How To STOP Anxiety

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  • @ocdandanxiety
    @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Tell me the last time you ACTUALLY needed your anxiety to warn you of danger.

    • @bendyalien
      @bendyalien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      hmm… when I was walking along the edge of a cliff 4 years ago

    • @YourEverydayGuy2
      @YourEverydayGuy2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I get intense anxiety when I play basket ball, I always feel like the ball is gonna hit me. (I mean, it could)

    • @lay34567
      @lay34567 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YourEverydayGuy2 me to

    • @ashnikfield4224
      @ashnikfield4224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I was in a middle lane turning into my work and I was almost gonna turn too late when a car was coming 😅 huge explosion of actual relevant anxiety for my safety

    • @Davidbowie2025
      @Davidbowie2025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A car almost hit me

  • @minkiethementalhippie5909
    @minkiethementalhippie5909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    God I hope this works. My anxiety prevents me from even leaving the house ugh. Thank you

    • @minkiethementalhippie5909
      @minkiethementalhippie5909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Peter Griffins I can't go on road trips. My fan ly and I love nature and for some fricken reason my anxiety gets triggered and I cry, smoke weed, shoot whiskey...I get that scared. I get it because I feel like I ruin every trip we try to take😢😢😢😢

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I wish you the best my friend!

    • @annmariemullen6080
      @annmariemullen6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@minkiethementalhippie5909 me 2 I make my family miserable

    • @mehaksheikh7489
      @mehaksheikh7489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Peter Griffins are u using madecines for anxiety

    • @RaidenXCode-k7f
      @RaidenXCode-k7f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don’t worry if they judge our anxiety negatively just laugh and move on

  • @darioncoker3478
    @darioncoker3478 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I stopped my panic attacks when I allowed it to happen. It’s scary at first. But it gets easier with each attack and then it diminishes. Haven’t had a panic attack in 5 years.

    • @maeveb757
      @maeveb757 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How it’s to hard

    • @timtech9361
      @timtech9361 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Last time I had a panic attack, i went to the ER with a 180/70 blood pressure. This is not good advice AND DO NOT say this freely on the internet without any medical experience/knowledge. This comment should be flagged and removed.

    • @darioncoker3478
      @darioncoker3478 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      @@timtech9361 This is what worked for me. It’s facing your fear. The more you fight it it’s just gonna continue to take hold of you. This may not be the best advice for some. I get your point tho.

    • @DropTheMag
      @DropTheMag 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠​⁠@@timtech9361 This is what ERP is though, exposing yourself to the anxiety, the triggers, the panic, and responding differently, in a better way--such as explained here. It's a tried and true method. It's what's recommended nearly everywhere for this kind of treatment. So let's also not spread potentially misleading and dangerous comments about treatment and how your singular situation could have been dangerous, when there could have been many other factors that led to your blood pressure issue. As panic attacks and severe anxiety can also cause isolated systolic hypertension, and you didn't provide any other potential information. This treatment works, don't discredit and try and get someone else's treatment "flagged and removed", when yours could be as well for fear mongering. They also didn't tell anyone to do what they did, just that it's what worked for them.

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​​​@@timtech9361I suffer from panic attacks. I have also ended in the ER just for the doctor to tell me that I am ok and to not panic. The panic attack had my blood pressure extremely high. They had me under observation for a couple of hours until I felt safe. Then they told me it was a panic attack and sent me home. I was in the ER several times and it was the exact thing. Only once a nurse advice me to go to therapy to get help with my anxiety. I hope it works.

  • @nicholasmarshall8430
    @nicholasmarshall8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Appreciate having people like you out there, helping us out when we need it.

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thanks so much my friend!

    • @privateequityguy
      @privateequityguy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know many of our students who try to stop nailbiting and nailpicking habit he's videos valuable. Thank you and I hope you and our team can help a lot of people stop these disorders. Take care:)

    • @tarunce995
      @tarunce995 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely !!!!

  • @rambling_riah9510
    @rambling_riah9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Wow... Accepting uncertainty. That's powerful. I will work on that. Thank you for this video.

  • @jonescalypso
    @jonescalypso ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This brought me down from a panic attack... Thank you so much. I really needed this.

  • @robertsaladino
    @robertsaladino 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Anxiety is excitement as both elicit the same response....retrain your brain by saying you're excited about whatever adventure is waiting for you...

  • @minsuga3581
    @minsuga3581 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    i just cried cried and cried i cant express my self really , i just feel anxious or maybe not or just lost in my life so i tend to worry i just hope i get better with anxiety as it is ,thank u for the video !!!

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    *10 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Strong Women*
    1. Drink more water
    2. Eat whole foods
    3. Practice daily gratitude
    4. Pick up a book
    5. Daily walks outside
    6. Listen to a TED Talk
    7. Forgive someone
    8. Join a group of supportive individuals
    9. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
    10. Congratulate yourself for this growth
    Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
    If you did, what was it?

    • @mrgwclipz
      @mrgwclipz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just listened to a Ted talk, it was awesome, drinking more water, picking up a book.

  • @SamsRussianAdventures
    @SamsRussianAdventures 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It’s all simple in theory but anxiety affects other areas, such as sleep. Also it’s extremely vital to have purpose in life, without purpose, anxiety becomes to sole focus.

  • @cookiecrumble7735
    @cookiecrumble7735 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Anxiety is often a result of constant pestimism , you are thinking, I don’t want to talk because people will judge me (negative) I want to go because they might like what I have to say (positive)

    • @diaryofarealmom3264
      @diaryofarealmom3264 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      See I don’t have these thoughts. I’m like you’re fine, but my body still has the anxiety. I will literally tell my body. Why are you having anxiety and my body just keeps doing it…

    • @Flip2raw
      @Flip2raw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@diaryofarealmom3264same

  • @heyyy1325
    @heyyy1325 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    thank you so much for this. it really helped me

  • @clamant7
    @clamant7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’m glad I found you on here. Ever since I woke up struggling to breathe one night, that experience left me having an obsessive focus on my breathing and heartbeat. I then began to be obsessive about finding the cure in an attempt to somehow get rid of it thinking that to know about it is a way to cure it. To my dismay, it only fed it to a point where the fixation became worse. After watching this, I’m realizing how much of a difference it is to embrace the anxiety and stop the obsession with finding the cure. One intrusive thought I recently faced was “If I don’t think about my breathing or checking up on my heartbeat or blood pressure, I’d die…”
    Thank you so much for this! I know I’m on my way to recovery because of it.
    #embraceit #stopfindingthecure #exposuretherapy

  • @soda5891
    @soda5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    My mum always used to tell me "Don't feed the chicken" when I got anxious as a kid

    • @liberationwasalie2982
      @liberationwasalie2982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's kinda sweet

    • @jakeyboy7779
      @jakeyboy7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s brilliant!!

    • @licensetochill4992
      @licensetochill4992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's actually a genius metaphor since Chickens can be REALLY loud and demand your attention. 🐓

    • @cartermarrero9431
      @cartermarrero9431 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’ve never had someone be able to tell when I’m anxious. They just think I’m being weird or freaking out.

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your mother was very knowledgeable and knew exactly what to tell you. I will keep that reference in mind.

  • @zatn1718
    @zatn1718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Thank you so much for making this video. Given that most of the videos have been somewhat strictly OCD, this video is PERFECT for helping people with just anxiety. I’m sending this to all of my friends with anxiety.

  • @jakeyboy7779
    @jakeyboy7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My anxiety isn't that bed mentally anymore, but I feel it physically quite often and because of it I'm experiencing adrenaline fatigue. Has anyone ever been through this, or does anybody have tips to overcome it? God bless you all He loves you all so much!!

    • @ananxiousmessoo1789
      @ananxiousmessoo1789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hi! I know it's been months but, I feel more physical song of anxiety than mental. I know everything is going to work out and be fine, but my body doesn't for whatever reason. I like to use breathing to help with it, specifically box breathing or the 4 7 breathing. Box breathing is breathing in for four seconds than holding it for four seconds than letting it out for four seconds and holding it for four seconds. I usually stick the the four seven/ a mixture of the techniques. Four seven breathing is breathing in for four seconds than breathing out for seven. Sorry for the long paragraph. I hope this helps!

    • @annaberg1200
      @annaberg1200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also have fatigue syndrome. This is a terrible combination

    • @chrisdavis7906
      @chrisdavis7906 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Try exercise - weights, running, get a good sweat on! You will feel better 😊

  • @TyIerTheCreatorLover
    @TyIerTheCreatorLover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I get really dizzy and nauseous when and in social situations. But it’s just an evil circle since I’m scared to get dizzy, nauseous and anxious I don’t do it. I can’t be in class because of this. Every time I’m happy this just shoots the happiness down and kills it. It’s the summer break but it’s only like a week till school so my anxiety has completely taken over my life. I’m not happy. I’m crying every night and every night I hope I don’t have to wake up the next day. I don’t have friends and not a reason to step outside. I’ve tried therapy countless times nothing has worked. I am a complete prisoner in my own mind. Every day of last school year was a reminder of how much of a disappointment I am. If something doesn’t happen these last days leading up to school idk if I can’t make another year of being with substitutes in a small room learning zero another year. This is a last resort to maybe fix myself before. I’m scared.

    • @gracedaviss
      @gracedaviss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      im just so glad im not alone. Anxiety makes me feel this low too💔just wish it would go away so we can live and enjoy life, ill never know what i did to deserve this.

    • @TyIerTheCreatorLover
      @TyIerTheCreatorLover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gracedaviss I feel you. Like I wish maths was the only worry I had like other kids my age. Hopefully it will go over for the both of us

    • @Busybrainfx1
      @Busybrainfx1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pray to God to give you peace of mind

    • @TyIerTheCreatorLover
      @TyIerTheCreatorLover หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Busybrainfx1 god doesn’t help me and he never has. There is a reason I don’t believe in Christianity anymore.

  • @BLH-b
    @BLH-b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This video really is helping me,I’m a kid that is going through a bad stage of anxiety about getting sick but I getting over it

  • @AnTran-zs8ny
    @AnTran-zs8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've reduced my anxiety, but i still want to watch your videos. Your way of talking make me feel comfortable and secure. Thanks

    • @dr_psr
      @dr_psr ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi , happy to know that u got a relief from the problem but May I know how u actually got out of the anxiety?

  • @LokiOfWinterfell
    @LokiOfWinterfell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    The physical symptoms are what I struggle with! They’re all consuming and terrifyingly painful

    • @EliBenett
      @EliBenett 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same. When my anxiety symptoms make me feel that I’m going to have a heart attack it’s hard for me to overcome it, I fear that if I ignore it and not seek help, what will happen if I’m actually having a heart attack 😢

    • @playerunknown5096
      @playerunknown5096 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same​@@EliBenett

  • @canmalatyaloglu8690
    @canmalatyaloglu8690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Nathan, I am so thankful that I found your channel when I needed the most. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @sujayv8449
    @sujayv8449 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have watched a million videos on the internet for my anxiety and nothing helped me as much as this one video did. It worked for me instantly and I watch it everytime I need a reminder. Good work you're helping people out in ways you might not realise. Keep it going 🎉

    • @ivoivanov2150
      @ivoivanov2150 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly! When u just accept reality , and face the anxiety , my brain tells me relax man the danger is not real, or the danger is real but i dont give a f helps a lot

  • @Appa8
    @Appa8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m afraid and anxious about my constant mild dissociation. I search and lookup tips on how to stop dissociation every day even during work. When I’m not looking stuff up I’m thinking about how I’m feeling 24/7. I’m afraid of not problem solving because if I don’t problem solve or worry about it, it might get worse.

  • @JoseGarcia-nq8ik
    @JoseGarcia-nq8ik 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Usually my compulsions are what dig me a deeper hole

  • @rarazegh992
    @rarazegh992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Daamn how is it possible for u to make me feel much better and calm my anxiety symptoms right away (such as fast heart beats and breathing struggles)?! I'm very very happy that I found ur channel, and u can't imagine how noble what you do is and how amazingly reliefing your videos are! Thank you so so so so much for saving my life (cuz I literally almost got depressed till i found ur channel) ❤

  • @jt560
    @jt560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you, problem solving is what I do, my brain won't switch off and just thinks of everything that could happen and every ridiculous possibility of what I should do about it or how to prevent the things that trigger my anxiety and I get trapped in my own head for the rest of the day. I need to try and reset myself and focus on your method.

  • @Ollie7707
    @Ollie7707 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for making these videos. Bless you. I am praying for you ❤️ keep up the great work, it’s so helpful for me and so many others.

  • @dhsluggyy4519
    @dhsluggyy4519 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    thank you so much this saved me literally.

  • @giogiol7331
    @giogiol7331 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow ! Doctor you literally diagnosed me without even talking to me .
    i’m so happy that i found your video and understood my problem.
    Now i will be working on solving it
    Thank you 😊

  • @dzarko1
    @dzarko1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You really are the best in this. There are some close, but You seem to grasp that best.

  • @irshadahmadi6497
    @irshadahmadi6497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    your videos played a an important role in my pure o. thank you so much

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! Thank you for your kind words.

  • @MarcoDilema
    @MarcoDilema 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You’re such a good psychologist !

  • @evelinvarga3783
    @evelinvarga3783 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so grateful for this channel. It really is saving my life.

  • @TechieSewing
    @TechieSewing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you, found you in the comments of Channel Makers and I'm glad I went to look :)

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh haha. Thanks for coming over!

  • @FadedFlash7
    @FadedFlash7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this video! Last year I was really struggling with some OCD symptoms where I constantly wash my hands and can't let go of my thoughts when it comes to specific things like arranging things and over analyzing things and now I'm struggling with constantly worrying about everything so this video really helps! Thank you!
    P.S I love how you give examples to us of what anxiety does lol

  • @holo0667
    @holo0667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You know what, imma take your advice. I'll try to remember to come back in a few months and thank you properly if I feel like I've improved even by a bit. But thank you anyway for this video which at the very least somehow calmed the anxiety attack I am currently having.

  • @amberh476
    @amberh476 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Can you do a video on sleep anxiety/insomnia? I would really love to hear your thoughts on how to tackle that type of anxiety.

    • @snowps1
      @snowps1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take some magnesium citrate before bed. But don't take too much because it can give you diarrhea. It can help you relax and sleep and it calms down heart palpitations. I like Natural Calm.

    • @DiyaGupta
      @DiyaGupta 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He has a video on sleep anxiety.. search properly

  • @JanSnieg
    @JanSnieg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wrote this for myself here, but that's THE BEST advice I've ever heard. I mean, of course I heard that I need to face my anxiety but I didn't know how. U taught me in this video. I'll note every time I get spike anxiety, then I'll write down my fears, and the reality afterwards and I'll go back to these notes each time I feel anxious.
    I need to print that on my wall XD:
    8:50
    Treatment is not a quick fix, it’s a life style.
    Something you need to do throughout your entire life whenever there is an anxiety and there is no threat.
    Make it your lifestyle, you trust in the treatment.
    Learn to not look for that cure, instead embrace your anxiety, do something different, feel anxious, don’t fix it.
    Do it over and over and over again. Your brain will finally get it.

  • @beezees2593
    @beezees2593 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for helping me with severe anxiety ☹️

  • @TheSkatepark1900
    @TheSkatepark1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This become tricky when the "Maybe, maybe not" response in itself becomes the thing you do to "get rid of the anxiety." That's where I am stuck currently. Using the 'exposure' or 'mindfulness' or even 'Alexander Technique' to feel relief from the anxiety. This becomes the compulsion.

    • @cerealis_5432
      @cerealis_5432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same. It’s really difficult for me to tell the difference between regular thoughts sad ocd thoughts. Where do we draw the line? When does disregarding become a compulsion and how do we prevent this from happening? I find myself feeling frantic /panicky when I get an ocd thought then I try to scour through all the techniques I’ve learned to see which one will make the anxiety go away before it “takes over”.

  • @user-ys3ik7pl3c
    @user-ys3ik7pl3c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your honestly the best man. You’ve really educated so far.💙💙

  • @nehagoswami1576
    @nehagoswami1576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I cannot thank you enough for the work that you do. Through your videos, I have started to get some relief whenever a thought keeps bugging me. Thank you so very much. Your videos are a life-saver

  • @samurai96369
    @samurai96369 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i only get anxiety when im on the spot but in dangerous situations im the calmest person tell me whats wrong😂

  • @eyebutterfly
    @eyebutterfly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the most helpful video I’ve watched on anxiety thank you 🙏🏽

  • @JayaLove
    @JayaLove ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love your vibe. So calm and chill. Almost like a cool stoner dude. But embodied and educated.
    I found you while researching for my son’s tics. We are going to apply some of the strategies with him.

  • @2012evolution
    @2012evolution 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What about health anxiety, something you cannot see, but fear?

  • @ninjarecroom
    @ninjarecroom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude i cant thank you enough for making this video whenever i get anixety i usually just continue my day like normal but im always thinking about whats gonna happen in the future or other horrible things but you have helped me get through my anxiety and saved me from thinking terrible things when anxious in the future❤❤

  • @Jav33
    @Jav33 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You my friend are a warrior of the light.
    ❤️💪🏼👏🏼

  • @Conqueryouranxiety
    @Conqueryouranxiety 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You got this. Anytime you are going through a difficult time during the day take 3 deep slow breaths to help calm yourself. You are a strong and courageous person and can overcome any obstacles in life.😊

  • @alicel6095
    @alicel6095 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best video on TH-cam thank you for this

  • @BobbyRussell-or3oh
    @BobbyRussell-or3oh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Psychedelics like psilocybin mushrooms have shown a lot of promise in helping people with mental health issues.

    • @Jack-or9xb
      @Jack-or9xb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      On instgram?

    • @GerraldPetrucci
      @GerraldPetrucci 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can he send to me in Ohio?

    • @GiftMary-lv1lf
      @GiftMary-lv1lf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mushrooms played a pivotal role in my journey to conquer addiction, and I've never experienced a greater sense of self-control. I'm proud to say I've been clean for one year.

    • @anthonyj.michael5248
      @anthonyj.michael5248 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't tell if these are bots or actual people

    • @joshuatrevino4508
      @joshuatrevino4508 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Psychedelics aren’t the answer I promise , people will always find an excuse to use drugs lol. You will either just have a fun experience or you will come out with major ptsd and anxiety from a bad trip especially since all of you already have anxiety it’ll just be amplified on drugs . Don’t do them

  • @anadmirer8789
    @anadmirer8789 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you haven’t already, would you make a video for workplace anxiety and “Sunday scaries”? I really REALLY need help with both right now. 😥

  • @abhishekp4305
    @abhishekp4305 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pure gem...❤..no words to express gratitude

  • @alfredconqueror4422
    @alfredconqueror4422 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks a lot. Makes a lot of sense, will follow the creed of maybe maybe not from now on and face it

  • @thurinamaybe3769
    @thurinamaybe3769 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Im losing sleep over my anxiety even eating food triggers it its horrible

  • @virginiavet68
    @virginiavet68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have an anxiety-related question. I'll have intrusive thoughts that will jump back and forth between things I've believed for years and/or will say horrible things about people I love. I'll often stop and be shaken and have to argue with myself that 'no, I really don't believe this... do I?' That leads to all of the what-if questions and then more self-doubt as to whether or not I agree with these thoughts. Is this common? And if so, is ERP a good way to learn my way out of it? I don't know what to do. I'm scared...

    • @el_skrel7051
      @el_skrel7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This sounds like classic OCD! I experience this too- it’s important to remember that OCD is a “doubt” disorder (amongst other things). ERP should be helpful for sure! At the very least, know that you are not alone

    • @rutegerd
      @rutegerd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe. Maybe not.

    • @freshliving4199
      @freshliving4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take ALL thought captive captive, for they are not your own.
      Thought leads to feelings/emotions leads to overreacting.
      Your issue is NOT anxiety, doubt, insecurity, etc.
      Your issue is anger.
      Overcome the anger and you will be free.

    • @ItsMeRohanX
      @ItsMeRohanX ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro i am in a similar situation 🥲 I feel that everyone around me is fake and also i get those intrusive thoughts on everyone around me even my loved ones and my anixety keeps on increasing i don't know what to do

  • @joku.1595
    @joku.1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video! Thank you for this, my anxiety (and OCD) has been really bad lately so I'm eager to try this. I've only lately realized how much uncertainty I'm experiencing constantly and how much it actually affects me.

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing your experiences. I hope you can feel better my friend!

    • @elizawrobel1003
      @elizawrobel1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Avio033 same here! I thought I’m such a badass, not scared of anything, but looking back… constant fear, obsessions and compulsions, I just didn’t see it

    • @jakeyboy7779
      @jakeyboy7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm praying for you!!

    • @jakeyboy7779
      @jakeyboy7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizawrobel1003 you are not alone friend. Praying for you.

    • @jakeyboy7779
      @jakeyboy7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Avio033 I'm praying for you!!

  • @hartegurke1537
    @hartegurke1537 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur channel is such a treasure 😢thank you for ur help and tips they rly help me with my mental problems 😢😢❤

  • @hiphiprenae
    @hiphiprenae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Doing ERP right now with a therapist. I got the E down for sure but its the RP that I struggle with. I am constantly checking my emotions and analyzing my anxiety.

  • @arnotown6874
    @arnotown6874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hope you make a video about how to feel safe and/or comfortable with uncertainty.

  • @jessicaT12345
    @jessicaT12345 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    such a great video. thanks!

  • @jaimeperez8702
    @jaimeperez8702 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow I’m a subscriber now !! Thanks man

  • @jmdcad8134
    @jmdcad8134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m going to listen to this over and over again! So needed this!!!

  • @salvadorbanuelos6718
    @salvadorbanuelos6718 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I watched this while having a panic attack on the Metro. It helped!

  • @eggman5436
    @eggman5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yeah this channel could use way more subs everyone can benefit from these tips in helping themselves or their loved ones who live/deal with mental struggles. plus all humans experience some lvl of anxiety and these tips can help in understanding what these anxious feelings really stem from and how it plays a role in our thinking and decision making

  • @arina-dobromyslova
    @arina-dobromyslova หลายเดือนก่อน

    I put my comment here so I’ll come back over and over and keep reminding myself this message and see how I improve:)

  • @jeanstankov2005
    @jeanstankov2005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate your approach in these videos, thank you!

  • @ka-boom2083
    @ka-boom2083 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this is actually really helpful

  • @shomshay
    @shomshay ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best explanation ever. Thanks for your play

  • @himynameiscarla1870
    @himynameiscarla1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hi Nathan! Could you make a video discussing the differences between GAD and OCD. I have symptoms of both, but have only been diagnosed with GAD. Thank you for all your helpful videos :)

    • @ocdandanxiety
      @ocdandanxiety  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's a great idea. I'll add it to my list!

    • @kristymarie6065
      @kristymarie6065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes definitely

    • @vrindaharchandani9836
      @vrindaharchandani9836 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too, got diagnosed with GAD but have some OC traits as well, especially Relationship OCD, it’s just driving me crazy.

  • @pragya3274
    @pragya3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your liveliness is awesome . Thanks for ur this priceless support to support anyone across the world

  • @redbloomings7523
    @redbloomings7523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you really have knowledge over this ;-; respect 100+

  • @gwataleechy
    @gwataleechy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    And for those of us who don't think themselves into anxiety attacks?😑

  • @GuessWhat-wi8zn
    @GuessWhat-wi8zn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks a lot, I'm feeling better now

  • @Colegarratt69
    @Colegarratt69 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video opened my eyes so much as to why I’m feeling the way I am. Thank you so much dude

  • @Tiktaaalik
    @Tiktaaalik 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much! I really need this video.

  • @rthompson1024
    @rthompson1024 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nathan is such a blessing. Man...

  • @denniperez8028
    @denniperez8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have ocd since 2002 and still fighting it. It doesn’t go away, it’s on automatic mode all the time

  • @carsonwhaley4935
    @carsonwhaley4935 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This year I stopped smoking bud and cut down my phone use. Anxiety disappeared overnight

    • @francesselema6860
      @francesselema6860 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It worked for real??

    • @carsonwhaley4935
      @carsonwhaley4935 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@francesselema6860If you make healthier lifestyle decisions, anxiety is much more manageable. If you keep yourself busy with a job and some hobbies on the side, it’s much harder to find time for anxiety

  • @wednesdayschild3627
    @wednesdayschild3627 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is nothing to cure, because I am safe. Now, all I have to do is convince myself.

  • @GraceGodwin-w8l
    @GraceGodwin-w8l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you this video really calmed me down ❤

  • @souravvbesoya
    @souravvbesoya 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video really saved me today keep doing it buddy 🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏽

  • @danieldavis3565
    @danieldavis3565 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When watching this video, my anxiety got even worse for a short duration 😂

  • @millymosis
    @millymosis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this - subscribing 100%

  • @Introvertart21
    @Introvertart21 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree when I face my fears, it doesn't have much power over me, I am scared to lose my job because I spent 8 months without it, but then I say to myself, well, if it happens I know I can deal with that, so that is okay, I can find another job, but I am doing my best and that's enough. I don't think I have severe anxiety, but I guess I never let It go so far, I am doing breath work, watching videos to understand why, meditation, and wrote a note to myself to read it when I feel that way, because I know better, I know what I need to hear at that moment. Not only that, but I usually say to myself, I will deal with that situation when it happens, and if it happens.

  • @Michael-fb5ek
    @Michael-fb5ek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just found the channel! Love it man!

  • @PavanMullaguru
    @PavanMullaguru หลายเดือนก่อน

    The best Educational video. THANKS A TONNE ❤

  • @JH-xb3nl
    @JH-xb3nl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for the advice. My anxiety gets so bad that I feel tons of depression. I've been diagnosed with OCD. I suffer from suicidal OCD. I hope I can let uncertainty be there. Any other hints please.

  • @BenitoNelson-q2k
    @BenitoNelson-q2k 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve finally figured this out, thanks to you!

  • @lornareddy5638
    @lornareddy5638 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anxiety didn't warn me when I needed it but now that I don't need it at all it's really just a nuisance thank you for your videos they are very helpful.

  • @AzuraTarot
    @AzuraTarot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    good information. Shared. Awesome background, by the way.

  • @daveclifford7895
    @daveclifford7895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yet another excellent video . Thanks 🙏

  • @annmariemullen6080
    @annmariemullen6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never realized I had compulsions. It’s true though I put my life on hold because of it. I’m trying to face my fears and retrain my brain

  • @richardchappell8844
    @richardchappell8844 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just wanted to say thank you

  • @unnamed1004
    @unnamed1004 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love that perspective of proving to myself its a false alarm, i looked too deep into quantum physics and it started freaking me out 😂

  • @mrsaqib7033
    @mrsaqib7033 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Literally helpful! Thankyou soo much ❤

  • @nataliesharaf9406
    @nataliesharaf9406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video as always! Thank you for making these videos

  • @Alexadeparis07
    @Alexadeparis07 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Watching this video made me 10x more anxious and added to my anxiety. I only go through half of it.

  • @shilsonshajishaji3208
    @shilsonshajishaji3208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is actually very helpful thanks for this video 😍😍

  • @nikita2841
    @nikita2841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I obsess over me having social anxiety.. I feel imprisoned.. I feel the fear of being exposed.. I feel everyone is looking at me... I can't be myself... Help me