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John 3:16 Modern English Version (MEV) 16 “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life. John 14:6New International Version (NIV) 6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. Acts 16:31 New International Version (NIV) 31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved-you and your household.” John 3:36 New international version 36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life,(A) but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them. John 20:28King James Version (KJV) 28 And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God. Acts 4:12 New International Version (NIV) 12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” 1 John 2:22King James Version (KJV) 22 Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son. 2 John 7 New International Version (NIV) 7 I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist.
No. “Having a loving relationship” doesn’t determine whether you are ‘blessed’ or not. We are all already whole on our own and have deep love within us.
“They fall in love with the feeling of being desired. That’s why they fall prey to gold diggers bc they know what they are doing.” This made me even think of dancers who tell men what they want to hear and get the man to keep pulling out more money. I remember my ex (going through mid-life crisis) said he wanted to know if he still had it. It’s important we communicate our needs.
It’s not rocket science Love and respect yourself and your body If you respect yourself you won’t let anyone treat you badly Respect your body Look after it Don’t let just anyone use it, if you don’t value it nobody else will. Be kind to yourself and others who respect and care for you, and don’t waste your time with people that don’t.
13:48 If you don't have the ability to walk away & the relationship breaks, you leave confused if you didn't give enough or were incompatible. This just opened up my brain!
I could never cheat on my husband. He puts me first in every decision and contains my heart and soul as his most precious treasure. There is also just no other man reaching up to him. But I am starting to realize how unfair and hard it is for men in general in this society. Because of a few narcissists, they are put down, misjudged, and outcast easier than women, not being better or even worse! Very interesting talk. Lovely women those two. Could listen for hours. Thank you❤
This is probably the first comment I have seen ever that really sympathizes for men. I have a wonderful step father. A very loving and giving brother. A dedicated, hard working, protective husband. A son that I love with all my being. The way I see women complain and bash men honest just bothers me so much. Even videos that are meant to help women with men by getting us to understand them, you just see they go and complain and their comments are almost always “whataboutism”. Many of these videos helped me understand the psychology of men and it’s helped me tremendously. I also see that in acknowledging the needs of my husband as a man and improving myself, he too has been so much better to me. We need to help each other bring out the best versions of ourselves but it just seems like the trend is to shit on men when they can.
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other. I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other. Most couples are too embarrassed to be naked around each other and have sex with each other.
Sadia. My wife and I would like to show appreciation for the work you do. You are doing a great thing for humanity, even if you do not see it. In life what goes around, comes around. Karma is real. Expect something good, you deserve it.
@@daniellamoreno3616 The best thing is that she provides constructive advice for people. It is not just about "don't do this" but also "do that". Showing the path to a healthier way of doing things. And Sadia has a grasp on reality, she analyzed with a down to Earth approach, and she talks about her findings, but these are not ordinary lose findings, because she connects the dots.
So it means also the men contributed to parenting wrong too.... or both parents, wrongly parenting the daughter so their son in law has no chance. based on the comments.. Why all my femnale and male cousins have happy marriages, because the fathers did good job, raising them the values...so its not just women but fathers who have think twice when implementing values into new generation.. :)
Very very true if a woman complains, ignores and shows no interest in being with you then someone else shows attention and concern for you sincere or not, it will look very appealing. So a wife can provide that.
Sadia is #1 in the world. For sure there is no better person for solving and explaining this kind of problems.She answer every question fast ,without any delay.
3:19 Attraction is emotional connection and live. It’s not about physical only, or novelty. Both partners need to take care of themselves and stay fit, healthy and put together. But love and emotional intimacy is what creates desire.
That's not quite true. You can have desire for someone you don't love and don't even know on an intimate level! You can have desire for someone you just met or just saw across the room! You do not need an emotional connection or 'LOVE' to have desire.
Sadia is extremely gifted on this stuff. But personally as a man if a woman cheated on me No 1 I'd be gutted. 2 The humiliation and betrayal would be depressing. 3 I could not look at that woman the same way again as in my feelings for her I just couldn't. 4 I could forgive maybe eventually but it just could not ever be the same again, because that thought will always be there 'She went off with another fella'.... It is what it is there's no other way around it... So man or woman think before you do something stupid...
This happened to me after 7 years of being together. Why not communicate or end it? Why actually do it behind my back? Can't control other people. But the damage done is huge. It's like seeing the person as a stranger than a person you used to love.
@@pawel3241believe or not, She tried to communicate with you, but you wont listern. Or when she tried to communicate, you were dismissive. How do i know? I dated a guy a few years ago, he had the same story as yours. I found he was extremely difficult to communicate. Luckily, i was one that brave enough to end things. His ex took his money and went off with another guy after being together for 7 years.
I totally agree and I feel the same way as a woman. the humiliation, the betrayal, the lies. and every memory you had change after the partner cheating. but I would say it can be because some was not loving enough but even if you are loving. it doesn't stop people from cheating or guarantee they won't. you can get cheated on even if you were the most loving and appreciating partner in the world. so, I don't agree that it needs two to tango. sometimes it is just the cheater being a cheater. there is no reason to blame a perfectly loving partner for the other one cheating.
100 percent. Me ex was seeing a sugar daddy on the side. I dumped her she begged on her knees. I cut her out for good. I'm territorial and loyal, enjoy having no kids n being alone when he replaces u.
I like Sadia because she is an actual psychologist not a woman speaking out of trauma or generational curses passed down to them by narcissistic mothers, or broken dysfunctional environments they were raised up in. I enjoy advice from those who give it in a wholesome way, not in a toxic agressive passive manner. Sex is human nature thats how i see it. But if one has low libido for you get a hormone lab test panel, many medical professionals fail to check testosterone levels starting in our 30's. Testosterone starts to decrease at 30's. Perimenopausel women or endropausel men also suffer from low libido. Get those hormones things in check fast because this leads to insecurity. A woman or man should be healthy psychologically and psychologically, especially spiritually.
@@Yay-hovah I doubt it. She is very perceptive and informed and I am sure she has heard most of it. One cannot repeat everything in a short clip and the way she answers questions contributes towards the flow of the interview. Esther Perez and Sadia are really impressive in this field.
What if the man never slept with the women or the woman he got caught giving his interest to due to his primary girlfriend who was unable to forgive him for his past but kept reinforcing the behavior by bringing up the past so much that it caused him to go into a mental guilt prison,fear and pressure that created an emasculating mental and emotional torture room in his mind for years fear from his shameful and inexcusable way to find temporary remedy through other women expressing their interest in him to increase its value interpersonally While she was verbally abusive with sudden outburst. But then at times would be loving and delicate. But then as she gets her breast surgery she becomes more confident and finds herself value raise enough so she could find the strength to make that decision to separate. It seems like the real question is when women get cheated on and they don't separate are they keeping the man as a placeholder and rather trauma Bond until they find confidence in whatever way by whatever means to discard that man. It's not right either way but what are your thoughts?. I'm not supporting the actions of either side when it comes to offending one another in a relationship.
I’m 25 and been single for a year now. I’m sorry, but no man has approached me that I feel is worthy enough. In that case I much rather stay single for longer and grow as a person and mentally till the right one comes around.
Men are visual creatures! That’s it… they like to look at beautiful things. Besides taking care of your health (mind, body & spirit) is a sign of self love ❤️
@@kareem199928that’s false. Women CREATE beauty because THEY LOVE TO BE SURROUNDED BY BEAUTIFUL THINGS. This includes bodies/people. You see the pretty girl is hanging around other pretty girls. WHY is that? So she can tell HER friends, to get with YOUR friends.. so WE can be friends. 💋 This also explains why so many little things catered to women come with glitter and an array of different PRETTY colors.. The industry capitalizes all things visually pretty TO WOMEN…. Competition is fierce but you can’t compete with a bad body crew full of other girls with bad bodies. You won’t get the kind of man’s attention you want and will have to settle on sloppy looking men. We love beauty… and to look beautiful on the arm of our man not Quasimodo… that’s for a reason. And the girls that’s say “No not all of us.. that’s not true..” go get with those girls cuz THEY will settle but you will be mad though cuz the pretty one is not on your arm… Go ahead and think the pretty ones are superficial. What better way of understanding the fable of the Fox and the sour Grapes…..
@@hiannahgus574 You can only say that because in 2024 being well groomed has become quite common. You probably wouldn’t care as much if we were in the 1800s.
As a man. I was in a relationship where I was cheated on. I was immediately turned off by her, time nor sex could mend the relationship. Loyalty is very high on my list.
A big no, because you can also communicate with your partner instead of “analyzing” why someone cheated..no one has the right to cheat. If you are not ready for a true relationship..stay single and don’t mess with someone’s heart.
Cheating is not a "right"...people are faulty and immature and they fuck up....sometimes more than once. It's terrible, but it's what IS and It's up to the other partner what they are willing to work with and/or put up with.
@@gabrielakarl3859 Yes, people should respect their selves more and be willing to walk away when a situation like this happens. Saying yes to someone who did you dirty means saying no to yourself.
How I would love to be in a strong, respectful relationship with someone. I feel like I have so much love to give, but the dating world these days is wild! I’ve been single for a year and before that was in a 4 year relationship… dating was soo different even just 4 years ago. I’m trying not to lose hope.
I feel you I'm in a similar boat but it's been almost three years for me now. I've learned so much about warning signs I ignored previously it's challenging to find ppl who aren't setting them off now. So many ppl are not actively putting work and effort into themselves let alone others/relationships
because dating now is so overtaken by everybody following whatever teen vogue says or another magazine. When everybody is copy pasting its all going to fail...
9:00 good to know the reason guys should never forgive after discovering they're being cheated on. She feels you'll never leave, and you'll end up hating yourself.
I'm a woman and I totally understand that! Once someone else has touched your spouse you no longer want or desire them. Like a mama bird no longer wants her chicks if they've been handled by someone else.
Jacintaakee I am finding stillness and suspending the chatter of my thoughts, which are seemingly pulling me in all directions . Intuitive senses are trustworthy and can become more adeptly attuned , too . 💆♂️
My ex wife stopped desiring me , stopped making me her #1 priority Hence she became my ex! I couldn’t continue in the marriage. I pleaded her with two years to have a realization and make some changes and amends but she took it for granted till the day i ended it!
I believe it started in her perimenopausel years, I bet. Hormones play so much in emotions. Usually, women start to act differently when their hormones are jacked up, especially 40's omg it's crazy.
I had an ex husband who did that too. Some people are dense and stubborn. Then at the last minute when it’s over, they suddenly want to make the effort you’ve been asking for!
Beloved child, I see the pain and the hurt that you carry within your heart. I see the tears that you have shed, and I am moved with compassion for you. I want to heal your broken heart and to bind up all your wounds. I want to restore the joy of your salvation and to give you a garment of praise, instead of a spirit of despair. I want to comfort you and bring you peace in the midst of your storms. I understand the struggles and the challenges that you face in this life. I know the temptations and the trials that you endure. I will never leave you nor forsake you. I am your refuge and your strength, an ever-present help in times of trouble. I want you to know that I have great plans for your life. I want to use you to touch the lives of others, to bring healing and hope to the brokenhearted, and to set the captives free. I want to use you to bring light into the darkness, and to be a beacon of hope to a lost and dying world. My child, I want you to know that My love for you is unconditional and unchanging. I want you to know that you are My beloved child, and that I delight in you. I want you to know that you are precious in My sight, and that you are more valuable to Me than the finest gold and the most precious jewels... I want you to know that I rejoice over you with singing. I want you to know that I am always with you, and that I will never leave you nor forsake you. I want you to know that I am your constant companion, and that I will guide you and direct your steps. I want you to know that I will give you the wisdom and the understanding that you need to navigate the challenges of this life. I want you to know that I am the God of all comfort, and that I will comfort you in all your troubles. I want you to know that I am the God who heals you, who binds up your wounds, and who sets you free from the bondage of sin and its consequences. I want you to know that I am the God who restores you when you have gone astray, and who brings you back into the fold of My love. I want you to know that I am the God who gives you the desires of your heart when they are in alignment with My will and My purposes. I want you to know that I am the God who blesses you abundantly, and that I am a God of more than enough. My child, I want you to trust in Me with all your heart, and to lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Me, and I will make your paths straight. I will guide you with My eye, and I will lead you to the place I have prepared for you... I will never leave you nor forsake you. With all My love, God.
I’m sorry, but it's not about how you look or think sometimes. Men often lose attraction to their partners over time due to a lack of curiosity. Even if you are the prettiest or smartest, it may not work in this moment.and its not that easy to keep curiosity while you live with someone already :)
2:00 Physical vs intellectual attraction 3:00 Stay curious about each other 6:00 Women can’t reverse sexually 9:40 Public and private info 12:40 Love and surrender 14:10 Multicultural dating in Dubai
I have found in the many arenas of life, prioritizing what one can put on the table rather than what one wants to take off the table works really well IF both parties are friends and both parties contribute. Otherwise ....
Given stats showing that marital therapists and psychologists have equally or higher rates of divorce, I’d like to also see more successfully married psychologists and therapists sharing advice and insights
I like your comment Sometimes I don't think it's possible, But I believe Some teach can make it possible for some. And to agree with you believe me, I'm no expert. You know that but I enjoyed your comment❤ Really. I love honesty. It says a lot about you. I'm sure you'll see what you're looking for I want to wish you well. I'm a million miles away From you but for some reason I get your Vibe. I fought that way myself before. I hope this lady. Keep skeep giving advice because men truly need it. We just don't get it young, Hopefully now we will. I really enjoyed your comment thank you.😊
@@jarkachalmovianska7812 Good point, but as Sadia said, women have more social. support.
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TRAUMA doesn't have a place in a relationship! Even if he has an another girl or woman, you'd have to pretend nothing happens, you'd have to understand the needs of a polygamous man! Do "never" crucify him, for something he does NOT understand, or not in control of! howdy this is it!
@@natalieboult3122Most men have friends they can talk to about things troubling them, it’s simply that your wife or girlfriend cannot be that person. It’s in a woman’s nature to weaponize damning information so a guy is better off confiding in his best friend (a male).
To cultivate a loving relationship, prioritize open communication, mutual respect, trust, shared interests, emotional support, quality time together, and maintaining individuality while fostering connection and intimacy.
I'm just freshly separated and we were together for 13 years I have always wanted and desired my partner even after 2 children, we love each other etc. Then one day she told me I don't love you any more, blame me for things that I did to her 10 years ago with exes, but then at the same time tells me I'm a great dad, but we cant be with each other any more.
Yea seems like 6 months or 16 years. Whatever you did she didn’t “like” at the beginning is going to be brought up for whatever true reason she doesn’t want you anymore. I’m recently going through the same and it seems like everything is transactional in todays world
The equating sexuality with a great meal is everything. But, honestly, sometimes all you want is a quick sandwich. I feel the secret is in the connection. And when I'm hungry, I'm gonna connect to that sandwich tooth, gum, and tongue 👅
I'm not too bad at the moment. Not been good lately though. Thought about ending my life many times lately. Very dark and lonely. So what's going on with you? If you dont mind me asking ?
It is absolutely true about infidelity. If a man or woman are missing something in their marriage, they will seek to find it elsewhere. They both need attention and both need to feel desired. If the woman finds what she needs from another man she will begin developing emotional attachment to him and will reluctantly go back to her husband. If the other man is willing to take her, she will never go back. The man, on the other hand, will stay in his marriage unless/until his wife finds out. In either case, it is extremely hard to forgive and get past it. I have been cheated on twice by my husband and we are now heading for divorce.
I been there. 17 years going and it’s a roller coaster ride. Luckily we both are very complacent and don’t want anything other than us at this age. Wrenches always get tossed in here and there but always just roll them off and keep moving forward. If I wasn’t with my wife I would just be single. The cess pool of dating just sounds exhausting and like a 2nd job in this generation. I feel bad for our kids. Hopefully the dynamics of the dating world shifts into a different direction At some point. “Swipe right” just sounds like STDs coming right at ya.
She gives a lot to the world but i just can't stop wondering if she's really happy? if by beeing so smart and right in many ways she has managed to find someone on the same level. Just by analysing the way she looks and talks, even though she gets so much attention i believe that at the end of the day she is single and she is channeling all the energy in what she does.
for all of history women had be emotionally tougher to raise kids and devious to keep their husbands from prying women. So yeah women are biologically so not for no reason
There are so many women who stay looking gorgeous even after kids. I love makeup and fashion and I love gym but I can’t imagine not trying to look great for m my man all the time. I want his compliments and I want him to want me and if I look like a rat died in my hair and like I was buried in my pajamas who’s gins be happy with that. He wasn’t attracted to that and I wasn’t attracted to a man who lives in pajamas and slides. It’s just not attractive to me. I was raised traditionally where u funny leave the house without getting ready properly or do things during the day.
Problem with women nowadays is taking advice from their friends who don’t know anything about real relationships.. it’s best that both couples talk this through together
Sadia, I love a lot of your content, I'd like to point out, from my experience and observations with women who are mother's. When a mother finds herself single, about to be single or Chad at the office is showing her attention, best believe those Mums are making time to go to the gym. They're definitely trying to get back in the market. So, with children or not, mother's need to consider that.
I have a question for you: if a woman has a child and then puts aside everything for in order to raise her child, which many women have to do, what are the effects of that child leaving once they are grown up? I began thinking about this after watching Season 35 Episode 2 of the simpsons, which has a similar question. how would you deal with depression and a lack of purpose that comes from that? also this does happen to men as well, but women are typically much more attached to their child resulting in a greater feeling of loss
What frustrated me about my last relationship was that my girlfriend would get dressed up to go to the office but then immediately take it all off as soon as she got home. Thanks.
Why that would frustrate you? I am a woman, i am the same . Office suit makes me uncomfortable and stressful. You may think women look good in it, but i sont like myself in a office suit.
Work clothes are uncomfortable. Maybe communicate with your next girlfriend and she may find something to wear at home that’s comfortable for her and still appealing to you.
I was married for 5 weeks.i nearly lost everything.Since then in 25 years .I have stay single If knew you my story .You would be shocked.It nearly cost me my life.sorry I will never trust a woman.again.I have never g ot over it.Goddiggers.Women destroyed men s life's.
Loving relationship is possible only between a nice guy and a traditional average woman. A bad boy or a hot model who has access to dozens of other options would most probably explore or wanna explore his/her options. A healthy relationship is only possible between two individuals who lack options and attractiveness.
There are many men out there many that get a great woman and she is all focused on him and pays a lot of attention to him and they still cheat so I don't think we have this in a bag!?! However, maybe the empath man might be like this and he gets himself into a tight situation cuz he's an empath and then has to get out of it and he doesn't know how so he cheats
I am 65 now.i have been single now for 25 years.I was used once .Never bother again.Sorry I don't trust.Not all .But women rip men off.My car is more faithful.sorry that's my attitude.
Age doesn’t always bring wisdom 😅 there are 50 year olds who probably have less wisdom than a 20 year old. “Wherever you go you will find your teacher, as long as you have the eyes to see and ears to hear”
She describes exactly male friends that pop up out of nowhere trying to flirt and actually making you sick to your core with their desierstion and report them to police for sexual harassment
Humans over complicate everything! When two people meet and does not over complicate things, they are the ones who are successful, otherwise it is a nightmare being in a relationship with too much expectations. Too much psychology is mentally draining.
I have after listening to you guys do think that it’s not really beneficial knowing Everything about a person ! I think trust is very important ! Living in each others pockets Not Healthy ! Life takes its toll on all of US ! I do think that for the most part People become Lazy ! We should not become Lazy about something so Important as Life ! I Don’t think it’s realistic to expect Unconditional Love from a Spouse ! I think it’s important to work at enjoying Life Together !😃 Godbless you ! You really are a wonderful human being 🙏🏻❤️
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John 3:16 Modern English Version (MEV)
16 “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.
John 14:6New International Version (NIV)
6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Acts 16:31 New International Version (NIV)
31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved-you and your household.”
John 3:36
New international version
36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life,(A) but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.
John 20:28King James Version (KJV)
28 And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God.
Acts 4:12 New International Version (NIV)
12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”
1 John 2:22King James Version (KJV)
22 Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son.
2 John 7 New International Version (NIV)
7 I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist.
i'm que no tiene nada que hacer para ser más fácil y que no 😢 1:41 3:01 3:03
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Any man or woman who has a truly loving relationship is blessed indeed.
That’s me 😊 so grateful
@@Vener349 well, amen baby ! Don't lose it !
No. “Having a loving relationship” doesn’t determine whether you are ‘blessed’ or not. We are all already whole on our own and have deep love within us.
@@justnow4846 I'm not gonna argue with that. Preach ! 😉
I jus cheated ma man and I feel very bad 😢
“They fall in love with the feeling of being desired. That’s why they fall prey to gold diggers bc they know what they are doing.” This made me even think of dancers who tell men what they want to hear and get the man to keep pulling out more money. I remember my ex (going through mid-life crisis) said he wanted to know if he still had it. It’s important we communicate our needs.
Romantic love is fake.
*It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is.*
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden". I have studied men before.
It’s not rocket science
Love and respect yourself and your body
If you respect yourself you won’t let anyone treat you badly
Respect your body
Look after it
Don’t let just anyone use it, if you don’t value it nobody else will.
Be kind to yourself and others who respect and care for you, and don’t waste your time with people that don’t.
Preach ! 😀
For men it's more rocket science than you imagine
well said👌
@@ADIMontenegrohow? why?
@@iamweebo1349 because we have to play games even if we don't want to
13:48 If you don't have the ability to walk away & the relationship breaks, you leave confused if you didn't give enough or were incompatible. This just opened up my brain!
I could never cheat on my husband. He puts me first in every decision and contains my heart and soul as his most precious treasure. There is also just no other man reaching up to him. But I am starting to realize how unfair and hard it is for men in general in this society. Because of a few narcissists, they are put down, misjudged, and outcast easier than women, not being better or even worse! Very interesting talk. Lovely women those two. Could listen for hours. Thank you❤
This is probably the first comment I have seen ever that really sympathizes for men. I have a wonderful step father. A very loving and giving brother. A dedicated, hard working, protective husband. A son that I love with all my being. The way I see women complain and bash men honest just bothers me so much. Even videos that are meant to help women with men by getting us to understand them, you just see they go and complain and their comments are almost always “whataboutism”. Many of these videos helped me understand the psychology of men and it’s helped me tremendously. I also see that in acknowledging the needs of my husband as a man and improving myself, he too has been so much better to me. We need to help each other bring out the best versions of ourselves but it just seems like the trend is to shit on men when they can.
I never felt desired in the last 20 years and lost my desire for her. Getting divorced
May God bless you forever ❤
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other.
I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other. Most couples are too embarrassed to be naked around each other and have sex with each other.
Sadia. My wife and I would like to show appreciation for the work you do. You are doing a great thing for humanity, even if you do not see it. In life what goes around, comes around. Karma is real. Expect something good, you deserve it.
She truly is does amazing work and changing lives…..
@@daniellamoreno3616 The best thing is that she provides constructive advice for people. It is not just about "don't do this" but also "do that". Showing the path to a healthier way of doing things.
And Sadia has a grasp on reality, she analyzed with a down to Earth approach, and she talks about her findings, but these are not ordinary lose findings, because she connects the dots.
We need to accept no one is perfect...when we accept that life gets alot easier....
Men can do that. Women today cannot.
Exactly, men do not expect perfection and we usually have realistic expectations. It’s women that have astronomical and unrealistic expectations.
So it means also the men contributed to parenting wrong too.... or both parents, wrongly parenting the daughter so their son in law has no chance.
based on the comments..
Why all my femnale and male cousins have happy marriages, because the fathers did good job, raising them the values...so its not just women but fathers who have think twice when implementing values into new generation.. :)
Very very true if a woman complains, ignores and shows no interest in being with you then someone else shows attention and concern for you sincere or not, it will look very appealing.
So a wife can provide that.
Sadia is #1 in the world. For sure there is no better person for solving and explaining this kind of problems.She answer every question fast ,without any delay.
3:19 Attraction is emotional connection and live. It’s not about physical only, or novelty. Both partners need to take care of themselves and stay fit, healthy and put together. But love and emotional intimacy is what creates desire.
That's not quite true. You can have desire for someone you don't love and don't even know on an intimate level! You can have desire for someone you just met or just saw across the room! You do not need an emotional connection or 'LOVE' to have desire.
@@godswordevangelism well Said
Right off the bat you nailed it, we too need to feel loved and appreciated
Sadia is extremely gifted on this stuff. But personally as a man if a woman cheated on me No 1 I'd be gutted. 2 The humiliation and betrayal would be depressing. 3 I could not look at that woman the same way again as in my feelings for her I just couldn't. 4 I could forgive maybe eventually but it just could not ever be the same again, because that thought will always be there 'She went off with another fella'.... It is what it is there's no other way around it... So man or woman think before you do something stupid...
There is always 2 to tango...
This happened to me after 7 years of being together. Why not communicate or end it? Why actually do it behind my back? Can't control other people. But the damage done is huge. It's like seeing the person as a stranger than a person you used to love.
@@pawel3241believe or not, She tried to communicate with you, but you wont listern. Or when she tried to communicate, you were dismissive. How do i know? I dated a guy a few years ago, he had the same story as yours. I found he was extremely difficult to communicate. Luckily, i was one that brave enough to end things. His ex took his money and went off with another guy after being together for 7 years.
I totally agree and I feel the same way as a woman. the humiliation, the betrayal, the lies. and every memory you had change after the partner cheating. but I would say it can be because some was not loving enough but even if you are loving. it doesn't stop people from cheating or guarantee they won't. you can get cheated on even if you were the most loving and appreciating partner in the world. so, I don't agree that it needs two to tango. sometimes it is just the cheater being a cheater. there is no reason to blame a perfectly loving partner for the other one cheating.
100 percent. Me ex was seeing a sugar daddy on the side. I dumped her she begged on her knees. I cut her out for good. I'm territorial and loyal, enjoy having no kids n being alone when he replaces u.
I like Sadia because she is an actual psychologist not a woman speaking out of trauma or generational curses passed down to them by narcissistic mothers, or broken dysfunctional environments they were raised up in. I enjoy advice from those who give it in a wholesome way, not in a toxic agressive passive manner. Sex is human nature thats how i see it. But if one has low libido for you get a hormone lab test panel, many medical professionals fail to check testosterone levels starting in our 30's. Testosterone starts to decrease at 30's. Perimenopausel women or endropausel men also suffer from low libido. Get those hormones things in check fast because this leads to insecurity. A woman or man should be healthy psychologically and psychologically, especially spiritually.
Sadia should be the only person allowed to write relationship books. I can’t tell you how much it would have changed my life had I heard her earlier.
Esther Perel is also excellent.
Same!! I love her. We need more public figures and teachers like her.
Yeah, but she misses the mark on some very important things about men. At the end of the day, she is not a man so her understanding will be limited.
@@Yay-hovahI don’t care about how she’s limited on the ideal of men, I just care about how she’s educating me on women.
@@Yay-hovah I doubt it. She is very perceptive and informed and I am sure she has heard most of it. One cannot repeat everything in a short clip and the way she answers questions contributes towards the flow of the interview. Esther Perez and Sadia are really impressive in this field.
Cheating is unforgivable, end of story, you can't forgive someone who's share the body with someone else, no mater what is the circumstances.
I have three children with different mothers all because of being unable to forgive.
@@kabelontjana2577 I don’t blame you, I would never forgive cheating. I don’t care how many kids we have.
Lies
What if the man never slept with the women or the woman he got caught giving his interest to due to his primary girlfriend who was unable to forgive him for his past but kept reinforcing the behavior by bringing up the past so much that it caused him to go into a mental guilt prison,fear and pressure that created an emasculating mental and emotional torture room in his mind for years fear from his shameful and inexcusable way to find temporary remedy through other women expressing their interest in him to increase its value interpersonally
While she was verbally abusive with sudden outburst.
But then at times would be loving and delicate.
But then as she gets her breast surgery she becomes more confident and finds herself value raise enough so she could find the strength to make that decision to separate.
It seems like the real question is when women get cheated on and they don't separate are they keeping the man as a placeholder and rather trauma Bond until they find confidence in whatever way by whatever means to discard that man.
It's not right either way but what are your thoughts?.
I'm not supporting the actions of either side when it comes to offending one another in a relationship.
Male or female
I’m 25 and been single for a year now. I’m sorry, but no man has approached me that I feel is worthy enough. In that case I much rather stay single for longer and grow as a person and mentally till the right one comes around.
Good luck
Don't give up, the right person will come your way soon 🎉
@@judenneji7340 update, still single haha no rush trust me. Thank you 🙏🏻
Men are visual creatures! That’s it… they like to look at beautiful things. Besides taking care of your health (mind, body & spirit) is a sign of self love ❤️
Women are also visual creatures and most men do not take care of their appearance.
@@theresakunda4407Women are not to the same extent as men that’s why men can get away with not taking care of their appearance.
@@kareem199928that’s false. Women CREATE beauty because THEY LOVE TO BE SURROUNDED BY BEAUTIFUL THINGS. This includes bodies/people. You see the pretty girl is hanging around other pretty girls. WHY is that? So she can tell HER friends, to get with YOUR friends.. so WE can be friends. 💋 This also explains why so many little things catered to women come with glitter and an array of different PRETTY colors.. The industry capitalizes all things visually pretty TO WOMEN….
Competition is fierce but you can’t compete with a bad body crew full of other girls with bad bodies. You won’t get the kind of man’s attention you want and will have to settle on sloppy looking men. We love beauty… and to look beautiful on the arm of our man not Quasimodo… that’s for a reason. And the girls that’s say “No not all of us.. that’s not true..” go get with those girls cuz THEY will settle but you will be mad though cuz the pretty one is not on your arm… Go ahead and think the pretty ones are superficial. What better way of understanding the fable of the Fox and the sour Grapes…..
@@kareem199928 I wouldn’t be attracted to a man that didn’t take good care of himself. I do and am attracted to others who also do.
@@hiannahgus574 You can only say that because in 2024 being well groomed has become quite common. You probably wouldn’t care as much if we were in the 1800s.
i really respect this woman, she always supports us
As a man. I was in a relationship where I was cheated on. I was immediately turned off by her, time nor sex could mend the relationship. Loyalty is very high on my list.
Stopping videos in the middle feels like a psychological trick to keep us watching
A big no, because you can also communicate with your partner instead of “analyzing” why someone cheated..no one has the right to cheat. If you are not ready for a true relationship..stay single and don’t mess with someone’s heart.
Cheating is not a "right"...people are faulty and immature and they fuck up....sometimes more than once. It's terrible, but it's what IS and It's up to the other partner what they are willing to work with and/or put up with.
@@gabrielakarl3859 Yes, people should respect their selves more and be willing to walk away when a situation like this happens. Saying yes to someone who did you dirty means saying no to yourself.
😅 yes if you have someone who's confidential with your secrets you have a keeper because they love and respect you
Just hearing you talk about a Man as a cared about Human being has definitely made my Own life so much more fulfilled 🙏🏻❤️
Hey Sadia, I'm 21 and you have helped me a lot when it comes to relationship advice and where to look for the signs.
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@@dineomoitsi8341why
YOU MUST BE SINGLE
How I would love to be in a strong, respectful relationship with someone. I feel like I have so much love to give, but the dating world these days is wild! I’ve been single for a year and before that was in a 4 year relationship… dating was soo different even just 4 years ago. I’m trying not to lose hope.
I feel you I'm in a similar boat but it's been almost three years for me now. I've learned so much about warning signs I ignored previously it's challenging to find ppl who aren't setting them off now. So many ppl are not actively putting work and effort into themselves let alone others/relationships
because dating now is so overtaken by everybody following whatever teen vogue says or another magazine. When everybody is copy pasting its all going to fail...
Same here but it’s almost two years single. And I’m not rushing into anything. It takes time to find a good person
This works both ways. Women wants to feel desired too.
You came to improve or shit on men?
Except it usually women who lose desire for sex first. Especially after marriage or their first child.
Be curious about each other learn something new about each other
9:00 good to know the reason guys should never forgive after discovering they're being cheated on.
She feels you'll never leave, and you'll end up hating yourself.
I don't know the men she knows but must men I know including myself, don't want a woman who's cheated. Once another man has had you, stay with him
I'm a woman and I totally understand that! Once someone else has touched your spouse you no longer want or desire them. Like a mama bird no longer wants her chicks if they've been handled by someone else.
I'm glad I found you through TikTok
I really enjoy how to talk about human behavior 😊❤
Jacintaakee I am finding stillness and suspending the chatter of my thoughts, which are seemingly pulling me in all directions . Intuitive senses are trustworthy and can become more adeptly attuned , too . 💆♂️
@@byronryan4216Yes, trust your intuition. It is an amazing gift! ❤️
My ex wife stopped desiring me , stopped making me her #1 priority
Hence she became my ex! I couldn’t continue in the marriage. I pleaded her with two years to have a realization and make some changes and amends but she took it for granted till the day i ended it!
I believe it started in her perimenopausel years, I bet. Hormones play so much in emotions. Usually, women start to act differently when their hormones are jacked up, especially 40's omg it's crazy.
I had an ex husband who did that too. Some people are dense and stubborn. Then at the last minute when it’s over, they suddenly want to make the effort you’ve been asking for!
@@jessicacorrea7221 omg always the same excuse when women do that
Beloved child,
I see the pain and the hurt that you carry within your heart.
I see the tears that you have shed,
and I am moved with compassion for you.
I want to heal your broken heart
and to bind up all your wounds.
I want to restore the joy of your salvation
and to give you a garment of praise,
instead of a spirit of despair.
I want to comfort you and bring you peace
in the midst of your storms.
I understand the struggles and the challenges that you face in this life.
I know the temptations and the trials that you endure.
I will never leave you nor forsake you.
I am your refuge and your strength,
an ever-present help in times of trouble.
I want you to know that I have great plans for your life.
I want to use you to touch the lives of others,
to bring healing and hope to the brokenhearted,
and to set the captives free.
I want to use you to bring light into the darkness,
and to be a beacon of hope to a lost and dying world.
My child,
I want you to know that My love for you is unconditional and unchanging.
I want you to know that you are My beloved child, and that I delight in you.
I want you to know that you are precious in My sight,
and that you are more valuable to Me
than the finest gold and the most precious jewels...
I want you to know that I rejoice over you with singing.
I want you to know that I am always with you,
and that I will never leave you nor forsake you.
I want you to know that I am your constant companion,
and that I will guide you and direct your steps.
I want you to know that I will give you the wisdom and the understanding that you need
to navigate the challenges of this life.
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and that I will comfort you in all your troubles.
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who binds up your wounds, and who sets you free
from the bondage of sin and its consequences.
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and who brings you back into the fold of My love.
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when they are in alignment with My will and My purposes.
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and that I am a God of more than enough.
My child,
I want you to trust in Me with all your heart,
and to lean not on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Me,
and I will make your paths straight.
I will guide you with My eye,
and I will lead you to the place I have prepared for you...
I will never leave you nor forsake you.
With all My love,
God.
I’m sorry, but it's not about how you look or think sometimes. Men often lose attraction to their partners over time due to a lack of curiosity. Even if you are the prettiest or smartest, it may not work in this moment.and its not that easy to keep curiosity while you live with someone already :)
Love between lovers is conditional love between a parent and child is unconditional
2:00 Physical vs intellectual attraction
3:00 Stay curious about each other
6:00 Women can’t reverse sexually
9:40 Public and private info
12:40 Love and surrender
14:10 Multicultural dating in Dubai
I love Sadia's honesty. Thank you!
Agreed, cheating is unforgivable. You can leave gracefully.... you don't have to lie about what you've done.
I have found in the many arenas of life, prioritizing what one can put on the table rather than what one wants to take off the table works really well IF both parties are friends and both parties contribute. Otherwise ....
Given stats showing that marital therapists and psychologists have equally or higher rates of divorce, I’d like to also see more successfully married psychologists and therapists sharing advice and insights
I like your comment Sometimes I don't think it's possible, But I believe Some teach can make it possible for some. And to agree with you believe me, I'm no expert. You know that but I enjoyed your comment❤ Really. I love honesty. It says a lot about you. I'm sure you'll see what you're looking for I want to wish you well. I'm a million miles away From you but for some reason I get your Vibe. I fought that way myself before. I hope this lady.
Keep skeep giving advice because men truly need it. We just don't get it young, Hopefully now we will. I really enjoyed your comment thank you.😊
"Men need more friends" - thanks. We are not women. If your partner is your best friend and they betray you then it's even more trauma.
Thatswhy your partner is your partner and your friends and your friends. One person cannot and should not fullfill all your needs.
@@jarkachalmovianska7812 Good point, but as Sadia said, women have more social. support.
TRAUMA doesn't have a place in a relationship! Even if he has an another girl or woman, you'd have to pretend nothing happens, you'd have to understand the needs of a polygamous man! Do "never" crucify him, for something he does NOT understand, or not in control of! howdy this is it!
cause we are open with our feelings, I hope you find a friend you can open up too
@@natalieboult3122Most men have friends they can talk to about things troubling them, it’s simply that your wife or girlfriend cannot be that person. It’s in a woman’s nature to weaponize damning information so a guy is better off confiding in his best friend (a male).
To cultivate a loving relationship, prioritize open communication, mutual respect, trust, shared interests, emotional support, quality time together, and maintaining individuality while fostering connection and intimacy.
I'm just freshly separated and we were together for 13 years I have always wanted and desired my partner even after 2 children, we love each other etc. Then one day she told me I don't love you any more, blame me for things that I did to her 10 years ago with exes, but then at the same time tells me I'm a great dad, but we cant be with each other any more.
Yea seems like 6 months or 16 years. Whatever you did she didn’t “like” at the beginning is going to be brought up for whatever true reason she doesn’t want you anymore. I’m recently going through the same and it seems like everything is transactional in todays world
Divine woman. Spiritually tapped in. I would say goddess kween🛐High vibratory frequency❤️
This was pretty spot on !❤
The equating sexuality with a great meal is everything. But, honestly, sometimes all you want is a quick sandwich. I feel the secret is in the connection. And when I'm hungry, I'm gonna connect to that sandwich tooth, gum, and tongue 👅
life hurts
so much trauma
so much suffering
heartache and despair
rage and grief
I can no longer bear the darkness
I feel you 😢
are you ok?
I have lots of different trauma too. Relationships are painful.
Bless you
@@LisaFoster-rl3fv I'm not okay. are you? wanna say more?
I'm not too bad at the moment. Not been good lately though. Thought about ending my life many times lately. Very dark and lonely. So what's going on with you? If you dont mind me asking ?
@@LisaFoster-rl3fv same. perpetually suicidal. I pray we both heal.
People are betrayers. The Creator is always with you no matter what
I don’t think men are more forgiving with cheating
Stay curious about each other ❤ and serve each other.
It is absolutely true about infidelity. If a man or woman are missing something in their marriage, they will seek to find it elsewhere. They both need attention and both need to feel desired. If the woman finds what she needs from another man she will begin developing emotional attachment to him and will reluctantly go back to her husband. If the other man is willing to take her, she will never go back. The man, on the other hand, will stay in his marriage unless/until his wife finds out. In either case, it is extremely hard to forgive and get past it. I have been cheated on twice by my husband and we are now heading for divorce.
Love the topic of surrender & autonomy
Body game is always an important factor for attraction. Shout out to Uncle Willis.
I been there. 17 years going and it’s a roller coaster ride. Luckily we both are very complacent and don’t want anything other than us at this age. Wrenches always get tossed in here and there but always just roll them off and keep moving forward. If I wasn’t with my wife I would just be single. The cess pool of dating just sounds exhausting and like a 2nd job in this generation. I feel bad for our kids. Hopefully the dynamics of the dating world shifts into a different direction At some point. “Swipe right” just sounds like STDs coming right at ya.
OMG I would love to meet Sadhi and be blessed with her presence.
And think even when you have kids you can stay in shape and be happy🥰it’s just a new life having kids
In short: BE A GODDESS!!!
Being all that to my partner and he still listens to interest in me after 4 years in our relationship.
Goed werk Marleen, super dat je jouw ervaring van je proceswerk kan delen, taboes eraf, nu de maskers nog
I would like to see this lady be married successfully for over 10 years. Then what she says will have some value coming out of her mouth
Wishing you all true happiness in 2024 and beyond ❤
Naa hard work and handling bullshit is my goal
✨🌟⭐️🌈💥☀️☀️🌤️😊
She gives a lot to the world but i just can't stop wondering if she's really happy? if by beeing so smart and right in many ways she has managed to find someone on the same level. Just by analysing the way she looks and talks, even though she gets so much attention i believe that at the end of the day she is single and she is channeling all the energy in what she does.
She's taken n in relationship dig deeper n get to know before U misjudged n she's certified psychologist
Always their is some one i only make eye contact also i think about him always what you think guysssss
We men are very simple, straight and easy to deal with. You women need to learn how to deal with it!
for all of history women had be emotionally tougher to raise kids and devious to keep their husbands from prying women. So yeah women are biologically so not for no reason
There are so many women who stay looking gorgeous even after kids. I love makeup and fashion and I love gym but I can’t imagine not trying to look great for m my man all the time. I want his compliments and I want him to want me and if I look like a rat died in my hair and like I was buried in my pajamas who’s gins be happy with that. He wasn’t attracted to that and I wasn’t attracted to a man who lives in pajamas and slides. It’s just not attractive to me. I was raised traditionally where u funny leave the house without getting ready properly or do things during the day.
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Outstanding communication skills
Thank You Sadia As Salaam Olaykum 🤲
Problem with women nowadays is taking advice from their friends who don’t know anything about real relationships.. it’s best that both couples talk this through together
Ma’m, you are so good at your craft.
This goes both ways.
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I will listen if I find out if you are in a good loving relationship
Sadia, I love a lot of your content, I'd like to point out, from my experience and observations with women who are mother's. When a mother finds herself single, about to be single or Chad at the office is showing her attention, best believe those Mums are making time to go to the gym. They're definitely trying to get back in the market. So, with children or not, mother's need to consider that.
I have a question for you: if a woman has a child and then puts aside everything for in order to raise her child, which many women have to do, what are the effects of that child leaving once they are grown up? I began thinking about this after watching Season 35 Episode 2 of the simpsons, which has a similar question. how would you deal with depression and a lack of purpose that comes from that? also this does happen to men as well, but women are typically much more attached to their child resulting in a greater feeling of loss
It's called Empty Nest Syndrome.
You need to have a life beside the child
man need more friends, true, i subscribed.i love you, i love the way you talk and speak the truth.
What frustrated me about my last relationship was that my girlfriend would get dressed up to go to the office but then immediately take it all off as soon as she got home. Thanks.
You never married her.
Why that would frustrate you? I am a woman, i am the same . Office suit makes me uncomfortable and stressful. You may think women look good in it, but i sont like myself in a office suit.
@@jocelyncao9233 how many men do you follow on youtube ?
The last thing I wanna do at the end of a work day is stay in my work clothes
Work clothes are uncomfortable. Maybe communicate with your next girlfriend and she may find something to wear at home that’s comfortable for her and still appealing to you.
The best way is to watch videos on TH-cam.
Great points …love is great guys ..
Awwww I desire my man to take out garbage in time😂
Relationships.Dont bother.Stay single.
Hi , why..?....
I was married for 5 weeks.i nearly lost everything.Since then in 25 years .I have stay single If knew you my story .You would be shocked.It nearly cost me my life.sorry I will never trust a woman.again.I have never g ot over it.Goddiggers.Women destroyed men s life's.
Good luck with that 😅
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@@rosswardrop465It must have sucked badly, just don't lose hope man, focus on yourself and the right person will show up eventually
2 women get together can have a long convo. Genetic fact :)
Loving relationship is possible only between a nice guy and a traditional average woman. A bad boy or a hot model who has access to dozens of other options would most probably explore or wanna explore his/her options.
A healthy relationship is only possible between two individuals who lack options and attractiveness.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AMEN
Amazing speech and clarity
Hello ladies, Amazing interview! 😊
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thanx alot for your advice sister
I’d love to hear the rest of the answer of the last question.
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There are many men out there many that get a great woman and she is all focused on him and pays a lot of attention to him and they still cheat so I don't think we have this in a bag!?! However, maybe the empath man might be like this and he gets himself into a tight situation cuz he's an empath and then has to get out of it and he doesn't know how so he cheats
The truth was spoken here
Step 1: have Sadia's look
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I am 65 now.i have been single now for 25 years.I was used once .Never bother again.Sorry I don't trust.Not all .But women rip men off.My car is more faithful.sorry that's my attitude.
Thank you for your wisdom, Sadia
Wisdom? She hasn't hit 40 yet. 😄
@@10.11.9have you?
Age doesn’t always bring wisdom 😅 there are 50 year olds who probably have less wisdom than a 20 year old. “Wherever you go you will find your teacher, as long as you have the eyes to see and ears to hear”
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Good questions important lessons
She describes exactly male friends that pop up out of nowhere trying to flirt and actually making you sick to your core with their desierstion and report them to police for sexual harassment
Humans over complicate everything! When two people meet and does not over complicate things, they are the ones who are successful, otherwise it is a nightmare being in a relationship with too much expectations. Too much psychology is mentally draining.
very informative
When selfish to be loved by a women is simply cause we scared that we can't dare to break there heart.. ❤😢
I have after listening to you guys do think that it’s not really beneficial knowing Everything about a person !
I think trust is very important !
Living in each others pockets Not Healthy !
Life takes its toll on all of US !
I do think that for the most part People become Lazy !
We should not become Lazy about something so Important as Life !
I Don’t think it’s realistic to expect Unconditional Love from a Spouse !
I think it’s important to work at enjoying Life Together !😃
Godbless you !
You really are a wonderful human being 🙏🏻❤️
Really it works both ways.
A women with daddy issues can be intimate with another man without all those feelings.
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