10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 มี.ค. 2024
- Embarking on the journey of marriage is a profound commitment, and laying a strong foundation is crucial for a successful partnership. This enlightening video delves into the 10 pivotal agreements every couple should establish before tying the knot. From finances and communication to personal boundaries and future goals, these agreements are the pillars that uphold a thriving relationship. Join us as we explore these fundamental principles that can foster understanding, trust, and harmony in your marital journey. Don't embark on this lifelong adventure unprepared - watch now and ensure your union is built on a solid framework of mutual respect and shared values.
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1. Agreeing to hault the relationship when you see that it's not going to work.
2. Agreeing that if the relationship end up in marriage, divorce is not an option.
3. Agreeing to have a joint account (make everything finance transparent).
4. Agreement on communication (communicating more).
5. Agreement on no keeping of secret, password (building trust).
6. Agreement on exchange of parents.
7. Agreement on quarrel free marriage.
8. Agreeing to be intentional with intimacy.
9. Agreeing that nobody looks down on the other(more selfless and less selfish).
10. Agreement on using the Bible to work the marriage.
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I love the fact that when she talks he rarely obstruct her
How about those that have entered the marriage to the wrong partner, you had a joint account and they secretly open another personal account for themselves, you check their phones and they say dont check my phones, they travel without telling you,they continue talking about divorce, you dont know what they use their money for, the person doesn't pray nor believe in going to church, how do you work on such marriage? Is there still hope to rekindle such marriages?
1. When uncertainty of conviction comes, never leave each other hurt
2. Divorce is abolish (Same as threatening to leaving the relationship isn't healthy)
3. Having Joint Account.(building Trust, Money will never be an issue)
4. Communication is the key ( communicate your pains and hurts often and don't keep silence)
5. No secrets especially on social media handles
6. Exchanging parents
7. No quarreling (we mustn't be mad at the same thing)
8. Mutual intimacy intentionality (Kissing and hugging each other every day)
9. Looking out for each other (Not been selfish, always asking questions of what do you want me to do for you. Are you happy?)
10. Word Center
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1. Freedom to Walk away
2. No Divorce
3. Joint Account
4. Communication
5. No passwords, shared devices
6. Exchanged parents
7. No quarreling
8. Intentional with Intimacy
9. Looking after each other
10. Running the marriage by the word.
Thank you for the collaboration
Thank you
You do all ❤
I knew a blessed soul would have extracted the points
This is so heart touching. Thank you pastors
The family you build is of more priority than the family you're from.
Most men, especially mama boys don't understand that!!!
@@StarrStuddedEntso true
PST K knows how to lighten up the mood of the room. His sense of humor is great!!!
Absolutely, he's really good at reading the room! As for his Sense of humor,he's a pure & proper Sanguine😂!
Listening to Pastor K and Pastor M has made me grateful for all the broken relationships I have had.
One thing I conclude with this is that everything from a to z has to be intentional, it's risky to act on your feelings i.e doing what you feel like doing in the marriage.
Right intentional
"It takes two intentional people to build a marriage but takes one to scatter "
Thank you Sir
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Communication is the life of every relationship. 🤔
It takes two intentional people to build a great marriage and marriage is between two givers
"Prayer does not change your Selection" Pastor K.... this captured my attention the most..my fellow Christian ladies while we're praying and trusting God for Kingdom marriage..it is upto us to still be intentional in selecting..so help us Holy Spirit in Jesus name amen.
Amen 🙏
AMEN
Amen n amen
Amen
Amen
Whoever is earning more is not superior to who is earning less
Say that again
Marriage without tolerance will not work, no body is perfect
Tolerance is not a virtue, Patience and Acceptance is a great virtue.
No secrets,no password and no hidden things
This couple has blessed the kingdom proud of you more grace
When you are both inlove with each other, almost all of these rules/agreements comes naturally. Respect will make it come naturally. Love will make one be patient till the other partner can accommodate his/her presence. Etc
I've gone back n forth on this finance (especially the matter of prenup) issue a lot. I wish I cld send him a question directly. It's not that u don't trust the person but rather u cannot control how the person will change 10 yrs from now. Even God said he regretted creating man at some point. Of course the person u marry today is someone u trust but if that person gets up 10 yrs from now n walks out regardless of counseling etc., u can't force them to stay. Why are we ok with every kind of insurance (life, home, car) but not a prenup😢 which is pretty much a financial insurance? Like he mentioned person can be determined to fight for the marriage when the other one mentally left a long time ago n nothing can change their minds.
I'm blessed. Though I'm single now but I trust God to be a great partner to my spouse when God settles me in Jesus Name,Amennnn.
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen amen 👏👏
Amen dear
You can't pick a weak team and get surprised at the poor results
Communication is the life of every relationship
Thanks so papa❤ and mama❤
Wow! I love this teaching, i have never heard it in this version. Exchange parents, look out for each other, be intentional about intimacy etc. God bless you sir/ma, for letting people like us into some of the secrets to your marital success/bliss.
Thank you Jesus, I don’t know how God does it… but everytime I need clarification on something especially relationship, I just open TH-cam and God leads me to a message or preach I should listen to. I especially love the part you said ‘’WE would not think of divorce no matter what happens, we are in this for life.
I also learnt about the sulking, that’s me .. but I have changed now… because it’s not a good character. God will help me
Thank you so much.
Kingdom marriage is the way to go. No other way. Thanks for your exemplary marriage. God bless you both.
Better half brought me here 😊! Ready to learn! Pen 🖊️ and paper 📑 here
True
Oh nice! Not all the better halves take things their partner shares seriously
God bless you
It takes two intentional people to build a marriage and it takes only one to scatter the marriage.
"Only what the bible says goes on in our marriage " this is grt...
I agree for joint account only for contributions to run the family. Joint accounts and also to have individual accounts. I like to help people around me so I still need my own money.
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No matter how you explain it, you want to live an individual secret life.
There's no way, your partner will say don't help except it's at the expense of the family which is a foolish idea to begin with
You are still giving excuses...
Pick the right partner, heal from your insecurity and you won't have to have "your own money"...
I don’t think it’s about being insecure, I don’t see anything wrong with keeping personal accounts, like me for example i like to plan surprises and it’s easier to do that when you have a separate account
“Men don’t read minds, they read newspapers.” 😂😂😂👍🏾
The family you build is better and more important than the family you're from
Wow...I just heard everything that was wrong in my previous relationship. My priest who is also a marriage counselor told me I dodged a bullet; I didn't understand it. My ex fiancee just hated the fact that I listened to Pastor K's teaching too much, I was like, what's wrong with trying to know how to love you better.
All Pastor K's messages I sent to my own he didn't even care to listen to them
Transparency even your health is perfect. If a man is impotent he should also disclose it
Many men who are impotent (inability to sustain erection during sex is an aspect of impotency) don't know as they haven't had sex before. So it is either your suggestion is for every man to explore their sexuality and to then disclose that in their next relationship. Mind you sex is an aspect of marriage in the realm of the spirit as abortion is an aspect of child sacrifice (or murder) recorded in the realm of the spirit.
Transparency will save you from temptation ". I love that
The part of exchanging parents is 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 God bless you
I really don't see any agreement very important than the other. They are actually completing one another. I can envisage a happy marriage built from following and respecting these agreements all. Thanks very much pastor Kingsley and your lovely wife.. I'm following you from Rwanda.
Doing what you don’t feel like helps build your discipline 🔥
Thank you so much pastor K and Mrs K ❤
It's easy to do marriage if you do what Jesus says,... make your marriage word ruled👍
I love this man, that's marriage.... Now I'm ready
Am tremendously blessed...I pray the Lord give me a partner that we would both serve God together ❤🙏
I hear you Sir!!!!! The choice of partner is the foundation!!!!!
Powerful. Marriage is a ministry.
~Nobody has successfully begged for love......not for long....
~Marriage won't give you what you don't have..... Have a life.
~when you have self-esteem and self-value, you'll become very selective of the person you journey with in marriage...
Nuggets from Pastor K.❤😊
Never beg for love. Have self esteem & value yourself
Thank you Pastor K & M ❤
This was very helpful. Thank you
Nice to be on this platform. 🙌🙌😊🇿🇦My Favorite Pastors. May God Bless you more ❤
Wowowo, thank you sir,
Wowowo, am so blessed
This is so powerful,
Thank you so much pastor Kingsley
Powerful teaching ♥ thank you Pastors blessed
God bless you so much, Pastor K and Pastor M
I love it when you minister two God bless you
I love the balance in your agreements.
Total transparency
Y'all are blessing to me Sir/Ma
This is so powerful and life transforming ❤❤❤
Thank you Pastor sir😇😇😇
Thank you🎉, Pastor Mildred
I'm so glad I paused to watch this , really insightful 🎉🎉
Thank you ma’am and Sir. GOD bless you ❤
Thanks pst.K and pst.M thanks 😊 for this teaching 🎉.God bless you both
I love this pastor Kingsley
I'm so blessed with this wise words ❤
I love this message. Thank you Pastor K and pastor Mildred
Thank you so much Pastors❤❤❤
Communication is the life of every relationship.
I am surely blessed.Thanks alot Pastor K and your lovely wifw
This is wonderful...thank you Pastors.
I was blessed. Thanks alot for the guidelines drawn
I'm blessed by this message. May,God bless you Pastors.
Wowwwww... Thank you. I am blessed
Very inspirational teaching...thanks so much sir / ma'am.
Very helpful as always. Thank you
I bless the day, I cross path with pastor K and his wife..
May God continue to bless & protect your marriage Sir.
I agreed thanks for this wonderful message
This is beautiful and Loaded.😍
Thank you very much Daddy and Mummy for this.❤
Wow... This teaching is so open minded ❤... Thank you!!!
Kingdom marriage is better. God bless you both Pastor K &M
Am so blessed watching 👀 you people doing what you know hw to do best .I thank God the day I meet you both. This channel is topnotch thank you sir 😘 and ma ❤
Good to see the most recent. I'm always waiting for the most recent. I liked it before listening sha. God bless you both for saying yes to a fulfilling purpose.
This teaching is wow thank God it came my way
Awemazing session. You both are such a huge blessing ❤❤
Thank you so much for this powerful message but Lady Mildred,I would like to know how you controlled Ps Kingsley's over spending attitude?
Thank you power couple, more grace🙏
This is very helpful, I learnt a lot pastor k nd PST Mildred❤
So many thing to Emulate here. Thank you mummy and daddy I'm blessed
May the good Lord protects and blessed you both Amen ❤
Many many thanks for this i have learnt a lot on where i need to improve.
This is such a good watch. I feel blessed 🙏🏾
I enjoyed every bit of this…. We are definitely adding the kiss before leaving the house thingy 😀
Also include a welcome kiss😊
This is an eye opener Sir/ma.I celebrate you
Wow! God bless you both
Thank you Jesus for this
I thank God for you speaker, we need more of this for our young ones who believe in prenup.
Oh my , I've learnt so much from this and im grateful for it
God bless you sir. Thank you for the nuggets 🎉
Just heard a powerful message 🙏 thanks alot my mentor
Can't wait to meet the both of You
Hearing this at the right time, thank you 🙏
This was such a beautiful teaching, thank you sir and ma I love you
I thoroughly enjoyed this. Ps Mildred and Kingsley are a blessing to the Christian community 🫶🏽
I regret resigning my job before marriage, not having sometimes to do as woman is bad. 2years without doing something tangible is really breaking me. Imagine not having your own money to buy things you need😢I feel so unhappy😢
May God give you a need Job
Start again Sis..you'll be just fine
❤ i agree, its good to be financially independent as a woman.
Your husband should provide. His money is your money, be content with what you have. Don’t allow the devil to fool you. Take cade of your home, kids and hubby.
Read and get a hobby. Don’t be idle and thank God for what you have!
@@Zazezoo its not the same for all families i.e not all husbands provide for their families.