“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.
@@lottalove5674 It means one day that the people that hurt you will be get Back into your life they come in front of you and at that time you will not anymore triggered by them, you are neutral
Her god is satan. Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14) th-cam.com/video/PpylUDKrHek/w-d-xo.html
Who tf cares if she is muslim or not. She is helping people. That's all what matter. Even a person without a religion can do the same thing. Don't give credit to the religion just because a good person is a believer.
when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂
no, bc sameee!! for me, I postponed feeling the heartbreak as much as I could. I was distracting myself with work. A year into ignoring it, I was on summer break and I was like you know what? I'm just going to feel it until I can't anymore. I cried for like 2-3 weeks and then forgot it. Fast forward like a year later I was like ohhh??? one day I literally woke up, didn't think about them, and just resumed life as normal.
@@Cc-dq1lq it's been 6 months for me 😩😣 and every week within those 6 months I swore I was done ☠️🤡 I HOPE TODAY IS THE LAST DAY SAYING IT AND I ACTUALLY DO IT CAUSE THIS BITCH GOT ME ALL THE WAY FUCKEDDD UPPP LOL
@@hahahahahahahahab REALLL ngl i stay listening to his fav songs and everything reminds me of him.. sometimes i even watch his fav show. kill me cuz im still so obsessed like he was so good and scrumptious come back pooksie .. this is why im not over his stinky ass
"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.
When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz
lol same i started crying when she said that bcuz my uncle used to smd when i was sleeping and shi made me sad for the rest of my life man i needed to hear that
for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody
what purpose did it serve tho? he treated me right the entire time we dated and one day just backed off because he convinced himself that he wasn't good enough for me because yk he's not good at studies and we live in a third world country where education is crucial to help us live comfortably. i try to look at every situation from a positive point of view but when it comes to the break up there's nothing good about it. I'm sorry for ranting.
@@albiorixan5111 You need to be with and deserves to be with someone that is 100% sure about you and the responsibility that comes with the relationship,you were saved and now there's space for someone better to come your way,someone that knows your worth and will work hard to provide that lifestyle that you deserve and both of you want If you and your ex stayed together he would possibly start arguments or fights in the future about financial related stuff and will blame the stress on you And if you two are truly meant to be you will meet again once he's financially stable enough and sure he can provide for you For now focus on yourself and love yourself,treat yourself the way you wish to be treated ❤ i hope you're healing
I had about 34 jobs in my life and I’m in my late thirties. I now had latest job over 2 years, and make decent money part time, low stress, debt free and successful. I could be making a little more money at least and plan to later. I am a walking, talking failure. But I still made it. Most of my family (not all) still think I’m a deadbeat bum loser. Everyday I’m getting closer to owning my place though. And my few friends believe in me.
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
@@milanan.3171 Hello I pray the universe grant your heart desire. By making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedication though the powerful love manipulation of him. get his WhatsApp number on his last video, th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html. And restore your broken heart!!
@@slaaaaay2536 Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!
do u have any tips? Wish I could get over it faster, im still dealing with so much resentment over what happened even if i dont miss them anymore@@smallypuppy22
You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist. - Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.
Thank you! If you’re expressing your feelings with no sugarcoating or insults, it’s absolutely valid. People just don’t know how to deal with being confronted with the truth because they’re probably not mature enough to appreciate honesty.
@@MishoRaffaello I agree with you so much Viewers can sense when a TH-camr perceives their videos and their audience as a pure business opportunity and only gives when they can receive sth back, regardless of what their channel is about (be it vlogs, beauty, fitness, personal development, etc..) I think this is why most of us who watch one video of hers stick around for so long, we can sense the genuineness in her work. Her channel is a labor of love, and her content doesn't stem from a need for recognition but from the idea of sharing abundance
I just had my breakup. I'm so broken right now... But i have faith in my god that he is with me each and every day in my upcoming journey of healing and growing... I'll come here when i completely heal my wounds. I love my self. I love my family. I'm here to experience good things too. I'll come back after healing. All the best to me
I wish you the best, I understand how hard it is and how low you must feel. This is just a thing everyone goes through and it will give them new perspectives on life and make them stronger. I know it sounds corny, but trust me you’ll thank your future self for going through this and becoming a newer version of yourself❤️
@@algiab.7296 YEAHHH dude i was the same! I thought that every video on yt, a situation in a book, a conversation with people who were hurt by toxic people would open my eyes. It probably would have happened, but I was very afraid to finally admit to myself that my partner really is, was and will be toxic. Before, I was afraid to finish this video because I was afraid that I would have to go through splitting up with him and heartbreak, but now that it happened yesterday, I have the courage and the desire to watch the whole thing.
THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!
When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine
@@mahimapatel8706 she helps us so much and I have managed to become a stronger person because of Liz , I’ve been doing better on protecting my energy and respecting myself more
Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update. The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time. Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then. Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit. I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)
How are you now? I’m a month and 4 days in, I’m still sad, but I’m okay with the fact that they gone, we weren’t meant to be and that’s okay, still hurts, so how are you now?
@@Zuriii03 I'll give you an update once more :) I think it's been almost 5 months since the breakup. I've been believing every day that I'll eventually feel better, and it happened. I think after 2 months I actually got over it, and I'm genuinely doing great. I've built a pretty busy life for myself, made lots of new friends, and I am putting a lot of energy to my education. Occasionally, I still run into my ex since we share mutual friends and attend lectures on the same campus. But, encountering him doesn't stir any emotions.I don't feel sad or angry. I'm completely at peace with the situation, and I don't find myself thinking about or missing him at all. Keep going you're doing amazing. Stay focused on your goals and on what brings you happiness, and you'll reach where you want to be :)
@@mila4740 Im currently going through a breakup and its only the first day and I just want to thank you for sharing your story. It gave me alot of hope. Ive never had a really true breakup before like the one im currently processing so I'm a bit scared for how it'll be. I hope to be like you when I come out of my sadness. Thank you.
❤️ Timestamps 1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened 4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply 6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself 7:37 - Practice shadow work 8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it 9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet 10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself 13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs 15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you 16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore 17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state 18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities 19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you 20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends 21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving 22:00 - Watch videos on TH-cam on healing heartbreak 23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak 23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love 24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance 25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation 26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror 26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit 29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened
@@mika.8063 bro im albanian and from her attitude and place of living i don’t think she is. albanian don’t live in dubai. i suspect her to be muslim tho. i dont think she is balkan but thats rlly random you can’t rlly know plus her accent is more like an arab. idk she gives me kurdish vibes for some reason
"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️
I relate to this so much. What matters now is that you are doing better in the present moment. Even just watching this video is taking you to your highest potential.
Hey,i might be a random person on yt, but listen i used to victimize myself, that maybe I'm the problem, that i should Better stay away from love as it breaks me . But after watching this video , my mindset changed- like- Hey my mindset is not the world. There is so much to it. Let's heal together and have hopes . 🦋🦋
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!
@@Esathaq in my experience , being the youngest out of 9 siblings was and still is not good. none of my older siblings (except one) are mature and when they do something foolish , you're blamed and punished with them as well . i usually have to take accountability and the blame for a lot of things they do . when i start a fight with them , i'm punished . ok , seems fair . but when they start a fight with me , nothing happens . i honestly wish i didn't have any older siblings , but i guess the best thing about having them , to look on the positive side , is that i get to observe their mistakes and see to never do that in my life ! ... what a great perk .
@@chocalatecake9143 that’s just you I’m grateful for my older sisters and I will always be grateful that they are with me they helped me and guided me a lot I love them sm even if we fight they will always have a special place in my heart even my lil sis has a special place in my heart and I will help guide her too!😊
I’ve been listening to Liz lately I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤ Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz
I’ve been going through some downs too.. And honestly, Liz is really helping me. It’s true, the best revenge is becoming your best self Let’s do our best together :) 💖
@@Laura-jj9lp i know right! I love how everyone is sharing there stories so comfortably on this comment section. And all the girlies are supporting their fellow Queens!!!
@@peepepepep3847 even guys are learning how to better themselves through Liz’s channel! It’s so amazing how she gives advice for everyone and everyone is comfortable with her
Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better
Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨ 1. How did I evolve during this situation? 2. What needs of mine were failed to be met? 3. What could I have done better in this situation? 4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself? 5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation? 6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?
Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️
I'm 15 years old and for these past few days I have been feeling lost and have no will to do anything. I have listened to all your videos and everyday I woke up I still try to implement what the highest version of myself will do. You have helped so much. May God continue to bless you with unimaginable blessings. ❤
Hello. Glad you are applying all the things she said. I am a certified relationship coach who help people to take out the best version out and helping to get into healthy relationships. Would you like to have a small session free of cost?
I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.
I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.
I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.
Ive been doing this since I was a little girl. I write letters for when I'm sad, angry, jealous... As if I am writing to my best friend. It helps me stay mindful of my reactions and become my own bestie. Highly recommend
This video genuinely changed my life. My gf and I broke up amicably a few days ago and I was absolutely shattered. This video was EXACTLY what I needed to get out of my slump
I am on month 4 post heartbreak, and still depressed. BUT, in these 4 months I also became sober and leveled up. My life has improved, I guess now I am grieving. Your videos are very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻
i've been getting more and more into your videos. your point at the 31:30 mark saying "atleast you realized, atleast you are trying to change now" is so real. so glad i found your tiktok. you're a blessing liz
I never understood it, all the years of suffering. All I was thinking was, "Why me?". I remember crying on the floor years ago thinking if God exists then he doesn't love me. Now I understand, that my suffering was a blessing in disguise. It truly made me understand that it needed to happen, to elevate me into a person that I never thought was possible. I still continue to grow and the self love continues to pour out. The more I love myself, the more I love others. It's truly amazing. Whether you believe in God, the higher self or the universe, what Liz says is true. Life is a game and a test for you to reach into the highest loving person you could be. Meditation truly is key ❤ Thank you Liz ❤ More blessings to you and your family 🙏
Going thru breakup currently.. It hurts soooooo badddddd i swear it hurts.. Typing this with tears in my eyes...but i hope i won't need this video one day in my life and i will come here to remind myself how i get out of this and will see this comment of mine and will realise how far I've come.. INSHALLAH!!!!
@@soniya503 hey!! Yea i am doing great, ive changed, the pain is gone and i no longer experience stupid love i just turn of my emotions towards this thing i am at peace now Allhumdulilah.. Thankyou for asking
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.
My ex called me toxic cause I wanted his attention and said that I don’t give him freedom, telling me how often I asked him to meet me, he verbally abused me, he always showed his attitude, got angry very often, I am kinda childish so he always told me to be more mature, we broke up yesterday and he doesn’t even care, when I text him he replies with short responses, I just wanna move on now.
my boyfriend broke up w me monday and i truly thought he was the one. I wasn’t accepting that I needed mental help throughout our relationship and he wasn’t as ready for a relationship as he thought he was, especially with somebody battling bpd. but honestly this week i’ve connected w the true friends that have stuck w me through this and after letting out all the hurt I can say this is probably the best for both of us. I’m going to my home country on vacation most of March and I think w this new positive mindset and finally reaching out to a therapist and practicing dbt and using your advice will heal me :) THE BEST REVENGE IS CREATING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF! i love u liz thank u for everything
Honestly, every single thing in this video is so true. I've been going through a heartbreak (the 2nd one this year lol) and I think that it's important we keep doing bare minimum things while going through pain. I don't fight the pain anymore; I'm giving up being ashamed of it. What I do now is keep my workout/work/study/hobby routine *in spite of* it. Happiness and pain, nothing is permanent. There's that David Bowie song what says "turn and face the strange". It's easy to keep healthy, consistent habits and a positive outlook on life when everything's ok. Challenge comes when everything is falling apart. Focus that you're still here, you're still alive and breathing. What I'd say is the bare minimum - exercise and eat well. Even if you're not able to do anything else during this period of pain. As time goes by, start adding more and more - creative hobbies, breathwork, cold showers. You'll get there. And I'll be here cheering for you (and for myself as well) every step of the way :) We'll get through this!
What an incredible comment! So helpful, so insightful and empowering!! Your words really resonated. This is also my 2nd breakup of the year and all these things are just gold dust. We got this, we deserve better, we are meant for more!! Thank you for your comment and I wish you all the best. I hope you’re truly happy in life xxx❤
I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…
Rip I’ve been getting ads though? Like there was a Swarovski x viva shampoo advertise (idk if I spelled the shampoo brand right but defo involved v’s lol)
What is wrong with Ads? We just spend few secs to watch Ads but she might have spent hours to make video and edit she deserve money for her work, and sponsorship if they are genuine products or service then nothing wrong again.
Yes. For some reason this year has been full of traumatizing experiences. It has truly given me a different perspective on life and helped me understand God always makes a way.
I was once In a really dark place after a breakup from a “situationship”. And even though I needed to heal, I knew that I couldn’t lose anymore self respect and break no contact… So, I told myself: They don’t need to listem to you pour out your heart and get a reply from them, all you truly need to move on Is to be able to forgive yourself for having allowed that person Into your life and going through that. And that changed my perception of getting attached to situations that don’t necessarily end with closure
I’m listening this during my evening walk and I’m 1 month post breakup. Literally wish I watched this video when I was at my lowest because your advice hits home hard! The heart break glow up is so real !
Honestly this year for me has been the first year I’ve gone through real heartbreak and lost someone I really cared for. I allowed my own trauma to become me and because of that I pushed a genuinely decent man away. After months of feeling sorry for myself, self sabotaging, and never allowing myself to grow and change as a form of punishment, I began to pull myself out of my rut. I analysed why I did what I did, made amends, stopped blaming others and for the first time in years, put myself first. I’ve failed a lot along the way, and probably will make more mistakes, but I know that the one thing I can always have in my control is my attitude and belief that things will work out okay.
My ex broke up with me for the same reason. It is so hard to live life without him, but I know that it is for the best because I have a lot of healing work I need to do. In the future it may work out again, or there might be better in store. Keep your heart open and continue to get to your highest self. Sending you so much love
@@lenanath9228 I’m so sorry to hear about your ex, I know how awful it can feel. Your right, if it’s truly meant to be it’ll be. Thank you and same to you ❤️
Hey, how long would you say it took you to not feel sad about losing him? Going through a similar thing right now, it's been 2 weeks and I'm scared it's gonna take me a whole year...
A girl who bullied me died 3 months ago because a cancer, and I felt really bad for her. Life doesn't last forever. I wish I could make her live again but God had that plan and it helped me to understand, deep in my heart that I had to evolve.
Never felt so powerful, self aware, loving myself after my heartbreak. Started to reading good books like 5am club, atomic habits they literally changed my mindset in healthy way...started doing skincare and taking care of my body , being body positive , journaling, working out regularly and man life never felt so sorted out before. Previously i used to curse at my ex for making me go through hell but now i literally thank him because if he won't have shown how shit things can get i won't have been this stronger and more self aware about myself ✨ so i strongly agree with the phrase God takes you in deep water not to drown you but clean you so trust it trust the process and everything is lesson take it and move on💖
It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you
Recently broke up and still struggling with the sadness. My best friend sent me this video, and she said, listen to this. Replay it as much as you can. I cried alot. I will try my best to heal! Good luck you all guys too! X
I can do this alone. this video really gave me strength. I will get over this. this is the only life I have. can't spend it suffering. thank you Liz and the comments. y'all are supporting me sm 💗
@@_brrrrb I still have mixture of days when I feel angry, sad or just missing that person. It’s not easy, but I’m pushing through. I know I will be okay one day.
"There's something bigger and better out there for me" this made me think that I deserve better in my life You are truly a healing therapist for me thank you :)love from india
Icl when I was wasting my time for that one person I wasn’t even thinking about myself and that made me even realise that that wasn’t a good thing I should be more focused on me and not be giving to that one person who don’t even value me or respect me thanks for you you had opened my eyes you don’t know how much this had served me.
I've discovered Liz during July and she had around 400K followers, now she skyrocked to 1,58M followers... that's incredible! Thank you Liz for being yourself and sharing with others your good energy !
i was in this situationship a year ago and i genuinely liked him and thought he felt the same. he would tell me sweet things all the time while we were texting and would make me feel like the only girl in the world. however, he wouldn’t start any conversations with me irl and would walk past me like i didn’t exist. it hurt me yes, but i pushed it to the side bc of excuses i made for him. then one day, he told me he was talking to other girls the entire time when i thought i was the only one. it hurt so much, but i knew that the best thing for myself was to leave so i did. i erased every part of him from my phone, social media, etc. the next few months after that were full of healing and it wasn’t easy. sometimes i still think about it but it’s not like before. i take it as a lesson. now a year later, im in a much better place. im focusing on my education, going to the gym, eating better, and spending more time with loved ones without worrying about a boy. i’m grateful for the lesson that situation taught me :)
Same, he was taking me out on dates, I met his entire fam, he said he loved me. Then suddenly he told me he was seeing someone else. Then hit me with the “we were just friends”.
Liz, I really hope you never change your authentic self, communication style and how you approach these videos. It’s the reason I watch. I really hope you never allow feedback, criticism of others to change you! I see this happen to so many! It’s incredibly difficult to take public criticism and cruelty. I love how you share, your straightforward communication style, no sugarcoating, tells it like it is and exactly what you think. I love that! Please don’t ever change! I also love that you don’t place fancy bells and whistles, thumb nails and distractions in your videos. They are basic, real and what you see is what you get! 😊
Currently going through one of the worst heartbreaks I’ve had. He’s a good man and we loved each other very much but timing wasn’t right. I’m finally learning to love and trust myself after years of relying on other men. I needed to hear all of this and will continue watching your vids. Thanks Liz 💕
I’m going through a heartbreak from a friendship that I’ve been for 3 years. I’m crying right now and feel depressed and frustrated. But thank you Liz, you’ve helped me to realize that I deserve more and I’m better.
liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.
i am facing the heartbreak right now ... and i cried through oyt the whole video .... i feel so alone but there is the feeling deep inside that i have liz ... i have liz like a bigger sister who will teach me .... i love u so much liz!!
Liz, congrats to 1.3 millions subscribers! Your channel have grow so fast! Also, thank you for all the content videos you created for us. Much appreciated! ^^
The growth is amazingly fast, but that’s exactly what happens when you get likes and subscriber’s TH-cam literally pushes your videos out. It also helps that she looks like a super model❤
i found your channel five days ago after i had made a huge mistake and lost half of my friends. and honestly my mentality has changed SO MUCH. ur stuff ab manifestation, gratitiude, and talking to the universe/God has really helped so much and people say that i give off a different vibe now in just a bit of time. thank youuu sm for everything liz, this video is something i really needed and God bless you.
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
This whole video gives me so much hope for my future. I know this breakup will be tough on me but I'm trying not to romanticize the good times we had. I went through a breakup similar before and Im glad I did because now I know how to truly handle this one. Im going to go no contact, block him for awhile, I even had my mom take away my phone so I can focus on my healing journey as well as school with everything going on. I know even though I wasnt ready for him to leave because I knew the heartbreak it would bring, im glad it happened. In the end I know we wouldnt have worked if he didnt want to change himself. And he didnt want to. I know deep down I deserve someone with more goals and that can support me through our similar mindsets, not someone who is down and pessimistic about something as beautiful as life. I hope my healing process goes well. Without heartbreak and failure you truly can't become the person you want to be no matter how hard it is. Definitely going to get myself out there more and not be held back by him anymore. New year new me, just a little bit late. Life is beautiful and im excited to embrace the love I know I have for myself deep down and Im excited to have the opportunity to meet new people and find love elsewhere.
oh my god i love you so much. i just went though a very tough breakup, and you have literally changed my whole perspective with this one video. such great timing. thank you so much. you are amazing and inspiring. ❤
Liz, thanks a million. I'm in a long depression, but you give me a chance. I watch all yours videos. And today first time I'v protected myself from my boyfriend and his mom. It's firs time when I was very strong about myself!I told NO! No one will humiliate me anymore! I deserve all good!!! And about job, about depression I became much stronger 🙏🏻
I am watching this with tears in my eyes. One of my close friends really left me out on something and even though it was unintentional, the fact that I was even "unintentionally left out" hurts. I know some things are really petty but when a person is important, even the petty things they do hurts. And I feel how I feel. I have learned not to let anybody gaslight me or talk me out with that, "You are so sensitive" and watching this video makes me feel so much better. Liz is really that elder sister of ours that takes good care of us. Thank you so much Liz. I pray for your well being and happiness. You're the most precious TH-camr to me. I am so glad I found you.
Just one week ago I ended the toxic friendship (boy best friend)the bond of 4 years. I felt unwanted, unworthy, unloved. Before ending the bond I tried everything to make better but nothing works, so I came to that decision. I thought this friendship will last forever but....Ended ! It's better to be alone rather than being in toxic friendship. Slowly, I'm accepting the reality and liz videos are helping me out 💙🌸🤝
I can promise you that writing a letter to yourself in which you explain how and in what way the person hurt you and how you are feeling feels is SUCH a relief. If you have no one to talk to you, and even if you have, this works extremely well and you get 1) an emotional checkup about yourself and 2) you also clear up all of the things that CLEARLY did not worked out because at the end you need to let yourself feel all of these shitty and nerve wrecking feelings in order to process them and feel. Every single emotion that you feel is valid and you shouldn‘t judge them. Let them just be there. They will pass, i promise. And you will also feel better. So the keys to heal are feeling your emotions, talking (to yourself) to loved one about how you feel and to acknowledge that time will heal your wounds. And when you don‘t have anyone to talk to, record yourself and talk to your camera. But you gotta realase it in some type of way to get it out of your body. I can promise you, it will get better and you can learn from it. Don’t think the time was wasted. Everything happens for a reason and you‘re so strong. Remember you‘re NOT alone!
I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term. there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc... I think religion isn't a barrier for this At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve Love you Liz! God bless ♥️
You are right. I went to see a psychologist because of a breakup and she made me understand that rejecting emotions was like putting them off and suffering even more afterwards. We have to accept what we feel because that's what will make us want to move on afterwards
I want liz to know how much she helped me whenever I'm at my lowest. Every time i feel heartbroken and need motivation,i come to her youtube channel.She is an angel. Love you liz❤
Girrll...you are so young yet SO wise. You've literally helped me see a new light and path for my life. Just been through a very difficult breakup. Can't thank you enough. Please keep posting. Love you💝💖
“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.
After reading this, i now have a favorite quote too. Thanks:)
Wow
it's a good way to deal with life basically the key way
Im putting this in my journal rn❤
Lovely!!!!!!
“god will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you” ❤
can you explain what this means? ❤ im not sure if i understand it…
@@lottalove5674 It means one day that the people that hurt you will be get Back into your life they come in front of you and at that time you will not anymore triggered by them, you are neutral
@@happyannie1498 thank you for explaining
This is what I want to witness for myself
@@moreadventure3627 same
“was she really the right person or did you make her the right person?” wow
"Let go of the things you want, to get what you deserves" that's the affirmation I'm doing
"God will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you" wow thats beautiful. God bless you liz!
she's muslim btw
Her god is satan.
Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14)
th-cam.com/video/PpylUDKrHek/w-d-xo.html
oooo she is muslim????
@@xelliex2151 wow, I'm happy that she is Muslim, because I am too
Who tf cares if she is muslim or not. She is helping people. That's all what matter. Even a person without a religion can do the same thing. Don't give credit to the religion just because a good person is a believer.
when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂
Mine was 3 years and than 2 years after he passed away and I said that’s enough.
no, bc sameee!! for me, I postponed feeling the heartbreak as much as I could. I was distracting myself with work. A year into ignoring it, I was on summer break and I was like you know what? I'm just going to feel it until I can't anymore. I cried for like 2-3 weeks and then forgot it. Fast forward like a year later I was like ohhh??? one day I literally woke up, didn't think about them, and just resumed life as normal.
its been 4 months LMFAO still crying
@@Cc-dq1lq it's been 6 months for me 😩😣 and every week within those 6 months I swore I was done ☠️🤡 I HOPE TODAY IS THE LAST DAY SAYING IT AND I ACTUALLY DO IT CAUSE THIS BITCH GOT ME ALL THE WAY FUCKEDDD UPPP LOL
@@hahahahahahahahab REALLL ngl i stay listening to his fav songs and everything reminds me of him.. sometimes i even watch his fav show. kill me cuz im still so obsessed like he was so good and scrumptious come back pooksie .. this is why im not over his stinky ass
"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.
Hi
Yes sis! This! 💓🙌🤩 th-cam.com/video/LNBPBKOE0E0/w-d-xo.html
Amen to that!! 🙏💞👑
PERIODDDTTTTTT thank you for that comment!!!!
Action speaks words don’t
omgggg crying my eyes out over the quote "god will put you back together again in front of the people that broke you."
Same 🥺
Me too
When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz
I send you lots of love and hope 🌺🌺💓💓♥️✨
I cried at this moment! I needed to hear that
Same
lol same i started crying when she said that bcuz my uncle used to smd when i was sleeping and shi made me sad for the rest of my life man i needed to hear that
same!
for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody
In my case.. He told me that he dont wanna hurt me... And thats the reason for leaving!! But i dont understand what to say or what to do...
I needed to hear this, thank you ❤
what purpose did it serve tho? he treated me right the entire time we dated and one day just backed off because he convinced himself that he wasn't good enough for me because yk he's not good at studies and we live in a third world country where education is crucial to help us live comfortably. i try to look at every situation from a positive point of view but when it comes to the break up there's nothing good about it. I'm sorry for ranting.
Thank you. I needed to hear this
@@albiorixan5111 You need to be with and deserves to be with someone that is 100% sure about you and the responsibility that comes with the relationship,you were saved and now there's space for someone better to come your way,someone that knows your worth and will work hard to provide that lifestyle that you deserve and both of you want
If you and your ex stayed together he would possibly start arguments or fights in the future about financial related stuff and will blame the stress on you
And if you two are truly meant to be you will meet again once he's financially stable enough and sure he can provide for you
For now focus on yourself and love yourself,treat yourself the way you wish to be treated ❤ i hope you're healing
I had about 34 jobs in my life and I’m in my late thirties. I now had latest job over 2 years, and make decent money part time, low stress, debt free and successful. I could be making a little more money at least and plan to later. I am a walking, talking failure. But I still made it. Most of my family (not all) still think I’m a deadbeat bum loser. Everyday I’m getting closer to owning my place though. And my few friends believe in me.
I believe in you too!
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
So beautifully said, thank you for your words!
@@milanan.3171 Hello I pray the universe grant your heart desire. By making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedication though the powerful love manipulation of him. get his WhatsApp number on his last video, th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html. And restore your broken heart!!
I partly agree with this, in terms of ‘people’ I don’t think you always attract people who are exactly like yourself…
@@slaaaaay2536 Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that
Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!
That was so nice of you to say, thank you
🙌🏾
Yes! One month since we broke up and I feel so much calmer and at peace
do u have any tips? Wish I could get over it faster, im still dealing with so much resentment over what happened even if i dont miss them anymore@@smallypuppy22
Liz is awesome!
You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist.
- Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.
exactly.
Thank you! If you’re expressing your feelings with no sugarcoating or insults, it’s absolutely valid. People just don’t know how to deal with being confronted with the truth because they’re probably not mature enough to appreciate honesty.
Exactly! Some man on yt could have the same delivery style and be praised for it ...
@@MishoRaffaello I agree with you so much
Viewers can sense when a TH-camr perceives their videos and their audience as a pure business opportunity and only gives when they can receive sth back, regardless of what their channel is about (be it vlogs, beauty, fitness, personal development, etc..)
I think this is why most of us who watch one video of hers stick around for so long, we can sense the genuineness in her work.
Her channel is a labor of love, and her content doesn't stem from a need for recognition but from the idea of sharing abundance
@@sarah-samir ولا
I just had my breakup. I'm so broken right now... But i have faith in my god that he is with me each and every day in my upcoming journey of healing and growing... I'll come here when i completely heal my wounds. I love my self. I love my family. I'm here to experience good things too. I'll come back after healing. All the best to me
I wish you the best, I understand how hard it is and how low you must feel. This is just a thing everyone goes through and it will give them new perspectives on life and make them stronger. I know it sounds corny, but trust me you’ll thank your future self for going through this and becoming a newer version of yourself❤️
How are you doing now?
is everything okay? be strong
honestly, i've watched this video before, but now that i had a heartbreak, watching this video again hits different..
Same, I did not even finish watching it last time because I'm scared that I'll manifest it. But I'm here and actually trying to heal now.😊
Same, I watched it before but I didn’t need too. Now I need it💔after so much effort nd love I put. It’s painful
@@algiab.7296 YEAHHH dude i was the same! I thought that every video on yt, a situation in a book, a conversation with people who were hurt by toxic people would open my eyes. It probably would have happened, but I was very afraid to finally admit to myself that my partner really is, was and will be toxic. Before, I was afraid to finish this video because I was afraid that I would have to go through splitting up with him and heartbreak, but now that it happened yesterday, I have the courage and the desire to watch the whole thing.
Same
Same❤
THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!
When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine
Wtf🤣
same :( i paused the video to just cry because i was crying so much
@@mahimapatel8706 she helps us so much and I have managed to become a stronger person because of Liz , I’ve been doing better on protecting my energy and respecting myself more
god bless you. you'll be fine
I hope you feeling better ❤️
Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update.
The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time.
Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then.
Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit.
I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)
Proud of you💗
How are you now? I’m a month and 4 days in, I’m still sad, but I’m okay with the fact that they gone, we weren’t meant to be and that’s okay, still hurts, so how are you now?
@@Zuriii03 I'll give you an update once more :) I think it's been almost 5 months since the breakup. I've been believing every day that I'll eventually feel better, and it happened. I think after 2 months I actually got over it, and I'm genuinely doing great. I've built a pretty busy life for myself, made lots of new friends, and I am putting a lot of energy to my education. Occasionally, I still run into my ex since we share mutual friends and attend lectures on the same campus. But, encountering him doesn't stir any emotions.I don't feel sad or angry. I'm completely at peace with the situation, and I don't find myself thinking about or missing him at all. Keep going you're doing amazing. Stay focused on your goals and on what brings you happiness, and you'll reach where you want to be :)
Did you find that no contact was the best option?
@@mila4740 Im currently going through a breakup and its only the first day and I just want to thank you for sharing your story. It gave me alot of hope. Ive never had a really true breakup before like the one im currently processing so I'm a bit scared for how it'll be. I hope to be like you when I come out of my sadness. Thank you.
❤️ Timestamps
1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened
4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply
6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself
7:37 - Practice shadow work
8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it
9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet
10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself
13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs
15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you
16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore
17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state
18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities
19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you
20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends
21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving
22:00 - Watch videos on TH-cam on healing heartbreak
23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak
23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love
24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance
25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation
26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror
26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit
29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened
Thank you so very much!!
Thank you Mafer!
thank you so much! i really appreciate it 🤍
9:58 is toxic as fuck
People who do this in comment sections deserve a life term full of happiness
I love how Liz always resonates and addresses the thoughts we have in our heads.
is liz from the UK?
@@NordwinterMihlberger from her house setting it seems that she lives in the US
@@NordwinterMihlberger is it some kind of joke because her name is brit
@@linaasia8674 no she lives in dubai, but nationality wise i think shes albanian
@@mika.8063 bro im albanian and from her attitude and place of living i don’t think she is. albanian don’t live in dubai. i suspect her to be muslim tho. i dont think she is balkan but thats rlly random you can’t rlly know plus her accent is more like an arab. idk she gives me kurdish vibes for some reason
she really is the older sister that everyone needs, a truly gift from the universe
Literally crying on the words “You’ve not lost those years. No matter how deep you have fallen, you still picked yourself up”
Same
"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️
I relate to this so much. What matters now is that you are doing better in the present moment. Even just watching this video is taking you to your highest potential.
same 😪
Same here jobless for 4 years and dealing with depression gonna be successful one day 🙂
@@HamzaAliGhallu Salam from another world
Depression happens
Known one thing your time will come
You will be happy and in peace
One dayyyy
same ❤
I started crying when she said “you will find love again” 🥺Liz u have no clue how much your videos help me heal, and help me hope.
Hey,i might be a random person on yt, but listen i used to victimize myself, that maybe I'm the problem, that i should Better stay away from love as it breaks me . But after watching this video , my mindset changed- like-
Hey my mindset is not the world. There is so much to it.
Let's heal together and have hopes .
🦋🦋
I just got broken up with last night. Your words are helping me through this. Thank you Liz.
it's been two weeks. girl get your big girl pants on he is worth NOTHING or she u are a queen
Always remember, there is someone better coming to u so pick yourself up cus that bitch does not deserve ur time anymore
same.. stay strong
How are you ...?
More strength to you
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
NGL I literally teared up when she said " you are strong"
Saaaaaame 😭
same lol.
samee when she said you picked yourself before now also you can
sameeee
Same
I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!
Trust me ur life is better without a elder sister
@@chocalatecake9143 can I know why I don’t have one either but just curious why it’s better without?
@@Esathaq in my experience , being the youngest out of 9 siblings was and still is not good. none of my older siblings (except one) are mature and when they do something foolish , you're blamed and punished with them as well . i usually have to take accountability and the blame for a lot of things they do . when i start a fight with them , i'm punished . ok , seems fair . but when they start a fight with me , nothing happens . i honestly wish i didn't have any older siblings , but i guess the best thing about having them , to look on the positive side , is that i get to observe their mistakes and see to never do that in my life ! ... what a great perk .
Happy to hear you don't feel alone anymore! If the Internet is good for one thing it's connecting and sharing like this 💖
@@chocalatecake9143 that’s just you I’m grateful for my older sisters and I will always be grateful that they are with me they helped me and guided me a lot I love them sm even if we fight they will always have a special place in my heart even my lil sis has a special place in my heart and I will help guide her too!😊
I’ve been listening to Liz lately
I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤
Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz
I’ve been going through some downs too.. And honestly, Liz is really helping me. It’s true, the best revenge is becoming your best self
Let’s do our best together :) 💖
@@Cara.s1place i just love how her channel is like a safe space for us to be the best version of ourselves :)
@@Laura-jj9lp i know right! I love how everyone is sharing there stories so comfortably on this comment section. And all the girlies are supporting their fellow Queens!!!
@@peepepepep3847 even guys are learning how to better themselves through Liz’s channel! It’s so amazing how she gives advice for everyone and everyone is comfortable with her
@@Laura-jj9lp yes thats so nice. I wonder how much pressure does Liz 's boyfriend have to be a perfect boyfriend 😆
„god will bless you, he never fails“ thank you Liz.
Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better
Congratulations on your journey and healing! ❤
So glad for you ❤
Oh yess baby God bless you sis Jesus loves you and he will forever be with you ❤
❤❤
Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨
1. How did I evolve during this situation?
2. What needs of mine were failed to be met?
3. What could I have done better in this situation?
4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself?
5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation?
6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?
Thank you
tyy
Thank you, i needed it ❤
thanks bb
Thanks, I really needed it!
Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️
Girls what do you think about starting a discord channel to encourage and communicate between us? Share our improvements, goals
@@youngwolf1009 sign me up
@@youngwolf1009 me too pls we need it
@@youngwolf1009 would love this🥺❤️
@@youngwolf1009 I'd love to.
I'm 15 years old and for these past few days I have been feeling lost and have no will to do anything. I have listened to all your videos and everyday I woke up I still try to implement what the highest version of myself will do. You have helped so much. May God continue to bless you with unimaginable blessings. ❤
Hello. Glad you are applying all the things she said. I am a certified relationship coach who help people to take out the best version out and helping to get into healthy relationships. Would you like to have a small session free of cost?
Wishing you so much healing and happiness. You have so much life ahead of you my dear 💕🫶❤️🩹
I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.
More power love nd strength to u sis!!
aw im happy for you !!
Thank you so much
Proud of you
Did they ever try coming back? And if so how did you respond?
Liz has become our therapist at this point! Thank you for all the videos.
Literally
I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.
So true. So much learning and growth.
I feel like my heart been ripped out my chest and I’m literally about to die…This hurts so bad
Thanks Liz
All will be alright ❤
will get better, day 4 of out break up im on the accepting stage, realizing and still crying but not that much than the day 1
“So many people are afraid that you will get to know your power.” 👏🏽🗣️👑 I’m so happy I found you on this platform Liz! Keep up the powerful work! 🫶🏽
I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.
Thank u im doing this rn
Ive been doing this since I was a little girl. I write letters for when I'm sad, angry, jealous... As if I am writing to my best friend. It helps me stay mindful of my reactions and become my own bestie. Highly recommend
stupid question but she said to burn the letter after writing it, do we also burn the ones that we write to ourselves??
After getting my heart broken for the 1000th times, this was exactly what I needed to hear.
Hope you're okay
This video genuinely changed my life. My gf and I broke up amicably a few days ago and I was absolutely shattered. This video was EXACTLY what I needed to get out of my slump
I am on month 4 post heartbreak, and still depressed. BUT, in these 4 months I also became sober and leveled up. My life has improved, I guess now I am grieving. Your videos are very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻
You got this
She actually became a helping hand for me to become a better version of myself 💗lots of love ❤
@Not gonna lie no don’t watch this is a clickbait y’all
You changed my life to the better and I am so thankful for this❤️
i've been getting more and more into your videos. your point at the 31:30 mark saying "atleast you realized, atleast you are trying to change now" is so real. so glad i found your tiktok. you're a blessing liz
I never understood it, all the years of suffering. All I was thinking was, "Why me?". I remember crying on the floor years ago thinking if God exists then he doesn't love me. Now I understand, that my suffering was a blessing in disguise. It truly made me understand that it needed to happen, to elevate me into a person that I never thought was possible. I still continue to grow and the self love continues to pour out. The more I love myself, the more I love others. It's truly amazing. Whether you believe in God, the higher self or the universe, what Liz says is true. Life is a game and a test for you to reach into the highest loving person you could be. Meditation truly is key ❤ Thank you Liz ❤ More blessings to you and your family 🙏
Going thru breakup currently.. It hurts soooooo badddddd i swear it hurts.. Typing this with tears in my eyes...but i hope i won't need this video one day in my life and i will come here to remind myself how i get out of this and will see this comment of mine and will realise how far I've come.. INSHALLAH!!!!
Hi hope u r fine now ❤
@@soniya503 hey!! Yea i am doing great, ive changed, the pain is gone and i no longer experience stupid love i just turn of my emotions towards this thing i am at peace now Allhumdulilah.. Thankyou for asking
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.
I can absolutely relate to you right now, the same thing is happening to me. I’m here with you!
us, going through the same thing.
My ex called me toxic cause I wanted his attention and said that I don’t give him freedom, telling me how often I asked him to meet me, he verbally abused me, he always showed his attitude, got angry very often, I am kinda childish so he always told me to be more mature, we broke up yesterday and he doesn’t even care, when I text him he replies with short responses, I just wanna move on now.
my boyfriend broke up w me monday and i truly thought he was the one. I wasn’t accepting that I needed mental help throughout our relationship and he wasn’t as ready for a relationship as he thought he was, especially with somebody battling bpd. but honestly this week i’ve connected w the true friends that have stuck w me through this and after letting out all the hurt I can say this is probably the best for both of us. I’m going to my home country on vacation most of March and I think w this new positive mindset and finally reaching out to a therapist and practicing dbt and using your advice will heal me :) THE BEST REVENGE IS CREATING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF! i love u liz thank u for everything
how are you doing now?
@@bruna_361i hope shes ok and you're too
Honestly, every single thing in this video is so true. I've been going through a heartbreak (the 2nd one this year lol) and I think that it's important we keep doing bare minimum things while going through pain. I don't fight the pain anymore; I'm giving up being ashamed of it. What I do now is keep my workout/work/study/hobby routine *in spite of* it. Happiness and pain, nothing is permanent. There's that David Bowie song what says "turn and face the strange". It's easy to keep healthy, consistent habits and a positive outlook on life when everything's ok. Challenge comes when everything is falling apart. Focus that you're still here, you're still alive and breathing. What I'd say is the bare minimum - exercise and eat well. Even if you're not able to do anything else during this period of pain. As time goes by, start adding more and more - creative hobbies, breathwork, cold showers. You'll get there. And I'll be here cheering for you (and for myself as well) every step of the way :) We'll get through this!
Thank you for this comment. God bless you :)
What an incredible comment! So helpful, so insightful and empowering!! Your words really resonated. This is also my 2nd breakup of the year and all these things are just gold dust. We got this, we deserve better, we are meant for more!! Thank you for your comment and I wish you all the best. I hope you’re truly happy in life xxx❤
“Is he the right person or did you fantasize about him?” Just healed me w that one sentence. Thank you. ❤
I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…
Rip I’ve been getting ads though? Like there was a Swarovski x viva shampoo advertise (idk if I spelled the shampoo brand right but defo involved v’s lol)
I just had 2 ads but idc the advice is golden and she deserves every penny of that ad sense dough
What is wrong with Ads? We just spend few secs to watch Ads but she might have spent hours to make video and edit she deserve money for her work, and sponsorship if they are genuine products or service then nothing wrong again.
if she wanted to she could, let her get her bag🎉
@@Big_Impact_Historics sometimes TH-cam automatically places ads on videos even if the creators doesn’t put them.
Yes. For some reason this year has been full of traumatizing experiences. It has truly given me a different perspective on life and helped me understand God always makes a way.
I was once In a really dark place after a breakup from a “situationship”. And even though I needed to heal, I knew that I couldn’t lose anymore self respect and break no contact… So, I told myself: They don’t need to listem to you pour out your heart and get a reply from them, all you truly need to move on Is to be able to forgive yourself for having allowed that person Into your life and going through that. And that changed my perception of getting attached to situations that don’t necessarily end with closure
I’m listening this during my evening walk and I’m 1 month post breakup. Literally wish I watched this video when I was at my lowest because your advice hits home hard! The heart break glow up is so real !
you literally save me from falling into trap every time im going through my roughest. thank you liz
Honestly this year for me has been the first year I’ve gone through real heartbreak and lost someone I really cared for. I allowed my own trauma to become me and because of that I pushed a genuinely decent man away. After months of feeling sorry for myself, self sabotaging, and never allowing myself to grow and change as a form of punishment, I began to pull myself out of my rut. I analysed why I did what I did, made amends, stopped blaming others and for the first time in years, put myself first. I’ve failed a lot along the way, and probably will make more mistakes, but I know that the one thing I can always have in my control is my attitude and belief that things will work out okay.
My ex broke up with me for the same reason. It is so hard to live life without him, but I know that it is for the best because I have a lot of healing work I need to do. In the future it may work out again, or there might be better in store. Keep your heart open and continue to get to your highest self. Sending you so much love
@@lenanath9228 I’m so sorry to hear about your ex, I know how awful it can feel.
Your right, if it’s truly meant to be it’ll be.
Thank you and same to you ❤️
@@angell8632 I appreciate you so much :)
Whew this hit home
Hey, how long would you say it took you to not feel sad about losing him? Going through a similar thing right now, it's been 2 weeks and I'm scared it's gonna take me a whole year...
A girl who bullied me died 3 months ago because a cancer, and I felt really bad for her. Life doesn't last forever. I wish I could make her live again but God had that plan and it helped me to understand, deep in my heart that I had to evolve.
Never felt so powerful, self aware, loving myself after my heartbreak. Started to reading good books like 5am club, atomic habits they literally changed my mindset in healthy way...started doing skincare and taking care of my body , being body positive , journaling, working out regularly and man life never felt so sorted out before. Previously i used to curse at my ex for making me go through hell but now i literally thank him because if he won't have shown how shit things can get i won't have been this stronger and more self aware about myself ✨ so i strongly agree with the phrase God takes you in deep water not to drown you but clean you so trust it trust the process and everything is lesson take it and move on💖
Mikasa is always strong keep ur head held high
Thank yourself not ppl who dont care about yoy
thank you liz for making me gain self-respect again after love blinded my senses. i couldn't thank you more. this will be another lesson learned!
She’s a blessing. PERIODT
It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you
Recently broke up and still struggling with the sadness. My best friend sent me this video, and she said, listen to this. Replay it as much as you can. I cried alot. I will try my best to heal! Good luck you all guys too! X
hope youre doing well. in the depths of heartbreak myself and listening.
You’re like the older sister I never had. I love u ❤
I can do this alone.
this video really gave me strength. I will get over this. this is the only life I have. can't spend it suffering. thank you Liz and the comments. y'all are supporting me sm 💗
9 days since our breakup. I can't wait to come back here in a year feeling healed & happy.
Yes me too
How are u feeling how?
@@_brrrrb I still have mixture of days when I feel angry, sad or just missing that person. It’s not easy, but I’m pushing through. I know I will be okay one day.
@@iamklaudiainshaAllah
How doing today?
"There's something bigger and better out there for me" this made me think that I deserve better in my life
You are truly a healing therapist for me thank you :)love from india
Icl when I was wasting my time for that one person I wasn’t even thinking about myself and that made me even realise that that wasn’t a good thing I should be more focused on me and not be giving to that one person who don’t even value me or respect me thanks for you you had opened my eyes you don’t know how much this had served me.
I've discovered Liz during July and she had around 400K followers, now she skyrocked to 1,58M followers... that's incredible! Thank you Liz for being yourself and sharing with others your good energy !
She literally don't even know how much she is helpful for people like us🥺, tq liz ur like my big sister
Im literally crying in heartbreak as i saw this video come online. So ya... and started listening to it. Pray for me everyone...and thank u liz..
Habibti I hope you're doing fabulous and you're living your best version of yourself! ❤
i was in this situationship a year ago and i genuinely liked him and thought he felt the same. he would tell me sweet things all the time while we were texting and would make me feel like the only girl in the world. however, he wouldn’t start any conversations with me irl and would walk past me like i didn’t exist. it hurt me yes, but i pushed it to the side bc of excuses i made for him. then one day, he told me he was talking to other girls the entire time when i thought i was the only one. it hurt so much, but i knew that the best thing for myself was to leave so i did. i erased every part of him from my phone, social media, etc. the next few months after that were full of healing and it wasn’t easy. sometimes i still think about it but it’s not like before. i take it as a lesson. now a year later, im in a much better place. im focusing on my education, going to the gym, eating better, and spending more time with loved ones without worrying about a boy. i’m grateful for the lesson that situation taught me :)
Same, he was taking me out on dates, I met his entire fam, he said he loved me. Then suddenly he told me he was seeing someone else. Then hit me with the “we were just friends”.
Liz, I really hope you never change your authentic self, communication style and how you approach these videos. It’s the reason I watch. I really hope you never allow feedback, criticism of others to change you! I see this happen to so many! It’s incredibly difficult to take public criticism and cruelty. I love how you share, your straightforward communication style, no sugarcoating, tells it like it is and exactly what you think. I love that! Please don’t ever change! I also love that you don’t place fancy bells and whistles, thumb nails and distractions in your videos. They are basic, real and what you see is what you get! 😊
I dont think she will change she have a high self estim
I literally started crying when she said “you are strong, you are strong”. Thanks liz, needed to hear that so muchh.
Currently going through one of the worst heartbreaks I’ve had. He’s a good man and we loved each other very much but timing wasn’t right. I’m finally learning to love and trust myself after years of relying on other men. I needed to hear all of this and will continue watching your vids. Thanks Liz 💕
Me too I always rely on men and yesterday I broke up with him I let him go because he was cheating on me God knows how I'll recover
Same to my situation, we both loved each other, everything was perfect but just not our destiny. Hope I will heal too.
how are you feeling today about😊 that?
R u okay now
oh, same me huhu
I’m going through a heartbreak from a friendship that I’ve been for 3 years. I’m crying right now and feel depressed and frustrated. But thank you Liz, you’ve helped me to realize that I deserve more and I’m better.
Me tooo!!!! Its okaaayyy i hope you the besttt life ahead. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I hope you’re better now
liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.
That would literally be amazing!!!😊
i am facing the heartbreak right now ... and i cried through oyt the whole video .... i feel so alone but there is the feeling deep inside that i have liz ... i have liz like a bigger sister who will teach me .... i love u so much liz!!
Liz, congrats to 1.3 millions subscribers! Your channel have grow so fast! Also, thank you for all the content videos you created for us. Much appreciated! ^^
Yes it was fast
Now she has 1.42 millions lmao she manifested success
The growth is amazingly fast, but that’s exactly what happens when you get likes and subscriber’s TH-cam literally pushes your videos out. It also helps that she looks like a super model❤
i found your channel five days ago after i had made a huge mistake and lost half of my friends. and honestly my mentality has changed SO MUCH. ur stuff ab manifestation, gratitiude, and talking to the universe/God has really helped so much and people say that i give off a different vibe now in just a bit of time. thank youuu sm for everything liz, this video is something i really needed and God bless you.
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. th-cam.com/channels/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA.html 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
Cuz of this woman, my life became so much better. Appreciate her!♡
This whole video gives me so much hope for my future. I know this breakup will be tough on me but I'm trying not to romanticize the good times we had. I went through a breakup similar before and Im glad I did because now I know how to truly handle this one. Im going to go no contact, block him for awhile, I even had my mom take away my phone so I can focus on my healing journey as well as school with everything going on. I know even though I wasnt ready for him to leave because I knew the heartbreak it would bring, im glad it happened. In the end I know we wouldnt have worked if he didnt want to change himself. And he didnt want to. I know deep down I deserve someone with more goals and that can support me through our similar mindsets, not someone who is down and pessimistic about something as beautiful as life. I hope my healing process goes well. Without heartbreak and failure you truly can't become the person you want to be no matter how hard it is. Definitely going to get myself out there more and not be held back by him anymore. New year new me, just a little bit late. Life is beautiful and im excited to embrace the love I know I have for myself deep down and Im excited to have the opportunity to meet new people and find love elsewhere.
oh my god i love you so much. i just went though a very tough breakup, and you have literally changed my whole perspective with this one video. such great timing. thank you so much. you are amazing and inspiring. ❤
Liz, thanks a million. I'm in a long depression, but you give me a chance. I watch all yours videos. And today first time I'v protected myself from my boyfriend and his mom. It's firs time when I was very strong about myself!I told NO! No one will humiliate me anymore! I deserve all good!!! And about job, about depression I became much stronger 🙏🏻
I am watching this with tears in my eyes. One of my close friends really left me out on something and even though it was unintentional, the fact that I was even "unintentionally left out" hurts. I know some things are really petty but when a person is important, even the petty things they do hurts. And I feel how I feel. I have learned not to let anybody gaslight me or talk me out with that, "You are so sensitive" and watching this video makes me feel so much better. Liz is really that elder sister of ours that takes good care of us. Thank you so much Liz. I pray for your well being and happiness. You're the most precious TH-camr to me. I am so glad I found you.
this literally happened to me and its so true
@@fayriella I am so sorry love that it happened to u as well :( I hope you're doing fine now!
Just one week ago I ended the toxic friendship (boy best friend)the bond of 4 years. I felt unwanted, unworthy, unloved. Before ending the bond I tried everything to make better but nothing works, so I came to that decision. I thought this friendship will last forever but....Ended !
It's better to be alone rather than being in toxic friendship.
Slowly, I'm accepting the reality and liz videos are helping me out 💙🌸🤝
I can promise you that writing a letter to yourself in which you explain how and in what way the person hurt you and how you are feeling feels is SUCH a relief. If you have no one to talk to you, and even if you have, this works extremely well and you get 1) an emotional checkup about yourself and 2) you also clear up all of the things that CLEARLY did not worked out because at the end you need to let yourself feel all of these shitty and nerve wrecking feelings in order to process them and feel. Every single emotion that you feel is valid and you shouldn‘t judge them. Let them just be there. They will pass, i promise. And you will also feel better. So the keys to heal are feeling your emotions, talking (to yourself) to loved one about how you feel and to acknowledge that time will heal your wounds. And when you don‘t have anyone to talk to, record yourself and talk to your camera. But you gotta realase it in some type of way to get it out of your body. I can promise you, it will get better and you can learn from it. Don’t think the time was wasted. Everything happens for a reason and you‘re so strong. Remember you‘re NOT alone!
I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term.
there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc...
I think religion isn't a barrier for this
At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve
Love you Liz! God bless ♥️
If you do t mind me asking how do you know she’s muslim
She mentioned in one of her videos
She does brings her religion into it just uses universal term :) which is very considerate
@@THEE_JOYBOY she mentioned multiple times in videos,tt and ig
@@fangirlinneverland6335 'UNIVERSAL' you got me, that's what I said
Have a good one! ✨
You are right. I went to see a psychologist because of a breakup and she made me understand that rejecting emotions was like putting them off and suffering even more afterwards. We have to accept what we feel because that's what will make us want to move on afterwards
After my heart break I got a great job at another country, moved, made amazing friends and am living my best life. Thanks to my heartbreak
You didn’t waste those years. You chose to get out of it and become better. I needed to hear that 💖
"It's because I went through hardship that I can relate to people"
Thank you for your videos - they immediately help me each time I watch
I want liz to know how much she helped me whenever I'm at my lowest. Every time i feel heartbroken and need motivation,i come to her youtube channel.She is an angel. Love you liz❤
this is the video i needed. for all of you going through the same just remind yourself that, you've got this :)
I just found your channel yesterday & wow I feel like I am listening to my own mentality in someone else, this is such a refreshing channel.
Girrll...you are so young yet SO wise. You've literally helped me see a new light and path for my life. Just been through a very difficult breakup. Can't thank you enough. Please keep posting. Love you💝💖
I don’t know where I’d be if I didn’t find your Chanel, you’ve truly helped me shift my mindset and I’ve grown so much