you ❤️
i got dumped in january of this year and he never gave me a reason. we didn't talk until august, we both dated other people. i couldn't move on because i didn't have all the context. i got the context after he and i started talking again; then quickly stopped talking to him. now i know he's toxic and i'm over it. the person i dated after him was so perfect. i just wish i had gotten the closure i have now sooner.
Liz I really appreciate how genuine you are! This is exactly what I needed to hear.. thank you so much for ur time and energy🌸✨ sending you love back 🤍
I lost all motivation in life after chasing the love of life from 2020 - 2023 and then realizing it was worthless…. I lost myself and is hard to find the path again….. I fell in depression ever since well that’s how I feel… I’m low income and I have the worst insurance and get the lowest quality of mental health help… 😢 keep me in your prayers
4:55 so so so true. Anger pours. Personally, i was starting uni when i was broken up with. For some time i had to act like nothing happened in order to save my degree. I was so miserable, i was more depressed containing it all than when i was showing physically signs of depression on the past. I believe god gave me so much strenght, i have never considered myself as someone this strong. Yes, i was so very lonely, but god’s timing is so perfect and i can understand why i went through that. I send so much love your way, whoever reads this, i hope you become stronger.n
I agree Liz but I struggled w this one bc we have a child, it's so hard w a baby, when we planned a family to get over the loss especially bc I lost my business and have another child who's never had a father. So it's not about leaving me it's about being an absent parent
i've got 3 boyfriends in my love and the last one was the one i really fell in love, we were so good at the first 2 month he really loved me ( even if he didn't love me he really made me feel loved ) then after first 2 months he literally changed into another person that i can't even recognize him anymore, in december 2022 we broke up before the christmas and i felt so sad because he was so mean to me, i really wanted to change him, i really tried everything to change him but nothing worked, we had so much fights after we broke up then i blocked him from everywhere but i can't block him from my life because we live so close and the places we go are the same places mostly, i've wasted my univertisy exam year because i was so depressed, i even went to the therapy because of him but nothing happened, i saw the good person in him but then he literally started to bully everyone around him ( me, even his friends) now do i still feel sad? Yes, sometimes i feel so sad about what happened in the past because i was so fucking happy in those days but now i've got nothing but a broken heart Please don't try so hard for the people who doesn't even love you anymore
I am going through a tough heartbreak and i just want him back but I will be strong and I won‘t beg and I will do the best of my Life. I will so everything in my power to become the best version of myself. I will Update you. Please send me love or your experiences i need it❤️
@@emmaaaw55 I‘m doing so much better. And I am doing everything to become the Best version of myself. (I am going to the gym, I am taking care of myself also of my mental Health! I am spending quality time with the people I love and I study for my degree)
I LOVE YOU🩷 14 days tomorrow he left … I had been really busy with work at the end of the year and I guess he was feeling neglected. He had begun to act ugly and indifferent… there was probably nothing I could have said or done to make him stay , his mind was made up along time ago 😭 he had been talking to someone
I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!
do u have any tips? Wish I could get over it faster, im still dealing with so much resentment over what happened even if i dont miss them anymore@@smallypuppy22
@@lottalove5674 It means one day that the people that hurt you will be get Back into your life they come in front of you and at that time you will not anymore triggered by them, you are neutral
not ironically after my last heartbreak i joined the gym, started to study harder and put more effort at college, started doing skincare and eating healthier food everyday... i was a mess for a whole week, but after that week of crying and self pitty, i just started living my best live, living everything i deserve, owning my own future again❤️
that sounds amazing! It's been about 3-4 weeks for me and am still in the healing process. I've been trying to occupy my mind with things such as exams but at times when i got nothing to do, all I think about is him and it's pretty bad.
@@rosear4064 going thru the same thing luv. sometimes i put my values first and forget abt him but then the resentment hits and i start missing him again and i get so sad and nostalgic.
Her god is satan. Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14) th-cam.com/video/PpylUDKrHek/w-d-xo.html
Who tf cares if she is muslim or not. She is helping people. That's all what matter. Even a person without a religion can do the same thing. Don't give credit to the religion just because a good person is a believer.
"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.
when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂
no, bc sameee!! for me, I postponed feeling the heartbreak as much as I could. I was distracting myself with work. A year into ignoring it, I was on summer break and I was like you know what? I'm just going to feel it until I can't anymore. I cried for like 2-3 weeks and then forgot it. Fast forward like a year later I was like ohhh??? one day I literally woke up, didn't think about them, and just resumed life as normal.
@@Cc-dq1lq it's been 6 months for me 😩😣 and every week within those 6 months I swore I was done ☠️🤡 I HOPE TODAY IS THE LAST DAY SAYING IT AND I ACTUALLY DO IT CAUSE THIS BITCH GOT ME ALL THE WAY FUCKEDDD UPPP LOL
@@hahahahahahahahab REALLL ngl i stay listening to his fav songs and everything reminds me of him.. sometimes i even watch his fav show. kill me cuz im still so obsessed like he was so good and scrumptious come back pooksie .. this is why im not over his stinky ass
You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist. - Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.
Thank you! If you’re expressing your feelings with no sugarcoating or insults, it’s absolutely valid. People just don’t know how to deal with being confronted with the truth because they’re probably not mature enough to appreciate honesty.
@@MishoRaffaello I agree with you so much Viewers can sense when a TH-camr perceives their videos and their audience as a pure business opportunity and only gives when they can receive sth back, regardless of what their channel is about (be it vlogs, beauty, fitness, personal development, etc..) I think this is why most of us who watch one video of hers stick around for so long, we can sense the genuineness in her work. Her channel is a labor of love, and her content doesn't stem from a need for recognition but from the idea of sharing abundance
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
@@milanan.3171 Hello I pray the universe grant your heart desire. By making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedication though the powerful love manipulation of him. get his WhatsApp number on his last video, th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html. And restore your broken heart!!
@@slaaaaay2536 Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
❤️ Timestamps 1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened 4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply 6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself 7:37 - Practice shadow work 8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it 9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet 10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself 13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs 15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you 16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore 17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state 18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities 19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you 20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends 21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving 22:00 - Watch videos on TH-cam on healing heartbreak 23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak 23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love 24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance 25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation 26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror 26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit 29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened
for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody
what purpose did it serve tho? he treated me right the entire time we dated and one day just backed off because he convinced himself that he wasn't good enough for me because yk he's not good at studies and we live in a third world country where education is crucial to help us live comfortably. i try to look at every situation from a positive point of view but when it comes to the break up there's nothing good about it. I'm sorry for ranting.
@@albiorixan5111 You need to be with and deserves to be with someone that is 100% sure about you and the responsibility that comes with the relationship,you were saved and now there's space for someone better to come your way,someone that knows your worth and will work hard to provide that lifestyle that you deserve and both of you want If you and your ex stayed together he would possibly start arguments or fights in the future about financial related stuff and will blame the stress on you And if you two are truly meant to be you will meet again once he's financially stable enough and sure he can provide for you For now focus on yourself and love yourself,treat yourself the way you wish to be treated ❤ i hope you're healing
When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz
lol same i started crying when she said that bcuz my uncle used to smd when i was sleeping and shi made me sad for the rest of my life man i needed to hear that
I’ve been listening to Liz lately I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤ Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz
I’ve been going through some downs too.. And honestly, Liz is really helping me. It’s true, the best revenge is becoming your best self Let’s do our best together :) 💖
@@Laura-jj9lp i know right! I love how everyone is sharing there stories so comfortably on this comment section. And all the girlies are supporting their fellow Queens!!!
@@peepepepep3847 even guys are learning how to better themselves through Liz’s channel! It’s so amazing how she gives advice for everyone and everyone is comfortable with her
THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!
@@algiab.7296 YEAHHH dude i was the same! I thought that every video on yt, a situation in a book, a conversation with people who were hurt by toxic people would open my eyes. It probably would have happened, but I was very afraid to finally admit to myself that my partner really is, was and will be toxic. Before, I was afraid to finish this video because I was afraid that I would have to go through splitting up with him and heartbreak, but now that it happened yesterday, I have the courage and the desire to watch the whole thing.
Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨ 1. How did I evolve during this situation? 2. What needs of mine were failed to be met? 3. What could I have done better in this situation? 4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself? 5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation? 6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?
When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine
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@@mahimapatel8706 she helps us so much and I have managed to become a stronger person because of Liz , I’ve been doing better on protecting my energy and respecting myself more
I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!
@@Esathaq in my experience , being the youngest out of 9 siblings was and still is not good. none of my older siblings (except one) are mature and when they do something foolish , you're blamed and punished with them as well . i usually have to take accountability and the blame for a lot of things they do . when i start a fight with them , i'm punished . ok , seems fair . but when they start a fight with me , nothing happens . i honestly wish i didn't have any older siblings , but i guess the best thing about having them , to look on the positive side , is that i get to observe their mistakes and see to never do that in my life ! ... what a great perk .
@@chocalatecake9143 that’s just you I’m grateful for my older sisters and I will always be grateful that they are with me they helped me and guided me a lot I love them sm even if we fight they will always have a special place in my heart even my lil sis has a special place in my heart and I will help guide her too!😊
@@mika.8063 bro im albanian and from her attitude and place of living i don’t think she is. albanian don’t live in dubai. i suspect her to be muslim tho. i dont think she is balkan but thats rlly random you can’t rlly know plus her accent is more like an arab. idk she gives me kurdish vibes for some reason
"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️
I relate to this so much. What matters now is that you are doing better in the present moment. Even just watching this video is taking you to your highest potential.
Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️
I just had my breakup. I'm so broken right now... But i have faith in my god that he is with me each and every day in my upcoming journey of healing and growing... I'll come here when i completely heal my wounds. I love my self. I love my family. I'm here to experience good things too. I'll come back after healing. All the best to me
I wish you the best, I understand how hard it is and how low you must feel. This is just a thing everyone goes through and it will give them new perspectives on life and make them stronger. I know it sounds corny, but trust me you’ll thank your future self for going through this and becoming a newer version of yourself❤️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.
I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.
Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update. The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time. Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then. Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit. I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)
How are you now? I’m a month and 4 days in, I’m still sad, but I’m okay with the fact that they gone, we weren’t meant to be and that’s okay, still hurts, so how are you now?
@@Zuriii03 I'll give you an update once more :) I think it's been almost 5 months since the breakup. I've been believing every day that I'll eventually feel better, and it happened. I think after 2 months I actually got over it, and I'm genuinely doing great. I've built a pretty busy life for myself, made lots of new friends, and I am putting a lot of energy to my education. Occasionally, I still run into my ex since we share mutual friends and attend lectures on the same campus. But, encountering him doesn't stir any emotions.I don't feel sad or angry. I'm completely at peace with the situation, and I don't find myself thinking about or missing him at all. Keep going you're doing amazing. Stay focused on your goals and on what brings you happiness, and you'll reach where you want to be :)
@@mila4740 Im currently going through a breakup and its only the first day and I just want to thank you for sharing your story. It gave me alot of hope. Ive never had a really true breakup before like the one im currently processing so I'm a bit scared for how it'll be. I hope to be like you when I come out of my sadness. Thank you.
Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better
I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…
Rip I’ve been getting ads though? Like there was a Swarovski x viva shampoo advertise (idk if I spelled the shampoo brand right but defo involved v’s lol)
What is wrong with Ads? We just spend few secs to watch Ads but she might have spent hours to make video and edit she deserve money for her work, and sponsorship if they are genuine products or service then nothing wrong again.
stop pitying yourself!!! Everyone remember that our pain is the truth that force us to accept the reality, Take your struggles in your hands, became mad on this and change it all for yourself. BCAUSE YOU CAN
@@skzworlddomination6358 this sounds as an intention, I believe in you, go AND GET IT YOURSELF no one would do it for you, and gain more confidence even from the comments underneath Liz's videos
I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term. there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc... I think religion isn't a barrier for this At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve Love you Liz! God bless ♥️
I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.
My ex called me toxic cause I wanted his attention and said that I don’t give him freedom, telling me how often I asked him to meet me, he verbally abused me, he always showed his attitude, got angry very often, I am kinda childish so he always told me to be more mature, we broke up yesterday and he doesn’t even care, when I text him he replies with short responses, I just wanna move on now.
Liz, congrats to 1.3 millions subscribers! Your channel have grow so fast! Also, thank you for all the content videos you created for us. Much appreciated! ^^
The growth is amazingly fast, but that’s exactly what happens when you get likes and subscriber’s TH-cam literally pushes your videos out. It also helps that she looks like a super model❤
“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.
After reading this, i now have a favorite quote too. Thanks:)
Wow
it's a good way to deal with life basically the key way
Im putting this in my journal rn❤
Lovely!!!!!!
I started crying when she said “you will find love again” 🥺Liz u have no clue how much your videos help me heal, and help me hope.
Hey,i might be a random person on yt, but listen i used to victimize myself, that maybe I'm the problem, that i should Better stay away from love as it breaks me . But after watching this video , my mindset changed- like-
Hey my mindset is not the world. There is so much to it.
Let's heal together and have hopes .
🦋🦋
I just got broken up with last night. Your words are helping me through this. Thank you Liz.
it's been two weeks. girl get your big girl pants on he is worth NOTHING or she u are a queen
Always remember, there is someone better coming to u so pick yourself up cus that bitch does not deserve ur time anymore
same.. stay strong
How are you ...?
More strength to you
I feel like my heart been ripped out my chest and I’m literally about to die…This hurts so bad
Thanks Liz
All will be alright ❤
will get better, day 4 of out break up im on the accepting stage, realizing and still crying but not that much than the day 1
I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.
Thank u im doing this rn
Ive been doing this since I was a little girl. I write letters for when I'm sad, angry, jealous... As if I am writing to my best friend. It helps me stay mindful of my reactions and become my own bestie. Highly recommend
stupid question but she said to burn the letter after writing it, do we also burn the ones that we write to ourselves??
Im literally crying in heartbreak as i saw this video come online. So ya... and started listening to it. Pray for me everyone...and thank u liz..
It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you
liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.
That would literally be amazing!!!😊
oh my god i love you so much. i just went though a very tough breakup, and you have literally changed my whole perspective with this one video. such great timing. thank you so much. you are amazing and inspiring. ❤
i appreciate how blunt and straightforward you are it’s much needed and you’re not mean at all ♥️
i found your channel five days ago after i had made a huge mistake and lost half of my friends. and honestly my mentality has changed SO MUCH. ur stuff ab manifestation, gratitiude, and talking to the universe/God has really helped so much and people say that i give off a different vibe now in just a bit of time. thank youuu sm for everything liz, this video is something i really needed and God bless you.
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
I love the fact that you put on legends bc it makes the brain pay full attention to what you're saying therefore fixating on it. Thank you for sharing all of your beautiful perspectives with us. You showed me that boundaries are not a mean thing, but a necessary one to evolve and have the thing I have for others: RESPECT.
Just one week ago I ended the toxic friendship (boy best friend)the bond of 4 years. I felt unwanted, unworthy, unloved. Before ending the bond I tried everything to make better but nothing works, so I came to that decision. I thought this friendship will last forever but....Ended !
It's better to be alone rather than being in toxic friendship.
Slowly, I'm accepting the reality and liz videos are helping me out 💙🌸🤝
shes literally changing my life to the better thank u very much liz thanks to u i had the courage to survive from a toxic relationship and set boundaries
thankyou so much liz. youve healed parts of me, thankyou so much for being there.
Thank you liz for sharing your own experience, ive recently been going through alot and when you said "crying lets your emotions out" i realised, that crying doesn't make you weak, instead it helps you become a stronger person.
this women is perfection ✨. Love your videos Liz you’re amazing 💕
Needed this cause I’m going through heartbreak and I feel like a failure
It’s oki you got this one day u will look back n feel so happi cuz u got over it things get better trust me it does
we will be okay, same as you im on day 4 of break up still hurts but im on the acceptance and realizing things, it will take time but we will get better i believe on that, we will get better
@@Kate-oz7uv a year later and I’m so confused as to what I was going through. Girll, you’d definitely get better.💕
I know I need this. I know my own worth and I won’t settle on the same level as him, he’s such a jerk. He cheated on me and lack of sex discipline. After he broke up with me for like 3 days? I guess he went out and hook up with some other girls out there💀 I laugh at that now instead of crying like mannnn I’m so lucky that I can get out of his life. Right now, it’s nearly 3 weeks but I’m doing really better than I was before. I love myself more, I spend time with myself to get to know me better and I’m truly believe that I can get over this within 1 month (I give limit to myself)
Shout out to our Queens here, I know we can do it, We’re STRONG. Just give yourselves some time and love yourself the most. You guys can do it💖💖💖
Thank you so much Liz, it helps me a lot.
Yk what you're like a big sister to us. I needed to hear this today because I was so mentally drained and exhausted..thank you for that and I'm praying for you that you may get more success and happiness❤
How did the video feel like it was only 5 minutes long 😭 So good and I was so absorbed into the conversation ❤ Keep it up queen
The comments bring me comfort…
She just saved my lifeee
I listened to this vid all the time while I prepared to take an exam and it turned out I could make it!! thank you lis so much without this vid I still doubting myself, can face any failure or be brave enough to out of my comfort zone. You really helped me.
i’m in a tough spot right now my me and my bf had an argument and i apologised because i understood i did something wrong (bear in mind he was messaging other girls on a dating app and i still forgave him) however when i said i loved him he did not acknowledge anything he just said gn and fell asleep like nothing i don’t know wether he’s going to break up with me but i’m ready and prepared after watching all these videos i am done trying to please someone who can’t even accept my apology even through everything he’s put me through. if he breaks up with me i will always come back to Liz to help. thank you liz ❤
You should break up with him
He's a player
thank you liz ♡ my bf broke up with me yesterday because he's going back to his home country. i really thought we were going to be together forever. we had everything planned out and he was my first love. to anyone else going through a breakup and battling mental health issues rn, im here with you and i support you
we'll be ok ♡♡
I genuinely hope you feel better soon. I’m sorry for your break-up and I hope you find someone that will stay and support you. I’m also going through a break up right now. Thank you for your words
@@carolpaniagua9152 thank u so much girl ❤ I'm wishing you all the best. we'll get thru this together xx
Hi i have been through kind of same thing. Its been a month we break up and he went back to his country immediately. So now i m better not crying everyday but still processing..
This is One of the Best Videos on TH-cam.
I am your Super Fan Liz. Thank you very much
and Thank God I found You!
When you realize she went through this and suffered through this, thats why she was talking about this and thats the message if she can get over this so can you 💜💜💜💜💜
Yesterday he broke up with me after a relationship of 8 years , yes 8 years and I couldn't believe where I am, my whole world shattered. I was crying my eyes out all puffy and guess what I don't know how a video of yours came to me via Instagram and yes i watched you I felt powerful to overcome all these and just 3 hours ago I told him that I'm ready to move out of this relationship. It's hard , it's still hurting but I know it won't last I'll heal , I'll recover I know my worth. And it's a big thanks to you ❤️
❤❤how are you now ?
I am going through a breakup rn
this is literally free therapy
Yo, you are wise as hell. Super cool chick. Thank you
No need to ask a narcissist why...Everything is quite clear now!
i got dumped in january of this year and he never gave me a reason. we didn't talk until august, we both dated other people. i couldn't move on because i didn't have all the context. i got the context after he and i started talking again; then quickly stopped talking to him. now i know he's toxic and i'm over it. the person i dated after him was so perfect. i just wish i had gotten the closure i have now sooner.
Liz I really appreciate how genuine you are! This is exactly what I needed to hear.. thank you so much for ur time and energy🌸✨ sending you love back 🤍
I cried to this thank you for everything love you Liz
you are an angel on earth. ❤
you're the only one holding me right now, thanks liz. I'll never forget this.❤
Thank you so much, you're really save a lot of people, and we are really grateful for you
I lost all motivation in life after chasing the love of life from 2020 - 2023 and then realizing it was worthless…. I lost myself and is hard to find the path again….. I fell in depression ever since well that’s how I feel… I’m low income and I have the worst insurance and get the lowest quality of mental health help… 😢 keep me in your prayers
Sending you all the love back liz. Thanks for being yourself. Love you
i remember a saying : " I've never see a successful person without an easy past"
Life is a test and that is what I believe because of Islam aswell tyy I luv ur vids smmmmmm ❤
4:55 so so so true. Anger pours. Personally, i was starting uni when i was broken up with. For some time i had to act like nothing happened in order to save my degree. I was so miserable, i was more depressed containing it all than when i was showing physically signs of depression on the past. I believe god gave me so much strenght, i have never considered myself as someone this strong. Yes, i was so very lonely, but god’s timing is so perfect and i can understand why i went through that. I send so much love your way, whoever reads this, i hope you become stronger.n
Just saw your video with your sister, I love that you are recording on iPhone, that is why we have it, to use it! Love all your videos.
Yes, Life is a test by Allah🥀
I needed this today. Thank you.
I agree Liz but I struggled w this one bc we have a child, it's so hard w a baby, when we planned a family to get over the loss especially bc I lost my business and have another child who's never had a father. So it's not about leaving me it's about being an absent parent
i've got 3 boyfriends in my love and the last one was the one i really fell in love, we were so good at the first 2 month he really loved me ( even if he didn't love me he really made me feel loved ) then after first 2 months he literally changed into another person that i can't even recognize him anymore, in december 2022 we broke up before the christmas and i felt so sad because he was so mean to me, i really wanted to change him, i really tried everything to change him but nothing worked, we had so much fights after we broke up then i blocked him from everywhere but i can't block him from my life because we live so close and the places we go are the same places mostly, i've wasted my univertisy exam year because i was so depressed, i even went to the therapy because of him but nothing happened, i saw the good person in him but then he literally started to bully everyone around him ( me, even his friends) now do i still feel sad? Yes, sometimes i feel so sad about what happened in the past because i was so fucking happy in those days but now i've got nothing but a broken heart
Please don't try so hard for the people who doesn't even love you anymore
i now get why she has got all the fame she has. Thank you Liz
thank you so much for this video i really need this right now, day 4 of our break up
"But I god was not giving these things to me, because I was meant for something bigger".
Honestly i think your really sweet your videos helped me so much tysm for the adivce liz your a life saver
I am going through a tough heartbreak and i just want him back but I will be strong and I won‘t beg and I will do the best of my Life. I will so everything in my power to become the best version of myself. I will Update you. Please send me love or your experiences i need it❤️
How are you now?
@@emmaaaw55 I‘m doing so much better. And I am doing everything to become the Best version of myself. (I am going to the gym, I am taking care of myself also of my mental Health! I am spending quality time with the people I love and I study for my degree)
All i can say is thank you so much.
Sometimes she argues like a Muslim, may Allah show her the right path❤
me in a healthy calm relationship: watching just cause i love to hear her talk and her advice LOL
Thank you Liz... grateful to have you❤
God’s grace is always with you.
I LOVE YOU🩷 14 days tomorrow he left … I had been really busy with work at the end of the year and I guess he was feeling neglected. He had begun to act ugly and indifferent… there was probably nothing I could have said or done to make him stay , his mind was made up along time ago 😭 he had been talking to someone
you make me feel better liz thankyousm!🤍
I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that
Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!
That was so nice of you to say, thank you
🙌🏾
Yes! One month since we broke up and I feel so much calmer and at peace
do u have any tips? Wish I could get over it faster, im still dealing with so much resentment over what happened even if i dont miss them anymore@@smallypuppy22
Liz is awesome!
“god will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you” ❤
can you explain what this means? ❤ im not sure if i understand it…
@@lottalove5674 It means one day that the people that hurt you will be get Back into your life they come in front of you and at that time you will not anymore triggered by them, you are neutral
@@happyannie1498 thank you for explaining
This is what I want to witness for myself
@@moreadventure3627 same
not ironically after my last heartbreak i joined the gym, started to study harder and put more effort at college, started doing skincare and eating healthier food everyday... i was a mess for a whole week, but after that week of crying and self pitty, i just started living my best live, living everything i deserve, owning my own future again❤️
Proud of you ❤️❤️
that sounds amazing! It's been about 3-4 weeks for me and am still in the healing process. I've been trying to occupy my mind with things such as exams but at times when i got nothing to do, all I think about is him and it's pretty bad.
You know what's funny? When I'm in a relationship I take my skincare, studying, and humming seriously so I changed nothing since breaking up
Gymming*
@@rosear4064 going thru the same thing luv. sometimes i put my values first and forget abt him but then the resentment hits and i start missing him again and i get so sad and nostalgic.
"God will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you" wow thats beautiful. God bless you liz!
she's muslim btw
Her god is satan.
Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14)
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oooo she is muslim????
@@xelliex2151 wow, I'm happy that she is Muslim, because I am too
Who tf cares if she is muslim or not. She is helping people. That's all what matter. Even a person without a religion can do the same thing. Don't give credit to the religion just because a good person is a believer.
"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.
Hi
Yes sis! This! 💓🙌🤩 th-cam.com/video/LNBPBKOE0E0/w-d-xo.html
Amen to that!! 🙏💞👑
PERIODDDTTTTTT thank you for that comment!!!!
Action speaks words don’t
"Let go of the things you want, to get what you deserves" that's the affirmation I'm doing
when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂
Mine was 3 years and than 2 years after he passed away and I said that’s enough.
no, bc sameee!! for me, I postponed feeling the heartbreak as much as I could. I was distracting myself with work. A year into ignoring it, I was on summer break and I was like you know what? I'm just going to feel it until I can't anymore. I cried for like 2-3 weeks and then forgot it. Fast forward like a year later I was like ohhh??? one day I literally woke up, didn't think about them, and just resumed life as normal.
its been 4 months LMFAO still crying
@@Cc-dq1lq it's been 6 months for me 😩😣 and every week within those 6 months I swore I was done ☠️🤡 I HOPE TODAY IS THE LAST DAY SAYING IT AND I ACTUALLY DO IT CAUSE THIS BITCH GOT ME ALL THE WAY FUCKEDDD UPPP LOL
@@hahahahahahahahab REALLL ngl i stay listening to his fav songs and everything reminds me of him.. sometimes i even watch his fav show. kill me cuz im still so obsessed like he was so good and scrumptious come back pooksie .. this is why im not over his stinky ass
You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist.
- Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.
exactly.
Thank you! If you’re expressing your feelings with no sugarcoating or insults, it’s absolutely valid. People just don’t know how to deal with being confronted with the truth because they’re probably not mature enough to appreciate honesty.
Exactly! Some man on yt could have the same delivery style and be praised for it ...
@@MishoRaffaello I agree with you so much
Viewers can sense when a TH-camr perceives their videos and their audience as a pure business opportunity and only gives when they can receive sth back, regardless of what their channel is about (be it vlogs, beauty, fitness, personal development, etc..)
I think this is why most of us who watch one video of hers stick around for so long, we can sense the genuineness in her work.
Her channel is a labor of love, and her content doesn't stem from a need for recognition but from the idea of sharing abundance
@@sarah-samir ولا
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
So beautifully said, thank you for your words!
@@milanan.3171 Hello I pray the universe grant your heart desire. By making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedication though the powerful love manipulation of him. get his WhatsApp number on his last video, th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html. And restore your broken heart!!
I partly agree with this, in terms of ‘people’ I don’t think you always attract people who are exactly like yourself…
@@slaaaaay2536 Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
“was she really the right person or did you make her the right person?” wow
❤️ Timestamps
1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened
4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply
6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself
7:37 - Practice shadow work
8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it
9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet
10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself
13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs
15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you
16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore
17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state
18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities
19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you
20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends
21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving
22:00 - Watch videos on TH-cam on healing heartbreak
23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak
23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love
24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance
25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation
26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror
26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit
29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened
Thank you so very much!!
Thank you Mafer!
thank you so much! i really appreciate it 🤍
9:58 is toxic as fuck
People who do this in comment sections deserve a life term full of happiness
for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody
In my case.. He told me that he dont wanna hurt me... And thats the reason for leaving!! But i dont understand what to say or what to do...
I needed to hear this, thank you ❤
what purpose did it serve tho? he treated me right the entire time we dated and one day just backed off because he convinced himself that he wasn't good enough for me because yk he's not good at studies and we live in a third world country where education is crucial to help us live comfortably. i try to look at every situation from a positive point of view but when it comes to the break up there's nothing good about it. I'm sorry for ranting.
Thank you. I needed to hear this
@@albiorixan5111 You need to be with and deserves to be with someone that is 100% sure about you and the responsibility that comes with the relationship,you were saved and now there's space for someone better to come your way,someone that knows your worth and will work hard to provide that lifestyle that you deserve and both of you want
If you and your ex stayed together he would possibly start arguments or fights in the future about financial related stuff and will blame the stress on you
And if you two are truly meant to be you will meet again once he's financially stable enough and sure he can provide for you
For now focus on yourself and love yourself,treat yourself the way you wish to be treated ❤ i hope you're healing
When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz
I send you lots of love and hope 🌺🌺💓💓♥️✨
I cried at this moment! I needed to hear that
Same
lol same i started crying when she said that bcuz my uncle used to smd when i was sleeping and shi made me sad for the rest of my life man i needed to hear that
same!
I’ve been listening to Liz lately
I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤
Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz
I’ve been going through some downs too.. And honestly, Liz is really helping me. It’s true, the best revenge is becoming your best self
Let’s do our best together :) 💖
@@Cara.s1place i just love how her channel is like a safe space for us to be the best version of ourselves :)
@@Laura-jj9lp i know right! I love how everyone is sharing there stories so comfortably on this comment section. And all the girlies are supporting their fellow Queens!!!
@@peepepepep3847 even guys are learning how to better themselves through Liz’s channel! It’s so amazing how she gives advice for everyone and everyone is comfortable with her
@@Laura-jj9lp yes thats so nice. I wonder how much pressure does Liz 's boyfriend have to be a perfect boyfriend 😆
THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!
honestly, i've watched this video before, but now that i had a heartbreak, watching this video again hits different..
Same, I did not even finish watching it last time because I'm scared that I'll manifest it. But I'm here and actually trying to heal now.😊
Same, I watched it before but I didn’t need too. Now I need it💔after so much effort nd love I put. It’s painful
@@algiab.7296 YEAHHH dude i was the same! I thought that every video on yt, a situation in a book, a conversation with people who were hurt by toxic people would open my eyes. It probably would have happened, but I was very afraid to finally admit to myself that my partner really is, was and will be toxic. Before, I was afraid to finish this video because I was afraid that I would have to go through splitting up with him and heartbreak, but now that it happened yesterday, I have the courage and the desire to watch the whole thing.
Same
Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨
1. How did I evolve during this situation?
2. What needs of mine were failed to be met?
3. What could I have done better in this situation?
4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself?
5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation?
6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?
Thank you
tyy
Thank you, i needed it ❤
thanks bb
Thanks, I really needed it!
When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine
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Wtf🤣
same :( i paused the video to just cry because i was crying so much
@@mahimapatel8706 she helps us so much and I have managed to become a stronger person because of Liz , I’ve been doing better on protecting my energy and respecting myself more
god bless you. you'll be fine
I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!
Trust me ur life is better without a elder sister
@@chocalatecake9143 can I know why I don’t have one either but just curious why it’s better without?
@@Esathaq in my experience , being the youngest out of 9 siblings was and still is not good. none of my older siblings (except one) are mature and when they do something foolish , you're blamed and punished with them as well . i usually have to take accountability and the blame for a lot of things they do . when i start a fight with them , i'm punished . ok , seems fair . but when they start a fight with me , nothing happens . i honestly wish i didn't have any older siblings , but i guess the best thing about having them , to look on the positive side , is that i get to observe their mistakes and see to never do that in my life ! ... what a great perk .
Happy to hear you don't feel alone anymore! If the Internet is good for one thing it's connecting and sharing like this 💖
@@chocalatecake9143 that’s just you I’m grateful for my older sisters and I will always be grateful that they are with me they helped me and guided me a lot I love them sm even if we fight they will always have a special place in my heart even my lil sis has a special place in my heart and I will help guide her too!😊
I love how Liz always resonates and addresses the thoughts we have in our heads.
is liz from the UK?
@@NordwinterMihlberger from her house setting it seems that she lives in the US
@@NordwinterMihlberger is it some kind of joke because her name is brit
@@linaasia8674 no she lives in dubai, but nationality wise i think shes albanian
@@mika.8063 bro im albanian and from her attitude and place of living i don’t think she is. albanian don’t live in dubai. i suspect her to be muslim tho. i dont think she is balkan but thats rlly random you can’t rlly know plus her accent is more like an arab. idk she gives me kurdish vibes for some reason
"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️
I relate to this so much. What matters now is that you are doing better in the present moment. Even just watching this video is taking you to your highest potential.
same 😪
Same here jobless for 4 years and dealing with depression gonna be successful one day 🙂
@@HamzaAli55659 Salam from another world
Depression happens
Known one thing your time will come
You will be happy and in peace
One dayyyy
same ❤
omgggg crying my eyes out over the quote "god will put you back together again in front of the people that broke you."
Same 🥺
Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️
Girls what do you think about starting a discord channel to encourage and communicate between us? Share our improvements, goals
@@youngwolf1009 sign me up
@@youngwolf1009 me too pls we need it
@@youngwolf1009 would love this🥺❤️
@@youngwolf1009 I'd love to.
I just had my breakup. I'm so broken right now... But i have faith in my god that he is with me each and every day in my upcoming journey of healing and growing... I'll come here when i completely heal my wounds. I love my self. I love my family. I'm here to experience good things too. I'll come back after healing. All the best to me
I wish you the best, I understand how hard it is and how low you must feel. This is just a thing everyone goes through and it will give them new perspectives on life and make them stronger. I know it sounds corny, but trust me you’ll thank your future self for going through this and becoming a newer version of yourself❤️
NGL I literally teared up when she said " you are strong"
Saaaaaame 😭
same lol.
samee when she said you picked yourself before now also you can
sameeee
Same
You changed my life to the better and I am so thankful for this❤️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
He is Fatherabulu has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.
More power love nd strength to u sis!!
aw im happy for you !!
Thank you so much
Proud of you
Did they ever try coming back? And if so how did you respond?
I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.
So true. So much learning and growth.
Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update.
The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time.
Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then.
Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit.
I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)
Proud of you💗
How are you now? I’m a month and 4 days in, I’m still sad, but I’m okay with the fact that they gone, we weren’t meant to be and that’s okay, still hurts, so how are you now?
@@Zuriii03 I'll give you an update once more :) I think it's been almost 5 months since the breakup. I've been believing every day that I'll eventually feel better, and it happened. I think after 2 months I actually got over it, and I'm genuinely doing great. I've built a pretty busy life for myself, made lots of new friends, and I am putting a lot of energy to my education. Occasionally, I still run into my ex since we share mutual friends and attend lectures on the same campus. But, encountering him doesn't stir any emotions.I don't feel sad or angry. I'm completely at peace with the situation, and I don't find myself thinking about or missing him at all. Keep going you're doing amazing. Stay focused on your goals and on what brings you happiness, and you'll reach where you want to be :)
Did you find that no contact was the best option?
@@mila4740 Im currently going through a breakup and its only the first day and I just want to thank you for sharing your story. It gave me alot of hope. Ive never had a really true breakup before like the one im currently processing so I'm a bit scared for how it'll be. I hope to be like you when I come out of my sadness. Thank you.
Liz has become our therapist at this point! Thank you for all the videos.
Literally
Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better
Congratulations on your journey and healing! ❤
So glad for you ❤
Oh yess baby God bless you sis Jesus loves you and he will forever be with you ❤
❤❤
I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…
Rip I’ve been getting ads though? Like there was a Swarovski x viva shampoo advertise (idk if I spelled the shampoo brand right but defo involved v’s lol)
I just had 2 ads but idc the advice is golden and she deserves every penny of that ad sense dough
What is wrong with Ads? We just spend few secs to watch Ads but she might have spent hours to make video and edit she deserve money for her work, and sponsorship if they are genuine products or service then nothing wrong again.
if she wanted to she could, let her get her bag🎉
@@Big_Impact_Historics sometimes TH-cam automatically places ads on videos even if the creators doesn’t put them.
“So many people are afraid that you will get to know your power.” 👏🏽🗣️👑 I’m so happy I found you on this platform Liz! Keep up the powerful work! 🫶🏽
stop pitying yourself!!! Everyone remember that our pain is the truth that force us to accept the reality, Take your struggles in your hands, became mad on this and change it all for yourself. BCAUSE YOU CAN
🙌🙏 I’m so hyped with those energies rn, wanna send this to everyone around me
god I'm so tired of myself tbh, I'm so ready to step into this rage I want it now I just need it
@@skzworlddomination6358 this sounds as an intention, I believe in you, go AND GET IT YOURSELF no one would do it for you, and gain more confidence even from the comments underneath Liz's videos
I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term.
there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc...
I think religion isn't a barrier for this
At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve
Love you Liz! God bless ♥️
If you do t mind me asking how do you know she’s muslim
She mentioned in one of her videos
She does brings her religion into it just uses universal term :) which is very considerate
@@THEE_JOYBOY she mentioned multiple times in videos,tt and ig
@@fangirlinneverland6335 'UNIVERSAL' you got me, that's what I said
Have a good one! ✨
She actually became a helping hand for me to become a better version of myself 💗lots of love ❤
@Not gonna lie no don’t watch this is a clickbait y’all
I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.
I can absolutely relate to you right now, the same thing is happening to me. I’m here with you!
us, going through the same thing.
My ex called me toxic cause I wanted his attention and said that I don’t give him freedom, telling me how often I asked him to meet me, he verbally abused me, he always showed his attitude, got angry very often, I am kinda childish so he always told me to be more mature, we broke up yesterday and he doesn’t even care, when I text him he replies with short responses, I just wanna move on now.
she really is the older sister that everyone needs, a truly gift from the universe
Liz, congrats to 1.3 millions subscribers! Your channel have grow so fast! Also, thank you for all the content videos you created for us. Much appreciated! ^^
Yes it was fast
Now she has 1.42 millions lmao she manifested success
The growth is amazingly fast, but that’s exactly what happens when you get likes and subscriber’s TH-cam literally pushes your videos out. It also helps that she looks like a super model❤