Dance Moms: Insecurity OVERWHELMS Abby's Old Team (Season 7 Flashback) | Lifetime

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  • @Lifetime
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    • @WaleedKhan-ou8gi
      @WaleedKhan-ou8gi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

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    • @robloxx404
      @robloxx404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WaleedKhan-ou8gi they set the vid private and commented then put it puplic

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      @teddyblushmovies 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robloxx404 nope it wasn’t available in our countries at first

    • @Editssoslay
      @Editssoslay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      4 years ago

  • @alainah5529
    @alainah5529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8235

    who else got tears in their eyes when Chloe said how she felt at the end

    • @perenna.x
      @perenna.x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      i just finished wiping away my tears after hearing the end and read these comments/

    • @zulemaalmendares17ghotmail70
      @zulemaalmendares17ghotmail70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me

    • @idontbelonganywhere1136
      @idontbelonganywhere1136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Alainah Rai me. because i can relate to her. i was emotionally abused by my instructor for almost 4 years. even though the abuse is over, it's still there inside. it never really goes away

    • @lilyvlogs801
      @lilyvlogs801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alainah Rai I cried so badly that my eyes got swollen

    • @mylabarrett6890
      @mylabarrett6890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alainah fr the whole end made me almost cry like what

  • @isabellayemane2576
    @isabellayemane2576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8388

    abby didn't just break the girls. she broke the moms too. they had to endure abby mistreating their girls and they got into fights with each other too. it's so nice to see them all come together again and understand.

    • @disneymia4143
      @disneymia4143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      izzy yemane you don’t know how many times I have seen the moms cry because of Abby’s behaviour

    • @straightouttaaldc9954
      @straightouttaaldc9954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Alexander Caplenor the network is sick

    • @gaara6430
      @gaara6430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      And then Abby treated them bad cause they couldn't or they'd have to pay 100,000$ so she took advantage of that.😣

    • @shawnakay5290
      @shawnakay5290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They do at least more than what 30 hrs of week of practice for dance do y’all not know how much 2 hours of dance cost per week😂 and your gonna tell me they couldn’t pay $100,000 to leave the show and dance studio💀

    • @sophielote7073
      @sophielote7073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It made me so upset to see jill cry just then, it must haunt them all that they’ve let this happen

  • @ceciliarpereira
    @ceciliarpereira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7940

    I really like the way Cheryll treats girls. You realize she teaches with respect, carefully. The way she knows how to deal with Chloe and Kendall and her insecurities is very nice. They'd probably still be dancing if they had a teacher to take care of them while teaching.

    • @Emper0rH0rde
      @Emper0rH0rde 5 ปีที่แล้ว +297

      And the thing about Cheryl is, she still expected just as much, if not more, from the girls as Abby did, but the difference was Cheryl had their backs.

    • @simi8610
      @simi8610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      such a sweet woman!

    • @quinnlindden4919
      @quinnlindden4919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I think alot of the girls that left deserve someone like Cheryll. Honestly like Paige, Brooke, Ava, Fallon, Peyton, Tia, I mean most of them honestly. I think Kenzie too, but Maddie has alot of support rn. idk my opinion

    • @xxgoldflowerxx3484
      @xxgoldflowerxx3484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They had to have a mean dance teacher because the producers want to stir up drama. I still agree, it would be ofc the best thing for the girls.

    • @khloesanner5392
      @khloesanner5392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But yet she still treats chloe and nia bad bc one episode she said they both can’t win bc they didn’t have good technique like what kinda of dance teacher says that to bring the girls down and less confident

  • @kikis.delivery
    @kikis.delivery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2550

    Kendall crushed my heart when she said "I'll have to deal with it" because, in her, those are not words that make her stronger...but words that Abby has planted in her head in a negative manner

    • @Lili-sw9st
      @Lili-sw9st 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Chloe has reached her point of exhaustion from her trauma where Kendall clearly is just completely shut off. I mean look at her face when they are all talking and when she says she has to deal with it. It’s like she’s hardly even there

    • @kikis.delivery
      @kikis.delivery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Fiji Water I know, I did so too, everyone thought of her as a brat but I was crushed every time I saw her, she’s a beautiful girl but her anxiety got the best of her, and instead of making that as a warning sign, the producers took that and made it seem like she’s spoiled

    • @kikis.delivery
      @kikis.delivery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lili I know that’s why it hurt so badly to watch it

    • @mementomori9844
      @mementomori9844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Lili-sw9st i wish i could retweet a youtube comment

  • @fiveh3340
    @fiveh3340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3095

    Kira is actually super emotional, cares for all the kids and stands up for all the kids and I appreciate that about her. She didn't make it about herself, she saw how much it was hurting the others, and she gave support. That's how I know Kalani is in good hands

    • @grandmashelton9228
      @grandmashelton9228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      execpt for camryn

    • @tylerthomas1015
      @tylerthomas1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Let's be clear. Kira only did that for the girls who was there BEFORE Kalani. If you weren't an Og Kira had zero respect for you, becuase she herself developed this false perception that Kalani was too an original🥴It was more about fitting in than actually caring about them, which is proved when the dancers that came AFTER Kalani was bullied by Kira herself.

    • @tonyawood2911
      @tonyawood2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I have to disagree with Kira being ‘all caring’. I’ve seen her trash the other kids.

    • @haileyparsons3844
      @haileyparsons3844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Bollo Trip Yeah and afterwards Kira saw that she was wrong and apologized and started treating Camryn better. Camryn mentioned this in her video as well.

    • @xerothehedgehog7159
      @xerothehedgehog7159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kira really looks alot like kardations forgive my spelling

  • @sterlingsilver1111
    @sterlingsilver1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3099

    everywhere she goes she feels she has to prove something to abby. she sees her, hears her comments in her head, that's trauma. "i just want her to go away", even when you havent seen them in years. that's trauma.

    • @Cami-pg2jj
      @Cami-pg2jj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Shenelle Castellon more serious than phsycologically abusing a kid for 4+ years? That’s trauma. If her parents were doing and saying the same things as Abbys has, they would have been put behind bars

    • @GraceFaithGFDance
      @GraceFaithGFDance 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Shenelle Castellon Traumas can be small or large. Some psychologists call them "small t trauma" or "large t trauma". And I agree with the other person who commented, these children definitely went through trauma with Abby.

    • @dazzlingforests1373
      @dazzlingforests1373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Honestly they all have. Chloe’s more vocal about it but you can just tell that none of them are the same

    • @OnlyMichaelJackson
      @OnlyMichaelJackson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly

    • @neleceuppens3682
      @neleceuppens3682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      chloe´s trauma could by some psychologist be seen as ptsd, i´m a student in psychology and from what we leared it could very well be ptsd

  • @ceciliarpereira
    @ceciliarpereira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3429

    Imagine coming out of: 'don't be cry babies' to 'it's okay to be vulnerable'? I wanted season 8 with Cheryll as a teacher. It would be amazing. The end of the video with them supporting each other was something I would have loved to see before. I feel like they fought several wars alone when together they would have had better results. That's what should be a team.

    • @chasegamez16
      @chasegamez16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ceciliarpereira I agree I wish she was on season 8

    • @aadyasharma6481
      @aadyasharma6481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It also hard to hear bcoz Abby told them not to be cry babies when they were literally babies

    • @katiem4539
      @katiem4539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Both can be true though. We do need to build strong people that don’t need to whine and cry all the time but also expressing emotion is important so I feel some of both sides are true, just my opinion

  • @siyap2233
    @siyap2233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4822

    We always make my little Kendal jokes, but Jill cares a lot about her daughter. And so do these other mom’s.

    • @topfurnishing6204
      @topfurnishing6204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      iilxoquteyii I totally agree it was funny in season 1-5 but now we realize Jill wants to do her best for Kendal

    • @mysticalbeauty280
      @mysticalbeauty280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      iilxoquteyii I agree so much, she just wants Kendall to be happy and that’s what everyone wants for their child😭

    • @ಠ_ಠ-ಖ8ಱ
      @ಠ_ಠ-ಖ8ಱ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Carys MacMillan because holly never said my little nia Jill would sometimes say my little Kendall in episodes

    • @haileeeast4120
      @haileeeast4120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I feel like people always judged Kendall and called her a “crybaby” when she was dealing with extreme anxiety. They’re scared of showing emotion and it’s so sad

    • @biancaanicescu157
      @biancaanicescu157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sometimes parents try to do their best for their kids not realizing that it could turn into a worst

  • @jordanstibal8834
    @jordanstibal8834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2247

    Quite honestly, I think this was Jill’s finest moment.

    • @charly3562
      @charly3562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Same here. Most of the time she is on camera, she does things that maybe I wouldn't necessarily do, but this shows that she truly cares about Kendall and all the other girls, and that she can have moments like this where people appreciate her.

    • @rebeccacrisp888
      @rebeccacrisp888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@charly3562 jill is one of the best and kindest moms on this show and kendal is lucky to have her . A lot of the others do and say things for the cameras but jill is just jill, she is genuine and always herself and isnt affraid to fight foe her daughter sns thw othwr girls too and I'd much rather have that than the ones who play for the camera

    • @weirdfleximnotokay3260
      @weirdfleximnotokay3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rebeccacrisp888 delusion…convince yourself🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @IX.XIV.MCMXVI
      @IX.XIV.MCMXVI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@rebeccacrisp888 tbh Jill is just a mom that wants her kids to have more opportunities and chances, is just that she used the wrong way. But overall she is really kind and chill

    • @swaggyleemiller00
      @swaggyleemiller00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh absolutely. We make fun of her comments a lot but a the end of the day she would do anything for her kid to be happy. All of the og moms are really great moms even though they all have their weak moments on the show

  • @uwutrash3532
    @uwutrash3532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6436

    It’s weird how the show broke them but made them in a way.

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Shenelle Castellon “but at what cost”
      “everything”

    • @hannahsmith7089
      @hannahsmith7089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It wasn't the show it was Abby

    • @uwutrash3532
      @uwutrash3532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hannah Smith the show was scripted

    • @sicilyperez6211
      @sicilyperez6211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      love Dennis actually most the of the girls now actually live happy good day to day lives which is so nice to see considering that don’t have to live with the constant put downs and bashing from teachers telling them to push themselves so much they have hide their feelings

    • @EE-jo5pt
      @EE-jo5pt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      love Dennis Lol wtf are you talking about... they all have fame and it cost them nothing now they can walk around with their “nice” cars and LV bags. Gtfo.

  • @Bella-by3kd
    @Bella-by3kd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    Abby left a huge scar on these kids. That cant heal.

    • @samanthamartin9254
      @samanthamartin9254 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheryl left a scar on these kids that can’t heal

    • @elyanaluby2273
      @elyanaluby2273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@samanthamartin9254 ?

    • @breannaferguson6360
      @breannaferguson6360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@samanthamartin9254 what

    • @kozo1325
      @kozo1325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It can. Just like how the girls met Cheryl and get a healing hands from her.

  • @annashandonay9751
    @annashandonay9751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1243

    Tv or not, Abby really broke these girls.

    • @BlueRazor69
      @BlueRazor69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blame the parents

    • @ahahahahhaahaa
      @ahahahahhaahaa ปีที่แล้ว

      The parents allowed it to happen just for fame

    • @theredcupcake
      @theredcupcake ปีที่แล้ว

      CONTRACT. C-O-N-T-R-A-C-T.

    • @oneashasimmons1332
      @oneashasimmons1332 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Abby Lee Miller is just pure evil to these girls and to the moms!

  • @iknowitstoolate1760
    @iknowitstoolate1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2546

    I swear Maddie, Chloe, Brooke, Paige, Nia, Mackenzie and Kendall just need to sit in a room and have a good cry with each other because they went through a lot of the same things.

    • @victorialamay9096
      @victorialamay9096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      I wish they would do a reunion type thing but not through lifetime like just TH-cam because all the og girls went through a lot even Maddie

    • @bigbossyXD
      @bigbossyXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Not maddie, she got everything. The other girls yea they need a good cry together

    • @emilyzhu3621
      @emilyzhu3621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      Big Bossy no Maddie too. She was expected to be a leader, always expected to get 1st. That’s a lot of pressure. And I think now, she sees how much Abby affected Kenzie as if it affected her too. Maddie talks abt it in when Kenzie’s on dancing with the stars

    • @katiesmith3386
      @katiesmith3386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@bigbossyXD no maddie should too, it looked liked she didn’t go through anything but she had so much pressure on her to win and was probably stressed most of the time

    • @jaye2618
      @jaye2618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@bigbossyXD No Maddie too, always expected to be the best I remember in an episode she was sick like really sick and she couldnt go home because of How much everyone expected her to do

  • @blueberryscake
    @blueberryscake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2928

    this is how many people think chloe deserves better
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    • @larx4810
      @larx4810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Also kendall

    • @ylva1710
      @ylva1710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      + 123242516612662617171 likes

    • @sare83
      @sare83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my god what do you want more from her she has a life she doesnt deserves

    • @sunshjs
      @sunshjs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ya shouldn’t use other people’s shortcomings for likes

    • @bellap7997
      @bellap7997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sare Durmaz you shouldn’t say that, she deserves everything she has. She has an amazing life she deserves.

  • @lukesskywalking
    @lukesskywalking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    The way Chloe was put to tears just by someone telling her “I believe in you” & validating her talent is just so heartbreaking. These poor girls.

  • @margaretsmith9948
    @margaretsmith9948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    Who else was guessing Chloe was thinking about every time Abby comperd her to Maddie

    • @braylin5003
      @braylin5003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @luanna martins also mock her

  • @janice7544
    @janice7544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    this might be the most wonderful video from dance moms. It showed how Abby emotionally abused them and teached them its not ok to cry and gave them so many breakdowns and insecurities, i literally started crying from this vid because i think every teen now can relate to how stressfull things can be and how easy it is to be insecure, i love Cheryll so much because she's trying to teach them its ok to cry, its ok to be vulnerable its ok so be insecure its ok to be a KID thats something Abby never will realize, that these people are KIDS that arent supposed to handle such things.

    • @madelinefithen5091
      @madelinefithen5091 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Abby definitely had some trauma as a kid and took it out on wonderful children . how can someone give other s their pain .😓

  • @shannonmckeon4890
    @shannonmckeon4890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    Cheryl should be season 8 teacher cause she understands the kids an doesn’t kill them for mistakes

    • @dwellingundertheshadowofth1990
      @dwellingundertheshadowofth1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Abby's a LOT nicer in season 8

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Christy Stevens she really wasn’t, she’s acted like a toddler a lot of the time.

    • @dwellingundertheshadowofth1990
      @dwellingundertheshadowofth1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@greenbeantm1096 you're probably right , I just watched the first episode just to see how she was.

    • @mignonnemusoda8353
      @mignonnemusoda8353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But in s8 the moms didn't care much for the kids unless it was their own even Ann

    • @mignonnemusoda8353
      @mignonnemusoda8353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Brady was the doctor Holly

  • @lilyr6920
    @lilyr6920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4765

    I think that they should stop filming ALDC and film the original team, it’s so much more entertaining

    • @greenbeantm1096
      @greenbeantm1096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Lily's Life but literally no one who would be filmed wants that

    • @zeinaalsherif7794
      @zeinaalsherif7794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      But I don’t think the originals would want to be on the show again

    • @reaganelizabeth8099
      @reaganelizabeth8099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      It would 100% be a better show if they went back to the original team, but I think they all want to be done with dance moms

    • @kaiyaclark7923
      @kaiyaclark7923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      But they are adults guys or almost adults

    • @caracullen9712
      @caracullen9712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They are the original team

  • @baileyhardison3542
    @baileyhardison3542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    “Kendall suffers from it as well.”
    All I could think was “oh snap just got diagnosed”😂

    • @artistgirl6580
      @artistgirl6580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Bailey Blue now is not the time for jokes. This was actually really sweet.

    • @bongos6583
      @bongos6583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@artistgirl6580 but you got to admit it was pretty funny

    • @artistgirl6580
      @artistgirl6580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@bongos6583 I guess ur right I'm just a lil sensitive to certain things like that, sorry about that, I'll delete my first comment that I wrote

    • @tylerthomas1015
      @tylerthomas1015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This was funny 😂

    • @videostar1261
      @videostar1261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Audrey Williams no it wasn’t

  • @kaitie648
    @kaitie648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    The way Chloe looked away when Cheryl said she was talented said everything to me. Cheryl is being genuine and Chloe can't believe her because she's been beaten down so badly.

  • @mayahope2020
    @mayahope2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    “I want her to go away” you can hear the years of trauma in her voice. I hate how much trauma these girls went through and how much Abby still benefits from the years of torment brought on by her. These girls were verbally, mentally and emotionally abused by that woman and she’s still being praised by the public eye.

  • @georgia2667
    @georgia2667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    The fact that Chloe says that she will look like a cry baby really shows how damaged these girls are

    • @jocelynpaul2659
      @jocelynpaul2659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When Chloe said she just want it to go away she sounded like a little girl talking about a monster the monster was Abby she was a lifebooger man I just wanted to hug them and tell them everything okay

  • @greenbeantm1096
    @greenbeantm1096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    Can I just send this clip to anyone who genuinely still thinks that Abby is just a “tough” teacher instead of abusive

    • @oliviax2880
      @oliviax2880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      As much as Abby is abusive I think the producers should be to blame to. They were stuck in a contract which meant they had to stay and be abused by Abby for longer

    • @gossipgirl2873
      @gossipgirl2873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melissa

    • @samanthamartin9254
      @samanthamartin9254 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheryl is so abusive towards these girls no wonder she makes matters worse for them

    • @makennaharris2965
      @makennaharris2965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@samanthamartin9254 Abby not Cheryl

    • @samanthamartin9254
      @samanthamartin9254 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@makennaharris2965 Cheryl not Abby

  • @xxsapphirexx_1224
    @xxsapphirexx_1224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    3:28 Jill has cried before, but this is the only time I’ve really felt for her and understood where she was coming from. And I completely agree, I can’t imagine hearing repeatedly how insecure your once bubbly little girl has become. True shame

  • @Trzezwy_Umysl
    @Trzezwy_Umysl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    Abby: dancer should be able to show emotions!
    Also Abby: No tears! You are not allowed to show feelings!
    😳

  • @lauryners
    @lauryners 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    Bruh what would we do without holly she never was a dramatic dance mom and she was always the rock to keep the moms from going absolutely off the cliff

    • @TanyaKlein29
      @TanyaKlein29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Pug Love GIRLS OUT THE ROOM!!

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stfu. Y’all’s fetishization of Holly is weird asf. She had her moments too.

  • @sarahannemunson2687
    @sarahannemunson2687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    The saddest part is when Kira starts talking about how the moms watched the kids be emotionally abused for years, and never did anything. Sometimes it seems like to the moms it was always a reality show (yes, things got real, but in the end the moms knew that it was all fabricated and hyped up), but to the girls it was real life. Their childhood was ruined and the mom’s couldn’t see that until now. So so sad.

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The moms did the best they could. Please shut up

    • @erwinantika3662
      @erwinantika3662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@corimoon3360 yes they got stuck in contracts

  • @amia3727
    @amia3727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    i love how kira was crying for the girls even though her own daughter wasn’t like crying or really hurt by any of it, kira is honestly so amazing

  • @paulalopez7779
    @paulalopez7779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Honestly the worst case from dance moms is Paige it kills me because at some point she fell into depression and anxiety☹

  • @phoebebarros275
    @phoebebarros275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Chloe didn't have to prove herself she was amazing from beginning to end just like the other girls

    • @lifewithlexi0785
      @lifewithlexi0785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah it’s said that she felt that way

    • @specticmua3214
      @specticmua3214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just sad how Abby destroyed any confidence she gained, solo after solo, not even if she got first place Abby would make her prove herself time after time, and if she made a mistake or didn't place 1st Abby would emotionally make her feel like she wants good enough, called her a quote on quote "sneak" when she was one of sweetest kid, and was always compared to Maddie or anyone new Abby brought, she always pin pointed her

  • @RobloxYesFortniteNo4
    @RobloxYesFortniteNo4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Chloe is absolutely stunning! Meanwhile, Nia is glowing! They both are so beautiful, I wish i was like that 😂!

    • @itsgiving3954
      @itsgiving3954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are stunning and glowing, I promise ❤

  • @fleurpeeters7624
    @fleurpeeters7624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    this is such a strong episode. U can see that everyone realizes how toxic and physically wrong they were treated. Wow.

    • @valentinadelagarza8403
      @valentinadelagarza8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by physically wrong?

    • @rebekahbullivant4616
      @rebekahbullivant4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Could u send me the link to the full episode

    • @fleurpeeters7624
      @fleurpeeters7624 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@valentinadelagarza8403 i think i meant mentally lol, englisch is not my first language

  • @brooke4933
    @brooke4933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    "you are good enough. just you being you, that's good enough." EVERYONE NEEDS A HOLLY

  • @taylornichole8437
    @taylornichole8437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Kendall and Chloe deserve way better they are beautiful girls and amazing dancers!!! (All of the girls deserve better!)

  • @karls_idols
    @karls_idols 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I hate watching the girls cry. It breaks my heart how they feel because of one person.

  • @lokismom912
    @lokismom912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When Chloe said I just want her to go away, meaning Abbys voice in her head, made me cry.😭 that girl took the worst Abby had to give.

  • @misturatokunade66
    @misturatokunade66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The way Christi didn't say anything you could see all the emotions on her face. She knew if she uttered a single word she would break down with Chloe...

  • @Keira_bennett02
    @Keira_bennett02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    3:55 Jill really speaks the truth here, the way they can all come together to make each other feel better is amazing

  • @adolenefowler5699
    @adolenefowler5699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Cheryl is a wonderful teacher! Emotionally and dance wise!!

  • @danicaeggleston6606
    @danicaeggleston6606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Holly is my favorite Dance Mom she is always so respectful and true hearted she was always the one who balances out the team

  • @sofiao9435
    @sofiao9435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    This whole episode hit so much more different. "I just want her to go away" my heart...

  • @nebulavontage6113
    @nebulavontage6113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    When Chloe talked about how Abby hurt her I feared up I see a lot of myself in Chloe because I’ve been through a similar experience with my mother

  • @PatriciaLLogan
    @PatriciaLLogan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This scene shows you the reason why after Abby got sick, no one, except Jojo came to see her in the hospital. even then, Abby said that her old team was lying. When was she going to own up to all the abuse she inflicted on them? I bet her own mother did this to her. Having a contract with this show did not help either.

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I heard that Nia tried to see her but Abby turned her away.

  • @nicooooooctrl
    @nicooooooctrl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I can’t believe Chloe is eighteen now

  • @laliasandoval4057
    @laliasandoval4057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Can I just point out how kalani was so calm bc she never rlly got insults from abby bc she was an abby favorite so she doesn't rlly have an idea of how they were feeling

    • @tinamarisia123
      @tinamarisia123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also as far as I remember kalini was older when she joined baby Lee studio..

    • @laliasandoval4057
      @laliasandoval4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tinamarisia123 yeah she was

    • @JinjiSayson
      @JinjiSayson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Grief looks different for everyone.

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditor ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When Christi looked at Jill when she was being so kind to chloe at 4:05 my heart melted. Like they were fighting a few eps ago but after the girls left Abby and Cheryl took over, Jill finally matured 😢 😫 😭

  • @LoveDayley
    @LoveDayley ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Cheryl Burke is the BEST thing to happen to these girls. She got them to realize their worth instead of constant tearing down. All of these girls have said was that they wanted to make their dance teacher proud and Cheryl Burke acknowledges that and tells them that they are amazing dancers but still tells them how they can improve in a respectful way.

  • @rebecca9103
    @rebecca9103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    It’s always baffled me that the moms knew how bad Abby made the girls feel but continued to let her teach them.

    • @d.n.c.greatness7735
      @d.n.c.greatness7735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      IKR?!?! There is no way I would continue to allow that abusive witch teach my child.

    • @habibi4loko207
      @habibi4loko207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      they were stuck in a contract. they couldn’t actually “leave” even if they wanted to

    • @poosy7926
      @poosy7926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Ella D Kelly had to pay almost 100k for breaking the contract.

    • @ambicakale2196
      @ambicakale2196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      They signed a contract... that’s why

    • @mwamwa3488
      @mwamwa3488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      They signed contracts plus it's hard being a parent so don't blame them. Parents make mistakes, they may have thought keeping their kids there would make them stronger as ppl but it just left them bereft. Hard lesson to learn but now they can work on themselves and teach that lesson to their kids 1 day. Don't bow down to a bully

  • @just_me244
    @just_me244 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way all the moms were comforting Chloe was so sweet

  • @caitlinl.7048
    @caitlinl.7048 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've always loved Chloe and would be heartbroken when I saw how she was treated. Seeing her break down like that made me cry so hard. Because she believes who she is is not good enough because she isn't Maddie. And making her feel that way is what Abby always wanted. I wish Chloe knew how amazing and worthy she truly is.

  • @caroliinaxo
    @caroliinaxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I broke down as soon as Cheryll told them their worth

  • @melodeemichelle6968
    @melodeemichelle6968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Bruh when chloe started crying, I cried

  • @kenzieperez02
    @kenzieperez02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hearing “help her put the pieces back together “ honestly broke me. The feels.

  • @kaitlyncarey3269
    @kaitlyncarey3269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    It's interesting to see, though, how Kalani doesn't seem affected and actually aloof because Abby loved her and never treated her as poorly as everyone else

    • @lajebenjamin8492
      @lajebenjamin8492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She hasn’t been with Abby since she was 3-5 years old like the rest of the girls

    • @nicolleayorinde7539
      @nicolleayorinde7539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Actually she has been mistreated because of her age remember that one episode is was is when Kalain was pulled out of the group dance because of her age and Rejected her hugs

    • @Xxsorafan
      @Xxsorafan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Keep in mind the other girls were in abbys studio for way way way longer. Nia was there since she was 3

    • @deshdeshydeshdesh4178
      @deshdeshydeshdesh4178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nicolleayorinde7539 that’s true, and it isn’t right, but it wasn’t nearly as bad as the way Chloe was treated for almost her whole time.

    • @JinjiSayson
      @JinjiSayson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just because someone isn’t crying doesn’t mean they’re not hurting. Everyone expresses grief differently.

  • @r1ldx675
    @r1ldx675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how the mums helped Chloe and her emotions like even Kira

  • @bernicehccheung
    @bernicehccheung 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Omg chloe saying her emotions at the last bit😭😭😭💔💔

  • @quinnlindden4919
    @quinnlindden4919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    All I could think when Chole broke down was her as a child saying “I want to prove Miss Abby...” serveal times.

  • @heatherwilson8616
    @heatherwilson8616 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Theres no such thing as a crybaby" yes jill, tell it to all those fans who mock kendall for crying. This scene was so powerful ❤

  • @Natalia-tq9qx
    @Natalia-tq9qx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Their new dance teachers seem so understanding! she even talks about how Abby broke down their confidence.

  • @lonely7555
    @lonely7555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was an emotional episode 😭😭
    Poor Chloe and Kendall

  • @eimearmclachlan5517
    @eimearmclachlan5517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Last time I was this early...
    Holly: OuT oF ThE RoOm!!!!!!!

  • @kassidywhite
    @kassidywhite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Holly: “ you are good enough” honestly hit close to home

  • @Andi-y8e
    @Andi-y8e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cheryll is just a god given angel. A gift for the girls and I know they are a gift to her. She loves them ❤

  • @livheartsmatt
    @livheartsmatt ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “i want her to go away” this sweet girl is so traumatized and clearly suffers from PTSD. i hope she continues to heal from abby’s evil

    • @Onest3
      @Onest3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They all suffer. Well, the og’s. That’s why when those mini moms and kids who have no clue open their mouths, it’s laughable. They have no clue, and will never compare.

  • @blueberryscake
    @blueberryscake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    you know the drill💘
    0-maddie
    1-kalani
    2-chloe
    3-kenz
    4-nia
    5-jojo
    6-camryn
    7-Kendall
    8-brynn

    • @ogmoons
      @ogmoons 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      norrisnuts forever 9?

    • @iftgtv394
      @iftgtv394 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got Camryn

    • @hananelmi1
      @hananelmi1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      J to the O to the J Os

    • @isabellayemane2576
      @isabellayemane2576 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      jojo aGAIN

    • @Indykoeman
      @Indykoeman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      norrisnuts forever Maddie!

  • @emilymurray7439
    @emilymurray7439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how all the mums started giving advice to Chloe and acting like her mum that was really sweet.

  • @19Superman98.
    @19Superman98. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When Chloe was crying and said “I just want her to go away” I broke down. She sounded so… broken😭

  • @superstarnayeon2794
    @superstarnayeon2794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    watching chloe cry reminded me of how abby treated her in the first few seasons and the emotional abuse she went through. i hope the girls are healing and realize what amazing dancers they really are

  • @SaintAtropine
    @SaintAtropine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    All the moms were so nice here 😭

  • @OnlyMichaelJackson
    @OnlyMichaelJackson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You can really see the effect Abby's abuse had on these girls and how much they have to unpack, unlearn and learn. That they're good enough, that it's okay to be vulnerable, that they're talented and worthy and that they're not going to be punished for being themselves, not going to be punished when they make a mistake. They have to get to the point where they can feel emotion and make mistakes without flinching or anticipating verbal assault. I'm glad they had a safe space to do that finally.

  • @-espeon
    @-espeon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    man, i just love this clip. i love the moms and girls (and the teacher) coming together and empowering each other.

  • @gabrelle-io6wn
    @gabrelle-io6wn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved it when the moms comforted Chloe. Poor Chloe and Kendall...

  • @penpen9915
    @penpen9915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When they showed her talking to chloe I legit teared up i love her so much she deserves the world and it breaks my heart that shes so insecure 😓❤❤❤❤❤

  • @iknowitstoolate1760
    @iknowitstoolate1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Cheryl worded that wrong. It’s not that Kendall hasn’t been taught to have no emotion, it’s that she’s been told for years that she’s emotionless by not only Abby and a few other moms but by “fans” as well.

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No she worded it right. Kendall was taught to have no emotion by Abby because if she did she was a “crybaby brat”

    • @LoveDayley
      @LoveDayley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abby to Kendall: "Why are you always crying?"

  • @godzillamonsterultraxz4770
    @godzillamonsterultraxz4770 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Chloe is a beautiful person inside and out and it broke my heart to see the kind of damage Abby did to her

  • @cydie
    @cydie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i started tearing up when Jill at 3:38 said "How could we have let that happen?" because i think she gets the most hate out of all of the moms but you see parts of her behind the anger that is hopeless and sad, and the honesty, and the humanity in those emotions behind her anger really kills me

  • @Spooky_emma-w2w
    @Spooky_emma-w2w ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This part of the show near the end just taught me that it’s fine to let out tears. Like i cried on this part. But it’s so sad to see that happen to the girls and the moms. But it just makes me feel better that they were all listening to Chloe and that also shows that they care. 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @ashleyloupassakis4183
    @ashleyloupassakis4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The fact that Kira was crying for them just shows all the love and loyalty they have for each other and over abby

  • @bhaskarannambair7589
    @bhaskarannambair7589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was literally crying throughout the episode 😢

  • @isabellehoward-ritson9852
    @isabellehoward-ritson9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this clip because all the moms come together and help the children but it’s sad that they are so insecure

  • @Lannaluvsya
    @Lannaluvsya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how Jill said “ There no such thing as a crybaby “ when Chloe was crying bc that felt really powerful

  • @oliviawells2175
    @oliviawells2175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video literally made me cry
    What everyone said is so sweet I literally love Chloe she is so sweet and beautiful

  • @taz_kempf
    @taz_kempf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love that she says when I say find the emotion I don’t mean act, I mean find when it happened in your life. That’s exactly right. Maddi acts and repeats give same faces, but an amazing dancer shows the raw emotion.

  • @breannaxoxo3850
    @breannaxoxo3850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If you watch Kendall’s first dance vs with Abby you can see how Abby changed Kendall as a dancer. Kendall had fire in her eyes when she started and by the end she looked scared to perform.

  • @fleurv.3226
    @fleurv.3226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’M NOT CRYING , I’M NOTTT

  • @shreyasingh-po4fp
    @shreyasingh-po4fp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can see how much the moms ACTUALLY get along when Abby's not tearing their friendship apart. I mean look at how Jill comforted Chloe and told her that she wasn't a crybaby, and how Christi smiled and their interactions in general. They rarely got along at the ALDC because Abby made a competition out of EVERYTHING in and outside the studio.

  • @arelysrivera4762
    @arelysrivera4762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Kira is a tough mom and she's breaking down with Chloe🥺😭

  • @tishawnathompson7849
    @tishawnathompson7849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s crazy that Abby made those girls feel like that for so long so the point she is still taunting them when she’s not even around.

  • @jessicafrank3247
    @jessicafrank3247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    SERIOUSLY WHOS CUTTING THE ONIONS?

  • @chloeshim1057
    @chloeshim1057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    when chloe started crying it was obvious how much these girls and their moms have suffered just dancing with abby.

  • @levirandall659
    @levirandall659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how the moms are being supportive of everyone now, it's so sweet

  • @superunknown70
    @superunknown70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the look on Kalani's face at the end! She's got the eff that witch (to Abby) going on! Loved it!

  • @jessysimpson9542
    @jessysimpson9542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love that all of the moms came together to support the girls and remind them of their worth 💗

  • @arizona7972
    @arizona7972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how no matter how badly Jill treated holly in season 5, she still cares for Jill

  • @nanyabusiness4513
    @nanyabusiness4513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "And I just want it TO GO AWAY"
    When Chloe said that,it broke my heart.She suffered for so long and it won't heal easily.

  • @corimoon3360
    @corimoon3360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will never forgive Abby for what she did to Chloe. Chloe was one of the best on the team with natural god given talent and she could have been even better had she been treated the same way as the favorite, but because of Abby’s jealous hatred, she made her lose her passion, stop competing, and eventually regress only to come to this. I hate seeing Chloe like this. Seeing the extent of what Abby did to her.
    I can only imagine how unstoppable Chloe would be if she had a better teacher from the start that didn’t ruin her mentally and actually helped her grow her skills.
    “I just want her to go away” truly broke my heart. Chloe deserved so much better. Chloe was Chloe and she was enough! She was good!

  • @stormibabyy3465
    @stormibabyy3465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how Holly and Jill were so comforting to Chloe like dude, so kind

  • @Olivia-vi4gn
    @Olivia-vi4gn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When Chloe started crying I did
    And when I let the tears go my hand drowned
    I feel SOO bad for them!