85 - Why You're Hung Up On Someone Who Doesn't Want To Be With You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ส.ค. 2024
- On the first episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, your host, Sabrina, explores the reasons we sometimes pursue people who don’t want us and emphasizes the necessity of healing and self-empowerment. Rejection is painful, but it’s crucial to understand that it’s not a reflection of our worth. Sabrina explains how love that isn’t reciprocated sparks neurochemical changes, causing excitement and a dopamine rush, while breakups lead to cortisol spikes and emotional lows. To counteract this, she suggests activities like walking, journaling, and spending time with friends. She delves into attachment styles, noting that secure individuals can handle breakups better, while avoidant and anxious types may struggle more. Sabrina encourages listeners to reframe their narratives, accept their feelings, and focus on self-worth rather than taking rejection personally. She highlights the importance of recognizing cognitive dissonance and fantasy bonds, urging listeners to reflect on their past relationships honestly. By doing so, we can break free from unhealthy patterns and create space for healthier, more fulfilling connections.
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Sabrina, thanks for all the straight talk in this episode.
My partner of 34 years abandoned me in April, leaving me a 10-sentence note of explanation. No one in our extensive network of friends and family knew anything about her unhappiness or plans to leave me and haven’t heard from her since. Truly breathtaking.
After 34 mostly beautiful years together, the bonds are cellular. Surprisingly, I don’t feel self-recrimination, but I certainly do idolize a previous version of her that vanished about four years ago following her retirement (I’m still working).
It feels SO complicated, but I can see after watching this episode that it’s not-she is who she is today and if that’s 180 degrees from how she’s been for so long, that doesn’t change a thing. The new Linda and the present day Me are not compatible. Time to take my lumps and move on. Be well!
People who are already subscribed to you still see this. TH-cam's algorithm showed me this in my feed. I'm not sure if changing your show name is going to hurt you for people who haven't already subscribed to your content though.
Howdy! I am a man whos been struggling with anxious attachment for a long long time. I started watching your videos this week and am happy to say I let go of someone who probably wouldnt have been great for me if I kept persuing them. Found you on instagram btw.
Anyways I dont usually write these things on videos but uh your videos helped soothe me and let me think straight and hear what I needed to hear.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Edit:spelling mistakez
Thank you! I had to listen to this episode twice. I get hung up quick, later eventually realizing I’m better off without them. I’m a work in process.
It should be called Sabrina Zohar formally known as do the work podcast. I embrace the new name. I think it was divine intervention to have the opportunity to show up as yourself. I’m glad you seized the opportunity and are example of doing the work.
This episode saved my day ! I was so deep in my head with why he didn’t want to fight for what we “had” . I really want to learn how to sit with my emotions!
I LOVE YOUR SOLOS!!! So much insight and wisdom❤️😊
Listening on repeat, and I 💖 the new name!!
You are loved and supported!! I always look you up by your name. Not the name of the podcast! You have helped me so much! Keep on being that bad ass woman that you are!!!
I’m sorry about the stress you’re going through! I’m here for you and your content, not the name of your podcast ❤🤘🙋🏻♀️
Waaaait a minute Sabrina……A RING!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ like THE ring??
i LOVE the sabrina zohar show! so glad your name is attached to this amazing podcast now.
Oh my goodness sooooo good LOVE everything you took the time to say!! Thank You ❤
Thank you for always sharing and connecting!
Obsessed with your podcast! It’s exactly what I need to hear! ❤️
FINALLY I am logging into my core beliefs, that memories from.my childhood have been playing in my life for a very long time... Thank you for cementing and confirming those things. I have never been able to have someone put into common sense and awaken emotions and thought processes in me like you do.... I'm so glad I stumbled on yr podcast you have made such an impact on my life. Hey, keep telling it how it is....Never stop the f word it's deserving when it's called for. Love yr work. Thank you 😊
I am so grateful to find your show online. Its helping me a lot in my healing journey. Thank you for being here. 💖
I’m so glad I found you
I think this is the divine universe conspiring with you. Your talent, your uniqueness, goes with your full name as the podcast name!! I say it’s a blessing in disguise it really gives it an advantage & boujee essence that attaches to yourself. I love it ❤ !!! Sending you blessings keep the amazing content coming!!!
you just keep on saying exactly what I need to hear. Every. Single. Time - addiction
Listening to your podcasts has been such a great help for me. Keep doing you Sabrina
I recently found you and I love your honesty! Keep on being you and never change!
Congrats on the new (old) name!!! Yayyyyy, I found you easily, LOVE the show and you literally give me advice that I need! THANK YOU!
the way she is the first person to be speaking my language i am such a people pleaser and had a scary middle eastern father and culturally you basically be bullied and projected on by your father but have to respect them with no respect and maturity from themselves
and she is the first person who talks just like me and with the same depth too i love her podcast!
I am a male and I have an anxious attachment. I have to let go of someone (avoidant attachment) that is to me one of the most important people in my life. She was my person. I felt safe with her. I adored her. We were 4 years in. Unfortunately she wants nothing to do with me as I got angry. She ghosted me and has cut me off. Why can't I let her just go? She's can be nasty yet I persist.
Thank you!!
Love you! Standing by you! F💞🫶🏼
5 stars, every time
Thats so crazy..."Do the work" is everywhere! I mean smart of him to TM it for $ but its not original...YOU are unique 😉
So this is what a “podcast” is? I thought it was always some ESPN thing that I literally never had time to investigate, lol. I’ll try and listen to the rest of this soon. Sounds interesting.
❤️❤️❤️
I’m surprised it wasn’t owned by Byron Katie or dr Nicole Lapera… both have published books about doing the work
Love ya guts❤️
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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Who is Clem?
her cherished dog who passed
Dude, I love you. You're so real and forthright 🩵 keep at it, we need this!