How To Set Up The Perfect Instagram Profile (That Is Attractive To Women)

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  • @dieHasser
    @dieHasser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "If she's an attractive woman...or even a breathing woman." lolol

  • @singhamgadhvi1875
    @singhamgadhvi1875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    People out here taking 99$ for these tips. My man providing all the golden knowledge for free.

    • @Hshjshshjsj72727
      @Hshjshshjsj72727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He does give out good info but he also has a product. Nothing wrong with that I suppose.

    • @joe-zf7fx
      @joe-zf7fx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If he's giving us all this free , what does the money course look like😁

  • @danieltriana1937
    @danieltriana1937 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cool profile = cool life.
    First build a cool life, then care about your profile

  • @Christian23724
    @Christian23724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Video idea: Cold DM's

  • @parhampill4663
    @parhampill4663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    alex can you do a video on " how to dm girls :" but with better openers than i like your style! i mean can you focus more on instagram game rather than tinder/other dating apps?

  • @Aastikya
    @Aastikya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Summarising everything for myself:
    - Include the city you are in, in your bio. Rather simple bio
    - Choose 2 Main Themes your Instagram revolves around. Posts - Look Good and Natural. Captions should not be try hard at all. It should look like you don't take IG seriously.
    - Live a good lifestyle 😂

    • @franconasello6160
      @franconasello6160 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And dont put the focus on your girl (most of the times) when you post; put focus on something else and she be in the back

    • @franconasello6160
      @franconasello6160 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the more posts, the bigger the sample of your life, the more she can be lost in your profile, and experience and imagine what it would be like to be with you

    • @Brandi.Nicole
      @Brandi.Nicole ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And a huge one - if u end up on dating apps use the photos that actually get likes! That was a brilliant one.

    • @Aastikya
      @Aastikya ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Brandi.Nicole thanks for this tip!

  • @naturyst2915
    @naturyst2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    He looks so different on Instagram

    • @fullmetalpleb
      @fullmetalpleb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Liberty Prime I don't... Everything makes sense now!

    • @KTK44
      @KTK44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Liberty Prime So you're living on lie?

    • @SubNorm4L
      @SubNorm4L 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@KTK44 most people lie on social media.

    • @010mercurials
      @010mercurials 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Looool

    • @marty.l
      @marty.l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pretty much everyone is using filters.

  • @estebanlopez1701
    @estebanlopez1701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great info, thanks

  • @spro0077
    @spro0077 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, thank you so much

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks so much

  • @Elusive0101
    @Elusive0101 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Everyone’s on filters”
    -Nate Diaz

  • @magi1637
    @magi1637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice intro song bro

  • @amjada3218
    @amjada3218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Didnt think to use Instagram, good information. I do wanna ask tho, if im doing like a full remake of my Tinder, is it better to just delete and make a new account? Feel like once its improved people who swiped left before now might swipe right it might reintroduce me to some people, plus the whole new account boost thing might help?

  • @mirbond8018
    @mirbond8018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is how you provide real value.
    Thanks Alex.
    Kindly make video on how to approach on insta for dates.

  • @jasonkurth7473
    @jasonkurth7473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video! Though i would change the guitar pic. It's very unnatural and definitely not how you hold a guitar comfortably

  • @scotchtapeworm3755
    @scotchtapeworm3755 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do we get photos woth us in them? Stop thr fun activity and ask my friend to take a photo of me, and. Try to coach him in even how to take good photos? Most people don't understand lighting or composition, and just snap a dumb photo.
    I myself also need help woth how to be more photogenic in photos (aside from thr obvious of being i. Shape, dressed good, amd hair good)
    Should i get a tripod, and be my own photographer? Tske it very seriously, but make it look like i don't?

  • @OtherwisePanic
    @OtherwisePanic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If this dude's popular with the woman then there is hope.

    • @_icnivad6383
      @_icnivad6383 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr tho 😂

  • @dylantodhunter4032
    @dylantodhunter4032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    @10:45 haha bro that's no orca

  • @mogmaximus
    @mogmaximus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't thumbs up, because this video is TOO GOOD I don't want competing men to see it

  • @venskyccil.8351
    @venskyccil.8351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats the song in the intro please?

  • @TheScofield1991
    @TheScofield1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alex, you think it's fine to post old pics as posts? I got quite a few of myself which I didn't post cause wasn't any good in editing. Now that I am, I want to share some of them with witty captions. If yes, should I be mentioning tbt (throwback) or nothing at all? cheers!

    • @duckyh9712
      @duckyh9712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is a good question I’m in the same predicament

    • @VHS_NEON
      @VHS_NEON 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@duckyh9712 Did you guys try to do this? How was it? Thinking about doing the same thing.

    • @duckyh9712
      @duckyh9712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VHS_NEON I didn’t cause I’m not trying to spam my Instagram with picture but I will eventually. As long as the pics don’t look super old I think no one would notice tbh

  • @nsiac
    @nsiac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You can be a... grocery store. 😂😂😂

  • @korelmorhayim8719
    @korelmorhayim8719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    mans booked a flight to Naples right after the video

  • @jonbecker2696
    @jonbecker2696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi, let me first say that I love your videos and thank you for helping myself and others by putting this stuff out there. Its extremely valuable, not taught enough and very much appreciated.
    That said, Id really like to see more examples of successful "normy" profiles; successful profiles crafted from an average life but worked in the right way. Nothing you've said or shown was wrong, but most of these profiles revolve around a theme of six pack abs, world travel, and nightlife with cute girls. And dogs. Cuz dogs are a girl hack. Its a great "final destination" for your life and profile. Problem is, there's no beginning or middle.
    You'd help a lot more people by showing the "everyman" how to build a successful and attractive profile out of what he already has. In other words, show him what he should be working towards (this video is perfect) but in the meantime, here's what he can be doing NOW to be better at this where he IS.
    Your strategy and tactics are gold, really it just comes down to examples:
    -How do you make a normal life look sexier and more appealing?
    -What do you do without all the pre-built advantages to get traction, and what does it look like?
    You must know where you're GOING, but you can only ACT where you ARE.
    Thanks for reading!

  • @honeyk1903
    @honeyk1903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb video.. Keep rocking 🎸🎶🎶

  • @johnscrub6630
    @johnscrub6630 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow lovely 🌹

  • @buchitoful
    @buchitoful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You forgot cooking. Woman loves a guy that can cook.

  • @dar11111
    @dar11111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How many followers do I need to get? I follow about 30 ppl ( but I know them in real life), Are followers super important, or can I just post good pictures of myself and some preselection pics of me and other girls?

    • @luciandavis5118
      @luciandavis5118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hey man
      post good pictures and you'll get more followers👀💪.

  • @theycallmewudu
    @theycallmewudu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a college student, would it be okay to put the name of my school plus the program I am studying in the bio or nah?

    • @luisflores733
      @luisflores733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No

    • @JeffreyMontenegro
      @JeffreyMontenegro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just your school name and grad year are enough.
      For example:
      Ishmael
      Columbia 22’

    • @theycallmewudu
      @theycallmewudu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JeffreyMontenegro okay thank you so much!

  • @Tandrew
    @Tandrew 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you make your life look more interesting when its not interesting?

  • @Robsparks413
    @Robsparks413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Go CELTICS!!!

  • @Brandi.Nicole
    @Brandi.Nicole ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣😎 I’m calling u out! Who is standing to the left of you? Because who ever it is you BOTH must have had one hell of a time in that mansion. You’re nonverbal cues were very telling when you mentioned the mansion. 🧐😉

  • @unravelsoul
    @unravelsoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i work at a fast-food restaurant and go to college part time studying for a degree i might not be intererested in anymore. how in the world do i make a good bio out of my boring life. i don't have much friends and i dont go out as much given the fact i can't think of any fun activities to do. Ok i go to the beach sometimes and maybe the movies... all alone. I plan on going back to the gym, i watch anime for fun, since i don't have a console i play mobile games, i occasionally go out to eat at different restaurants for fun.

    • @Alex-pc1dp
      @Alex-pc1dp ปีที่แล้ว

      Then I'd rather to not have an instagram. Because it exposes that your life is not that cool to join you. Girls look at this all the time. If your looks is really decent though - it's a totally different story.

    • @cavalin6968
      @cavalin6968 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was in the same situation, and I started to think if that's the life I want to live. I wasn't happy with it and started to give my life a little bit of color. Started to paint (cheap watercolors), to play guitar, when my finance life got better I bought a pair of rollerskates and started to learn. Took some good photos travelling cheap to nearby towns on weekends by bus. Started calisthenics and everyday someone stops to talk to me about it. Planning to buy a pair of gym rings, and now I have plenty of content to post, just document your progress in anything you enjoy doing. This attracts like-minded people.

    • @unravelsoul
      @unravelsoul ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cavalin6968 That sounds like a great idea. I was never the one to take pictures during life events but i really should start taking a few pics, here and there. To make my social media look better as well as irl.

  • @tekiero
    @tekiero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    but HOW do you takes photos tho? How it can be natural, if your photos made by someone esle in professional camera? You say something like: "Hey, bro. I wanna make natural photos. I will pretend like I am making barbeque. Shoot me"?

    • @dragz888
      @dragz888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it's not that hard, just tell them to take a picture of you

    • @topramenraymond7005
      @topramenraymond7005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have ACTUAL shit to do and take hundreds of photos

  • @tobias193
    @tobias193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    so bottom line: you have to have sixpack abs

    • @japhalpha
      @japhalpha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      no...
      bottom line: you have things you do in life that can be divided into themes which you can used as a template for your posts

    • @z1novas
      @z1novas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@japhalpha other than fitness and travel here and there, I can’t really think of a theme. All the creative things I like doing have me sitting at a desk 😅 I’m going to an orchestra this month so I guess there’s that too

    • @Low_pH
      @Low_pH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fresh prince is fat lol

  • @enzoferrari88
    @enzoferrari88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So what do you do if you don’t have anyone to take pics of you?!

  • @snarkyschmuck
    @snarkyschmuck 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Private or public?

  • @Its_Johny
    @Its_Johny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I do stuff but the problem is my friends suck with a camera

    • @SCheco3
      @SCheco3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hire a photographer.

    • @_icnivad6383
      @_icnivad6383 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Set it on video and take ss later

  • @JohnDoe-mw6yt
    @JohnDoe-mw6yt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3k followers but only like 50-110 photos doesn’t look good

    • @kenno6741
      @kenno6741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How

    • @Yfnron
      @Yfnron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FACTS!

  • @pedroabreu2338
    @pedroabreu2338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice video man!
    Should you set your account private or not?

    • @buckybarnes3803
      @buckybarnes3803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No, numb nuts

    • @weirdo3474
      @weirdo3474 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you're focusing on gaining followers then make public, but want to have quality people in your ig then private. Private creates curiousity about you. First make a cool layout then make private

  • @vinnymac4668
    @vinnymac4668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ...The FreshPrinceCEO review hasn't aged well. 😂

  • @svenphil8879
    @svenphil8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dont get the "stranded on an island..." line in combination with the pic from public speaking

    • @888records
      @888records 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is saying that he told that story at the public speaking event. Not sure if he actually told that story but either way it’s a light fun caption

    • @X11CHASE
      @X11CHASE 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He used quotation marks, that means he’s showing what was being said in the moment

  • @AllstarRevenant
    @AllstarRevenant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content man. How do you get Followers if you don't have a lot of friends? I travel enough to get a good number of interesting pics, but I don't know how to get Followers. I've been posting my pics here and there, but I still only got 50 Followers from doing that.

    • @AscendedZenith
      @AscendedZenith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same issue to be honest

    • @daniel.2000
      @daniel.2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Start following people whos follow pages with same content as your page. They will found your account interresting

    • @THaNaS1s
      @THaNaS1s ปีที่แล้ว

      Forget IG and meet real humans. Even if you meet someone once you can exchange IG as form of contact if you really want followers. It is easy to get more than a couple hundread this way.

    • @zelowatch30
      @zelowatch30 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unless you become super popular, even those interested in you won't follow. It's harder to get followers than friend invites

    • @weirdo3474
      @weirdo3474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But why do you need followers? I prefer quality over quantity. Your account must not disclose everything about you. Less photos, less posts = more curiousity, more suspense

  • @CandanceOnline
    @CandanceOnline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Another tip for guys, please don’t have or allow gay guys to post all over your comments especially if you are a straight man & is looking for a woman please don’t do this because it gives us women the wrong expression of you we might pass on your page if we see a bunch of gay men posting to you about how handsome you are etc it gives us the expression that you maybe into men instead of women lol 😂.
    I say this because I have noticed that some guy’s will leave comments by desperate gay guys on their page maybe without realizing they have commented & please don’t like the comments that’s a red flag 🚩 to us women to run the other way .

    • @peterjuhasz9741
      @peterjuhasz9741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wtf😂

    • @IronMikeDyson1979
      @IronMikeDyson1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alot of women want gay friends especially male ones. But it is a good tip, should be obvious but you never know 😉

    • @IronMikeDyson1979
      @IronMikeDyson1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      An old army buddy liked a fullbody picture of myself dressed up, I did not respond, because it was awkward. Since then I don't see him in pictures with women😬😬😬😬

  • @axelgonzalez9687
    @axelgonzalez9687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My Instagram is full of selfies lol

    • @888records
      @888records 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always avoid selfies unless there’s value in the picture such as something cool happening in the background. Selfies are boring and give off the vibe you don’t have friends

    • @greenenergysolarsolutions872
      @greenenergysolarsolutions872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

  • @dragonarcher1639
    @dragonarcher1639 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Water to a orca😂

  • @gregorkokalj9326
    @gregorkokalj9326 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    what is better to have
    private or public account?

  • @dagoberttrump2935
    @dagoberttrump2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alex thanks for that valuable content🔥
    What are your 3 most recommended Sex Toys every guy should have in his bedroom?

  • @ChanceBerryman
    @ChanceBerryman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is he blind why is he holding the camera so close to his face

  • @Rikardiho
    @Rikardiho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lol this dude looks like frankenstein in this vid but on the pics hes a different person lol

  • @kuzivam1
    @kuzivam1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro’s talking about people buying followers yet he has 4.5k followers and only gets a 100 likes on his posts

  • @colinogorman8279
    @colinogorman8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤔

  • @shugyosha7924
    @shugyosha7924 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not realistic for guys to have this kind of lifestyle. Who can be travelling all the time and doing extreme sports etc unless you're loaded? And I dunno about the "make it look natural" tip. Sure natural works, but so does having a photo studio and artificial lighting. There's a reason modelling is a thing. It only looks try hard if you're trying and it's not working.

    • @versuch8239
      @versuch8239 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Make it look natural" - Actually posing in some random spot shirtless
      Not... natural. lol

  • @garretthamm5510
    @garretthamm5510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That definitely not an orca 😂

  • @dallasshagibrowso4925
    @dallasshagibrowso4925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Example of a catfish

  • @laaaah4577
    @laaaah4577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh god how embarrassing 😅

  • @h2t26
    @h2t26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guide on how to be an Fboy on Instagram.