Absolutely. Kids are a lot like puppies rhe first few years of their life and even if you don't plan on having any yourself do you really want to be that aunt/uncle that nobody ever sees bc you're afraid of what could happen
I don't even care if that means they might hurt me, if they hurt an animal, we're done. Period. Your comment kinda makes it seem like you're cool with animal abuse but not human...? Id say abusing a pet is even worse..that animal is completely innocent and wouldn't even understand what was happening, thats heartbreaking..
I had 6:15 happen to me as well. It wasn't a red flag, though, just a misunderstanding. The guy, who liked me, thought when I said "thank you" I was being genuine, but when I said "I really appreciate it" I wasn't, and attempted to call me out on it. He backed down when I told him he was wrong, though, and I didn't have repeat issues with him, so just a misunderstanding.
The guy at 11:00 whose girlfriend kept spending the night at other people's houses and was obviously cheating on him *probably* should have gotten a paternity test lol yikes
Disagree with that people who don't trust others aren't trustworthy them self. If you got ensnared, abused or scamed you won't trust people so easy - that make you not a bad person + trust have to be earned.
Yeahhh I have hella trust issues because of my parents' abuse, but I don't like that that apparently would make this person think I'm untrustworthy when I'm doing all I am in therapy specifically to become a kinder and healthy person than either of them ever were.
I hate the dude measuring the girls food, my husband loves that I regularly eat him under the table(I'm not fat). I'm glad she got out, that's dangerously controlling behavior
@@serazvi5387 Honestly to me it doesn't, but with a comment like this I figured I'd get a lot of "well its because he's a chubby chaser" comments so I just wanted to avoid any excuses as to why it's great to have a husband that let's you eat whatever you want.
I'm not even 24 hours after breaking up a 3 yr relationship, I was in the ER and I told her. It was a serious issue and she goes "oh okay have fun." And stopped talking to me.
Noped out on my ex after finding out he was flirting with/having emotional affairs with almost all of his female friends. Not the first guy that's done this either, FML.
There’s this kid that liked me when I was 14 and he was creepy and looked like me a drug dealer. I told my friend to tell him that I liked him cuz I wanted to what would happen. No matter what I was gonna leave. During our first text conversation he told me his ‘past love’ experience and how much he wants to be a dad when I’m open about not wanting a family and stuff and then he said that he loved me during that same night. I mainly left cuz he gave me bad vibes and when I get certain vibes I’m usually right. 2 years later and he’s calling me leaving me voicemails about how he wants to hear my voice one last time and is acting pretty creepy about it. I blocked all the numbers he’s used to call me and reported them.
My friend that I liked playing video games with decided in his mind that we were dating. He went so far as to tell his other friends that we were dating. I found this out the night we went to hang out at his friend's house to drink; my crush happened to stop by and we hit it off and decided to leave together to hang out. Well the homeowner flipped her shit and yelled at me, told me to get the f out and never come back. I was dumbfounded because her outrage was totally uncalled for. Me, being a heterosexual male, wasnt interested in my male friend in thst way. Anyway, I noped out of that "relationship" and stopped talking to both of them.
Well my ex was a toxic ah... I was 16 then. He called me slurs and threatening to kill himself. Last straw was him lieing being dead. We got panicked and called hospital. Turned out he was a pathological liar and a cheater. My self-esteem was crushed to lower than a zero. I'm glad that my parents helped me got out of it. After that he knocked up a then 15 year old girl who later got it terminated. It's been 10 years. Im much happier than I was that time. He still is the same toxic ah as he was 10 years ago.
You know someone needs therapy right now if they show attachment/addiction to rape, especially if they're the rape victim and they wanted to get laid where they got raped in the past
I can’t stand that some people too easily read sarcasm or passive aggression into anything written or texted. I had the same issue crop up with my co-workers when I started writing reminders for them because it’s easier for me to do so by writing it down rather than trying to find the right way/time to say it verbally, on the white board and it turned out one of them felt it was passive aggressive and it made her feel like she was doing something wrong (I mean she kind of was, she was not performing up to the standard of her position and this was my way of helping by basically holding her hand, though I never said that outright), but luckily when this came up at a team meeting we were able to clear that up so she understood there was absolutely no passive aggression present in my notes, they’re literally just meant to be written reminders.
Was with my ex and one day her friend came and spoke to me about the fact my ex (who was gf at the time) wanna be with me but at the same time with someone else and wanted my consent. I thought i meant nothing to her and went to confront her days later when i finally saw her again. She was attacked by my words so badly she eventually never came around ever again. Never saw her ever again. Even though she's suicidal and im not sure if she's dead now. But i don't give a fuck. Im not saying she deserves it. But she wouldnt count on me to help her out.
I was dating a massage therapist and she asked me to drive her to a client's house. After dark. Needed me to stop at a liquor store on the way. Ghosted her. Luckily it was early on and it was before we slept together. 🤮
4:05 Well I've heard of eating a$$, but this is ridiculous. But seriously though, you know it's bad when a man slaps a woman in self defense and DOESN'T go to jail when the cops arrive.
The one about the over spender, I'd have taken none of that debt and would have felt no guilt in leaving her. I'd have let her drown in her own problem.
not a relationship, but a fwb, she made jokes of killing me a couple times, and i brushed them just as that, but when i got scared was when she tried to suffocate me, the first and only occasion i´ve considered hitting a woman, after 3 weeks of not contacting her, she said she really liked me while drunk, and a couple days after that she asked if i wanted anything serious, which i obviously said no, i´m still worried about her showing up one day on my door
Imo amusement parks should have a capacity ceiling to keep lines down where you have to pre-book the day. Yeah it would be a bit of a pain in the ass but I mean come on lines at amusement parks are only just better than socks in a TV box on Christmas morning
Not a relationship or someone I'm even interested in but I know a guy that's like the "been there, done that" chick. Claims to have done all these things, most of which I don't believe, and even brags about it. In fact, all he does is brag. I just find it exceedingly hard to believe that someone who has lived that storied of a life would be living in a backwoods hick town, living off of disability in a cracker box apartment.
I agree in some way a partner should affirm the other each day Not always about looks and not one sided but something that builds them up. But not forced. Like I also feel building up others every time you see them is beneficial to all but especially those we like and love need a building up in this world of stress and putting us all down. Y'all are special to someone, hugs.
4:05 any cop that doesnt arrest you for hitting a woman needs to urgantly be fired. I dont care if the woman beats you with a hammer but the second you so much as lightly slap her your ass needs to go to prison for life. Women are perfect gifts from god and should never be harmed.
If some BF-GF abuses a pet, I see that as a huge red flag because how long until they decide to abuse you.
Absolutely. Kids are a lot like puppies rhe first few years of their life and even if you don't plan on having any yourself do you really want to be that aunt/uncle that nobody ever sees bc you're afraid of what could happen
Also they abuse animals. No need to wonder if they’ll switch to people. The first is bad enough.
I don't even care if that means they might hurt me, if they hurt an animal, we're done. Period.
Your comment kinda makes it seem like you're cool with animal abuse but not human...? Id say abusing a pet is even worse..that animal is completely innocent and wouldn't even understand what was happening, thats heartbreaking..
The one where the woman and the dog packed their stuff made me laugh. I was totally thinking the same thing. 😂
His mom got into an argument with the neighbor and he decided to "help" her by pulling a gun on the neighbor. NOPE.
Okay the food measuring one is sick
I had 6:15 happen to me as well. It wasn't a red flag, though, just a misunderstanding. The guy, who liked me, thought when I said "thank you" I was being genuine, but when I said "I really appreciate it" I wasn't, and attempted to call me out on it. He backed down when I told him he was wrong, though, and I didn't have repeat issues with him, so just a misunderstanding.
People getting jealous of pets, lmao
2:01 it’s obvious she had that reaction already typed up and ready to paste ASAP when she got a message…oops!
The guy at 11:00 whose girlfriend kept spending the night at other people's houses and was obviously cheating on him *probably* should have gotten a paternity test lol yikes
"Kinda been a jerk the whole relationship"
Proceeds to list out the classic signs of emotional abuse.
Any person who feels the need to "test" their partner has no business being in a relationship, end of story
Disagree with that people who don't trust others aren't trustworthy them self.
If you got ensnared, abused or scamed you won't trust people so easy - that make you not a bad person + trust have to be earned.
I was thinking the same. People who distrust others is because they been betrayed in the past, not because they're not trustworthy
Yeahhh I have hella trust issues because of my parents' abuse, but I don't like that that apparently would make this person think I'm untrustworthy when I'm doing all I am in therapy specifically to become a kinder and healthy person than either of them ever were.
I hate the dude measuring the girls food, my husband loves that I regularly eat him under the table(I'm not fat). I'm glad she got out, that's dangerously controlling behavior
Why does it matter if you're not fat?
@@serazvi5387 Honestly to me it doesn't, but with a comment like this I figured I'd get a lot of "well its because he's a chubby chaser" comments so I just wanted to avoid any excuses as to why it's great to have a husband that let's you eat whatever you want.
I'm not even 24 hours after breaking up a 3 yr relationship, I was in the ER and I told her. It was a serious issue and she goes "oh okay have fun." And stopped talking to me.
8:50 they need to be talking about avatar at Disney lol
Noped out on my ex after finding out he was flirting with/having emotional affairs with almost all of his female friends. Not the first guy that's done this either, FML.
Wouldn't stop calling me, and threw a tantrum when I went to visit my mom one day bc I didn't answer her phone calls.
There’s this kid that liked me when I was 14 and he was creepy and looked like me a drug dealer. I told my friend to tell him that I liked him cuz I wanted to what would happen. No matter what I was gonna leave. During our first text conversation he told me his ‘past love’ experience and how much he wants to be a dad when I’m open about not wanting a family and stuff and then he said that he loved me during that same night.
I mainly left cuz he gave me bad vibes and when I get certain vibes I’m usually right. 2 years later and he’s calling me leaving me voicemails about how he wants to hear my voice one last time and is acting pretty creepy about it. I blocked all the numbers he’s used to call me and reported them.
5:30 I bet this was in Florida 🐊
My friend that I liked playing video games with decided in his mind that we were dating. He went so far as to tell his other friends that we were dating. I found this out the night we went to hang out at his friend's house to drink; my crush happened to stop by and we hit it off and decided to leave together to hang out. Well the homeowner flipped her shit and yelled at me, told me to get the f out and never come back. I was dumbfounded because her outrage was totally uncalled for. Me, being a heterosexual male, wasnt interested in my male friend in thst way. Anyway, I noped out of that "relationship" and stopped talking to both of them.
Well my ex was a toxic ah... I was 16 then. He called me slurs and threatening to kill himself. Last straw was him lieing being dead. We got panicked and called hospital. Turned out he was a pathological liar and a cheater. My self-esteem was crushed to lower than a zero. I'm glad that my parents helped me got out of it. After that he knocked up a then 15 year old girl who later got it terminated. It's been 10 years. Im much happier than I was that time. He still is the same toxic ah as he was 10 years ago.
15:08 damn... That's just sad
You know someone needs therapy right now if they show attachment/addiction to rape, especially if they're the rape victim and they wanted to get laid where they got raped in the past
@@ladylunaginaofgames40 Certainly. That situation is twisted and sad.
The guy playing the “checking account game” should make a spreadsheet of all of his holdings. It’ll still be going up, just faster.
I can’t stand that some people too easily read sarcasm or passive aggression into anything written or texted. I had the same issue crop up with my co-workers when I started writing reminders for them because it’s easier for me to do so by writing it down rather than trying to find the right way/time to say it verbally, on the white board and it turned out one of them felt it was passive aggressive and it made her feel like she was doing something wrong (I mean she kind of was, she was not performing up to the standard of her position and this was my way of helping by basically holding her hand, though I never said that outright), but luckily when this came up at a team meeting we were able to clear that up so she understood there was absolutely no passive aggression present in my notes, they’re literally just meant to be written reminders.
Was with my ex and one day her friend came and spoke to me about the fact my ex (who was gf at the time) wanna be with me but at the same time with someone else and wanted my consent. I thought i meant nothing to her and went to confront her days later when i finally saw her again. She was attacked by my words so badly she eventually never came around ever again. Never saw her ever again. Even though she's suicidal and im not sure if she's dead now. But i don't give a fuck. Im not saying she deserves it. But she wouldnt count on me to help her out.
Norms: she's expecting!
Nope's: she's _"expectantly"...._
gonna make me choose you or the cat? Lady there is the door! KITTY ALL THE WAY!
I was dating a massage therapist and she asked me to drive her to a client's house. After dark. Needed me to stop at a liquor store on the way. Ghosted her. Luckily it was early on and it was before we slept together. 🤮
4:05
Well I've heard of eating a$$, but this is ridiculous.
But seriously though, you know it's bad when a man slaps a woman in self defense and DOESN'T go to jail when the cops arrive.
The one about the over spender, I'd have taken none of that debt and would have felt no guilt in leaving her. I'd have let her drown in her own problem.
not a relationship, but a fwb, she made jokes of killing me a couple times, and i brushed them just as that, but when i got scared was when she tried to suffocate me, the first and only occasion i´ve considered hitting a woman, after 3 weeks of not contacting her, she said she really liked me while drunk, and a couple days after that she asked if i wanted anything serious, which i obviously said no, i´m still worried about her showing up one day on my door
Also i m glad I'm a social anxiety, socially avoidant, straight,ace,hermit,geek.
I have never and probably won't ever have a gf or evil\crazy ex.
11:32 I would be suspicious of the kid not being mine.
10:31 no, it isn't totally normal to hide body functions. Source: every living thing that isn't human
Imo amusement parks should have a capacity ceiling to keep lines down where you have to pre-book the day. Yeah it would be a bit of a pain in the ass but I mean come on lines at amusement parks are only just better than socks in a TV box on Christmas morning
All lines should have a 10 minute wait maximum
I would love an entire TV box filled with socks. I always ask for socks anyways lol
She forgot to tell me she was already married.
13:51 I meeeaaaannn the guy who tried to rob him kinda deserved it 🤷♂️ mess with anyone's money and it's trial by fire.
Everyone run 🏃♂️!
"I called her pretty"
She did not like this. 😅
30 guys?! That's it? How old was she? 20? 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
i'm on the thumbnail! 🐧
Thank god the cops arrest that psycho and not OP.
Not a relationship or someone I'm even interested in but I know a guy that's like the "been there, done that" chick. Claims to have done all these things, most of which I don't believe, and even brags about it. In fact, all he does is brag. I just find it exceedingly hard to believe that someone who has lived that storied of a life would be living in a backwoods hick town, living off of disability in a cracker box apartment.
I agree in some way a partner should affirm the other each day
Not always about looks and not one sided but something that builds them up.
But not forced. Like I also feel building up others every time you see them is beneficial to all but especially those we like and love need a building up in this world of stress and putting us all down.
Y'all are special to someone, hugs.
11:38 W dad
and I walled away walled walled walled
Oof
I dont get the second story
Are you ever gonna fix that broken outro? It hasn't rendered properly for literally years. :/
10:27 sounds like a lot of women nowadays...
Terrible text to speech
4:05 any cop that doesnt arrest you for hitting a woman needs to urgantly be fired. I dont care if the woman beats you with a hammer but the second you so much as lightly slap her your ass needs to go to prison for life. Women are perfect gifts from god and should never be harmed.
Dont think he woulda got arrested un that case. It was a form of self defence
The fuck? Assault is assault. Doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman. That woman deserves to go to jail.
@@lordexplosionmurder8978 hitting women is the only assult you need to worry about
The problem there is, most cops are also abusers, and they will ALWAYS side with the abusive man over the victim.
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