Short people chop the heads off from others to make themselves look taller.. covert ones are very subtle, but your spirit KNOWS something is off, before your head knows.. it’s really not even so much the behavior, not getting back to you, etc.. we all know the power play games they play.. it the INTENTION! The intention is what makes them evil.. but thank goodness we have. God who sees ALL.. they aren’t getting away with ANYTHING. God bless! ❤
They hate it when you ignore them back😂 the reciprocity of their energy reflecting back to them is like giving them a mirror to look in and they usually hate it 🤣 but these days I'm into reciprocity so if you put me on your pay no mind list I'll put you right on mine too
You are correct. I was blindly in love. Now I see. My ex covert narc husband never finished junior high school. I have a masters degree. I had no idea all the abuse, beatings, insults, triangulation and silence treatments were all apart of narcissism. So sad people like this exist. I ran away from the abuse not knowing what I was dealing with, just knowing it was too too too painful to go on with him. I stopped dating and live as a hermit for safety.
People who ignore you at random for no good reason are sick. It is the cruelest thing you can do to someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve the treatment. Barca are cowards! Absolutely cowards!!
He invited me all the way to another town to go for a walk at the beach. He didnt talk to me all the way there while we were there on the way back. 😮 So I did try to make small talk, his amswers were yes no, he kept his answers very short. I told him if you were going to do this, I could have stayed home and had a better conversation with the wall. He said oh come on!...
I wouldn’t live with it even If I had to clean toilets… These people are insane And dangerous they have A dual personality… My personal experiences with a close relative, the Blessing is they live 2500 miles from me ..😂 And the other thing they are a religious fanatic… Which means they use The Bible to hide there Demonic personality…
Funny, that's what I start doing when I figure out they are narcs. I love undermining them and I hold no punches. Only thing of a narc I want in my sight is the back of one running in terror.
This was very helpful. The NPD simply wishes to take from others what they do not have, and/or can achieve this life time. It could very well be a friend and/or a family member too.
Thank you Choya. I know my family’s tactics and I generally manage ok. Lately it’s getting very challenging with the gaslighting, rage, manipulation and exploitation. I just found your channel! 🙏
Yes amen, amen!!!!! We are born loving ourselves, we don't have to try to do it. If we love others better than ourselves then we are secure rational people. I have family members who do this "ignoring me" stuff. In my experience, family members who are narcissistic ignore us to make us feel small and foolish. They cannot validate us in any way because of jealousy. You are absolutely right!!!! I have even had them walk into my house and make a disparaging remark about my decorating to the others in the room but not to me while I am standing right there. I didn't respond because they are the kind of people who do these things to be able to start a fight with us. I have even had them come to dinner, I would set a nice table for them and they are ridiculing me by saying "we aren't fancy people", in other words I was foolish for doing a nice thing. I have removed these people from my life because they never change, they are predictable. I don't want to become like them by answering back, its what they want and what the devil wants to ruin us.
Great job you just described my parents husband of 25 years ex church ex job and cousins. Starting on the 11th year of walking in my healing.All the pieces started to fit in place last year when I started working on my boundaries. I don’t have a good fit with my current counselor not sure what to do.
Wow ! Where did you get your degree in psychology ? How do you know all this about human behaviour ? Yes you are spot on ! You must be a expert on thyself ??
I’ve been in love with this woman for 10 years and been with her over the past 2 years. Well come to find out this woman is a covert narcissist , and I seen clues , but never knew it was that bad. As of now we have been split up for the last 3 months , and reasons being is her lack of intimacy , affection , and no sex . In which turned into a lot of arguments. As of now , I’m the whole problem , and she wants me to be the one who changes. Now I have been used for everything I’ve had : money , boat , staying in my home without rent , and drained my bank account , and I’ve never gotten anything back in this relationship. Bad thing about it is , like I said , I’ve been in love with this woman , and I still put up with it even though I’ve lost so much. Letting go just seems so hard even though I know she’s toxic. I’ve been so up and down about which direction I’m going to go.
Sometimes it’s not narcissim there are people who have shown me there character early on and I don’t speak to them. We have to be sure to read the signs right and not project our stuff on others. When it is a pattern with everyone it’s a narcissist
Omg they dont understand that we would have stayed if they didn't act so dumb
Short people chop the heads off from others to make themselves look taller.. covert ones are very subtle, but your spirit KNOWS something is off, before your head knows.. it’s really not even so much the behavior, not getting back to you, etc.. we all know the power play games they play.. it the INTENTION! The intention is what makes them evil.. but thank goodness we have. God who sees ALL.. they aren’t getting away with ANYTHING.
God bless! ❤
They lack accountability so ignoring you is the solution for the narcist.
That’s what it is exactly a lack of accountability.
Making themselves feel better by devaluing you- what weirdos these people are. Let karma do its work. Good video.
I cant even think of doing that to someone. When I feel down I pray, read a book. It just overwhelms me to think people really do this to a person.
"If he pushes you down then it lifts them up. It's kinda like a god complex." Story of my life growing up with my dad.
Reminds me of the day when I was 14 my dad assaulted me for saying 'no dad, you arent god. Not to me and not to anyone'
@@robinwilliams9970 Sounds really painful. So sorry that happened to you.
@@LynnsTH-cam Thank you for the kind words. Are you free of your narc dad? Covid did me a solid on mine....
@@robinwilliams9970 Yes, Covid took mine too.
They hate it when you ignore them back😂 the reciprocity of their energy reflecting back to them is like giving them a mirror to look in and they usually hate it 🤣 but these days I'm into reciprocity so if you put me on your pay no mind list I'll put you right on mine too
You're awesome!!! Nice to know there's genuine people out there in the world
Exactly, I call it showing them the mirror....
You are correct. I was blindly in love. Now I see. My ex covert narc husband never finished junior high school. I have a masters degree. I had no idea all the abuse, beatings, insults, triangulation and silence treatments were all apart of narcissism. So sad people like this exist. I ran away from the abuse not knowing what I was dealing with, just knowing it was too too too painful to go on with him. I stopped dating and live as a hermit for safety.
People who ignore you at random for no good reason are sick. It is the cruelest thing you can do to someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve the treatment. Barca are cowards! Absolutely cowards!!
He invited me all the way to another town to go for a walk at the beach. He didnt talk to me all the way there while we were there on the way back. 😮 So I did try to make small talk, his amswers were yes no, he kept his answers very short. I told him if you were going to do this, I could have stayed home and had a better conversation with the wall. He said oh come on!...
My ex narc was a college graduate and the dumbest woman I've ever met.
Lol that's how it goes
This narcissist only speaks when it want to give commands.
Great video! Simple, relatable, with depth.
100% true. Narcissistic husband is killing me everyday. 😢 he is a Monster.
I hear you. It’s exhausting. Just keep coming back for support. Like Choya said, we have to build ourselves back up. Cool, calm confidence. 😎
Hard to leave a narc I imagine
They are pure evil people!!
Leave boo
Divorce his ass
I wouldn’t live with it even
If I had to clean toilets…
These people are insane
And dangerous they have
A dual personality…
My personal experiences with a close relative, the Blessing is they live 2500 miles from me ..😂
And the other thing they are a religious fanatic…
Which means they use
The Bible to hide there
Demonic personality…
You have great energy and love in explaining this predicament, Thank you Choya Wise.
Funny, that's what I start doing when I figure out they are narcs. I love undermining them and I hold no punches. Only thing of a narc I want in my sight is the back of one running in terror.
This was very helpful. The NPD simply wishes to take from others what they do not have, and/or can achieve this life time. It could very well be a friend and/or a family member too.
🎯 *_Bullseye!!! ..._*
Power and control
My mother did this to me since I can remember, even at 2 yrs old
Same. I hear you ❤️
I am so sorry you endured this so young. My family does the same
Thank you Choya. I know my family’s tactics and I generally manage ok. Lately it’s getting very challenging with the gaslighting, rage, manipulation and exploitation. I just found your channel! 🙏
Very good points stated here! Thanks!
Because they can't deal with your energy.
Yes amen, amen!!!!! We are born loving ourselves, we don't have to try to do it. If we love others better than ourselves then we are secure rational people. I have family members who do this "ignoring me" stuff. In my experience, family members who are narcissistic ignore us to make us feel small and foolish. They cannot validate us in any way because of jealousy. You are absolutely right!!!! I have even had them walk into my house and make a disparaging remark about my decorating to the others in the room but not to me while I am standing right there. I didn't respond because they are the kind of people who do these things to be able to start a fight with us. I have even had them come to dinner, I would set a nice table for them and they are ridiculing me by saying "we aren't fancy people", in other words I was foolish for doing a nice thing. I have removed these people from my life because they never change, they are predictable. I don't want to become like them by answering back, its what they want and what the devil wants to ruin us.
Your presentation is amazing.Totally authentic.
Sad but informative! We’ve got to keep our minds wrapped around it as codependent people
Awesome content glad I found your channel
Great job you just described my parents husband of 25 years ex church ex job and cousins.
Starting on the 11th year of walking in my healing.All the pieces started to fit in place last year when I started working on my boundaries. I don’t have a good fit with my current counselor not sure what to do.
Choya Wise, thank you for keeping a tough subject simple and for applying God's word to it.
I wish she would ignore me! This vandalism has been going on for over 9 years!! Jayne Knorr in lot 46 in Holiday Village in Ormond Beach Florida!!
Thank you. Needed this.
Wow ! Where did you get your degree in psychology ? How do you know all this about human behaviour ? Yes you are spot on ! You must be a expert on thyself ??
If they pulled a hostile stunt on me, then I don't feel like talking to them. That does not make me a narc.
Hello nice person!!! I like your friendly attitude and always good to know it's not a problem with us.
All true!!!!
Spot on
Deep
So lately i dont say anything unless i want to. The narcissist ignores me.
I’ve been in love with this woman for 10 years and been with her over the past 2 years. Well come to find out this woman is a covert narcissist , and I seen clues , but never knew it was that bad.
As of now we have been split up for the last 3 months , and reasons being is her lack of intimacy , affection , and no sex . In which turned into a lot of arguments. As of now , I’m the whole problem , and she wants me to be the one who changes.
Now I have been used for everything I’ve had : money , boat , staying in my home without rent , and drained my bank account , and I’ve never gotten anything back in this relationship.
Bad thing about it is , like I said , I’ve been in love with this woman , and I still put up with it even though I’ve lost so much. Letting go just seems so hard even though I know she’s toxic.
I’ve been so up and down about which direction I’m going to go.
Great Knowledge Thanks ❤
Thank you
Im excellent at the silent treatment if its placed upon me 😊🇬🇧
Thank you!
Sometimes it’s not narcissim there are people who have shown me there character early on and I don’t speak to them. We have to be sure to read the signs right and not project our stuff on others. When it is a pattern with everyone it’s a narcissist
Thank you so much
Thanks you
What about a person who looks dead at you and walks past you and don't even speak?
Sad when they do that they are done with u
At 4:11 🎯
❤❤❤
Confirmation
Thank you 🙏