Nina Aouilk : '' Surviving Honour Killing , Physical Abuse & Forced Marriage '' | PODGHOST | EP.32
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
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We are delighted to bring on Nina Aouilk, a fascinating guest on the 32nd episode of the Podghost podcast. Nina has survived both physical abuse from her own father and an attempted honour killing. She comes here to talk about her experience and to spread awareness of the growing number of abuse incidents. I would like to greet Nina Aouilk, ladies and gentlemen.
This now-successful motivational speaker’s childhood was horrific, as she was abused not only physically but also mentally and sexually. Her father was jailed in 2015 for the abduction of his daughter, who was later taken to India an placed in an academic institution.
Moreover, Nina has been spreading awareness about honour killing and all the abuses so that the young generation should not face what she faced earlier
Nina is now proudly the co-founder of the nonprofit organization End Honour Killings Org, which serves as a point of contact for victims and survivors of gender-based abuse and forced arranged marriages.
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I worked in the domestic violence field for over 20 years and I’ve never heard such a horrendous story. She is an inspiration. Much love to Nina and her children.
They really need to make a movie out of this woman . this is really important to shed a light on this big problem that is not uncommon in Asia. So many woman go through this there.
Remarkable woman with so much courage and determination!! I am grateful that I had the opportunity to interview Nina on my Podcast last year!! She is doing amazing things for Domestic Violence Survivors! Very deep and emotional interview!
As a mother I simply cannot imagine how someone could do this to their child. Makes me sick to my stomach! Such a brave women ❤
I just want to give her a big hug 🥹❤️ such a courageous woman!
Well done to these two Punjabi guys giving this woman a voice. Very honourable decision by them.
How many times does it takes to recount something so vile and horrendous, before you feel just a bit better, I wonder...
I am in awe witnessing your graceful and unspeakable brave recollection, Nina. You are ten thousand time stronger than all your abusers put together and it shows. You can speak up and be proud of what you achieved, your abusers have to take the cover of darkness and secrecy, because deep inside they know it is wrong what they did to you...
Thank you for sharing your story, Nina❤
Resilience is a small word to describe this woman !
what an incredible woman. i just feel broken listening to this, how can someone do this to their own daughter!? the people who abused her and were complict deserve LIFE in jail.
I watched Nina’s video on Snapchat, which took me to Nina’s instagram and then I found this video. I had nothing but tears the entire time. Nina you are an inspiration for so many and the work that you are doing is invaluable. Your story will help so many people who need that one sign, that one kind word. I pray you continue to turn your trauma into triumph and wish you nothing but healing. I pray Allah swt showers you with His peace, love and comfort. From one Asian sister to another❤️
I pray for your healing dear child. I pray for justice too. You've suffered and survived so much dear god.
Thank you, I’m still fighting for Justice but the laws in the UK do not protect victims and survivors as they should. I am working to change that.
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Absolutely hard to hear hardest podcast. No one should have to go through this disgusting vile abuse these men/ families need to be punished and made example of. I can’t believe what this lady had to go through all her childhood no child should have to go through this. I am so proud of this lady how she has come out the other end and how strong she is. So well spoken and every word of hers touches deep. May she continue doing the fantastic work she is doing and stays strong and continues voicing for many vulnerable people. ❤❤❤
So heartbreaking to hear Nina's horrendous story and it must be so painful for her to repeat her story over and over again. I feel the deepest sadness for her and wish for her much love and happiness ❤❤❤
Thank you so much guys for having Nina on (Tina - Sydney Australia) xx
Every interview she does i make time to watch which is hard as a mother of 3 young kids! The story is heartbreaking she is so strong so resilient.
I m Punjabi and I have 2 daughters, me and husband both are so happy and feel blessed 🙏🥲
I have watched this lady podcast on other channel and It was painful tearful 😢
Remarkable women! In sha allah everyone in her position gets to witness light at the end ❤
All I can say my dear:I love u,from a grandma in South Africa
This was heartbreaking to watch!! So proud of her for speaking. So brave. may God showers his blessings on her
Nina, thank you for mentioning religion. As a Muslim woman, whenever I listen to anything about "honour killings", I feel anxious to read comments, because I know that so many people scream "Islam!" as a knee-jerk reaction, even without having listened to the story properly. Also, it is SO important, like you mentioned, that we finally acknowledge that any type of abuse isn´t due to ANY one religion or culture. There are many many people living in the same religion, yet happy and mentally sound. Like you mentioned, Sikhism is very big on "seva". Even I know that as a Muslim. Whenever a catastrophe happens in many parts of the world, I know that Sikhs are the first ones to help on the ground.
It is such a disfavour and selfish thing to do, to look for these types of stories just to find some sort of support for our twisted and ignorant impressions of a nation or a religion. It´s downright damaging to the cause of helping victims. People use it to pat themselves on the back and feel superior. Because what do all these people think? That, let´s say, we kill all Muslims across the world...suddenly abuse won´t exist? Suddenly, oppression of women will stop? 🙄Well then women like I would be the first ones to leave Islam! Before Islam even arrived, the tribal Arabs used to bury girl fosters ALIVE. That´s how low the status of women was.
It´s a cop-out to put everything on others, due to our lack of understanding and will to truly learn. The Islamophobes DO NOT care about women! If they did, they´d TRULY put down the work to LEARN, to UNDERSTAND and HELP us to stamp the abuse and injustice out. But they don´t. Instead, their tactic is to vote for rightwing parties, practise racism on the streets and just spread hate and violence. None of the keyboard arguers hating on Islam or any other religion, would ever even invite over a brown or black neighbour for lunch...yet they claim to care about women´s rights. 🙄 And they pretend like abuse is non-existent among them, despite their worship of alcohol and casual ...... . As if they were living some sort of angelic lives just because they are white or have rich countries built on colonial looting and centuries of systematic subjugation of other nations.
So just thank you...thank you for putting that out there so clearly and being FOCUSED on the real issue.
I was raised Catholic. I think it’s important that members of a faith acknowledge how and why members can be encouraged to ignore victims and how theology plays into that and to not see that as an attack. It’s the first step to stopping a cycle of abuse. This is not a criticism but an ask to consider that view.
Best wishes
Really interesting and emotional but I felt the interviewers were overwhelmed. I’ll try another video but they didn’t give much here.
The issue is the Quran. Muslims follow the Quran, the Quran says in black and white that, without reciting the verses etc, )that i have looked up and read), that killing, beating wives, having up to 4 wives and paedophilia is ok. So being a muslim follows that and can use those verses etc to do as they want. I personally could not support or follow that, it’s disturbing to me.
@@indigomoon9436please please please research further about that bc these are out of context there are many people that can explain it to you don’t put the blame on the holy book of Quran
I’m so inspired by her, Mrs Aouilk you’re so strong and a survivor.
Thank you for having the strength to speak up.
She's such an amazing woman, I watch her Interviews so many times and every time I hear something new that inspires me and motivates me to do better and makes me realise my life ain't that bad
Im amazed by her courage and ability to keep going. Makes me realise how lucky i was to have my parents
It’s not courage, it’s my purpose to speak out knowing it helps others come forward and find the help that they deserve 🙏🏼
@@londonslifecoach victims of abuse / crime who come forward / advocate for others / openly tell their stories are courageous in my view.
I respect your work very much.
Thank you guys for your continued support
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@@ThePodghostPodcasthey this might come off messed up but but have you verified any of her claims? I was heart broken by her story also enraged by her parents and started to do some investigating to see if there was any justice served and there isn’t. I can’t find any information because she has not given the names of her family or husband. She says she can’t because she can get sued? She has the money to fight the so why not? Her story is so tragic but she is a life coach now? For ufc fighters? After investigating things are not adding up. When she went into the clinic at the age she was the doctor’s didn’t raise any questions? When she had a broken jaw and arm the doctors didn’t report any of it?
this women is already legend, God works through her for milion other victims of demonic abuse👏❤
Omg this story made me cry 😢😢 you are strong lady
I watched this before sleeping and I got nightmares. I can't imagine living her reality. Thank you for sharing your story and saving others from similar scenarios
This was a very difficult watch. Praying for justice.
Nina is absolutely incredible, a true fighter and woman extraordinaire! ❤
"just give somebody a little bit of love today". I will do that!! Thank you, Nina. Thank for your story, and trying to help others that find themselves in the position you were in. ❤
❤Thank you for sharing your story. I can really relate to everything you've said thank you for giving me hope and a new mindset a new way of thinking about hard sad unfair situations. That even in hard times change and new beginnings are possible ❤thank you for your braveness and love. God bless you. Take really good care ❤❤️
I've only watched 30 mins of this so far. I want to wrap Nina up in cotton wool and keep her so safe 😭😭😭😭😭 what a horrific life she's been through.
It is unfortunate that we can't have a sit-down conversation with her parents and ask them why they think the way they treated their daughter was ok. We would never be able to have a frank and honest conversation with them at all.
Facts
They would only come up with excuses why it is OK to treat people inhumane but want their ass by others to be treated good. Doesn't matter what religion, culture and country we come from, narcissistic people, evil people, misogynistic and paedophile live there. Watch TH-cam block my comment.
It’s so disgusting that our Asian cultures are like this! Nina is right though, not much has changed. Even now similar things are still happening and it’s so much of a taboo that it should all be just brushed under the carpet. 😢
Every time I watch her talk about it, it breaks me.
This is heartbreaking, Nina you are so strong & I’m so sorry for how your family treated you. Girls are the jewels of their family.
This is awful wish i could hug her 😢
This was really deep and emotional!
Appreciate your feedback
Both parents should be ashamed and held accountable. Disgusting behaviour to those sending threats to Nina. She's an inspiration. She was beaten down and abused but has come out fighting. She's a living example of what doesn't kill will make you stronger. Turn this women's life into a film. Stay strong Nina❤
Nina, i feel like giving you a big hug. All the love for you and your children ❤️ 😢
Another Great interview, keep it up 👍🏽
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Ur a survivor hearing ur story made me ball my eyes out I send u all my best intentions ur a warrior and a survivor
very sad,...and when she cries,i hope there is someone who can hug her and make her feel safe, loved seen and heard.
What a strong woman! Brilliant podcast 👍
Indeed she is
Thank you for your kind words and taking the time to watch the interview🙏🏼
One strong, brave woman beautiful woman. Know you are doing work to save overs. It amazes me that people do evil things then when they get caught blame it on their difficult childhood- you do the opposite.
Your so brave & so beautiful. Promise me you will never cry again . You deserve happiness
How can uk law allow anything like this to happen? And he is walking free? Shame on our solicitor
I’ve been trying to do some research because I am enraged that they are free. But now I am really starting to question all of it. The doctors didn’t report anything when she came in at the age of 14? Did she not go to the hospital when she had a broken jaw and arm? Did they not report it? How is she a life coach when she is barely escaping all of this around 2016? To go through the things she has been through will affect you. She is very articulate that means she is educated. The school wasn’t able to see anything?
So sad the people need to be bought to justice.
I'm touched. and deeply, for your strengths.
Nina you are an amazing person, i hope your message reaches many......JRE.......your strength nina is incredible
Your a legend girl first time i heard you it finished ne off so so hard to take and so frustrating makes me sick and angry courage to a new level rated 1m % girl
Absolutely amazing woman
Thats crazy!!!! How can people be so cruel
Poor julia! My heart goes out to her. I hope shes in peace wherever she may be!
Nina*^
Well done yazz handled it so well
😢 HUG'S i understand fam members sometimes r the worst 😢 IN MY PRAYERS NINA
That story was crazy
A real life story that effects eveyone listening
Hell is going to be really crowded with her abusers and their abusers and their abusers and the bystanders so on and so forth.
Has she done anything to put them in prison what they have done
Love this story
I appreciate you taking the time to watch the podcast 🙏🏼
Very insightful guest
Great podcast
I had to stop the video in between, then returning a week later. It is SO hard to watch 😭. There is a case, recently, out of Sweden. A Swedish couple locked in one of their daughters into the laundry room, for years. She lived in her own faeces etc., tied to a baby car seat, and they fed her raw acetum (the dangerous type of vinegar), which destroyed her insides. She was found after years, and the case has been dragged for months in court. They call it "The girl and the acetum" in Swedish. She has other siblings, but they singled out for some strange reason. Extreme cases of abuse are happening ALL across the world, even in societies that we think are sorted and ideal. People need to wake up.
Nina, if you are reading by any chance...I just want to say that I wish you the absolute best in this life and the Hereafter. I´m not gonna say that you are courageous and strong, because those words fall short of how amazing you are. And you didn´t have a choice. I just hope that more from your own community get in touch with you, shower you with love and support and tell their children about your work. I also hope that they support you by donating, and by inviting you to gurdwaaras and to India. Every Punjabi girl (but also others) should know your name and know your seva.
There´s also another case; Mandeep Kaur. The young woman who committed suicide due to her abusing husband (it was caught on camera). Her 2 daughters are still alive, but not sure what happened to them. That case too, just broke my heart and the clips of her are horrendous. The good thing is that so many from the Sikh community in Canada actually came out on the streets to protest and highlight the plight of such women (althoug she lived in New Jersey). Even as we speak, young women are "imported" like cattle to the West, in arranged marriages, thinking that they´ve lucked out moving abroad after marriage. But the in-laws have got horrible motives (even if the bride is from their relatives) and use these women as modern day slaves (for 20-30 years). Such families TARGET and plan to get a gullible young bride from the East.
I wish to see more countries digging deep into men (and women) who go abroad and bring a spouse here. The checks need to be MORE thorough, and they need to have officers who speak the language and can see through B.S. Such couples should also be monitored, and someone visit the bride regularly without any in-laws present. They should have to complete a course, to learn their rights and how to contact the police.
What´s worse...I see comments by men in podcasts, encouraging each other to "Just marry a girl from back home", because they know that those young women will be given away easily by hopeful parents (who think that the daughter will have a comfy life abroad), and once they´re here...they won´t be able to contact anyone to tell them how she´s doing (as many don´t speak the language of the new country and cannot go anywhere without the in-laws´ permission or monitoring). We see these young women in our communities. These are not isolated one-off cases. Some of these women will fight you verbally, covincing that they are very happy (because being sent back to their home-country could bring shame to the parents and lower their status to a "divorcée"). We need to support newly arrived immigrant women in particular! They are completely dependent on these men and their in-laws. It´s the whole idea of theirs..to import someone vulnerable.
What a story 😢
Thank you for taking the time to watch 🙏🏼
Thanks guys
Amazing women . Respect
I know it's hard for you to tell your story numerous times. I feel the pain you suffer each time. 🙏🙏
Call them parents!! My god how awful for you. God bless you xx❤
Ppl use religion to to be evil 😤 Nina is beautiful from the inside out! I can’t even fathom how she survived this monstrous situation.
Not religion. Culture no religion says to be evil
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Exactly.
It has nothing 2 do with religion.
These are evil creatures
@@AA-hk3cmit does in the quran if you read it, unfortunately
That’s was a tense story… wow
It’s a reality and was once mine, unfortunately and sadly there are millions of women and girls still living my old life 💔
Was tense even listening
@@londonslifecoachyou are a brave beautiful kind hearted woman, you’re also an empath that’s why you felt the wrong energy in that room, us empaths need to make our energetic aura stronger to repel these evil narcissists. sometimes our eternal reward comes after this temporary life for what we endure and the guilty will also get what they deserve in the eternal world remember the thing that is of value is the soul that is why the body deteriorated god looks at the soul so they took nothing from you we say in Islam that the best people have trials in this world look at the innocent people in Gaza, because God wants his precious ones close to him in the next world. Asian Culture is so evil and never follows what faith teaches you have such a lovely energy it makes me want to be your friend x
❤❤i wish we had more laws, enforced for honour victims culture gone wrong, this is UK, its like our country has been used for cover-ups, perpetrator's hiding behind the culture, religion we need more law's, advocacy's
how did they get to the conclusion that she was a "witch" as a young girl?
True queen
I think Nina,s brothers and parents are live need to ask questions about this.
This is why I’m scared to marry 😢
Poor woman! Can’t believe what she went through! In my experience those that came over in the 60’s integrated successfully. Maybe that was just my family, Hindus and Sikhs have on the whole have. Muslims unfortunately have not, which pains me.
Amazing woman x
The parents weren’t punished???
Take love
Definitely
Has there been justice? Any or these people arrested?
What kind of monsters do this to their kid?
Were these perpetrators brought to justice?
How are her children doing?
The police should be arresting of them right now
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Hey Nina,i am so sorry for what happened to tou and your children,i really don't have words that i can say to make your pain suffering to go away but i think you need to really truly invite Jesus Christ in your heart as your Lord and Savior,He is the only o ne you can give you unconditional love and peace of mind and heart that passes all understanding and also to break all the chains of rejection for your daughter and your boys too,be blessed sister with much love of Christ.You are such a strong ,beautiful and inspiring women❤❤
Did she ever saw her parents again? Did they ever try to askfor forgivness?
if shes getting death threats just for telling her story - what abt her family im sure they are getting a lot more hate and threats. her parents must be quite old now not sure how they are feeling watching this. they should reach out to her and apologize before they pass away. in our culture they treat daughter in law badly not so much daughters weird this family treated their dil better than their own daughter.
The two men umming and tutting at her experiences is offputting, condescending. Learn how to show empathy in a mature and compassionate way. Listen and stop interrupting her.
She’s always going everywhere and talking about it get on with your life
Making money disgusting
Gosh.....very annoying when these guys constantly repeat "of course" for no reason
give them some grace. what she has endured is very hard to wrap your head around
It is an awful story no doubt honour killing,abuse exist. I don't think everything in this story is true. A lot of things just don't make any sense
What an amazing women reminded me off my domestic abuse 🥲💔