in fact it is the opposite. Society is centered on men and teaches them to use women, since ancient times men think they are powerful for collecting women.
@@Comentflix there are men who use women. And there are women who use men. You are viewing things partial. Even if it was purely as you say, how does degrading the woman, makes her as powerful as the man. Two wrongs don’t make a single good. It’s addition of wrongs. Not minus multiplied by minus makes a positive. That’s not logic, but rather emotion taking over while loosing logic and congruence. Thinking nonsense out of desperation. Make women better. Don’t destroy them. They are irreplaceable.
@@waynegoodman3345 WELL THAT WAS THEIR WHOLE MISSION IT IS BEING USED JUST TO FEEL GOOD. THEY DONT EVEN USE THESE THINGS FOR THE REASONS IT WAS CREATED, THEY USE EVERYTHING AROUND THEM AS TEMPORARORY NARCO ENERGY LIFE SUCKING VAMPIRES. THEY DONT WANT A MAN, THEY JUST WANT TO FEEL DESIRED, JUST THAT LITTLE VOICE IN THEIR HEADS HAHAHAH
Ive been paying attention to Sadia's work the last few weeks. She is amazing. Unlike others in this space she is not picking sides and she is not about creating a war. Its just facts and solutions.
I said years ago that anyone that looks up the definition of “narcissism” will recognize that those traits are more prevalent in women today than they are in men.
men get off on performative acts of selflessness and see going through struggle as some kind of badge of honor, either way the end goal is getting something out of it for themselves, its a roundabout, back door form of narcissism... Men d not sacrifice from the goodness of their hearts, there is usually something in it for a man...
100% facts. I've always said that I believe that the reason why a higher percentage of men are CLINICALLY diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is because women are so narcissistic by nature that in order for a woman to be CLINICALLY diagnosed as a narcissist, she has to be EXTREMELY narcissistic, otherwise, she is seen as just a normal woman, lol.
covert narcissism absolutely. I would say 90% of women are covertly narcissistic today. Incredibly entitled and insecure. They gaslight and manipulate to gain control and always need external validation.
Don't think narcissism in women is due to motherhood. Women have been mothers for millenia but it's only recently that women became extremely narcissistic, especially women who never had a baby. It's about the way they're raised, the message they're getting from society, that women are invincible and shouldn't be accountable for anything.
I partially agree with you. I think mothers aren't given as much support as in the past when they do have children. So they inwardly push the frustrations, complications, and exhaustion inward, creating a loathed being. Therefore, projecting that hatred onto their kin. I agree that society has made it to where "women can do wrong," to the point of being believed instantaneously over the man even before the man has had the opportunity to open his mouth and give his side of the story. Moreover, going back to the basics, as the doctor pointed out, having men and women staying committed to their marriage, working together to raise their children, and being in a true partnership, is the best solution for both horrid scenarios, in my opinion. 😊
I think the narcissism exists because it’s more allowed, but it’s probably always existed because of women who have had high ranking in the past it’s just more massive now. I think because men have been more narcissistic in the past far as providing women now are taking whatever power given to them in todays society and that gets turned into narcissism by association. If that makes since but I don’t think every women saying “my body my choice” is inherently narcissistic, but maybe there’s an influx
There is even this stupid song that says it 😂... "I'm unstoppable I'm a Porsche with no brakes I'm invincible Yeah, I win every single game I'm so powerful I don't need batteries to play I'm so confident Yeah, I'm unstoppable today Unstoppable today Unstoppable today Unstoppable today I'm unstoppable today"
this is bullcrap. Humans have been here for hundreds of thousands of years. We have no recorded data on most of them. There is no way that people with npd did not exist in the past. Women are naturally attracted to evil selfish and aggressive men, they are also repulsed by kind selfless good men. Look at how women use "nice guy" as an insult and who they sleep with in their teenage years and in their twenties. If women are attracted to sociopaths, narcissits and psychopats then these traits would offer a higher likelyhood to your offspring to stay in the genepool. I am pretty sure these monsters always existed it is just in the past people did not know what they were so they just worded their condition differently.
My ex cheated on me and she had a horrible relationship with her father since she was young. I can confirm she was also narcissistic, never admitting she was wrong.
@@ELMagnate581 I blocked her so never had the chance to do that but I can easily see her figuring out a way as to how it's my fault because of all the things she didn't like about me.
Totally agree with you about the baby not being a body part and it is a separate human. Thank you for your boldness in revealing the false programming of "my body my choice" . It's lie and its also important to not judge those who have adopted this false mindset. Most people do not have accurate information
So we cant be judging men or put them down if they are broke and have money, or if they don’t treat women they way women thing men should, why because they don’t have to correct information, people come on TH-cam and use words but a lot of people’s hearts are wicked and cold and lack genuine love and understanding of people
@@glecservices3114 Wait what, no lol you dont judge a man if they are broke lol the same exact way a women HATES when a man JUDGES THEM BC SHE CANT STOP EATING? Which one do you think has the more moral grown to make changes? You dont think its easy to just stop eating? Do you think a man should be judged if hes 5 foot 9? And to him he makes 50 grand a year but TO YOU , he needs more bc lol YOU ARE A GOLD DIGGER LOL I MEAN DUH HAHAHAHAH
I also agree but then it should also apply to men- like once their baby is concieved it’s not my time/wallet/energy/life my choice anymore-he already has 2 people depending on him at this so it should be seen as just as unacceptable as abortion without father’s consent. Cause I feel like this whole „my body, my choice” is women’s response to men being able to avoid reaponsibility just because it's not them having an uterus. Pregnant woman is not self sufficient, child needs both parenta so a man’s part in the decision should only be taken seriously if he is willing to be a father and a partner these two people need him to. And if abortion which is a huge pain for woman by itself should be punished, so should be trying to avoid stepping up as a father.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: Narcissistic women 00:00 🚩 Men often miss red flags in women due to societal conditioning, while women are conditioned to be loyal. 00:28 👨👩👧👦 Women with unstable father figures in their upbringing may develop a fear of abandonment and be more likely to cheat. 03:03 💰 Rich men are more likely to be cheated on due to wives having idle time, social circles, and access to desirable partners. 07:01 🔄 Men's preferences in partners may evolve, seeking emotional intimacy and companionship as they age. 08:11 🤳 Modern society and slogans like "my body my choice" contributeto the rise of narcissistic women.
After a 10 year relationship with a woman whose father passed when she was 10 and a 3 year relationship with a woman whose father was never in her life, when I finally dated a woman whose parents are still together after 30+ years I have noticed such an extreme yet clear difference. In the relationships with the women without fathers I dealt with them constantly seeking male validation and constantly trying to increase the quality of man they could get validation from. They also felt a need to ensure I knew when men liked them. Then there is a huge difference in argument styles and fight or flight responses. As Sadia said in the video, it’s not everyone but it is generally true MUCH more often than not.
@@GiaDivaful Here we have another red flag walking around willing to take no responsibility to fix herself. Once you see a chick externalizing reasons for her bad behavior, run.
you are 100% right. I'm one of these fatherless women and yes I do what you are describing. I'm working in therapy to get better. But it's not an easy path. Living with this feeling of inner worthlessness and needing constant validation of men is exhausting. I want to change that.
But then when a man cheats in marriage, a woman is left without her youth and beauty that she has given to him. Perhaps a career, virginity and a body that she had before giving it away to give him HIS child as well. It’s also more likely for a man to find love after a failed marriage than it is for a woman. Each side has something of great value to lose in a marriage but y’all at least risk mostly renevable stuff so stop acting like y’all are the only ones that could possibly get hurt or get the short end of the stick somehow. This just shows that y’all are struggling to see things from different perspectives.
Men risk far more than women as women have the biased family courts to protect them by way of getting the house, children and there fore child maintenance. 50,000 american fathers woke up in prison today for non payment of child support so not paying it is a jail sentence. How many women woke up in prison today for non payment of child support?... oh thats right... NONE!!! So you stop Inga !!! Stop pretending and stop been so triggered. Men and society are lead to believe women do not cheat as muc has men and they most certainly do and then blow up their marriages and its there in the family courts that men learn it the hard way exactly like Mike said.
Rich people don't have normal lives and that's not to be envied. A whole lot of price comes with a lavish life, it's not as glamorous as we are sold...
Dubai sounds like my worst nightmare plus it’s historically vapid,aesthetically bleak and full of people who don’t know what matters in life or even live unconsciously by it.
I am 71 year-old man who was in a relationship for three years off and on, with a 70 yo female covert narcissist. It was such a roller coaster ride. I broke up with her back in May 2023. I couldn’t figure out how I kept losing myself respect, belittled, and everything else until the last seven months I started looking into the reason. And found out the type of person that she is.
I recently heard my grandmother boasting how she and her family 'chose' my late grandfather. His pension and the personal stake he had in his family business. Her eyes were gleaming when she spoke of her 'plan'. What a whore, I don't speak to her anymore.
My body my choice always made me upset when it has to do with a baby to be killed or not but it’s so provoking to people to say it I appreciate Sadia’ s insights so much, she is not buying in to all evilness in practice, in the world today ❤
Great point about abortion regarding babies not being appendages of the mother. Fathers should have a say, but because it is a human life they should not have ultimate say as to whether the infant should live or die. Once you have sex, one must be willing to deal with consequences, which includes pregnancy and potential abandonment by the father. It used to be that women didn’t give themselves away because the consequences were understood and society fostered that awareness. Sadia is absolutely correct that society is fostering the complete opposite today and that is precisely why there are many more wrongs being done to all parties involved.
It’s true! I know a man whose absolutely loaded and his wife was always freezing him out in cold silence while cheating on him with many men! He gave his wife the most unbelievable life! Eventually after many decades of marriage he kind of woke up and got a private investigator involved who obtained pictures of her in sex positions which she forbid him. He was incredibly hurt by it as he just wanted a loyal wife and a little (actually he had 3 big ones) home but unfortunately you can’t choose attraction and he picked an attention seeking one who required excessive admiration and he had to go away for business a lot and outside of Film and media they don’t give you money because they like your blue eyes. I’m guessing it’s the same for women possibly with the exception of narcissists and psychopaths of course they also have to ‘feel’ attraction. Totally agree also with Sadia’s last point also! Recently had a woman emotionally blackmail me after only 10 months of unstable dating to give her a baby right before my Birthday and first anniversary i got the ultimatum and discard at first refusal after a colossal tantrum. If she hadn’t done that and I’d made it to the year i might have given a proposal after a few sensible chats. She also refused to answer questions after she’d messaged another man agreeing to meet up at his flat.
I was married for nine years. With my husband, I had a step daughter through him. Her mother was DEFINITELY a narcissist. She acted like a teenager, and used her emotions to manipulate my step daughter...many times bringing her to tears. It was like torment. Like my step daughter owed her something. It was really hard to witness...the sad part is that I think her dad ( my ex) is also a narcissist: Very selfish and places himself and his needs before anyone.
If what you are saying is true firstly I am sorry you had to go through the narcisstic abuse, on the other hand I need to warn you to get ready to a life of pain. Narcissists are made, but these traits can also be inherited. Similarities usually skip a generation, so if your child will have her own children they might turn out to be narcissists as well and as long as you are alive you will be surrounded by these demons. Unfortunatlly, women are turned on by evil men and they pick narcissits over good men.
Hi @sadiapsychology please can you change the image on your video saying "Women are Narcissist". Not the title but the Graphic image, It is quite unnecessary to generalise like that.
I think that cut in the middle of the video that question made her somewhat emotional. It's sad to acknowledge that a person as smart and beautiful has a lot of probabilities of ending up alone in this society (not saying she is or will end up alone... just in general and both male and female). It's just sad how superficial we've become that even attractive people can end up alone cause they don't want to be part of mentality of everything being disposable and the selfishness of today's society
@@exoticindiaa just wstch toxic humor against ALAN " 2 ans 1/2 men" .. where entire series is about us siting in a ROMAN Gladiatorial arena - watching a guy beig systemicsly rediculed and his torn down by brother, mother, nasty ex. Judith and legal system ... ... took him 10 years ... to slowly recover from " therapie seesins" and love of his closest from his past .
I don’t agree with her assessment. This depends on the values of each person. For example my mother was a loyal wife to my absent father. Of course his absenteeism affected me but, it did not lead me to cheat in relationships and every relationship I ended was due incompatibility issues and I remained single for a while. I don’t like that she can put these ideas in men’s heads and in turn judge women who had a difficult relationship with their father. People already generalize enough with ‘Daddy issues’.
She said she is not blaming anybody but its usually what she has found...also remember she is from Dubai and the social class and culture are different.
@@nowyouseeme3402 it’s not what she’s saying or thinking, it’s all psychological research, she’s just a messenger. You can’t seem to see past your life and your story. You’re not even in a position to think properly about these issues let alone to argue.
Same I also have an absentee Father. My mother was never present in my life too but never have I cheated. I don't think it will be possible in the future either. I abhor cheaters the most.
I think she's partly right but isn't fleshing out the ideas with enough specific detail maybe. What's evident to me is that it's about the overall amount of love and attunement that a child has received, and whether as a result they have learnt to self regulate and self soothe. She puts too much focus on whether that love comes from a certain gender but that has nothing to do with it - it's about the child receiving enough empathic attunement to sustain them and build healthy self esteem. In the case of cheating it's the same: did the women when she was a girl learn to coregulate with an empathic caregiver (man or woman)? Because cheating is just a maladaptive way to try to self-soothe no different from binge drinking of doing drugs. So she is sort of oversimplifying and gendering something that in my view is nuanced and ungendered.
The abandonment piece is more bpd tendency, also mixed with possession. However, in general women has these traits naturally on higher degree or stronger presence. In fact, women naturally more prone to spectrum of bpd traits simply due the strong emotionality. The abandonment often linked to worthlessness, which then couple back to abandonment. As result, its increase insecurity and the women keep spiral down the same roller coaster
@Anvita444 would take too long my friend, if you re in relationship, make sure you respect boundaries, not promote transactional exchanges with your girl, and tip for tap.
one thing I will say is narcissism forms in childhood. someone doesn’t just go from selfish to disordered as soon as they become a mother. whether or not those traits become more apparent when motherhood tests them is a different question
I know a few women who didn't have a stable male figure, and although they are not happy in their marriage, they don't cheat. Let's not generalise too quickly. There could be a pattern for the cheater. But not all traumatised people are full of daily problems. And some women with stable married parents, surprisingly, I met who put up with a lot and are in unhealthy marriages. It's important to have a good foundation of parents together. But together, it doesn't mean healthy or loyal or good role models for their children. Let's not think that all women of divorce parents have daddy issues. Some had a good grandpa or uncle that fulfilled that role, and they turned out quite balanced.
I've diagnosed Narcissistic Personality DX In the 3 maybe 4 women in the past that I loved, maybe a couple were Borderline Personality Disorders. Thank God I finally found my soulmate.
What’s interesting about narcism is that they usually attract each other because a healthy person wouldn’t tolerate narcissistic behaviour so get yourself checked out too while you’re at it 😂
The only criticism I have for Sadia, is that in between her excellent analysis and advice and perspectives, her insistence ultimately, is that EVERYTHING seems to be linked to childhood trauma. Which is an offshoot of Freudian analysis. It doesn't allow for any room to evolve, grow and of course comment upon something that has troubled all of humanity; The metaphysical concept of Romantic Love.
Well a lot of your development does come from your childhood years, so she is correct there. It's hard to recondition yourself especially around years of bad upbringing and influences. It creates a big disadvantage and halts massive character development especially if you're within adulthood and still being raised in such a way. There are many things to deprogram, unlearn and new habits to learn. It can happen but it takes a long time.
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Sadia, if an above average looking gal with a phd in psychology gets 3 nose jobs, a full face lift, a chest job, lipo suction on her thin hips, and dies her hair incessantly...... do you think that's a good example of a vulnerable narcissist?
There are soo many psychologists that has better content than yours but You’re famous because you’re pretty. That’s good though, people should listen to you instead of Kim K or Taylor Swift or Margot Robbie
@@altustalent410 the context.... ummmm? I am asking about someone with whom I am quite familiar, as it seems evident, right? Not sure what's closed ended from your perspective?
I don’t agree with her about the abortion thing that is just one very limited perspective. Women have abortions for multiple reasons that have nothing to do with arrogance. They have a abortions from the position of powerlessness lack of means to take care of the child no family back up, the father could be abusive or an alcoholic, so many reasons like immaturity poor judgment lack of means lack of knowledge of how they could possibly even take care of it to say it’s just about my body My choice is extremely narrow, minded, and offensive to women.
I don’t have a father figure and also I have abandonment issue BUT i am raised by a strong single mom and i am thankful with my mom because no narc in the fam ❤
Similarly, a man with an insecure attachment style needs constant validation and has a fear of abandonment. When his needs for reassurance and validation aren't met by his intimate partner, he has a back up plan and cheats on her.
It is the baby's Body. So it should be the baby's Choice. Whether the baby wants to be born or cut in abortion. "My body my choice" holds for the baby too.
Am a man and I know a lot of women cheats, I know this because most women I have been with are in one serious relationship or the other, I have had to turn down married women couple times too. I have seen women lie first hand that there’s nothing new they will do that will surprise me.. My idea of relationship is “let’s just enjoy the moment” if I don’t catch you cheating then we cool, if I catch you, we move on and I replace you the next day.
I think some women are not sexually attracted to their partner anymore and cheat for sex. I think these are the married women who approached you for sex. As people get older, they seem to become more desillusioned by their relationship and start disconsidering morality. I don't think it's as easy as saying that it's all about her family life. Some people are also less adventures. They just like things to be as nice and quiet as possible.
Women do this cause they have become masculine. This is what men do and now men are out here getting their feelings hurt by women cause they are feminine. It's heartbreaking to see
The more I hear you Sadia The more I want to hear you And I’ve experienced most things( not all) in the realm of “ love “ I am older and wiser And again alone I expect to stay that way but 12:03 not by choice You permit so much space for men to contemplate his place in this world and to question himself , his choices and the idea of love itself Brutal But you deliver with such warmth and genuineness And courage I am in deep gratitude I do hope you reach as many young men as possible They need your voice
I wish my ex didnt get an abortion. I wanted to be a father and have the baby. She decided to do things based on her emotions. Im forever disgusted and resentful of her for killing my baby.
It's fascinating how It's always men's fault: if a man cheats it's obviously his fault, but if a woman cheats it's also a mans fault (her father for supposedly abandoning her, her partner for not making her feel loved etc.). Everyone, including Sadia, is making excuses for women by reducing them to helpless victims, which is not only hurting men but also women themselves. Ironically enough, this is the source of female narcissism.
I wouldn't praise her, she's a grifter. She believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists. That should tell you exactly what kind of person she is behind her carefully curated social media persona.
This is why in the LDS doctrine, God SPECIFICALLY has commanded that sex between man & women should ONLY be AFTER the bonds of MARRIAGE. That way, it ensures the baby has 2 loving parents who are committed to each other to love it. SIMPLE AS THAT! THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WITH EVERY ACTION. Sex makes babies.
Now if a man had said "Women are Nacissistic" - imagine it was Jordan Peterson, he'd have to report for reprogramming. Good that a woman says it, and that she can say it rather proves the point. And at the same time the very foundations of Narcissistic behaviour *are* present in innate female behaviour, demonstrably and provably.
It’s called the back up mating strategy (commonly without sex), which turns into the switch mating strategy (usually with sex) if she thinks she’s got someone better in some significant way.
If an embryo is a child then why should even two people have a choice to kill it? Either its a "body part" in which case its the woman's choice whether to have an abortion as its in her body, or its a human child in which case neither an individual parent nor both parents together have any right to kill it.
No, she actually starts by saying "There's so many of them" specifically responding to his question about narcissistic women. She then adds the trouble of narcissistic mothers to her response.
I agree, I have had 3 serious relationships. My first girlfriend came from a good home, a string masculine father figure and her parents have been married for over 45 years and i was with her 11 years. She was easy to get along with, never went to bed on bad terms and communicatedlike an adult. My other 2 relationships they never had a strong father figure in there life's. And they were a absolute nightmare! If you mentioned something that you wasn't happy with I was met with hostility, stonewalling and a ban on sex just because I was communicating. This I believe is a manipulation tactic as it makes you hesitate to voice your opinions because you do not want to deal with the consequences.
Your problematic relationships exactly describe my situation. Her father walked out before she was born and she is a mega-manipulator. We haven't had sex in over a year, I'm constantly walking on eggshells.
Maybe work on healing your gf’s and wives?? Clearly you don’t see that the MEN in their life were the reason why they are the way they are but go ahead and blame them. Idiots
@@thomasczthomash1859 my friend, if she is using manipulation tactics please do not believe things will get better, because believe me, the won't. If you haven't had sex in over a year then you no longer have a relationship, you're in a "friendship.' There are 2 sides 2 every story, maybe you have also made mistakes and in turn, have turned her off. I know I have made mistakes like this. But one of the reasons we all get into relationships is for regular sex, not just for orgasims but to feel wanted, desired and loved. I have been there, my friend. And after my relationships failed I spent alot of time reflecting on myself and why. I came to the conclusion that I was insecure, a giver and maybe to empathetic. These types of people target people like me because I stay and tolerate bullshit that a secure man wouldn't. Maybe you're the same. Maybe you're a lovely person who just wants it all to work out and mildly scared of leaving because you're worried that you may not find someone else. But the reality is, it would be harder for you to find something worse. If you're someone who has integrity, values monogamous relationships and are empathetic, you're actually a high value person and are worth your weight in gold. Because its easy to meet someone who is disloyal, low integrity. The hard thing is to find someone who is a good person. Remember, you haven't had sex with this person for over a year, you described her as a master manipulator, you're walking on eggshells.......what is this bringing you? Its bringing you misery, heartache and pain. Do the right thing for you. "You can ignore reality but you cannot hide from the consequences of ignoring reality.'
Oh my god. Same here. She never met her father - her mother left after the honeymoon. Also, no sex in over a year (when I began to assert my boundaries and disengage from arguments)... but that choice was FAR more mine than hers... I simply could no longer trust her. Constantly walking on eggshells around her since month 2 of our 7 year relationship. When she finally told me she wanted to leave, I simply responded "What's his name?". She denied, denied, denied, until about a week later she happened to have a "realization" that she had feelings for a coworker. He's a sweet boy and she's going to chew him up and spit him out. I honestly feel relieved, yet sorry for what this dude is going to go through.
Came across your video randomly. Thought I was in for some “WISDOM” alas I’m disappointed! (This is with regards to having a baby) it IS her body her choice. I will leave this here. Hope I never click on your videos again! Do you know what women go through to in comparison to men? Sure we didn’t ask for it but please grow some compassion!
So to be a high value man you must be working all the time. And to keep your women happy or not cheating you must have time to spend with her. So women want hot ice?
So whilst I can understand that the child bearing process might often be traumatic for women, but does that automatically mean that she has become , 'emotionally devoid' and unable to 'empathize' or look after the mental, emotional and educational needs of her child? I feel the , 'narcisitic' description is being used here against women with a sweeping broad stroke that is not justifiable.
To an extent she's right, but generalization is not good. Ive come from a broken home. I don't do anything the way my parents did,precisely because i wanted better. Not all who come from broken homes are cheating. A lot of people who come from a traditional family cheat and do all things,shes describing. Its irrelevant to categorized everyone,because there's good and bad in all.
Men are trained to think women cheat what is she talking about. Maybe if this was like 1990 buts it's a whole different ball game in 2023. Thank social media
Men exhibit women characteristics at times and women exhibit’s manly characteristics,so they have to work in collaboration otherwise no future of humanity left.
How many cases are there though where the girl forcibly gets rid of a baby that the guy would've wanted and would've hung around to take care of - against his wishes?
My father abandoned me when i was two years old, y grandfather was a father figure and my mom gave me full attention, i never ever cheated and never even crossed my mind, i am a loyal person
Sorry but this just sounds like someone with more confidence than evidence choosing to focus on women. Yes i agree, rich men are more likely to be cheated on, but they are way way more likely to cheat.
Why do you talk so much about rich men? Are they your main audience? Or poor people want to hear what rich men do and get excited? Are you emotionally poor?
I see this in mothers my children go to school with. The incesant need to be the center of attention in a child's setting. It's aburdity! The crop tops and short shorts, long nails and excessively dyed hair at the age of 40, trying to keep up with their young daughters.😢 It's disturbing and disgusting! I've all noticed the boys who have these mothers are disportionally mean towards the girls. They disrespect them, "use" them, and are in competition (academically) with them, in a harmful, manipulative way.
Too many excuses are givin for women that cheat , if a man cheats he is a horn ball , if a woman cheats its because they are not getting enough love and attention
I agree with everything except the abortion part. The woman can get health issues for years / life if not die during the birth. The woman's body will change forever, and during and after the birth the hormones are no joke. The social life is turned upside down. So why do women should have no choice but oo deal with it just because its another human being especially if its existence is an accident? That is why its the woman's choice if she wants to sacrifice so much and endanger her life for someone else's
Having been involved for many years in crisis pregnancy work I can assure you that the resentment is very much present on both sides. Most women get abortions because their men push them into it. But the trauma and the drama that ensues after that physical assault by the abortionist goes far beyond simple resentment. Anyone who wants the baby should have the right to their baby. At best, leave the undeserving partner off the hook.
I agree Sadia. The farther has rights and responsibilities surrounding abortion choice and the mammoth consequential life and health factors. I must say that the fetus is just that for the early term, it’s not a baby and certainly not a child - an abortion under those definitions would be murder. The father has a right to have consideration on the opportunities of his potential off-spring once conceived. And with that the ways and means for the well-being of all concerned, especially the mother, needs to be considered and laws made accordingly. No one should diminish the right of the mother but the “My Body, My Choice” dogmatic premise really servers the wholistic context of life and village. Women are more and more behaving as entitled individuals where service and sacrifice is repugnant to them. The idea is not to overbear or discriminate against their gender but to acknowledge their birth roles and gender identity and support them communally in real ways that minimizes abortion and pedesalizes life. The US culture of individualization negatively affects all people and has ravished societies throughout the globe - not just Dubai.
I would love to have an opportunity to talk about some of the issues that mostly everyone has and I’m just wondering how my situation would go over with women and I know I can’t even imagine trying to get a woman at all until I have a certain amount of money and stuff.
If the plan for a rich couple is not to make the world a better place then naturally the women will get bored. If you are constantly working on charity's and building and growing together then you will both be locked in and focused.
She was very transparent about coming from a clinical unbiased standpoint but this guy couldnt help but get triggered. Even if you were to agree that abortion is right it still doesnt negate the biological ramifications of it. Biological meaning both somatic and psychological ramifications and that includes narcissism. The ability to play God.
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All women should be made to listen to this!!!
Theres a bigger problem than "resentment" if one wants to kill there own baby
a narcissist explaining narcissistic behavior
Do you have an of?
@@crimsonhawk4912 and of what?
"Society is conditioning women to be as narcissistic as possible." I couldn't agree more.
indeed. my ex is a covert narc. nasty piece of work when the mask slipped. i i wish her the worst in life
Spot, freaking, on.
in fact it is the opposite. Society is centered on men and teaches them to use women, since ancient times men think they are powerful for collecting women.
@@Comentflix that doesn't discredit the fact that a lot of women these days, especially millenials are highly narcissistic
@@Comentflix there are men who use women. And there are women who use men. You are viewing things partial. Even if it was purely as you say, how does degrading the woman, makes her as powerful as the man. Two wrongs don’t make a single good. It’s addition of wrongs. Not minus multiplied by minus makes a positive. That’s not logic, but rather emotion taking over while loosing logic and congruence. Thinking nonsense out of desperation. Make women better. Don’t destroy them. They are irreplaceable.
Social media is the main narcisssicism vehicle imo
And who do you think takes most use of that? Women
That and dating apps it skews the dating market making many woman think they are more desirable than they actually are.
@@waynegoodman3345 WELL THAT WAS THEIR WHOLE MISSION IT IS BEING USED JUST TO FEEL GOOD. THEY DONT EVEN USE THESE THINGS FOR THE REASONS IT WAS CREATED, THEY USE EVERYTHING AROUND THEM AS TEMPORARORY NARCO ENERGY LIFE SUCKING VAMPIRES. THEY DONT WANT A MAN, THEY JUST WANT TO FEEL DESIRED, JUST THAT LITTLE VOICE IN THEIR HEADS HAHAHAH
I think that's an astute point
1000000%
Ive been paying attention to Sadia's work the last few weeks. She is amazing. Unlike others in this space she is not picking sides and she is not about creating a war. Its just facts and solutions.
She's going to blow up. I think this channel has gained 20k followers in just a week
Yes
Period!
Except she is. Just look at her own comment where sge's openly shaming men. She's toxic and very manipulative.
you simp
I said years ago that anyone that looks up the definition of “narcissism” will recognize that those traits are more prevalent in women today than they are in men.
men get off on performative acts of selflessness and see going through struggle as some kind of badge of honor, either way the end goal is getting something out of it for themselves, its a roundabout, back door form of narcissism... Men d not sacrifice from the goodness of their hearts, there is usually something in it for a man...
100% facts. I've always said that I believe that the reason why a higher percentage of men are CLINICALLY diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is because women are so narcissistic by nature that in order for a woman to be CLINICALLY diagnosed as a narcissist, she has to be EXTREMELY narcissistic, otherwise, she is seen as just a normal woman, lol.
covert narcissism absolutely. I would say 90% of women are covertly narcissistic today. Incredibly entitled and insecure. They gaslight and manipulate to gain control and always need external validation.
@@r.walker7986Spoken like a deflective narcissistic woman 😂😂
I was thinking the same exact thing 😂😂 you beat me to it @@slide5039
Don't think narcissism in women is due to motherhood. Women have been mothers for millenia but it's only recently that women became extremely narcissistic, especially women who never had a baby. It's about the way they're raised, the message they're getting from society, that women are invincible and shouldn't be accountable for anything.
I partially agree with you.
I think mothers aren't given as much support as in the past when they do have children. So they inwardly push the frustrations, complications, and exhaustion inward, creating a loathed being. Therefore, projecting that hatred onto their kin.
I agree that society has made it to where "women can do wrong," to the point of being believed instantaneously over the man even before the man has had the opportunity to open his mouth and give his side of the story.
Moreover, going back to the basics, as the doctor pointed out, having men and women staying committed to their marriage, working together to raise their children, and being in a true partnership, is the best solution for both horrid scenarios, in my opinion. 😊
I think the narcissism exists because it’s more allowed, but it’s probably always existed because of women who have had high ranking in the past it’s just more massive now. I think because men have been more narcissistic in the past far as providing women now are taking whatever power given to them in todays society and that gets turned into narcissism by association. If that makes since but I don’t think every women saying “my body my choice” is inherently narcissistic, but maybe there’s an influx
There is even this stupid song that says it 😂... "I'm unstoppable
I'm a Porsche with no brakes
I'm invincible
Yeah, I win every single game
I'm so powerful
I don't need batteries to play
I'm so confident
Yeah, I'm unstoppable today
Unstoppable today
Unstoppable today
Unstoppable today
I'm unstoppable today"
this is bullcrap. Humans have been here for hundreds of thousands of years. We have no recorded data on most of them. There is no way that people with npd did not exist in the past.
Women are naturally attracted to evil selfish and aggressive men, they are also repulsed by kind selfless good men.
Look at how women use "nice guy" as an insult and who they sleep with in their teenage years and in their twenties.
If women are attracted to sociopaths, narcissits and psychopats then these traits would offer a higher likelyhood to your offspring to stay in the genepool.
I am pretty sure these monsters always existed it is just in the past people did not know what they were so they just worded their condition differently.
The sad thing is it is ultimately destroying them when they cannot find happiness becuase of it.
This woman is a genius
Literally
not quite
You have low expectations 😂
😂 she’s not lol she’s just a messenger it’s all in the books and research of psychology, you never took time to learn or understand.
She also missed the point that women with sissy dad’s pampered is also an abuse leads to unhealthy detachment leads girl becomes a narcissist etc
I think the world would be a much better place if everyone knew how to speak with the same level of respect as Sadia ✌🏼
Amen to that.
❤
So, refreshing listening to a woman with common sense who provides simple, logical answers.
My ex cheated on me and she had a horrible relationship with her father since she was young. I can confirm she was also narcissistic, never admitting she was wrong.
She probably will blame you for the cheating too.. gaslighting
@@ELMagnate581 I blocked her so never had the chance to do that but I can easily see her figuring out a way as to how it's my fault because of all the things she didn't like about me.
Narcissistic sociopath..... so true
Totally agree with you about the baby not being a body part and it is a separate human. Thank you for your boldness in revealing the false programming of "my body my choice" . It's lie and its also important to not judge those who have adopted this false mindset. Most people do not have accurate information
So we cant be judging men or put them down if they are broke and have money, or if they don’t treat women they way women thing men should, why because they don’t have to correct information, people come on TH-cam and use words but a lot of people’s hearts are wicked and cold and lack genuine love and understanding of people
@@glecservices3114 Wait what, no lol you dont judge a man if they are broke lol the same exact way a women HATES when a man JUDGES THEM BC SHE CANT STOP EATING? Which one do you think has the more moral grown to make changes? You dont think its easy to just stop eating? Do you think a man should be judged if hes 5 foot 9? And to him he makes 50 grand a year but TO YOU , he needs more bc lol YOU ARE A GOLD DIGGER LOL
I MEAN DUH HAHAHAHAH
I also agree but then it should also apply to men- like once their baby is concieved it’s not my time/wallet/energy/life my choice anymore-he already has 2 people depending on him at this so it should be seen as just as unacceptable as abortion without father’s consent. Cause I feel like this whole „my body, my choice” is women’s response to men being able to avoid reaponsibility just because it's not them having an uterus. Pregnant woman is not self sufficient, child needs both parenta so a man’s part in the decision should only be taken seriously if he is willing to be a father and a partner these two people need him to. And if abortion which is a huge pain for woman by itself should be punished, so should be trying to avoid stepping up as a father.
@ingabyczkiewicz3731 Men can't avoid that lol there are legit laws for that....
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: Narcissistic women
00:00 🚩 Men often miss red flags in women due to societal conditioning, while women are conditioned to be loyal.
00:28 👨👩👧👦 Women with unstable father figures in their upbringing may develop a fear of abandonment and be more likely to cheat.
03:03 💰 Rich men are more likely to be cheated on due to wives having idle time, social circles, and access to desirable partners.
07:01 🔄 Men's preferences in partners may evolve, seeking emotional intimacy and companionship as they age.
08:11 🤳 Modern society and slogans like "my body my choice" contributeto the rise of narcissistic women.
Summary: men are superficial, they choose women for the wrong reasons and then complain about the consequences.
"Women are conditioned to be loyal" ?? 😂🤣
@@unbiasedtv6525 to desirable men, yes. Not the dude they settle for...
Where did she way women are conditioned to be loyal? She said nothing of the sort !!! What a gaslight you are and typical of modern women today.
After a 10 year relationship with a woman whose father passed when she was 10 and a 3 year relationship with a woman whose father was never in her life, when I finally dated a woman whose parents are still together after 30+ years I have noticed such an extreme yet clear difference.
In the relationships with the women without fathers I dealt with them constantly seeking male validation and constantly trying to increase the quality of man they could get validation from. They also felt a need to ensure I knew when men liked them. Then there is a huge difference in argument styles and fight or flight responses.
As Sadia said in the video, it’s not everyone but it is generally true MUCH more often than not.
Again absent fathers causing trauma to their children. Nothing new. Men need to wake up and be better.
@@GiaDivaful Here we have another red flag walking around willing to take no responsibility to fix herself.
Once you see a chick externalizing reasons for her bad behavior, run.
you are 100% right. I'm one of these fatherless women and yes I do what you are describing. I'm working in therapy to get better. But it's not an easy path. Living with this feeling of inner worthlessness and needing constant validation of men is exhausting. I want to change that.
what's the difference in argument styles and fight response? it could help me out
Yep! She's right about that. Men are not trained to believe women cheat...
Thus we learn the hard way!
Men get p whipped so easily and tolerate all kinds of bad behavior
@@baldeagle4710 Because they have too if married. If they dont put up with it she walks and takes half his stuff.
But then when a man cheats in marriage, a woman is left without her youth and beauty that she has given to him. Perhaps a career, virginity and a body that she had before giving it away to give him HIS child as well. It’s also more likely for a man to find love after a failed marriage than it is for a woman. Each side has something of great value to lose in a marriage but y’all at least risk mostly renevable stuff so stop acting like y’all are the only ones that could possibly get hurt or get the short end of the stick somehow. This just shows that y’all are struggling to see things from different perspectives.
Men risk far more than women as women have the biased family courts to protect them by way of getting the house, children and there fore child maintenance. 50,000 american fathers woke up in prison today for non payment of child support so not paying it is a jail sentence. How many women woke up in prison today for non payment of child support?... oh thats right... NONE!!! So you stop Inga !!! Stop pretending and stop been so triggered. Men and society are lead to believe women do not cheat as muc has men and they most certainly do and then blow up their marriages and its there in the family courts that men learn it the hard way exactly like Mike said.
But men cheat all the time. Nothing new 🤣
Rich people don't have normal lives and that's not to be envied. A whole lot of price comes with a lavish life, it's not as glamorous as we are sold...
Dubai sounds like my worst nightmare plus it’s historically vapid,aesthetically bleak and full of people who don’t know what matters in life or even live unconsciously by it.
The root of narcissism in modern women is the continued acceptance of modern western feminist ideals.
Wow!!!! never heard anything more humane and respectful about abortion! This world needs you Dr Sadia!! Thank you!!!!
I am 71 year-old man who was in a relationship for three years off and on, with a 70 yo female covert narcissist. It was such a roller coaster ride. I broke up with her back in May 2023. I couldn’t figure out how I kept losing myself respect, belittled, and everything else until the last seven months I started looking into the reason. And found out the type of person that she is.
I recently heard my grandmother boasting how she and her family 'chose' my late grandfather. His pension and the personal stake he had in his family business. Her eyes were gleaming when she spoke of her 'plan'. What a whore, I don't speak to her anymore.
My body my choice always made me upset when it has to do with a baby to be killed or not but it’s so provoking to people to say it I appreciate Sadia’ s insights so much, she is not buying in to all evilness in practice, in the world today ❤
Great point about abortion regarding babies not being appendages of the mother. Fathers should have a say, but because it is a human life they should not have ultimate say as to whether the infant should live or die. Once you have sex, one must be willing to deal with consequences, which includes pregnancy and potential abandonment by the father. It used to be that women didn’t give themselves away because the consequences were understood and society fostered that awareness. Sadia is absolutely correct that society is fostering the complete opposite today and that is precisely why there are many more wrongs being done to all parties involved.
It’s true! I know a man whose absolutely loaded and his wife was always freezing him out in cold silence while cheating on him with many men! He gave his wife the most unbelievable life! Eventually after many decades of marriage he kind of woke up and got a private investigator involved who obtained pictures of her in sex positions which she forbid him. He was incredibly hurt by it as he just wanted a loyal wife and a little (actually he had 3 big ones) home but unfortunately you can’t choose attraction and he picked an attention seeking one who required excessive admiration and he had to go away for business a lot and outside of Film and media they don’t give you money because they like your blue eyes. I’m guessing it’s the same for women possibly with the exception of narcissists and psychopaths of course they also have to ‘feel’ attraction.
Totally agree also with Sadia’s last point also! Recently had a woman emotionally blackmail me after only 10 months of unstable dating to give her a baby right before my Birthday and first anniversary i got the ultimatum and discard at first refusal after a colossal tantrum. If she hadn’t done that and I’d made it to the year i might have given a proposal after a few sensible chats. She also refused to answer questions after she’d messaged another man agreeing to meet up at his flat.
Simple knowledge and common sense.
Yes
Exactly!!
Finally, someone with good knowledge of psychology to talk openly about men's and women's relationship
I was married for nine years. With my husband, I had a step daughter through him. Her mother was DEFINITELY a narcissist. She acted like a teenager, and used her emotions to manipulate my step daughter...many times bringing her to tears. It was like torment. Like my step daughter owed her something. It was really hard to witness...the sad part is that I think her dad ( my ex) is also a narcissist: Very selfish and places himself and his needs before anyone.
You are definitely not a narcissist, you’re the victim who dealt with that for a decade. 😒
If what you are saying is true firstly I am sorry you had to go through the narcisstic abuse, on the other hand I need to warn you to get ready to a life of pain.
Narcissists are made, but these traits can also be inherited. Similarities usually skip a generation, so if your child will have her own children they might turn out to be narcissists as well and as long as you are alive you will be surrounded by these demons.
Unfortunatlly, women are turned on by evil men and they pick narcissits over good men.
“Idle minds are the devils workshop” this is a quote I can live by
Hi @sadiapsychology please can you change the image on your video saying "Women are Narcissist". Not the title but the Graphic image, It is quite unnecessary to generalise like that.
I think that cut in the middle of the video that question made her somewhat emotional. It's sad to acknowledge that a person as smart and beautiful has a lot of probabilities of ending up alone in this society (not saying she is or will end up alone... just in general and both male and female). It's just sad how superficial we've become that even attractive people can end up alone cause they don't want to be part of mentality of everything being disposable and the selfishness of today's society
Narcissists like Kim Kardashian made dating difficult, now we have normalized toxic humour where a guy is ridiculed for getting cheated on
@exoticindiaa We've always has that. Since the days of Shakespeare have we long ridiculed the cuck. it is what it is.
@@exoticindiaa just wstch toxic humor against ALAN
" 2 ans 1/2 men"
.. where entire series is about us
siting in a ROMAN Gladiatorial arena - watching a guy beig
systemicsly rediculed and his torn down by brother, mother, nasty ex. Judith and legal system ...
... took him 10 years ... to slowly recover from " therapie seesins" and love of his closest
from his past .
I don’t agree with her assessment. This depends on the values of each person. For example my mother was a loyal wife to my absent father. Of course his absenteeism affected me but, it did not lead me to cheat in relationships and every relationship I ended was due incompatibility issues and I remained single for a while.
I don’t like that she can put these ideas in men’s heads and in turn judge women who had a difficult relationship with their father. People already generalize enough with ‘Daddy issues’.
She said she is not blaming anybody but its usually what she has found...also remember she is from Dubai and the social class and culture are different.
@@nowyouseeme3402 it’s not what she’s saying or thinking, it’s all psychological research, she’s just a messenger. You can’t seem to see past your life and your story.
You’re not even in a position to think properly about these issues let alone to argue.
@@nowyouseeme3402 She's not from Dubai.
Same I also have an absentee Father. My mother was never present in my life too but never have I cheated.
I don't think it will be possible in the future either. I abhor cheaters the most.
I think she's partly right but isn't fleshing out the ideas with enough specific detail maybe. What's evident to me is that it's about the overall amount of love and attunement that a child has received, and whether as a result they have learnt to self regulate and self soothe. She puts too much focus on whether that love comes from a certain gender but that has nothing to do with it - it's about the child receiving enough empathic attunement to sustain them and build healthy self esteem. In the case of cheating it's the same: did the women when she was a girl learn to coregulate with an empathic caregiver (man or woman)? Because cheating is just a maladaptive way to try to self-soothe no different from binge drinking of doing drugs. So she is sort of oversimplifying and gendering something that in my view is nuanced and ungendered.
This was an Amazing episode. Wish more women will hold women accountable.
The abandonment piece is more bpd tendency, also mixed with possession. However, in general women has these traits naturally on higher degree or stronger presence. In fact, women naturally more prone to spectrum of bpd traits simply due the strong emotionality. The abandonment often linked to worthlessness, which then couple back to abandonment. As result, its increase insecurity and the women keep spiral down the same roller coaster
Totally agree. I saw your comment in action in my eyes.
Could you explain this in a little more detail?
Thanks
@Anvita444 would take too long my friend, if you re in relationship, make sure you respect boundaries, not promote transactional exchanges with your girl, and tip for tap.
Actually women who have bpd or NPD are more masculine in their nature. So are you a closeted gay ?? Why do you search only such women ?
They fake emotions, they only have anger
one thing I will say is narcissism forms in childhood. someone doesn’t just go from selfish to disordered as soon as they become a mother. whether or not those traits become more apparent when motherhood tests them is a different question
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I know a few women who didn't have a stable male figure, and although they are not happy in their marriage, they don't cheat. Let's not generalise too quickly. There could be a pattern for the cheater. But not all traumatised people are full of daily problems. And some women with stable married parents, surprisingly, I met who put up with a lot and are in unhealthy marriages. It's important to have a good foundation of parents together. But together, it doesn't mean healthy or loyal or good role models for their children. Let's not think that all women of divorce parents have daddy issues. Some had a good grandpa or uncle that fulfilled that role, and they turned out quite balanced.
I've diagnosed Narcissistic Personality DX In the 3 maybe 4 women in the past that I loved, maybe a couple were Borderline Personality Disorders. Thank God I finally found my soulmate.
What’s interesting about narcism is that they usually attract each other because a healthy person wouldn’t tolerate narcissistic behaviour so get yourself checked out too while you’re at it 😂
The only criticism I have for Sadia, is that in between her excellent analysis and advice and perspectives, her insistence ultimately, is that EVERYTHING seems to be linked to childhood trauma. Which is an offshoot of Freudian analysis.
It doesn't allow for any room to evolve, grow and of course comment upon something that has troubled all of humanity;
The metaphysical concept of Romantic Love.
Well a lot of your development does come from your childhood years, so she is correct there. It's hard to recondition yourself especially around years of bad upbringing and influences. It creates a big disadvantage and halts massive character development especially if you're within adulthood and still being raised in such a way. There are many things to deprogram, unlearn and new habits to learn. It can happen but it takes a long time.
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Sadia, if an above average looking gal with a phd in psychology gets 3 nose jobs, a full face lift, a chest job, lipo suction on her thin hips, and dies her hair incessantly...... do you think that's a good example of a vulnerable narcissist?
There are soo many psychologists that has better content than yours but You’re famous because you’re pretty. That’s good though, people should listen to you instead of Kim K or Taylor Swift or Margot Robbie
@@curiousbystander9193 What's the context for this closed ended question?
@@goodtimesbadtimes5273 You sound bitter. By what metric is her content inferior to other psychologists?
@@altustalent410 the context.... ummmm? I am asking about someone with whom I am quite familiar, as it seems evident, right? Not sure what's closed ended from your perspective?
I don’t agree with her about the abortion thing that is just one very limited perspective. Women have abortions for multiple reasons that have nothing to do with arrogance. They have a abortions from the position of powerlessness lack of means to take care of the child no family back up, the father could be abusive or an alcoholic, so many reasons like immaturity poor judgment lack of means lack of knowledge of how they could possibly even take care of it to say it’s just about my body My choice is extremely narrow, minded, and offensive to women.
True, But obviously she judges ppl in Dubai So…
I don’t have a father figure and also I have abandonment issue BUT i am raised by a strong single mom and i am thankful with my mom because no narc in the fam ❤
Similarly, a man with an insecure attachment style needs constant validation and has a fear of abandonment. When his needs for reassurance and validation aren't met by his intimate partner, he has a back up plan and cheats on her.
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So true.
No, he just wanted some strange. We're not women.
You’re full of bs, psychodynamics is the fundamentals, that attachment theory is surface level behaviors.
U must be a chrater
It is the baby's Body. So it should be the baby's Choice. Whether the baby wants to be born or cut in abortion. "My body my choice" holds for the baby too.
She has a tik tok account is a massive red flag.
Am a man and I know a lot of women cheats, I know this because most women I have been with are in one serious relationship or the other, I have had to turn down married women couple times too.
I have seen women lie first hand that there’s nothing new they will do that will surprise me..
My idea of relationship is “let’s just enjoy the moment” if I don’t catch you cheating then we cool, if I catch you, we move on and I replace you the next day.
I think some women are not sexually attracted to their partner anymore and cheat for sex. I think these are the married women who approached you for sex. As people get older, they seem to become more desillusioned by their relationship and start disconsidering morality. I don't think it's as easy as saying that it's all about her family life. Some people are also less adventures. They just like things to be as nice and quiet as possible.
Women do this cause they have become masculine. This is what men do and now men are out here getting their feelings hurt by women cause they are feminine. It's heartbreaking to see
The more I hear you Sadia
The more I want to hear you
And I’ve experienced most things( not all) in the realm of “ love “
I am older and wiser
And again alone
I expect to stay that way but 12:03 not by choice
You permit so much space for men to contemplate his place in this world and to question himself , his choices and the idea of love itself
Brutal
But you deliver with such warmth and genuineness
And courage
I am in deep gratitude
I do hope you reach as many young men as possible
They need your voice
His brainwashing nearly derailed the conversation.
I wish my ex didnt get an abortion. I wanted to be a father and have the baby. She decided to do things based on her emotions. Im forever disgusted and resentful of her for killing my baby.
It's fascinating how It's always men's fault: if a man cheats it's obviously his fault, but if a woman cheats it's also a mans fault (her father for supposedly abandoning her, her partner for not making her feel loved etc.). Everyone, including Sadia, is making excuses for women by reducing them to helpless victims, which is not only hurting men but also women themselves. Ironically enough, this is the source of female narcissism.
I wouldn't praise her, she's a grifter. She believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists. That should tell you exactly what kind of person she is behind her carefully curated social media persona.
She just be saying anything sometimes. I grew up w no father figure. I don’t have any cheating tendencies and have never cheated. lol.
This is why in the LDS doctrine, God SPECIFICALLY has commanded that sex between man & women should ONLY be AFTER the bonds of MARRIAGE. That way, it ensures the baby has 2 loving parents who are committed to each other to love it. SIMPLE AS THAT! THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WITH EVERY ACTION. Sex makes babies.
Now if a man had said "Women are Nacissistic" - imagine it was Jordan Peterson, he'd have to report for reprogramming. Good that a woman says it, and that she can say it rather proves the point. And at the same time the very foundations of Narcissistic behaviour *are* present in innate female behaviour, demonstrably and provably.
Beware of who she really is, she believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists.
It’s called the back up mating strategy (commonly without sex), which turns into the switch mating strategy (usually with sex) if she thinks she’s got someone better in some significant way.
Well Sadia I must say this is an excellent conversation and I love the way you frame everything. Thank you for being you!!
If an embryo is a child then why should even two people have a choice to kill it? Either its a "body part" in which case its the woman's choice whether to have an abortion as its in her body, or its a human child in which case neither an individual parent nor both parents together have any right to kill it.
Agreed. Narcissistic mothers not narcissistic women. Truth
No, she actually starts by saying "There's so many of them" specifically responding to his question about narcissistic women. She then adds the trouble of narcissistic mothers to her response.
Beauty with brains. Traditional values rooted in science.
Beware of who she really is, she believes men who use chat bots for their emotional needs are rapists.
She is not beautiful.
I agree, I have had 3 serious relationships. My first girlfriend came from a good home, a string masculine father figure and her parents have been married for over 45 years and i was with her 11 years. She was easy to get along with, never went to bed on bad terms and communicatedlike an adult. My other 2 relationships they never had a strong father figure in there life's. And they were a absolute nightmare! If you mentioned something that you wasn't happy with I was met with hostility, stonewalling and a ban on sex just because I was communicating.
This I believe is a manipulation tactic as it makes you hesitate to voice your opinions because you do not want to deal with the consequences.
Your problematic relationships exactly describe my situation. Her father walked out before she was born and she is a mega-manipulator. We haven't had sex in over a year, I'm constantly walking on eggshells.
Maybe work on healing your gf’s and wives?? Clearly you don’t see that the MEN in their life were the reason why they are the way they are but go ahead and blame them. Idiots
@@thomasczthomash1859 my friend, if she is using manipulation tactics please do not believe things will get better, because believe me, the won't.
If you haven't had sex in over a year then you no longer have a relationship, you're in a "friendship.'
There are 2 sides 2 every story, maybe you have also made mistakes and in turn, have turned her off. I know I have made mistakes like this.
But one of the reasons we all get into relationships is for regular sex, not just for orgasims but to feel wanted, desired and loved.
I have been there, my friend. And after my relationships failed I spent alot of time reflecting on myself and why.
I came to the conclusion that I was insecure, a giver and maybe to empathetic. These types of people target people like me because I stay and tolerate bullshit that a secure man wouldn't.
Maybe you're the same. Maybe you're a lovely person who just wants it all to work out and mildly scared of leaving because you're worried that you may not find someone else.
But the reality is, it would be harder for you to find something worse.
If you're someone who has integrity, values monogamous relationships and are empathetic, you're actually a high value person and are worth your weight in gold. Because its easy to meet someone who is disloyal, low integrity. The hard thing is to find someone who is a good person.
Remember, you haven't had sex with this person for over a year, you described her as a master manipulator, you're walking on eggshells.......what is this bringing you? Its bringing you misery, heartache and pain.
Do the right thing for you.
"You can ignore reality but you cannot hide from the consequences of ignoring reality.'
Oh my god. Same here. She never met her father - her mother left after the honeymoon. Also, no sex in over a year (when I began to assert my boundaries and disengage from arguments)... but that choice was FAR more mine than hers... I simply could no longer trust her. Constantly walking on eggshells around her since month 2 of our 7 year relationship. When she finally told me she wanted to leave, I simply responded "What's his name?". She denied, denied, denied, until about a week later she happened to have a "realization" that she had feelings for a coworker. He's a sweet boy and she's going to chew him up and spit him out. I honestly feel relieved, yet sorry for what this dude is going to go through.
What happened to the 11 yearer?
How can she be so right in anything she says shes amazing
Came across your video randomly. Thought I was in for some “WISDOM” alas I’m disappointed! (This is with regards to having a baby) it IS her body her choice. I will leave this here. Hope I never click on your videos again! Do you know what women go through to in comparison to men? Sure we didn’t ask for it but please grow some compassion!
So to be a high value man you must be working all the time. And to keep your women happy or not cheating you must have time to spend with her. So women want hot ice?
Nobody wants Both MAN or woman she bubbles
In my family culture being single is not encouraged but now people rarely asked why I m still single. I think people get it now
So whilst I can understand that the child bearing process might often be traumatic for women, but does that automatically mean that she has become , 'emotionally devoid' and unable to 'empathize' or look after the mental, emotional and educational needs of her child? I feel the , 'narcisitic' description is being used here against women with a sweeping broad stroke that is not justifiable.
To an extent she's right, but generalization is not good. Ive come from a broken home. I don't do anything the way my parents did,precisely because i wanted better. Not all who come from broken homes are cheating. A lot of people who come from a traditional family cheat and do all things,shes describing. Its irrelevant to categorized everyone,because there's good and bad in all.
This woman is my new reality check. Amazing insights.
Men are trained to think women cheat what is she talking about. Maybe if this was like 1990 buts it's a whole different ball game in 2023. Thank social media
Love your ideas but you got this one wrong, I had no father around but am not a cheater only cheated on
Men exhibit women characteristics at times and women exhibit’s manly characteristics,so they have to work in collaboration otherwise no future of humanity left.
How many cases are there though where the girl forcibly gets rid of a baby that the guy would've wanted and would've hung around to take care of - against his wishes?
How many men force women to have an abortion ?
Youre conditioning ppl to see women in a VERY bad light by using a thumbnail that says women are narcs. Pls stop that irresponsible marketing. 🙏🏽
My father abandoned me when i was two years old, y grandfather was a father figure and my mom gave me full attention, i never ever cheated and never even crossed my mind, i am a loyal person
thesis proved.... grandpa served the role
Grandfather did job,forgive your father,he is just human,dont expect too much from humans,God is there for you,our real father
How do you know that your father abandoned you? Did your mother tell you that???
Sorry but this just sounds like someone with more confidence than evidence choosing to focus on women. Yes i agree, rich men are more likely to be cheated on, but they are way way more likely to cheat.
Why do you talk so much about rich men? Are they your main audience? Or poor people want to hear what rich men do and get excited? Are you emotionally poor?
I see this in mothers my children go to school with. The incesant need to be the center of attention in a child's setting. It's aburdity! The crop tops and short shorts, long nails and excessively dyed hair at the age of 40, trying to keep up with their young daughters.😢 It's disturbing and disgusting!
I've all noticed the boys who have these mothers are disportionally mean towards the girls. They disrespect them, "use" them, and are in competition (academically) with them, in a harmful, manipulative way.
She is very right and girls are gonna get pissed after hearing this clip
"nothing wrong or right about abortion"? Yeah, okay......good luck with that..
I can't help but like this video. She is so to the point, as always.
A tiny bit of this conversation is about Narcissistic woman.
The title is misleading.
Too many excuses are givin for women that cheat , if a man cheats he is a horn ball , if a woman cheats its because they are not getting enough love and attention
I agree with everything except the abortion part.
The woman can get health issues for years / life if not die during the birth.
The woman's body will change forever, and during and after the birth the hormones are no joke. The social life is turned upside down.
So why do women should have no choice but oo deal with it just because its another human being especially if its existence is an accident?
That is why its the woman's choice if she wants to sacrifice so much and endanger her life for someone else's
Wow, I really appreciate words of that lady about abortions. It became such unusual to hear something like that from women today. Thank you.
Having been involved for many years in crisis pregnancy work I can assure you that the resentment is very much present on both sides. Most women get abortions because their men push them into it. But the trauma and the drama that ensues after that physical assault by the abortionist goes far beyond simple resentment. Anyone who wants the baby should have the right to their baby. At best, leave the undeserving partner off the hook.
Don’t want the ba by don’t get the women in bed. Accidents happen.
Just shows these little relationships with out comments creates PROBLEMS.
We call them bi...cthes around here 😂
Ms. Sadia is excellent and down to earth. Making a lot of sense really.
I agree Sadia. The farther has rights and responsibilities surrounding abortion choice and the mammoth consequential life and health factors.
I must say that the fetus is just that for the early term, it’s not a baby and certainly not a child - an abortion under those definitions would be murder.
The father has a right to have consideration on the opportunities of his potential off-spring once conceived. And with that the ways and means for the well-being of all concerned, especially the mother, needs to be considered and laws made accordingly.
No one should diminish the right of the mother but the “My Body, My Choice” dogmatic premise really servers the wholistic context of life and village. Women are more and more behaving as entitled individuals where service and sacrifice is repugnant to them. The idea is not to overbear or discriminate against their gender but to acknowledge their birth roles and gender identity and support them communally in real ways that minimizes abortion and pedesalizes life.
The US culture of individualization negatively affects all people and has ravished societies throughout the globe - not just Dubai.
On point. I like the way she always starts out with the truth then soon she seems to subtly puts herself on a pedestal.
Shes talking in general about abortion
We all know this, but she articulates it so well.
I think "my body my choice" refers to the policy makers who decide for the population that they must give birth.
I would love to have an opportunity to talk about some of the issues that mostly everyone has and I’m just wondering how my situation would go over with women and I know I can’t even imagine trying to get a woman at all until I have a certain amount of money and stuff.
If woman subscribe to “ My Body My Choice “ than why can’t we be EQUAL ??? “ My Money 💰 my Choice “ ???
It can be i assure you
Her hair and earrings are giving pick me housewife 🤣
Well done for standing up for the truth. I applause you :)
Oh look, you made a video about yourself 😂
This woman is Dangerous for her Husband 😂😂😂
Who are men cheating with?
Sadia I’m so grateful for you being that voice of reason that this world so desperately needed! Sending love from 🇲🇽!!!!
There's 3 ppl actually
1 or both deciding the fate of the silent party
Disgusting
If the plan for a rich couple is not to make the world a better place then naturally the women will get bored. If you are constantly working on charity's and building and growing together then you will both be locked in and focused.
Cheating is a lack of character. Full stop.
Please if you know of a narcissistic lady, 😖
Try with all your might to get them to listen to this without switching off !!!
She was very transparent about coming from a clinical unbiased standpoint but this guy couldnt help but get triggered. Even if you were to agree that abortion is right it still doesnt negate the biological ramifications of it. Biological meaning both somatic and psychological ramifications and that includes narcissism. The ability to play God.