Intentionality is key... Doing enough background check and getting to know the person and spending more together to know each other better. Above all prayer... I love it that out God is all knowing and he reveals this things when we seek Hus counsel...
Marriage is scary, its a wonderful union but for me i dont see how i can manage to make it last cause divorce & ladies jumping to the next is so common it makes me say it's better to stay single for life . I relate to my generation not wanting to marry cause in reality we dont see it pretty . I think thats why marriage isnt in our radar. Benjamin Ondeng
You have left many comments, but you need a mindset change before you can even pray for a woman. The problem is not only the women - this is a worldly mindset that does not reflect kingdom marriages. If you marry for the purpose that God has created it for, and your spouse does the same, then your marriage will succeed. Learn the purpose of marriage, align your life to what God's purpose is for your life, and choose a spouse who also has an understanding of a kingdom marriage.
@@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi nowadays people are choosing mates based on their human choice not based on God's will and that is why they are not stable. People need to know that in these end days (after Jesus resurrected) Kingdom marriages are based on Assignment Just as in the Beginning, Adam had to have a help meet for his assignment. Before choosing a spouse, ask God if he or she is the person God Ordained for you when you decided to choose salvation do as Abraham's servant in Genesis 24 vers 1-67. And also people need to know the different types of Love, Phileo, Storge, Eros, Agape. we all call them love. but we are living in a generation where people are operating in eros love thinking it's Agape, and the consequences of this thinking leads to depression, divorce etc. it's the lack of knowledge as stated in Hosea
And my last question Paul said it is not a sin to marry but you will face many troubles in this life, is that true that if we marry we'll face more problems in life than our single state cause i herd a married man tell me there's many problems there , so if you can answer me on this question I'd love to read it for clarity . Benjamin Ondeng
This thing is soosooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo good yummy christian motivaten content ......butt tymmmmmmmm is sooooooooooo shorttttttttt and a 20 minutes ikuwe 40minutes atleast since I think u guys are not satisfying what you guys are talking about
Weeuh!! Arranged marriages also have struggles ask me i know 😂 have seen enough outside 254 infact i think they have more struggles than other marriages hakuna kuzuri arranged or not struggles ni zile zile.
Intentionality is key...
Doing enough background check and getting to know the person and spending more together to know each other better. Above all prayer... I love it that out God is all knowing and he reveals this things when we seek Hus counsel...
This is a great conversation.
Loved the couple's perspectives, especially biblically.
Wow...Deep insights right there🔥🔥
Marriage is scary, its a wonderful union but for me i dont see how i can manage to make it last cause divorce & ladies jumping to the next is so common it makes me say it's better to stay single for life . I relate to my generation not wanting to marry cause in reality we dont see it pretty . I think thats why marriage isnt in our radar. Benjamin Ondeng
You have left many comments, but you need a mindset change before you can even pray for a woman. The problem is not only the women - this is a worldly mindset that does not reflect kingdom marriages. If you marry for the purpose that God has created it for, and your spouse does the same, then your marriage will succeed. Learn the purpose of marriage, align your life to what God's purpose is for your life, and choose a spouse who also has an understanding of a kingdom marriage.
@@kandisphere8828 thanks for the reply
Choose God's will for your life.
@@s2thek323 ok but let me ask you, do you honestly think marriage is stable these days?
@@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi nowadays people are choosing mates based on their human choice not based on God's will and that is why they are not stable. People need to know that in these end days (after Jesus resurrected) Kingdom marriages are based on Assignment Just as in the Beginning, Adam had to have a help meet for his assignment. Before choosing a spouse, ask God if he or she is the person God Ordained for you when you decided to choose salvation do as Abraham's servant in Genesis 24 vers 1-67.
And also people need to know the different types of Love, Phileo, Storge, Eros, Agape. we all call them love. but we are living in a generation where people are operating in eros love thinking it's Agape, and the consequences of this thinking leads to depression, divorce etc. it's the lack of knowledge as stated in Hosea
And my last question Paul said it is not a sin to marry but you will face many troubles in this life, is that true that if we marry we'll face more problems in life than our single state cause i herd a married man tell me there's many problems there , so if you can answer me on this question I'd love to read it for clarity . Benjamin Ondeng
But if God gives me a saved woman to marry I'm safe from a billion problems i've seen in our society nowadays . Benjamin Ondeng
Now go deep in prayer and ask God exactly what you want❤
@@Iam_kawiraah okay but if you marry will you face more problems than single hood
kawiraah?
@@Iam_kawiraah or whether we marry or not it doesn't decrease our problems or add it ?
@@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi two.are better than one
@@Iam_kawiraah I see
This thing is soosooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo good yummy christian motivaten content ......butt tymmmmmmmm is sooooooooooo shorttttttttt and a 20 minutes ikuwe 40minutes atleast since I think u guys are not satisfying what you guys are talking about
But my question can you really know a lady church online, cause dont girls change their mind state every day?. Benjamin Ondeng
Men also change,what do you mean🤔🤔
@@winnieonyango8108 I mean dont girls like you romantically then move on to the next man ?. thats what im asking
@@winnieonyango8108 like nowadays dont girls have many partners to be exact even if they say they like you?. thats what im asking Winnie
Weeuh!! Arranged marriages also have struggles ask me i know 😂 have seen enough outside 254 infact i think they have more struggles than other marriages hakuna kuzuri arranged or not struggles ni zile zile.