FIRST TIME PARENTS (PPPD & PPD)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- Thank you guys a MILLION for taking the time to watch our videos! This video talks about how we, As first time parents did infact expirience PPPD and PPD/ Anxiety. There is so much more to be talked about but to go more indepth, we both suffered a lot. It took a while for david to actually talk to me about his problems and to be honest im still dealing with mine. Becoming a mother or a father is SO HARD and you really do get THROWN IN. Many people dont cover how their spouses (father) thoughts or expirience, so here is ours! you are not alone, and if you ever need anyone to talk to, WE ARE HERE FOR YOU! xo,ZellieDaily
Yes. This. So much. Yes. TR was really excited during my whole pregnancy and when she got here he shut down and kept doing what he did before. That lasted a few months and then he finally got comfortable enough and starting doing stuff with our baby. But in the same aspect I was also the one who just did everything and never asked for help. I didn't give him the chance to do anything because I was like "this is my baby I need to do this. I'm the mom". We also lived with his mom for three months until we bought our house and it was hard on the both of us. I became extremely depressed to the point I'd never leave the room we were staying in and he'd stay out so he didn't have to listen to lectures from his mom. Once we moved into our own home things were so much better. My depression faded (with the help of medication). Weslynn became much more comfortable with her dad. It was then I think, that things were better as in everyone bonded and we finally became our family. TR was a lot of help during labor. He did everything he could. Back rubs, helping me to the shower, letting me grab his shirt and hands. But I have separation anxiety, too. I've started off with just leaving her for a couple of hours and slowly building up. I can leave her all day (it's still hard) but when it comes to night time I cannot be without her. At 2 months when I stopped breastfeeding, I quit bed sharing and started putting her in her own bed. I just feel like I need to wake up with her and check on her at night. I'm loving your mommy blog! It's actually really helpful and makes me feel like I'm not alone!
To start off, I LOVE that you take the time to reach out to us. nothing is better than a community of motherhood sticking together. so thank you so much Valerie!!! you are so amazing and strong! I haven't left Lennon alone yet, well more than 1 hour I believe. The whole time I feel guilty and to be honest I want to cry. I haven't gone on any medication since I got pregnant with Lennon, but I do have my rough days still as well. I feel like there was a point that I was so down and overwhelmed that I began to risent David. I will make a detailed video talking more about it! YOU ARE SO AMAZING MAMA!!!!!!
My wife had ppd with all our kids. Things were tough. But we got through it.