The problem is that men automatically think you’ll never leave once they know that you love them. When I was married, my husband withheld love, affection, attention, and sex for 4 whole years while I tried to make things work. I warned him that I was going to leave, but he didn’t believe me. He didn’t believe I was gone even after I called the movers, moved out, started my new job, and didn’t call him after all of this. He still thought I was coming back. A man’s ego is his worst enemy. They never realize that when a woman’s fed up, there is NOTHING that can be done.
Yup, dickhead man think that lady will never leave cause she loves him, Wrong big time! Leave once he disrespected you! If he comeback? Well he knew what he should do, commitment or goodbye!
5 Tips to Make him worry about losing you: 1. Let go of your anger and stop talking about feeling unappreciated. 2. Ressurect your social life outside of his. 3. Glamorize your looks and prioritize your fitness. 4. Have the talk when the time is right. 5. Be willing to walk away.
It's jacked up that a girl has to pretend to have an exciting life, when maybe she is comfortable in a quiet cozy life. Some people stay in the streets nonstop because they are running from their thoughts. A guy shouldn't think a girl is "waiting for him" just because she genuinely enjoys alone time at home reading or watching tv or etc
Exactly! I have always been a homebody. I work out and take care of myself, but I am not the type to go out a lot. I enjoy quiet, alone time. But men can and have taken me for granted. I just don't feel the need to change or pretend I want to do things that I don't have an interest for.
All the best dating coaches have the same regimen. It's a winning one, as long as you're really willing to walk away for your own self respect and really put effort in yourself.
I did all of what your saying and it's clear he did not appreciate me and over time it's gotten worse from him long story but yes I did all what you suggested in video . I value my self worth and left him by divorcing him for many reasons . I deserve better and I'm going to get it .
Relationships nowadays are nothing but a game. Plenty if males dressed as sheep, when they are wolves. If a woman tells you what she wants/looking for and YOU don’t want the same, be a MAN and walk away. “THE BIGGEST COWARD IS A MAN WHO AWAKENS A WOMAN’s LOVE, WITHOUT THE INTENTION OF LOVING HER”. ~BM
Yes yes yes - be willing to walk away! Some individuals are deeply entitled - observe their behaviour and decide (for yourself) based on this. No one should have to continually play the ‘push pull game’ - exhausting. Let go and walk if this is happening. More of the same awaits if you do not. Hopefully you meet someone who respects & values you from the get go. This is the necessary standard - all else pales. Don’t settle, don’t invest, don’t despair if HE doesn’t meet the mark. Do however detach and go. Not good enough is NOT good enough.
longrider Yes I’m in my 30’s and my relationship is going down hill after 2 years now. We don’t communication no longer and he constantly say I’m so busy. He’s going to lose a loyal woman who support him. I can’t wait for him to make a decisions. I’m out and moving on.
This maybe true because I did it & it worked. After a year and a half of dating him, he wasn’t putting in efforts to make the relationship work, even though he really cared about me. So I dumped him & dated a doctor for 3 months. After months of my ex begging me to date him again, I gave it another chance. Now he’s very committed, treats me like a princess, actually dresses up & pick me up with flowers before our date nights. And he’s planning to build a house for us 💓
Thank you for the great advice. I always enjoy hearing you and get so much from you. I just walked away after 2.9 years of hearing we had a future but never any action. Just didn't want to wait for someone so self absorbed and obsessed with money. Was supposed to go see him next week and cancelled the trip he already paid for. Long distance relationship. Tired of being used and manipulated. Have been working on myself losing weight, getting a part time job etc.(retired). Hard to walk away but now it's about me. Thank you so much you validated everything for me! ❤
I don’t hold him responsible for my happiness anymore. I do my own thing with my mates, I’m beginning not to care if he’s absent. He’s been asking to chat face to face now.
OMG - this is so accurate. Just left my alcoholic fiancé after finding out he was paying for sex with prostitutes. Nothing I could have done was going to change this maligned individual!
Mint & Tea Wow!! Many thanx for these 2 comments re: alcoholic & drug addicted partner-relationships Great folk..w/issues who want to build but struggle. Absolutely TRUE & a WORLD APART from the "norm" advice! Sooo..how about a vid-session on THESE issues psych-coaches? There're innumerable 911's out here! Zho..♏👑
He invests so hard then puts a halt on everything and blames you for going to fast once he has you wrapped around his finger yet he is the one going too fast. LOL. SMH!! He got scared of commitment. I ain't trying to fix anyone.
If it isn't a natural reaction to a woman walking away after he ignores her, pushes her away, ignores her needs and efforts to reach out to him...it just won't happen no matter what she does. Stomp on a seedling over and over guess what ya got. A dead seedling. It won't ever grow back or be a strong healthy growing thing. Sad. No fear of losing me and being taken for granted have opened my heart to another man. Goodbye to one is hello to another.
@@uniquevlog1159 then enjoy your slavery and abuse. It will continue as long as you allow it. If you want children and a normal family life you're wasting precious time and energy. I speak from years of narc abuse. Lose the LOSER!!
@@MeMe-no4wr that's what i thought was coming after he got me away from a narc abuser then realized he was a narc too!! A long history of narc abuse since Dad. Didn't know what it was till last year.
@@butterflybrains243 Wow. I'm glad you made it out. I spent 4 months in a relationship with a Narc didn't take long to figure out something energetically was off with this person. Once the devauling took place and going cold I withdrew and didn't turn back. It's been 1 yr now.
I like the idea of willing to walk away. becuase you dont want somebody dis-value you.. remmeber ladies always headhigh up. we have our own lives and dont let him ruin your inner peace. be a value women 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Germana Guarnaccia, that comment and attitude is completely laughable...lol I am a man who occasionally watches women's dating videos just to see what they are being told. Although this video has some merit that actually applies to both men and women, your suggestion is complete relationship sabotage. Nobody wants to get into a relationship to be devalued, man or woman. I think the better advice would be to value your partner while still maintaining your own value in their eyes. This is life, not a power play or a game. We only live once and would be well advised to make the most of it. Best wishes to us all...
@Germana Guarnaccia Yes I had one who did that to me nonstop for 3 months and I walked away and never came back. She threw away a lifetime of happiness with a guy who adored her because she was too stupid, self-centered and manipulative to keep him. That was in 1992. Fast forward to 2020 and she's a single mom who never married and an over-the-hill cock tease pushing 50. The guy she should have--and could have--married spent three months begging her to give him a chance and she overplayed her hand. He got sick of being treated like a doormat and being kept at arm's length and concluded that she was a piece of shit who wasn't worth the effort. So he swore he'd have nothing to do with her under any circumstances. He walked away and never came back and she found out the hard way that he wasn't someone she should have thrown away. She's going to spend the rest of her life alone and that's exactly what she deserves.
Dear Antonio, thank you so much for your adviced. I have watched many of your videos and I find them high-valued information. Many thanks for sharing!!! You are the best! Love from Switzerland. ❤️❤️❤️
Its saddening yet powerful that all you wanna go on with that man having love and respect. And the other hand you have to be willing to walk away. Such great investments we woman has to take. Such emotional roller coaster.
I actually let them know what my faults are early on. That really surprises a man. It also opens some pretty meaningful dialogue. If I get a heart from the doctor, maybe I'm on to something. You can do this without denigrating yourself.
@@AntonioBorrello it would be tough in this limited space. I'm tired of "games" so I'm pretty direct. Being perceptive and observant is key. A man invites you to his home for dinner. Right away you can tell he's a "neat freak". I like a tidy house, but I can clutter a room in no time. So you work the conversation to a place where you can diplomatically address the issue. Once you honestly open that door, likes and dislikes come out pretty easily. Be observant, be honest. It works. You learn quickly if there is compatibility. Hope that helps.
*In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel secure and valued without needing to resort to creating worry or fear. Instead of trying to make someone worry about losing you, focus on nurturing a strong emotional bond, cultivating trust, and fostering a loving and supportive connection. Building a foundation of love and security allows both individuals to thrive and grow together.*
He doesn't fear losing me I have always good to him it will probably be a blessing in disguise for him talk is cheap really actions are priceless saying goes u dont know how good you have it until it's gone 😜💐
Let me rephrase it when you have a good thing in front you and cant realize it or just talk the talk to make someone feel special being played or dont know cant remember things guess to many women
This is pretty good advice. I moved in to his place a year ago. He has turned lazy and inconsiderate. I do all the housework, he doesnt help and makes a mess daily, and on top of that we barely go out on dates. When i ask him to help, or complain about his mess right after i spent time cleaning, he gives me a horrible immature attitude and fights back irrationally making things way worse. He even told me to leave HIS house his house this, his house that.... I feel so alone and taken for granted. Ive been giving this idiot so much of me that i dont get back. And its really burning me out and killing my feelings for him. Really the best advice is looking after ourselves doing all that makes us feel wonderful. Maybe get my strength back to kick his ass out my life if he doesnt keep up. Thanks, bro 😘
I feel like maybe he doesnt even give a shit..... He'll go for lunch to his mom's till he gets another gf that will end up leaving him after another couple years.... I dont wanna waste my time... or energy. All i ever want in life is a loving family of my own.
I really Thank you Dr for the advice you gv us🙏. It's 2wks now since I started following your advice,,, my swtht has really started trancing for me every where😍😍
@@lizzzzlopez I'm single. But I can say the men that really really had a hard time or kept coming back were men that I kept at arms length. Sadly, whenever I've been the one to make a big move first, I got a date or a kiss but we didn't fall in love. By looking at women I know, don't put it all on the table the minute you meet them. Maybe you sleep with him quickly anyway but still, don't presume you are together. Just take care of yourself first. Do what you want. Be kind and flirt as much as you are comfortable with. Point is give them the space to come to you. I've heard many times and experienced it myself, that one thing that grows a man interest is a woman who with-holds her time. I've often slept with them too soon out of a desire to make them fall in love with me. It took some self-assessment to see my motivation. It really really does not work that way. Give him the space to chase. If you have concern you are moving too quickly or losing their interest, just take your foot off the gas. You don't have to delete them or tell them of. Just stop initiating. Be busy. Take care of yourself first. Sometimes they need the space and time to miss us. Most gals strive for a relationship instead of giving the space to move in. What if it is like I'm in a kiddie pull and asking this person to join me in the fun of splashing around. Maybe they want to just stick their foot in and join a little. Maybe they just want a little. I've often metaphorically grabbed their arm and begged them to join me in the kiddie pool when this isn't what they asked for. If they don't' feel like it, they should be free to move along, right? It sucks though, I know. Keep your standards, calmly and directly call them on their bullshit instead of being a doormat, go at a comfortable pace, and allow them to do the same. This is how you get more than a date, but an actual connection.
Hi Dr. Borrello. I was in a very one sided situationship. I walked away peacefully and with no anger, I’ve let him know that I was letting go because of his lack of commitment to me. After 3 weeks he started messaging me again. He just wanted a booty call and all. I told him so nicely that I know what I bring to the table and that I would’ve made him happy, but I was not going to be his booty call. So he didn’t respond back. He is Officially out of my life.
Thank you Dr Antonio It was a great advice In this life, nothing lasts forever, including love. You need to learn to let go of things were not considered to be continued, or treasure the relationship wholeheartedly. Let’s it be is a golden rule for everyone in every circumstances
Nowadays some relationship are like playing games..... even in a smallest problem it will separates each other...... hard to find same as your desires.... thank you Dr. Antonio for your nice advice God bless
Basically, Walk on Eggshells for them. Change Yourself and Be Ready for When he wants to be "Ready". Cater to Him all the time by Playing his Games. Yeah, I Got it!!!
Hey my guy looks confused....kast year he was leaving because of the no future fear but i asked him to stay if he feels for me...then now i just said that if u r not happy u can leave....he said last yead when i said about leaving, u got so insecured to leave me...so i decided that i will not leave you till the time u feel its right being together withoit future..... So i asked dat means all your i love u nd sex nd love was fake? He said no if it was that fake then i would never have given tym to u even wen i have thjs hectic schedule..i wud not wear ur fav shirts So shud i leave him so dat he can realize if he actually loves me or wat shud i do? Long distance rltnship I feel he loves me can see in his eyes.. But want ur suggestion
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For someone with a lot of knowledge when it comes to men, I'm surprised you're single, Mr. Borrello. You're a handsome guy, and if I wasn't already engaged to someone, I'd definitely ask you out. But, when you DO finally find a woman when you have the time, I do wish you nothing but the best of success in your relationships in the future. Even though I'm engaged, I still watch your videos, because I'm dating a Capricorn who sometimes can be quite the weirdo when it comes to feelings. He's not one to talk about feelings, but that is a Capricorn thing. When I CAN get him to talk about feelings, he's all mushy n stuff. Lately he's been distant to a point. Still manages to text me when he can, but I can tell he's a bit distant emotionally. I'm just backing off, once again, like I always do, and for some reason, with Capricorn, it always works. You wouldn't figure I'd have to do that now that we're engaged, but NOPE. He still wants his space every now and again. He's a complete dork, and I don't understand him sometimes. Talk about keeping me on my toes... Damn goats...
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Even all the loyalty and love still won't make him stay if he wants to go. Went to Louisiana 4week and he couldn't stop text n as in WHN I was coming bk home, but WHN I get back thn all the bullshit started right back. Men always and only care and love wht women do 4them.
Lol...I walk away a lot. The issue is that once a guy sees my "ta-tas" they only have interest in a physical opportunity or dismiss the idea of a relationship and walk away assuming I'm not a keeper. And I have a lot of value. I would never change the gifts God gave me. Just tired of the conclusions people jump to. How is a woman going to keep an open mind with so much working against you?
@longrider ...you misinterpreted what guys/people see and twisted it into "what have I shown/shared". I am direct, nothing between the lines, no translation needed. Rather than overshadow try reading the entire comment and note the question which was ignored.
This Video is rite on POINT! Thank you 😊 for sharing this Video! This is exactly what I do, and he misses me so much he burns my phone 📱 up!!!! I don’t answer now he’s having fear that I’m gone! I don’t have time for games!!!
@crooked truth83 I just did this to test the theory and it worked. Now he texts me at least once a day to hang out or ask what I'm doing lol. I just say sorry im really busy, I'll hit you up later.
The problem is that men automatically think you’ll never leave once they know that you love them. When I was married, my husband withheld love, affection, attention, and sex for 4 whole years while I tried to make things work. I warned him that I was going to leave, but he didn’t believe me. He didn’t believe I was gone even after I called the movers, moved out, started my new job, and didn’t call him after all of this. He still thought I was coming back. A man’s ego is his worst enemy. They never realize that when a woman’s fed up, there is NOTHING that can be done.
No sex for 4 years, how physically unattractive did you become?
Yup, dickhead man think that lady will never leave cause she loves him, Wrong big time! Leave once he disrespected you! If he comeback? Well he knew what he should do, commitment or goodbye!
What I'm going through now!!!
That was my last marriage.
Well said about the "Man's Ego Is His Worst Enemy!"
5 Tips to Make him worry about losing you:
1. Let go of your anger and stop talking about feeling unappreciated.
2. Ressurect your social life outside of his.
3. Glamorize your looks and prioritize your fitness.
4. Have the talk when the time is right.
5. Be willing to walk away.
Hello Giddy This is so True!!!
Hello Giddy thank you x
Thank you for summarizing. I watched the video for 5 mins, the actual topic didn't start. I read your comment and closed the video.
@@catsfeel8223 Same here, i stopped the video at 04:20 and checked out this...
After doing all these, you don’t want him anymore. You realize that you are better off without him 😉 and he has to do the list 😂
" Forget about what you fear and remember what you deserve. "
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It's jacked up that a girl has to pretend to have an exciting life, when maybe she is comfortable in a quiet cozy life. Some people stay in the streets nonstop because they are running from their thoughts. A guy shouldn't think a girl is "waiting for him" just because she genuinely enjoys alone time at home reading or watching tv or etc
Can you have video about married man ,that makes theirs wife feel worthless and not feeling appreciate and also value you as a wife .
So sick of the game playing!!!!!$
Agreed on you Mel Bee!
I MUST HAVE alone time, I'm the same way :)
Exactly! I have always been a homebody. I work out and take care of myself, but I am not the type to go out a lot. I enjoy quiet, alone time. But men can and have taken me for granted. I just don't feel the need to change or pretend I want to do things that I don't have an interest for.
Forget about what you fear and remember what you deserve"
All the best dating coaches have the same regimen. It's a winning one, as long as you're really willing to walk away for your own self respect and really put effort in yourself.
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@@aashiguptaofficiall i think you should leave him.
I did all of what your saying and it's clear he did not appreciate me and over time it's gotten worse from him long story but yes I did all what you suggested in video . I value my self worth and left him by divorcing him for many reasons . I deserve better and I'm going to get it .
Relationships nowadays are nothing but a game. Plenty if males dressed as sheep, when they are wolves. If a woman tells you what she wants/looking for and YOU don’t want the same, be a MAN and walk away.
“THE BIGGEST COWARD IS A MAN WHO AWAKENS A WOMAN’s LOVE, WITHOUT THE INTENTION OF LOVING HER”. ~BM
Thank you Bob Morley said it right
IamVee AAAMEN 🙏🏾 ABSOLUTELY!!!!!
so true
I agree 100 percent.
100% true!
Put your self-respect ABOVE your feelings!
Yes yes yes - be willing to walk away!
Some individuals are deeply entitled - observe their behaviour and decide (for yourself) based on this.
No one should have to continually play the ‘push pull game’ - exhausting. Let go and walk if this is happening. More of the same awaits if you do not.
Hopefully you meet someone who respects & values you from the get go. This is the necessary standard - all else pales.
Don’t settle, don’t invest, don’t despair if HE doesn’t meet the mark. Do however detach and go. Not good enough is NOT good enough.
Very well said. 👏
longrider Yes I’m in my 30’s and my relationship is going down hill after 2 years now. We don’t communication no longer and he constantly say I’m so busy. He’s going to lose a loyal woman who support him. I can’t wait for him to make a decisions. I’m out and moving on.
@longriderSTFU.... wait, we rotten like milk ? I am 54 and I sure do not look rotten at all. What a ignorant thing to say !
Whatever happens to love without pretending
This maybe true because I did it & it worked. After a year and a half of dating him, he wasn’t putting in efforts to make the relationship work, even though he really cared about me.
So I dumped him & dated a doctor for 3 months. After months of my ex begging me to date him again, I gave it another chance. Now he’s very committed, treats me like a princess, actually dresses up & pick me up with flowers before our date nights. And he’s planning to build a house for us 💓
Lucky :) Hope it lasts!
Neodymium that’s some passive aggressive shit you just said there!
Wonderful
@@lorrainebeauty no it isn't, you have a negative mind lol
Amazing
He doesn’t deserve you .
Thank you for the great advice. I always enjoy hearing you and get so much from you. I just walked away after 2.9 years of hearing we had a future but never any action. Just didn't want to wait for someone so self absorbed and obsessed with money. Was supposed to go see him next week and cancelled the trip he already paid for. Long distance relationship. Tired of being used and manipulated. Have been working on myself losing weight, getting a part time job etc.(retired). Hard to walk away but now it's about me. Thank you so much you validated everything for me! ❤
Thank you so much for your videos. I’m single but I love learning about how the male mind works and how to deal with all the guys in my life.
I don’t hold him responsible for my happiness anymore.
I do my own thing with my mates, I’m beginning not to care if he’s absent.
He’s been asking to chat face to face now.
All these things are true .... Except when dealing with an alcoholic/drug addict. There's no getting through!
OMG - this is so accurate. Just left my alcoholic fiancé after finding out he was paying for sex with prostitutes. Nothing I could have done was going to change this maligned individual!
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Wow!! Many thanx for these 2 comments re: alcoholic & drug addicted partner-relationships Great folk..w/issues who want to build but struggle. Absolutely TRUE & a WORLD APART from the "norm" advice! Sooo..how about a vid-session on THESE issues psych-coaches? There're innumerable 911's out here! Zho..♏👑
I’m there rn with a guy who drinks a lot . Going to bars has tons of beautiful women friends who he hangs with but insists he loves me . I’m had it
He invests so hard then puts a halt on everything and blames you for going to fast once he has you wrapped around his finger yet he is the one going too fast. LOL. SMH!! He got scared of commitment. I ain't trying to fix anyone.
If it isn't a natural reaction to a woman walking away after he ignores her, pushes her away, ignores her needs and efforts to reach out to him...it just won't happen no matter what she does.
Stomp on a seedling over and over guess what ya got. A dead seedling. It won't ever grow back or be a strong healthy growing thing. Sad. No fear of losing me and being taken for granted have opened my heart to another man. Goodbye to one is hello to another.
Thanks...yes how much i push but i promise i cant let go my feelings to him
@@uniquevlog1159 then enjoy your slavery and abuse. It will continue as long as you allow it. If you want children and a normal family life you're wasting precious time and energy. I speak from years of narc abuse. Lose the LOSER!!
The best way of getting over a loser ...is to fall into the arms of winner.
@@MeMe-no4wr that's what i thought was coming after he got me away from a narc abuser then realized he was a narc too!! A long history of narc abuse since Dad. Didn't know what it was till last year.
@@butterflybrains243 Wow. I'm glad you made it out. I spent 4 months in a relationship with a Narc didn't take long to figure out something energetically was off with this person. Once the devauling took place and going cold I withdrew and didn't turn back. It's been 1 yr now.
I like the idea of willing to walk away. becuase you dont want somebody dis-value you.. remmeber ladies always headhigh up. we have our own lives and dont let him ruin your inner peace. be a value women 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@longrider Stfu..lonely troll..
My Ex husband didn’t even notice me going from natural blonde to dark brown hair so yes that’s a No no ! that’s why he is my Ex haha
If you have to do any kind of mind manipulation, in a relationship, you're with the wrong person.
I totally agree. Its ridiculous.
But than dr chubby would have no job
You're 100% right. I have made thr mistake of doing #1. I also did the other things. Thank you.
Basically, You have to make them feel like they're a nobody at all times
Nope.
Basically
Germana Guarnaccia yes
Germana Guarnaccia, that comment and attitude is completely laughable...lol I am a man who occasionally watches women's dating videos just to see what they are being told. Although this video has some merit that actually applies to both men and women, your suggestion is complete relationship sabotage. Nobody wants to get into a relationship to be devalued, man or woman. I think the better advice would be to value your partner while still maintaining your own value in their eyes. This is life, not a power play or a game. We only live once and would be well advised to make the most of it.
Best wishes to us all...
@Germana Guarnaccia Yes I had one who did that to me nonstop for 3 months and I walked away and never came back. She threw away a lifetime of happiness with a guy who adored her because she was too stupid, self-centered and manipulative to keep him. That was in 1992. Fast forward to 2020 and she's a single mom who never married and an over-the-hill cock tease pushing 50. The guy she should have--and could have--married spent three months begging her to give him a chance and she overplayed her hand. He got sick of being treated like a doormat and being kept at arm's length and concluded that she was a piece of shit who wasn't worth the effort. So he swore he'd have nothing to do with her under any circumstances. He walked away and never came back and she found out the hard way that he wasn't someone she should have thrown away. She's going to spend the rest of her life alone and that's exactly what she deserves.
Dear Antonio, thank you so much for your adviced. I have watched many of your videos and I find them high-valued information. Many thanks for sharing!!! You are the best! Love from Switzerland. ❤️❤️❤️
Its saddening yet powerful that all you wanna go on with that man having love and respect. And the other hand you have to be willing to walk away. Such great investments we woman has to take. Such emotional roller coaster.
I feel you!
I actually let them know what my faults are early on. That really surprises a man. It also opens some pretty meaningful dialogue. If I get a heart from the doctor, maybe I'm on to something. You can do this without denigrating yourself.
@@AntonioBorrello it would be tough in this limited space. I'm tired of "games" so I'm pretty direct. Being perceptive and observant is key. A man invites you to his home for dinner. Right away you can tell he's a "neat freak". I like a tidy house, but I can clutter a room in no time. So you work the conversation to a place where you can diplomatically address the issue. Once you honestly open that door, likes and dislikes come out pretty easily. Be observant, be honest. It works. You learn quickly if there is compatibility. Hope that helps.
Straight to the point, very informative.
This relationship dating story is such hard work these days !! My goodness
And finally I'm 1st viewer😭😭😭💝💝 love you every time🥰Im doing as you said🥴Hope Ill get my love back😞😞
If a person doesn't know own value, nobody else won't👻
*In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel secure and valued without needing to resort to creating worry or fear. Instead of trying to make someone worry about losing you, focus on nurturing a strong emotional bond, cultivating trust, and fostering a loving and supportive connection. Building a foundation of love and security allows both individuals to thrive and grow together.*
Great video.. n yea...The main points starts @ 5:50 ...
You’re welcome!
Thank you.
This worked for me anyway 👌👌 as soon as I said goodbye he gave it a day and then begged me to go and spend the weekend with him 💙
I didn’t fear loosing him I just wanted to know where I stood
I so love this video thanks 🙏🏼 don’t forget to post this video all over again every week as a reminder. So we never forget about this
He doesn't fear losing me I have always good to him it will probably be a blessing in disguise for him talk is cheap really actions are priceless saying goes u dont know how good you have it until it's gone 😜💐
Yes that's correct hearts dont thrill me
@@AntonioBorrello the ❤my apologies
Let me rephrase it when you have a good thing in front you and cant realize it or just talk the talk to make someone feel special being played or dont know cant remember things guess to many women
My partner will invest 💯... I wish for a long lasting relationship with all my heart and God's help.
This is pretty good advice. I moved in to his place a year ago. He has turned lazy and inconsiderate. I do all the housework, he doesnt help and makes a mess daily, and on top of that we barely go out on dates. When i ask him to help, or complain about his mess right after i spent time cleaning, he gives me a horrible immature attitude and fights back irrationally making things way worse. He even told me to leave HIS house his house this, his house that.... I feel so alone and taken for granted. Ive been giving this idiot so much of me that i dont get back. And its really burning me out and killing my feelings for him. Really the best advice is looking after ourselves doing all that makes us feel wonderful. Maybe get my strength back to kick his ass out my life if he doesnt keep up. Thanks, bro 😘
I feel like maybe he doesnt even give a shit..... He'll go for lunch to his mom's till he gets another gf that will end up leaving him after another couple years.... I dont wanna waste my time... or energy. All i ever want in life is a loving family of my own.
I really Thank you Dr for the advice you gv us🙏. It's 2wks now since I started following your advice,,, my swtht has really started trancing for me every where😍😍
A very bad information, someone you LOVE don’t make them fear or worrying losing you!!! It’s a negative attitude!
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How about if your married? How will you make him feel loosing you?
Do what you can. Improve your social life without him. Don't be available at all times. Look like you have a date EVERY time you leave the house.
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Forget about what you fear think about what you deserve
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@@lizzzzlopez I'm single. But I can say the men that really really had a hard time or kept coming back were men that I kept at arms length. Sadly, whenever I've been the one to make a big move first, I got a date or a kiss but we didn't fall in love. By looking at women I know, don't put it all on the table the minute you meet them. Maybe you sleep with him quickly anyway but still, don't presume you are together. Just take care of yourself first. Do what you want. Be kind and flirt as much as you are comfortable with.
Point is give them the space to come to you. I've heard many times and experienced it myself, that one thing that grows a man interest is a woman who with-holds her time. I've often slept with them too soon out of a desire to make them fall in love with me. It took some self-assessment to see my motivation. It really really does not work that way. Give him the space to chase. If you have concern you are moving too quickly or losing their interest, just take your foot off the gas. You don't have to delete them or tell them of. Just stop initiating. Be busy. Take care of yourself first. Sometimes they need the space and time to miss us. Most gals strive for a relationship instead of giving the space to move in.
What if it is like I'm in a kiddie pull and asking this person to join me in the fun of splashing around. Maybe they want to just stick their foot in and join a little. Maybe they just want a little. I've often metaphorically grabbed their arm and begged them to join me in the kiddie pool when this isn't what they asked for. If they don't' feel like it, they should be free to move along, right? It sucks though, I know.
Keep your standards, calmly and directly call them on their bullshit instead of being a doormat, go at a comfortable pace, and allow them to do the same. This is how you get more than a date, but an actual connection.
Hi Dr. Borrello. I was in a very one sided situationship. I walked away peacefully and with no anger, I’ve let him know that I was letting go because of his lack of commitment to me. After 3 weeks he started messaging me again. He just wanted a booty call and all. I told him so nicely that I know what I bring to the table and that I would’ve made him happy, but I was not going to be his booty call. So he didn’t respond back. He is Officially out of my life.
Couldn´t be explained better than this! Thanks Antonio!
I absolutely agree with these tips. It helps a lot
Thanks for dis tips .. I'm always watching ur vedio ♥️
They just need to be honest and true.
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It was a great advice
In this life, nothing lasts forever, including love.
You need to learn to let go of things were not considered to be continued, or treasure the relationship wholeheartedly.
Let’s it be is a golden rule for everyone in every circumstances
I don't know how to thank you .. this was sooooo helpfull .. god bless you👍🌺
Thanks for amazing advice they’re really heplful ❤
Awesome video, great advice ~thank you
Thanks for all your advice, i will do it but if not working, i am very much willing to walk away..👍❤️
This is the best one by far.... it all clicked for me... thanks 💕
Nowadays some relationship are like playing games..... even in a smallest problem it will separates each other...... hard to find same as your desires.... thank you Dr. Antonio for your nice advice God bless
Thanks for this video. It hit me so hard. But this is what I need to hear.
Can't miss watching your videos bkoz am really blessed and reformed,thanx Dr Antonio
Yeah we deserved better dont settle for less😊😇🙏
Heyyyyyyy thnq sooooo muchhhhhh.... i tried your tricks and its work instantly man... i can't imagine before using it that effective.... .
Basically, Walk on Eggshells for them. Change Yourself and Be Ready for When he wants to be "Ready". Cater to Him all the time by Playing his Games. Yeah, I Got it!!!
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I am willing to walk away no matter what. I can't expect anything from a man. I can't expect love to exist either.
Thank you for sharing your advices in your video
I walked away the first time I felt disrespected, he hasn’t followed 😂
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Lola cookie, better one is coming. Don't waste time on him when the right one is waiting for u somewhere.
what you accept is what will continue. He's wasn't worth it.
Hey my guy looks confused....kast year he was leaving because of the no future fear but i asked him to stay if he feels for me...then now i just said that if u r not happy u can leave....he said last yead when i said about leaving, u got so insecured to leave me...so i decided that i will not leave you till the time u feel its right being together withoit future.....
So i asked dat means all your i love u nd sex nd love was fake?
He said no if it was that fake then i would never have given tym to u even wen i have thjs hectic schedule..i wud not wear ur fav shirts
So shud i leave him so dat he can realize if he actually loves me or wat shud i do?
Long distance rltnship
I feel he loves me can see in his eyes..
But want ur suggestion
Good that you walked away.
I wonder why dating was so much easier before TH-cam 😂 I’m here to learn how I can coach my daughter
This will only work if a guy really likes and cares for you. It worked for me.
I have done some of the tips.... i have walked away but he nver stopped me... we ended up separately...!!!! 😭
Wow thank you so much for your advice 😍😍😍
You got it right thank you...your smart....
What if he never cares about my needs and is distant 💔😔 right..
But you can't hold people forever in fear for losing you. It's better let them be...if they don't value.
I like it it helps me to move on when my man wast my time
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For someone with a lot of knowledge when it comes to men, I'm surprised you're single, Mr. Borrello. You're a handsome guy, and if I wasn't already engaged to someone, I'd definitely ask you out. But, when you DO finally find a woman when you have the time, I do wish you nothing but the best of success in your relationships in the future. Even though I'm engaged, I still watch your videos, because I'm dating a Capricorn who sometimes can be quite the weirdo when it comes to feelings. He's not one to talk about feelings, but that is a Capricorn thing. When I CAN get him to talk about feelings, he's all mushy n stuff. Lately he's been distant to a point. Still manages to text me when he can, but I can tell he's a bit distant emotionally. I'm just backing off, once again, like I always do, and for some reason, with Capricorn, it always works. You wouldn't figure I'd have to do that now that we're engaged, but NOPE. He still wants his space every now and again. He's a complete dork, and I don't understand him sometimes. Talk about keeping me on my toes... Damn goats...
Hey thank you for this. Good stuff!! 👏
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love casts out all fear. I don't think fear will cause someone to love you.
Yes ..he is so passionately scared to lose me...he does this
Thank u Dr borello for this great advice
Why do they always stop trying though it's like they're kids I never stop trying
After he got what he wanted...He...........:(
Thanks. Sounds great.
Even all the loyalty and love still won't make him stay if he wants to go. Went to Louisiana 4week and he couldn't stop text n as in WHN I was coming bk home, but WHN I get back thn all the bullshit started right back. Men always and only care and love wht women do 4them.
i really need to hear this now
Lol...I walk away a lot. The issue is that once a guy sees my "ta-tas" they only have interest in a physical opportunity or dismiss the idea of a relationship and walk away assuming I'm not a keeper. And I have a lot of value. I would never change the gifts God gave me. Just tired of the conclusions people jump to. How is a woman going to keep an open mind with so much working against you?
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First way to make sure you have an unhealthy relationship = Make the other person fearful.
Justin, your smart!
Its already unhealthy if the girl is giving to much n not giving him space.
@@dbedazzling1 it goes both ways. If a guy doesn't give the girl enough space then it also becomes unhealthy
@@mishfeekascholtz5048 I am speaking in regards to what Jason Brodie said
Awesome. Nice one, thanks Dr.
Bye boy bye, thank you next!
First video of you i've watch and i'm already loving your channel
This Video is rite on POINT! Thank you 😊 for sharing this Video! This is exactly what I do, and he misses me so much he burns my phone 📱 up!!!! I don’t answer now he’s having fear that I’m gone! I don’t have time for games!!!
When you are with him, pretend to get a text ans say you gotta go. Don't explain, just leave and make yourself scarse for a few weeks
@crooked truth83 I just did this to test the theory and it worked. Now he texts me at least once a day to hang out or ask what I'm doing lol. I just say sorry im really busy, I'll hit you up later.
Thats playing games!
Yikes nasty game play.
Thank you Sir well said
No matter how hard I tried no change I will find him in the same place...
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Wish I saw this earlier!! But am glad I eventually did
This is why I stay single. I have no time for mind games and pretence. Games are for children!
At what point is it ok to just relax and let him know how you feel?