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you chaged my life in many different ways! We love you Mama Zohar!!

does the “repair” include sex? Honest question lol

Me and my husband have all 3 of these and I couldn't be more grateful ❤ Me and my ex? It was so unsafe that I had simmering anxiety 24/7 that spiked into terror when he'd rage. I couldn't talk to him about ANYTHING. Even if I tried to start a conversation about why the sky is blue....he'd turn it into a fight 😢 I'm either in a healthy relationship or I'm not IN a relationship.

You ladies should definitely make another episode (s) and take it from the end of this episode! I was like please keep going!!💖💖💖🙌🏻🙌🏻😂😂

Your podcast are so eye opening. Love you

“Long story medium, I think he ended up murdering her…” 😮

You’re so on point. Thank you for creating your platforms, and for continuing to provide unapologetic, straightforward advice.

Really love your take on this. I’ve always felt so pressured to constantly text and keep a “connection.” Will be taking this approach to dating now.

Do u have a full video on this?

I feel so validated. Thanks to both of you.

Sabrina, not texting your avoidant person and just making space for them to contact you while you're a recovering anxious person. Is that the best thing to do?

I really needed this. Thank you Sabrina ❤

You’re so fucking amazing, sis. You are the realist person on here and I am here no matter what! 🤘🏻

Love both you ladies. Gonna enjoy this one! Thanks for consistently helping me get a grip.

Followed you for a while but just started listening to your podcasts yesterday with Kamie and it CHANGED my mindset like an instant 360 change. OMG I started to suddenly unlearn everything about dating, life, relationship and I unfollow all those content creators you mean because what they're teaching it's just really a limiting belief or as what you said black and white thinking which is so unreal and unrealistic leaving no room for people to be themselves

Yes ma’am , I receiveth your sage advice. Thank you!

Your comment about coming out of a 20 year marriage made me giggle. As I write this I'm going through a divorce and it would be 20 years married this month. I don't plan on using dating apps though. I have already organically met at least 2-3 people that I am "friends" with during this time and will potentially date them. In the meantime I've been working on myself a lot over the past 1-2 years and I'm well into my healing process, thankfully. I've been following your channels for months and love so much of your content. Thanks for all you do and all the awesome guests as well. Funny enough, when I started a couple of new social medias accounts 1-2 months ago, I already had about t 4-5 "guys" messaging me and I knew immediately that it wasn't "real"...with a little common sense it wasn't hard to tell that catfishing was already trying to pop up.

I dated someone who was disorganized and also bipolar…it was a roller coaster but he’s still a good person. I understand how his chaotic childhood lead to him being that way. Anyway who is disorganized, we see you, we know it’s hard to heal your wounds. Sending love to all of you ❤

Love this episode Sabrina!

All of your You Tube episodes are Incredible I am so happy you are on here Sabrina. These are download repeat wisdom and scenarios along with in depth everything. ❤❤❤

What if he disagrees with you? This is a very normal situation in people being in a close relationship. So I guess depending on the issue do you just let it go? One of you have to cause you can’t agree on everything.😊❤

That video is so great and I am so happy that you will get married soon. I dated a guy from Bumble who claimed to be 6 ft tall, I am 5 ft 10 and when I saw him, he was clearly 5 ft 7. That's pure catfishing and he looked much older in person.

Loved this episode 🤍✨

Awesome thank you so much for your podcast, love it! I'm praying to see an episode on "if he wanted to he would" one day :D

One of my fave episodes so far! Love it and thank YOU Sabrina and Kamie <3

You’re REALLY good! Thank you!

I love your content so much. You are so honest and you tell it like it is. Thanks for all the work you’re doing ❤

Better ways to phrase "daddy issues" ... CPTSD, or abandonment wounds :) Love the episode!!

I knew it! Catfish's Kamie! ❤

Technology

I really needed this video. I am STRUGGLING. I am trying to heal but feel like every week I'm set back to zero and have to start over and I'm not actually making progress. It helps to know that healing is not meant to make the feelings go away but make it so that I can handle them as they arise. I have been under the impression this whole time that once I'm "healed" I won't feel this way ever again and I'll be at peace with no pain or sadness or whatever negative emotion has me in a chokehold that day. It helps so much to know that this is not how it works and actually, in that knowledge, I can see that I am doing a really good job at working on those aspects of myself that needed to change and that are actually healing.

My BPD got called out here

Yup. Just let it go, sis. Give him space and work on yourself.

Bad advice lady. A month? And women complain, why didnt he call me! Doesn't he like me! A day is kind of early also.

Ohhhhh

Dang. I’d be happy if a girl over texted me 😅

I loved this conversation! I do wish that the focus was more on disorganized attachment instead of the usual anxious-avoidant mix.

You have no idea how much I needed this, how much you have helped me & how much I have literally implemented your guidance into my dating life. I’m so thankful

Loved your podcast, I had disorganized attachment style and I am working with my therapist on that, your podcast really helped me.

Going no-contact with my father, a malignant narcissist, was one of the best decisions I ever made. I remember being 20 years old, sitting in the car, and being slapped across the face by him simply because I hadn’t yet bought a gift for my cousin’s wedding. People like this are so deeply wounded that they can turn your life into a living nightmare. But as adults, we hold the power to step away from those who are incapable of treating us with the respect and care we deserve. Narcissists will never take accountability-they act like toxic viruses in our lives. While I can have compassion for the person they lost to their own generational trauma, it’s essential to set firm boundaries to protect your well-being. Anyone who has survived a narcissistic childhood deserves to live a life beyond their wildest dreams. Healing is a journey, and every step is worth it. I’ve come to realize there’s no value in keeping people like this around unless they’re tied to others who are truly important in your life

But that self work requires time and effort, doesn't it? Or else you might keep perpetuating the same negative patterns that you did before

What worse is when you are ready but they are not

❤❤❤

The bare minimum is the most effort the Chad will do for her.

This episode made me feel so seen and validated! Especially the way that Thais Gibson described her own experience, because that’s me to a T! I also loved the 5 stepping stones that were shared to heal your attachment wounds. I definitely took notes! Thank you Sabrina for continuing to create such meaningful content, I’ve already shared your podcast with so many people, and already sent this one to my friend 💜

Curiosity is the key I feel and is missing, especially in my past relationships and as I look around, I see it be a pervasive problem in many situations.

I love that you keep it all REAL. You Never sugar cot anything. 👍

Why is a man texting everyday, he should be at work.

Women psych

I'm anxious i also think the person plainly disregards me in very much simple things, I'm barking at the wrong tree, I let go and then here he goes comes back.