What high value women and men look for
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she has an outstanding laser focused skill to articulate hard to explain men's feels in a very concise way. Absolutely brilliant. Grateful to find her channel.
Exactly! Love her
@@PhoneNHe ❤️❤️❤️
@@sadiapsychology This is softcore truth lol. You only say things with partial sincerity. Or maybe you're deluded. At this point, I don't even know if you're grifting or just clueless.
@@sadiapsychology At the end of the day, any man that finds your content will eventually come to us for the rest of what's missing, so at least there's that.
Thanks for carrying the water for us. 😂😂👌
Dont be a Simp! What you learned from Tate bros.?
This woman is a bar of gold. I hope to god I meet someone like that.
There are many women like her, like me, like us.... but we do get constantly overlooked, most men want the goods but dont want to work for them. There is too much choice out there, and as Sadia says in the conversation, for most its too hard to work for the high value woman, but i say that the things that are priceless in this life, are the hardest to get indeed. You need to have a clear idea of who you are, what your priorities in life are, you need self control, patience and perserverance, in a world of fast living and fast reward you have to make your choices. I choose to live slowly and be very very selective with who i mingle with.
She is a plastic surgeon favorite ., getting a degree doesn’t make someone an expert on anything., plenty of very dull people with degrees, I know that I see them at the university daily ., walking with flip flops and crop tops to get their masters degrees.!
@@BlueskyDenverAt least they are good in one thing. What you got?
@@BlueskyDenver Lol let them learn their lesson. Their imagination is unbound. They think she won't do them like the rest. 😂😂😂😂 She's no exception.
@@BlueskyDenveryou sound like you got the short end of the stick in both departments. As you know, that is not her fault and you are on her page (?). Little tip: try to be nice to people. All of them, especially women if you are one yourself. And if you got nothing good to say, then do say nothing.
Sadia has to be the one who got away! Shoutout to all the high value people watching this realizing you'll find who you're looking for eventually. May we all feel love in time ❤
I love how she thinks and I 100% agree with her statements. She is so well educated.
I am at about 80% but she always has an interesting insight and she is developing.
@@StimParavane Sadia Khan speaks in nervous 🫦 🙈 funny girl
The fact that nobody talks about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.
Wat does this book say can u give a gist of it please
I second that.
I thoroughly appreciate the unedited advertisement in this. It's a blooper moment of someone I heavily appreciate and respect. It was likely unintentional but the humanizing moment was glorious and I further appreciate you more. Thank you for being you Sadia. This is a great clip. I love sharing these with my guy friends but especially my girl friends. I feel your input is really helpful in getting women to understand the male challenges but also having healthier expectations in relationships. Also, for males to have similar healthier expectations....I just feel my girl friends are more open to listening. The guys are so limited mentally more often and aren't willing to adjust their approaches.
Wow! You for real ;)
Hahaha I just assumed she was high when she edited it (or, more accurately, didn't) 😂
@@V1x0r87 Not true actually.
Women are usually more likely to be offended at the thought of adjusting their approaches and expectations or even improving themselves while it is pretty much expected from men to engage in a constant quest of self-improvement.
Look all the angry women in some of her videos and you will definitely see where I am coming from.
As a dating coach, I have found that women are far more open to being helped than men are. Men often need to be either into self-development already when they come to me for coaching, or they need to be in such pain that they are so willing to make the changes they need to make. On the other hand, women are far more open to self-development when they come to me, even if they previously hadn’t been working on themselves. They are far more open to instruction and criticism than men are.
She has a very beautiful tone of voice❤️
I could listen to Sadia all day! So full of women, knowledge and guidance. Thank you for always speaking up for the small percentage of good women ♥
Her splendid articulation of complex concepts keeps you glued to her.
Sadia u obviously Made a good choice by Not sleeeping around n avoiding alcohol is Always a plus😊😊 there is nothing as wonderful n peacefull like preserving Ur body
@sadia 7:30 your editor forgot to edit your plug. Great content! Thank you
It’s a new wave of editing nowadays to show you that it doesn’t have to always be perfect, especially with ads it can get messy getting the lines correct. The part is intentional.
She was glitching
7:32 whoever is editing your videos didn’t edit your ad just letting you know! I love your content & message ❤
It’s a new wave of editing nowadays to show you that it doesn’t have to always be perfect, especially with ads it can get messy getting the lines correct. The part is intentional.
@@ianvitalisinteresting. Duly noted
@sadiapsychology honey you forgot to edit your advertisement and you did a bunch of retakes. I love you and love your work and think you’re awesome! Thanks for all the great content.
A woman’s beauty makes her high value not just to men but women too
It's applicable if you view a human only at a superficial level. Don't you think ?
Of course, a good looking woman will sweep anyone off their feet .. but the decision whether you will be with them or not, isn't a superficial decision ..
You get to know the person and if the external beauty is complimented by beauty of character (honesty, integrity, understanding, truthful) then the deal is sealed 🎉
If that was true, entire Kardashian clan women will be considered high value which they are clearly not!
Sadia is such a gem!
You've never struggled with words but it was nice to see that human touch happen when we least expected. It was pretty long and I was actually waiting to see if Sadia would fumble over the simplest words on purpose for that long 😅 but it was cute and human, bless you!
Sadia is a high value women! So much class elegance and intelligence! MashaAllah
Men are attracted to women's physical beauty AND youth, not because they are superficial qualities as some would argue, but because they are cues for their fertility and reproductive health. Women prioritize and value men's good financial prospects/economic resources and social status similarly because these are cues for resources which are evolutionarily advantageous to the survival of women and their children.
But are you talking about true, natural beauty or an artificial one? Are you putting these two in the same basket?
@@flaviovms Good question. My comments reflect the findings of Dr. David Buss' research on Sex Differences in Human Mate Preferences: Evolutionary Hypothesis Tested in 37 Cultures. It would be interesting to do a similar study on non-cosmetically enhanced physical beauty and cosmetically enhanced physical beauty.
Truth
@@v9b23j cool idea! What’s more beautiful a fake rose or real one ?
@@flaviovms artificial beauty capitalizes on the features which evolution have conditioned us to be attracted too, e.g. cosmetics to artifically make women look younger because youthfulness is attractive
Sadia is simply outstanding and a phenomenon. I don't praise people easily, especially not women, but this one is articulate and stunning. 😂❤. Keep up the great work 😅.
Why are you specific about not praising women ? 🤔
Even I have experienced this one. Being from Eastern culture (India) and having lived in the West (US), I've observed that people in the west (not everyone ofc) go for short term pleasures over long term happiness which is built slowly and steadily. Also, excessively focused on improving ones own life over helping family members, relatives etc.
I found it interesting to see such differences among human cultures.
as a westerner I cant tell you that your observation is correct - but please recognise that this is a modern phenomenon and it wasn't always like this, we have been corrupted
The last 5 min of the video has answers to many questions…thanks Sadia 💯🌟
Thank you for being real Sadia.
To err is human. You looked cute fumbling over your words haha! I hope you get a good editor. Tysm! 💖
It was never supposed to make it to this podcast..It was supposed to be edited before it is sent out
@@siyabongakhumalo4492 Forgive us oh god of perfection! 🙏🏻 Teach us your perfect ways!
@@Nocturnal_Lorena 🤣🤣😂😂 Really ?
@@siyabongakhumalo4492 😁🏳️
Hi Sadia, love your content. You forgot to edit from 7:20 -7:39...keep up the good work...👍
Read this Sadia
LMAO
I thought I was tripping lool 😂
It’s a new wave of editing nowadays to show you that it doesn’t have to always be perfect, especially with ads it can get messy getting the lines correct. The part is intentional.
@@ianvitalis nice psyop
Such an interesting perspective and equally interesting takes. It's some of the observations I've made throughout the past few years, but Sadia eloquently states everything hitting the nail on the head. I have a feeling that Sadia is going to spearhead this new wave of the information revolution, helping millions of people kind of wake up from this sort of relationship slumber that social media has exacerbated
WOW! Couldn’t have said it better ;)
This woman knows her stuff,
I know exactly what she’s saying regarding the reward part, but a woman who is modest etc will always have respect. She might not get the bags, attention etc but she will be highly respected and that cannot be bought
You're pretty much the only woman on earth who is honest about the truth for the most part from a woman's point of view.
What a well spoken woman, respect 🫡
Sadia is the #1 Woman on Earth. Men will benefit listening to her.
Basic is honestly...whatever comes in wheater you will survive it to build the relation up and polish it to higher level in an new family tree🤗🧚♂️
May lots of men can listen to her, that could make a huge difference. Talk is cheap, Yes
She’s telling nothing but the truth. I used to date what I thought was a high value man, 6’4”, came from a nice family, graduated with a degree in engineering. However, the man had such low self-esteem it was suffocating at times. Being self-actualized is more than the physical and it’s interesting how many people realize that but at the same time don’t.
Edit: 19:43 my ex was also like this, he did not support his group of male friends lol. Not even his best friend. One day we found out his best friend was homeless, he didn’t even bother to call him. He shrugged and said he’s fine, he figured it out since he’s living in a gym in the meantime.
Why was he so insecure? That’s sad
@@scarlettkhan9667 I think I recall he said that a girl he used to date called him ugly. And on top of that he kept calling himself ugly because his facial features aren’t normally seen as desirable. It was sad, I really did love him for who he was inside then started to love everything about him. He was the one man I could talk to so effortlessly day and night but his insecurities were too damaging to the point he was starting to down me for my looks and talking about me behind my back. It was very hurtful. And I don’t know how he’s doing since I refused to be friends but I do hope he learns to be better.
The fact that he couldn’t empathize with his best friend’s situation says it all. People with highly narcissistic traits lack empathy and are highly insecure due to trauma and social conditioning . Self value or self worth comes from within and is not contingent on external factors . Think of the cancer researcher that finds breakthroughs that change the course of treatments available to cancer patients ? They may not achieve fame or fortune however aren’t they providing high value to the world ?
@@erikarego1323 I’m sure his friends have come to realize that about him now. He not only said that to me, he also said it while we were on the phone with one of their mutual friends from church, she literally just said wow and shook her head. After thinking about all these interactions, I told myself I will never empower selfish, carless, narcissistic men. Edit: Not even so called friends and family.
@@WacoBeautyQueen you seem like a kind , empathetic lady and don’t be so hard on yourself for loving him . I’m sorry if I can across as judgemental in any way . I too have had similar lessons with men thinking love and kindness can help heal them and suffered abuse from this . Somehow these lessons shape us and give us more wisdom and compassion as well as self love don’t they? We know we are all high value because we are God’s children . In the end everyone can heal if they choose to realize that . Blessings to you and thanks for sharing . 💙
🎯💎🏆 Great insightful & fruitful video 🏆💎🎯
लोकः समस्ताः सुखिनो भवन्तु
( May all beings lead prosperous lives ✨)
I think that I am a high value person. I have a discipline, empathy and I am a hard worker as well.
I took care to select a high value man. He was truly great, hard working, skilled, popular. He turned out to be a covert narcissist and left me after 24 years of relationship in which we had children together. So I think he listened to me when I was explaining to him who a high value man was, he learned a lot from me but used it outside of our home. At home he didn’t spend any time and expected me to be the high value woman but he could live a double life.
I don’t think any psychologist truly knows what it is like on the other side like being a mother, being a father, being married if they themselves don’t have personal experience in the area. Observed experience with theory is only accurate to some level.
i agree 100% with what Sadia says in the last min. I proudly apply it in my personal life!
Dear Sadia, please advice all of us who are of limited value due to lack of appearance and talent. The pool of people of limited value is huge.
P.S. The blooper section was hilarious.😊
Thank you @sadiapsychology yes good women are suffering in the dating market
My 4 years relationship has just ended as I act as a high value woman and refused to talk and act intimately before marriage. Despite my pure love,deep feelings I had to end it. I still love him but my values are my priority. 😢 i think to myself that if he really loved me as purely as I had been, he would have accepted my boundries. I accept this reality and try to put my female dignity first in my life. ❤no man is more valuable than honor of a lady.
And most men would say the don’t want a ran through girl. But deep down that’s exactly what they want. I will be single forever then to lower my standards thank you
That’s how you find out if they’re real from the bottom up, they stick with you from nothing to something. They’re the ones. If not kick them to curve. That’s where true loyalty and love lies😢
i will go even further and more radical then Sadia and say. Men, please do not touch any women unless you have the intention to marry that person. That will make you a greater man and definitely more high value.
Soooo true.... its sooo mesmerizing to listen to your advice....
You have an issue that should be edited out around the 7:33 mark.
Wow she makes really great point like all the time!!
Nice to know you’re Pakistani Sadia.
And lovely to hear you valued your eastern values. Good Role model
Dam ur so good 💯🔥Everything is just psychological
I love your work so so much! 🩷 Thank you for what you do!✨
Hahaha I love the glitching advertisement read!
Glitch in the matrix 7 minute mark.
Bro!....😂😂what was that?....why didn't they edit that out....
Nothing but claps for Sadia 👏
Hi quality women is mostly traditional values which means zero milage at marriage, beauty, feminine, submissive or embrace her role as a women. That’s a rare find these days
For men; lead, provide, protect and the traits that are related to that.
Historically though kings & rich man have always had plenty of beautiful women and children. What she described about Monogamy for men as ‘high value’ is a religious view. Even her on faith allows man to have upto 4 wives.
Hello Beautiful!!!!! Thank-you for all your great wisdom and knowledge!!!!!!
THIS WILL HELP THIS VIDEO SADIE! Check the promo section for your paid program. Love your content!
4:30 is the million dollar question.
Such a smart eloquent beautiful elegant woman! ❤️
This was truly englightening. I am from the same region Pakistan - Kashmir
She makes me understand myself better why i attracted lots of broken young women as a 40yo guy.
A high value man understands the importance of his actions and the impact those actions have on the lives of others including his own and cares about character virtues that build up the integrity and quality of human life. He makes it his purpose to cultivate these virtues as his discipline so that by his reputation you will know him. He does not seek glory for his disciples nor is he driven by an egoic attitude. A low value man in contrast lacks the awareness of such qualities and what is worst he lacks intention for personal growth so that the person he could become is never given life and as a consequence for his irresponsible behaviour destroys the lives of those around him by adding nothing of value to elevate others to a higher level of integrity and virtue. He is his own worst enemy yet everyone and everything around him is to blame for his choices.
Soon as I started watching this video Kyle walker came to mind 😂
Hi Sadia please get some assistance with your editing. You are so professional and love watching your videos. Timing for your advertising for your personal practice as well as editting needs a professional touch. On a personal note. I am still working on areas in my life to be that high value man but chose a life of service. Also am interested in business side as affluence can afford being more impactful and altruistic. I find one area that is not alluded to often in being high value and that is self actualization. Divine union. Any thoughts?
It’s not her videos. Other accounts share her content and edit it. Make sure it’s not her account and someone else’s.
@@sgaidola76 did you see the mistakes on her advert... they were not edited out
@@777soul56 if it’s the reels, than that’s different. Not on her actual TH-cam channel.
@sgaidola76 Did you watch the above video. It's her channel and her advert?
@@777soul56 I did watch it.
Sadia, you say EVERYTHING with your beautiful dress and gorgeous stiletto heels... ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
So informative.
Love her advice
I took my advantages. No body gave me anything….
Omg sadia thank you ❤
This is merely the start. Get the forbidden book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest, and uncover the secrets they've been hiding.
It's the difference between what more men are willing to invest in vs. what men are willing to invest in more.
Very intellectual woman. Enjoyed this 👍
Sadia, WHO IS YOUR EDITOR?? 😅
Well, I disagree Sadia. After a few dramatic and sexually rewarding relationships including a marriage, the woman I most value by a long shot is the one who possesses the finest values (honesty, responsibility, service orientated, generosity). She has faults but stands out like a star.
You agree with her then.
I think he says he’s ok with less attractive women, and not only attractive women. Only time will tell.
I am glad to hear you say that as a man and I believe you are right. It's mainly shallow men who don't deserve a good woman that will feel like the one who gave them good sex or who was extraordinarily beautiful was the one who got away. Even some of those shallow ones will feel thay way. I saw it with my own eyes. My friend (kind, loyal, down to earth but average attractiveness) had an ex dating other women behind her back and years later I saw him confess (in an FB group he didn't know I was in) how he felt she was the one who got away because she was such a good person
@@jimarger8533 you fell in love 🥰 thanks for sharing ! That’s what’s missing in this whole conversation LOVE. When a person really loves themselves they honour and respect the other person and truly love them and honour them .
@@LJN-jz6jy you never know maybe she is the most beautiful of them all ?
Sadia is high value.
The number of folks born with advantages is very few.
Inward happiness solves many problems in life cruelty is cruel
Sadia should have spoken about virute , high virtue in both men n women
Some men and women are born high value
at my high school it was mandatory for everybody to take one semester of health education, which included sex ed (btw im way past this age, but it just came to mind). Wow, it would've been cool if we had a teacher like you give practical and responsible dating advice in a setting like this. But they mostly just focused on the worst case scenerios like stds, pregnancy, and sa. I'm glad you don't really delve to strong on these talking points it may be unsettling and triggering. I don't agree on all your points fully, but overall great advice and wonderfully presented in the way dating is most effectively discussed, in straightforward, honest, but not too heavy and graphic way. Really great to hear a voice like yours in the sea of people promoting the contrary, thank you
Forget all that high value crap. I just want an honest robot!
Sadia, you've got to sort these thumbnails out😂
I love you and no, not just for your intelligence 😊.
@sadiapsychology your plug isn't edited girl! 7:30
I think a good woman has good values innately instilled from childhood.🎉
Agree totally with what she said!!
Exactly thank you @sadiapsychology. High value men have self control
Low time preference gets men and women far in life
@@flaviovms Absolutely! Developing self-control and low time preference are key traits for achieving long-term success and fulfillment for both men and women. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
So all women have to do is reject attention and that’s their form of control but if you’re a man, you need to give up your desires in order to mold who you are or are going to be….
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@@wigwamproductions134 I completely agree with you - this is similar manipulation tactics as noted in Robert Greene’s 48 laws of power - It takes courage to love and be vulnerable and also a certain level of maturity :) I’m curious to know how Sadia pools her research metrics . I know many people male and female all over the world who she would consider ‘high value’ who would never utilize these tactics . They are based on lust and fear. Also , after living in the Middle East myself I observed that a woman’s value was very much contingent on her level of beauty . I was often asked by men how I could be beautiful and intelligent at the same time when I was there and why I was not willing to sell by body for money or be a sugar baby .
I did not have these experiences in Europe or as much in North America .
Now I like this version of you Sadia, Respect
The conversation seems to be about women 'being on the game' . Is that how it is now? The moment a women a guy knows accepts an over the top gift, the guy should run. The fact that someone has a lot of followers is a red flag.
Islamic values and principles of men/women rapports and frame of relationships (though Sadia doesn't project them all) are what will work and fix today's western societies
Long time ago in a galaxy far away thare lived a high value man with high value woman.
Actualy value is different for different people. So for example Court Kobain can be god or junk, depending who you are. Sadia is talking about her own opinions.
Too hard to find in a world of gold diggers.
You sound like you aren’t a Muslim. Easy predictions
@@emperorfulgidus262 islamic women are no exception. I know that for a fact. Better luck with your maqsad or agenda for the next time.
And because you believe that, that’s all the women you’re going to be surrounded by. If you don’t learn to be high value for yourself and with a good self esteem, you will never find a woman with standards.
Do you have the gold to dig though?
@@homodeus8713 a man asked God to make him irresistible to women, and he turned the man into a credit card. Woo
Lady, you are genius 👏
14:05 this. My ex wanted me back…but attached to a string that she can pull on when she needs me. No commitment. She told me that her problem was having all the attention and not willing to let it go. I passed.
we love the information , thanks
Min 7:30, It’s a new wave of editing nowadays to show you that it doesn’t have to always be perfect, especially with ads it can get messy getting the lines correct. The part is intentional.
Women's preferences for a male partner serve adaptive purposes beyond mere survival, says David Buss. He continues, in our ancestors' environment, choosing a mate who failed to provide resources, was unfaithful, lazy, or abusive would jeopardize survival and reproduction. On the other hand, a man who offered resources, protection, and dedication was highly beneficial. By choosing larger, stronger winners, women also ensured that their sons inherited genes for size and fighting abilities, while smaller, weaker, and more timid males failed to mate and became evolutionary dead ends.
Additionally, while women in evolutionary history could walk away from casual encounters, pregnancy from such encounters imposed long-term costs. Conversely, choosing a man wisely provided benefits such as good genes and reliable provision. Modern birth control has lessened the chances of pregnancy from hook-ups, and many women now secure resources through their professional success, sometimes surpassing those of men. However, human sexual psychology, shaped over millions of years to solve ancestral problems, remains largely unchanged despite modern environmental shifts.
If it rewards you and benefits you, says the person who ate the apple in the garden of eden. Humans being humans.
Naturally, people have no discipline in a present sacrifice for delayed gratification. That takes hard work, self-control, and a disciplined life. High-valued and low-valued are made by individuals. It's funny to see men who want highly valued women yet they don't bring the same value to her and vice versa🤷♀️ I'm sad the world where our children's options are diminishing of highly valued individuals 😢
Yes reject men even millionaires
Your editor messed up 🤣🤣🤣
Sadia is amazing and has frear answer but I'm sure the guy with dark t-shirt doesn't get what she says. She is saying Gold and he interrupts her several times by saying "yeah but isn't it the same for me?". Honestly if you don't underatand just let her finish the reasoning and ask at the end of her developping the idea. Plus letting drop the fact that he kept on buying bigger houses.. was a bit pathetic.
Can we please have people who interview this kind of diamond (Sadia is a diamond and very knowledgeable) a bit more corticated and respectful so we can all enjoy her teachings and not have her interrupted by a random boy who wants to say that he bought a big house..? ❤