1. Do not initiate communication 2. YOU YOU YOU 3. Be a bit mysterious 4. 'Brag' on social media 5. Have the 'talk' at the right time 6. Willing to walk away You're welcome
I like this advice, because either way it’s a win. If he’s right for you, he will miss you. If he is not right for you, you can move on by becoming the best version of yourself. 👌🏽😁
Antonio Borrello I am enjoying learning from your videos... I’m in my mid-forties, and dating is different from 20 years ago! A phenomenon that I find very frustrating is when a guy “fades away.” They come on strong then, without anything going drastically wrong, they back off until they just aren’t there anymore. No real solid communication that they are breaking up with you. From my perspective, this very disrespectful and hurtful. What is going on here? Are they cowards or what? Thank you for considering this and helping us ladies understand this behavior.
@@BrooklynBaby100 Hang in there! My comment was made 3 years ago…and I am still single. I have turned my focus to living life on my own. I still get lonely, but it’s better than the emotional roller coaster with men who are interested, but don’t want to commit. Right now I have a good friendship with a man that might be turning into romance. That would be nice, but if not the friendship is enough! Prayers and peace be with you. 🤗
I legit was crying throughout this video...😢 I have to start loving myself and I need to start investing my time Into myself again. Thank you for this video ❤️
Thanks for this video. I can relate to this. After watching this video, I realized that giving a guy so much attention would only push him away and he would only take my feelings for granted. 😢
Thank you for this information I have been in a relationship for almost 7 years I have followed these steps and I just had to wake him up, that I don't want to be roommate as that is how our relationship had changed to. this weekend I spent the weekend to myself and turned off my phone. low and behold he has now figured out I am ready to leave if I have to and he has opened his eyes I am not going to tolerate neglect . and he has started to act like he did when we first stared dating.
😂 So 💯% true. Saw it happening to myself and didn't even realize I was doing all 6 steps. I was in a 6 year relationship, knowing well it was never going to be what I want. I took what he gave, till he crossed the line, and I let go. He probably never thought I could let him go, after all I put up with everything he did and didn't do. 1st couple of months was not easy. Now I had all this free time, time I had devoted to him. I took that time and gave it to myself. Started to take care of my mind and health. Left him alone. Didn't respond right away to his calls or text. He was no longer a priority in my life. When he wanted time and it was my time at the gym, I chose the gym. He tried to make me jealous by dating and talking to different woman. I didn't care. I stayed single and worked on me. He came to tell me how much he miss me and now willing to give me all that I had wanted with him before, but it's too late. We are still friends and watch over each other. Relationship days are gone forever. Now I refuse to settle and give time unless we are wanting the same things. I'm a lot happier. It's true that you can't have a relationship when two people want different things. Does not take multiple tries. If a man or woman wants us he or she will do right from the beginning. Anything else is an excuse. Waiting doesn't change anything, unless we change our minds and accept what's given to us. If not, move on.
1-Stop initiating conversations, let him wait too, if he bring up the situation, don’t have the talk yet 2-make your self your priority 3-be a lil mysterious 4-use social media to highlight your social life 5-have the “talk” when the time is right 6-be willing to walk away when it isn’t working out
I be willing to walk away. 🙂🙂🙂🙂 I be willing to leave. 😉😉😉😉 I be willing to make him hurt. 😊😊😊😊 My happiness is more important than him right now. 😇😇😇😇
It won't be your fault if he is hurt. You won't even be the one to "make" him anything. By stepping away, you are just watching out for yourself. His own ignorance hurts him.
You are so right! My man misses me because I respect our time apart. I am the kind of woman who can generate my own happiness, I value my time for myself, with my family and friends. I let him have his time as well. Being together doesnt mean you need to do everything together...we need to maintain our individuality to keep your life and relationship exciting. We value our time apart as much as we value our time together.
Oh my gosh! This really worked with my ex... I remember when I left him coz I was just so tired of doing everything. After a while, I started ignoring & not caring about him, he started texting me often, planning dates that I'd reject always. And guess what? Boom! He started begging & begging to the extent of crying for me back. Unfortunately my mind had already made up, I wanted to move on, not necessarily to get him back, but to forget about his love. Thank you so much Dr. Antonio!!!
@@AntonioBorrello yes I also see it.. thanks for this video.. until have we to make this attitude? until ourself become tyred of his attitude and going to next... Have I another question. If him are making the same? and tell you that you hurt him. How do you know if he is not interessed to you more or if him are adpting about some attitude to manipolate you? thanks
I am in this situation and now I turned to a cold heart,I no longer try to make anything work...its like am now a spectator in a relationship..........Thanks for this video,it lifted my soul, I was thinking maybe starting to live according to what actually makes me happy....was heartless but I have realized my happiness is of greatest important than anything I can ever think of doing and I feel proud of myself...
Don't have time for someone who doesn't miss you. Sometimes people just don't see your worth, and trying to change that is not worth your effort, cutting them out permanently or being fine without them, that is the biggest comeback for yourself. Forgive them if they come back, but be already moved on and happy with yourself truly.
@@AntonioBorrello No problem! Thanks for reading my comment 🙂 Your advice was very helpful, thank you for helping us I will definitely check out your other videos!
It's amazing that normally most of us would do everything opposite which only makes the situation worst.. But now I know and will not do anything stupid again! thanks Antonio x
Antonio, I really apreciate your advices. Not because they are new, or good, or efficient, but because they ARE there. It's not like "buy this and I will tell you that". For me, this video builds up trust in you and your profesionalism. Thank you
This definitely worked on me. Thank you so much. He actually realized what he was going to lose and now we talk about how we feel and we go out more now. Before we didn't even go out much. ♥️♥️♥️♥️👍
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My ex husband ignored me for years whilst I tried to make things work, and when I finally gave up and walked away, that's when he decided he cared. Too late for him. He stomped ALL of the love out of my heart.
I find that men are not upfront with their feelings. They are not able to handle so many things at once like women can. Be it work, sick family member, or not mature enough. They seem to only be able to handle one thing at a time. So when they are overwhelmed they “ghost” you and don’t even think twice.
Mau Milton I would love men talking about their feelings. I mean, nobody has x-ray eyes 😉 actually even woman can’t handle many things at once, it’s more that women “need” to work and run their life, their kids life...what’s happening around in life can’t be an excuse for treating other people in a disrespect way 🤔
EZE NNEKANMA if he is hot and cold then you deserve better. There are plenty of men that are emotionally available and would love to have u. Although they can’t find u if your wasting time with a gamer.
I love all his tips because the core is by loving yourself, by valuing yourself more. It’s not about to impress your man but for you to live yourself to the fullest without relying on him
I am always making the first move to contact him in relationship. I always feel insecure about this relationship. Your sharing helps me realise I have fear of being rejected or losing him. Thanks for reminding me to be who I am and learn to develop my own dignity and self-esteem. If he truly loves me, he will get in touch with me and realise he misses me. If not, I must let go of him who dies not treasure me.
No time to do such calculations.....I damn care........the best thing is to be with myself, exploring myself......most women are mindblowing, strong and full of talents..... So believe me ladies......Love yourself....if a man really loves me, there is no need for such calculations....if I need to do such calculations to make myself precious for him.....then just bull's shit.....
People have to realize a lot of people are not in the same place personally. Many girls who struggle or struggled with self esteem issues, like myself, stemming back from adolescence, subconsciously seek relationships for the reassurance they get from the guy, usually in the beginning of the relationship but because they act needy seeking more reassurance they are loved and not going to be left, don’t have many long term relationships but a lot of short lasting ones, usually with only a month or even less time in between each one. So Dont get me wrong you’re absolutely right, but from personal experience I can tell you it wasn’t until I took time to focus on myself for a year, that I was able to have the ability and self respect to where I didn’t need reassurance from guys that I eventually gained the ability to “dump him fast”.
I say move on, not dump. If it is meant to be, he will reappear. I met a very good man who was in a transitional place, and wasn't ready for a relationship. I loved him immediately, because I felt something spiritual/magical (hard to explain). I gave him his space and I remained friends with him, yet kept on dating others. Somehow, after a few years, we ended up together. It was like a dream come true. I had given up on him, but I didn't give up on the dream. I knew that person was out there for me, and I tried to have a good time and feel good. I stayed on that positive wavelength, and we made a full-circle back to each other. It had not been the right time and place, back in 2010-2013. We both had journeys of healing and learning to go through. We became a couple, lived together, marriage, bought a house, and living with much joy, laughter, and understanding. If I had "written him off angrily," then we would not have found each other. My point is, don't dump a guy with frustration and self-defensively. Just shrug your shoulders, and move on with a smile. Never hold your breath, but smell the roses and know in your heart he is coming, in one way, form, or another.
WOW!!! Amazing videos... I was in this situation with a man who told me he didnt want a relationship with anyone! I stayed with him until last week when I actually felt use by him for the first time in a year. I am walking away! because I know my worth and what I deserve and the love I have to give to someone who actually wants it. Thank you for every video you make.. it has opened my eyes.
After watching this vedio, I realized that this actuality what Im doing right now. Honestly, I missed him also. But anyway, I need to prioritized my self first.
I'm definitely going through this situation in my now 5 month relationship. My boyfriend's arrogance is his biggest downfall because it seems as if he doesn't care at times. But i have to overcome the fear of being rejected as the dr states. So wish me luck everyone. 🙌🙌
Thanks for this, Dr. Antonio. I'm in a long-distance relationship and I'm starting to feel less valued and less appreciated as time passes by. Because of you, I've just realized that I should focus on improving myself and not being bothered by how my partner treats me differently than he used to do because everything will fall back into place again if I go back to how I used to be attractive to him when he met me. Thanks a lot for this! :) I hope you can also make another video about how to keep and nurture a long-distance relationship. Thanks in advance :D
I had lost my self respect just because I don't want to loose him, I think I was giving in so much I need to wake up, I should start loving myself however much it will take God help me to go through😢
I’m in a similar situation and doing no contact. He’s not my boyfriend though. After about 2 months of NC he popped up at my apt. He’s never done that before. And this time I didn’t sleep with him as I usually would. I told him I wasn’t doing that with him anymore because I didn’t want to have sex with anyone unless I’m in a relationship with them. He kept trying to initiate sex and I ended up having to basically kick him out. I told him there was no point to him staying if he was going to keep trying to have sex when it wasn’t going to happen. I wasn’t harsh and kept everything light. There was no arguing or drama. I told him to give me a kiss on the cheek and bid him goodnight. I’m so proud of myself for not caving in to him. That was a week and a half ago. Haven’t heard from him again yet, still doing NC.
Yes, I am in this situation. We are together more than 7 years, but he started to ignore me sometimes, and did not appreciate my efforts to better the relationship. I will definitely try your advices, because now I see where I did wrong. Thank you ❤️
If he is not into me any more time to walk away. Am not going to nag him to spend time with me someone else will take the time for me. Love ❤️ yourself
Hello, Dr. Antonio! Another resourceful video. I was in that situation about two years ago and til this day, I'm practicing a very similar video of yours. Now, my fiance, who's always busy with his career and businesses, goes out of his way. He calls in between conferences and sometimes, even asks his secretary not to disturb him, just to talk to me. That was a 180 degree change! Now, he's the one making plans, being expressive, and a lot more affectionate and attentive! Thank you!!
This video made me see I'm giving too much and getting less in return. I'm gonna switch it up and try these steps to see what happens. It was very informative! Thank you.
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Alhamdhlillah today I'm ready to walk away from things that hurt me .. all credit goes to u Dr. I am much happier n v much confident with my decisions today. Ur videos mortivate us a lot. May Allah bless u for this good deed .
I'm very lucky to find this video. I don't have a boyfriend but this tips will be very useful to me in future. Nice advice. Thank you Dr. Antonio Borrelo
Walk away, silence will always speak volumes . If it was meant to be ,he will come running back. Thanks for the insight Dr Antonio makes perfect sense to me
Thank you so much, before I watch your video, I think I had completed 5 of the steps, and I am going to another step, where I truly willingly to walk away. It's hurt me, but I think I love myself more and being independence is better. No heartache... And be free... I ❤ this
Hi Dr. Borrello, I love your advice and mostly are correct. I truly believed that all your videos are extremely helpful. Thanks a lot Antonio.:) God bless you...more power to your brilliant program. :D
This video is so on point! When you 1st get together with someone, it is so easy to try to make their world your world. But is so important to have your own life. I gave up a couple of my hobbies because I always wanted to be available, but then I realized my man would take advantage. So I went back to my real life and it brought us closer together.
Not picking up the phone the moment he calls , finding other things to occupy my time certainly does makes him misses me more and it even pulls him closer everyday... Your methods are perfect
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I need to start loving myself again. I am always trying to make him feel better. And when things hit the fan I always back down and limit my concerns. And i dont do enough to make myself happy. Im going to try these steps and see if things change.
The earlier you know that you can not resolve somes issues, it's a less pain...Thank you Dr. Antonio Borello, it strengthens us our high esteem and we really need to accept the reality, not meant to be.
I've been in the same exact situation a few months back. He seemed to distance himself from me and when I asked why he just said nothing's happen and indicated everything's alright but then BAM! Something's came out of nowhere and he decided to leave me. After I watched your video, it's like an eye opening that what I've been doing for all of these times was something I should've done. I always available for him, I made him my priority even I checked up on him daily now I know those were things that made him feel so hard to breath and I was acting like I didn't give him his own space. I just wish that I found and watched your video back a few months ago so I can correct my acts and behaviour towards him. Thank you for making this video, this is very useful and educated.
😂 feels like you’re talking to me 😂 I’ve experienced when I feel like am the only one who always texted back and forth and we fight because of the jealousy, I have fear that if I ignore him , he might find someone else but I tried it so hard because I feel like it’s too much on my brain. So I lessened my replies, my story and week after he wonders why I ignore him and not even saying goodnight. We talked about our situation and we definitely solved it right now 💋
i tried not to say goodnight and morning to Him .make me feel better for the first time and since i just view the video of Dr Antonio i learn more and apply it to value myself ,
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Good inspirational and motivational advice. I’m going through the same thing.Hope it works but loving yourself is the most important thing we can do for ourselves after a heartbreak.Keep it up Antonio!
They DID work! I made myself less assertive and available and he definitely stepped in to find out what was going on.❤ Thanks. It was tough and hurt like hell but the gratification I received was confirmation!]
This is so hard to see ur man go away from you even though u Iove him and u need him with u ba really ur video makes me so confidence and I’ll try to do what u said cuz really u right and thank u so much
Where was i all this time..i came across your video and i can literally relate to this.. this is my current situation and was in need of advice thankyou💗
Just what I needed for my daughter. She is 19yrs will be 20 in a few months but dated a guy in high school that she just grew away from. Recently she met a guy & was really into him (as he also acted towards her) but is now back with old girlfriend & dropped my daughter without any explanation or anything! I have tried explaining to her but of course, “I am just mom” ... so happy to see this in hopes she will watch & most of all realize her Worth! Thanks 🙏
Thank you This video is very useful for me because I am often thinking by myself how the way to make him Miss me and the way to know whether I am important for him or not
The best ways to get a guy to miss you is to stay offline. Dont do anything keep living life. Interesting 🤔 good to know. 1. Pull way from him. Stop communicating. 2. Priorities yourself self care be yourself. Do my own things. 3. A bit Mysteries 4. Use Social media stuff. 5. Talk to him when time is right. 6. Be willing to walk away.
Yes as doing that right now but let's be honest I'll probably be accused of seeing someone else but he has text and now I'm at the stage where I cannot be bothered with this he text you reply back then 24 hrs later I get the reply from him maybe he's been watching this video
Yes you are right, I must let the guy initiate, I must go on with my daily task, I don't lay bare everything. The guy is the one asking so thanks for your advice. LDR is difficult when u don't maintain it.
1. Do not initiate communication
2. YOU YOU YOU
3. Be a bit mysterious
4. 'Brag' on social media
5. Have the 'talk' at the right time
6. Willing to walk away
You're welcome
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I like this advice, because either way it’s a win. If he’s right for you, he will miss you. If he is not right for you, you can move on by becoming the best version of yourself. 👌🏽😁
Antonio Borrello I am enjoying learning from your videos... I’m in my mid-forties, and dating is different from 20 years ago! A phenomenon that I find very frustrating is when a guy “fades away.” They come on strong then, without anything going drastically wrong, they back off until they just aren’t there anymore. No real solid communication that they are breaking up with you. From my perspective, this very disrespectful and hurtful. What is going on here? Are they cowards or what? Thank you for considering this and helping us ladies understand this behavior.
True
Yea but once you start doing that over and over and over and over and over again, it seems fruitless… 😔
@@BrooklynBaby100 Hang in there! My comment was made 3 years ago…and I am still single. I have turned my focus to living life on my own. I still get lonely, but it’s better than the emotional roller coaster with men who are interested, but don’t want to commit. Right now I have a good friendship with a man that might be turning into romance. That would be nice, but if not the friendship is enough! Prayers and peace be with you. 🤗
I legit was crying throughout this video...😢 I have to start loving myself and I need to start investing my time Into myself again. Thank you for this video ❤️
Get it girl !!!! Put yourself first! You are worth more !
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You'll be better. Trust me
You are beautiful
MmmBien your heart is the softest place on earth.take care of it
All men fell in love with me because i didnt feel for them, they adored me until i started to feel for them!
It's not about the kill... It's the thrill of the chase.
Wow ur words are inspiring and have strong attitude.
so true
Truth!
Men can screw themselves! Ain't got time for the chasing game!!!!
You should be the first priority. Love yourself, Everything else will fall in place.
Love yourself first.
Mop mino mnk
yes ♡
Which school do they teach to learn self-importance? 😭😭
You’re cute 👀
Thanks for this video. I can relate to this. After watching this video, I realized that
giving a guy so much attention
would only push him away and he would only take my feelings for granted. 😢
+Antonio Borrello Thank you so much for this video i have started doing number 1 already
Its true its not good og u gave attention to ur bf
Very very true.
Thank you for this information I have been in a relationship for almost 7 years I have followed these steps and I just had to wake him up, that I don't want to be roommate as that is how our relationship had changed to. this weekend I spent the weekend to myself and turned off my phone. low and behold he has now figured out I am ready to leave if I have to and he has opened his eyes I am not going to tolerate neglect . and he has started to act like he did when we first stared dating.
How is your relationship with him now?
Omg I'm so sorry I'm going through this right now
😂 So 💯% true. Saw it happening to myself and didn't even realize I was doing all 6 steps. I was in a 6 year relationship, knowing well it was never going to be what I want. I took what he gave, till he crossed the line, and I let go. He probably never thought I could let him go, after all I put up with everything he did and didn't do. 1st couple of months was not easy. Now I had all this free time, time I had devoted to him. I took that time and gave it to myself. Started to take care of my mind and health. Left him alone. Didn't respond right away to his calls or text. He was no longer a priority in my life. When he wanted time and it was my time at the gym, I chose the gym. He tried to make me jealous by dating and talking to different woman. I didn't care. I stayed single and worked on me. He came to tell me how much he miss me and now willing to give me all that I had wanted with him before, but it's too late. We are still friends and watch over each other. Relationship days are gone forever. Now I refuse to settle and give time unless we are wanting the same things. I'm a lot happier. It's true that you can't have a relationship when two people want different things. Does not take multiple tries. If a man or woman wants us he or she will do right from the beginning. Anything else is an excuse. Waiting doesn't change anything, unless we change our minds and accept what's given to us. If not, move on.
1-Stop initiating conversations, let him wait too, if he bring up the situation, don’t have the talk yet
2-make your self your priority
3-be a lil mysterious
4-use social media to highlight your social life
5-have the “talk” when the time is right
6-be willing to walk away when it isn’t working out
d cet I agree.
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@@AntonioBorrello
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Perfect thank you
So just wondering, how long should the person be doing step1 to 4? What if he doesn't suspect anything?
😑 ugh... the reason why I hate relationships. I rather be left alone. Relationships are too complicated. It’s easier to just focus on myself only.
Twila Wilson real relationship do exist. Just be calm, be yourself, and certainly the right person is coming
I’m married
This is so me
Why do women always av to do the work
Trueeee.... happy to be single
Don't initiate...ugh my hardest challenge when I think about him all the time!
I feel ya 🙃
YEAS
I be willing to walk away.
🙂🙂🙂🙂
I be willing to leave.
😉😉😉😉
I be willing to make him hurt.
😊😊😊😊
My happiness is more important than him right now. 😇😇😇😇
Dangggg I wish I was like you ♥️
U rite ...improud of u... i wish i can be like u.
Moon Chaser - So easy to say....but so hard to do!!🤦🏽♀️
Need to be more like you .
It won't be your fault if he is hurt. You won't even be the one to "make" him anything. By stepping away, you are just watching out for yourself. His own ignorance hurts him.
You are so right! My man misses me because I respect our time apart. I am the kind of woman who can generate my own happiness, I value my time for myself, with my family and friends. I let him have his time as well. Being together doesnt mean you need to do everything together...we need to maintain our individuality to keep your life and relationship exciting. We value our time apart as much as we value our time together.
Thanks! I'm already following you and subscribed to your chanel, i love your videos.
It's like you were speaking directly to me... I really needed this, thank you
Oh my gosh! This really worked with my ex... I remember when I left him coz I was just so tired of doing everything. After a while, I started ignoring & not caring about him, he started texting me often, planning dates that I'd reject always. And guess what? Boom! He started begging & begging to the extent of crying for me back. Unfortunately my mind had already made up, I wanted to move on, not necessarily to get him back, but to forget about his love.
Thank you so much Dr. Antonio!!!
Namibian?
I need a love story like this 😫
Julia Shikongo proud of you sis
Man if he don’t want me no more good bye !!! I Iove myselfe more than being sad about someone who don’t love me no more !!
@@AntonioBorrello yes I also see it.. thanks for this video.. until have we to make this attitude? until ourself become tyred of his attitude and going to next... Have I another question. If him are making the same? and tell you that you hurt him. How do you know if he is not interessed to you more or if him are adpting about some attitude to manipolate you? thanks
What about send this guy to fucking hell , stupid people trying to reach love like that
Yess just tell yourself i deserve bettr
Great
I like it💪
I am in this situation and now I turned to a cold heart,I no longer try to make anything work...its like am now a spectator in a relationship..........Thanks for this video,it lifted my soul, I was thinking maybe starting to live according to what actually makes me happy....was heartless but I have realized my happiness is of greatest important than anything I can ever think of doing and I feel proud of myself...
99.99 % TRUTH ! and some of the signs you should start from day one with a man.
Don't have time for someone who doesn't miss you. Sometimes people just don't see your worth, and trying to change that is not worth your effort, cutting them out permanently or being fine without them, that is the biggest comeback for yourself. Forgive them if they come back, but be already moved on and happy with yourself truly.
@@AntonioBorrello No problem! Thanks for reading my comment 🙂 Your advice was very helpful, thank you for helping us I will definitely check out your other videos!
Thank you,i need these words
audrina moon nice words❤❤❤
I am doing the same 😊
and i am happy now
it is useless to like someone who dont value u 😊
I cannot preach this enough to my girlfriends!! Absolutely true! I mean come in ladies! What do you have to lose? It works!!! Great video!
Antonio Borrello thank you!!! Good to see some truth out here and a real advisor not someone seeking gain ((: much love
Sad to say that I am in the position like this. I have the fear of being rejected. This video making me realized how valuable I am.
Sissie largianna. I know of a very powerful man who can help you.
He did mine for me
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Me too
“If it's meant to happen it will.”
Thank you for this video. 😌
true
It's amazing that normally most of us would do everything opposite which only makes the situation worst.. But now I know and will not do anything stupid again! thanks Antonio x
Thank you so much for this information!!
Antonio, I really apreciate your advices. Not because they are new, or good, or efficient, but because they ARE there. It's not like "buy this and I will tell you that". For me, this video builds up trust in you and your profesionalism. Thank you
This definitely worked on me. Thank you so much. He actually realized what he was going to lose and now we talk about how we feel and we go out more now. Before we didn't even go out much. ♥️♥️♥️♥️👍
Yajaira Perez lucky you 😊
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Lost of pregnancy
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How are you his doing during this pandemic?
we always want something we know we cant have. dont make yourself so available & be taken for granted.
So true! After 20 years I finally realize "he wasn't that into me".
Thank you ❤
KNOW YOUR WORTH AND NEVER LET ANYONE EVER CONVINCE YOU OF ANYTHING LESS OR GET COMFORTABLE TREATING YOU LESS THAN YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED ❤!
Holly Regan hells yeah
Facts
Truth!!
Going through this now trying step number 1. It’s been a very difficult week. I hope and pray these steps work with a great outcome for us.
My ex husband ignored me for years whilst I tried to make things work, and when I finally gave up and walked away, that's when he decided he cared. Too late for him. He stomped ALL of the love out of my heart.
Why do always women have the work 😑 it seems like I need to handle a child...what’s going on with all the adult men?!
I find that men are not upfront with their feelings. They are not able to handle so many things at once like women can. Be it work, sick family member, or not mature enough. They seem to only be able to handle one thing at a time. So when they are overwhelmed they “ghost” you and don’t even think twice.
Mau Milton I would love men talking about their feelings. I mean, nobody has x-ray eyes 😉 actually even woman can’t handle many things at once, it’s more that women “need” to work and run their life, their kids life...what’s happening around in life can’t be an excuse for treating other people in a disrespect way 🤔
SaG g'sund most men are stupid that's why
I have been using some of steps but it doesn't work, he keeps on and off, am really tired. please i really need help.
EZE NNEKANMA if he is hot and cold then you deserve better. There are plenty of men that are emotionally available and would love to have u. Although they can’t find u if your wasting time with a gamer.
I was the one who trying to work our relationship, it was hard that I was the one who longing to him, and I feel that he is never missed me.
i just wanna saw thank you , you've woken up my eyes to see the better person that i am ..MAKING MY SELF MY PRIORITY
I love all his tips because the core is by loving yourself, by valuing yourself more. It’s not about to impress your man but for you to live yourself to the fullest without relying on him
I am always making the first move to contact him in relationship. I always feel insecure about this relationship. Your sharing helps me realise I have fear of being rejected or losing him. Thanks for reminding me to be who I am and learn to develop my own dignity and self-esteem. If he truly loves me, he will get in touch with me and realise he misses me. If not, I must let go of him who dies not treasure me.
Only works if he loves you 🤷🏽♀️
If he loves you you won't have to pull this dumb shit.
@@StunningTransformations if he not in to you, you don't need to do all of this too. LOL
No time to do such calculations.....I damn care........the best thing is to be with myself, exploring myself......most women are mindblowing, strong and full of talents.....
So believe me ladies......Love yourself....if a man really loves me, there is no need for such calculations....if I need to do such calculations to make myself precious for him.....then just bull's shit.....
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Yeah true
If he does not want something serious and you do? DUMP HIM FAST!
True
People have to realize a lot of people are not in the same place personally. Many girls who struggle or struggled with self esteem issues, like myself, stemming back from adolescence, subconsciously seek relationships for the reassurance they get from the guy, usually in the beginning of the relationship but because they act needy seeking more reassurance they are loved and not going to be left, don’t have many long term relationships but a lot of short lasting ones, usually with only a month or even less time in between each one. So Dont get me wrong you’re absolutely right, but from personal experience I can tell you it wasn’t until I took time to focus on myself for a year, that I was able to have the ability and self respect to where I didn’t need reassurance from guys that I eventually gained the ability to “dump him fast”.
@@lindseyscott3463 wise response
I say move on, not dump. If it is meant to be, he will reappear. I met a very good man who was in a transitional place, and wasn't ready for a relationship. I loved him immediately, because I felt something spiritual/magical (hard to explain). I gave him his space and I remained friends with him, yet kept on dating others. Somehow, after a few years, we ended up together. It was like a dream come true. I had given up on him, but I didn't give up on the dream. I knew that person was out there for me, and I tried to have a good time and feel good. I stayed on that positive wavelength, and we made a full-circle back to each other. It had not been the right time and place, back in 2010-2013. We both had journeys of healing and learning to go through. We became a couple, lived together, marriage, bought a house, and living with much joy, laughter, and understanding. If I had "written him off angrily," then we would not have found each other. My point is, don't dump a guy with frustration and self-defensively. Just shrug your shoulders, and move on with a smile. Never hold your breath, but smell the roses and know in your heart he is coming, in one way, form, or another.
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WOW!!! Amazing videos... I was in this situation with a man who told me he didnt want a relationship with anyone! I stayed with him until last week when I actually felt use by him for the first time in a year. I am walking away! because I know my worth and what I deserve and the love I have to give to someone who actually wants it. Thank you for every video you make.. it has opened my eyes.
After watching this vedio, I realized that this actuality what Im doing right now. Honestly, I missed him also. But anyway, I need to prioritized my self first.
In other words, act like you don’t gaf...mmmk got it! Lol
Sounds accurate
Yes, and honestly, dgaf lol. Do you!
I'm definitely going through this situation in my now 5 month relationship. My boyfriend's arrogance is his biggest downfall because it seems as if he doesn't care at times. But i have to overcome the fear of being rejected as the dr states. So wish me luck everyone. 🙌🙌
Thank you sir.... I'm mad abt him where is making him busy... Now I'll make him realise that what he has in his life...
I tried some of these.. Some worked and some didn't
I guess it really depends on the interest of the person on you
Thank you so much. This helped
Thanks for this, Dr. Antonio. I'm in a long-distance relationship and I'm starting to feel less valued and less appreciated as time passes by. Because of you, I've just realized that I should focus on improving myself and not being bothered by how my partner treats me differently than he used to do because everything will fall back into place again if I go back to how I used to be attractive to him when he met me. Thanks a lot for this! :)
I hope you can also make another video about how to keep and nurture a long-distance relationship. Thanks in advance :D
It is working but I started these steps on my own from being fed up! No one is worth the headache.
@@AntonioBorrello oh and by the way, it worked!
I’ve done exactly what you’ve said on this video before I’ve watched your video and I am happy now. Alone it doesn’t mean I am lonely.
I had lost my self respect just because I don't want to loose him, I think I was giving in so much
I need to wake up, I should start loving myself however much it will take
God help me to go through😢
Blessed Hope everyone has been there so don’t feel bad.
Yes
I’m in a similar situation and doing no contact. He’s not my boyfriend though. After about 2 months of NC he popped up at my apt. He’s never done that before. And this time I didn’t sleep with him as I usually would. I told him I wasn’t doing that with him anymore because I didn’t want to have sex with anyone unless I’m in a relationship with them. He kept trying to initiate sex and I ended up having to basically kick him out. I told him there was no point to him staying if he was going to keep trying to have sex when it wasn’t going to happen. I wasn’t harsh and kept everything light. There was no arguing or drama. I told him to give me a kiss on the cheek and bid him goodnight. I’m so proud of myself for not caving in to him. That was a week and a half ago. Haven’t heard from him again yet, still doing NC.
Good job girl! He was looking for a fun toy and you are not it !!! 👍🙌
Yeh but he wasn’t worth it anyway
If you didn’t say no you would never find out that his only interest in you was sex . Well done !
Wow you have so much courage that's one of the hardest things to do. I'm doing NC I'm on day 4 lol. But I blocked him.
thanks for this video I swear it's gonna change alot of things, those stuff u said are facts...
Why the women have to do all the work? Sick of this sh*t. Everything is about what a man wants and what to do to keep him.
I am not going to do much talking anymore. He tends to turn off that way
@@kathytownsend4070 good, Silence speaks volume. Take care of yourself and balance your emotions. When you stop caring is when they care it seems.
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I will focus on improving myself instead of fighting for his attention. Thank you doc
Yes, I am in this situation. We are together more than 7 years, but he started to ignore me sometimes, and did not appreciate my efforts to better the relationship. I will definitely try your advices, because now I see where I did wrong. Thank you ❤️
Same goes for women. If we say we don't want you or a boyfriend in general right now and we just want to be friends ...we mean exactly that!
If he is not into me any more time to walk away. Am not going to nag him to spend time with me someone else will take the time for me. Love ❤️ yourself
Good advice
Hello, Dr. Antonio!
Another resourceful video.
I was in that situation about two years ago and til this day, I'm practicing a very similar video of yours. Now, my fiance, who's always busy with his career and businesses, goes out of his way. He calls in between conferences and sometimes, even asks his secretary not to disturb him, just to talk to me. That was a 180 degree change! Now, he's the one making plans, being expressive, and a lot more affectionate and attentive!
Thank you!!
Please never stop doing these amazing videos!!
This video made me see I'm giving too much and getting less in return. I'm gonna switch it up and try these steps to see what happens. It was very informative! Thank you.
Same here def switch my game on
Yep good people are always taken advantage of
Theresa any updates?
Men does not know how to love
I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - *4WhatHeWants. Com* Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?
That's true
Yess they just want women to love them but they don't know to love back. They are selfish ...
Illia Dorival they don’t and they don’t want to
Alhamdhlillah today I'm ready to walk away from things that hurt me .. all credit goes to u Dr. I am much happier n v much confident with my decisions today. Ur videos mortivate us a lot. May Allah bless u for this good deed .
I wish I Watched this video before I met him😞😐
Mee too 😞😞
Sameeee I was to late 😭
Best way to learn is through experience!
Our past is experience... don't feel sad you have good future more than past.. because you learn more from the past. God bless you dear...😉😉😉
Mee too everything has changed i wish i could go back to normal having him and losing him is a living hell😭
I'm very lucky to find this video. I don't have a boyfriend but this tips will be very useful to me in future. Nice advice. Thank you Dr. Antonio Borrelo
Walk away, silence will always speak volumes . If it was meant to be ,he will come running back. Thanks for the insight Dr Antonio makes perfect sense to me
I finally realise me hoping and praying he will come me will never happen. I had to make the decision to walk away.
Thank you. It makes me realize that I should love my self first .
i almost forgot how valuable i am, thanks so much for this. More about me now
Thank you so much, before I watch your video, I think I had completed 5 of the steps, and I am going to another step, where I truly willingly to walk away. It's hurt me, but I think I love myself more and being independence is better. No heartache... And be free... I ❤ this
Yes the best point is being able to be strong and walk away.
yes this works. .! if hez not into you..
what have you lost?
be brave. .don't doubt urself...u deserve the best. .not crumbs
Hi Dr. Borrello, I love your advice and mostly are correct. I truly believed that all your videos are extremely helpful. Thanks a lot Antonio.:) God bless you...more power to your brilliant program. :D
This video is so on point! When you 1st get together with someone, it is so easy to try to make their world your world. But is so important to have your own life. I gave up a couple of my hobbies because I always wanted to be available, but then I realized my man would take advantage. So I went back to my real life and it brought us closer together.
Not picking up the phone the moment he calls , finding other things to occupy my time certainly does makes him misses me more and it even pulls him closer everyday... Your methods are perfect
I only wish there was a place for good hearted people🤦🏽♀️
Yes!!! This world makes you feel like you just don’t belong here😢
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Amen to this!
Nee Nee me to let start a Facebook page!
I love my husband alot but he doesnt understds me
Great tips! They do notice and they will try to approach you at some point.
Loved the video thanks for the info
I need to start loving myself again. I am always trying to make him feel better. And when things hit the fan I always back down and limit my concerns. And i dont do enough to make myself happy. Im going to try these steps and see if things change.
this really does work. especially the "me" time one ..
The earlier you know that you can not resolve somes issues, it's a less pain...Thank you Dr. Antonio Borello, it strengthens us our high esteem and we really need to accept the reality, not meant to be.
And they say women are complicated.
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Thank you!!!!! My thoughts exactly!!
Great video, Antonio. This is a prime example of the way a high value woman would operate. Happy Thanksgiving.
Its always their game is it . We tire too much of these kiddy men . Kids , plz grow up
I've been in the same exact situation a few months back. He seemed to distance himself from me and when I asked why he just said nothing's happen and indicated everything's alright but then BAM! Something's came out of nowhere and he decided to leave me. After I watched your video, it's like an eye opening that what I've been doing for all of these times was something I should've done. I always available for him, I made him my priority even I checked up on him daily now I know those were things that made him feel so hard to breath and I was acting like I didn't give him his own space. I just wish that I found and watched your video back a few months ago so I can correct my acts and behaviour towards him. Thank you for making this video, this is very useful and educated.
O yea, I tried some of them and they worked out for me 💪
😂 feels like you’re talking to me 😂 I’ve experienced when I feel like am the only one who always texted back and forth and we fight because of the jealousy, I have fear that if I ignore him , he might find someone else but I tried it so hard because I feel like it’s too much on my brain. So I lessened my replies, my story and week after he wonders why I ignore him and not even saying goodnight. We talked about our situation and we definitely solved it right now 💋
Did the step one. Not initiating the conversation. Guess what, he got used to it. And forgot about me 😓
My question
He must be a user..
He did you a favor sis, move one. Someone else will value you and your time! It hurts though, I get that, but it's for the best.
Then he didn't care, so move on.
My thoughts exactly 😭
i tried not to say goodnight and morning to Him .make me feel better for the first time and since i just view the video of Dr Antonio i learn more and apply it to value myself ,
This video was very helpful for me.
Not responding or texting back immediately is what i need to work on..definately...thanks for your videos😊
My husband is toxic. Hurting me all the time so controlling.
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Good inspirational and motivational advice. I’m going through the same thing.Hope it works but loving yourself is the most important thing we can do for ourselves after a heartbreak.Keep it up Antonio!
They DID work! I made myself less assertive and available and he definitely stepped in to find out what was going on.❤ Thanks. It was tough and hurt like hell but the gratification I received was confirmation!]
This is so hard to see ur man go away from you even though u Iove him and u need him with u ba really ur video makes me so confidence and I’ll try to do what u said cuz really u right and thank u so much
Yeah respect yourself
Where was i all this time..i came across your video and i can literally relate to this.. this is my current situation and was in need of advice thankyou💗
Just what I needed for my daughter. She is 19yrs will be 20 in a few months but dated a guy in high school that she just grew away from. Recently she met a guy & was really into him (as he also acted towards her) but is now back with old girlfriend & dropped my daughter without any explanation or anything! I have tried explaining to her but of course, “I am just mom” ... so happy to see this in hopes she will watch & most of all realize her Worth! Thanks 🙏
It all boils down to do "Love yourself" things 🙂.
😭😭😭this is me exactly i always called him always bothered.bec sometimes i don’t trust him
More self love ladies. ❤
Men don't how to say sorry
If your man don't care about you any more what will you do
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Thank you
This video is very useful for me because I am often thinking by myself how the way to make him Miss me and the way to know whether I am important for him or not
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The best ways to get a guy to miss you is to stay offline. Dont do anything keep living life.
Interesting 🤔 good to know.
1. Pull way from him. Stop communicating.
2. Priorities yourself self care be yourself. Do my own things.
3. A bit Mysteries
4. Use Social media stuff.
5. Talk to him when time is right.
6. Be willing to walk away.
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Yes as doing that right now but let's be honest I'll probably be accused of seeing someone else but he has text and now I'm at the stage where I cannot be bothered with this he text you reply back then 24 hrs later I get the reply from him maybe he's been watching this video
Yes you are right, I must let the guy initiate, I must go on with my daily task, I don't lay bare everything. The guy is the one asking so thanks for your advice. LDR is difficult when u don't maintain it.
The way he will miss you... is if he loves you.. nothing more nothing less.
And just be secure in yourself that you don’t need someone to miss you.
These works all time unless the person isn't into you then u'll try this on the wrong person N. U will say it doesn't work.
I totally agree with you. Love yourself first and everything will just flow naturally. Thank you!
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