This is 100 percent correct. I been married for 10 years and got a lot of wrinkles putting him on the pedastole. Man aren't worth it, specially after kids. Super self center :/
Farhana sorry this happened to u it sounds like he was a player. I'm so sorry in my case the man I love doesn't have anyone else in his life wasn't looking at anyone else and we found eachother and were hung up on eachother we had some time a part a few times he moved and came back long story about things, but we're hung up on eachother must be true love. I'm sorry this happened to u. Life's too short find a good man and hold onto him.
Men only keep their options open when they havent met their wife. If you want to keep a man BE WHOLESOME AND WORK ON YOUR BODY. thats it, he may/may not have been a player but did you contribute your fair share?
1. Believe that you are the prize 2. Never be too accessible 3. Let him initiate contact 80% of the time 4. Never act exclusive with a man who's still keeping his options open 5. Before you know where you stand with a man, don't act head over heels in love with him 6. Be willing to walk away
I am using this advice to step back to adjust the pace. I am not interested in marriage but definitely know that I want a monogamous relationship with a healthy, empathetic and grateful man. Being willing to walk away/step back when the mind games started a few weeks ago after eighteen months of what was a fun relationship is difficult. However, I am a prize, I have a wonderful life where I live my passion and am sincere in making my life a priority. I wish I knew about the eighty percent of the time initiation suggestion. Maybe this is why after eighteen very good months things started going downhill. Thank you everyone who supports Dr. Borello and to him for his wise content.
I call my friends instead of calling him. I am taking advantage of the gym, tennis, and yoga lessons offered in my neighborhood. I walk my dog and come home and have a glass of wine. I try new things as well. Keeping busy helps me a lot that way I’m not so available.
Wow Christi,,, sounds just like me. I walk my dog, go to church, knitting group,,, just signed up for sailing lessons. (Lifts glass of wine) “To life!”
I needed this today with my new FWB, but if I initiate texts and he matches me text for text talks to me at work and flirts doesn't that wants he us interested?
I ended up walking away he kept saying we weren't together and friends with benefits and I couldn't take it I left. Needless to say he chased after after he feared he would lose me much better now and feel loved and wanted, but he chased after me. I wasn't playing games I was honest with what I wanted a real relationship. Was very honest. Walk away if there's games I ended up meeting another man he ended up he left long story, but I realized something through this experience.
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 I don’t agree with this. I want pleasure just as much as he does. Why should we have to wait? I have spoke with many men and women about this and I have friends who are married for years who has sex on their first date! I think it can be confusing for a woman though if we have sex right away because we don’t know if it’s sex they want or a relationship but I think being straight forward and having the conversation is the key. But hey! It’s ok to enjoy pleasure as early as the first date!!
I love how honest Dr Antonio is. I have noticed the mistakes I've made and thank you for makinf it clear now. If he says he doesn't want a realtionship believe him, he won't change his mind. :)
Short version: work on yourself (men and women both!), respect and love yourself, love a full life with or without a significant other, be honest but choose what you share wisely- meaning little at a time as YOU and the person take your time getting to know each other. Relax, and enjoy the PROCESS, not focused on the outcome. All will turn out okay!
Your advice has been great with me getting back into the dating scene at 51. This video happened at the perfect time to remind me once again to keep my standards high and how a relationship is best for me, which in the long run makes it the best for him also.
Ahhh!!! I learned that. People do value those things that they work so much for. People protect those things that was hard to obtain. In order for others to trust you, you have to be patient and give time. The right one will come..
Antonio, I can't even begin to tell you how helpful your videos have been. I feel incredibly empowered, can see the errors in my ways and how to correct them. More importantly, I feel the confidence and strength to do so. I have been looking for these exact videos. Not only do you give guidance, but a thorough explanation of why which makes it so much easier to rationalize the behaviour that I need to have moving forward. And, the fact that you're not trying to rope people in by playing on their emotions, only to ask them to hand over their credit card number for advice... bravo! Very refreshing. Quite simply, thank you, thank you, thank you.
I appreciate that you state a "high quality man". I was married 21 years and l lost myself. In addition, l was taught by my Hispanic grandmother that a man comes first and l must submit, be available, wait, submit, and anticipate his need. Everything you teach is opposite of what l learned. I come across as needy and l didn't know that, until now. I've been doing this all wrong. I don't know how to date. I need all the help I can get.
This is actually really solid advice. It's about respecting and loving yourself above a relationship and allowing men to pursue like they were created to
@@Sudanese_Barbie everytime she saw me, she kept looking at me even when I ignore her. When I was talking to her friends, I caught her looking at me. I purposely avoided her for 1 1/2 months. One day, she was waiting for me at the parking lot in another car. It was well after her sceduled shift. I know it was her, cause once i pulled into the lot, her eyes were fixed on me.
@@beckytull8505 it's a 2-way street. I'm a patience person but everyone has a limit. I gave her my time but she didnt give me the time of day. I value and respect myself. I'm not going below my limit just to please her.
I made a mistake of falling in love quickly. Then the guy went quiet after a couple of dates. I tried to reach out, which now I know I shouldn't have done. And I got proof that talking to him about ghosting on me doesn't make a difference. From this video I understand that I shouldn't reach out often. I should let him initiate contact. He must work for me, I'm the prize. Just a disclaimer, I'm still waiting for him to contact me, sad but I understand I guess, because I really like him. Thank you Mr. Borrello.
I needed this video. The guy told me he didn’t want to lead me on and didn’t want a relationship and I said I okay. I thought he was still being flirty after but in his head he was just being nice. Me and him had to have a whole discussion. He said he isn’t changing his mind anytime soon which sucks but it’s the truth.
I get it! I'm at the point where I need to back away because I'm not getting the respect I deserve. You just verified that I'm o on the right track. Thanks!
I've been watching dating techniques, and tried to apply all tge time.. The truth is... Even u applied the right techniques if u do it to the wrong person, it still not gonna work because he or she is not the right person for you... Just relax and wait for the right one... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ more power just take the good lesson but don't expect that it will work to all men..
Honestly I keep learning and growing I constantly learn new hobbies and new projects. However I don’t think it’s much for him than me but it works both ways he loves that I find new ways to enjoy life. And it encourages him to try new things!
This video was extremely helpful to me. I was in a 5 year relationship and was that girl who thought I could change him into commitment. Hard lesson learned. Your words hit home. Thank you for making me see the truth... Next!
I have a love in my life but I have fun and make me first before anything happens. I went away for a while I have time for me, friends and family. I show that I don't survive on his love but also my own love and life. And yes this video was very helpful. Thank you very much.
Hi Dr Antonio thank you for tips once I started following these your videos I became more strong and valued myself..... All in all thank you and continue inspiring me
Great video! Hell, if a man doesn’t initiate most of the contact, I’d say to that one “get a skippin boy !” Yes, never give up on your life prior to any lover, do not let that one remove you from your family and loyal friends, never .
Thank you for not saying that sleeping with him too fast is a mistake like all the other videos do and I just want to point out that just because we want him to chase doesn’t mean we want a relationship. Everyone assumes all women want a relationship but sometimes we don’t and just want to give him a taste of his own medicine and “flip the script”. I do agree with everything you said.
Thanks so much for your advice, Dr. Borello. I got this same scenario very recently. I've realized since listening to you and several other relationship cousnelors that I want a grown up, and not somebody who is giving me a "tap dance". It is hardly worth it, and I've moved on -- Diane.
Amen i have been married FOREVER i got on here for my 17 yr old i didn't want to tell her in my words cause you know how kids are they never listen to you but hoping she follows this guys advice because ive lived my life like this and have been married since 1994 good bad and ugly but much better now that we are old n tired lol i hope she listens to this ❤MAKE SURE YOUR GIRLS LOVE THEMSELVES FIRST
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Thanks for the tips. But I did the last one and walked away. For the most you were right on point. 6 months into our relationship he changed and I was chasing him So one day I had enough and left him alone. No argument. No fights, no explanation. Just left and block all of his numbers. Thank you.
@@divyadas310 Initially I meant the comment as a joke but in all seriousness everyone is different, do what makes you happy. Some people like options while others like to be devoted to one person only. I think there is no wrong or right way just as long as you're honest with people it doesn't matter what you do.
Wen Dee I’m devoted to one person only, that’s why it is very hard for me to keep away from my ex husband whom I loved since day one. We were married for 24 years 😓😓
How i wish all men are having their minds like yours Dr. Antonio.. so they will understand all woman tantrums😊 God bless you Dr. Antonio and your channel😇
Loved this video Dr Antonio. I couldn't agree with you more. It is so true that every person should have the integrity to walk away if the situation is not right. I walked away from an emotional and mentally abusing husband.
I’ve just yesterday started watching your videos and started immediately putting things into place that you’ve said to do and they’re ALREADY working!!!! I’ve known this guy for several years and we recently started dating in the past few months. I want him to commit more and wasn’t sure how...even in my 40’s. I saw your videos and started implementing them yesterday and so far you were 100% spot on and everything you’ve said is happening like clockwork. Are men or people in general THIS predictable? Loving all this! 😁
Hi Antonio! I almost watched all your videos. And ive learned a lot from it. Actually, it makes me feel more confident and see my true value. Your advice is very effective😊
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I did what you said to do with a guy cuz he stop texting and all and he don't seem to give a damn, so now I've found someone else and he is giving me vibs if you will that he is upset with me. To tell you the truth, I don't give a damn cuz he stopped texting me and showing he cares about me. His lost my gain.
I am a 61 year young woman who is almost ready to place myself out there and try to find the second love of my life. After 6 years of mourning for my previous husband I am ready to move on with the next course of my life. No rush but ready. I have not been single for many years and I find myself listening to your videos for forgotten tips on new relationships and realized that things have not changed all that much. As an older woman I do remember how to get a man and I also remember how to keep one or get rid of one if the need arises. At my age I refuse to live with anything that is not positive and uplifting in my life and starting to date falls into that category. Thanks for taking the time to put together these videos for those of us who are in need of reminders.
Antonio, You have encouraged me, you made me strong, infact i feel relieved and my heart is now free. I learnt alot from your videos. I know what to do from now. Cheers.
After almost two months of talking and I'm already starting to make mistakes of being to invested. I think this is an amazing list of things to do. We will see what happens,
Today i realized all my mistakes i committed.... Iam always accessible for him🤷 he has got all my time n attention whereas im just a part of his life... I just need to work on Antonio's tips i think. I don't know whether it will work or not i don't think so that its gonna work because iam not that important to him i know 😶 but lets see 😋
Lol its funny that i already did all of the steps except number 6, he started ignoring me and i did the same lol and after few days he started to contact me again 😃 now i have to learn to love myself more and start thinking myself more as a prize that no one but the bravest should get me as the love of his life 😎 if he doesn't serious about me then get out of my way! I have lines of men waiting for me!
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Am giving too much attention n love to him ,I think am gonna pull off little to see how much he will come after me,so I can decide whether to walk away or stay, this video has though me wat to do..thanks to u u Dr,Antonio
No don't think about a man chasing you, you're supposed to both be the prize, men really don't like to bother with games or trying to get them to chase you. It would turn me off and I'd not bother.
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After 5 years I’ve been in long distance relationship different country with no any commitment, and I have been demand for marriage life since few years ago till today, but I failed! I just blocked him few minutes ago after I finished watched this video, I dare to walk away and blocked him on WhatsApp and social media haha 😆, I’m so proud with myself now that I am The Prize !!! 👏🏻
I'd rather have a man chase after me because I want a man to prove himself how much he loves me more than I love him. If he says "I love you so much" I would expect him to work harder to get me or win my heart. If he says"I love you so much' and don't chase me. I will know that he is telling a lie. I don't call first, I have to be busy, and I have to let a man do the work for me. I am not looking for a man anymore because I have to love myself some more. If a man finds me a prize, he must do something and show me his love, romance, and affections. I know most men don't. Too many players and bad men out there, All good men are taken. Better stay single and waiting for love or love will never come true.
Jennifer, sorry to break it to you, but the "me too" movement has destroyed the chasing phase. Today it is too dangerous for men to chase women because men could end up being accused of stalking.
Jennifer Hawkins always go by a mans actions, not his words. Agreed. All men have different love languages too and you have to know his. Some men will not chase but they will fix things around your house, some men will buy gifts/flowers, some men will call/text all the time, some men will talk about you to his friends/family constantly. Learning your man and recognizing his ways is a huge part of forming a long term partnership.
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I love your channel. I am a new subscriber. I was dealing with someone who kept playing games and I walked away but I made sure he would not try again by telling him that I was going to be dating someone who wants to be exclusive. You see I absolutely hate games and game player's. Capricorn.
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Thanks Dr. Borello; most difficult is waiting for and letting them initiate. Most of us have careers that would have us do the opposite, it's difficult to apply that sometimes. Crucial though so you know where does their interest stand!! Also be willing to walk; you said in another clip how crazy is it that someone you met a week ago is dictating your feelings/actions? Be that high-value woman!! Having your own life is attractive!!
Dr. Antonio ur so right! I can't begin to tell u , I just turned 30 yrs old in May and I just now realized and learned everything that you just hot in this video I wish I would have learned its way before 30 but better late than never right . Ive been a suscriber for over 1 yr and I'm hooked because u truly know ur stuff
Great video and tips, thank you! You have a typo that needs to be fixed, though. It’s “head over heels” vs. “head over heals.” To heal is to recover or be cured of a wound or an illness, while a heel is the bottom part of a foot, located directly below the ankle.
I have learnt one great lesson from my life and it is as follows: if you need to play mind games, trick s and all that sorts to make a man chase you and love you then it is not worth it. I believe never ever beg for love and attention. Accept the fact that he was probably never into you and walk away with dignity.
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Honestly, a man appreciates a woman who is straight up and actually persues a little bit. If he doesnt like you for you dont try to manipulate him. If he really likes you he will be there.
I hold back from texting him. However we drove passed each other the other day we are neighbors and he waved but I missed it in time I never remember what kind of car he drives lol I felt bad and when I got home 10 mins I texted him and he immediately texted back. I basically give him a hug when I first see him when out at the bar and then just chill talk to other friends and wait for him to come see me and he actually does. I think you said once don’t slouch my shoulders in another video I sit confident and straighter now. I also saw ur video where you said he glances at you when ur not looking so my girlfriend and I tested that i told her about ur channel so she kept an eye on him for me and when we left we got in car and I said Well? Was he? And her voice deepened and sounded just like the kool aid man lol and said ohhh yeahhh he’s definetly into you. Lol YES! I said back lol UR RIGHT DOC!! lol I marathon watch ur videos they are so helpful and I truly appreciate all ur help thank you 😊
Thank you for this video I am in a toxic relationship with my boyfriend he is 15 and I’m 13 I was scared and I just didn’t know how to breakup with him but now I will finally do it!
L E X I. Sometimes you say yes, sometimes you say no. Take it step by step, slowly.... and be more accessible when he demonstrates interest with concrete actions, so he will get used to it and he will know how to gain your attention. Is all about knowing your value and what you want
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Do not rely on others to complete yourself. Only you complete yourself. Those you choose to surround yourself with, should be a compliment to your wholeness, not a part of that wholeness. Because adversity happens, and your wholeness is what's going to keep you strong through those adversities.
Simply don't care too much about him and focus on yourself .
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This is 100 percent correct. I been married for 10 years and got a lot of wrinkles putting him on the pedastole. Man aren't worth it, specially after kids. Super self center :/
Yes, just work on your self and you will thank yourself later
What if he does the same?
100%
Never act exclusive with a man who's still keeping his options open....I learned the hard way. I wish this video was available back then.
Farhana sorry this happened to u it sounds like he was a player. I'm so sorry in my case the man I love doesn't have anyone else in his life wasn't looking at anyone else and we found eachother and were hung up on eachother we had some time a part a few times he moved and came back long story about things, but we're hung up on eachother must be true love. I'm sorry this happened to u. Life's too short find a good man and hold onto him.
So sorry
Men only keep their options open when they havent met their wife. If you want to keep a man BE WHOLESOME AND WORK ON YOUR BODY. thats it, he may/may not have been a player but did you contribute your fair share?
1. Believe that you are the prize
2. Never be too accessible
3. Let him initiate contact 80% of the time
4. Never act exclusive with a man who's still keeping his options open
5. Before you know where you stand with a man, don't act head over heels in love with him
6. Be willing to walk away
Thanks love
thanks
I am using this advice to step back to adjust the pace. I am not interested in marriage but definitely know that I want a monogamous relationship with a healthy, empathetic and grateful man. Being willing to walk away/step back when the mind games started a few weeks ago after eighteen months of what was a fun relationship is difficult. However, I am a prize, I have a wonderful life where I live my passion and am sincere in making my life a priority. I wish I knew about the eighty percent of the time initiation suggestion. Maybe this is why after eighteen very good months things started going downhill. Thank you everyone who supports Dr. Borello and to him for his wise content.
Thanks
@@AntonioBorrello thank u for this kind of video even its is hard to walk away and let him 80% to initiate to contact u . self love is important...
I call my friends instead of calling him. I am taking advantage of the gym, tennis, and yoga lessons offered in my neighborhood. I walk my dog and come home and have a glass of wine. I try new things as well. Keeping busy helps me a lot that way I’m not so available.
Wow Christi,,, sounds just like me.
I walk my dog, go to church, knitting group,,, just signed up for sailing lessons. (Lifts glass of wine) “To life!”
Your right girl
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I needed this today with my new FWB, but if I initiate texts and he matches me text for text talks to me at work and flirts doesn't that wants he us interested?
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I ended up walking away he kept saying we weren't together and friends with benefits and I couldn't take it I left. Needless to say he chased after after he feared he would lose me much better now and feel loved and wanted, but he chased after me. I wasn't playing games I was honest with what I wanted a real relationship. Was very honest. Walk away if there's games I ended up meeting another man he ended up he left long story, but I realized something through this experience.
You probably had sex too early, showing you're not a prize. To a man this shows, anyone can have you. Not saying this is true.
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 I don’t agree with this. I want pleasure just as much as he does. Why should we have to wait? I have spoke with many men and women about this and I have friends who are married for years who has sex on their first date! I think it can be confusing for a woman though if we have sex right away because we don’t know if it’s sex they want or a relationship but I think being straight forward and having the conversation is the key. But hey! It’s ok to enjoy pleasure as early as the first date!!
I love how honest Dr Antonio is. I have noticed the mistakes I've made and thank you for makinf it clear now. If he says he doesn't want a realtionship believe him, he won't change his mind. :)
I used to be very caring and affectionate when I had feelings for someone. That was my mistake.
Same here Lol...
Yes, be willing to walk away.
Don't care too much.
Do your own things and be happy without him.
Short version: work on yourself (men and women both!), respect and love yourself, love a full life with or without a significant other, be honest but choose what you share wisely- meaning little at a time as YOU and the person take your time getting to know each other. Relax, and enjoy the PROCESS, not focused on the outcome. All will turn out okay!
Your advice has been great with me getting back into the dating scene at 51. This video happened at the perfect time to remind me once again to keep my standards high and how a relationship is best for me, which in the long run makes it the best for him also.
Ahhh!!! I learned that. People do value those things that they work so much for. People protect those things that was hard to obtain. In order for others to trust you, you have to be patient and give time. The right one will come..
I always hate that " keep yourself busy with girlfriends" i like to be on my own and by myself. So what i am gonna pretend???
Jack Breed I’m the same.. being by yourself is fine. Just do you boo!
EXACTLY!!! This is not for introverts 😩
Antonio, I can't even begin to tell you how helpful your videos have been. I feel incredibly empowered, can see the errors in my ways and how to correct them. More importantly, I feel the confidence and strength to do so. I have been looking for these exact videos. Not only do you give guidance, but a thorough explanation of why which makes it so much easier to rationalize the behaviour that I need to have moving forward. And, the fact that you're not trying to rope people in by playing on their emotions, only to ask them to hand over their credit card number for advice... bravo! Very refreshing. Quite simply, thank you, thank you, thank you.
I appreciate that you state a "high quality man". I was married 21 years and l lost myself. In addition, l was taught by my Hispanic grandmother that a man comes first and l must submit, be available, wait, submit, and anticipate his need. Everything you teach is opposite of what l learned. I come across as needy and l didn't know that, until now. I've been doing this all wrong. I don't know how to date. I need all the help I can get.
This is actually really solid advice. It's about respecting and loving yourself above a relationship and allowing men to pursue like they were created to
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Thank you Dr. Antonio for reminding me that I am a high value woman and that he needs to chase me because I’m worth it.
#6 - Be willing to walk away. That's exactky what I did. Now I'm constantly on her mind.
Peter Chou Games.....
How do you know you’re constantly on her mind?
@@Sudanese_Barbie everytime she saw me, she kept looking at me even when I ignore her. When I was talking to her friends, I caught her looking at me. I purposely avoided her for 1 1/2 months. One day, she was waiting for me at the parking lot in another car. It was well after her sceduled shift. I know it was her, cause once i pulled into the lot, her eyes were fixed on me.
@@beckytull8505 it's a 2-way street. I'm a patience person but everyone has a limit. I gave her my time but she didnt give me the time of day. I value and respect myself. I'm not going below my limit just to please her.
I made a mistake of falling in love quickly. Then the guy went quiet after a couple of dates. I tried to reach out, which now I know I shouldn't have done. And I got proof that talking to him about ghosting on me doesn't make a difference. From this video I understand that I shouldn't reach out often. I should let him initiate contact. He must work for me, I'm the prize. Just a disclaimer, I'm still waiting for him to contact me, sad but I understand I guess, because I really like him. Thank you Mr. Borrello.
Making him want you more - really as for I'm sitting down in relaxation coz he's doing it better than I expected. Thanks doc.
I needed this video. The guy told me he didn’t want to lead me on and didn’t want a relationship and I said I okay. I thought he was still being flirty after but in his head he was just being nice. Me and him had to have a whole discussion. He said he isn’t changing his mind anytime soon which sucks but it’s the truth.
Wtf!!! Oh noooo
I get it! I'm at the point where I need to back away because I'm not getting the respect I deserve. You just verified that I'm o on the right track. Thanks!
I've been watching dating techniques, and tried to apply all tge time.. The truth is... Even u applied the right techniques if u do it to the wrong person, it still not gonna work because he or she is not the right person for you... Just relax and wait for the right one... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ more power just take the good lesson but don't expect that it will work to all men..
Honestly I keep learning and growing I constantly learn new hobbies and new projects. However I don’t think it’s much for him than me but it works both ways he loves that I find new ways to enjoy life. And it encourages him to try new things!
#6 ...."being willing to walk away" isnt easy, BUT....it works! Thanks Antonio♡
I’ve tried the very same tips without ever knowing it but men now and days don’t really care. It sucks.
This video was extremely helpful to me. I was in a 5 year relationship and was that girl who thought I could change him into commitment. Hard lesson learned. Your words hit
home. Thank you for making me see the truth... Next!
I have a love in my life but I have fun and make me first before anything happens. I went away for a while I have time for me, friends and family. I show that I don't survive on his love but also my own love and life. And yes this video was very helpful. Thank you very much.
Hi Dr Antonio thank you for tips once I started following these your videos I became more strong and valued myself..... All in all thank you and continue inspiring me
So happy I found this link
Time for a change 😁 I need to have a discussion with you Sir
Great video!
Hell, if a man doesn’t initiate most of the contact, I’d say to that one “get a skippin boy !”
Yes, never give up on your life prior to any lover, do not let that one remove you from your family and loyal friends, never .
Be willing to walk away, thanks for this advice.
Thank you for not saying that sleeping with him too fast is a mistake like all the other videos do and I just want to point out that just because we want him to chase doesn’t mean we want a relationship. Everyone assumes all women want a relationship but sometimes we don’t and just want to give him a taste of his own medicine and “flip the script”. I do agree with everything you said.
Thanks so much for your advice, Dr. Borello. I got this same scenario very recently. I've realized since listening to you and several other relationship cousnelors that I want a grown up, and not somebody who is giving me a "tap dance". It is hardly worth it, and I've moved on -- Diane.
Amen i have been married FOREVER i got on here for my 17 yr old i didn't want to tell her in my words cause you know how kids are they never listen to you but hoping she follows this guys advice because ive lived my life like this and have been married since 1994 good bad and ugly but much better now that we are old n tired lol i hope she listens to this ❤MAKE SURE YOUR GIRLS LOVE THEMSELVES FIRST
Thas a dam shame u gotta play these games with grown MEN smh 🤦🏾♀️
You dont. If there is real interest you wont have to try to create it.
Women are the one's playing games.
@@jacobcorrigeux3538 Not all women. I am serious, but keep running into guys who want to play games. I don't have time for it.
@@Kimmica20 of course not all women lol and not all men.. just a lot on both sides of the spectrum that play games too much
@@jacobcorrigeux3538 Ok, thanks for clarifying and I agree.
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my army, same here 😂😂😂 i have to change my options
Same. 😂I wished he liked me.
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I wish I had listened to this 7 months ago. Thank you
Thanks for the tips. But I did the last one and walked away. For the most you were right on point. 6 months into our relationship he changed and I was chasing him
So one day I had enough and left him alone. No argument. No fights, no explanation. Just left and block all of his numbers. Thank you.
Ladies, just get a side dude, that'll keep him on his toes... amiriggght?
Will this really work?
@@divyadas310 Initially I meant the comment as a joke but in all seriousness everyone is different, do what makes you happy. Some people like options while others like to be devoted to one person only. I think there is no wrong or right way just as long as you're honest with people it doesn't matter what you do.
So true hahaha. They always hv side chics bc they get bored fast.
Wen Dee I’m devoted to one person only, that’s why it is very hard for me to keep away from my ex husband whom I loved since day one. We were married for 24 years 😓😓
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I agree 100%
Loved this video Dr Antonio. I couldn't agree with you more. It is so true that every person should have the integrity to walk away if the situation is not right. I walked away from an emotional and mentally abusing husband.
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I’ve just yesterday started watching your videos and started immediately putting things into place that you’ve said to do and they’re ALREADY working!!!! I’ve known this guy for several years and we recently started dating in the past few months. I want him to commit more and wasn’t sure how...even in my 40’s. I saw your videos and started implementing them yesterday and so far you were 100% spot on and everything you’ve said is happening like clockwork. Are men or people in general THIS predictable? Loving all this! 😁
Hi Antonio! I almost watched all your videos. And ive learned a lot from it. Actually, it makes me feel more confident and see my true value. Your advice is very effective😊
After watching your videos I really realise what I'm doing wrong with my relationship.. he just take me for granted.... Thanks for all those tips
Love numbers 5 and 6! Very important. 😉
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I did what you said to do with a guy cuz he stop texting and all and he don't seem to give a damn, so now I've found someone else and he is giving me vibs if you will that he is upset with me. To tell you the truth, I don't give a damn cuz he stopped texting me and showing he cares about me. His lost my gain.
I am a 61 year young woman who is almost ready to place myself out there and try to find the second love of my life. After 6 years of mourning for my previous husband I am ready to move on with the next course of my life. No rush but ready. I have not been single for many years and I find myself listening to your videos for forgotten tips on new relationships and realized that things have not changed all that much. As an older woman I do remember how to get a man and I also remember how to keep one or get rid of one if the need arises. At my age I refuse to live with anything that is not positive and uplifting in my life and starting to date falls into that category. Thanks for taking the time to put together these videos for those of us who are in need of reminders.
All the best for your life ahead.
I really love to watch your advice it's help me a lot,make me strong woman and respect my self thank u Antonio Borello😊
Best relationship coach is here
No games, if a man doesn’t want you walk, don’t look back 😂
I need a man, not a need a job
Antonio, You have encouraged me, you made me strong, infact i feel relieved and my heart is now free. I learnt alot from your videos. I know what to do from now. Cheers.
This was very helpful. I need to use every tool. One day at a time
Me too Cynthia!
After almost two months of talking and I'm already starting to make mistakes of being to invested. I think this is an amazing list of things to do. We will see what happens,
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Today i realized all my mistakes i committed.... Iam always accessible for him🤷 he has got all my time n attention whereas im just a part of his life... I just need to work on Antonio's tips i think. I don't know whether it will work or not i don't think so that its gonna work because iam not that important to him i know 😶 but lets see 😋
Lol its funny that i already did all of the steps except number 6, he started ignoring me and i did the same lol and after few days he started to contact me again 😃 now i have to learn to love myself more and start thinking myself more as a prize that no one but the bravest should get me as the love of his life 😎 if he doesn't serious about me then get out of my way! I have lines of men waiting for me!
I was never in a relationship to begin with hahaha, interesting facts from a psychological perspective.
Be willing to walk away is the most important thing to understand for me and do things with my friends .
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I love this. Thank you Dr Antonio for this knowledge.
Am giving too much attention n love to him ,I think am gonna pull off little to see how much he will come after me,so I can decide whether to walk away or stay, this video has though me wat to do..thanks to u u Dr,Antonio
No don't think about a man chasing you, you're supposed to both be the prize, men really don't like to bother with games or trying to get them to chase you. It would turn me off and I'd not bother.
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Thank you so much, these are powerful tips indeed.
Nice advice... Hope i can handle myself to accomplish all that...thank you.. Sir.Antonio...God bless you always.
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I'd rather have a man chase after me because I want a man to prove himself how much he loves me more than I love him. If he says "I love you so much" I would expect him to work harder to get me or win my heart. If he says"I love you so much' and don't chase me. I will know that he is telling a lie. I don't call first, I have to be busy, and I have to let a man do the work for me. I am not looking for a man anymore because I have to love myself some more.
If a man finds me a prize, he must do something and show me his love, romance, and affections. I know most men don't. Too many players and bad men out there, All good men are taken. Better stay single and waiting for love or love will never come true.
Jennifer, sorry to break it to you, but the "me too" movement has destroyed the chasing phase. Today it is too dangerous for men to chase women because men could end up being accused of stalking.
Jennifer Hawkins I think you’re being too hard.....
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always go by a mans actions, not his words. Agreed. All men have different love languages too and you have to know his. Some men will not chase but they will fix things around your house, some men will buy gifts/flowers, some men will call/text all the time, some men will talk about you to his friends/family constantly. Learning your man and recognizing his ways is a huge part of forming a long term partnership.
azar1520 there is a huge difference between stalking and chasing and if you don’t know the difference you are probably a stalker
Great tips! Very hard to do!!! I wish I had seen this video earlier!! This is gonna be hard to do for me!!
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I love your channel. I am a new subscriber. I was dealing with someone who kept playing games and I walked away but I made sure he would not try again by telling him that I was going to be dating someone who wants to be exclusive. You see I absolutely hate games and game player's. Capricorn.
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This guy is good knows what he is talking about. Too bad I didn't hear all this before my guy broke up with me thankyou!
Almost in all your videos your saying the same thing. 😄 And yes every time I keep forgetting about these tips, but still I learned a lot! Thank you 🙏🏻
Thanks Dr. Borello; most difficult is waiting for and letting them initiate. Most of us have careers that would have us do the opposite, it's difficult to apply that sometimes. Crucial though so you know where does their interest stand!! Also be willing to walk; you said in another clip how crazy is it that someone you met a week ago is dictating your feelings/actions? Be that high-value woman!! Having your own life is attractive!!
I keep the cookie in the jar until I get what I want!
Yup!!
There is some deep stuff here. Will listen again, need to soak it in.
Is this for all types of men?
Dr. Antonio ur so right! I can't begin to tell u , I just turned 30 yrs old in May and I just now realized and learned everything that you just hot in this video I wish I would have learned its way before 30 but better late than never right . Ive been a suscriber for over 1 yr and I'm hooked because u truly know ur stuff
How do I handle a distance relationship? We do see after four months no serious calling
Same issue here we really would like to see a video about it
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Great video and tips, thank you! You have a typo that needs to be fixed, though. It’s “head over heels” vs. “head over heals.” To heal is to recover or be cured of a wound or an illness, while a heel is the bottom part of a foot, located directly below the ankle.
I have learnt one great lesson from my life and it is as follows: if you need to play mind games, trick s and all that sorts to make a man chase you and love you then it is not worth it. I believe never ever beg for love and attention. Accept the fact that he was probably never into you and walk away with dignity.
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Can I fix the it if I've already shown him I'm head over heals or is it to late?
Honestly, a man appreciates a woman who is straight up and actually persues a little bit. If he doesnt like you for you dont try to manipulate him. If he really likes you he will be there.
It’s too late. Trust me I just went through this. Try someone else
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@@wildfreefun I find that the playing hard to get doesn't work!
Why can't you just be straight forward and them the same!! Lay all the cards on the table. Communication is key!!
I hold back from texting him. However we drove passed each other the other day we are neighbors and he waved but I missed it in time I never remember what kind of car he drives lol I felt bad and when I got home 10 mins I texted him and he immediately texted back. I basically give him a hug when I first see him when out at the bar and then just chill talk to other friends and wait for him to come see me and he actually does. I think you said once don’t slouch my shoulders in another video I sit confident and straighter now. I also saw ur video where you said he glances at you when ur not looking so my girlfriend and I tested that i told her about ur channel so she kept an eye on him for me and when we left we got in car and I said Well? Was he? And her voice deepened and sounded just like the kool aid man lol and said ohhh yeahhh he’s definetly into you. Lol YES! I said back lol UR RIGHT DOC!! lol I marathon watch ur videos they are so helpful and I truly appreciate all ur help thank you 😊
Thanks I really needed to hear this
Thank you for this video I am in a toxic relationship with my boyfriend he is 15 and I’m 13 I was scared and I just didn’t know how to breakup with him but now I will finally do it!
so if he makes plans should we say yes or not be too accessible? lol IM CONFUSED.
L E X I. Sometimes you say yes, sometimes you say no. Take it step by step, slowly.... and be more accessible when he demonstrates interest with concrete actions, so he will get used to it and he will know how to gain your attention. Is all about knowing your value and what you want
Dont flake. A real man will walk away immediately from a flake.
Very interesting topic! You hit the nail in the head Dr Borrello!
I wish I heard this back In June. Recently I sent a message stating giving each other space. So if he has real desire for me, he will let me know
THANK YOU!! This makes SO much sense! I needed this!
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