When A Narcissist Sees You as Being Too Strong, This is What They’ll Do
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If you're in a relationship with a narcissist, there's a good chance that at some point they'll start to see you as being too strong. When this happens, they'll often try to find ways to undermine your confidence and make you doubt yourself. In this video I talk about what to look out for and how to deal with it.
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I'll see you all there!
Oh the voice. You're dropping lines again like a rapper. You know this way of talking that you have is like a female psychopath and just wear a mask, cover it up and don't talk like that.
I 'm walking away!!!
Walked away yesterday with my head held high. Not looking back ànd taking my time to heal.
I'm so grateful I found this Channel. It helped me understand what went on and helped so much with getting closure
Smear, smear and more smear. Provoking behavior towards you - if this doesn't work then they accuse you of bullying them before hiding away like the cowards they are.
That’s the Gods honest truth. The ex does so even today
OMG! This is soooo spot on!!!!
I had a situation where it was like watching them change channels on the TV in trying to trigger me. When one strategy didn't work, on to the next, then the next, then the next. Luckily, I was clear that night and saw the whole thing from an observatory place. It was so weird once I saw it. Been observing ever since. Observe. Don't react. Things will change. Maybe worse at first, but you will keep your dignity and defeat.
@@hilarysherman591 "Observe. Don't react." Absolutely true and invaluable advice. The dignity we're left with later on is enormously gratifying.
Describes my colleague
They discard you and run away like the coward that they are.
I could not agree more! Care to share what points you like most about my video? ❤
lol
...and those people often defame you.
So true. Life is short. If there was anything I could tell my younger self it would be stop trying to please un-pleasable people. It is SUCH a waste of time and energy. Cut them off and stay focused on your own life - always. You will then attract your tribe.
Indeed 😊
i couldn’t have put that better, myself. ♥️
You got this! ❤
Yes, I also pleased people which was wrong
❤ your comment.
I walked away nearly 11 months ago. No contact and never will be again. These people are vile, evil liars. He's an old man now, all alone with his many health conditions. Good riddance to bad rubbish!
You got this Sharon! Stay on track ❤
They end up lonely and old people's home is their final abode
Walked away from a 24 year marriage 18 months ago thanks to you and Dr. Ramani. Forever grateful to you for sharing information about narcissists and helping me get out. Thank you!❤
🙂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️Good for you! It’s never too late to leave an abusive relationship!
Good to hear, Jill
Why did you walk away from your marriage after 24 years?
@@Inquisitor6321 Troll
@@andreaking3441 typical thing a feminist would say.
I'm approaching my 68th birthday, & I can tell you unequivocally that you waste HUGE swathes of time tolerating outrageously BAD behavior & completely unrealistic demands on you, only to finally come to the realization that NOTHING YOU EVER DID WAS ENOUGH FOR DISORDERED CLUSTER B's.... *SAVE YOURSELF, SAVE YOUR TIME & EFFORT...WALK AWAY!!!*
I started doing that decades ago, & fiercely defend my boundaries, & these disordered sickos have even KILLED MY ANIMALS to try to corner me into compliance... FELONIES IN MY STATE!!! Police are after them....my lawyers are frustrated... I'm frustrated, *BUT I WILL NOT BACK DOWN.* YOU HAVE TO FACE THE FACT THAT NO LOW IS TOO LOW ONCE THEY REALIZE THEY'RE NEVER GONNA CONTROL YOU!!! IT IS A WAR THAT WILL NEVER END, EVEN AFTER YOU WIN IN COURT.... You can have all the Stay Away Orders you want...3rd party abuse becomes their go-to, aaaaaannnddd it WILL CONTINUE...I AM APPROACHING THE 10 YEAR MARK... AFTER THEY STORMED OUT THE DOOR!!! I WON IN STATE SUPREME!!! DOESN'T MATTER....THEY KEEP COMING, DIFFERENT PPL, SAME GARBAGE!!!
YOU BETTER HAVE RHINO HIDE, NERVES OF TITANIUM, IRONWOOD WILL, LASER FOCUS, EXCELLENT LAWYERS, & SURROUNDED BY SURVEILLANCE, because at least in my case, THAT'S WHAT IT TAKES....NO JOKE.🖤❣️
I walked/RAN away after being strangled twice in one night by a Toxic Narcissist. I am now a survivor of domestic abuse. He is facing three legal cases against him, including a felony for the strangulation. This has taught me that a Narcissist can lose in their own game. You have to educate yourself and watch Rebecca Zung's videos for "strength" to fight evil. Thank you Rebecca!
Thanks for sharing your story! Stay strong! ❤
I'm walking away🚶 It doesn't matter how long you stay with them 🚶♀ It's never too late 🚶♂
Proud of you! Stay strong! ❤
I stood up for myself & pulled her up on her behaviour. She had no empathy at all. Because I exposed her she didn’t want to continue what we had going. She said a couple of times, “you changed when you didn’t get your way”. Which is a form of gaslighting & projection from her. I think in reality it’s, “I changed when in reality I just stopped living life the way she wanted me to for me to pay for everything.” And because I exposed her selfish self & told her she’s a user she then has no control any longer. Can’t help but think what we had was all a lie & a waste of my time, energy & money. Lucky it was only for 6 weeks.
LOLOL “I want my bottle, I want my bottle”! I actually LAUGHED OUT LOUD! “He asked me what I was just now laughing about…and I said…”BELIEVE me, you DO WANT to know”! I have become so strong in a side of me that I really love. Your videos have opened up my internal STRENGTH. Yes, he feels threatened by my new voice…especially since I told him I have a therapist to help me with someone I know who is a Narcissist. The look in his eyes, the way he immediately closes his mouth….PRICELESS! Rebekah…I want to thank you so very much (and from the bottom and top of my heart)…for placing your voice on TH-cam.
Yes, I feel this is empowering us as WOMEN!
Thanks for sharing your story! Stay strong! ❤
So true. I walked away after my last discard - He threatened to divorce me (because I had said he was a bully). I called the bluff. I didn't know about narcissism then but I knew that a partner who throws out the idea of divorce like that (for nothing) is toxic. I had researched a lot about abusive relationships but my narc never hit me, so I never felt it was like that but something was really off. The more I saw a way out, the stronger I became inside. Outwardly, I had to let him believe I was still weak because he would outsmart me. Narcissists make a playbook, or a script, because they're masters at human psychology. I figured out his script, stayed quiet and didn't follow it. I'm divorced from him now - it took 5 years. I don't reveal much to him - I don't ever let on how well I'm doing - it's best that he thinks he defeated me. He does still try to scare me into paying him money, via our kids, I can hear him in the background, 'tell her this, tell her that', yelling, screaming. No reaction from me, let him scream. So glad I don't have to deal with him.
Stay strong! ❤
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I walked away. I’ll be three years no contact in August & I’m so proud of myself ☀️🌸🍃
Happy for you! SLAY! 👏
My son’s wife is a narcissist and I have learnt to deal with it to keep my close relationship with my son It’s a nightmare My son calls me at least 3/4 times a week he lives in USA and I live in Europe. It’s been extremely traumatic at times being humiliated gratuitously by my daughter in law and her level of meanness and lies is astounding. I have had therapy I cannot walk away as I don’t want to loose my son and 2 grandsons. I listened to you just now and am constantly trying to help myself deal with whatever comes next - I will spend 2 weeks with them over the holidays and my son makes sure I see him and family as often as possible. However it’s always a trial especially as the narcissist daughter in law will spring things on me I know never to be alone with her as she is so mean and makes up lies My son is either suffering in silence or has just accepted this Lucky he’s very successful and loves his work Bravissima for your advice and help as so many people suffer with these horrible destructive human beings who are basically mentally sick. I am still learning how to survive and have not lost my son which the wife tries to manipulate to happen
With thanks
A family member set up a smear campaign against us and it’s absolutely unbelievable. The lies is shocking!! Your videos are really helping!! Thank you so so so much.❤️❤️
Sorry to hear that, when did that happen LM?
I am walking away ✨️ Thank you, Rebecca! Boundaries, the only way to go. I should have done that 5 years ago. But I wanted him so badly 😪 Thank the Lord that now I am stronger and more self empowered🙏🏼
@@JacK-qn4zh thank you!!!
Same day 30 blocked no contact 5 months since seen progress
@Caleb Keegan good luck. I did it for 7 1/2 months. Of course, he came to my door, he tried and tried for weeks. I gave in 😪 just to be treated horribly once again. Good luck to you! May you be stronger than me 🙏🏼 I have loved him for 5 years, but all it has been is all of the narcissist traits over and over, only appearing when he needs something. Extreme love bombing, future faking, and I fall EVERY time 😭 Then of course, the distant, black eyed, cold hearted polar opposite 😈 from Hell.
Ugh 🥶
Jacqueline, you got this! Stay on track and keep SLAYING!
@@RebeccaZungEsq 😚
Walked away from a narcissistic friend year ago and it's the best decision I have ever made. I feel great , free to be myself for the first time, able to make mistakes and learn from them, i just feel happy. I have time to do recovery and focus on my growth.No more walking on egg shells around her, life is great again. Never going back
Proud of you! ❤
When a narcissist thinks you're too strong, they attack you in all-caps on Truth Social.
Thank you so much! This popped up right after I got an insulting text.
I’m walking away!!!!
STAY STRONG ♥
You got this! ❤
True. She saw me as intelligent, verbal, knowledgeable. A leader type who tends to become a leader in many different situations so I have, or gain status.
I don't like having power and don't misuse it so that's also a reason why I get chosen.
She found out too late, when the devalue phase started, that I know my value and didn't start crawling, that I was not an as easy victim as she thought. I'm also extremely good at seeing patterns so I quickly found out that she was trying to hook up with a new colleague and intended to replace me.
Of course I divorced her.
Now she's uncertain about what I know about her and afraid that I'll expose her so she stays calm. If it changes it does but I've gained the upper hand.
Thanks for sharing your story! Stay strong! ❤
I've walked away from many highly narcissistic individuals over the years and I'm in the process of doing so with others! 🙋♀️
...walking away quietly is so powerful....they want you to scream and carry on...DONT give them the satisfaction...💯
@@user-os1jp1ec6j that's exactly what I did, i totally agree, the more silent your leave the more excruciating for them.
That is very empowering! Stay vigilant!
That they have already seen you as powerful is key for me to understand what is actually going on with the devalue stage. They are seeing me as "the one to beat". I have low esteem for myself for so long that it is a big step up to think that it is, in a way, a compliment to have them dogging me. I am beginning to think of MYSELF in a different way with this new information, and it is also something for me to fight with! I thought they won a long time ago and I was worthless... but that is beginning to change, I must say.
You go girl!
Its time to. Surprise them. When they think they are done wiyh you not knowing we are done with them😂😂
This is so true. Life is so short. Let us appreciate every day we have and spend it loving people who love us and have hearts like ours. Thank you Rebecca❤
Let's make every moment count and spread kindness wherever we go. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt thoughts. ❤
Misery loves company. They're miserable and force others to commiserate.
Not long before the break up, we were watching tv and he actually said that. Out of the blue, 'you're getting stronger'. I had no clue what he meant by this. His games and doing the opposite to things I said, picked up. Nothing serious, just stupid. Another fight would later happen and he once again said he should go to a motel so we can have some 'space' apart. This was a pattern now, and I had enough. He was at his regular motel, not far from where I lived. He drank and partied, when he got to the motel and I knew he would be sleeping off the booze the next morning. That night , while he partied, I took out all the empty cardboard boxes that I kept from our recent move, along with the packing tape, and I packed up all of his stuff, loaded them into the truck and in the morning, I sent one message, that I knew he would not see till after I was done, but it was noting that he could find all of his stuff out front of the management office of the motel. 6:00 a.m. I drove there. Parked right at the front, it was all quiet, and I stacked all of his boxes and stuff out front of the door, with his name on each box. Done. He was out for the last time, and even though there were messages back and forth and me now learning about NPD, I never asked him back. That will be 5 years this coming July. He still harasses me and stalked me, until a few months ago, when I moved away from that Town, where no one knows where we are, not even family or friends. My son and I are detoxing from 8 years with this loser and 5 years of him bothering us after the break up. I was not married to this jerk.
Well done , stay strong 😊
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤
I'M WALKING AWAY!!!!!!!
You got this! 💪
Walking away today actually. I said my goodbyes and it's time to move on.
You've got this.
You're strong! You got this! ❤
I’m walking away this day March 25 2023 from a toxic sister which I was exonerated by most of the family who haven’t seen me in years my Mom passed last week she left me in the dark to miss my Mom funeral . I made it and I’m closing the toxic chapter with her this day , pray for her soul to make changes it s in Gods hand.
- My Condolences for your loss. 🙏🏾
All of this is so true. As I saw my now deceased mother and as I watch a more animated version and enraged version in my sister, both, for the most part have stuck to the narcissistic script.
And their actions aren’t simply the intangible. It is things like trying to loosen the screws under your livelihood to breaking into what will soon be your home and changing the lock, so you can’t get in.
People who are just ripping themselves up, on the inside, trying to figure out a way to destroy you, straddling the fence on what might even get them arrested and end their own life. And I’m not sitting here thinking, “Well, I didn’t know I was this bad a$$!” No, I’m feeling nothing but sorrow for how much they feel they weren’t and aren’t. That, for them, it appears to be the Olympics of their life and their one goal, to destroy me. I can feel that probate has sent my sister out of her mind, because the control she thought she would have, by simply “allowing” me to live on one of the two properties, instead of owning it, is now gone. She has thrown every stone at me she can. But, when she broke into the house I will be receiving the deed to, against the court’s wishes, “perhaps”, she found that it was a bad idea. Because although I can’t get her arrested, because I don’t yet have the deed, she may know, through my correspondence with the court, that I would be all too comfortable with having her arrested and removed from living on the same block as myself. It would be a complete, peaceful relief for me. But, who knows? Narcissists’ hatred can be so strong that, yes, they can utterly go crazy. So, even though I don’t live there yet, I’m careful when I cross the street.
This video sums up my experience exactly - it is as if Rebecca actually knows me. In my case the narcissist loved it that he thought I was super brainy, and he saw me as very attractive (I'm not saying that I am or think I am) but then he wanted to bring it all down until the ultimate goal was to discard me as brutally as he possibly could. It made no sense at all.
@charlottepembroke I’ve been in the same situation as yourself and it doesn’t make any sense. The narcissist starts out with compliments, how attractive you are, how interesting you are, much you mean to them etc but they slowly reduce their praise and replace this with criticism. Someone hurt them before, someone made them feel humiliated and lonely and sadly we were their scapegoat. We didn’t see it coming. I ignored so many red flags at that time.
@@artfull334 Thanks for your supportive comment I really appreciate it. The one conclusion I've reached about narcissists is that it isn't your fault that it all went wrong - it is and was always on their terms - no matter what you did, said or how you behaved they were always going to ditch you (after worshipping the ground you walked on) and it was only ever going to be when THEY decided it would be.
@@charlottepembroke5446 Thanks for your reply💜Yes indeed very true, it’s not our fault it all went wrong. I was smitten with the guy at the start, he was not my usual type, he was handsome and charming but I chose to ignore the 🚩 flags. He asked me for a date shortly after ending his previous relationship. I knew this and I should have turned him down. Once our relationship began he would spend so much of his time talking about his Ex girlfriends, Ex Wife, his Ex boss that didn’t like him. I spent a lot of my time consoling him, he was walking around with so much emotional baggage. I often wondered why he was so preoccupied with his past. He slowly became more and more confident and distant. Eventually he became critical, blaming me and patronising towards me. He literally stole my confidence and happiness. I definitely know he was a sociopathic narcissist as I was eventually able to see through his mask. Narcissists are completely fake people and they are only able to use people for their own ends.
I hope your life is much better now and I hope you are a stronger person💜
Thanks for sharing your story! Stay strong! ❤
I didn’t realize that my boss was a narcissist until she started doing literally ALL these things (even stalking my LinkedIn profile!) once I became too strong and she started to feel threatened…..thank God I was in a position to walk away!
Stay strong! ❤
Same at my work with some demons like this
I discarded him blocked went no contact on 4th January 23. They know exactly what they are doing. Make no mistake about it. I asked him( who the hell do you think you are?) Before blocking him going no contact.
"Walked" Away!!
Louder! You got this Rowena! ❤
Very good argument for leaving narcs behind as you demand more and more from each moment of life.
This is the message. Nicely done. People that I speak with need to get home to take their self to themselves so that they can overcome and diminish the toxic pariah lurking.
Thank You Again, I cannot get enough of Your Wise Observation's, Sooooooo On Point!!! Helped Me starve the narcissistic demon OUT THE DOOR🙏 THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! now he keeps popping up tho', I'm standing My ground, with Determination! Feels good to know I can refer to a very Reliable Source & assert My Boundaries🎉 Thanks A Million... Sincerely
Definitely walking away. I can’t do it anymore. Thank you for your channel.
Proud of you! ❤
"Walking away"
I am pushing 60 can not believe it👍👍👍👍
12 more days I close on my house. I just pray everything goes smoothly and I get out and get on with my positive life ❤️
I have walked away! I have come across way too many narcissists since divorcing one. My problem is that I keep attracting them. I have to learn how not to get involved with them in the first place.
I have moved out, and am working on breaking free.
I am walking away ❤
Glad I could help. You got this Isa! ❤
I can see what you are saying about why they attached to me. I can feel what you feel. A friend of mine had a severe headache, and as I watched and listened to them my head began to hurt too even though I did not have a headache. I was hurting with them; sympathy pains is what I call them. I also highly respect my mother and I think they are envious of that as they know my mother and for years went to church with her.
Thanks for sharing your story! Stay strong! ❤
This jus popped up as I narrowly escaped a bait and switch jus yesterday....it was supposed to work a smear, but I checkmated and went grey. Thank you Rebecca. I now know tha it's because she now sees me as too strong and a threat
"I'm walking away." Thank you Rebecca, great advice.
Stay strong! ❤
OMG, this makes SO much sense, Rebecca! Thank you for this excellent insight 🩷
Thank you Jacqueline. Glad I can help! ❤
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you!!!
Just so important to know your worth. Keep your friends and own space/time/hobbies, and your boundaries and you’ll keep your sanity. Had a recent encounter and asked this male narc to leave my place politely then firmly then loudly. All the while he stayed, he lectured, he gaslit me, he accused me of losing my mind and needing professional help. The relief I felt when he finally left. Thank you for your vids. Thank you for your encouragement. I am so glad I saw the light after 4 weeks.
I hope you're in a much better space now and working on moving on successfully. Stay strong! ❤
this is exactly what i'm going through right now. thank you for all you do 💖
I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?
One of the best videos about the topic I have watched, thank you so very much, great inspiration !
Glad I could help! ❤
First altercation with my new narcissist friend. She saw me in a whole new light! I am an empath but I’m also very fierce and strong willed. I had no need to show the fierce side to her as friendship was going okay. She creepy love bombed me, bought me Un-wanted gifts. She talked so much, never listened. Not the kind of friend I need! I was ready to kick her to the curb.
After we went toe to toe over a disagreement she told me I frightened her!! What a joke!
I stood up to her and never threatened her in any way.
What odd people they are!!!
I walked away from my narcissist wife of 21 years last Sunday. No contact through 8 days Strong now.
Stay strong! ❤
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Always great advice Rebecca Thank You😄
Stay strong over there! 💪
I’m walking away
Proud of you Anita! ❤ You got this!
I'm with Being treated Better thank you for that Rebecca
That is very empowering! Sending you love & light!
They will leave to find a new source and try to take everything they can with them
That would be the greatest blessing. But truth is narcs don't leave people easily.
IM WALKING AWAY!! 🙌🏾
needed to hear this now, thank you.
Glad I could help ❤ Care to share what points you like most about my video?
The bottle analogy:
I know some parents whose 6 year old still drinks out of bottles. She insists so they let her have it.
Creating a Narcissist smh
Stay strong! ❤
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I'm walking away
You got this Michelle! ❤
Time and energy. Very nice video. Getting to the core of the reality. 10 years in a family court room, without the focus of the family. Purely Weaponized artillery in the law I decided to go public and speak my truth. We would win, but the delay is now 11 years in the making would never have stopped many chances Mani Mani, and so he shall reap what he has sewn
What we really need off is a safety and being able to trust litigative leaders, attorneys to do the right thing and begin a campaign to remove those who do not comply. Children are seriously impacted, and the traumas that they have, it is simply excepted into their psyche reducing their confidence it is maniacal. So we need to really dig, deep blue, recognizing the psychological impediment to a society. Thank you for the platform and the Facebook it's been in lightning and cathartic to offer support.
Great content.👍
They go from binkies to boundaries and can’t handle it ! HA !
AMAZING? I WENT THROUGH ALL, ALL OF THESE!IN 94% YES, THINGS ARE / /DID HAPPEN SO! THANK YOU IF I MAY? = THANK YOU REBECCA.=
WALKING AWAY! Thank you for the video. Much needed today... Bad narcs day... Hoovering letters in mailbox...
I keep getting hoovering messages in my mailbox, too. Thankfully, they don't get their "fix" out of that in that they don't witness my reaction. I just wish there was a way to not even having to open them, because they always push my buttons. I have to open them, because there are typically estate-related matters in them. Always vague, always insulting, and always annoying.
@@lucybraun8969 My 103 year old grandma sent me a letter saying "I never made a dangerous situation for you!"... But said on speaker phone. On GoPro. "If I was in a black family... I'd knife you right now..."
"Still coming to Thanksgiving tomorrow?!"
I said "I'm watching and playing football tomorrow with friends..." ♥️🦅🐕🦺🎧🎼💯🥁🧟🧟💯💯🧟🧟
My 103 year old grandma ordered my death by other family members... They've already killed someone.... Corners office can prove it... And she was setting me up the same as Bob Ashley... (Grey Cloud Island)(Minnesota)(body found in Mississippi) (meth uncirculated) (cover up) (grandma set me up just like Bob Ashley) Stay safe from Malignt narcs!!!
Glad I could help. You got this! ❤
Thank you so much Rebecca ♥️🙂
Glad I could help Christina! Care to share what points you like most about my video? ❤
I'm running away!
YES, I SIMPATIZE WITH YOU @jstreet3337 . BUT WHAT IS BETTER TO YOU / FOR YOU,GRADUALYDAY BY DAY - WEEK BY WEEK - MONTH BY MONTH . . . JUST LOSE THEM? YOU AREA COURAGES PERSON! YOU ARE GETTING INTO ACTION, NOT JUST PLANNING ETC. I'M PROUD OF YOU. ( SINCE I WAS A KID, I WAS TOLD, ONLY COWARDS RUN AWAY FROM PROBLEMS. ) YES, I KNOW, THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATER, JUST GIVE IT A TRY @ FIRST IN YOUR MIND? TAKE CARE.
I walked away
You got this! 💪
IM WALKING / WALKED AWAY!❤❤❤
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All so true. Great video!
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
I walked away. My life is peaceful ☮ now
constantly was accused to cheating, to no proof, it ended up being a weekly thing, then every other day
I’m walking away 🙏this is the most difficult decision of my life you woke me up Rebecca time is off the essence
Proud of you! You got this ❤
I had to cut off a parent last year which was very hard. I just couldnt take the mental abuse anymore it was also triggering my epilepsy. Now that I'm free I feel better than ever. My seizures are becoming more controlled and I'm just sincerely happy. I thought I'd feel bad and depressed after I cut them off but I'm feeling better than ever. And it's best that I never go back.
15 years and 3 kids later...IM WALKING AWAY!!🎉
Lisa Drake Griffin Good on you for looking after yourself and your precious children! 👏
15 years here too 6 year old here 😢
@@kaiulanijecika If I can do it, so can you! I didnt work for 15 years and he thought he had me trapped. I now have 2 jobs and as hard as it is, I'm getting our freedom!
I am standing my ground.
You got this! ❤
I am walking away! Thanks for your post
Thank you! ❤
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All I know is relationships can hurt so much, I just spent a year like this,
Customer called me, I did a job, called me again I did another job for them, third time had a common interest in music, went to a show, this was over three months, then we got drunk and we woke up together, then she asked me to stay over, then 6 months of working like a dog at her business. Every time I would leave to do my own work I would return and be treated like I had an affair. Then had to make it up to her though affection and attention. This cycle kept happening. Then one day she went nuts on my return from work. Shouting and being so aggressive, I said a few times why are you attacking me. She went on and on so I grabbed my things and left. Then I get a phone call out of the blue saying she loved me and cares for me, then explains her business is her business her home is her home. All I ever did was support her. Jumped through hoops walked on egg shells, it was hell. Funniest part is after the discard she's at it again. Loves me, cares for me and claims were still an item. She's still phoning, I listen and say very little. I'm actually finding it quite funny now, annoyed I gave so much at the time, but we live and learn. The first week after the discard was hard, waking every few hours with thoughts of situations and sinarios during the relationship all adding up and patterns emerging. That bit was hard, advice I can give, when getting into a relationship make daily calender entries of your activities and time spent together. When you read it back after a year you'll see everything you'll need to know and it's easier to digest. Some people are just heartless so go careful everyone. Oh a last note another sign is watching their life improve and yours worsens, the grass is greenest where its watered.
I set boundaries when he came back. And he just disrespected me five days after. I chucked him out a week later. He was worse as I think he didn't want me controlling him.. or seeing him for what he was. He didn't change. I did tho
I’m trying to walk away but it’s difficult to completely walk away from my own Mother who is a relentless narcissist.
This is exactly my situation, right now. I walked away 1 month, ago. This is what let me do it.
I do hope you're now in a much better situation. You got this Dennis!
Thank you Rebecca!
Stay strong! ❤
My adopted sister is a narcissist. She has turned friends and my own brother against me. I have had to cut my own family off because of her. They don't even ask for my side of things. They have blocked me when I try to defend myself. Now, according to them I am manipulative and the one they are calling narcissistic. I am extremely upset that I have lost my relationship with my brother mostly due to her and their judgments of me.
nicely SAID!!! 💃🙋♀️😘 you are changing the world baby
Perfect timing!
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@@RebeccaZungEsq For me, it served as a reminder of who I was prior to my current situation.
It isn’t always easy, but if you continue to stand your ground, 8:30-9:30 definitely happens, and that can’t look good with a GAL or court.
Thank you Rebecca
I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?
Walked away … I am sad but I am so much better off 👍
Would love your thoughts on narcissistic siblings and what happens with elderly parents - powers of attorney, estates etc. Thank you !
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Yes, that a good question! I have a narcissistic sister who is the Executor of my father's house and other assets. My father died almost 2 years ago. The closing date of his house was October 5 2022. She still has not dispersed the money to my brother and me.
I just walked away yesterday. I couldn't take it anymore but this time it's for sure because he was cheating on me.
So good to gain gour strength and walk away!
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I WALKED AWAY
Proud of you! You got this ❤
I walked away a couple days before my birthday and we had a huge trip to Nashville concert that I paid for and he conveniently had my credit card on his phone and I ended up paying for the hotel. He ruined my birthday party, invited another woman that I found out, he was talking to her for weeks before we even broke up. But I was strong enough to walk away because I know my worth.
Sometimes they (my narc)will try to attach to someone that does not have any value….. but just try to attach to the first guy that listens or gives validation I saw this firsthand
It drives tj the ex a covert narc completely psycho. NAMAslay
Hi there. I was thinking of someone with the same name. Are you in ct?
@@healing344 no I’m in Florida
I'm walking way and am living at my highest level!!
Sending you light and virtual hugs. Stay strong and don't give up. 💪
AWESOME VIDEO SO TRUE. SO TRUE.❤
Stay strong! ❤
@@RebeccaZungEsq THANK YOU SO MUCH ♥️
Oh my god! This is so true!!!
Glad I could help. You got this! ❤
They get sick 🤢
Yes , ✌🏿I'am walking away. I did too...
Glad I could help. You got this! ❤