I always do this though 😂 and not even on purpose it's just me by default lol. When I did that the guy was like he doesn't want to invest in me anymore and refuses to. But when I started to improve on communication and actually make the effort, it's not exactly the same as before where he actually cared to invest. So conclusion is it does not always work
Im not going to lower myself. If a man isnt in to me then ill leave. And when he starts communicating with me again because ive vanished, he can go to hell.
yes its really hard that kind of person you notice his online always then if you send msg just to remind him!he just ignore and seen it only ..are you happy or like that kind of crazy situation 😔😥
I'm gonna try really hard to do these things. I tend to jump when I hear from him or get a chance to see him. But, it is his turn and I need to be strong. Thanks!
You are, by far, the best communicator and counselor on these topics than I've ever experienced before. Your advice is clear & effective.... based in science and geared toward what people are truly struggling with. Keep up the excellent work! Thank you for taking the time to help people in this realm. It is desperately needed.
Going through this now because of a little tension in the relationship. 🙄 I want my partner to run towards me and the relationship to resolve the conflict and learn the lesson that comes from the conflict, forgive and move forward. Withdrawaling does nothing but create more problems. I can understand maybe needing some space but to treat the other person differently by withholding love and affection is unhealthy.
*I stumbled upon this video, and I'm so glad I did! The advice on how to make him want you more is practical and relatable. I appreciate the emphasis on authenticity and self-love. Implement these strategies, and watch as your relationship transforms into a passionate and fulfilling connection.*
That's the thing, we dont have to. He goes on about knowing your worth and if we do we would walk away from this shit relationship not fight to get him back because if he's fallen out of love or like he's more than likely done. Even if you did get a guy like this back how long would it be before the same situation occurred. It's all bullshit, know your worth and move on
🌸 it’s not about pleasing someone or everyone. It’s all about knowing your self worth, putting yourself first by practicing self love You missed everything. Watch it again, listen carefully
I see a lot of negative comments but I think this is great advice. It's all about being your best self and not loosing sight of who you were before him. Its easy to do in a marriage. I don't think its a game if both partners are benefiting from it. Its just a gentle reminder that hey I take care of my self because I love who I am and you should too. PS. My husband is a gamer so sometimes his focus is on his game. This morning I put on makeup to go to the gym and he couldn't keep his eyes off me from the game room. I know he was curious as to why and when I got back he didn't want to take his hands off of me. Say what you will but it works 💁
Really am learning a lot at 55!!! I wish i had these years ago. I really do appreciate these videos. Tbank you! I am in a relationship with s younger man and it took a strange direction quickly and made no sense. These sre helping me. Thanks again!
Same here....Im 62 & my bae is 45! Been together for 5yrs now, but he's gotten too comfortable.... so now it's time for new tactics. It's never too old to learn something new. I'm grateful for these tips💕
When you have something too much, you don't want it as much, or completely lose interest. For example, I live in N.H. and go to Six Flags but a guy friend of my daughter, literally lives across from it and has no interest in it. He goes to NJ because "That one is bigger." Men are designed to be challenged and therefore, work hard for all they want. You're not attractive to your man if you give your all. We need to invest in OURSELVES and focus on ourselves. They more you invest in yourself and not on him, the more he'll love and value you. I taught my daughters this and they thank me. Awhile ago, I invited a co-worker twice to go with me to get a mani and pedi after work; both times, she said " I can't. I have to go home and cook for my boyfriend." I told her she would regret neglecting herself for a man. He ended up leaving her for a girl, who invested in herself.
I actually agree with some of this. Only if I have to do this, I move on. I don't waste my time on someone I have to play these types of games with them.
Thank you so much Doc. I am facing same story right now. I kept on watching and listening you everyday to kept myself still motivated. He was changed but when he messaged me and sent me a voice clip to much flowering words and apologies and kept on telling me that I'm the very best thing happened to his life and thanking for healing his heart. We are in a long distance relationship right now and I know his sometimes dating with some girls but still I understands everything caused I know he has needs but then I started to moved on slowly caused I don't really want to be hurt when times came his gone. He told me, heloves me but I couldn't feel it. I never angry and hated him. I maybe spoiled him that's why he's changing. But now I have learned a lot from you. Thank you so much ☺
I am in the same situation. I will try those steps too and hope for better !! If he don’t want then bye. But I pray that God also make him a better person for me, and obviously I want this to work. Please give me some thumbs up and pray for me !! Aha. I’m happy you are fine now !
I actually have to work on the opposite. I never text first. And I am always busy, so sometimes I take too long to answer. I go out of my way for my kids, my family, and friends. I learned not to be that available to men, many years ago. Men are so predictable! You do something and just wait for the results, like give him less attention and ladies, for sure he will be asking for it --- he'll be more attentive, affectionate, and romantic.
That's true, I learned that with my last and up to this day, he is being more attentive and is always willing to spend time with me, so ladies, take your power back and take your attention away and you'll see the chase (if he really cares)
@@laly-pop2408, Excellent! Last weekend, I had plans to go to Foxwoods and my boyfriend was taking his kids to Six Flags. We didn't go but he didn't know and we still went out to eat. I told my friend, "You see him going to Six Flags with the kids? He'll make time to call me because I'm going to be busy having fun." Yup, he not only called--- he shared everything they were doing and what they still had left to do. His son had driven for the first time on the way to Six Flags, they were waiting for their seafood, his daughter was trying crocodile, and they will eat ice cream after. He put the phone on speaker and had me talk to the kids and then left them on the phone with me while he went to check on the food. He subconsciously, wanted to get my attention while I was out with my friend and he for sure did! Had he not have the kids, I would have not picked up and would have called him later, or cut him very short. They're so predictable!
Every single word of this is true. This exact scenario happened to me. He’s back to where we were 6 weeks ago when things changed. He knew he had me, so he got complacent. I went no contact for 10 days and he went crazy. He has been treating me great again like he did in the beginning. I used every one of these tips and they all work.
When I first got on online dating I kept changing what I had to say everytime I heard guys say different things that he would find attractive in a woman in order for him to date her. Pretty soon i decided I was going to quit changing my profile and decided either he likes me or he doesn't. One thing that really deterres me and I don't even have to think about pursuing a guy is if he has rules and regulations I have to follow in order for him to like me!
The one thing we don't discuss in a relationship is trust. We automatically assume we trust each other. I just told my husband of 15 yrs I trust him. His response was what are you up to. It made me realize we really don't announce that verbally.
All these videos make dating seem like a game I don't want to play. If being myself doesn't get the man, then he's not the man for me. I'm not going to be fake. If I'm acting to get or keep a man then he's not even dating the real me. Honestly social media/tech has ruined the normal dating process. American culture has turned into a hookup/friends with benefits one...total downward spiral morally.
@Chuck Don't put me into a category, for you don't know me, my experiences or how I do anything in my life. I'm as real as it gets. I don't play games, use people, lie, do drugs or cheat. I'm also bluntly honest. My first comment didn't put males only down, it is both sexes doing this today obviously, for it takes 2, to tango. I do wish all these women out there participating would stop being so slutty because I believe it does play into how many men see women today and we aren't all like that.
@@Lydie.A I like to listen to what he has to say like everyone else. Doesn't mean I'm always going to follow his suggestions. Why would you ask me this?
@Chuck Sexist and wrong. Men made the mess you fix it. You have issues with women to work on. Feminists and liberals just want RESPECT, sexist!! They were NOT decent.
Endless love is self love. Stop trying to find a man to make you happy. Be the one who makes you happy !!! My dad's love is enough for me. So no man no stress, periodttt!!!
I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours begging you for a second chance....his name is (Dr Steve) He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with more love and commitment.
It's funny because i know the rules but soo difficult for me To apply when it comes To the person i like, reason why those i don't like always tend to stick on because i don't have their time and they try soo hard To please me. Where as the person that u like, u get to give in soo easily... I really have to work on this but the emotions too making it very difficult, the feelings you have when u meet someone u like 😣.... love life is really hard
I can’t believe that even in 2019, you make a point of how women should make themselves pretty and be thin to « make their man want them more ». I’m sure that how my mom felt in the 60’.
My ex of 8 years just totally withdrew in December. He said he was depressed. And now we’ve ended our engagement and sold our home in a few short weeks. I noticed I put in a lot of effort and he didn’t do anything towards the end
Hello lovely I can introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. he can also help you to get back with yours with much love♥️♥️♥️
I don't care anymore.. He ghosted me, I got up the nerve and texted him, gave him a piece of mind, then he texted me back (finally). He said that we needed to talk real soon. (Yes..) Hell to the No. I Deleted, Blocked, and Ghosted him right back. Im not that desperate, just tired of the BS. I feel really good about myself in a long time❤
I tried this. Especially not initiating conversation thinking i was the one ignoring him but he was ignoring me. and never reached out first but still broke up with me over text in a really cold way saying he doesn't have time to think about me right now and he's got a lot going on but his friend said all he's been doing is playing video games not doing any of the things he said in the message to me. He told me right after to come get my things. Even gave the love letters I wrote him back. I didn't see it coming. It broke my heart.
Omg you describe perfectly what I am going through right now. I don't have time for games so I simply just blocked him so I don't have to sit and wait for his text. I don't think he cares though therefore I don't care to have him back
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Love love Love your posts. New, hopefully last relationship I'm going at it very different this time. Me first. I always put others first. I did speak my mind said I'm a little needy. I want to be #1 in someone's life. I want to be the first thing he thinks about in the morning and the last thing he thinks about before bed. I've received a good morning and a goodnight text everyday since
Shit, why is the first half of the video EXACTLY what I recently went through...And we broke up after I tried asking what was wrong with him. But we agreed to stay friends though. Maybe I still have a chance? Well that's why I'm here anyways, thank you so much for this video man
The only part that is not true is to give him space and become scarce. It must be some kind of bro code they just want time alone so they can be intimate with them selves instead of their partner. Which can cause atleast 12 negative effects and problems.
Hello Dr Anthony, I am dating a colleague but we're living in different countries .he does call,text,we always talking over the phone.he seems to be a tuff guy but with he is showing his vulnerability. Still having issues to invest his money when it comes on us meeting!!he is senior in terms of position at work.he always encouraging me to go see him over!!advice
I can't make my man want me more, it's not worth my time. A man has a choice if he wants me or not. If he stops talking to me for three days, then I would dump him. Why wait for him, it's not that fun. Enjoy be happy and keep meeting new people. No man is special.
yes its hard to believe if his truly unto you ?its hurts you notice that his always online and if you send msg he just seen and ignore it ..are you happy of that kind of situation ..if you call him,he just have another call i really don't know if his serious or just want games only!!damm his old already for playing games..😔😏
Asking 'flirty teenage like' questions helps....it puts the playfulness back into the relationship. I think that sometimes want to be so sexually correct that we loose the plot.
Sometimes this works, but if you push them off because you are not available, they will also see this as games.. so they will move on.. I know. I wish this was true every time.
Still Live life. Don't be in the past. Live in the present. Don't have to proof anything to a guy either. Make a guy wait. The guy should invest. Let guy do that. Be less available for a guy and force on myself. 🙂 Avoid the Red flags guys. Dont waste time on a Immature man or abuse manipulate bully or narrastic man. Avoid needy clinging man. Don't waste time with a guy words. but his actions says it all. hoo free from negative man and narrastic man. If a guy doesn't respect or want to be in a relationship then that a toxic guy. A right guy would want a real relationship. Enhance a relationship not be blank space.
We women invest way to much from the beginning. My cheating bf told multiple women that he loves them, including me. He said he's always busy with work while he was busy chatting with other women. I trusted him blindly. I don't know what a person is like on the inside that can play such evil games. Obviously something is not normal when someone desires to play games with multiple women or people. I like your comment. Live in the present. Most important his actions say it all! Don't trust words. Trust actions.
so I've just listened to this AFTER I've sent the guy im dating a barrage of messages about how he's being so distant this week and I either want a proper conversation or none as opposed to this half assed chit chat he's been offering all week. I wish I went longer with playing it cool. Last night I didn't respond to his goodnight message and this morning he said good morning with great energy! but I ruined it by attacking him telling him I missed him and he's annoyed at ME now, woohoo! Oh well I'll use the advice in this video for the future cos now I just feel lame for showing him how bothered I am by his distance.
@@AntonioBorrello yay i found out that his dating other girl for long time already and the girl message me and im so thankful that i know that kind of a men !!
Omg pretty much what I did w my ex - I’m 48 he is 36 lasted 2 yrs , committed in the relationship. Each of us living in our own space but seeing each other every wk on his 2 days off- religiously. Great chemistry and attraction suddenly, he wanted a child but he knew from the start I couldn’t give him kids. Still he dated me for 2 yrs . I’m more successful than him in every aspect and that put him down sometimes, but I assured him that it didn’t matter . All I wanted was a great companionship and be there when needed. He starting ghosting on me, no texts everyday and when asked him about it he finally said he needed space and wanting to have peace and alone . I just said ok good luck. In 6 months we’ve just seen each other’s once and that was bc he needed me to helping him out with something. After that date he admitted to me that he was seeing someone else! Again I wished him good L, It’s been 6 months now and rarely here and there he text with just a hello How are you .. how is family . Other times he had asked me if I’m free but I always said nop sorry I’m busy . Still contacting me like if he wants to reconnect w me, but Goes silence again . I don’t chase him bc if he really wants me he will hunt me again . Also he may be afraid of my reaction once he sees me bc the way he terminated our relationship. Cowardly disappearing ghosting on me just to admit he had replace me by some one else when asked him what happened- In despite of our age gap I do believe we were souls mates bc we never had any disagreement, we were always laughing sharing equal time putting love and care in the relationship. It was a great relationship while it lasted- I have no regrets what so ever .. but I still miss him.
You are so right but i never believed in asking a man to help with chores iv always done for him and let him pick places to go. I guess im a little easy going. But not dating right now so dont haff to worrie. But in case i do
Thank you dr antonio for all you're amazing advice! Staying single and healing is gonna be my focus for 2019 and I'm glad about that😊 besides, I'm a 40 yr old single mom of a beautiful and smart 1 yr old, don't think anyone will be coming around anytime soon😏
A guy on Tinder has been messaging back and forth with me for about a half a week now and the other day I didn't respond back immediately like I did previously and I felt bad so the next day I offered him a explanation because I wanted to reassure him I was still interested. From the information you are recommending to do it was probably to my disadvantage to do that. He didn't message me today.
1. Stop initiating communications
2. Let him invest in you
3. Prioritize your needs. Put yourself first.
4. Become scarce
5. Be mysterious
I totally agree and it works. Thank you for this.
If I do all these.. My husband will say I'm not interested in him and I'm selfish...
Yes he left a girl of 2 years bc she did this. I did the opposite. He with me 3 years now.
I always do this though 😂 and not even on purpose it's just me by default lol. When I did that the guy was like he doesn't want to invest in me anymore and refuses to. But when I started to improve on communication and actually make the effort, it's not exactly the same as before where he actually cared to invest. So conclusion is it does not always work
So, the usual. Play hard to get.
Im not going to lower myself. If a man isnt in to me then ill leave. And when he starts communicating with me again because ive vanished, he can go to hell.
damn girl, love it!
Exactly
yes its really hard that kind of person you notice his online always then if you send msg just to remind him!he just ignore and seen it only ..are you happy or like that kind of crazy situation 😔😥
Men pull this nonsense because they look for fools. Anyone who has guts enough to misbehave doesn't deserve another chance.
Exactly, I agree.
Don't trust words, trust actions.
Exactly what my little sister says!
All talk, no action. Time to move on
yes its really hard to believe the sweetness of words but can't do in action ..i think its playing games !
K?...
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*For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul* 🥰
I'm gonna try really hard to do these things. I tend to jump when I hear from him or get a chance to see him. But, it is his turn and I need to be strong. Thanks!
You go, girl! We can do this!
If u follow thes man u will stay single for ever
Same! I am trying the 80/20 rule he suggested (let the man initiate 80% of the dates and communication).
An eye opener. Thank you Dr. Antonio. If he doesn’t value you. You’re better off without him. ✌🏻
You are, by far, the best communicator and counselor on these topics than I've ever experienced before. Your advice is clear & effective.... based in science and geared toward what people are truly struggling with. Keep up the excellent work! Thank you for taking the time to help people in this realm. It is desperately needed.
Going through this now because of a little tension in the relationship. 🙄 I want my partner to run towards me and the relationship to resolve the conflict and learn the lesson that comes from the conflict, forgive and move forward. Withdrawaling does nothing but create more problems. I can understand maybe needing some space but to treat the other person differently by withholding love and affection is unhealthy.
Here right now like how tf does this even happen why can’t we just love and be loved 🙄 without games
🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️ my feeling exactly. things are so different than they used to be...UGH
🌟 MORNING STAR⭐️ idk how it happens and I’m going through this rn, it sucks
yeah i think like that, when im going to injoy my love life when i should do all of that!
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Angel Wings oooooooooooooooooo
*I stumbled upon this video, and I'm so glad I did! The advice on how to make him want you more is practical and relatable. I appreciate the emphasis on authenticity and self-love. Implement these strategies, and watch as your relationship transforms into a passionate and fulfilling connection.*
Now these relationships its like we have to please men all the time 🤮🤮 we are tired
Sthandile Mpanza for real. It’s bullshit
Sthandile Mpanza PREACH, ALWAYS trying to be perfect. It’s exhausting🥵
That's the thing, we dont have to. He goes on about knowing your worth and if we do we would walk away from this shit relationship not fight to get him back because if he's fallen out of love or like he's more than likely done. Even if you did get a guy like this back how long would it be before the same situation occurred. It's all bullshit, know your worth and move on
We really hold all the power. If we value ourselves, our time and energy, the right man will respect that and do the same.
🌸 it’s not about pleasing someone or everyone. It’s all about knowing your self worth, putting yourself first by practicing self love
You missed everything. Watch it again, listen carefully
This entire video just described me and my situation 100%. Scary...
One man poison is another man meat,so if he dont want me time to move on...
All of you ladies should read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. That book is a game changer. And it aligns with everything Antonio is saying.
I see a lot of negative comments but I think this is great advice. It's all about being your best self and not loosing sight of who you were before him. Its easy to do in a marriage. I don't think its a game if both partners are benefiting from it. Its just a gentle reminder that hey I take care of my self because I love who I am and you should too.
PS. My husband is a gamer so sometimes his focus is on his game. This morning I put on makeup to go to the gym and he couldn't keep his eyes off me from the game room. I know he was curious as to why and when I got back he didn't want to take his hands off of me. Say what you will but it works 💁
Really am learning a lot at 55!!! I wish i had these years ago. I really do appreciate these videos. Tbank you! I am in a relationship with s younger man and it took a strange direction quickly and made no sense. These sre helping me. Thanks again!
Same here....Im 62 & my bae is 45! Been together for 5yrs now, but he's gotten too comfortable.... so now it's time for new tactics. It's never too old to learn something new. I'm grateful for these tips💕
Why life is not simple?
When you have something too much, you don't want it as much, or completely lose interest. For example, I live in N.H. and go to Six Flags but a guy friend of my daughter, literally lives across from it and has no interest in it. He goes to NJ because "That one is bigger."
Men are designed to be challenged and therefore, work hard for all they want. You're not attractive to your man if you give your all. We need to invest in OURSELVES and focus on ourselves. They more you invest in yourself and not on him, the more he'll love and value you. I taught my daughters this and they thank me. Awhile ago, I invited a co-worker twice to go with me to get a mani and pedi after work; both times, she said " I can't. I have to go home and cook for my boyfriend." I told her she would regret neglecting herself for a man. He ended up leaving her for a girl, who invested in herself.
Agree with you)
Look at ur self & smile.x
smile for ur own self pray before bed u ll feel over the moon 😇
It's hard bc you made it more messy
I actually agree with some of this. Only if I have to do this, I move on. I don't waste my time on someone I have to play these types of games with them.
Why is difficult to love or to be natural 😩I don’t want to play
Dr. Borello? Thank You for another excellent video. You are an amazing speaker! You're channel is absolutely wonderful and spot! on!!! Fantastic!
Thank you so much Doc. I am facing same story right now. I kept on watching and listening you everyday to kept myself still motivated. He was changed but when he messaged me and sent me a voice clip to much flowering words and apologies and kept on telling me that I'm the very best thing happened to his life and thanking for healing his heart. We are in a long distance relationship right now and I know his sometimes dating with some girls but still I understands everything caused I know he has needs but then I started to moved on slowly caused I don't really want to be hurt when times came his gone. He told me, heloves me but I couldn't feel it. I never angry and hated him. I maybe spoiled him that's why he's changing. But now I have learned a lot from you. Thank you so much ☺
I am in the same situation. I will try those steps too and hope for better !! If he don’t want then bye.
But I pray that God also make him a better person for me, and obviously I want this to work.
Please give me some thumbs up and pray for me !! Aha. I’m happy you are fine now !
I actually have to work on the opposite. I never text first. And I am always busy, so sometimes I take too long to answer.
I go out of my way for my kids, my family, and friends. I learned not to be that available to men, many years ago. Men are so predictable! You do something and just wait for the results, like give him less attention and ladies, for sure he will be asking for it --- he'll be more attentive, affectionate, and romantic.
That's true, I learned that with my last and up to this day, he is being more attentive and is always willing to spend time with me, so ladies, take your power back and take your attention away and you'll see the chase (if he really cares)
@@laly-pop2408,
Excellent! Last weekend, I had plans to go to Foxwoods and my boyfriend was taking his kids to Six Flags. We didn't go but he didn't know and we still went out to eat. I told my friend, "You see him going to Six Flags with the kids? He'll make time to call me because I'm going to be busy having fun." Yup, he not only called--- he shared everything they were doing and what they still had left to do. His son had driven for the first time on the way to Six Flags, they were waiting for their seafood, his daughter was trying crocodile, and they will eat ice cream after. He put the phone on speaker and had me talk to the kids and then left them on the phone with me while he went to check on the food. He subconsciously, wanted to get my attention while I was out with my friend and he for sure did! Had he not have the kids, I would have not picked up and would have called him later, or cut him very short. They're so predictable!
@@TheSandrafabian FYI 😢
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Every single word of this is true. This exact scenario happened to me. He’s back to where we were 6 weeks ago when things changed. He knew he had me, so he got complacent. I went no contact for 10 days and he went crazy. He has been treating me great again like he did in the beginning. I used every one of these tips and they all work.
Everything this man said it's on point. From someone who's done it all, trust it work.
You have helped me so much in my relationship. I'm so grateful for you and your videos😍😉
When I first got on online dating I kept changing what I had to say everytime I heard guys say different things that he would find attractive in a woman in order for him to date her. Pretty soon i decided I was going to quit changing my profile and decided either he likes me or he doesn't. One thing that really deterres me and I don't even have to think about pursuing a guy is if he has rules and regulations I have to follow in order for him to like me!
The one thing we don't discuss in a relationship is trust. We automatically assume we trust each other. I just told my husband of 15 yrs I trust him. His response was what are you up to. It made me realize we really don't announce that verbally.
I see this sort of tips to PREVENT him going away
Thanks for this beautiful video...yes, if they don’t valued u..let go..move on...
All these videos make dating seem like a game I don't want to play. If being myself doesn't get the man, then he's not the man for me. I'm not going to be fake. If I'm acting to get or keep a man then he's not even dating the real me. Honestly social media/tech has ruined the normal dating process. American culture has turned into a hookup/friends with benefits one...total downward spiral morally.
@Chuck Don't put me into a category, for you don't know me, my experiences or how I do anything in my life. I'm as real as it gets. I don't play games, use people, lie, do drugs or cheat. I'm also bluntly honest. My first comment didn't put males only down, it is both sexes doing this today obviously, for it takes 2, to tango. I do wish all these women out there participating would stop being so slutty because I believe it does play into how many men see women today and we aren't all like that.
@@christinabrown1259 what are you doing here ?
@@Lydie.A I like to listen to what he has to say like everyone else. Doesn't mean I'm always going to follow his suggestions. Why would you ask me this?
@Chuck Sexist and wrong. Men made the mess you fix it. You have issues with women to work on. Feminists and liberals just want RESPECT, sexist!! They were NOT decent.
spot ON! Doreen Brown!
I’ve been doing this you’re absolutely right ♥️♥️♥️
Endless love is self love. Stop trying to find a man to make you happy. Be the one who makes you happy !!! My dad's love is enough for me. So no man no stress, periodttt!!!
So much work..! Ahh.. tired of having to play my cards right.. but shoot.. this man better be worth it!
Excellent. I do ALL of these. Law of Scarcity works magic.
This is exactly what i'm going through right now. This helps a lot. Thank you very much.
I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours begging you for a second chance....his name is (Dr Steve) He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with more love and commitment.
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wow im here a week after watching this video and let me tell you, IT WORKS, like you are a genius
It's funny because i know the rules but soo difficult for me To apply when it comes To the person i like, reason why those i don't like always tend to stick on because i don't have their time and they try soo hard To please me. Where as the person that u like, u get to give in soo easily... I really have to work on this but the emotions too making it very difficult, the feelings you have when u meet someone u like 😣.... love life is really hard
Wow, I feel the same way..
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I was waiting for that. This
Video was made for me
Same here
its called a game. playing it better shows your strength
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This is so true, gonna try your tips hahahaa hopefully it work! But honestly wish this was simpler and we don't need to play these silly games
I can’t believe that even in 2019, you make a point of how women should make themselves pretty and be thin to « make their man want them more ». I’m sure that how my mom felt in the 60’.
My ex of 8 years just totally withdrew in December. He said he was depressed. And now we’ve ended our engagement and sold our home in a few short weeks. I noticed I put in a lot of effort and he didn’t do anything towards the end
I feel sorry for you
Thanks Dr. Antonio. U just good. God bless U. Will surely put all of these into practise when I eventually meet my rightful partner.
Everything that you said, hits me so much. I've been experiencing this shit for a long time.
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Very true! That’s what happening in our relation ship doc. I love your videos.
This is where I’m at right now thank u so much I will invest more into myself and give him a chance to come to me this advice is very helpful!!😊
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Ohk thank you Dr A. Found this wen I needed it the most
Guy I like playing hard to get now. I’m usually the one messaging him. Thank you for this . I’m now going to stop messaging and let him realize
You are so right
eye opener for has ladies thanks for sharing nice video and so helpful because has ladies we find our self carried away by love now we have to change
I don't care anymore.. He ghosted me, I got up the nerve and texted him, gave him a piece of mind, then he texted me back (finally). He said that we needed to talk real soon. (Yes..) Hell to the No. I Deleted, Blocked, and Ghosted him right back. Im not that desperate, just tired of the BS. I feel really good about myself in a long time❤
You are absolutely right. I’ve done this and it really works. Thank you!
Hi how long did it take for you to notice it was working?
Instantly. His whole persona melted. I smiled and said ..... got him.
This deserves a slow clap that turns into an uproar!
I tried this. Especially not initiating conversation thinking i was the one ignoring him but he was ignoring me. and never reached out first but still broke up with me over text in a really cold way saying he doesn't have time to think about me right now and he's got a lot going on but his friend said all he's been doing is playing video games not doing any of the things he said in the message to me. He told me right after to come get my things. Even gave the love letters I wrote him back. I didn't see it coming. It broke my heart.
Go for no contact time
Let him go to hell
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Omg you describe perfectly what I am going through right now.
I don't have time for games so I simply just blocked him so I don't have to sit and wait for his text. I don't think he cares though therefore I don't care to have him back
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Love love Love your posts. New, hopefully last relationship I'm going at it very different this time. Me first. I always put others first.
I did speak my mind said I'm a little needy. I want to be #1 in someone's life. I want to be the first thing he thinks about in the morning and the last thing he thinks about before bed. I've received a good morning and a goodnight text everyday since
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Shit, why is the first half of the video EXACTLY what I recently went through...And we broke up after I tried asking what was wrong with him. But we agreed to stay friends though. Maybe I still have a chance? Well that's why I'm here anyways, thank you so much for this video man
You are a great advisor Dr. Borello
Everything you saying in this video is true am in this predictum right now n I don't know what to do any more
Your videos are great!!! They are really helping me!!!
Everything you say make sense
This is so true..
The only part that is not true is to give him space and become scarce. It must be some kind of bro code they just want time alone so they can be intimate with them selves instead of their partner. Which can cause atleast 12 negative effects and problems.
Needed all of this Thank you
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Right ! You explained how it happens to the T!
This helped so much thank you!
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Hello Dr Anthony, I am dating a colleague but we're living in different countries .he does call,text,we always talking over the phone.he seems to be a tuff guy but with he is showing his vulnerability. Still having issues to invest his money when it comes on us meeting!!he is senior in terms of position at work.he always encouraging me to go see him over!!advice
Thank you so much. I will try this (sobbing).
@Baron Richie well it didnt work, turns out he doesnt love me anymore.
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Thanx for the tips....very useful
My man is so so stubborn that if i say no m not free to meet he will say go to hell at once and will say if u don’t value me I won’t value u!!
Yeah...you need to let that go. He sounds like an asshole
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What if the marriage couple and the man is changing is this video is the same for a marriage couple .!?
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I've been doing this nowadays to my boyfriend and it really 🙏🏽🙏🏽
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I can't make my man want me more, it's not worth my time. A man has a choice if he wants me or not. If he stops talking to me for three days, then I would dump him. Why wait for him, it's not that fun. Enjoy be happy and keep meeting new people. No man is special.
yes its hard to believe if his truly unto you ?its hurts you notice that his always online and if you send msg he just seen and ignore it ..are you happy of that kind of situation ..if you call him,he just have another call i really don't know if his serious or just want games only!!damm his old already for playing games..😔😏
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Asking 'flirty teenage like' questions helps....it puts the playfulness back into the relationship.
I think that sometimes want to be so sexually correct that we loose the plot.
Sometimes this works, but if you push them off because you are not available, they will also see this as games.. so they will move on.. I know. I wish this was true every time.
Always be mysterious,that’s me 😅
Oh flipped when I started putting my phone in my locker at work and not looking for his texts or calls..lol He honestly didn't know how to handle it
Thanks a lot sir😊
Very clear ur explanation..i realy like ur videos..
Still Live life. Don't be in the past. Live in the present.
Don't have to proof anything to a guy either.
Make a guy wait.
The guy should invest. Let guy do that.
Be less available for a guy and force on myself. 🙂
Avoid the Red flags guys.
Dont waste time on a Immature man or abuse manipulate bully or narrastic man. Avoid needy clinging man.
Don't waste time with a guy words. but his actions says it all. hoo free from negative man and narrastic man. If a guy doesn't respect or want to be in a relationship then that a toxic guy.
A right guy would want a real relationship. Enhance a relationship not be blank space.
We women invest way to much from the beginning.
My cheating bf told multiple women that he loves them, including me.
He said he's always busy with work while he was busy chatting with other women.
I trusted him blindly.
I don't know what a person is like on the inside that can play such evil games.
Obviously something is not normal when someone desires to play games with multiple women or people.
I like your comment. Live in the present.
Most important his actions say it all!
Don't trust words. Trust actions.
I really need this! Thank you! 🙏🏻
so I've just listened to this AFTER I've sent the guy im dating a barrage of messages about how he's being so distant this week and I either want a proper conversation or none as opposed to this half assed chit chat he's been offering all week. I wish I went longer with playing it cool. Last night I didn't respond to his goodnight message and this morning he said good morning with great energy! but I ruined it by attacking him telling him I missed him and he's annoyed at ME now, woohoo! Oh well I'll use the advice in this video for the future cos now I just feel lame for showing him how bothered I am by his distance.
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Please make a video on how to move on from someone you never dated.
its really hard to believe if his feelings is serious or true ..its useless your effort for him and never appreciate it..😔😔
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Super informative ! Thanks for sharing!
Omg pretty much what I did w my ex - I’m 48 he is 36 lasted 2 yrs , committed in the relationship. Each of us living in our own space but seeing each other every wk on his 2 days off- religiously. Great chemistry and attraction suddenly, he wanted a child but he knew from the start I couldn’t give him kids. Still he dated me for 2 yrs . I’m more successful than him in every aspect and that put him down sometimes, but I assured him that it didn’t matter . All I wanted was a great companionship and be there when needed. He starting ghosting on me, no texts everyday and when asked him about it he finally said he needed space and wanting to have peace and alone . I just said ok good luck. In 6 months we’ve just seen each other’s once and that was bc he needed me to helping him out with something. After that date he admitted to me that he was seeing someone else!
Again I wished him good L,
It’s been 6 months now and rarely here and there he text with just a hello How are you .. how is family .
Other times he had asked me if I’m free but I always said nop sorry I’m busy .
Still contacting me like if he wants to reconnect w me, but Goes silence again . I don’t chase him bc if he really wants me he will hunt me again . Also he may be afraid of my reaction once he sees me bc the way he terminated our relationship. Cowardly disappearing ghosting on me just to admit he had replace me by some one else when asked him what happened-
In despite of our age gap I do believe we were souls mates bc we never had any disagreement, we were always laughing sharing equal time putting love and care in the relationship. It was a great relationship while it lasted- I have no regrets what so ever .. but I still miss him.
It’s not hard work if you value yourself. Very simple really. You act according to how you’re treated. No freebies for low effort
Hello dr. Borello! I want to know how to make a man post your relationship on social media.. can u make a video for that please?
You are so right but i never believed in asking a man to help with chores iv always done for him and let him pick places to go. I guess im a little easy going. But not dating right now so dont haff to worrie. But in case i do
He wont do anything. Bye
@@Utoober729 My first question is who hurt you? and secondly I would she just have to ask because I am not a mind reader.
Yay! Second comment! Lol I've always wanted to write that lol
Thank you dr antonio for all you're amazing advice! Staying single and healing is gonna be my focus for 2019 and I'm glad about that😊 besides, I'm a 40 yr old single mom of a beautiful and smart 1 yr old, don't think anyone will be coming around anytime soon😏
Very helpful advice! The only one i got to do is drive to him. How do i do that and still make him do the rest?
A guy on Tinder has been messaging back and forth with me for about a half a week now and the other day I didn't respond back immediately like I did previously and I felt bad so the next day I offered him a explanation because I wanted to reassure him I was still interested. From the information you are recommending to do it was probably to my disadvantage to do that. He didn't message me today.
@@yanco1279 hell
One of you is a loser
Thank you so much 💗💕