Not enough men talk about being the victim’s of abuse. My father was but it was not to be talked about ever. Much praise to the men who do speak of it, abuse knows no gender.
I observed that the abuse is affecting as much men as women. I also was abused by my husband but after we broke up, physicly, mentally a'd financially. I am a strong woman but it did affected me and still does, whenever I sense abuse I run, one to avoid it but also as a way not to deal with it.
@@isabellecasier5702 i was beaten since i was a baby at months old i dont talk abought it i am a metal head punk rocker now and i isolate myself from people but sometimes i just want to be with my friends and im very friendly but i isolate myself sorry you was abbused
It just annoys me that whenever a man tries to talk about something like that, People just tell him to 'MAN UP' but in reality, like you said: Abuse knows no gender.
If a woman is abusing a man like in that one story where she punched him and repeatedly kicked him while he was down, I fully support the man giving her one swift punch to the face, nothing excessive but enough to tell her that it will not be tolerated. I hate that women get lighter sentences than men, esp over abuse and women can hit and scratch men and they can't defend themselves.
If your partner ever, _ever_ raises a hand against you or otherwise hurts you physically, you can and _should_ leave them right then and there. Even if they're a girl half your size, that's not an excuse.
@@josieteran7082 the partner of a domestic abuser is most in danger when they're attempting to leave. Abusers purposely isolate their victims, cut them off from friends and family, even control them medically and financially to keep them from leaving. Especially if kids and animals are involved, you could be tied to an abuser financially for YEARS if not in other ways. You're far more likely to be murdered while leaving an abusive relationship than you are while being in one. Signed, someone whose mom was in one for ten years, who had a friend from school be beaten to death at 23 by her 40 year old partner who had 3 kids in the house at the time, and whose mother's best friend in school was shot to death by her abusive boyfriend after she left
@@cryptiecreep Well your Mom sounds like an idiot for not leaving and purposely keeping her children in that situation. Police jump at the chance to arrest abusive husbands/boyfriend with little to no evidence.
Looking back, I should have known my ex was...off. She changed her whole life trajectory for me. She lived in South Tampa and when I told her I was most likely going to CSUB (I lived in Los Angeles), she applied and got in too. From there it was downhill. It was great at first. She was kinky and the sex was really good (to this day, best I'd ever had). However, as things went on, she seemed to start treating me more like a possession than a person with autonomy and feelings. She started to track where I was going and followed me everywhere when she wasn't in class. I was the shy loner type so she had me 100% convinced that if I left her, I'd be alone well into my 40s if not forever. She came from money so she was supporting us financially since I was a full time student and so I felt trapped. I learned that she cheated on me with her roommate whenever I didn't want to have sex. I tried to justify it to myself as "they're both girls so it's not really cheating." The entire time we were together, she only did one good thing for me. A classmate of ours threw a party, got drunk (unbeknownst to me since she hid it well), and when she drove me home cuz my ex-gf left early without me, she pushed me into my room and closed the door saying that if I didn't have sex with her, she'd tell everyone I raped her. So she raped me and when my ex found out, she beat the hell out of her. That was the only good thing my ex did and she only did it because "you're my property and no one can do that to you without my permission."
my wife is an apartment building manager, and for a few years she worked at a building by 2 college campuses. The #1 thing she had to explain was that you cant kick someone out, aside from abuse, of the apartment they pay for. So many 21 year old couples breaking up 2 months into a 12 month lease, most have one person go back home and just pay rent anyway. lol, idiots.
I have a relative with a very, very destructive ideal in his head. He likes 'a woman who is a challenge.' So rather than respond to an attractive, kind woman who likes him he goes for the really dismissive, snotty, always have to be the princess types. He's married a couple and they're both foul. He's now doubly divorced. And what's he found - another impossible woman 'who's a challenge.' It's sad because he might have been happy instead his life is bashing from one addiction to the next.
My abusive ex likes to maintain that I was the abuser and he was the victim. He'd emotionally blackmail me, threaten self harm and even get his family members to call me and harass me whenever I tried to break up. Good riddance
My mom was married to a guy who was in military (very late 60s to mid 70s and in the UK) who was a complete douche bag, he flung her out of the apartment window (2nd/3rd floor) and by sheer luck she landed on her feet. She had my sister and brother with him and I don't know what he did to them. Wasn't told if that happened or not. My mom and siblings told me that he died during a operation. My mom met and married my dad when he was stationed in the UK a few years later.
I hate those who use suicide as a way to control, and also just makes you look dumb if you're going to go that route if you are not getting your way with the victim .
More guys gotta speak up about their abuse. People would take it more seriously I feel like, if men didn't feel like they had to hide it. It could erase the stigma around it, let let others know that there isn't anything to feel ashamed about..
Dated a girl my senior year of high school. About a year. Everything was fine for around 8 months, then she started getting jealous, accusing me of cheating on her with girls I talked to just because they were in my classes, never out of school. I started bringing her to my friends houses with me. A few times she said she thinks she wants to break up, I ask why and she says nevermind. Never would talk about it. One day I'm hanging out with a friend, she shows up at my house and tells me she cheated on me with her abusive ex that she always said was just a friend. Find out from her friend of 8 years the only reason I was told was because her friend threatened to tell me if she didn't. We talk, I stupidly decide lets see if we can work through it. Prom comes around, she said she can't go because her family can't afford it(her family all lived in one trailer in compton other than her and her mom who only had a house because of inheritance) so I paid almost 800 dollars for a dress and her hair and naills and what not plus my suit rental. Day of prom I call her to see when she wanted me to pick her up. Get a bunch of excuses about wanting to take photos with girl friends. Find out from friend she is with a big group of people including guys. Says to meet her at prom outside, okay wtf. I get there, she won't answer her phone. Wait outside for about 2 hours only for her to call me and tell me shes been inside the whole time. Go inside, spend 5 minutes in there, her and her friends start making up lies calling me abusive, I left right here, talked to her mom for a bit (her mom loved me) and she said sorry, I don't know why she is so shitty. Turns out she was telling everyone, my friends I was abusive and stalking her and wouldn't leave her alone all the while she would invite me over, want to cuddle etc. I lost everyone that day when I was the one being hit, screamed at, used financially. There was a lot more in there she did too, but too much written already. Years later, she tries to match me on dating apps all the time even though I block her, meaning she makes new accounts. She put on a ton of weight, looks like crap on top of it and all she does is drink every day at a country bar and go home with random dudes each time. One time I went with a friend that hung out in the same group as her. My ex pulled said friend aside and asked her why she would bring me (keep in mind this is 5 years of not seeing each other) and she starts telling the same lies. Next time i went and she was there, I got jumped for no reason by the Mongols (violent biker gang) while standing in the back corner talking to friends and turns out she was friends with the one who started it. I worked a second job for a friends tow company for extra income.. One day my buddy calls me up and tells me to guess who's car he is towing. He tells me its my ex and he only knew because somehow, she brought me up in conversation and was again telling the same lies (6 years after we stopped dating)
It’s scary to think that some people who are the toxic ones are in the victim mentality-like, no sweetie. You’re the one jealous of the pet dog. I hope these people get help. And for the ones who have dealt with all the crazy, I hope you find peace and happiness❤️
I don’t know why, but instead of a bride cake topper, I thought the thumbnail was a smashed wedding cake that looked like the head of a goose holding a wedding ring.
These stories remind me of what my friend is going through I don’t know if it’s physical or not but she’s made him cut-off complete contacts and he moved hours away from his family so now I’m just waiting for the day he finally leaves her so we can talk again and just pick up where we left off as friends
The thumbnail for some reason reminded me of that one guy who threw himself into a wedding cake because of a little rain in the November Rain music video.
My brother was dating a girl (both in thier late teen's) who just got out of an abusive relationship. He eventually broke it off cuz she was too clingy. The next time they saw each other was with a group of friends and she asked him to get back together. When he said no she got in her car and tried to run him over. Thankfully their friends stopped her, now my brother is worried cuz he is about to go to a good college but she is already in school there
User1539 sounds like he didn't even love her. I was forced to move from a big city to a village. I didn't have any friends, and I was CLEARLY depressed. Ignoring her was the opposite of what you were supposed to do. I'm just glad my family didn't abandon me when I needed them most like you did.
1st story°°° wow, she really went there "prove that you love me .... by accepting my cheating and take care of the results' path... like did the baby daddy proved that befote she slept with him, without protection, even. the audacity (some say idiocity) is...just...wow.
You know your past relationship sucked ass and you made the right decision to call it off when you can see things your ex did littered throughout the video
These kind of stories give me a feeling that my school bully won't exactly have a happily ever after. Initially I felt like it was already a red flag that she tried to get married despite Covid 19 getting worse over the year. Despite all kinds of BS she possibly went through to finally get married, I keep getting the feeling that marriage won't exactly workout for her. She may look happy last time I noticed on her social media but i can't say for sure that she changed.🤷♀️
I've never understood how the threat of a crazy partner committing suicide would be any sort of threat. That's just a problem that takes care of itself. The proper response when somebody says if you leave me I'll kill myself say, good. Go ahead.
Unfortunate to most male victims, they report it but nothing ever comes of it, and are made fun of and called unmanly for not being able to take physical abuse
It's wild to me how obvious some of these abuse tactics are on the surface. Like, it really takes someone who has been eroded by a psycho asshole bitches tactics to fall for them, but me personally if some cow called me every week to remind me how good she has it "without me" I'd ask, "then why do you keep calling? It sounds like you need to tell yourself this." I'm not calling the victims week mind you, I'm saying it's odd how night and day the experiences are between someone who isn't primed for the treatment and someone who was.
My ex-wife was constantly accusing me of cheating (untrue). "I saw you talking to that girl, I know you're sleeping with her. I saw you talking to that guy. I know you're gay." Also, previously in college, I was seeing this girl; then, slowly started breaking it off. Just not calling as much, etc. Started getting hang-up phone calls. Then, found out she was telling our friends that I was doing that to her!
My current fiance has a restraining order against his ex wife. He was in the military and she of course cheated frequently. They quickly divorced after their first child. She was physically abusive with him to the point there are police records of her stabbing him. Some drugs and many bad relationships later his ex wife lost custody of the child and she now lives with us full time. The child stated she had some abuse issues in the home. At first we suspected the boyfriends, with the signs she was showing. Years go by and the awkward visitation exchanges become violent and we had to have police present during the drop off and pick up. Twice I have had to grab the kid and run while he took the brunt of what was happening or call the cops in. He refuses to be alone with her anywhere and I don't blame him. One weekend the kid discloses sexual abuse from her mom. Literally her mom doing things to her and her boyfriends occasionally participating. So of course we call in an investigation. His ex calls the cops on us, when the cops refuse to take the 'contempt' report she drives to our house and rammed our 200lbs gate until it broke down. Backed out of our driveway to park literally in the middle of the street and walk back up to our house. She gets halfway through the yard before he came outside and started calling the cops. She wasn't charged with anything. The cops showed up gave us a report and told us to come back the following week. Had no idea for what. I'll never forget talking a 9 year old down telling her she didn't have to be afraid of her own mother trying to break into our house or coming to get her for talking about the ways she hurt her. This was on a Friday, Wednesday we came back to the station and the cops asked if we'd like to file a restraining order. We got it granted in 30 minutes. The restraining order is only effective for the adults due to a visitation order. She is not to be anywhere near either of us but the kid still has to do supervised visits until the state makes a decision in January. My dudes had three ex's two of them were ex wives but none of them have caused anything like this one. One of them who he has a son with, was diagnosed with cancer. We are all friends and frequently vacation with her and her husband. The other he hasn't heard from or seen in years so 🤷. Two ex wives one woman he had a kid with and one restraining order later. Sorry that was long and this probably sounds insane but I swear to God he's worth all of it. ❤️
(This is going to seem like a rant lol, it's just an in depth explanation not a rant) These are all pretty horrible BUT one thing... Ladies... there's a good chance that many of your (even "platonic") male friends would get involved with you if asked even if you're in a relationship. I've met very few guys that could have a strictly platonic relationship with a woman without having some kind of crush or feelings for them, or without trying to experiment with them at least once. Especially if there's a sense of weakness, a spot in the armor where they can justify it to themselves We are still animals. Often times it isn't that we don't trust *you*, it's that we know close to 50% of the world would actively ruin the relationship if they were put in the right position. At that point youd have to "pitch a perfect game" so to speak. I think most guys here know of a guy who was "Strictly gay" until their female best friend became single and then suddenly decided to flip. Not all guys are like this, some guys have a high enough self esteem and already have their needs met elsewhere and won't try it out of respect for the relationship or lack of personal interest. Some guys don't have enough self esteem to try making a move. But most of them have thought or do think about it. It NEVER justifies abuse, far from it. The two are separate concepts. Fear can be rooted in the rational without a response being justifiable. [Personal note, I generally was the guy asking women to give buddies of mine/their SO a chance and to communicate their needs in their relationships.]
HI, it’s 3 am and I’m single. I just realized I was kinda abusive to my ex’s and I was sexually abused... a lot ahahahaha I want to die now, how’s your day going?
So uhh, funny story, something happened to me but it obviously wasn't serious because i still was a small kid. Anyway it happened on Roblooooox... (Yeah this is lame) To sum it up, she said i was the only thing she loved more than everything and everyone, wanted me to come to her house so we could make a stronger relationship (I am bilingual so that meant i was far away from her) and that supposedly his "ex' was being abusive and he punched her in the face, i was friends with her "ex" who just was a friend of her, i knew him well and was a really nice guy, he speaked Spanish and he didn't knew English so that's something, eventually she wanted to break up because i was being nice to other girls AND BOYS and she felt i was cheating on her (Reminder this all happened in a virtual world) and yadda yadda i just blocked her
Not enough men talk about being the victim’s of abuse.
My father was but it was not to be talked about ever.
Much praise to the men who do speak of it, abuse knows no gender.
Also worth a reminder that homosexual or even platonic relationships can turn abusive, as well.
I observed that the abuse is affecting as much men as women. I also was abused by my husband but after we broke up, physicly, mentally a'd financially. I am a strong woman but it did affected me and still does, whenever I sense abuse I run, one to avoid it but also as a way not to deal with it.
@@isabellecasier5702 i was beaten since i was a baby at months old i dont talk abought it i am a metal head punk rocker now and i isolate myself from people but sometimes i just want to be with my friends and im very friendly but i isolate myself sorry you was abbused
It just annoys me that whenever a man tries to talk about something like that, People just tell him to 'MAN UP' but in reality, like you said: Abuse knows no gender.
If a woman is abusing a man like in that one story where she punched him and repeatedly kicked him while he was down, I fully support the man giving her one swift punch to the face, nothing excessive but enough to tell her that it will not be tolerated. I hate that women get lighter sentences than men, esp over abuse and women can hit and scratch men and they can't defend themselves.
If your partner ever, _ever_ raises a hand against you or otherwise hurts you physically, you can and _should_ leave them right then and there. Even if they're a girl half your size, that's not an excuse.
If only that was easy.
@@skylovermc2146 it is that easy
@@josieteran7082 the partner of a domestic abuser is most in danger when they're attempting to leave. Abusers purposely isolate their victims, cut them off from friends and family, even control them medically and financially to keep them from leaving. Especially if kids and animals are involved, you could be tied to an abuser financially for YEARS if not in other ways. You're far more likely to be murdered while leaving an abusive relationship than you are while being in one. Signed, someone whose mom was in one for ten years, who had a friend from school be beaten to death at 23 by her 40 year old partner who had 3 kids in the house at the time, and whose mother's best friend in school was shot to death by her abusive boyfriend after she left
@@cryptiecreep Well your Mom sounds like an idiot for not leaving and purposely keeping her children in that situation. Police jump at the chance to arrest abusive husbands/boyfriend with little to no evidence.
No it's not. @@josieteran7082
My first ex taught me how crazy some men can be, after him I learned to spot red flags and other undesirable behaviors.
Shit, the one with the woman who just got out of an abusive relationship is just sad. So disturbing but so sad.
You shouldn't be able to fire someone for being the victim of harassment and stalking jesus christ that just makes shit so dangerous.
Happened to me. Had to take those former employers to court.
Princess Marlena how did that end up in court? Hope you are okay now.
Alright, so this girl I met online did not tell me that she had a boyfriend, and tried to get me into a love triangle. That was a red flag for sure.
Was she a Twilight fan?
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It involved an octopus, a waffle iron, and an unholy amount of LSD.
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@@gem_s5862 do not question him
you cookes the octopuswith the waflle iron whiile high
This comment makes so little, yet so much sense at the same time
Oh god.....
Was it good?
It doesn’t matter how many fish are in the sea if you don’t know how to fish
- sun tzu, the art of war
or fishing in the predators only territory...
@@noneedtoknow07 ... you mean the nursery
Technoblade never dies
Doesn't stop unfortunate souls from diving head-first into the water, tho.
@@incognitomode8094 YESSSSS
Looking back, I should have known my ex was...off. She changed her whole life trajectory for me. She lived in South Tampa and when I told her I was most likely going to CSUB (I lived in Los Angeles), she applied and got in too. From there it was downhill. It was great at first. She was kinky and the sex was really good (to this day, best I'd ever had). However, as things went on, she seemed to start treating me more like a possession than a person with autonomy and feelings. She started to track where I was going and followed me everywhere when she wasn't in class. I was the shy loner type so she had me 100% convinced that if I left her, I'd be alone well into my 40s if not forever. She came from money so she was supporting us financially since I was a full time student and so I felt trapped. I learned that she cheated on me with her roommate whenever I didn't want to have sex. I tried to justify it to myself as "they're both girls so it's not really cheating."
The entire time we were together, she only did one good thing for me. A classmate of ours threw a party, got drunk (unbeknownst to me since she hid it well), and when she drove me home cuz my ex-gf left early without me, she pushed me into my room and closed the door saying that if I didn't have sex with her, she'd tell everyone I raped her. So she raped me and when my ex found out, she beat the hell out of her. That was the only good thing my ex did and she only did it because "you're my property and no one can do that to you without my permission."
Women can offend just as easily as men can. Abuse knows no gender. Thank you for sharing your story, you are very brave. I wish you all the best ❤️
I feel so bad for these people's children.. they were probably influenced and affected in some way but i hope they won't be like their parents :((
True 😔
1:46 She doged a super nova there
That first story: Cold. As. Fuck.
Respect. She deserved no less.
my wife is an apartment building manager, and for a few years she worked at a building by 2 college campuses. The #1 thing she had to explain was that you cant kick someone out, aside from abuse, of the apartment they pay for. So many 21 year old couples breaking up 2 months into a 12 month lease, most have one person go back home and just pay rent anyway. lol, idiots.
I have a relative with a very, very destructive ideal in his head. He likes 'a woman who is a challenge.' So rather than respond to an attractive, kind woman who likes him he goes for the really dismissive, snotty, always have to be the princess types. He's married a couple and they're both foul. He's now doubly divorced. And what's he found - another impossible woman 'who's a challenge.' It's sad because he might have been happy instead his life is bashing from one addiction to the next.
"Non-Alabamian cousin..." 😂
My abusive ex likes to maintain that I was the abuser and he was the victim. He'd emotionally blackmail me, threaten self harm and even get his family members to call me and harass me whenever I tried to break up.
Good riddance
Lol
At the end !
These are all terrible, but who else laughed when the last guy said “non-Alabamian cousin”?
Edit: holy sugarplums, 91 likes? What? Thank you!
Me
"What am I supposed to do? I don't have a job!"
"You should've thought about that before you went sleeping around behind my back. See ya."
My mom was married to a guy who was in military (very late 60s to mid 70s and in the UK) who was a complete douche bag, he flung her out of the apartment window (2nd/3rd floor) and by sheer luck she landed on her feet. She had my sister and brother with him and I don't know what he did to them. Wasn't told if that happened or not. My mom and siblings told me that he died during a operation. My mom met and married my dad when he was stationed in the UK a few years later.
I hate those who use suicide as a way to control, and also just makes you look dumb if you're going to go that route if you are not getting your way with the victim .
LMAO@"let his crazy out"
I hope all these people are doing okay and have escaped their abusers and stalkers.
How can you let yourself get $16000 in credit card debt?
People get manipulative, like to where they threaten to off themselves
Poverty
The OP's in the first 2 stories didn't dodge bullets,they dodged hi orbital nuclear strikes
More guys gotta speak up about their abuse. People would take it more seriously I feel like, if men didn't feel like they had to hide it. It could erase the stigma around it, let let others know that there isn't anything to feel ashamed about..
"Punched a locker... Broke TWO fingers"
"Blew up a brick and mortar mailbox."
I've been through spousal abuse and the description "boiling a frog" is so very accurate.
Dated a girl my senior year of high school. About a year. Everything was fine for around 8 months, then she started getting jealous, accusing me of cheating on her with girls I talked to just because they were in my classes, never out of school. I started bringing her to my friends houses with me. A few times she said she thinks she wants to break up, I ask why and she says nevermind. Never would talk about it. One day I'm hanging out with a friend, she shows up at my house and tells me she cheated on me with her abusive ex that she always said was just a friend. Find out from her friend of 8 years the only reason I was told was because her friend threatened to tell me if she didn't. We talk, I stupidly decide lets see if we can work through it. Prom comes around, she said she can't go because her family can't afford it(her family all lived in one trailer in compton other than her and her mom who only had a house because of inheritance) so I paid almost 800 dollars for a dress and her hair and naills and what not plus my suit rental. Day of prom I call her to see when she wanted me to pick her up. Get a bunch of excuses about wanting to take photos with girl friends. Find out from friend she is with a big group of people including guys. Says to meet her at prom outside, okay wtf. I get there, she won't answer her phone. Wait outside for about 2 hours only for her to call me and tell me shes been inside the whole time. Go inside, spend 5 minutes in there, her and her friends start making up lies calling me abusive, I left right here, talked to her mom for a bit (her mom loved me) and she said sorry, I don't know why she is so shitty. Turns out she was telling everyone, my friends I was abusive and stalking her and wouldn't leave her alone all the while she would invite me over, want to cuddle etc. I lost everyone that day when I was the one being hit, screamed at, used financially. There was a lot more in there she did too, but too much written already. Years later, she tries to match me on dating apps all the time even though I block her, meaning she makes new accounts. She put on a ton of weight, looks like crap on top of it and all she does is drink every day at a country bar and go home with random dudes each time. One time I went with a friend that hung out in the same group as her. My ex pulled said friend aside and asked her why she would bring me (keep in mind this is 5 years of not seeing each other) and she starts telling the same lies. Next time i went and she was there, I got jumped for no reason by the Mongols (violent biker gang) while standing in the back corner talking to friends and turns out she was friends with the one who started it. I worked a second job for a friends tow company for extra income.. One day my buddy calls me up and tells me to guess who's car he is towing. He tells me its my ex and he only knew because somehow, she brought me up in conversation and was again telling the same lies (6 years after we stopped dating)
"She said I was the only thing keeping her alive." What about her daughter?! 17:55
This is one of the reasons why I’m single. I’m afraid to my date is a psycho or I turn into psycho
People are too nuts. I'm very happy being single while everyone else is in a constant state of dramatics.
It’s scary to think that some people who are the toxic ones are in the victim mentality-like, no sweetie. You’re the one jealous of the pet dog. I hope these people get help. And for the ones who have dealt with all the crazy, I hope you find peace and happiness❤️
If they dont like your friends who are tried and true friends leave them now
I don’t know why, but instead of a bride cake topper, I thought the thumbnail was a smashed wedding cake that looked like the head of a goose holding a wedding ring.
These stories remind me of what my friend is going through I don’t know if it’s physical or not but she’s made him cut-off complete contacts and he moved hours away from his family so now I’m just waiting for the day he finally leaves her so we can talk again and just pick up where we left off as friends
It's scary that these crazy people actually exist! :O
The thumbnail for some reason reminded me of that one guy who threw himself into a wedding cake because of a little rain in the November Rain music video.
Girl has 5 brothers who could not 'tune in' the crazy bf?
I am glad that i am happily single!
...and I thought my ex's were crazy...😯
My brother was dating a girl (both in thier late teen's) who just got out of an abusive relationship. He eventually broke it off cuz she was too clingy. The next time they saw each other was with a group of friends and she asked him to get back together. When he said no she got in her car and tried to run him over. Thankfully their friends stopped her, now my brother is worried cuz he is about to go to a good college but she is already in school there
I dated a psycho for almost 2
Years I learned to leave abusive people immediately after that
I must be a horrible person but a threat of suicide would only elicit a statement asking for proof!
The lady in the first story should’ve thought of that before cheating
User1539 sounds like he didn't even love her.
I was forced to move from a big city to a village. I didn't have any friends, and I was CLEARLY depressed.
Ignoring her was the opposite of what you were supposed to do.
I'm just glad my family didn't abandon me when I needed them most like you did.
1st story°°° wow, she really went there "prove that you love me .... by accepting my cheating and take care of the results' path...
like did the baby daddy proved that befote she slept with him, without protection, even.
the audacity (some say idiocity) is...just...wow.
You know your past relationship sucked ass and you made the right decision to call it off when you can see things your ex did littered throughout the video
I need to stop watching these. I jus started datin someone and now these make me paranoid
It's not paranoia if you actually are being followed.
As someone who lives in Pittsburgh...that shit is not gonna make you happy
Oof for some of them
I'm glad they all dodge the bullet, few are nuclear dodged. But I feel sorry the ex's new partner/spouse have to deal with that crazy person.
Seeing more red flags, so very educational! 😊
For the 1st one the only thing I can say is, in the words of Key and Peele "consequences"
"uh, number." 14:53
These kind of stories give me a feeling that my school bully won't exactly have a happily ever after. Initially I felt like it was already a red flag that she tried to get married despite Covid 19 getting worse over the year. Despite all kinds of BS she possibly went through to finally get married, I keep getting the feeling that marriage won't exactly workout for her. She may look happy last time I noticed on her social media but i can't say for sure that she changed.🤷♀️
This video has more nuts than a men's locker room.
I've never understood how the threat of a crazy partner committing suicide would be any sort of threat. That's just a problem that takes care of itself. The proper response when somebody says if you leave me I'll kill myself say, good. Go ahead.
Unfortunate to most male victims, they report it but nothing ever comes of it, and are made fun of and called unmanly for not being able to take physical abuse
It's wild to me how obvious some of these abuse tactics are on the surface. Like, it really takes someone who has been eroded by a psycho asshole bitches tactics to fall for them, but me personally if some cow called me every week to remind me how good she has it "without me" I'd ask, "then why do you keep calling? It sounds like you need to tell yourself this." I'm not calling the victims week mind you, I'm saying it's odd how night and day the experiences are between someone who isn't primed for the treatment and someone who was.
Entertaining
*Updoot*
A common trend you see is women smacking men in their sleep...
Please don’t move to Pittsburgh.. we got enough crazies!
"Non-Alabamian"
It sounded like you said she didn't like you bending your fingers.
I think it means cracking knuckles which I hate myself also but not as bad as her, Jesus
@@HUYI1 Wow
My ex-wife was constantly accusing me of cheating (untrue). "I saw you talking to that girl, I know you're sleeping with her. I saw you talking to that guy. I know you're gay." Also, previously in college, I was seeing this girl; then, slowly started breaking it off. Just not calling as much, etc. Started getting hang-up phone calls. Then, found out she was telling our friends that I was doing that to her!
My current fiance has a restraining order against his ex wife. He was in the military and she of course cheated frequently. They quickly divorced after their first child. She was physically abusive with him to the point there are police records of her stabbing him. Some drugs and many bad relationships later his ex wife lost custody of the child and she now lives with us full time. The child stated she had some abuse issues in the home. At first we suspected the boyfriends, with the signs she was showing. Years go by and the awkward visitation exchanges become violent and we had to have police present during the drop off and pick up. Twice I have had to grab the kid and run while he took the brunt of what was happening or call the cops in. He refuses to be alone with her anywhere and I don't blame him. One weekend the kid discloses sexual abuse from her mom. Literally her mom doing things to her and her boyfriends occasionally participating. So of course we call in an investigation. His ex calls the cops on us, when the cops refuse to take the 'contempt' report she drives to our house and rammed our 200lbs gate until it broke down. Backed out of our driveway to park literally in the middle of the street and walk back up to our house. She gets halfway through the yard before he came outside and started calling the cops. She wasn't charged with anything. The cops showed up gave us a report and told us to come back the following week. Had no idea for what. I'll never forget talking a 9 year old down telling her she didn't have to be afraid of her own mother trying to break into our house or coming to get her for talking about the ways she hurt her. This was on a Friday, Wednesday we came back to the station and the cops asked if we'd like to file a restraining order. We got it granted in 30 minutes. The restraining order is only effective for the adults due to a visitation order. She is not to be anywhere near either of us but the kid still has to do supervised visits until the state makes a decision in January. My dudes had three ex's two of them were ex wives but none of them have caused anything like this one. One of them who he has a son with, was diagnosed with cancer. We are all friends and frequently vacation with her and her husband. The other he hasn't heard from or seen in years so 🤷. Two ex wives one woman he had a kid with and one restraining order later. Sorry that was long and this probably sounds insane but I swear to God he's worth all of it. ❤️
Y are there only 17 comments lmao
So many plot holes.
(This is going to seem like a rant lol, it's just an in depth explanation not a rant)
These are all pretty horrible BUT one thing... Ladies... there's a good chance that many of your (even "platonic") male friends would get involved with you if asked even if you're in a relationship. I've met very few guys that could have a strictly platonic relationship with a woman without having some kind of crush or feelings for them, or without trying to experiment with them at least once. Especially if there's a sense of weakness, a spot in the armor where they can justify it to themselves
We are still animals. Often times it isn't that we don't trust *you*, it's that we know close to 50% of the world would actively ruin the relationship if they were put in the right position. At that point youd have to "pitch a perfect game" so to speak.
I think most guys here know of a guy who was "Strictly gay" until their female best friend became single and then suddenly decided to flip.
Not all guys are like this, some guys have a high enough self esteem and already have their needs met elsewhere and won't try it out of respect for the relationship or lack of personal interest.
Some guys don't have enough self esteem to try making a move.
But most of them have thought or do think about it. It NEVER justifies abuse, far from it. The two are separate concepts. Fear can be rooted in the rational without a response being justifiable.
[Personal note, I generally was the guy asking women to give buddies of mine/their SO a chance and to communicate their needs in their relationships.]
why does it say 1 comment but i see 2
I don't know why but I'm getting tired of people complaining about their past relationships cuz personally you are attracted to what you are usually
Does the word "Updoot" have any meaning? Or is it a name?
That is a sad thumbnail.
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Reasons why to be aro and/or ace
Stop using "psycho" to describe bad or erratic people
They were psycho
That's literally what psychosis is, behaving erratically. So fuck that, call it what is: PSYCHO.
@@thegayestgoth not necessarily. “Erratic behavior” can be mild as ADD.
I am playing hyperfun over this cause you need to stop this track and go back to the good tracks
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HI, it’s 3 am and I’m single. I just realized I was kinda abusive to my ex’s and I was sexually abused... a lot ahahahaha I want to die now, how’s your day going?
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So uhh, funny story, something happened to me but it obviously wasn't serious because i still was a small kid. Anyway it happened on Roblooooox... (Yeah this is lame)
To sum it up, she said i was the only thing she loved more than everything and everyone, wanted me to come to her house so we could make a stronger relationship (I am bilingual so that meant i was far away from her) and that supposedly his "ex' was being abusive and he punched her in the face, i was friends with her "ex" who just was a friend of her, i knew him well and was a really nice guy, he speaked Spanish and he didn't knew English so that's something, eventually she wanted to break up because i was being nice to other girls AND BOYS and she felt i was cheating on her (Reminder this all happened in a virtual world) and yadda yadda i just blocked her